Yep, change of environment almost always kills relationships. I was with my girl for 3 years and she moved 2 hours away for school. I helped her move in, set up her apartment etc. She still gave me the lustful eyes of attraction and wanted me to come see her every weekend. She's shy and has trouble meeting people, so I encouraged her to go out and make friends. One week later she'd met another guy who gave her butterflies, and in that moment, all her interest and attraction for me died. She said she needed time to think and still wanted to talk, but all the love, passion and affection was completely gone from her texts. If she leaves you for someone else, it's over.
When people move, change schools/Uni or a job, they in most cases change their identity. They also change friends, that also affects their new identity. And you are left wondering, what happened to that person I first met? They changed! If you want to unpack your breakup in full, go to writemac.com if you don't find the session useful or helpful, I'll issue you a full refund. All the best moving forward, fuzzy panda!
My girlfriend did this a few weeks ago and told me to just give her time to get her self straightened out. She’s been suffering through some really bad depression the past few months, and I agreed to let it happen. I promised I wouldn’t contact her, but I talked to her mom about it a few days later, and she says that they’re having to take her to see a psychiatrist and that she’s been staying at their house and having to take off work like 3 days a week because she’s so depressed, maybe she’s having panic attacks. Anyway when me and her both talked last she promised she was gonna come back when she got herself straightened out. I don’t know if drugs are involved or what’s going on. I wish I could talk to her but I gotta respect her and her parents to not contact for a while.
Also I thought she was full of shit until I talked to her mom about it. I had broken up with her before over her doing cocaine when she knew I didn’t wanna be around that shit. She swears that she hasn’t been doing any of that but I don’t know what else would all the sudden cause this.
Thank you very much mac i have the same situation but i was with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and in this summer she went to bulgaria for a 3 month work with university and she said the same thing that she is tired of the relationship stress and that she wants sometime for herself also said that i controle her toomuch and that it prevents our relationship from developing due to the routine i begged and cried as everybodu does i guesse but i found the no contact rule by accident that say and i started implimenting it in the first day i got all the pictures all the videos deleted and blocked her from everysocial media platform she is on ...one day passes by and i receive a message from her saying : "you blocked me everywhere?!wow" followed by a couple of provocative text saying "i thoght you changed and you dont think something bad about me ..i can clearly see it ..i thoght we at least had good relations but now you even hate me " she texted me out of the blue during her working hours which never happened i waited about 4 hours i dident want to text her back until i got hone and checked some instructions on the next step of the no contact rule and i replied " i dont hate or think bad about you far from that ,sorry i gotta run ,which u all the best buy " and after that she replied " but like you blocked me" and after a couple minutes of waiting she also sent a "ok i see ,buy " i dident respond afterwords and the next day which is yesterday i saw that she woke up at 10 am and blocked me too as a reflex which i suppose is good because its been in her head all night , since yesterday i dident do any reflex as you should do in the no contact rule , coach mac what do you think of the situation i already feel like i gained my power back and i feel so much energy inside me that is a mix of anger and exitment to change to a complete beast and bad ass i created my own company and its taking off after 5 months i want want to start working out again because i stoped because of the company and i feel a huge boost of confodence at this point im even rethinking the need of getting back woth her if she contacts me again , so coach mac i love yur work please tell me what do you think and if she will contact me again PS : we are in the same university so she indeed will see me again
Winner of a video, I have been researching "how to stop girlfriend from breaking up" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Aanylanby Astounding Ascendancy - (just google it ) ? It is a good one of a kind guide for getting your girlfriend back without the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my m8 got excellent results with it.
My girl broke up with me early after 2 months and we go to work together. Now she broke up with me and says she wants to be with me in the future but said she needs to find things about herself. And it hurts seeing her at work and I really loved her family and I never liked a women like her this early. So I’m Slowly giving her more space each day and seeing how it plays out she still got our photos on Insta and has all our photos but broke up with me after we hung out 4 days in a row it just hurts and I feel lost but want her back so bad
It sounds like she’s not ready for relationship, possible she came out of a bad relationship and is scared. Best to send your story into writemac.com. Stay strong, Mr. McCarthy.
