Translation: for 'break' read 'break up'. There are two main reasons for this common female euphemism. Firstly, she doesn't want to hurt your feelings and potentially cause you to react badly. Secondly, she does not want to burn her boats, in case she changes her mind later. Women like to keep their options open and will often try to keep men - including exes, in backup position. Once the monkey branching starts, it's best to walk away and get on with your life. Thanks to Corey's principles, I have had the experience of girls re-contacting me, but having moved on, had no interest in re-kindling things. The best attitude is 'She's had her chance, but she blew it'.
Yeah, good for you. Most men lose their dignity. However, friends with benefits option with exes isn't bad. Just don't commit to her after she breaks up.
No contact works, radio silence works. My GF told me she wanted a break and then a week after broke up with me. I was crushed but I found these videos and started working out and I went on a date with another girl. I went to my families cabin to hunt for 10 days and I don’t get cell service. When I got back to town she had been texting me and calling me like crazy saying she made a hide mistake! I did my own thing, didn’t worry about her or big her and she came back. Move on gentleman and you’ll be okay. If she comes back it’ll be YOUR choice if you want her back!
as an older man i gotta say, if she says this just respect it. acknowledge that it’s gonna end one or two ways and accept that. tell her you love her and to take the time she needs & get back to working to better yourself/ life. don’t beg or anything, if she leaves she leaves but let her come to you.
The best way to handle, and see if she wants you or not. Don't be a weakling. If she wants a break, completely ghost her and let her make up her own mind.
Only beta males or controlling women would dislike this. Dude is spot on with this. Be like a building with revolving doors. Let women come and go as they please. Since you're a building, they know your location. Buildings don't come to you. You go to buildings.
I just finished the 9th read of the book. Lately I've realized that life is like a hammer. If you are fragile it will smash you to pieces, but with the right principles it will forge you into a goddamn sword, one success/failure at a time. Follow the path guys, read the book!
They also need a Man not a needy insecure Man that puts pressure and becomes pushy when a woman in my case was having a terminal illness in my family and I was so stressed out had nothing left to give...this was no surprise I had tried to" Reassure Him" he wanted his key back and to break up because he was not # 1 this is a 67 year old man... please guys don't let this happen to you... thanks for your comments ✌️
My girl came to the conclusion that she wants us to have a Break. She admitted to not being a good GF and more distant recently. She explained how she was tied up with school, work, clinicals, her 2 families and me. I gave her the "get back to me when your schedule frees up" spill and she took it. I have to admit that it hurt and was hard to do. Coach Corey Wayne's book is the whole reason why I got into this first serious relationship with the perfect girl so I have to listen to the man. Thanks again coach
Yeah man, she called back after she told me she deleted my number. We met about 3 weeks after the break up and talked. We ended up hooking up that night. Recently she has been avoiding dates do the virus( her dad has an immune disease). The book is great and really effective but I don't think it can really be applied to this situation.
supreme action If you haven’t seen it yet check his recent video about dating during the quarantine. In short, video dates. Don’t let yourself go Beta because of this virus my man.
Girlfriend of 6 years just asked for a break… found these videos & im going to follow everything, wml y’all. But if it doesn’t work out im prepared to let go & apply all these teachings. Really wish I found these videos & corey’s books sooner, but sometimes it takes something like that to push you to learn more and better yourself, maybe its fate. Anyone else watching going through something similar, stay strong! Just apply these teachings & get her back, or get someone better :) never feel sorry for yourself & just keep improving
@@martin288 It went great actually! It was devastating at first honestly. Very emotionally draining few weeks. But once I accepted it will be okay with or with out her, and started following the principles in his book, it all worked out (for now lol) but we are in a much stronger place individually and as a couple. His book is well worth the $, I got it free with an audible trial. It really does become apart of your instinct after you listen to it 10-15 times like he always suggests lol. Couple main things I did - stopped making her the center of my life, and focused more on my own passions and career. I also started exercising/power lifting, eating healthier, learning about nutrition, and lost a good bit of weight. I love the quote he always mentions, " You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free." I've been really trying to do that. He also always mentions how each relationship you enter is always an opportunity for growth, I've grown a ton the last couple months. So maybe it was fate. But regardless, his videos and book were a huge help and probably saved my relationship!
@@jackaro0343 True, hang in there. Read the book, ive listened to the audio version around 15 times. Get in the gym, chase your goals and dreams and have fun, women will follow.
I just got the" need a break" speech last week from my girlfriend and she also canceled our vacation trip ... Big surprise , I was choked ... But Since I have been watching you coach ... I know the deal , I said okay and I went to no contact. I'm dating other women ,no big deal . I'm happy . Don't complicate things the coach always says . Thank you coach !!
NextJohns thank you Bro. Since I have been learning a lot from Coach corey , I have always had back up plans . I did not let it bother me . I have two beautiful side chicks I have be dealing with , So I have been planing dates to hang out , have fun and hock up with them soon . Like Corey says :" don't complicated things " .Women are like cats , the come and go ... Just stay centered ...
See guys. If u have a hard time letting go of a girl u dont want anymore. All u have to do is a be a nice guy. Then she' ll tell you "I need a break" because ur nice. But all joke aside. If im not interested. Im not anymore. I would tell them straight up. Even that too. They cant help that u let them go too. Be an Alpha and ull get laid. Plenty of fishes out there. Anyways Corey. Thanks for all u do. You help me realize that im Valuable. Im grateful for being a Man.
Another testimonial that your stuff works! Been almost 2 years since my ex broke up with me. I was in a bad shape and came across this channel. I've watched hundreds of your videos. Bought the book and audio book and it was my therapy, it helped me a lot. A month or so ago I accidentally ran into my ex at a local bar and I pretended I didn't see her. As I was sitting on my phone, she walked up to me, stood there until I've noticed her and waved at me to say hi and then walked off. After my buddy and I left the bar, within 30 minutes I got a text from her. Weird that she remembers my number or still has it because I don't remember hers. Anyways, she apologized that she was acting weird because I caught her off guard and she didn't expected to see me. We chatted a bit and I asked her to get together the way you say in your book. She replied with I thought you hate me and want me to die (along those lines) I went to sleep and waited until next day to reply : no, that's silly but she never replied back. I don't really care that she hasn't since I've moved on but wanted to post this story to inspire others and so that everyone should know that Corey's no contact rule works! Thanks coach.
Listened to you for years, especially when I thought I was going through a divorce. Yeah.. she wants a break now. Eeek. You are a STRAIGHT SHOOTER, telling the guys to STOP acting needy. Love it. Always nailing it man!
She wanted a break - gave it to her. The reason "she wanted to work on herself" a month later (after zero contact) she tells me she went on a date with a guy and said he was a psycho. Makes no sense. I'm more hurt that I feel lied to rather than a heart ache. If she wanted a break to work on herself how does this translate to going on a date...
