I have no friends
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- Опубліковано 5 сер 2022
- Hey!! I have no friends... so how about we be friends?!!
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THANK YOU SO MUCH I LOVE YOU GUYS
thank you for watching!!!
-josh
When he said " I technically have friends but there just not with me EVER"
Hey girl hey
Honestly tho I can relate myself
I can easily relate
they’re*
@@chai_tee2171 you're not cool for correcting people for no reason
josh’s energy is so much fun
Can we just appreciate everything josh does for us
YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST
@@joshallan9828 you are amazing love you too
@@joshallan9828 be my bestie rn IM LONELY TOO AND UR MY IDOL AAA
@@joshallan9828 You too
You are amazing at what you do!
It’s okay if you don’t have friends, that’s what we are for! :)
hello... can i be? haha sorry to ask.
@@HG-nl7dh ofc!
Bro whet the heck who wouldn’t want to have a friend as chill and cool as this guy
That school thing is so relatable. I live in Canada too, and we don't start till next month. But all this back to school stuff is making me think I start school soon, even tho I don't
This video literally describes my relationship with my friends. They exist and they are good people but they are not in my life. So let's be friends (By the way, I've been watching your channel for about a week so I'm pretty new:) )
Same
I would be your friend BC I'm the same but iv learnt to comfort myself now.im terrified to go back to school BC I'm going in year 7 so it a new school and I have anxiety as well so that just makes it worse for me.
We can be friends! Love your videos and I love your personality.
I don’t have any friends so I’m gonna watch this every time my online friend can’t play
no because when you said something abt barley being able to go to a grocery store that’s relatable
I love these videos! They are funny and make my day! Thanks 😊
Josh don’t worry!Youre the best!
love ur vids ur so funny
and you should def film more with ur sis ✨
You deserve 1 millions subs cus ur the nicest funniest and best UA-camr out there!
i love youuu it’s so sad ppl make fun of u 😭
as an introvert yes also loving the content :)
Bro, I know how you feel and I would so be your friend. Your cool bro!
Can we just appreciate the amount of effort these videos take and I love ice so yeah ice forever 🤟🏻😜😜😜
UR amazing !!
Love the videos!!
you seem like a good friend. i would love to be friends! your videos make me happy and you seem like fun to be around!
Ofc, I would loooove to be carrot boy's friend!🥕🥕🥕
Hey josh I just wanted to say can you please do more ice videos and I think your a very great person 🌸🌷✨🌈
His eyes 💛
i’m an idiot too we could totally be friends (or all my friends are just smarter than me eheh)
“I have NO friends.”
What are we 😭
I don't have friends tooo
Our story is exactly the same 😅
mk also for me the feet thing i think maybe it started when people figured out what like fetishes were lmao… and toes especially are like kinda lowkey unnecessary so like i don’t even understand feet. but ya i hate toes but i need them for dance so yay
Hey josh! I love your videos! Also thank you so much for saying hi to me I my live! You are my favorite influencer! 💗
All my friends are band kids and are at band camp so I’m just like 😐 so I can relate
dont worry ill be your friend! :)
He should make a discord server for him and his subscribers.
this video is so chaotic. but slay.
i love his vids❤❤❤ josh is the best I hope he sees this
Omg i went to Canada a couple weeks ago and got tim Hortons it was scrumptious
Josh, you are the best
I'm Dutch and my two best friends are both foreigners so I never see them and the two close irl friends I have are both always working dude
I love your videos! I can be your friend 😂 😁 your so funny
you’re hilarious 😂
Hey I see I am early love ur content 🎉❤
Hope u reach 2k subscribers 🎉🎉❤
you should do a Q & A
I see my friends every week at dance lessons
AWWW I WISH I COULD BE A CLOSE FRIEND OF URS
I was crossing the street today and a car was coming, so I let them go to be polite, then they almost ran me over pulling into a parking space and they didn't even sorry. So yeah that's my day 😭 that's what I get for being nice
Are you okayy?♡
@@thatonebookreader6726 yes I am, thank you for asking 🥺🥺 you made me feel better
@@enochia no problem just wanted to make sure:)♡
That's terrific imo
WE ARE YOUR FRIENDS JOSH!
Me clicking on because i relate lol💀💀✋🏼✋🏼
U r related to him?
@@persephonecorgnell6388 no she’s not, she relates to him. Like she feels the same as him u know. Lol
Bro I love you
Hi josh!
You cant forget, everyone who watches you IS YOUR BEST BEST BEST BESTEST FRIEND!!!!! And sup :3 I have no friends, my name is Millie :D and I’m your can/friend also, this video is such a vibe ok I’m done.
Ill be your friend
Josh: can we be friends?
Me: YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES-
Omg Same!
