The animation along with the narrators voice is so sweet. When the new friends were laughing so hard one fell off the couch! Cute stuff. Thank you for your uplifting content. 😊
Steps 1 - 4 sounded great for me as I feel I can confidently improve on those. 5 is the one that gets me, I definitely need to work on my self confidence and not rely (too much) on my friends/family in public spaces. Great video as usual!
@@Psych2go For the most part, I feel like I was decently confident back a few years ago when I was in a retail position. But after leaving that job, I think most of the confidence was due to the fact that I had friends as coworkers and so many regular customers that it was so easy to strike up personal conversations. Moving to a new city, getting hit with COVID restrictions etc. made me get work where I work from home now, so now that we can (for the most part) go out in public with no restrictions, I noticed I have trouble making conversation in general out in public. It's something I've definitely been working on, but I can't help but feel uncomfortable sometimes.
@@Psych2go social anxiety, introvertion,fear of public speaking , emotional trauma, that's basically it if you exclude depression that I had for 3 years
@@XxLUIGIxX56 Something that get me was the "believe in the me that believe in you" quote in Gurren Lagann. It's like to carry the beliefs that you're friends have on you within yourself. Forcing yourself to be the one they believe you can be. I know it looks kinda shitty, but sometimes, if well used, it can help
Everybody has something that is uniquely attractive about them. The problem is that most people don’t know how to activate those qualities within themselves just yet because the barrier to becoming more attractive is the fear they have inside them. Fear shuts you down. It prevents your desire to do attractive habits and share interesting experiences, and because of that, it makes you less charismatic, less memorable, less powerful, and less attractive. What you need is a mindset shift. You are in control of how attractive of a person you can be, which is why you 100% can learn to become more attractive.
@@ddwfw usually the kind ones aren’t cherished / treated properly. Cuz they know how to respect others and would try not to disturb others by spreading their negative energy to those they care and love
@@ddwfw those gals aren’t what people really want :) a spiritual person can always see someone through their heart ♥️ physically appearance is never as important as being kind
Correct my attractiveness is probably my looks I have blonde hair and blue eyes 👀 and probably my wealth aswell but some say it's my personality I care about everything and I'm a perfectionist I am very patient with things to go perfectly 🥰 but ofc I have my ugly
1. Show your androgynous side 0:18 2. Be Around your group of friends at first 1:19 3. Work on your emotional intelligence 2:20 4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person 3:17 5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often 4:36
I practice the first four habits quite often. I got this part time volunteer job as an emotional coach which gives me great confidence on the parts of emotional intelligence and active listening, and my regular job as a floor manager dealing with all kinds of customers where I get to show I can be tough and gentle, serious and playful, etc. I still find it really really hard to walk up to people my own age (not just the ones I find attractive) and introduce myself, get to talk to them and so on. I don't understand why but 9 out of 10 times I feel like I am interviewing someone instead of having a conversation; they just don't seem to be interested at all! I don't have that problem with someone that's older than me though. (I am in my 30s and all my friends are 50+) I can get so frustrated by all that sometimes.. Anyway, thnx for the video, I often come to your channel and appreciate all the vids you post. It helps :)
Great content. We're all a bit rusty after being isolated & locked up at home during these past two years. Some of us need to watch these tips & get back out there. Just like riding a bike, I hope we can all jump back into a socially full & healthy life. Thank you.
My experience of being a good listener and confident is that it only makes you more likely to fall into the friend zone. It helps connecting with people but never helped me seduce anyone. But at least thanks to that skill i was able to help friends, so i'm happy with it.
*5 Instantly More Attractive Habits That Anyone Can Do* 1. Show your androgynous side. (0:16) 2. Be around your group of friends at first. (1:19) 3. Work on your emotional intelligence.(2:17) 4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person. (3:16) 5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often. (4:34) Hope you have a great day/night ahead! ❤
July 3rd, 2022 Wow, that opening scene was so beautiful!! Tysm for the tips ♡ 1.) Show your androgynous side. (omg yuzuru hanyu!!!) 2.) Be around your group of friends first! 3.) Work on your emotional intelligence. (Taking a moment before reacting strongly would be ideal for me.) 4.) Listen with the intent to really understand the other person! 5.) Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often (the hardest one 😭)
@@Psych2go well if I’m being honest, my YT watch history is basically funny stuff and gaming stuff. I’m not into psychology and the like, so this is ur first and only vid I’ve watched. Not my cup of tea, but still objectively well done, from a gamer’s pov 😂
1. Show your androgynous side 0:18 2. Be around your groups of friends at first 1:17 3. Work on your emotional intelligence 2:18 4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person 3:18 5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often 4:36 keep up the good content Psych2Go :p
Yo, thx Psych2go I need these types of video when making friends in high school of my upcoming sophomore year. (Oh and also can y'all make a hold another on androgynous people?)