Coach I'm really happy to see you so relaxed lately, oh and I'll say thanks for changing the course of my life while I'm at it 😉, Good health and Prosperity, Scott
She asked for a break. I said I would respect her wishes. Later, I saw her at work where she avoided eye contact, so I took that as the break is still on. Then she texts me at lunch to sit with me. We had a good conversation, but she was upset that I didn't reach out to her during the break. That makes no sense! Women are complicated. :/
She wants you to chase. Funnily enough if you did reach out her attraction would drop. The only reasons she's telling you 'why didn't you reach out?' is because she misses you and her attraction went up because you didn't do that. So yes very complicated lol
@@henare101 Yeah, no kidding. It got waaay more complicated after I posted this comment. -_- It dragged on and on, getting more confusing into when the quarantined started, and I haven't contacted her at all. She very diligently views all my Snapchat stories though, even though we were never friends on there. Haha!
My gf said she needs a break from me, but we didn't end on bad terms though, she just said she thinks that I'm too good for her and she's not enough for me... I would give her another chance if she wanna come back tbh.
With this being the nature of women, how could a guy ever commit to one specific one, when she might just go weird, disappear, or "want space" and expect that you just wait around.
If a girl wants to take a “ break “ to find herself ... it could mean exactly that .. or she could have a new guy lined up I don’t know how I would react since I have never been in this situation. If I really liked the girl, would ask the girl for a time line saying how Long the break will be before she contacts me to tell me if we are still dating.. If she says a reasonable time like a month ... maybe I will be cool with that If she says I don’t know how long I will take that as a break up and grieve and move on and start dating again
The point is, since she asked for space, you give it to her. It’s no longer about you or your wants. It’s about hers. And you should be comfortable enough to have a life worth chasing, not exactly chasing after a girl that may or may not want you.
Oh definitely, no contact works. She will be back but to size you up. If you an alpha you will get her back. She wouldn’t be back if that other fker is also an alpha. He’s a beta.
As soon as she said not to contact her you shouldve gone with somebody else and not told her. That way when you turned up the events you had planned with someone new it would have hit her like a train
You know what's sad? I read the book, dedicated myself to being an alpha, and I attracted a boatload of women before I found my current girlfriend. Somewhere along the way, I must have slipped up, for I am in the same situation right now. Fucking sad. At least I managed to clear the air and agree somewhat gracefully to no contact. Now the waiting begins. First few days have been shit, but I'll take the advice again. I'm composed enough now to start working on it. It's gym time...
That background though! Even though I fucked up and am struggling :/... I’m not going to chase her. It was a rough May till July 31st.. She cheated on me in May “need a break” next day she hooked up wit some dude.. lied to my face kept in touch... “ she was talking to him two days b4 the break up” The. In July I broke no contact she message me or closure my car got hit.. and she told me when I did NC for 5 days... she had a one night wit another “guy” like wtf man... I felt so stupid as fuck.. and recently a week ago she ghosted me... I felt like I lost everything including my power
A girl did same thing to me couple years ago. It's hard to swallow at first. However, once you realize that people who do that aren't good to be with it will help settle you down.
Digitalizedx ...... even tho you might of made mistakes, thats okay. The question is do you really want to datea girl that treats you like that? I would concentrate on becomig a better man and move on from that chic. Read the book and go find a great woman to compliment your life. Cheers buddy, you got this
I think that Adam Ruins Everything video misunderstood what it means to be an alpha. It depicted these so called 'alpha males' as being aggressive. That's not what it means, it's about self-reliance, understanding what you want and not settling for less. I agree that aggression is probably not attractive to a woman, but that's not what we're promoting. Maybe elsewhere on the internet, they are, but not here.
my problem is with relationships in general. Why do women need to be taken out on dates all the time? Why do men need to 'get' women to fall in love with them? Do they really love you if you have to put on some charade for the entirety of the relationship? Meaning why is it that men need to continuously earn the love of a woman when a woman seemingly does not put in the same effort of continuously earning the love of the man? Can't we argue that men stop taking their wife/gf on dates because they don't earn the attention the same way they did in the beginning of the relationship? "If you don't "date" your gf, someone else will." What? Well here is mine: "If you want sex, have money. If you want love; get a dog."
Being neurodivergent, the main reason why I need space and breaks is because I need to self regulate and decompress from the sensory overload that comes with being in a relationship, I like to talk but not for hours on end, I like to be with people but I often need ample time after sometimes for days or a week to get self regulated. This goes for any excessive sensory input whether it’s excitement or conflict. I shut down and my executive functioning goes down the drain and I become disabled and no longer am able to function properly. I can deal with a 2-3 hour long conversation but then I want complete quiet, no eye contact that covertly expects or demands attention back where I’m being drawn out of myself again and meeting the needs of others instead of easing into self care and staying there for as long as I need to be until I’m centered again. I’m starting to think like for me will be easier just to stay single because most people take boundaries as rejection or you start to feel like your depriving the other by taking care of yourself because they want more time and attention and you don’t have it to give. I’m just exhausted all the time now and even when I get some space which isn’t very much I’m already anticipating the need and expectation for my energy and interest so I can never really detach and get centered again because of the anticipatory anxiety. This really sucks!!! And all because I’m in the spectrum. I understand my son because he’s so much like me in that he loved a lot of quiet time and space, he’ll come out to be outgoing for a period but if exceeds his limit he will shut down for days after at the computer just to self regulate. We get each other and we know being together even if quiet and doing our own thing is STILL being together! Other people feel ignored and take it very personally. I’m at a crossroads…..be in a relationship and try to bend myself into a pretzel so he doesn’t feel neglected and gets his emotional needs for constant connection met and I’ll end up in the hospital OR stay single and experience some loneliness but I’ll have the control to control my environment before I crash and can’t function, develop insomnia, and become resentful because my need for quiet, space and time to self regulate I’ll be healthier and have more peace.
Be a man bro. After following Corey I have no desire to ever get an ex back. Move on, let a bitch tell me she wants out and your gone that second. I use the same philosophy for employees that threaten to quit. Treat it like someone that puts a gun to your face, pull the trigger or I will.
Pretty Girl_me don't keep someone that doesn't want to be there. Better to be with someone who wants to love you and have fun with you. It's okay to cry and be down for a bit, embrace the joy and embrace the sadness of life. That's what make us human and life so beautiful but don't stay sad too long, this too shall pass and your sun will shine again.
Chris Sanchez Thank you for your kind words. I am really trying. My break up happened recently so I am in the grieving stage. But I know it will get better one day right.
I like many of his episode but this one was pure anecdotal. Most of his evidence followed the slogan "weak guys can win too." Which kind of relies on the existence of alpha's.
To all men out there claiming that if a woman wants to take a break you should dump her. I was in a serious long-term relationship but my fiancé was kinda insecure and every time we have a little argument he would break up with me or insinuate that our relationship is not going to work out and we better be apart which results in so much emotional pain for me. But then every time he goes back and apologizes and pretends that it was all because of me. Yesterday he did it again and apologized but this time it was different, I decided to call his bluff and told him I'll take a break... I'm still faithful to him but this relationship has been so emotionally draining for me. Idk if he'll ever change but I need some time off to reconnect with myself and see if it's really worth it to pursue this relationship. So maybe next time your woman asks for a break, think about the way you were treating her...
