Your Grandpa Was A *apist
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- Опубліковано 19 вер 2024
- Welcome to The Onyx Report's Daily Black Masculinist News, where we Black Male Justice Advocates uplift Black men and boys using critical analysis in today's video, "Your Grandpa Was A *apist."
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My father was born 1938 in North Carolina. His mother died during his birthing procedure and his father blamed him for her death and he beat my father unmercifully. When my father turned 15, his father was giving him a beating and my father actually fought back. He gathered up all of his clothes and headed to the door. His father asked him, “Where are you going?”, my father answered him by saying “I don’t know, but anywhere is better than this!” My father walked for North Carolina to New York. He worked where he could fine work, and he eventually found himself in Washington DC. My dad got a federal government job, put my sister and myself through Catholic school and college. He died at the age of 63. I will never forget him, he was an unsung hero.
Bless your Father... I'm thankful for him... He was an outstanding Man...
@@busyrand Thank you.
TLDR
Respect to a great man!
@@DrTHasanJohnson Thank you.
Forgive me - as I am suffering from social media sistahood narratives. Far too many of them have a bad habit of stretching the truth or flat out lying. Also, notice how it's always young women speaking on things they never experienced or was around as witnesses.
Iv noticed most ppl on the internet what 'social credit' so they wanna play victim so they get sympathy
As a married man I can confidently say, if my wife and I were to part for any reason, I’m riding it out single afterwards.
💯 dawg
Same bro. I’m one and done, no matter how it ends
Im with you bro! I've already decided if i ever became single again, im going to enjoy the hookup culture here and just passport bro it up until i cant anymore!
I know a mean ornery grandmother like this. One day I found out why when she told me the love of her life had died. She pined for this man for 50+ years, drove across 4 states once a month to visit him in the nursing home after a stroke left him incapacitated. I expressed my condolences and said it must be hard to lose your partner and she said ‘oh no, he’s still at home. I’m talking about the man I truly love.’ 😐
Damn. 🤦🏾♂️
Keisha was philandering, too, back in the day. They never talk about that part.
Story as old as time. Most likely he was why te dude who ain’t give a damn about her existence and kept her as a bust down for 50+years. Every era the same nothing new under the Sun😂🤣😂
She had one conversation & came to an overall conclusion is wild!
👍😁👍In a country filled with millions of Black Women with their own story she literally to the reciprocal and turned it into a complete, decade long, peer reviewed research study. She's the most precious thing since Waterboy's Momma😂😂😂
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Because of the recklessness of their mouths, for the last 50+ years, the bad karma they're experiencing nationwide WILL get worse! Regardless of the things I've been through, you want some SERIOUS truth? Develop a bond with a Systah that's into women! She'll tell you some things that are downright shocking!
I was thinking the same. Her family was dysfunctional, so of course, everyone else's was as well.
That's how they think. Just wild.
@@MitchMitch77-77Or be in the friend zone. They will be very open and honest with you. I've learned a lot about female nature just from my friend zone experiences.
They saw Antoine Fisher but did not SEE Antoine Fisher
Most can't 'see' beyond the end of their hand...
Fantastic film and performances. Opened my eyes to the Degeneracy of adult women of all races (even tho the focus was on BW) toward children on a regular basis
When I talked to elders, I never heard the "Color Purple" narrative at all. Many married at a young age and really fell head over heels in love. I really don't believe that this female had any conversations with elders. Her info probably came from so college feminist lecture.
Yep
Bingo!!🎉🎉🎉
This rhetoric is insanely dangerous. No stats, false data, just a message that uses an anecdotal reference that plays on the emotional heartstrings of willful females that actively buy in to this as a real lived experience even though they never actually experienced it themselves.
And verbatim, her message literally followed the storyline of The Color Purple 🤦🏾♂️
What a coincidence!
@@professorcarltonejones precisely. Whenever they're challenged to provide any empirical evidence of their claims, they deploy the "my truth" bullsh1t.
@@professorcarltonejones🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
The world has gotten tried of earning the mouth of a bw, you can see it everywhere and the whole follow the passport bros crap.They can't even do that correctly because they're not wanted in those countries , the BLM scandal and brick lady, sure as shit didn't do them any favors.
