silent confidence (how to be magnetic)

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  • Опубліковано 5 чер 2024
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    Background 0:00
    Principle 1 2:53
    Principle 2 4:30
    Principle 3 5:35
    Principle 4 7:43
    Don’t need to be perfect 8:39
    Actionable steps 9:12

КОМЕНТАРІ • 156

  • @isaacnewt8771
    @isaacnewt8771 5 місяців тому +200

    💯! It’s not about looksmaxxing, or trying to be or look a certain way to stand out, but rather a confident, natural embodiment of the self that doesn’t give a fuck what anyone thinks.

    • @pedrocanales-nh7me
      @pedrocanales-nh7me 5 місяців тому +4

      No its literally all about physical attraction and the people’s requirements in what they like in a person. This video is bullshit lol

    • @bananaboiii3960
      @bananaboiii3960 5 місяців тому +3

      @@pedrocanales-nh7me i think its 60/40
      60% looks and 40% personal traits

    • @ar_no_
      @ar_no_ 5 місяців тому +3

      ​@@pedrocanales-nh7me Not if the goal is being magnetic. For being attractive, maybe. Not entirely but perhaps mostly idk

    • @JigglyBags
      @JigglyBags 5 місяців тому

      have you ever seen an ugly person that is more magnetic than an attractive person? @@ar_no_

    • @sleepystar8733
      @sleepystar8733 5 місяців тому

      ​@@pedrocanales-nh7meif someone is physically attractive and not confident within themselves, they're just gonna look fucking lame and boring sorry

  • @Windyflower6
    @Windyflower6 5 місяців тому +153

    1. Focused on internal life, own opinion and not other people
    2. Required in the right moment. Speak when needed.
    3. It's ok to not be perfect, to have a messy side.
    4. Don't be shy. Being focused on your internal world doesnt mean you're shy.
    5. You don't need to be perfect, be focused on yourse'f and be comfortable with yourself.
    Actions :
    Learn to be comfortable with yourself and don't isolate yourself.

    • @DiegoTaylor-Uzumaki
      @DiegoTaylor-Uzumaki 4 місяці тому

      I think 1 and 4 are the most important.

    • @danethenice
      @danethenice 3 місяці тому +2

      "learn to be comfortable with yourself" is not an action. It's not something you just do. It's a process.
      Reflecting on your thoughts and emotions is an action. Going for a walk in the morning is an action. Holding eye contact when you're talking to someone is an action. These things are actionable and can be part of the process of becoming more comfortable with yourself.
      Sorry for sounding so pedantic btw haha. I'm just trying to make things more clear.

  • @annaspeaks373
    @annaspeaks373 5 місяців тому +34

    Confidence is always silent you don’t need to show that, people just feel it.

  • @user-cl3ej5mi7k
    @user-cl3ej5mi7k 5 місяців тому +8

    I guess its why people always wonder who i am. I just be myself i don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks

  • @jaron3048
    @jaron3048 5 місяців тому +7

    wtfff thts crazy we have the same experience. I always considered myself outgoing & can be friends w anyone i want but in my life i’ve met 3 ppl tht jus made me feel so drawn to them it was so weird like i liked being in there presence & they made everything fun & ppl always wanted to be around them’ i vowed to myself tht i would work on myself to give ppl the same experience they gave me & funny enough after a while these same principles plus others i learned from them made me attract them into my life & 2 of them are my best friends they’re like the brothers i never had & the other is my gf now lol, crazy how life works

  • @D2222
    @D2222 5 місяців тому +29

    The inner world is more observation then continuous flow of thoughts. You view the world, your surroundings in the moment. Also positive attitude contributes to this too. Most people don’t know everyone lives in their own reality. Everyone has their own version of you in their head, viewed by their own unique perspective. Who cares what version of you they have in their head, just know who you are and other opinions won’t matter.

  • @nodistortions
    @nodistortions 5 місяців тому +12

    They are unattached people. They don't need anything.