Exactly, I just took a break from my bf. He lies and keeps texting other women says will not do it again and repeats the same. I took a break to see if this relationship is really worth it. Hence the break.
so here's the situation I'm in. My girl basically wants me to give her money when (for shoes for example) she demands it and move away from her hometown because she hates it and wants me to be somewhere else so "our" future can start, but her hometown is where I am successful in my career. Since I basically told her no she told me that "we need a break". What should I do in this situation? She's taking my rejection of her demands as a weakness which is backward if we follow the quote he says at the beginning. Mind you we've only been dating for almost a year and there are no real plans to get married.
Three Words: There's. The. Door. If she is "testing" the relationship, then she will back-track immediately or maybe in a day or 2--NO CONTACT DURING THAT TIME. Leave her be. If she's banging a side-guy (Chad, Tyrone or Jose), then let her go. He obviously can do it better than you. --CRP
I hate that everything has become politicized. But, in more cases than not, I think it is very difficult to have a relationship that has a dif political view. you just have dif core values
What if it’s a guy who wants break for an uncertain period due to study stress and feels totally study occupied mentally. But stays in touch and doesn’t mind meeting. He’s naturally a very understanding guy. Can a guy answer this?
@@jean-paulfaye7794 We stayed in touch all through, while I gave him all the space (with or without annoyance) and got over with my anxiety. And now, after having the space that he needed and seeing me having left the past behind he admitted that he still feels attracted to me and won’t mind considering a casual relationship. He felt the spark between us. However I didn’t match with the same vibes on the grounds that now I needed some more time to trust him again and that he should fix his study stress issues first. I’m in no hurry though. I’m just maturer to give things their own sweet time. We still sometimes act like a couple, spend more time together because that’s how we can build some understanding and organically have a relationship, if there ever has to be any. But holding my dignity high and being happier all by myself are the strongest things I’ve done. He’s no more my priority, just a (any other) special one. And he clearly sees all of that.
@@anikasharma9380 hope the very best for you. Seems like he was unsure about a lot of things good thing you gave him space and the amazing thing about it all is that you went on to grow as a person. If he really wants to build something he needs to make a move and fight for it.
I read your book multiple times. It's really good, but I have better things to do with my time than play games with women LOL. Chasing is not worth it.
I need advice fast she tried to break up with me but I gave her a ring as a gift then she said I feel bad,so asked her would you rather just take a break? She said yea I feel like she thinks she being forced...WHAT SHOULD I DO??
I’m a female. Corey is spot on when he quotes that the strongest negotiation position is being able to walk away and to never look back. If someone doesn’t give you the healthy relationship you deserve, please consider this a gift. It’s hard to see this, but it is. Cheers.
My girl just said this. Said it was her needing it. Not to brag but I was prob the perfect boyfriend for her and then randomly she decides this and I’ve been super depressed for a few so yeah idk what to do... she broke me
uuuhm i am a woman and i always hated men who are complete alone and don't need me, so i don't understand your science. even though i liked some parts of your book i still don't understand how a guy being too busy and satisfied without me is attractive at all?
It is funny because some ladies think that if you say "Ok, Let's take a break" They have asked me by reacting like that "So, don't you love me?" And they start assuming just because I didn't react like you are afraid or shocked because they are asking for some space.. A man of value doesn't react emotional or gets frustrated because she's asking for space, he goes in for the fun she can have her own, I can have mine too, and on the process she will be a thing of the past.
My fiance wants a break because she's never really focused on herself. She always puts me first, its a trauma response that she also has done with her parents. She's never lived on her own. We also were codependent financially on each other for a while. She wants a break but said she still is in love with me. We live together so it's difficult. We both arent in financial spots to move out. She still wants to kiss etc so it's really a weird situation. My plan is to just try and giver her as much space as possible while focusing on my own life. It's hard to trust someone who wants a break but I also understand why. We love each other but we also made each other our whole lives for way too long and we need to fix that.
What if she wants a break because of too much fighting..and sets rules and says she wants to keep the commitment between us though? And says i need to change certain things and she needs to as well...sounds like a slow break up? Excuse for space?
bmp5star this happened to me. She wanted a week break. I gave it to her immediately with confidence even thought I really didn’t want to. We didn’t contact each other for that 1 week. She finally reached out to me after 1 week and says she’s misses me and it feels like she hasn’t talked to me in years. 😊 it’s not always about another guy or a break up.
@@wanseanshariff6841 she had a list..get a job and contribute because i wasnt working for a year...make amends with her mother..stop being over jealous and romance her more as well..and i told her to she needs to work on her anger management..to be honest i havent actually tried any of those things on her list out of pride..and not wanting to be a puppet on a string.
bmp5star it’s time for self care man. Gotta get a job.. maybe try hitting the gym. Good news is she’s telling you what she wants. If she didn’t care she wouldn’t tell you these things. You have a choice. Do the things or loose her buddy.
Hey Correy, I have important question. I have been following you long enough , but still dont understand. You say women are more atracted to men who's feelings are unclear ( so you dont contact her if she needs space to raise attraction for her ). Then you say if man stops making dates with his women she doesnt feel loved and she loses attraction( in your theory she should feel not sure about man's feelings so her attraction should go up , but in reality she feels that her man doesn't care ). So why she doesnt feel this way aswell if you stop contacting when she says she need space if you fucked up courting relationship (you didnt give her much attention and that was the reason for break up), then she must assume you dont even care about her at all and she can drift away in some cases, dont you think? Sorry for my english.
This is great work I believe! I got a question though, how is it that we're not there to complete each other but in another video you say we're suppose to build each other and lift each other up?
Yeah I asked what kind of break? Like to help herself or see other people. She said help herself. I did until found out she was dating around. I went took damn car I bought for her. She moved Dallas and the damn covid got same time then end July and wanted break. Saw her dressed to T. End of August and saw stuff on Instagram. So she lied and I researched and found out she cheated 2 years ago and talking in phone with guys But I also cheated of and on thru relationship. Before moved her told her wanted really make it work. Basically haven’t seen her since end of February I was like what kind break dàmn lol.
I understand that setting boundaries about my gf's male friends is needy and insecure, but there's this one that she's gonna start Yoga classes with in a Yoga institute and I don't think it is respectful to me. Is it going to push her away if I claim that it's not a cool thing to do? I wouldn't mind her texting or meeting when in groups but this is out of place
Hey Corey I just got out of a 2 year relationship. I’ve been making the same mistakes and she finally had enough and broke up with me. She said we need a break to work on ourselves. We both still care for each other very much. We want to try to be friends and talk while on this “break” that’s not really working for me though. I start texting too much and acting needy. Do you think I should just cut the tie and tell her I don’t want to be friends so I think I need to take a step back and see what happens?
Its been almost 8 years togrther and now she takes a break to find herself back and become she finds that our love faded. She says its little things that pile up. I know she struggles a lot with herself these past months and she got her first real job of 40h per week and she is exhausted. I do my part in the house but not enough apparently... when Im on my videogames I dont listen to her but I put a moment each day so we could talk. She says a live in a dream world with all my almost impossible dreams. I dont knlw what to do
Hey Corey! My girlfriend broke up with me the day she got back from vacation without having seen me for a week since she had been gone. We were txting and it seemed like everything was fine up until I went to go play basketball and she texted me saying "we need to talk." She ended up breaking up with me over FaceTime saying she had lost feelings for me, and wasn't ready for a serious relationship and she wanted to be free. She wanted to stay friends but I told her it's either we r intimate or nothing else. I begged and pleaded for a few days, and yesterday was the first time we haven't talked in two months. She also said she broke up with me because she doesn't know what she wants. She obviously needs some space and time to figure things out, so I'm gonna start the no contact period. Any advice?