Time to lay the "community" to rest
🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 God help us. Now we understand why smart, talented brothers are leaving by the boat load. Passport brothers take the wheel 🙏🏽
Notice how they keep conflating any particular dependency, being held responsible, or living up to their end of the bargain whenever they find it inconvenient to do so as "slavery". Because being an adult to them is somehow the same thing as being human chattel.
So many do that because they are just parroting and not thinking.
It's like when you meet a leftist that says "money is so evil we should get rid of it and go back to a bartering system." Then you ask what galena if you don't want to trade between 20 people to get one item. "OH we just need an intermediary of exchange to avoid that". Great so you want to invent a credit system to keep track like money.
My late father was born in 1919. He dropped out of school in the 4th grade to farm and support the family.
Women who resented the consequences of their actions after they made bad decisions.
"I was young and stupid."
Grew up in and still live in the Caribbean. I’m widely traveled globally and have been to multiple places in the U.S. and spend a significant amount of time regularly on the East coast of the U.S. I knew both my maternal and paternal grandparents, two of my maternal great grand mothers. None of what she says happened in my history. Should I then take my history as the broad rubric for everyone else? Given her approach. The absolute idiocy that so many of these misandrist continue to display. And saying men now don’t bathe?! Let’s not go down that road please where I can cite Freddy Kruger fingernails, weaves and BBL’s from a hygienic perspective. I’m sending lots of projection with this one! They need to introduce something similar to a driving test before persons should be allowed to use the internet! Geez!
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Facts. My boy growing up when about 16 impregnated a 28 year old or so lady. And meh...crickets. Becasue he was fine and looked grown. And was Black. He couldn't legally consent to sex...hmph
DAMN. How’re things now?
Obviously, these lovely ladies never heard of the film, "Anyone Fisher."
Antoine Fisher@@southpaw2k1
@@southpaw2k1 I was just watching it again the other day, notice how that movie is NEVER talked about!
I always am amazed by things like this. How about your grandmother was so mean because she was abusive?
The ability to infantilize the behavior of grown women in juxtaposition to males of any age or class status really is the greatest victory of feminism. They perfected patronage by attaching it to policy.
I didn't know my maternal grandfather's name growing up, and only knew my maternal grandmother. It was only in adulthood that I learned that my grandfather was a veteran, an entrepreneur, and a community leader. Never met the man, nor do I remember any pictures. I remember my grandmother, however, and while to me she seemed this mythical matronly figure, hearing my mother tell me about the nightmare she was put through by that woman and her husband, the man she married after my grandfather passed, infuriated me.
If I ever meet that woman in the afterlife...
Women mature faster than men. Isn't that what's pushed?
The misandrists remain very bold. The wedge gets driven deeper by fallacious and cherry-picked history. It is upsetting that this is where we are at in time. This type of woman has no endgame other than anarchy, no accountability, and enduring disrespect towards men.
She told on herself when she said, “we thought our moms were just b--s.” She does not even have a nuanced or graceful view of Black mothers. It is all chaos and no redemption or context. Only an agenda.
As an almost 50 yr old man, who once lived with his GREAT grandparents for a decade, I can tell you that their relationship was nothing like she described. They were 3 years apart (19yrsold and 16) when they married and my great grandfather had hardly any say so in anything household related. My great grandmother ran that man, and pretty much ordered him around. That man barely even spoke, sometimes I would forget he was in the room.
For this woman to paint a picture that this was the typical dynamics back then is just a way to spread anti Black male misandry. She provides context that she assigns to every Black relationship back then w/o any proof to back it up.
Edit: I want to add that my great grandmother was a VERY abusive person. I walked on eggshells all the time thinking I would get a "whupping" anytime she was in a bad mood. This woman pulled me out of a bathroom naked (for taking too long washing up) put half of her foot on me pending me down, and beating me with a leather belt, hitting my private parts, face and all.
One of the few times my great grandfather actually exerted himself was to intervene to get her off of me. I dont know if I understood the concept of death back when I was 4 years old, but I can say I have never experienced the terror in my heart that I felt that day, and I grew up in one of the worse hoods on the southside of Chicago lol.
I hear you. Two of my grandfathers were similar to that.
Y'all still dealing with the lovely ladies who despises you the most?!
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Very important for men to understand the narrative that is being pushed by feminists today. Make no mistake about this as well, there are men who were abused by their mothers and still carry the trauma of that violation as adults.