@@Psych2go I have one- I know its not what you usually do but I was wondering if you could talk about Iike different genders maybe like you did with sexualitys? Idk just and idea ^^ Really love your guys's channel btw, have a good morning/afternoon/night!!
Really all of this is extremely effective stuff if you're trying to peak someones interest. I unintentionally did 4/5 (I wasn't with a group of friends) of these tips back in May and now I have a girl who works the cash register at a store I frequent staring at me with the most geniune smile and a starry eyes despite me fumbling my confession and finding out she has a boyfriend. And still when I tell her to have a nice day and end it with her name (another tip i picked up from this channel) she blushes. Sometimes if you want a better outcome its best to learn how to handle your emotions and maybe you'll still have a chance in the future.
Understanding is the most important tbh When understand the other u let them talk and talk and talk and talking is the most important feeling comfortable in the first ❤️
i have a crush and omg hes perfect, everything about it, when he achieves something i feel so proud and happy for him. I want to hang around him but my anxiety wont let me talk to him because i think if i talk to him i might say something wrong and he will remeber it until the day he dies, atleast that how i see it
It's sad how we as adults have worst communication than children. Children have no problem saying, " HI my name is ... what's your's?" Like seriously?? We as adult's have a tough time doing that SMH🤦♂️
I think it's the person themselves who make some of their habits attractive. We all have our preferences, so it might be hard to be objective about this. Practise on stuff you need, but with the intent of bettering yourself, for your own sake. If you only focus on what you think others are attractive to, you might lose yourself in the progress. Being forced to conform to normalcy shouldn't be the key. The video never said anything about conforming to anything, I just wanted to say that. Never ask "is this normal?" Instead, you should ask yourself "is this good for me?"
I found the cheerleader one interesting because usually I get more attention when I am alone but it might be because I’m the shortest in my group or something.
Yeah, the Cheerleader effect doesn't really work for me too because I am like the most unattractive person in my friend group. So my crush ends up crushing for one of my friends ;^;
I have a sincere question. Im aware of all you said. Ive been "using it" or maybe it was natural? I don't even know. does it make me manipulative or something? since my very young age I analysed humans and understood a lot of stuff by myself. and honestly almost 3/4 of psychology videos don't teach me anything, it only confirm my own theories and make me feel smarter but at the same time bored. I don't even know why im asking this here, maybe I need to see a psy? but your calming voice soothed me and I felt comfortable opening myself. (sorry english is my third language maybe I typed bad at some places)
I find it strange how I often find myself watching these videos knowing very well that I am not looking for love I’d assume that I’m subconsciously doing this for self esteem
What’s funny is that after watching these videos (this was a few weeks ago now) I actually got a boyfriend. Then relationship videos were appearing left right and centre.
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I definately noticed that I have to improve my emotional intelligence and actually listen with the intent of actually listening, I just don’t know how to improve that
androgenous is sexy, calling people by their name, being kind, having open and relaxed body language, always be learning, letting others know well that you like them, ask questions, show your sincere positive emotions, use open and relaxed body language. listen intentionally, and take the step to first contact with someone.
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Can you pls make a vedio on lgbtq+ community and how take care of our mental health if we are a part of it ? It would really help :) thanks
it's been neat to see your channel grow you even have two named characters now psi and sci
Please make some videos for Introvert
I am an idiot and I unconditionally hate myself until I become someone worth loving :D
Isn't the Cheer leader effect from How I met your mother? XD
The animation along with the narrators voice is so sweet. When the new friends were laughing so hard one fell off the couch! Cute stuff. Thank you for your uplifting content. 😊
This is one of the best! We love it ourselves too! Krisha did such an amazing job!
I love how they put yuzuru as an example for a person with an androgynous side
A study from 1983, seems androgynous musical acts did well around that time. Perhaps it was more relevant in ‘83?
YES
Same
Steps 1 - 4 sounded great for me as I feel I can confidently improve on those. 5 is the one that gets me, I definitely need to work on my self confidence and not rely (too much) on my friends/family in public spaces. Great video as usual!
Why do you feel your self confidence is lacking?
I feel the same with 5 with my extreme anxieties of meeting new people, its like I never want to say
@@Psych2go For the most part, I feel like I was decently confident back a few years ago when I was in a retail position. But after leaving that job, I think most of the confidence was due to the fact that I had friends as coworkers and so many regular customers that it was so easy to strike up personal conversations. Moving to a new city, getting hit with COVID restrictions etc. made me get work where I work from home now, so now that we can (for the most part) go out in public with no restrictions, I noticed I have trouble making conversation in general out in public. It's something I've definitely been working on, but I can't help but feel uncomfortable sometimes.
