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Get Him To Commit Before Sleeping Together (The Dating Vow)
Have you ever heard the saying: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment?
The "Dating VOW" Before Sleeping Together
I ___________________ agree to explore the process of getting to know you with the intent to declare something serious in the next 3 to 6 months.
I ___________________ agree to be monogamous sexual while we have regular sex together
I ___________________ agree to not actively seek to meet/date others while we are in this dating process (include taking down dating profile)
I ___________________ agree to speak up if this isn't working for me vs. pulling back, ghosting or disappearing
I __________________ agree to invest regular time in this process of getting to know you which looks like this ______________
90% of men will bail on this because thousands of women will have sex without any commitment/agreement whatsoever. If all women are banned together (going forward), this will change how men treat/view sex, but in the meantime, if he does agree, you have a better chance of commitment than without it.
No. 1 ) YOU have to be brutally "honest" with ME!! ALWAYS!!
No. 2) WE both have to have or share the same feelings towards each other!!
If NOT, there is NO relationship!!
Period, people!! 🤨
No. 3) YOU can't be seeing someone else, while entertaining ME! 😥
Ps. She (Jericho) still doesn't understand what this TWINFLAME connection is ALL about!! 😥
I agree
Your talk today hit me square in the heart! I pretty much cried through out! I am one who cannot get past my only son passing. It affects me everyday, never letting me move on. My daughter's get angry with me, but I pray they never experience this pain! Having said that I'm afraid of loss, which keeps me guarded. It keeps me from opening my heart to anyone, has caused me to build walls around me and it sucks! BIG BIG HUGGS 🫂 to you and Connor ♥️♥️♥️
Love is mystery . When you find someone you trully love and who loves you , all your traumas, all your fears, your insecurities will be lessen if not totally gone . You're The One will come JA 👍. Remove all the doubts and fears and be open to love 😊. A relationship coach here 😊
Love will make us young and alive 😁💪
Its all about give and take, and two ppl involve must work it out to have a good relationship.
Sex is good but good relationship must not revolve on that always.
Good Communication is very important.
Love may help a person feel more confident and calm but It may not be quite that easy if each person or even one person has too much pain they are carrying and lash out or withhold love. I agree that trying to get as healthy as you can first and knowing yourself are important for a successful relationship in most cases. Just my thoughts.
I am so sorry for your loss.. As a mother of 2 angel daughters. Unfortunately I feel your pain. A pain no parent should feel.
Sorry for such pain Gina.
@@TH-eb5ro thank you. Life isn't easy.. but I guess no one ever said it was.
God Bless you deeply with Peace
@@paysonadams4597 thank you very much.
Thankyou Jonathan. This has been so exactly correct for me today! I am five months into a relationship with a great guy who also lost his son just four years ago (aged 18) and his fear of being hurt again runs very very deep. Damagingly so. Coupled with my own 'stuff' from my dysfunctional childhood you can imagine the barbed wire we get caught up in. I put my hand up to holding back my truth ! Not being good enough, being rejected .. and on and on. And I have worked as a personal/spiritual development coach for decades!! I have been working through it and luckily I have the tools of the trade to gouge the truth out of myself and get radical! He deserves it and he's worth it - and so am I! Your words have resonated deeply within me today and I am most grateful! You have articulated this so very well. Your beautiful boy must be very proud of his dad and the amazing work he is doing!
Oh my gosh Jonathan I could hear it in your voice and I could feel the shift in you …you weren’t yelling! Thinking of you on the anniversary of Connors passing sending you a big hug and I’m so happy that you have found love you deserve it! It’s wonderful that you’ve learned to open your heart and you have accepted your parents faults and have grown from them in a healthy way. You’ve been through a lot and timing is everything… I love that you’re wearing Connor‘s shirt I know he’s smiling down on you and he’s really happy for his dad that you found love and that he helped you open your heart. Smile and be happy I think you’re headed in the right direction! God bless Connor! ❤️
Jonathon,thank you for your emotional honesty. When I lost my husband Jim to cancer after 25 years of marriage, I didn't t understand what loss does to one. My heart was afraid to trust and love fully,so I held in my true feelings in too much with my next partner.I now realize I was afraid to open my heart up to him,for fear of losing someone AGAIN. Thanks for helping me and I know others to navigate the intricate ways of opening your heart with faith instead of fear.