Powerful piece Doc... I'm thankful we've established this space to push back. The disparaging discourse has not wavered. We'd be in an unlivable position if we hadn't armed ourselves by forwarding our own narratives.
Social media gives so many unintelligent people voices.
There will be a new generation of women saying the same about Tyler Perry movies in 15 years. Reduce, reuse, recycle ♻️
@8:00 boom! Ww in America alone don't have these issues with us. They eveh push back against that narrative.
I only reason I know my great grandfather's name is because is the same as mine, I've never seen a picture of him though.
Damn!
Best part is there's literal interviews from the 70s of young black women saying "You know women, if we can get it, we gonna get it. "
Hmm. Such a victim.
If it’s not yet obvious that Black Women have been WEAPONIZED to be the Ground Assault by this system then keep what you’re doing. If you see it then rise above this POWERLESS shadow of lies and get better, be better, and teach the young Black Boys to be More Than Conquerors!!!! Teach The Babies!
I could write a whole paragraph about the 28min mark..the women are nicer, friendlier, not hostile and don't high five each other for being rude. I don't infringe on others decisions. Whether pay for play or long term relationships...I just hope all brothas can experience a nice woman who seeks to please them. That sounds miniscule. Yet most of us who travel abroad, meet at some bar and at some point and strike up random convos and the one bus that is always running is...she is sweet. How odd that they make fun of us and ridicule us and the women of the night (supposedly the bottom barrel) treat us with more pleasure than supposedly normal humans who have it all. And I'm convinced, it confounds them to see men treated normally, nice or genuine by overseas females It simply makes a man feel good. Get it how you get it gents!
I’m going to tell you something about that. When I was a kid, my mom would always question me and warn me about certain women around town ( small town USA). I didn’t understand why is she telling me to stay away from these grown women, some of which were the mom’s of other kids I knew. Well as I got a bit older I found out. They would drink and feel you up, say stuff that you just weren’t ready for. I mean we were just learning how to talk to girls we liked, so we weren’t prepared for those words. Most of my friends had a similar experience, some of us were fully sexualized to be honest. When you are 12 and 13 years old and a women that’s 30 something does something to you, it doesn’t feel as good as guys think. Not in the moment, not with someone that much older. If she was like 5 years older maybe you would feel special but these were mom’s and to us they were old ladies.
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Catching you LIVE again!
I guess by her metric, we can legitimize anecdotal information. All I can think about is my Great Aunt that was born in 1927 (RIP). A lifelong resident of Georgia, she Graduated Spelman with a double science major in the late 40's. She never worked and happily married a Rail Porter. They had several children and never divorced. Her sister, my Grandmother left Atlanta for California at a young age, married and had 8 Children. My Grandfather followed my Grandmother to church. After leaving the Navy he graduated seminary and was a Preacher the rest of his life. My Father (RIP) and all of my Uncles married and have been Deacons, all of their wives are college grads and or successful entrepreneurs😂😂😂😂😂. #colorthat
But now, thanks to her, they were all just rapists. 🤷🏾♂️
Ahhhhh...the BOOK she is writing. Just what we need. Another Michelle Wallace/Alice Walker/Patrice Cullins GRIFT. 🙄😠
Very intelligent, very thorough analysis and commentary. A much needed video. Thank you Dr. Johnson.
Dr Johnson thank you for sharing this story, we have all at some point witnessed hostility shown toward the patriarchy of the families
She came to that conclusion after one conversation, then superimposed that experience on every black man during that time period. Laziest narrative yet.
They always try to blanket these talking points across the board with this catastrophizing bs.
So because they talked to “someone” who had a bad experience it’s now ALL WOMEN who went through this because some random older blk woman had a bad experience
Thinking about how she started her “assessment” of the widows lack of tears as evidence of her feelings about her husbands passing is that people process death differently. I would likely not be overwhelmed with emotions if my wife passed. Not due to lack of love, but due to my perspective on death. It’s just a transition from one life to another.
What i’m trippin’ on is how today’s modern woman, Black women in particular who blame today’s modern man for something fictional between her grandmother and her choices of simps. And they wonder why men look at them with a jaundice eye.