Dylan Marshall fuck her she lost out she didn't care about how you felt she only cared about herself. Dont be her friend go no contact and wait im telling you. It always works put your footdown not saying she found somebody else but 90% of the time it is if you guys had good chemistry and all of a sudden she needs space its bs. Leave with some dignity go be single meet girls leave the door open for her to come back. move on if she never comes back thats good too but dont be a doormat be a man
The main thing Corey gets wrong is that it's your fault if it goes bad because you didn't read his dumbass book 15 times lol. Some women who need attention will get it from multiple guys as long as they can get away with it. I still love you Corey Wayne. You don't let women get away with lies
@@CoachCoreyWayne I don't take responsibility for the actions of others. I'm a behavior analyst and I don't blame myself when a child tantrums. I simply teach the skills he needs to handle and prevent future tantrums. Same with women. I simply respond in a way that is fair to myself which is what you teach anyway and that is attractive. Some women need to learn their lesson and it's not your fault. They will always try to pretend it's your fault when a lot of times they just need to grow up themselves.
i dont understand what you mean. Look at her actions man. She hasn't called you back. DO NOT CHASE THAT BITCH. Do your own thing man. Learn what makes you happy and pursue that. You need to see things as they are. Stop killing your self man. Keep in mind man everybody on this post has been where you are now. Pick yourself up bro, brush yourself off. Start working on yourself to make yourself a 3% man.Your life is not over man. You can do this, bro.
Bernard Harris Thank you for taking the time to reply. We've been a long distance couple and arranged to visit her in August when the relationship was going well and after it went sideways she dumped me and said she wouldn't even be in her country when I arrive. It's been 4 months after the breakup and 2 months of no contact. I'm forced to stay in a trip alone while she goes and enjoys herself with friends. It's hard and I'm still hurt how can someone I loved this much be such a bitch to me and break all the promises? I'm a lot better now but since the trip date is getting closer it's messing with my head man.
No one is irreplaceable. Grief and move on. It is tough but you have to go thru it. It took me 9 months to heal when my ex gf broke up with me . We were together for nearly 3 years. The first 3 months were brutal . Do not suppress the pain. Cry it out. I bawled like a baby in private . No contact. You have to go thru the pain without letting it crush you. Hit the gym and eat healthy . Allow some alone time to feel the pain daily then keep yourself meaningfully occupied.
hey man thanks again. I totally agree with you. She used to tell me this bullshit to talk about my feelings as well. She only cares about herself. Its hard to accept the fact that women don't give a fuck what you feel unless they feel the same, but its the sad reality. We've been brainwashed by the media that women care about what you feel and go the extra mile. She used to give me some bullshit promises that she'll be there at the airport no matter what happens, but guess what? She wasn't there. Promises don't mean shit to women once they lose their feelings toward you. It doesn't matter if you crash and burn. It's a very fucked up thing. I've been suffering from the breakup for 6 months.I arrived 2 days ago at her city and she didn't show up nor have the decency to text or call me. It's a tough time. She broke up with me because she "needs to focus on and love herself" which was total bullshit obviously. The real reason was because I became weak and needy. I think she has forgotten that I existed and that she's gone once and for all.
I been following the techniques after divorcing my wife...now I'm having trouble getting rid of the girls....How do you get rid of a girl when they constantly stalk you and blow up your phone..lol...true story
Translation: for 'break' read 'break up'. There are two main reasons for this common female euphemism. Firstly, she doesn't want to hurt your feelings and potentially cause you to react badly. Secondly, she does not want to burn her boats, in case she changes her mind later. Women like to keep their options open and will often try to keep men - including exes, in backup position. Once the monkey branching starts, it's best to walk away and get on with your life. Thanks to Corey's principles, I have had the experience of girls re-contacting me, but having moved on, had no interest in re-kindling things. The best attitude is 'She's had her chance, but she blew it'.
A very good mindset!
Yeah, good for you. Most men lose their dignity. However, friends with benefits option with exes isn't bad. Just don't commit to her after she breaks up.
A break is not really a break up a break is a break but that for sure is one of the last resorts it hase to be seriously bad for it to be a break.
I'd do a fuck and quit
No contact works, radio silence works. My GF told me she wanted a break and then a week after broke up with me. I was crushed but I found these videos and started working out and I went on a date with another girl. I went to my families cabin to hunt for 10 days and I don’t get cell service. When I got back to town she had been texting me and calling me like crazy saying she made a hide mistake! I did my own thing, didn’t worry about her or big her and she came back. Move on gentleman and you’ll be okay. If she comes back it’ll be YOUR choice if you want her back!
She wants a break? Give it to her, for the rest of her life!
RemoWest for real she just want you to catch a case for her ass. I agree ..Leave her ass be
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@@RemoWest but you here too lmfaoo
@@johnnycalderon9951 ok simpy
as an older man i gotta say, if she says this just respect it. acknowledge that it’s gonna end one or two ways and accept that. tell her you love her and to take the time she needs & get back to working to better yourself/ life. don’t beg or anything, if she leaves she leaves but let her come to you.
The best way to handle, and see if she wants you or not. Don't be a weakling. If she wants a break, completely ghost her and let her make up her own mind.
"WE WERE ON A BREAK!!"
..anybody?
Ross ahaha
Jajajajaja Ross. Give her the break and do not contact.
I was thinking that when she said it to me 😂
Only beta males or controlling women would dislike this. Dude is spot on with this. Be like a building with revolving doors. Let women come and go as they please. Since you're a building, they know your location. Buildings don't come to you. You go to buildings.
Sparkz Mentalz or guys listening to this with their phones in their pockets
lol muppet
It's basically her way of letting you down easily. But not being to harsh about it, in case she wants you back in the future.
I just finished the 9th read of the book. Lately I've realized that life is like a hammer. If you are fragile it will smash you to pieces, but with the right principles it will forge you into a goddamn sword, one success/failure at a time. Follow the path guys, read the book!
Amazin comment, i love it!
Name of book?
Clark Snowden how to be 3% man
so what are those principles smart ass ?
Remember the book. Women will usually wait until they have a replacement lined up before the leave.
I agree 100%. You need to be with someone to share your completeness, not need someone to feel complete.
Michele Cobré maybe, however in my own friendship group I have seen my mates cheat and leave their girlfriends for other women
Andrew Contrera untrue. Women leave cause we are tired of drama.
They also need a Man not a needy insecure Man that puts pressure and becomes pushy when a woman in my case was having a terminal illness in my family and I was so stressed out had nothing left to give...this was no surprise I had tried to" Reassure Him" he wanted his key back and to break up because he was not # 1 this is a 67 year old man... please guys don't let this happen to you... thanks for your comments ✌️
@@allisonjustice678 ushualy women make drama...