My girlfriend & i were in long distance relationship from 5 years but suddenly when this covid comes up i mean from this year she got changed she have don BREAKUP on the month of October but after a week she apologized it & told me that she is going through a phase in life where she can't sacrifices her career for this love she will marry but she will not sacrifice her career for me i understood & we came back then i felt that there was not much of a priority is been given by her as it used to b 5 years ago in the beginning when everything was fresh & new i left her today but unfortunately i love her i messaged her & I apologized her that it was a mistake i never wanted to leave her, but the she told that i need some space i want to live a bit alone let me live alone a bit. What does it mean? What will happen now? Please help
My girlfriend broke up with me because she feels stuck and she needs time to find herself; she needs to take care of herself. However, she told me that she wants to come back better for me and for her so I don't waste my time being sad about her. She is sure that she will come back to me but she does not know when. She also told me that I won't be alone and that If I need her, I should not hesitate to text her. She is hurting and she blames everything for hurting me, for breaking up with me. She says she is not in the right state of mind right now and that is the reason why she broke up with me because she has to find herself. What she wants me to do is to grant it which I am doing now. I am giving her space. However, should I hope that she will come back? When should I also text her again because she told me that I can still talk to her. We were friends before being in a relationship. Idk when to approach her without invading her space, without making her feel distrub and at the same time idk what to tell her if I do it so. We broke up and I know it must be hard for her to break up with me because she promised me that she won't. But right now, she needs time. She is stuck and needs to find herself. What should I do and when should I start communicating with her again; text her and start a new chapter without even touching our past, without reminiscing past events that cause us emotional breakdown? I still want her tho, I know she still wants me but she is hurting right now. I also don't want to lose our communication and I know she feels the same too. Any advice? Thank you!
I was needy back days that i was not able to see her, although the reason why was that I saw that she was already in pain before breaking up with me, Like I wanted to stay with her as a support that I am just right there. but maybe, I ruined her boundaries...
You can still love someone and not feel compatible for a long term relationship. Send your full story into writemac.com or book a live coaching session and I help fully unpack your breakup with you.
Hey I’ve got a question. I’m 21 girlfriend is 20 we both go to the same college and we have been together for close to 3 years (before college) we had a great relationship but a few months ago she started pulling back a little. Just thought it was stress and things would get better. Well a week after we got to school she broke up with me and said she needed to find herself. She is under immense stress as she is an RA, has a job, and is a full time student (cut her hair get new ear piercings maybe a tattoo) she assured me that I was as good as I could have ever been and it had nothing to do with me. Regardless of her needing to find herself, she still wants to talk to me and besides romantic talk, we talk pretty much normally. We’ve even hung out since breaking up a few days ago and make jokes about breaking up. I know you don’t know me or my relationship but no BS feel good stuff- do I have a shot at getting her back? If so how? Thanks a lot
My situation she said she needs time to get herself together I noticed certain things. She never really came around she'd go days no call no show. I just lost my last job but I got another one and I'm starting cdl class in a few weeks I love driving. She told me out or her own mouth she cares but doesn't want to be with me. This female is 32 3 kids 2 baby daddies I was the fool who was willing to step in and be a father to her kids. I can't lie I begged I've known this female since I was 22 she was 18 she lied about a lot I was her first. I have a lot going for myself
She left may 3rd ... couple weeks ago she texted at 230 am asking for clothes ... last night it was almost midnight when she asked if her glasses were here ... could that be positive or is that normal 🥺
My ex says she needs time but is also seeing someone else Lol wtf do I do about that? I told her its best we not talk cause it isn't fair to me or him. Told her Id love her and would marry her right now and if were meant to be we'll be. She blew up and said shed block me , never speak to me, etc etc. Very immature response Lol
Don't marry this individual. Ask yourself are capable of finding someone that can appreciate who you are and what you bring to a relationship? Where's your power in all of this? You also have the opportunity to meet someone else. Move on, bud. Go ahead and send in your full story to writemac.com if you want to get my take in a youtube video.
Just move on hit the gym find a hobby. I lost my job the woman I love left this is the 2nd time this has happened what different is I already found another job and moving in two weeks to pursue my career. Just move on find someone better
Yep, change of environment almost always kills relationships. I was with my girl for 3 years and she moved 2 hours away for school. I helped her move in, set up her apartment etc. She still gave me the lustful eyes of attraction and wanted me to come see her every weekend.
She's shy and has trouble meeting people, so I encouraged her to go out and make friends. One week later she'd met another guy who gave her butterflies, and in that moment, all her interest and attraction for me died. She said she needed time to think and still wanted to talk, but all the love, passion and affection was completely gone from her texts.
If she leaves you for someone else, it's over.