Thank you for sharing a spiritual love truth. I too am coming up on the anniversary of losing my then 22 year old daughter that was three days due a c section to give birth to a beautiful little boy. She was Shot and killed by the babies father that didn't want the vaby born . I understand and resonate with so much of what you said about the idea of how love has gotten to be so hard to find and one who's willing to commit too. I send my sympathy and heartfelt sorry for you and the loss of your son. Thank you for sharing and giving such needed insight for today's reality of finding love. God Bless .
Jobathon, 9 years ago I met a guy online. We live in the same city. I am a black African immigrant ( American) , he is a Caucasian American of Irish descent. I was watching a video where you share 3 stages of commitments...he fought so hard to have me accepted in his family...his friends and coworkers knew me. Stage 2 to commitment you share that my needs become his needs...well my then boyfriend who is an Irish Catholic did not like the Baptist church but he often showed up at 9am for my church service....he knew i was so proud to show him off to my friends after church and he went with the flow because he loved me. I asked him once if he likes the sermons and he replied that the sermons time are his 40min best time to take an interrupted nap. LOL but he showed up any way...whenever i needed my car repaired he took care of it...he mowed my lawn...shaveled my snow...we traveled together...attended events together...visited his family once a month... we reached stage 3 of commitment....then candidate Trump was running ....we had opposite political views....also, he was not healed from a divorce.and he is 15 years older than me...and still he wanted kids...i was naive and immature .I ended the two years relationship as a protest ....thinking we will reconcile....I run with a black man i met in less than a month. My older boyfriend kept calling me he even mowed my lawn two times after we btoke up....and i was already pregnant. I committed to the new relationship : it has been a rocky dysfunctional abusive relationship.....
As am trying to breathe and heal the older guy is back . We are both wounded like soldiers off a battle field. : he had 2 transition relationships and i have a luggage of two kids. He wants me back...he accepted to reading Jonathon book and follow him....he is claiming we do not need to start on ground zero instead we should resume.... His love , his confidence, his sense of taking responsibility, his care, the way he knows how to respond to my needs....all his love is tormenting me...i still love him and i do not want to make mistakes again..The more he quotes Jonathon videos i get into la la.land. I am afraid he knows that quoting Jonathon is a magic password LOL. He puts me and my kids in his future...at 50+ he still wants kids to pass down his Irish name and heritage....he puts me in his future plan...He is still VERY Republican...and pro Trump.....but i don't care anymore...he makes me happy...he makes me laugh. I feel safe...he is reliable.... he is always negotiating for intimacy claiming he too has a constant pain at the pump....andnmy van needs his fuel....and i have my foot on breaks....Well, that is my story ....i do not know what to do...yet am in la la.land....
Jonathon do we start on ground zero or do we resume? Confused in la la land...here
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I’ve been listening to you for a long long time and I think today’s message is my favorite. I could feel the love 🥰 thanks for being on line and giving me focus on a lot of things I didn’t even know I needed to think about!🌺❤️
Awe... thank you 😊
I felt the same way...I loved this talk!
I appreciate your encouragement for us to love from our hearts despite our traumas as well as our emotional and mental challenges. This is an excellent video and a great tribute to Connor. 🙏
I find your honesty and vulnerability so encouraging! Thank you! I wish you a great relationship and an amazing process of getting to know each other.
Thank you so much!