  • @mosevondermoos6891
    @mosevondermoos6891 5 місяців тому +8

    You probably treat yourself like you treat the audience right now.
    Thats a beautiful relationship, that did also always center me again.
    Its not that there is something to fix, this is how communication should be at default.

  • @manycalled6748
    @manycalled6748 5 місяців тому +3

    You’re very eloquent

  • @weniserwenx933
    @weniserwenx933 Місяць тому

    I am fascinated by your energy and by how you are. Beautiful being.

  • @purrsolus
    @purrsolus 3 місяці тому

    Accept, love, and be yourself unapologetically. Everything else will follow as a result of those things.

  • @Subieej20
    @Subieej20 5 місяців тому +36

    Listening to you I can quite literally feel the aura you are describing, your soul is so pure and peaceful 👍 it's amazing once you open up spiritually you can sense those feelings much easier.

  • @TheAwillz
    @TheAwillz 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this video.
    Your articulate and warm nature is incredibly enjoyable.
    The vibe is just right.

  • @Someone-pt5nc
    @Someone-pt5nc 5 місяців тому +13

    As one of the people who has that magnetic aura it's nice to hear an outside opinion and yeah it is all based on spirituality discipline knowing yourself and submitting to God and no human..... I also think semen retention helped alot

    • @DrewJordan.
      @DrewJordan. 5 місяців тому +2

      Big on the last part

    • @Someone-pt5nc
      @Someone-pt5nc 5 місяців тому

      @@DrewJordan. 21 weeks in on this current run... powerful!

  • @aaronbush5869
    @aaronbush5869 5 місяців тому +26

    much reverence. your angle is needed. the music goes so well with your style

  • @iamotion0
    @iamotion0 5 місяців тому +16

    💯percent agree you need to be alone in order to find your TRUE self as we all put up masks whether subconsciously or consciously everyday we step foot outside into the world. Love your authenticity, charm, and perspective you really captured your natural element in the video and that natural style really makes your ideas relatable and I appreciate that given the video material and enjoyed getting a piece of your mind. Keep it goin🤟🏾📈see a lot of potential not just for your channel to take off but for you to actual make meaningful impact on people’s lives which is a truly special gift you possess❤️‍🔥

  • @swoop2386
    @swoop2386 5 місяців тому +3

    a lot of you kinda miss the point though, its not about being a certain way, its about being YOUR true and authentic Self. the reason there are people with this aura which youre talking about is because they are being themselves. when you try to be like AnyOne else youre giving up your own true self. and im not talking about following certain ideals and morals as the people you look up to, im talking about trying to literally behave like them, dont do that. start BEING YOUR-SELF and the right people will naturally come into your life. ive been in this spot before so i understand. and BTW when you be yourself your naturally going to seem "off" to some people and going to all so seem "ON" to other people

  • @Conartist666
    @Conartist666 3 місяці тому

    Something that helped me kinda figure out my own internal world was conciously looking at the things i like the most.
    Figuring out which attributes make them my favourite things and going from there.
    Why do i like my favourite long Cargo parts? Well they carry the most stuff, are very comfortable and look pretty nice.
    I don't need to carry a bag. They are very efficient and practical in their task.
    Why do i love my favourite mug? Well, it fits more liquid then any other, it's nice to hold and has an amazing yet simple shape.
    ...and that's the same three points as with the pants: efficiency, practicality, design
    It's very fun to find those patterns in my own decisionmaking and it helps beimg more confident, because i now know what/why i like certain stuff.

  • @kaeruss
    @kaeruss 5 місяців тому

    ty! i appreciate your advice ♡

  • @sicknorenson
    @sicknorenson 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for making this! The world needs more people who think like you- striving to be one of them 🙌

  • @tmncarturejulio8238
    @tmncarturejulio8238 5 місяців тому +1

    I'm from Brasil and I recognized that what you said is the most true thing like be focused on your own internal world just amazing the power of this

  • @ultra1635
    @ultra1635 5 місяців тому +4

    All these things are becoming natural for me but it didn't start until I realized that I'm the creator of my thoughts and feelings and that I need nothing or no one outside of myself. I've been in a isolation period this last month.