Josh: did I lie did I lie? Random girl: did I frinking lieeeeeeee????????!!!!!
Hello, I hope this finds you well.
There is a solution. This is a long read. But it is important that thorough info is given to provide the best possible results. Copy and paste for your reference.
There are 7 parts:
1. what you do during social interaction
2. emotional perspective-taking
3. knowledge base of topics
4. Living Life and Lifestyle
5. Being Present and fully immersive experiencing the world around you, as well as Mindset of Prioritizing Attention to Living Life and not caring so much about friends
6. The Self
7. Reasonable expectations of socializing
1. What you do during social interaction
Start off with small talk. You would jump topic to topic. This is about breadth. The goal is to establish friendliness and camaderie. Use details from the person's response as well as conversation threading to dive into more topics.
To get into deep conversation, ask open-ended questions that brings our emotions/stories, dive into insights/hypotheticals, and/or inspire their curiosity. This gets you into vulnerability through middle talk. This is about depth, social engagement as well as energy and emotion. As the person is talking, pay full attention by listening. Drop your thoughts. Be attuned to the emotions and share in the emotions. People feel more connected to you when you listen so they feel understood as well as being attuned to their emotions. Relate back to the comments and self-disclose anything about yourself if there is something about yourself related to the speaker's response.
Open-ended questions can include:
- what, how, why, if you could questions
- asking about specifics, not generalizations (in the form of how, why, if you)
- Ask for a story
- what if or what else questions that dive into hypothetical situations
- Curiosity-inspiring questions
"Tell me about that" or "Tell me about(insert specifics of topic)" requests are to be used sparingly.
Self-disclosure comments can be:
- tidbits about yourself
- stories
- day-to-day events and happenings
- events that have happened in your personal life and lifespan
- events we go to
- places we have been to
- experiences we have gone through
- experiences where we experienced similar emotions and adjectives
Getting to know people and letting others get to know you is a diagonal process. Rather than asking direct questions to know people, we self-disclose at the end of responses. It serves as a good conversation expander and allows the other person to ask open-ended questions when it is your turn to speak.
In the caveman brain, we have an affiliation and trust with people we know. When we know what a person does outside of social interaction, we trust them.
To never run out of things to say, use the SPOKES method and conversation threading. The SPOKES method is thinking around the topic. To use the SPOKES method, talk about related subtopics related to the main topic being discussed. Throughout the conversation, keep an eye on anything your conversation partner is showing interest in. Once the main topic has been exhausted use conversation threading to dive into the stuff they have shown interest in. The SPOKES method and Conversation Threading work together to give you more topics to talk about. Also, continue to ask open-ended questions here and there.
If at anytime, you see something that your conversation partner likes to talk about, keep on talking about it. Keep in mind there favorite topics for future interactions.
When it is your turn to speak about yourself, speak from the inner spirit. Getting in touch with yourself and your emotions enable you to speak from the spirit.
Remember, the grand majority of human conversation is socio-emotional. The small portion is verbal. It is just a matter of tapping into the socio-emotional channel.
Conversation is about delivering an enjoyable positive socially engaging experience that creates energy and emotion.
Practice the following socializing principles
- Intermittent Presence and Absence so people will miss you and be waiting for more.
- Leaving interactions at a High Point and saying you would like to talk more later
- Delivering a positive experience
- Reciprocity
2. Emotional perspective-taking
We consider how the person feels about the interaction. Getting in touch with your emotions. Engage the concept itself by imagining how a social interaction feel to you. Imagine how a social interaction feels to someone and adjust your behavior to make them feel well during an interaction.
3. Knowledge base of topics,
Use your curiosity to learn about different topics. Get in-person exposure to the topics will also help develop a better understanding. We talk about and move around to a variety of topics with a person to connect with them. Be sure to give stories, ask open-ended questions, and tap in to the socio-emotional channel when talking about topics.
4. Living life and lifestyle,
We live your own lives and cultivate an authentic lifestyle. Expand your world and experience life. Be superproactive about it. Use thorough scheduling where you fill your free time with interesting meaningful experiences/activities, going to events, novel experiences, and any experiences/activities/events that expand your world.
The stuff you experience in your lifestyle and life will always recoil back into a deep and meaningful conversation.
In vulnerability through middle talk, living life gives you stuff to throw out there in self-disclosure and connect with people. What interests do you have and get involved in that. If you liking baking, do that. If you want to go to a stadium concert, go to that. Travel to places geographically and enjoy it. Spend time with your family. Pursue goals.
Lifestyle and being your best self enables you to tap into the socio-emotional channel of human interaction. It builds vibrancy which attracts people to you. Our limbic systems reacts favorably to vibrancy.
Here are some expressions to help you understand living life and lifestyle
" You life is a story. Write a good memorable one."