When people move, change schools/Uni or a job, they in most cases change their identity. They also change friends, that also affects their new identity. And you are left wondering, what happened to that person I first met? They changed! If you want to unpack your breakup in full, go to writemac.com if you don't find the session useful or helpful, I'll issue you a full refund. All the best moving forward, fuzzy panda!
My girlfriend did this a few weeks ago and told me to just give her time to get her self straightened out. She’s been suffering through some really bad depression the past few months, and I agreed to let it happen. I promised I wouldn’t contact her, but I talked to her mom about it a few days later, and she says that they’re having to take her to see a psychiatrist and that she’s been staying at their house and having to take off work like 3 days a week because she’s so depressed, maybe she’s having panic attacks. Anyway when me and her both talked last she promised she was gonna come back when she got herself straightened out. I don’t know if drugs are involved or what’s going on. I wish I could talk to her but I gotta respect her and her parents to not contact for a while.
Also I thought she was full of shit until I talked to her mom about it. I had broken up with her before over her doing cocaine when she knew I didn’t wanna be around that shit. She swears that she hasn’t been doing any of that but I don’t know what else would all the sudden cause this.
Going live right now, if you want to ask some questions in the livestream. I'll possibly also touch on this comment, in the livestream.
hey man, any update on what happened with her?
Thank you very much mac i have the same situation but i was with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and in this summer she went to bulgaria for a 3 month work with university and she said the same thing that she is tired of the relationship stress and that she wants sometime for herself also said that i controle her toomuch and that it prevents our relationship from developing due to the routine i begged and cried as everybodu does i guesse but i found the no contact rule by accident that say and i started implimenting it in the first day i got all the pictures all the videos deleted and blocked her from everysocial media platform she is on ...one day passes by and i receive a message from her saying : "you blocked me everywhere?!wow" followed by a couple of provocative text saying "i thoght you changed and you dont think something bad about me ..i can clearly see it ..i thoght we at least had good relations but now you even hate me " she texted me out of the blue during her working hours which never happened i waited about 4 hours i dident want to text her back until i got hone and checked some instructions on the next step of the no contact rule and i replied " i dont hate or think bad about you far from that ,sorry i gotta run ,which u all the best buy " and after that she replied " but like you blocked me" and after a couple minutes of waiting she also sent a "ok i see ,buy " i dident respond afterwords and the next day which is yesterday i saw that she woke up at 10 am and blocked me too as a reflex which i suppose is good because its been in her head all night , since yesterday i dident do any reflex as you should do in the no contact rule , coach mac what do you think of the situation i already feel like i gained my power back and i feel so much energy inside me that is a mix of anger and exitment to change to a complete beast and bad ass i created my own company and its taking off after 5 months i want want to start working out again because i stoped because of the company and i feel a huge boost of confodence at this point im even rethinking the need of getting back woth her if she contacts me again , so coach mac i love yur work please tell me what do you think and if she will contact me again PS : we are in the same university so she indeed will see me again
U should not have blocked her...in my eyes this is the sign of immaturity
Winner of a video, I have been researching "how to stop girlfriend from breaking up" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Aanylanby Astounding Ascendancy - (just google it ) ? It is a good one of a kind guide for getting your girlfriend back without the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my m8 got excellent results with it.
Thanks coach Mac, I feel better now because I've been doing exactly what you suggested. Donation on the way!
How you doing, Donnie? It's been a year.
My girl broke up with me early after 2 months and we go to work together. Now she broke up with me and says she wants to be with me in the future but said she needs to find things about herself. And it hurts seeing her at work and I really loved her family and I never liked a women like her this early. So I’m
Slowly giving her more space each day and seeing how it plays out she still got our photos on Insta and has all our photos but broke up with me after we hung out 4 days in a row it just hurts and I feel lost but want her back so bad
It sounds like she’s not ready for relationship, possible she came out of a bad relationship and is scared. Best to send your story into writemac.com. Stay strong, Mr. McCarthy.
Update?