@@Psych2go social anxiety, introvertion,fear of public speaking , emotional trauma, that's basically it if you exclude depression that I had for 3 years
@@XxLUIGIxX56 Something that get me was the "believe in the me that believe in you" quote in Gurren Lagann. It's like to carry the beliefs that you're friends have on you within yourself. Forcing yourself to be the one they believe you can be. I know it looks kinda shitty, but sometimes, if well used, it can help
Everybody has something that is uniquely attractive about them. The problem is that most people don’t know how to activate those qualities within themselves just yet because the barrier to becoming more attractive is the fear they have inside them. Fear shuts you down. It prevents your desire to do attractive habits and share interesting experiences, and because of that, it makes you less charismatic, less memorable, less powerful, and less attractive. What you need is a mindset shift. You are in control of how attractive of a person you can be, which is why you 100% can learn to become more attractive.
@@ddwfw usually the kind ones aren’t cherished / treated properly. Cuz they know how to respect others and would try not to disturb others by spreading their negative energy to those they care and love
@@ddwfw those gals aren’t what people really want :) a spiritual person can always see someone through their heart ♥️ physically appearance is never as important as being kind
@@ddwfw most people are superficial ☺️takes time to explore and build real relationships with the amazing ones!
Correct my attractiveness is probably my looks I have blonde hair and blue eyes 👀 and probably my wealth aswell but some say it's my personality I care about everything and I'm a perfectionist I am very patient with things to go perfectly 🥰 but ofc I have my ugly
@@ddwfw ok first u don't need to write point of view just right pov (not really keep doing what ur doing it's nice to see that once in a while)
omg I'm so happy seeing Yuzuru Hanyu in one of your vids!! 0:46 he truly is attractive!💞
1. Show your androgynous side 0:18
2. Be Around your group of friends at first 1:19
3. Work on your emotional intelligence 2:20
4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person 3:17
5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often 4:36
Thanks for putting this together. You are so kind!!
Such a simple and beautiful art style. I love how it just sucks you in with a calming voice to top it off.
Love the Yuzuru Hanyu reference 🥰
I practice the first four habits quite often. I got this part time volunteer job as an emotional coach which gives me great confidence on the parts of emotional intelligence and active listening, and my regular job as a floor manager dealing with all kinds of customers where I get to show I can be tough and gentle, serious and playful, etc. I still find it really really hard to walk up to people my own age (not just the ones I find attractive) and introduce myself, get to talk to them and so on. I don't understand why but 9 out of 10 times I feel like I am interviewing someone instead of having a conversation; they just don't seem to be interested at all! I don't have that problem with someone that's older than me though. (I am in my 30s and all my friends are 50+) I can get so frustrated by all that sometimes.. Anyway, thnx for the video, I often come to your channel and appreciate all the vids you post. It helps :)
Great content. We're all a bit rusty after being isolated & locked up at home during these past two years. Some of us need to watch these tips & get back out there. Just like riding a bike, I hope we can all jump back into a socially full & healthy life. Thank you.
Love the Yuzuru Hanyu reference ✨
My experience of being a good listener and confident is that it only makes you more likely to fall into the friend zone. It helps connecting with people but never helped me seduce anyone. But at least thanks to that skill i was able to help friends, so i'm happy with it.
I love how u animated yuzuru hanyu on the ice ring, with the audience throwing those bears
I’ve been with you guys for about a year now and I love everything I watch and this has actually helped me so much 😘❤️❤️
Aww. Thank you for that. How do you feel about our content as of late though? We've been testing new ideas..
@@Psych2go I love it as all of your content
This channel is so psychologically comforting and I love it!!
Glad that we could comfort you! Let us know what videos you would like to see next!
can we talk about how sweet and comforting the narrators voice is
I like the mixture of your soothing voice and the background music. The video feels like an ASMR but is also informative. Subscribed!
I saw Hanyu Yuzuru at 0:48
"introducing yourself and talk to someone new often" is a lot harder with social anxiety
Definitely
0:54 yuzuru hanyu 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Lol, Yuzuru Hanyu on 0:48 -0:54
*5 Instantly More Attractive Habits That Anyone Can Do*
1. Show your androgynous side. (0:16)
2. Be around your group of friends at first. (1:19)
3. Work on your emotional intelligence.(2:17)
4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person. (3:16)
5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often. (4:34)
Hope you have a great day/night ahead! ❤
Thanks.