My girl came to the conclusion that she wants us to have a Break. She admitted to not being a good GF and more distant recently. She explained how she was tied up with school, work, clinicals, her 2 families and me. I gave her the "get back to me when your schedule frees up" spill and she took it. I have to admit that it hurt and was hard to do. Coach Corey Wayne's book is the whole reason why I got into this first serious relationship with the perfect girl so I have to listen to the man. Thanks again coach
Yeah man, she called back after she told me she deleted my number. We met about 3 weeks after the break up and talked. We ended up hooking up that night. Recently she has been avoiding dates do the virus( her dad has an immune disease). The book is great and really effective but I don't think it can really be applied to this situation.
supreme action If you haven’t seen it yet check his recent video about dating during the quarantine. In short, video dates. Don’t let yourself go Beta because of this virus my man.
@@quincy-2000 I just saw it. Thanks bro
Girlfriend of 6 years just asked for a break… found these videos & im going to follow everything, wml y’all. But if it doesn’t work out im prepared to let go & apply all these teachings. Really wish I found these videos & corey’s books sooner, but sometimes it takes something like that to push you to learn more and better yourself, maybe its fate. Anyone else watching going through something similar, stay strong! Just apply these teachings & get her back, or get someone better :) never feel sorry for yourself & just keep improving
How did it go brother
@@martin288 It went great actually! It was devastating at first honestly. Very emotionally draining few weeks. But once I accepted it will be okay with or with out her, and started following the principles in his book, it all worked out (for now lol) but we are in a much stronger place individually and as a couple.
His book is well worth the $, I got it free with an audible trial. It really does become apart of your instinct after you listen to it 10-15 times like he always suggests lol.
Couple main things I did - stopped making her the center of my life, and focused more on my own passions and career. I also started exercising/power lifting, eating healthier, learning about nutrition, and lost a good bit of weight. I love the quote he always mentions, " You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free." I've been really trying to do that.
He also always mentions how each relationship you enter is always an opportunity for growth, I've grown a ton the last couple months. So maybe it was fate. But regardless, his videos and book were a huge help and probably saved my relationship!
its so hard when thats the only woman you want, it crushes the self esteem and think you cant get anyone as good (especially physically)
@@jackaro0343 True, hang in there. Read the book, ive listened to the audio version around 15 times. Get in the gym, chase your goals and dreams and have fun, women will follow.
I just got the" need a break" speech last week from my girlfriend and she also canceled our vacation trip ... Big surprise , I was choked ... But Since I have been watching you coach ... I know the deal , I said okay and I went to no contact. I'm dating other women ,no big deal . I'm happy . Don't complicate things the coach always says .
Thank you coach !!
NextJohns thank you Bro. Since I have been learning a lot from Coach corey , I have always had back up plans . I did not let it bother me . I have two beautiful side chicks I have be dealing with , So I have been planing dates to hang out , have fun and hock up with them soon . Like Corey says :" don't complicated things " .Women are like cats , the come and go ... Just stay centered ...
See guys. If u have a hard time letting go of a girl u dont want anymore. All u have to do is a be a nice guy. Then she' ll tell you "I need a break" because ur nice. But all joke aside. If im not interested. Im not anymore. I would tell them straight up. Even that too. They cant help that u let them go too. Be an Alpha and ull get laid. Plenty of fishes out there. Anyways Corey. Thanks for all u do. You help me realize that im Valuable. Im grateful for being a Man.
Another testimonial that your stuff works! Been almost 2 years since my ex broke up with me. I was in a bad shape and came across this channel. I've watched hundreds of your videos. Bought the book and audio book and it was my therapy, it helped me a lot. A month or so ago I accidentally ran into my ex at a local bar and I pretended I didn't see her.
As I was sitting on my phone, she walked up to me, stood there until I've noticed her and waved at me to say hi and then walked off. After my buddy and I left the bar, within 30 minutes I got a text from her. Weird that she remembers my number or still has it because I don't remember hers. Anyways, she apologized that she was acting weird because I caught her off guard and she didn't expected to see me.
We chatted a bit and I asked her to get together the way you say in your book. She replied with I thought you hate me and want me to die (along those lines) I went to sleep and waited until next day to reply : no, that's silly but she never replied back. I don't really care that she hasn't since I've moved on but wanted to post this story to inspire others and so that everyone should know that Corey's no contact rule works! Thanks coach.
Your work will echo in eternity.
Listened to you for years, especially when I thought I was going through a divorce. Yeah.. she wants a break now. Eeek.
You are a STRAIGHT SHOOTER, telling the guys to STOP acting needy. Love it. Always nailing it man!
Thank you coach 🥺 you just saved my relationship with the love of my life
She wanted a break - gave it to her. The reason "she wanted to work on herself" a month later (after zero contact) she tells me she went on a date with a guy and said he was a psycho.
Makes no sense. I'm more hurt that I feel lied to rather than a heart ache.
If she wanted a break to work on herself how does this translate to going on a date...
Sub communication and covert language my friend. It’s just how they operate sorry to say
I don’t know bro…..after 2 weeks of no contact, at her request, I’m gone.
Coach I'm really happy to see you so relaxed lately, oh and I'll say thanks for changing the course of my life while I'm at it 😉, Good health and Prosperity, Scott
She asked for a break. I said I would respect her wishes. Later, I saw her at work where she avoided eye contact, so I took that as the break is still on. Then she texts me at lunch to sit with me. We had a good conversation, but she was upset that I didn't reach out to her during the break. That makes no sense!
Women are complicated. :/
She wants you to chase. Funnily enough if you did reach out her attraction would drop. The only reasons she's telling you 'why didn't you reach out?' is because she misses you and her attraction went up because you didn't do that. So yes very complicated lol
@@henare101 Yeah, no kidding. It got waaay more complicated after I posted this comment. -_- It dragged on and on, getting more confusing into when the quarantined started, and I haven't contacted her at all. She very diligently views all my Snapchat stories though, even though we were never friends on there. Haha!
Id say bye and block her from my life completely never to have access to me again
5th time reading the book. Your content is gold. Stay hard fellas.
My gf said she needs a break from me, but we didn't end on bad terms though, she just said she thinks that I'm too good for her and she's not enough for me... I would give her another chance if she wanna come back tbh.
If she says you're too good for me chances are she's already cheating..hence the you're too good for me speech.
With this being the nature of women, how could a guy ever commit to one specific one, when she might just go weird, disappear, or "want space" and expect that you just wait around.
date a good girl ..
Well what if he cheated on you and that’s why you want the break.
@@loverofjesus4856 then that’s different, of course you would want a break, there’s no doubt about it.
If a girl wants to take a “ break “ to find herself ... it could mean exactly that .. or she could have a new guy lined up
I don’t know how I would react since I have never been in this situation.
If I really liked the girl, would ask the girl for a time line saying how Long the break will be before she contacts me to tell me if we are still dating..
If she says a reasonable time like a month ... maybe I will be cool with that
If she says I don’t know how long I will take that as a break up and grieve and move on and start dating again
The point is, since she asked for space, you give it to her. It’s no longer about you or your wants. It’s about hers. And you should be comfortable enough to have a life worth chasing, not exactly chasing after a girl that may or may not want you.