" If a book/autobiography was written on your life, what would you want it to say?"
"30000 days"
" One planet. Places to go. Activities to do. Adventures to have. Moments to cherish. Experiences and stories to collect. Contributions to make. Opportunities to pursue. Goals to achieve. History to make. Let's do this."
" Take care of the areas of your life."
5. Being Present and fully immersive experiencing the world around you, as well as Mindset of Prioritizing Attention to Living Life and not caring so much about friends
Self-Explanatory
6. The Self
We take into consideration our interests, passions, and likes. We be our best selves and demonstrate our best qualities/characteristics. Find out what your values and principles are as well as what you stand for.
More importantly, we be a person of substance. People are looking for substance to connect with.
Be a person of substance by
- thinking big
- becoming knowledgeable
- building new skills
- diverse experiences and stories
- if interested, devoting hours to building competency in a range of hobbies and activities as well as pursuing opportunities in these areas
- prioritizing what matters in the grand scheme of things
- try new things and traveling to new places
- going outside of your comfort zone to explore the intricacies of the world.
- Expansiveness and Exploration in your life
See socializing as understanding the universe of another person. Likewise, we should be enrichening and cultivating our own universes.
Make it your goal to be interesting, knowledgeable, and worldly.
7. Reasonable Expectations of Socializing
When we socialize, we go in with the expectation of getting a friend group and a social life. We want buddies to hang with. Instead, see it in terms of developing interpersonal relationships and having shared experiences. Sometimes, we need to have a lot of shared experiences before someone becomes our tight friends.
Be open to a variety of friendship/interpersonal relationship layouts. This includes: duos, trios, groups, circles, having associates on the side you are cultivating interpersonal relations with. Have a variety of social set-ups is fine and perfectly healthy.
Rather than aiming for an end-goal of having friends where we will be finally satisfied, we would use a more fluid approach. See it as developing, managing, and juggling interpersonal relationships over a long period of time. Keep on meeting new people as you go along. We need to step away from the microwave mentality of getting self-interested results with as much speed of as possible. In the context of socializing that is.
The words having friends implies ownership. Friendship is not ownership; it is a mutual partnership. It is "we" not "me"
Focus on what you can control.
All the steps are a long-game big picture solution. It is an ongoing journey that you enjoy.
Conclusion
I cannot guarantee any particular results. It is quality of interpersonal relationships that matter. The quantity tends to be variable for each person and are a result of socializing over the years of our lifespan. Interpersonal relationships take time. Once again, play the long game. No matter what happens, keep on living your best life and being your best self.
I said all of this in the hopes that the above will be taken action upon and potentially change lives. Hopefully this helps. Feel free to let me know how it goes for you.
Same here
You are the best UA-camr ever
I love your videos I get made fun of too bc I look different
I hurt my angle again and if it hurts in like three weeks I think I have to do physical therapy 😑
I have no friends,well i do but i dont see them alot and my cousins are mean to me for no reason.My school friends..
Fake…I live in the carribean and im too young. So hope u get some friends!
Hey what grade are you in or are you in college?
So handsome
Facetime vibes
I don’t have friends either, I don’t have a job either so I don’t even have acquaintances
I saw a video u need to make matcha covered strawberries
I’ll be your friend josh!
NEZUKOOOOOO CHANNN
@@user-twelve hi!😊☺️🥰
Josh is the G.O.A.T greatest of all time 🐐
First and it’s fine u have us ❤️
Why
Yes
when i started watching this i was with my bestie 😅
I'll be your friend I have social anxiety too so we can be socially awkward together
Same
Yeah I only have two friends lmao
Bro same 😭
@@mydior333 it’s a sad life 😭👍
josh remeber me when your even more famous
Ill be your friend :)
Neither do I ; )
OMG same
BRO I’m from Canada and I start aug 29 whatt
❤
don't worry I'm your friend 😎😎💜
artist. okay. new hobby also i live in canada
also those people who make fun of u are jeleous.
HIII
Let's be friends bc too I got no friends
Brooo Megan and Madison 😭😭🤚
Hi
Did once I saw she posted I clicked on it
I’ll be your friend
I go back to school September 8th
Girl I go back to school August 11th I am gonna die 😭
@@user-twelve how’s school?
if it makes u feel better I had a 47 in ART class…….
You go back in September lucky I go back August 17
you know what? ill be your friend :)
u r my friend:D
Then i’ll consider us friends, HII :p
cool
oh josh i will be your friend i have oh lets see i have the least amount of friends ever
1 friend
well now i have two ty
ok im sorry but i really think you look like jamie campbell bower aka for you stranger things fans henrey/001/Vecna and he also played anothny in sweeney todd
is that ok if you have a nine yrs old friend
You can be my friend
You should start a discord server so we can join 😀