@@loszhor You're welcome! (:
That was Yuzuru Hanyu!!!!
Haha, love the references in your vids! I feel like we are simping the same things in secret. 👀
July 3rd, 2022
Wow, that opening scene was so beautiful!! Tysm for the tips ♡
1.) Show your androgynous side. (omg yuzuru hanyu!!!)
2.) Be around your group of friends first!
3.) Work on your emotional intelligence.
(Taking a moment before reacting strongly would be ideal for me.)
4.) Listen with the intent to really understand the other person!
5.) Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often (the hardest one 😭)
OMG YUZURU HANYU AND THE POOHS 😩❤️
U guys got an amazing animation person/squad. The little marshmallow-y people r so friendly looking. Chill vibes video all around
Thank you so much! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)
@@Psych2go well if I’m being honest, my YT watch history is basically funny stuff and gaming stuff. I’m not into psychology and the like, so this is ur first and only vid I’ve watched. Not my cup of tea, but still objectively well done, from a gamer’s pov 😂
El Yuzuruuuuuu 🙆💖💖💖
I just like watching these for the psychological component of these. It's really cool.
Any suggestions for the next vid?
@@Psych2go What about something like helping others deal with grief?
Ommgg is that yuzuru Hanyu?
1. Show your androgynous side 0:18
2. Be around your groups of friends at first 1:17
3. Work on your emotional intelligence 2:18
4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person 3:18
5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often 4:36
keep up the good content Psych2Go :p
Thanks for putting this together. You are so kind!!
Ok I paused it at the first thing bc HOLY FRICK THAT'S YUZURU!!!!!!
Yuzuru is and always will be a total icon
I love how their little leaves 🍃 clap it’s sooo CUTE!!!!
I love Yuzu!♥️♥️♥️
Love the new artwork!
0.51 YUZURU!!!!!!!!!
This channel exists to give many of us the hope to go get our interested gal/guy out there.
Yes, when are you nailing that down?
Yo, thx Psych2go I need these types of video when making friends in high school of my upcoming sophomore year. (Oh and also can y'all make a hold another on androgynous people?)
Good luck! Do you mean videos about androgyny?
@@Psych2go i would lovee a video abt everything abt androgyny and how to be more androgynous i love ur channel so much
@@Psych2go like the psychology of androgynous ppl.
Good luck
@@haregabeje2381 thx bro
yuzuru hanyu
Thank you for always motivating and helping me to love myself the way i am...be comfortable in who i am inspite of many flaws 🙂
CUTE ANIMATION!! LOVE YOU PSYCH2GOPIPS
Glad you like ti!
I love the animation of Yuzuru in this video,thanks! 视频里有羽生结弦，好评！😊
1. be like Yuzuru Hanyu.
so true
Thank you guys for doing this!
Your videos help to become a better version of self day by day.
Thank you
Psych2Go ❤️
Happy to hear that. Do you have any requests for topics?
@@Psych2go I have one- I know its not what you usually do but I was wondering if you could talk about Iike different genders maybe like you did with sexualitys? Idk just and idea ^^
Really love your guys's channel btw, have a good morning/afternoon/night!!
I already do some of these habits, I'll try to put into practice the other ones I was unaware of 🤔
Really all of this is extremely effective stuff if you're trying to peak someones interest. I unintentionally did 4/5 (I wasn't with a group of friends) of these tips back in May and now I have a girl who works the cash register at a store I frequent staring at me with the most geniune smile and a starry eyes despite me fumbling my confession and finding out she has a boyfriend. And still when I tell her to have a nice day and end it with her name (another tip i picked up from this channel) she blushes. Sometimes if you want a better outcome its best to learn how to handle your emotions and maybe you'll still have a chance in the future.
I wish I saw these videos 4 years ago while joining in college
Understanding is the most important tbh
When understand the other u let them talk and talk and talk and talking is the most important feeling comfortable in the first ❤️
Your videos are really helpful I'm glad that I found your channel ❤️❤️
Glad to hear that :) Which habits would you like to try out?
Yuzuru Hanyu reference😭🫶🫶
Adding a plan to meet people is
a good plan. Maybe a hello, and
more in settings where earlier
I was more often silent.
All of them. I love this channel!
her voice gets me everytime. ought to get myself a girl w that voice.
hey just wanted to thank you for these sort of content
Thank you for watching Ryan!
i have a crush and omg hes perfect, everything about it, when he achieves something i feel so proud and happy for him. I want to hang around him but my anxiety wont let me talk to him because i think if i talk to him i might say something wrong and he will remeber it until the day he dies, atleast that how i see it
HANYUUUU
It's sad how we as adults have worst communication than children. Children have no problem saying, " HI my name is ... what's your's?" Like seriously?? We as adult's have a tough time doing that SMH🤦♂️
the hanyu yuzuru reference😄
I see Yuzuru.
actually, we shouldn’t care what people think of us.
lets just be ourselves and genuine people will love us.