At last someone who speaks a language I understand about relationships. I'm 46 and have never been able to play by the general masses 'rules' on dating. I ALWAYS break them hahaha. I won't stay silent if I find someone attractive. Thanks Jonathan
Bless you you are so brave and honest. I have hope because of you asI feel scared of love and have been single for 13 years. Attracted dysfunctional narcissist men as I was the codependent empath. Never dared to hope or have visions for me as was caretaking disabled child and other people for years. I am now free from caring for my difficult Mum as she has passed. In grief but also relief at my freedom. Feeling lost at 62 but Working on finding part time work finding purpose and opening my heart. Thanks for being part of my journey. Thinking of Connor and how he has been the catalyst for you to help so many bless his heart too. He will always be with you. xxx❤️❤️❤️❤️
You're an amazing human being! Here's to emotional vulnerability, an open heart and all the joys and sorrows this life has in store for us ♥️ I opened my heart to him and it made him stall. At least I stood in my truth
Wow, I have been listening for a while and I can really hear and feel the difference in you since you are finding love too! I'm so excited for your lady and you. I have gone through a lot over the years, and I too have great fear that I will just be used and abuse, never to be loved or cherished. But you have given me hope! Your doing a great serve to so many! I wish you the best in everything you do! Thank you for being a voice of reason and honesty even when we don't want to hear it but deep inside your advise is right on point. God bless your future and family!
Thank you for the message Jonathan. I hope you take some time for yourself today to honor and mourn your son.
I agree with what you are saying about society, we all have our wounds, it's how you deal with them.
The isolation of the Pandemic didn't help.
I am coming to you from New Zealand. Isn't it astounding that the human condition is the same no matter what country we live in. I appreciate your open heart vulnerability you share, Johnathan. Your candid honesty has made me realise that men have secret insecurities too, though because they've been conditioned to withhold their true feelings it does make it extremely difficult to break through those barriers and see into their hearts. Your guidance you openly share with true emotion is empowering. I appreciate you 🤗.
My thoughts are with you and your family today 💓
This video is a really beautiful message I needed to hear.
Awe... thank you 🙏
Jonathon, Please acknowledge all your feelings ....when you feel scared you will lose the love you found . It is part of the healing process..embrace those fears...cry your way through those feelings face those fears...but move on fast....it is part of the healing process....
I am going through my own healing too...and i am in la la land at tye same time ( with my foot on the breaks).
My song for you for this long 4th of July weekend " The Best is Yet to Come" Frank Sinatra. Cheers from the moto city Detroit.
I know one of the most painful situations is if your child dies before you or any parent. Inspiring that you celebrate his life and your new love interest, who can nurture you through your grief.
Jonathan, your truth is so powerful in this video. Thank you for sharing feelings in such a raw manner. Conner must be proud of you. Blessings!!
Dear Jonathon,
I truly appreciate your open-honesty.
My question is, what is it exactly that men need to open up to love? I missed it in your video. Thanks 🙏🏻
Remember the day he passed was the day he became an angel. He will always be with you in your heart and memories 🤗
This man I'm dating will not put up with my emotional crap. I don't know if this relationship is going to last but he's teaching me a lot. We are both Pisces and I've never dated a Pisces before. Wish me luck 😵
Why would you think your emotions are crap? Seems as though he should honor your emotions unless you are going off the wire on a consistent basis. Having a man that is willing to at least try to understand your emotions seems quite important to me. Hope he isn't one of those guys who can't handle any emotions from a women because he thinks womens emotions are stupid. yikes!
It’s dysfunctional all round. You are so right, we do have a mental health crisis. I’m glad you mentioned your mothers unconscious behaviour. Thank you for being so forthright and honest
You're welcome 😊
If a woman was emotionally damaged, she needs a real, mature and loving man to HELP HER. Men today are not growing up to be the best man they can be. Why? Because they had absentee fathers and mothers who pamper and smother them. Mothers need to break this cycle and fathers need to work harder ti make marriages work so they can properly be a real mentor for their sons.
This is not just for men.
Excellent.
♥️
You made my cry, your feelings, your heart, I could feel even at this distance …as if I was sitting with you
Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. This is what the world truly needs more of. This helped so much.