    • @swoop2386
      @swoop2386 5 місяців тому +3

      you might be the creator of your thoughts and feelings but always remember that YOU are NOT your thoughts and feelings, youre that which is aware of them

    • @ultra1635
      @ultra1635 4 місяці тому +2

      @@swoop2386 of course I’m the awareness of being (I Am)

  • @icemain490
    @icemain490 5 місяців тому

    I love your point of view 💯

  • @heloisa1137
    @heloisa1137 5 місяців тому

    Yesss, these principals are real game changer 🙌 ❤

  • @god_dess888
    @god_dess888 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you..I'm born again from this video. It helped me a lot💜

  • @1221ghxst
    @1221ghxst 5 місяців тому +8

    This is really valuable information! Great job❤️

  • @singingnikkacam
    @singingnikkacam 4 місяці тому

    This was eye opening even had a little ego death even some childhood memories and people appeared! Thanks❤

  • @pratikpatil6342
    @pratikpatil6342 5 місяців тому +1

    Beautifully explained !

  • @thehondrascrew4864
    @thehondrascrew4864 5 місяців тому +4

    This video was soo insightful I’ve been coming to terms from what I desire from myself as well as other people ❤️🔥🔥👏🏻

  • @JamFlava1
    @JamFlava1 5 місяців тому +2

    Dressing nice can attract, people generally. It can make you have this magnetic aura, charisma that is appealing to the people…If I dress nice for example, like a bad boy black jacket with chains, shoes with chains etc and haircut, I get a lot of gaze, stare from people. Woman or men….It’s insane and uncomfortable when I walk in the store, not joking….So nice wearing clothes helps a lot to attract people. Without those clothes I rarely get stared, few maybe don’t know. Those things It boost your confidence more. Try this method, it helps for the people who have less confidence. Thanks for the video.

  • @ysham1889
    @ysham1889 4 місяці тому +1

    I admire your observational skills. I think all these principles ring true to becoming a magnetic person. Know that everyone has their own path and you have yours, stay focused but be kind and open-hearted to others walking on their own paths as well. All love to you, Bee ❤

  • @siorno
    @siorno 5 місяців тому +3

    Will be interesting to see your channel blow up over the coming year. Nice video

  • @Thewindyfan
    @Thewindyfan 5 місяців тому

    Glad to have come across your channel, been having similar thoughts and ideas stirring around in my mind 😊

  • @sealluv
    @sealluv 4 місяці тому

    i love your rings and nails!! :)

  • @justyna1863
    @justyna1863 4 місяці тому

    ❤ Your energy 😊

  • @sky.loves.red.official
    @sky.loves.red.official 4 місяці тому

    This is facts. I’ve generated this aura in myself. All 1000% true.

  • @Rtuutd
    @Rtuutd 4 місяці тому +1

    you def have a magnetic aura.

  • @HappyPlace48
    @HappyPlace48 4 місяці тому

    Thank you Lovely….love your voice.

  • @Azari_D
    @Azari_D 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this! It's good to hear your perspective and unique insights.
    This all reminds me of the practices of stoicism; Leading by example and sharing your opinions, ideas and goals with your actions rather than words.
    Everything you went over rings true from my perspective as well.

  • @jlynn8602
    @jlynn8602 5 місяців тому +1

    Perfectly~Imperfect

  • @sidthekid3792
    @sidthekid3792 5 місяців тому +10

    So grateful I stumbled upon this very enlightening video! Girl you’re so helpful❤️

  • @saah9
    @saah9 5 місяців тому

    Amazing video Love the Message !

  • @YRMBear
    @YRMBear 5 місяців тому

    crazy how through multiple channels i see this in my recommendeds

  • @cz1624
    @cz1624 3 місяці тому

    While i find this is all interesting and very motivational, i also think we should be careful with trying to analyze and recreate the external qualities of “confident” people, especially for the goal of attracting more people or being seen as confident. I think the important takeaways from this video are the calls to attaining a lazer focus on your internal world, learning to live according to your own beliefs and values, not feeling the need to stand out but also not feeling afraid to stand out

  • @anoushkadwivedi3344
    @anoushkadwivedi3344 5 місяців тому

    I love your energy 🤍

  • @amberpalmer3708
    @amberpalmer3708 5 місяців тому +1

    I really like how you did the background music and waves! Super unique and cool, I think the only thing is it was a little louder than your voice at times. But I love love love it and your creativity!!