She wants a break? LOL I remember those days.
I'm almost 4 weeks into a "break " don't expect her to come back.
Great video my gf of 11 months gave me the she needs a break bs
Hope she reaches out tho
if she wants a break ,she def has a dude on the side
Oh definitely, no contact works. She will be back but to size you up. If you an alpha you will get her back. She wouldn’t be back if that other fker is also an alpha. He’s a beta.
a break means goodbye lol
Oo Oo it sure does. That's what my boyfriend told me then he broke up with me after.
As soon as she said not to contact her you shouldve gone with somebody else and not told her. That way when you turned up the events you had planned with someone new it would have hit her like a train
Cooooooooaaaacccch!!!!!! long time listening for about 4 years.
You know what's sad? I read the book, dedicated myself to being an alpha, and I attracted a boatload of women before I found my current girlfriend. Somewhere along the way, I must have slipped up, for I am in the same situation right now. Fucking sad. At least I managed to clear the air and agree somewhat gracefully to no contact. Now the waiting begins. First few days have been shit, but I'll take the advice again. I'm composed enough now to start working on it. It's gym time...
how did everything turn out?
@@macaronienshiis wanna know too
I DON'T DO BREAK... But thanks Corey 👍
That background though! Even though I fucked up and am struggling :/... I’m not going to chase her. It was a rough May till July 31st..
She cheated on me in May “need a break” next day she hooked up wit some dude.. lied to my face kept in touch...
“ she was talking to him two days b4 the break up”
The. In July I broke no contact she message me or closure my car got hit.. and she told me when I did NC for 5 days... she had a one night wit another “guy” like wtf man...
I felt so stupid as fuck.. and recently a week ago she ghosted me... I felt like I lost everything including my power
A girl did same thing to me couple years ago. It's hard to swallow at first. However, once you realize that people who do that aren't good to be with it will help settle you down.
Digitalizedx ...... even tho you might of made mistakes, thats okay. The question is do you really want to datea girl that treats you like that? I would concentrate on becomig a better man and move on from that chic. Read the book and go find a great woman to compliment your life. Cheers buddy, you got this
coyotehunteraz agreed, it hurts like hell at first, then years later the pain lessens. Why do experiences exists?
so we can grow from them.
I think that Adam Ruins Everything video misunderstood what it means to be an alpha. It depicted these so called 'alpha males' as being aggressive. That's not what it means, it's about self-reliance, understanding what you want and not settling for less.
I agree that aggression is probably not attractive to a woman, but that's not what we're promoting. Maybe elsewhere on the internet, they are, but not here.
Right now he's suffering from a mindsetshift without the f in shift.
my problem is with relationships in general. Why do women need to be taken out on dates all the time? Why do men need to 'get' women to fall in love with them? Do they really love you if you have to put on some charade for the entirety of the relationship? Meaning why is it that men need to continuously earn the love of a woman when a woman seemingly does not put in the same effort of continuously earning the love of the man? Can't we argue that men stop taking their wife/gf on dates because they don't earn the attention the same way they did in the beginning of the relationship? "If you don't "date" your gf, someone else will." What? Well here is mine: "If you want sex, have money. If you want love; get a dog."
What if she really meant she needed a break and not mingling?
They don't do that at all
coach corey is getting better imitating faces and girls voices 😂😂
When she asks for space simply ask yourself "what would Donald Trump do ?"
Being neurodivergent, the main reason why I need space and breaks is because I need to self regulate and decompress from the sensory overload that comes with being in a relationship, I like to talk but not for hours on end, I like to be with people but I often need ample time after sometimes for days or a week to get self regulated. This goes for any excessive sensory input whether it’s excitement or conflict. I shut down and my executive functioning goes down the drain and I become disabled and no longer am able to function properly. I can deal with a 2-3 hour long conversation but then I want complete quiet, no eye contact that covertly expects or demands attention back where I’m being drawn out of myself again and meeting the needs of others instead of easing into self care and staying there for as long as I need to be until I’m centered again. I’m starting to think like for me will be easier just to stay single because most people take boundaries as rejection or you start to feel like your depriving the other by taking care of yourself because they want more time and attention and you don’t have it to give. I’m just exhausted all the time now and even when I get some space which isn’t very much I’m already anticipating the need and expectation for my energy and interest so I can never really detach and get centered again because of the anticipatory anxiety. This really sucks!!! And all because I’m in the spectrum. I understand my son because he’s so much like me in that he loved a lot of quiet time and space, he’ll come out to be outgoing for a period but if exceeds his limit he will shut down for days after at the computer just to self regulate. We get each other and we know being together even if quiet and doing our own thing is STILL being together! Other people feel ignored and take it very personally. I’m at a crossroads…..be in a relationship and try to bend myself into a pretzel so he doesn’t feel neglected and gets his emotional needs for constant connection met and I’ll end up in the hospital OR stay single and experience some loneliness but I’ll have the control to control my environment before I crash and can’t function, develop insomnia, and become resentful because my need for quiet, space and time to self regulate I’ll be healthier and have more peace.
Be a man bro. After following Corey I have no desire to ever get an ex back. Move on, let a bitch tell me she wants out and your gone that second. I use the same philosophy for employees that threaten to quit. Treat it like someone that puts a gun to your face, pull the trigger or I will.
Chris Sanchez I need your attitude instead of crying my eyes out after my ex dumped me
Pretty Girl_me don't keep someone that doesn't want to be there. Better to be with someone who wants to love you and have fun with you. It's okay to cry and be down for a bit, embrace the joy and embrace the sadness of life. That's what make us human and life so beautiful but don't stay sad too long, this too shall pass and your sun will shine again.
Chris Sanchez Thank you for your kind words. I am really trying. My break up happened recently so I am in the grieving stage. But I know it will get better one day right.
Pretty Girl_me 🙏
Lol Adam Ruins Everything episode on alpha males was a joke
Becoming Untangled yeah let them believe there's no such thing as alpha male and keep on being the 97% lol
I like many of his episode but this one was pure anecdotal. Most of his evidence followed the slogan "weak guys can win too." Which kind of relies on the existence of alpha's.
Morning COACH... good shit👍🏼
To all men out there claiming that if a woman wants to take a break you should dump her.
I was in a serious long-term relationship but my fiancé was kinda insecure and every time we have a little argument he would break up with me or insinuate that our relationship is not going to work out and we better be apart which results in so much emotional pain for me. But then every time he goes back and apologizes and pretends that it was all because of me.
Yesterday he did it again and apologized but this time it was different, I decided to call his bluff and told him I'll take a break...
I'm still faithful to him but this relationship has been so emotionally draining for me. Idk if he'll ever change but I need some time off to reconnect with myself and see if it's really worth it to pursue this relationship.
So maybe next time your woman asks for a break, think about the way you were treating her...
Exactly, I just took a break from my bf.
He lies and keeps texting other women says will not do it again and repeats the same.