I am so sorry for the loss of your son💙🙏
What a handsome young man. Prayers for comfort, peace and healing for you and your family
So so sorry for your loss.. thank you for your video and honesty.. I'm with someone who thinks they are securely attached but after more than a year there is no I love you.. I certainly pay my cards on table.. sending you healing love and hugs
Men are nervous of my huge emotional heart......
My heart is so special it's scary deep.
They love what they see....but when I open my heart they run
It's ok because rejection is my protection and I am grateful
Oh big bro. I watched my father suffer & pass away from horrid cancer when I was 28yo, half my lifetime ago. I had shut down because it was so horrible. I had "journey therapy" at 35 which opened me up. OMG... well everything came out. I know losing someone close to you is so devastating and it changes you.
I don't recommend this journey therapy as it made me a total freekin mess. I'm fine now but what a journey.
It just takes time big bro for that pain to ease. Big hug for big bro.
Open your heart to ❤️ love its the best thing for your ❤️
Put your arms around the people you love and don't let go! To start with -- and figuratively speaking -- hold your heart in your hands and learn to love it. You're worth it! Love is worth it!
All the men I know despise radical honesty.
Alisa Dunn, I think that as well, if you try to be honest and straightforward even in a gentle way they seem to get uncomfortable with those feelings. Probably the wrong guys if they can't come around sooner rather than later.
Wow. Johnathan! I am amazed at the strength you show that seems to get stronger and stronger in every session, I just can’t believe. Thank you so much for your content. You nailed it! Right in the nose.
I hear what you are saying...when my son-in-law passed away 4 yrs ago (in August)...I too, see life very differently. It's spending time with those that love me and that I love that matters most in this world. And like you, I have met an awesome man that I can speak my mind with and not feel afraid of any kind of "consequences". And if there were to be "consequences", then he would not have been the right one for me. And he is also lucky, as I feel I am the best person I have ever been in my life (I'm 64 yrs old). I enjoy watching your videos as they do resonate with where I am. Keep up the good work, Jonathon, and I hope your new relationship flourishes in many loving ways...you deserve it.
Jonathon you made a huge difference .....i am getting close to la la land with an ex who proclaims himself your disciple. I still have my foot on the breaks....and he has his foot on the gas pedal....LOL
Thank you, Johnathon, for sharing such wonderful insight and information on a day that is as meaningful and difficult as this day is for you!!! Your dedication to helping others is a true gift to all of us who value you so dearly!!! HUGS!!!! 🤗🤗🤗
Glad it was helpful!
Jonathon, such a great share. Exactly what I’m trying to do right now-be open and invite openness from a partner. I don’t think I was ever ready as I am today. 68 years old, but I believe it is out there. Your vulnerability is touching…what I am trying to be.
Jonathon, I appreciate your vulnerability and honesty that you shared with us( your audience) in this video.Congradulations to you and your significant other!You both make an awesome couple!
Just started listening to you about two weeks again and I’m so glad!
Thanks again Jonathan for your honesty.
Thoughts of you on this day & remembering your son, Connor.
Wishing many days of love & joy ahead with your beloved.
I don't understand how a person, a man, can ignore a woman to find out how she reacts. How to react? I don't like to be put to tests and have to argue with my special person so he won't treat me like a doormat. He's slowly manipulated me into a mother/son relationship and here I thought it was because he wanted the relationship to go slower because he's had his heart broken. Lies! He was dating other women!
So sorry about your son . Waves get smaller , little at a time , but they , in time , gets smaller .
Love your clean nails . Your councelling is very helpful , thank you .
Mimi from SA .
I saw a lot of stonewalling. I was used to a lot of love from many people at home, but once I became 9 stonewalling was like candles burning out and that lasted until the age 12. By, then, stonewalling, bullying, abuse, and contempt were driving me to fantasize with an afterlife. That wasn't working for me because I would feel relief by holding medicine bottles. My mother had to ruin the locks on the bathroom doorknob because I had threatened twice to overdose. I had to regain self-esteem for a year to lose the stress. I learned to be sweet and affectionate to the people that weren't, and it made me feel free.