  • @ArranKent-pi7zh
    @ArranKent-pi7zh 5 місяців тому

    You got it!!

  • @user-jx6fp3oq1w
    @user-jx6fp3oq1w 5 місяців тому

    I was watching your videos while you dropped this one 🙂

  • @ruyko6300
    @ruyko6300 5 місяців тому

    You have a magnetic smile 😌👌

  • @shawaizalikhan5970
    @shawaizalikhan5970 5 місяців тому +1

    great insightt❤

  • @dhaviddddddd
    @dhaviddddddd 5 місяців тому

    your amazing

  • @mrselfimprovement0
    @mrselfimprovement0 5 місяців тому

    mucha gracias bee, peace n love

  • @malleomusic
    @malleomusic 5 місяців тому

    I love this video

  • @rabiaarif4785
    @rabiaarif4785 5 місяців тому

    hey, stumbled across this amazing video, and happily subscribed!

  • @louiiviable
    @louiiviable 5 місяців тому

    Thanks 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @godindisguise
    @godindisguise 5 місяців тому +1

    Very enlightening. Thank you for your insights ✨🙏🏻✨
    I’m also wondering what is the song you played on the background? It’s heavenly 🕊️

  • @elijah3388
    @elijah3388 4 місяці тому

    "You will stop caring what other people think when you have something more important to care about" -Mark Manson
    Its about clarity of purpose. If you truly know who you are, what you are doing, why you are doing it, and where it's going to take you, then almost nothing will be able to shake your confidence

  • @itsnaniii7778
    @itsnaniii7778 5 місяців тому

    great video, keep up the good work

  • @iamshadman
    @iamshadman 5 місяців тому

    Amazing

  • @sweetblackhottiexo
    @sweetblackhottiexo 5 місяців тому

    The Tribe is on the rise!! 🎉

  • @ElijahX1144
    @ElijahX1144 5 місяців тому +1

    Im very happy I clicked on this video. Ive been feeling lately that I have been making strides towards something very big I want to manifest in my life and i saw this video and i was interested to hear what you had to say because of how Ive been thinking lately. By that background portion i knew that you knew what you were talking about and I was excited to hear if I fit the description you laid out. An by your first principle im not foused in the people around me an i have a lot of self confidence in myself and im not trying tosound egotistical at all but Im honest with the words I say to people because I just dont think about it an what they may or may not think of me because it doesn't hold no weight. Every decision i make in my life i try to use past experiences as a way to help me understand what i should and shouldn't do within big situations in my life. Like making a bunch of real stressful transitions in my situations that gave me the ability to make sure im smart when a situation calls for it. I love to listen to music its like my favorite thing in the whole world i have been doing it for 10 years and I'm only 21 now an when I dealing with anything or anyone i use music as a destresser and i way for me to just relax and get lost within it. I understand that no matter how much music i listen to it has no power over my life but it sure does help😂. I really do love music, to sing it, to enjoy it, to let it speak to me all those an more. But for that second principle I focus a lot about myself and i don't get on social media and form opinions on what i see creators do because theres no point in doing that an i dont necessarily focus on forming opinions about a lot of stuff just because I dont feel like I should care to. I know who I am and I know that I will always be like this and that no one change that so i don't feel the need. Your principle 3 really made me laugh🤦🏾‍♂️😭. I am put together, i take care of my hygiene an i make sure i dont go outside looking or smelling any type of weird for no other reason than i try not to draw attention to myself but you could definitely tell by looking at me or talking to me that i have some stuff im trying to work on and that i am imperfect. Like i am put together and messy🤷🏾‍♂️ . im mad picky when it comes to color strictly i don't really care what brand it is its just has to fit my style really but if those colors are off its just gonna piss me off😭. The Fourth principle i maintain a calm head when i talk to anyone regardless of who they are and for no particular reason of cause it just came naturally with all the experiences ive had talking to people but now in my life I'm jus very collected when i speak to anyone because like i said before i don't need no validation. I love the type of person am an I dont need nobody to tell me anything. i enjoy myself for me and I have interests based on my own opinion an i love that. Even with my imperfects i have interesting things about me to were its not something thats gonna hold me back. I just moved in a new area and i only worked in day an I can just feel how different its gonna be this year and throughout this situation Im in but im glad to have clicked on your video. I saw a attractive girl really know an understand alot about what she was talking about I can just tell so well that you are confident, centered well mentally an emotionally and put together. Swear i aint tryna be weird🤦🏾‍♂️. An I didn't want to just say like a random comment because i really sympathize with everything you talked about. Great video😁👍🏾