I took a break to see if this relationship is really worth it. Hence the break.
h0e supporting h0e. get outta here!
so here's the situation I'm in. My girl basically wants me to give her money when (for shoes for example) she demands it and move away from her hometown because she hates it and wants me to be somewhere else so "our" future can start, but her hometown is where I am successful in my career. Since I basically told her no she told me that "we need a break". What should I do in this situation? She's taking my rejection of her demands as a weakness which is backward if we follow the quote he says at the beginning. Mind you we've only been dating for almost a year and there are no real plans to get married.
Looks like manipulation !
Good advice, sometimes the right choice is the hardest.
Three Words: There's. The. Door. If she is "testing" the relationship, then she will back-track immediately or maybe in a day or 2--NO CONTACT DURING THAT TIME. Leave her be.
If she's banging a side-guy (Chad, Tyrone or Jose), then let her go. He obviously can do it better than you. --CRP
A break..,yeah that means she wants to date other guys or is already doing so... but if the guy starts dating she will flip out..lolz
wow!! Best video ever, Love your work, your a huge inspiration Corey!!!
Floyd At Google I am going to try this method as soon as possible. Thanks.
Floyd At Google I'll definitely check out your site www.thebetaway.com regularly and subscribe to the newsletter. I can't wait for the release!
Floyd At Google Sounds very inspiring. The title alone resonates a lot with me.
I hate that everything has become politicized. But, in more cases than not, I think it is very difficult to have a relationship that has a dif political view. you just have dif core values
coach corey=awesomeness
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When see says she wants space chuck up the dueces and don't look back if she don't want to bothered keep it moving don't kiss her a..
Corey wayne if I ever dislike your video my phones in my pocket my bad
What if it’s a guy who wants break for an uncertain period due to study stress and feels totally study occupied mentally. But stays in touch and doesn’t mind meeting. He’s naturally a very understanding guy. Can a guy answer this?
How’d everything go with the guy it’s been 3 months?
@@jean-paulfaye7794 We stayed in touch all through, while I gave him all the space (with or without annoyance) and got over with my anxiety. And now, after having the space that he needed and seeing me having left the past behind he admitted that he still feels attracted to me and won’t mind considering a casual relationship. He felt the spark between us. However I didn’t match with the same vibes on the grounds that now I needed some more time to trust him again and that he should fix his study stress issues first. I’m in no hurry though. I’m just maturer to give things their own sweet time. We still sometimes act like a couple, spend more time together because that’s how we can build some understanding and organically have a relationship, if there ever has to be any. But holding my dignity high and being happier all by myself are the strongest things I’ve done. He’s no more my priority, just a (any other) special one. And he clearly sees all of that.
@@anikasharma9380 hope the very best for you. Seems like he was unsure about a lot of things good thing you gave him space and the amazing thing about it all is that you went on to grow as a person. If he really wants to build something he needs to make a move and fight for it.
@@anikasharma9380 is there any sort of behavior his is emitting that you want me to interpret as a man?
I read your book multiple times. It's really good, but I have better things to do with my time than play games with women LOL. Chasing is not worth it.
I need advice fast she tried to break up with me but I gave her a ring as a gift then she said I feel bad,so asked her would you rather just take a break? She said yea I feel like she thinks she being forced...WHAT SHOULD I DO??
Let her go
I’m a female. Corey is spot on when he quotes that the strongest negotiation position is being able to walk away and to never look back. If someone doesn’t give you the healthy relationship you deserve, please consider this a gift. It’s hard to see this, but it is. Cheers.
My girl just said this. Said it was her needing it. Not to brag but I was prob the perfect boyfriend for her and then randomly she decides this and I’ve been super depressed for a few so yeah idk what to do... she broke me
How did it work out? Same situation here
How did it work out?
@@Gilly209x she got with her ex, wasn’t meant for me
I’m now married to my beautiful wife, got a bunch of dogs, a house
@@Drew.coggs_ig dude that’s great!
@@Willyd2758 Yessur ! Still married strong loving life
Coach, if after the break she says, let's remains as friends as she wants to focus on herself. What do you do?
uuuhm i am a woman and i always hated men who are complete alone and don't need me, so i don't understand your science. even though i liked some parts of your book i still don't understand how a guy being too busy and satisfied without me is attractive at all?
Professional Noob yh!.. me too
It is funny because some ladies think that if you say "Ok, Let's take a break" They have asked me by reacting like that "So, don't you love me?" And they start assuming just because I didn't react like you are afraid or shocked because they are asking for some space..
A man of value doesn't react emotional or gets frustrated because she's asking for space, he goes in for the fun she can have her own, I can have mine too, and on the process she will be a thing of the past.
A break means nothing no contact for at least 2 weeks or more
Question: Is that the Ocean or Gulf in the background? All I know it's awesome!
My fiance wants a break because she's never really focused on herself. She always puts me first, its a trauma response that she also has done with her parents. She's never lived on her own. We also were codependent financially on each other for a while. She wants a break but said she still is in love with me. We live together so it's difficult. We both arent in financial spots to move out. She still wants to kiss etc so it's really a weird situation. My plan is to just try and giver her as much space as possible while focusing on my own life. It's hard to trust someone who wants a break but I also understand why. We love each other but we also made each other our whole lives for way too long and we need to fix that.
What if she wants a break because of too much fighting..and sets rules and says she wants to keep the commitment between us though? And says i need to change certain things and she needs to as well...sounds like a slow break up? Excuse for space?
bmp5star this happened to me. She wanted a week break. I gave it to her immediately with confidence even thought I really didn’t want to. We didn’t contact each other for that 1 week. She finally reached out to me after 1 week and says she’s misses me and it feels like she hasn’t talked to me in years. 😊 it’s not always about another guy or a break up.
@@wanseanshariff6841 im going on 2 months now
bmp5star what were the rules? And did she say how long the break was going to be?
@@wanseanshariff6841 she had a list..get a job and contribute because i wasnt working for a year...make amends with her mother..stop being over jealous and romance her more as well..and i told her to she needs to work on her anger management..to be honest i havent actually tried any of those things on her list out of pride..and not wanting to be a puppet on a string.
bmp5star it’s time for self care man. Gotta get a job.. maybe try hitting the gym. Good news is she’s telling you what she wants. If she didn’t care she wouldn’t tell you these things. You have a choice. Do the things or loose her buddy.
Okay I'm not a guy I'm in a lesbian relationship, and I am in the same boat.
Hey Correy, I have important question. I have been following you long enough , but still dont understand. You say women are more atracted to men who's feelings are unclear ( so you dont contact her if she needs space to raise attraction for her ). Then you say if man stops making dates with his women she doesnt feel loved and she loses attraction( in your theory she should feel not sure about man's feelings so her attraction should go up , but in reality she feels that her man doesn't care ). So why she doesnt feel this way aswell if you stop contacting when she says she need space if you fucked up courting relationship (you didnt give her much attention and that was the reason for break up), then she must assume you dont even care about her at all and she can drift away in some cases, dont you think? Sorry for my english.
This dude is so so extremely good. I watch his shit so much could almost be myself sitting there xd
Damn... This is a familiar story.
This is great work I believe! I got a question though, how is it that we're not there to complete each other but in another video you say we're suppose to build each other and lift each other up?
Guy 007 thanks my mans that helped a lot
Totally agree!