I agree with you 100%. I have been doing the solid honesty early on and laid all my cards out on the table. I dont beleive in playing games to get men to give you what you want. I beleive in honesty and loyalty and monogamy even before the relationship becomes offitial, as you mentiones in the dating vows. I guess I just havnt met the right man. I recently met someone that kind of snuck into my life and came and found me he seemed really great,I really could see a future with him. After I met him it seemed like our dates and time spent were nice but it was like the in between time he started to seem different and turned kind of toxic worse everyday. He was not accountable for his actions. The weird part is when we would talk about it in person vs the phone he seemed to be genuine and understanding then. As things grew more toxic he blamed everything on me and was not willing to compromise. Thank you for confirming that everybody takes trauma or dysfunction from their childhood from their parents behavior. I dont like when people try to say not to blame parents for any issues you have now, because its not that we are blaming we are learning and growing and realizing to over come those issues we had learning and observing behaviors from our parents.
Hi Jonathan, You have made a difference in my relationship. He responds well to a lot of your advice. Thank you so much! ❤️
I truly appreciate you! Prayers for you and your Beloved!! ❤️
I believe there is a lot of truth to too many people being emotionally unhealthy not only from childhood wounds but from bad relationships coupled with a being raised with a mother and father that were not ready to have children and really didn't know how to produce healthy emotions in their children. Being raised with a parent who had emotional wounds themselves from their childhood and it gets passed down from generations and continues. Yes, mental health is a grave condition in this generation. I also think many people have tried to have good relationships and have been disappointed too many times and have just lost the initiative to even try anymore, which is sad but seems to be reality. Is is really possible to heal from childhood wounds or trauma? Sometimes I have my doubts. Thanks for being so open with us Jonathan.!
So weird,the man I have now is so great and he is truly in love with me…first time I’ve ever truly been able to say that for sure. Right before we developed a relationship the dog he rescued when we met was hit . It was an event that broke his heart open and I think really changed him
I would like to honor you for being openly vulnerable after going through so much
my spouse passed and he was my world the important is ppl
Really good session. Lots of meat to chew on. Thank you very much.
Bless your heart
I'm so sorry for your loss 🙏 my prayers are with you. You're such a great inspiration to so many! Take care of yourself ok
you loved , I loved we lost and for myself it just made me know my partner is all that matters. you need / he needs and do not loose sight of it. he matters , she matters . The children matter for they depend on us foe everything. watch the dynamics.
I've been listening to your program for a while now Jonathan, I totally agree with what you said, I'm in much loving and committed relationship, he always told me this " to make a relationship succeed, it will requires two emotionally intelligent people".
I clicked on the video because you looked so sad I wanted to know you were ok as much as is possible from a video. Then as you spoke I realised why. One of your best videos as you really opened up and let us in on your heart and thought process.
Thanks Jonathan for sharing your thoughts and feelings on today's topic.
Thank you for sharing on such a special, heartfelt day. Blessings to your new love and may Conor always be honored.
I’m so sorry for your loss!
As a new subscriber recently finding you I must say your refreshing honesty and most valuable advice is priceless.
Obviously you have walked the walk of life's importance and through the heartbreak of your
son's passing. I have been on that
heartwrenching journey with a son and baby and because of those I can totally appreciate understand and value you for the work you have done where you have now arrived and your desire to help others.
A heartfelt thank you for your generosity and the smiles as I have the welcomed truth and healing from where you speak. Much happiness peace and joy as you go forward...
So very sorry for your loss! My prayers are with you and your family today 💗
Thank you for sharing today! I know it is a difficult (anniversary) ... your genuine love for others showed through in your message today!
Bless you,
💥Angel💥
I took some time to honor your son today, and my heart goes out to you Johnathon! A very heartfelt message today from you and many good points to ponder.