    • @Beescornerofyt
      @Beescornerofyt  5 місяців тому +2

      I love reading long comments like these... it makes me happy to know that people are actually really applying the video to themselves and finding value from it. You definitely seem like a person with a good head on your shoulders, and I'm sure you'll manifest whatever you want in life:) I wish you the best.

    • @ElijahX1144
      @ElijahX1144 5 місяців тому +2

      @@Beescornerofyt thank you😀 good luck to you too, your content is also amazing as well I hope you keep up that awesome work an stay blessed.👍🏾

  • @Ej_Almost
    @Ej_Almost 3 місяці тому

    Wise beyond your years

  • @grimmymarigoldsandwendigos47
    @grimmymarigoldsandwendigos47 5 місяців тому

    Good video! claiming my before 1k

  • @itsamberelise853
    @itsamberelise853 5 місяців тому

    Thank you :) 2024 here I come.

  • @Random_14
    @Random_14 5 місяців тому +2

    I was here before this video went viral : )

  • @Theoldmelly
    @Theoldmelly 5 місяців тому

    amazing video and you're beautiful 😁💜

  • @Urine666Deity
    @Urine666Deity 3 місяці тому +1

    1. Be undeniably good looking
    2. Repeat

    • @user-gl5xl9ny7b
      @user-gl5xl9ny7b 3 місяці тому

      right?? like al the points this person pointed out wouldn't work if youre generaly considered ugly/unattractive

  • @568_thomasaikpa6
    @568_thomasaikpa6 5 місяців тому

    u are gorgeous girl

  • @zohn50
    @zohn50 5 місяців тому

    great video

  • @Messagesfromtheuniverse777
    @Messagesfromtheuniverse777 4 місяці тому

    Sometimes people watch , because naturally magnetic people like to listen to other’s opinions too and hear their perspective on self perception

  • @OhLook10bucks10
    @OhLook10bucks10 5 місяців тому

    What a voice

  • @eustathea
    @eustathea 4 місяці тому

    I swear I don't know if it's a coincidence but I watched this yesterday and sort of half-applied the points to myself, and I literally got approached today and I never get approached so I was shocked, and while watching this last night I was imagining myself being approached and didn't think it would actually occur the next day😭

  • @thesimg8349
    @thesimg8349 5 місяців тому +1

    I have this… had it strong as a kid barely talked only with my football buddies and in one on one situations and I also had so many friends and ladies loved me… never understood why because I barely tried for it to be like that..

    • @julienfutbol5780
      @julienfutbol5780 23 дні тому

      could you describe how you were as a kid? I definitely relate to this and I feel as thought it comes from a place or no worries and being content. not sure but would like to hear your input on this