We are just checking if we are attractive or not
We do care and its reality
Accept it dude
the yuzuru reference xD
Lol I was looking for a comment that noticed too😭
Love how the little beans are so wiggily!!!
Me: trying to be an active listener.
My dissociations: bonjour
I think it's the person themselves who make some of their habits attractive. We all have our preferences, so it might be hard to be objective about this.
Practise on stuff you need, but with the intent of bettering yourself, for your own sake. If you only focus on what you think others are attractive to, you might lose yourself in the progress. Being forced to conform to normalcy shouldn't be the key. The video never said anything about conforming to anything, I just wanted to say that.
Never ask "is this normal?" Instead, you should ask yourself "is this good for me?"
remember that you are perfect the way you are, dont change yourself to get someone to like you!
For sure! We should always work on loving ourselves more!
I found the cheerleader one interesting because usually I get more attention when I am alone but it might be because I’m the shortest in my group or something.
Yeah, the Cheerleader effect doesn't really work for me too because I am like the most unattractive person in my friend group. So my crush ends up crushing for one of my friends ;^;
Thank you for putting Hanyu Yuzuru as an example for having androgynous side!! I'm surprised that my favourite athlete is mentioned on your channel !
“Being unafraid of not being liked is the best way to be liked.” - Ines de La Fressange
watch collecting will make you buddy magnet
OMG YUZURU
the drawing is so cute
1:20 "I ain't never seen two pretty best friends, it's always one of them that gotta be ugly"
I loved the circle-shaped faces characters more ❤🥺
The animation is so good😊
Yes! Its' one of the best!
5:10 Ok let's be honest it's definitely the leaves on the head that makes them attractive
💯 I love this Chanel.
I love your videos, thank you so much! 💗😄
Thank you! How do you feel about the more recent vids?
@@Psych2go I like them! Both the information and the art that is in the videos 😄
I love her voice
I have been a subscriber since a long time.. Ur videos are so cute and cool.... All the best and keep Making more beautiful videos 💕💓💓
1 $$$🤑
2 Social status
3 Good Hygiene
4 Height & Fitness
5 Smarts
Yuzuru 😭💖 with his pooh bears 🥺😂
My 3 Most Favorite Channels
Psych2Go, Deep Look, Kurzgesagt💛
Mine too omg
I always something new snd essential from ur videos...Love u guys!!!
Great video Psych2go! 👍🎉😁
Could u pls do a video on how to be more self confident around other ppl? I have a rough time talking to new ppl.
Yep! We definitely can!
@@Psych2go
Thank u ❤️
I have a sincere question.
Im aware of all you said. Ive been "using it" or maybe it was natural? I don't even know.
does it make me manipulative or something? since my very young age I analysed humans and understood a lot of stuff by myself.
and honestly almost 3/4 of psychology videos don't teach me anything, it only confirm my own theories and make me feel smarter but at the same time bored.
I don't even know why im asking this here, maybe I need to see a psy? but your calming voice soothed me and I felt comfortable opening myself.
(sorry english is my third language maybe I typed bad at some places)
I love your advise 💕💕
Glad they could be helpful! Do you have any requests for topics?
I find it strange how I often find myself watching these videos knowing very well that I am not looking for love
I’d assume that I’m subconsciously doing this for self esteem
good morning! thank you!
I love you 💓 you helped me a lot
1983 androgyny study is linked to the new wave/ dark wave era, androgyny was very popular then.
What’s funny is that after watching these videos (this was a few weeks ago now) I actually got a boyfriend. Then relationship videos were appearing left right and centre.
Great animation
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I definately noticed that I have to improve my emotional intelligence and actually listen with the intent of actually listening, I just don’t know how to improve that
Great Informative 🌱 Video
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
ShaloM 🕊️
androgenous is sexy, calling people by their name, being kind, having open and relaxed body language, always be learning, letting others know well that you like them, ask questions, show your sincere positive emotions, use open and relaxed body language. listen intentionally, and take the step to first contact with someone.
Yuzuru Hanyu is everywhere
That “androgynous side” one reminds me about the Dave Chappelle bit when Charlie Murphy was talking about Prince
Im very androgynous. Apparently in my experience, people try to fit you in a mold a lot and don't often appreciate you for who you are.