Never commit to these women. Relationships are no longer viable or safe to entertain. Swipe away. You won’t see my face. Stay gone
My girlfriend & i were in long distance relationship from 5 years but suddenly when this covid comes up i mean from this year she got changed she have don BREAKUP on the month of October but after a week she apologized it & told me that she is going through a phase in life where she can't sacrifices her career for this love she will marry but she will not sacrifice her career for me i understood & we came back then i felt that there was not much of a priority is been given by her as it used to b 5 years ago in the beginning when everything was fresh & new i left her today but unfortunately i love her i messaged her & I apologized her that it was a mistake i never wanted to leave her, but the she told that i need some space i want to live a bit alone let me live alone a bit. What does it mean? What will happen now? Please help
My girlfriend broke up with me because she feels stuck and she needs time to find herself; she needs to take care of herself. However, she told me that she wants to come back better for me and for her so I don't waste my time being sad about her. She is sure that she will come back to me but she does not know when. She also told me that I won't be alone and that If I need her, I should not hesitate to text her. She is hurting and she blames everything for hurting me, for breaking up with me. She says she is not in the right state of mind right now and that is the reason why she broke up with me because she has to find herself. What she wants me to do is to grant it which I am doing now. I am giving her space. However, should I hope that she will come back?
When should I also text her again because she told me that I can still talk to her. We were friends before being in a relationship.
Idk when to approach her without invading her space, without making her feel distrub and at the same time idk what to tell her if I do it so. We broke up and I know it must be hard for her to break up with me because she promised me that she won't. But right now, she needs time. She is stuck and needs to find herself.
What should I do and when should I start communicating with her again; text her and start a new chapter without even touching our past, without reminiscing past events that cause us emotional breakdown? I still want her tho, I know she still wants me but she is hurting right now. I also don't want to lose our communication and I know she feels the same too. Any advice? Thank you!
I was needy back days that i was not able to see her, although the reason why was that I saw that she was already in pain before breaking up with me, Like I wanted to stay with her as a support that I am just right there. but maybe, I ruined her boundaries...
I’ll review this on a livestream tomorrow.
@@CoachMacMcCarthy Thanks coach. will be waiting on your livestream
@@CoachMacMcCarthy Hi coach. did i miss your livestream? because i didn't catch it..
@@tnxdot2565 tomorrow!
I know she still loves me, but she doesn't want to fix it anymore. What do I do? I still love her and I miss her.
You can still love someone and not feel compatible for a long term relationship. Send your full story into writemac.com or book a live coaching session and I help fully unpack your breakup with you.
Hey I’ve got a question. I’m 21 girlfriend is 20 we both go to the same college and we have been together for close to 3 years (before college) we had a great relationship but a few months ago she started pulling back a little. Just thought it was stress and things would get better. Well a week after we got to school she broke up with me and said she needed to find herself. She is under immense stress as she is an RA, has a job, and is a full time student (cut her hair get new ear piercings maybe a tattoo) she assured me that I was as good as I could have ever been and it had nothing to do with me. Regardless of her needing to find herself, she still wants to talk to me and besides romantic talk, we talk pretty much normally. We’ve even hung out since breaking up a few days ago and make jokes about breaking up. I know you don’t know me or my relationship but no BS feel good stuff- do I have a shot at getting her back? If so how? Thanks a lot
Been on break from her
Half a year tho :(
Is that a good thing? What conclusions have you come to?
My situation she said she needs time to get herself together I noticed certain things. She never really came around she'd go days no call no show. I just lost my last job but I got another one and I'm starting cdl class in a few weeks I love driving. She told me out or her own mouth she cares but doesn't want to be with me. This female is 32 3 kids 2 baby daddies I was the fool who was willing to step in and be a father to her kids. I can't lie I begged I've known this female since I was 22 she was 18 she lied about a lot I was her first. I have a lot going for myself
Thank you for sharing, Jamil. Keep on moving! Congrats on the new job.
I uh Coach UH is this the same as Taking a break ? And is she gonna go back after this ?
UH?
She left may 3rd ... couple weeks ago she texted at 230 am asking for clothes ... last night it was almost midnight when she asked if her glasses were here ... could that be positive or is that normal 🥺
My ex says she needs time but is also seeing someone else Lol wtf do I do about that? I told her its best we not talk cause it isn't fair to me or him. Told her Id love her and would marry her right now and if were meant to be we'll be. She blew up and said shed block me , never speak to me, etc etc. Very immature response Lol
Don't marry this individual. Ask yourself are capable of finding someone that can appreciate who you are and what you bring to a relationship? Where's your power in all of this? You also have the opportunity to meet someone else. Move on, bud. Go ahead and send in your full story to writemac.com if you want to get my take in a youtube video.
Just move on hit the gym find a hobby. I lost my job the woman I love left this is the 2nd time this has happened what different is I already found another job and moving in two weeks to pursue my career. Just move on find someone better
Love the new thumbnails