Yeah I asked what kind of break? Like to help herself or see other people. She said help herself. I did until found out she was dating around. I went took damn car I bought for her. She moved Dallas and the damn covid got same time then end July and wanted break. Saw her dressed to T. End of August and saw stuff on Instagram. So she lied and I researched and found out she cheated 2 years ago and talking in phone with guys But I also cheated of and on thru relationship. Before moved her told her wanted really make it work. Basically haven’t seen her since end of February I was like what kind break dàmn lol.
I understand that setting boundaries about my gf's male friends is needy and insecure, but there's this one that she's gonna start Yoga classes with in a Yoga institute and I don't think it is respectful to me.
Is it going to push her away if I claim that it's not a cool thing to do?
I wouldn't mind her texting or meeting when in groups but this is out of place
Hey Corey I just got out of a 2 year relationship. I’ve been making the same mistakes and she finally had enough and broke up with me. She said we need a break to work on ourselves. We both still care for each other very much. We want to try to be friends and talk while on this “break” that’s not really working for me though. I start texting too much and acting needy. Do you think I should just cut the tie and tell her I don’t want to be friends so I think I need to take a step back and see what happens?
You should take a step back. I know it's hard, but I promise you that it's gonna be worth it.
Its been almost 8 years togrther and now she takes a break to find herself back and become she finds that our love faded. She says its little things that pile up. I know she struggles a lot with herself these past months and she got her first real job of 40h per week and she is exhausted. I do my part in the house but not enough apparently... when Im on my videogames I dont listen to her but I put a moment each day so we could talk. She says a live in a dream world with all my almost impossible dreams. I dont knlw what to do
5:42 Lol, I'd love to see that video. Is it on YT?
ask, what would Trump do? would he be begging and pleading for a woman to stay? ABSOLUTELY NOT
Wow thank u so much....Granted...
Did the coach Just low key roast AdamRuinsEverything?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! That was refreshing. Great roast, seriously... Ouchhhhhhh....#AlphaMaleDomination
There is the beach that you have been talking about :)
LMFAO @ 6:45
COACH! can you make a video on job interviews? Like this so he sees it
santi ericson.... search "how to get any job" coach corey wayne. He has a few vids on this topic
So should you do no contact after a break? It's been a week since the "break" and she's messaged me during no contact
You should find a better gf
is he still doing these video? I’m needing some help in my relationship.
Hey Corey! My girlfriend broke up with me the day she got back from vacation without having seen me for a week since she had been gone. We were txting and it seemed like everything was fine up until I went to go play basketball and she texted me saying "we need to talk." She ended up breaking up with me over FaceTime saying she had lost feelings for me, and wasn't ready for a serious relationship and she wanted to be free. She wanted to stay friends but I told her it's either we r intimate or nothing else. I begged and pleaded for a few days, and yesterday was the first time we haven't talked in two months. She also said she broke up with me because she doesn't know what she wants. She obviously needs some space and time to figure things out, so I'm gonna start the no contact period. Any advice?
Go meet other women.
Dylan Marshall fuck her she lost out she didn't care about how you felt she only cared about herself. Dont be her friend go no contact and wait im telling you. It always works put your footdown not saying she found somebody else but 90% of the time it is if you guys had good chemistry and all of a sudden she needs space its bs. Leave with some dignity go be single meet girls leave the door open for her to come back. move on if she never comes back thats good too but dont be a doormat be a man
Dylan Marshall start dating other girls. She is dating other guys..I Fooking guarantee it.
The main thing Corey gets wrong is that it's your fault if it goes bad because you didn't read his dumbass book 15 times lol. Some women who need attention will get it from multiple guys as long as they can get away with it. I still love you Corey Wayne. You don't let women get away with lies
Strong Men blame themselves, weak men blame others. You attracted her and you chose to get involved with her. It’s your fault. Man up.
@@CoachCoreyWayne I don't take responsibility for the actions of others. I'm a behavior analyst and I don't blame myself when a child tantrums. I simply teach the skills he needs to handle and prevent future tantrums. Same with women. I simply respond in a way that is fair to myself which is what you teach anyway and that is attractive. Some women need to learn their lesson and it's not your fault. They will always try to pretend it's your fault when a lot of times they just need to grow up themselves.
@@CoachCoreyWayne sorry for talking smack though Mr. Wayne. I do appreciate your wisdom.
Corey is quiet of a character 😉
wish i have seen this video 6 months ago...
Thank u so much
I understand what u are saying asking her to meet u but what if she has lied and insulted and share ur personal details with another guy
could u recommend any alpha-male movies to watch?? like something to look upto?
Bond , Peacky Blinders
'would be rich" lol
nice green screen coach ;)
I don’t laugh a lot. But around 6:40 I almost hurt myself laughing so hard.
He does that all the time and it cracks me up xD
My ex gf still haven't contacted me after 2 months of no contact while I'm visiting her country, is all hope lost of her coming back?
i dont understand what you mean. Look at her actions man. She hasn't called you back. DO NOT CHASE THAT BITCH. Do your own thing man. Learn what makes you happy and pursue that. You need to see things as they are. Stop killing your self man. Keep in mind man everybody on this post has been where you are now. Pick yourself up bro, brush yourself off. Start working on yourself to make yourself a 3% man.Your life is not over man. You can do this, bro.
Bernard Harris Thank you for taking the time to reply. We've been a long distance couple and arranged to visit her in August when the relationship was going well and after it went sideways she dumped me and said she wouldn't even be in her country when I arrive. It's been 4 months after the breakup and 2 months of no contact. I'm forced to stay in a trip alone while she goes and enjoys herself with friends. It's hard and I'm still hurt how can someone I loved this much be such a bitch to me and break all the promises? I'm a lot better now but since the trip date is getting closer it's messing with my head man.
No one is irreplaceable. Grief and move on. It is tough but you have to go thru it. It took me 9 months to heal when my ex gf broke up with me . We were together for nearly 3 years. The first 3 months were brutal . Do not suppress the pain. Cry it out. I bawled like a baby in private . No contact. You have to go thru the pain without letting it crush you. Hit the gym and eat healthy . Allow some alone time to feel the pain daily then keep yourself meaningfully occupied.
hey man thanks again. I totally agree with you. She used to tell me this bullshit to talk about my feelings as well. She only cares about herself. Its hard to accept the fact that women don't give a fuck what you feel unless they feel the same, but its the sad reality. We've been brainwashed by the media that women care about what you feel and go the extra mile. She used to give me some bullshit promises that she'll be there at the airport no matter what happens, but guess what? She wasn't there. Promises don't mean shit to women once they lose their feelings toward you. It doesn't matter if you crash and burn. It's a very fucked up thing. I've been suffering from the breakup for 6 months.I arrived 2 days ago at her city and she didn't show up nor have the decency to text or call me. It's a tough time. She broke up with me because she "needs to focus on and love herself" which was total bullshit obviously. The real reason was because I became weak and needy. I think she has forgotten that I existed and that she's gone once and for all.
Did she contact you during no contact period?
I been following the techniques after divorcing my wife...now I'm having trouble getting rid of the girls....How do you get rid of a girl when they constantly stalk you and blow up your phone..lol...true story
Corey Wayne vs Adam Conover XD