There's a flaw/tendency in a lot of the ideologies/movements that came out in the 60's/70's that never learned how to combine two lessons:
1. That to achieve liberation, one has to achieve power (especially in the realm of politics)
2. Without self-checking or a system of check and balances, one could easily be corrupted either by achieving power or pursuing it.
I think #2 was largely ignored by many of those movements, and if you analyze them you see many of the ones that fell apart, #2 played a large role, because the practitioners thought it was only the system they were fighting against was capable of being corrupted by power. Dare I say, you saw evidence of this even in the Black Power Movement, but that's a different conversation. All that said, I don't think any of the movements got more corrupted by power, than the Feminist Movement, and more specifically, the Black Feminist Movement.
I mean, most of the movements that came out of time, needed to engage in demagoguery/propaganda to counter the propaganda of the system, so I fully understand that, but it seems as progress was made and they achieved more and more power, they began to believe their own propaganda was true, and that explains goofy videos like this. The more success that's made, the more self-delusion that is required to make oneself more impassioned about the movement and its need for existence. So as the patriarchy is weaker, in this example, the more people like the lady in the video have to create even more egregious myths of the men of the past, to justify the need for the ideology today.
She a trip. There are entire series online of waxers and other people who provide intimate services to women who are coming out and exposing them for not wiping. These "women" are despicable SMH
the mfg DEPTHS THEY WILL GO
.....please have a seat keisha
Isn’t she talking about how white me use to treat 👱🏿♀️👱🏿♀️👱🏿♀️👱🏿♀️
Ike Turner was SA'ed
This is ridiculous. My grandmother was actually older than my grandfather. He was 18, she was 21, and already had one child. They had 5 kids plus one, and even co parented my uncle who was the oldest. This is nonsense.
this is deep my Grandtaher is from savannah Georgia and I discovered my 8 aunts was potentially touched by this man he was a pastor and for sure he did w my cousin she had trauma from that and then later on she became a lesbian by that incident - family trauma is real do not let these small instances fly over your head.. these things happen
I agree that family trauma does happen; however, did ALL black women from that time period experience that same family trauma?
@@eliblue8909 no.
Peace peace
Great video. New to the channel. We are past the point of conversation with our women. No longer can they be trusted. We need to protect the women that haven’t given in to this feminist ideology. For the rest of our man, we need to get our passports and go abroad. Take it from me. You don’t need a lot of money. I’m happily married one year to my Filipina. We have a home in the Philippines. Even though I make me 40,000 a year. She loves me as I am a millionaire. She is a college graduate in the medical field. She is a widow and only have been with her late husband and now me. If I can do it, anybody can. by the way, I’m 50 years old. It’s never too late.
Goddamn! Congrats to you!
Just date out. The ish ain't worth it!!
It’s oppressed becoming the oppressor
Women who’ve been harmed (or their loved ones) struggle to see men as victims
Brotha.
My Brotha Dr. T. Hasan Johnson…
You Are The ONLY Brotha, Along With Another Brotha SWP, That Despite How The World Sees Us Brothas, Keeps My Head Cool.
So Many Times I’ve Wanted To Just Crash Out, Unleash My Rage, However Knowing Who We Are As Black Men, And How We Are Treated, Shows Me We Are A Special Breed of Men.
No Way We Sustain So Much Hatred, Envy, And Misandry, And NOT Be Some Kind of Special At The End of The Day.
Something About Us, Is So Damn Incredible, That Even Our Own So Called Women Hate Us, Without Just Cause.
Keep On Educating Us Brotha.
YOU Are An Incredible Man Brotha.
Little Brotha’s Got Him An Awesome Father, Don’t You Ever Forget It.
Shalom.
I’m honored, fam… 🙏🏿
A broad with a mouth will say anything
Our history by way of the color Purple. The conservatives talk about CRT ( the lost cause 2.0 )...watch this start to get more and more air time...with ALOT of shadow financing
hit the like button on your way in.
Just watch the Kendra G show. The women on there are awful. They make bad choices, that's why their so angry. Their never ever accountable.
By her going into detail and talking on and on, I'm convinced that this is her own sexual fantasies that she's talking about.
This color purple stuff
Nope. My grandmother cheated on her husband woth my grandfather and passed my mother off as her husbands child. My mother didnt learn the truth until she was 30 years old and met my grandfather one day. He drove all the way down from north carolina to meet her for the first time. Dont let these women make you think that just because it was grandma that they didnt do dirt even back then. And my grandmother was the sweetest woman to me and my sister. To the whole family.