  • @KingofFrauds
    @KingofFrauds 5 місяців тому

    Rad video, thanks

  • @Bryzzilla
    @Bryzzilla 5 місяців тому

    GOOD STUFF HOMIE

  • @LukeSpurgeon.
    @LukeSpurgeon. 5 місяців тому

    💯

  • @circustoonsjokevideos
    @circustoonsjokevideos 4 місяці тому

    There's nothing wrong with focusing on the external world, that's actually where some of the best focus comes from, it comes from both the internal and external world. There's nothing wrong with caring or getting validation from others. To walk up to someone and ask their opinion IS a form of confidence, and confidence (as well as any other way about us) is reciprocal. On top of that, a lot of it, including confidence, is already there. It's just a matter of building upon it, or in other words, you're born with it. A lot of happiness, sadness, confusion, anger, and confidence comes down to action-- and intent. Something as simple as being at chick fil a, and thinking to yourself, "O, I need a napkin," then getting up and getting it. THAT'S a form of confidence. You getting up in the morning, and walking to the kitchen to pick out a cereal, then eating it. THAT'S a form of confidence. :) Point is, you show confidence everyday without knowing it. Just because you're not this cardboard idea of confidence - doesn't mean you're not confident. Hell! Me typing this right now. THIS is action and intent, a form of confidence. Anyways. Have a good day, mmmm-kay! :)

  • @swoop2386
    @swoop2386 5 місяців тому

    i think you can replace the being alone part with just meditating everyday

  • @Filmcamerasofficial
    @Filmcamerasofficial 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤

  • @kidmisterE.
    @kidmisterE. 4 місяці тому

    🖤🖤🖤

  • @ordinarybedroom
    @ordinarybedroom 3 місяці тому

    arigathanks

  • @hozic9929
    @hozic9929 3 місяці тому

    Amazing video, like holly molly this video is so comfy. I recomend making the music little more quieter tho. Otherwise its lovely

  • @-toxicerror-9427
    @-toxicerror-9427 5 місяців тому +1

    Nice video! idk if someone already said it, but maybe it will be better with the song a bit lower, but other than that, keep going!

  • @golisha5871
    @golisha5871 4 місяці тому

    Cool topic.
    For future videos please turn down the volume. You want to almost turn it all the way down. As a music lover, the sound of your voice was competing with the music.

  • @thetruepath4534
    @thetruepath4534 5 місяців тому

    music plz tell us what is this its sooooo goood

  • @benjaminpirrie6627
    @benjaminpirrie6627 4 місяці тому

    What song is playing in the back? it’s really beautiful

  • @wooback8372
    @wooback8372 5 місяців тому

    We gather at the alter♾

  • @kingslayerx1716
    @kingslayerx1716 3 місяці тому

    subbed at 13k

  • @Windyflower6
    @Windyflower6 5 місяців тому

    Great video, I needed this ! Could you turn down the volume of the background sound next time ?

  • @stonesaucepmo602
    @stonesaucepmo602 5 місяців тому

    You’re pretty asf

  • @nkz8722
    @nkz8722 4 місяці тому

    How to know, if im magnetic. People say I have a presence and I am charismatic but I don’t think I am like that in every situation. I come to think they are just flattering me lol.
    Never thought about "magnetic people" bef or I watch this video, never seen someone like that either, so how do know for sure.

  • @dasshrs
    @dasshrs 4 місяці тому

    I would rephrase a bit of point about being silent.
    If you are truly focused on yourself you will not try to spend time convincing others of your opinion, so you control how to express yourself to others

  • @BaiQla
    @BaiQla 4 місяці тому

    Hello. Name of the music? It soothes my soul

  • @Emmaherbst082
    @Emmaherbst082 4 місяці тому

    What music are you using in the background?

  • @dayajitsinghhanjra9732
    @dayajitsinghhanjra9732 5 місяців тому

    This video is a Poetry!

  • @amethyst6073
    @amethyst6073 5 місяців тому

    Can u make a video on the beliefs such people hold about themselves

    • @Beescornerofyt
      @Beescornerofyt  5 місяців тому +3

      I actually think that’s another very interesting topic! I will!

  • @user-qm5wv2gs4z
    @user-qm5wv2gs4z 3 місяці тому +1

    Please please i need help does anyone know the song in 1:13 please let me know😊

  • @albertorobles6747
    @albertorobles6747 4 місяці тому

    what is the music in the background

  • @KaizenisMajestic22
    @KaizenisMajestic22 5 місяців тому

    What’s the background songs?

  • @Urine666Deity
    @Urine666Deity 3 місяці тому

    1:13 lmfao