Again pushing the Black boogeyman myth!
Talking to older women from that time period, they didn't like the movie, the color purple, because it wasn't the truth on the scale these women claimed, especially when talking to my grandmother and my great aunts, they said that narrative was some bs
What’s the white people version of the color purple?
I would say Steel Magnolias.
Brokeback Mountain.
@@DiverPilot😂😂
Lifetime
Subbed
A Raisin in the Son comes to mind.
This is literally the movie The Color Purple. A work of fiction. In what universe did the black man have it easy in America. We are literally hated by everyone, including our own woman.
Do these women think love is a recent invention? That those men didn't and couldn't love their wives?
Doesn't she realize white and Asian and other women had marriages VERY similar to those she's dissecting, yet their women don't have a reputation in the world for being mean?
TikTok teachers with no accreditation. Who knew?
So, did she consider the men who served in wars and thus were able to lift their families out of poverty?
Do they really think blk men had a it like that? Like we wouldn't go to jail?
There are 7 days in a week and 24 hours in a day. Is she going to speak on who teaches this to the young girls she is so concerned about?
This woman? That's a bunch of bull
I've seen this chick pop up from time to time and she is a problem
Never😡😡😡😡
Could someone tell me did the elder woman do anything but give visual reactions? 😅
Just stop messing with all this broken BW. There problem solved.
This is getting outta control. Anything to SIGN language a brother craftily using the words “probably” and “maybe” as tools of fantasy
Use what you got to get what you want. Is she going to speak on who teaches this evil to minor girls?
Who hates half their DNA also
My grandfather was respected by everyone including white people. My grandma was heartbroken when he died
Sometimes you just have to pick the sense out of something obviously it is not all of our black people but it did happen.
That is better to addressWhy are we always trying to play the blame game.
The people who are watching us are just taking advantage of our confusion and disorganisation
It's all Jermaine fault
She's not telling the truth about this movie the women made bad choice's About the Sug Avery ahe left home she's the prodigal daughter
Great Grandma Die” Grandpa Remarried Stepmother Was Younger??? Or Both Parents Die ? Children Had To Rise Each Other???? Let Foundational Indigenous Aboriginal Copper Tone Indigos American 🇺🇸 Freedman’s Ancestors Rest In Heavenly Peace???? They Had It Hard Back Then??? Most Foundational Indigenous Aboriginal Copper Tone Indigos Man Had Respect For Wife , and Family????.
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What is this BS she's talking about?
My grandfather was 27 when grandma was 15. You know the situation. He graped my aunts too.
That’s all there is to the story huh?
Dude I thought only white men did that shit 😢😢😢. Dam shame
@DrTHasanJohnson What more do you want to know?
What’s his story?
@DrTHasanJohnson He was a preacher and was from a well to do black family. He was a freemason as most preachers were at that time. He was well connected. He was 6' 4". A true alpha male. My mother never told me anything bad about my grandfather. It was only that his brother stole his inheritance from him and his other siblings. I think that he was waiting on his inheritance to marry. He married when he was almost thirty, which was unheard of in the thirties and fortys. All my aunts and uncles grew up in poverty because of it. He never pulled the family out of poverty. He spent his life working very hard. I think it really did something to him mentally.
I only found out after my grandmother passed away from the eldest aunt. My grandfather passed away forty years before my grandmother. It was a burden to her all that time. I suspect he didn't do anything to my mother or the youngest, but the elder daughters may not have been so fortunate. I overheard them talking. I'm not sure it was Grandpa, but he is the most likely person. I can only say one daughter for certain. She was the one that told me plainly.
We are already hearing the aligned stories. Just because it was the cultures at the time means nothing. Hence the evolution of women who no longer do this at such a young age. At least allow the women to become the age to mentally develop
What she was describing wasn't or isn't a common occurrence or practice
Tell that to BW. When I lived in Philly, I remember female cousins who were 15 acting grown wouldn't talk to guys their own age. They were looking for guys already out of HS...
The truth is bitter but true. Black men, at least those of us who truly know, need new women and we need to focus on sharing information on how to reliably connect with those new women (obviously from abroad).