This sounds great for " intellectuals", but here in rural TN, first of all there are no men who will not call you the " c" word if you are not of their political affiliation. I am not set up for a long- distance relationship, and I am stuck here due to divorce. Most relationship coaches assume we all live in metro areas, but we don't. I have been online for 3 years, and have met 2 nice, decent men. Sadly, they were not emotionally available. At present, 50% of the men on Plenty of Fish are scammers( I counted) the ones who appear on my feed. I am well- groomed, decent- looking, educated. I am 69. I am certain there are no other avenues I can pursue . Joined a bowling group, a Vet's auxiliary, you name it.
God bless u and everyone in our spiritual journey
This is an inspiring video. Intentionality is the important ingredient on both sides. But if you are lucky to have the time to be true friends brings you closer than you can imagine. And then there is a traumatic lifetime event and your response and being supportive of them bonds you to a deeper level.
i am so sorry that you lost your son 🦋💫🤍 my parents were alcoholics & my mom was abusive towards me. My parents & twin brother died before i turned 35z Thaank you so much for this ❤️ but loosing your own child i just can’t imagine. 🤍💫🦋
My mom was abuse to me she never ever tells me she loves me I have four children of my own they tell me 365days of the year that they love me I told them what my mom done to me while they are growing up they see it for themselves I never abuse any of my children my mom says she lost her mom when she was 13yrs old and was grown up by total strangers but she never sit me and my other siblings and tell us what she been through after the passing of her mom
I'm really sorry for your loss, Jonathon. I can't even imagine. Hugs.
Amazing message Jonathon. Thank you. I'm so happy for you and your beloved.
sorry for your loss, but I'm grateful for your words and your book, understand men now
I’d like to say thanks for being vulnerable. I lost my 15 year old daughter to an unexpected heart attack. I understand exactly when you said, It broke my heart wide open. I am not the same person I was before she died. That’s impossible. Losing a child changes you forever. It’s up to us how we manifest the aftermath of that. It can lead to a softening of our heart or the hardening of our heart. It’s the most difficult journey we will ever be asked to walk. Thank you for what you do.
You are different 🔝💯Truly a Legend 🙌🏻Well done 💕
That's a lovely way to honour your son with the tee.bless you jonathon. Your videos and streams have helped me so much.hugs to you too.see you soon.❤❤❤
Thanks so much
My thoughts and prayers are with you..thank you for sharing your joy and your pain of life's journey.
Thank you for sharing this day with us even when it is a day full of so many emotions. So happy to know that you have found joy and love in that significant other. May you both have a good and happy life. shalom
Thank you so much!
I love your work and how honest and simple your advice is. So much nonsense and game playing out there. Unfortunately we have to have our hearts broken in order to look at the wounds and then heal. It’s a process and journey, and that’s how we find gratitude in everything. Even the pain. Radical honesty- love it! Best way to lay it out and weed out the ones that aren’t for us. We don’t know it until we start the inner work.. all paths lead to childhood wounding or programming. So important to first understand ourselves and love on ourselves before we even try to love someone else. It all starts and ends with us. I look forward to finding THAT love I desire. Wish there were more coaches out there spreading this wisdom.
No parent should bury their child, but it happens all the time. That hole that pain may never go away. At least you’ve found some peace in it, you doing the inner work has led to you helping so many people now. That’s a blessing. Thank you for being so vulnerable and courageous! 🙏🏽 Prayers and love for Conner! Your work is his love, healing so many people and relationships. 🫶🏽✨
Awe... thank you
Okay love is a beautiful feeling . Yes if anybody got a trauma from his or her parental love life in childhood , its kepet a feeling of insecuriries in theie love relation.. specially if they see mother to have many relation..they can not trust any woman..but with the true love of other partner can fill the gap and erase that trauma.. its very essential to open their inner heart to each other once they feel gor commitment.. nice advice..God bring the right man for right woman..if we place God first
Best video yet. Love the vulnerability. Thank you so much. ❤️
WOW, thank you 😊
I am doing the work for a long time. Learnt a lot. But it also makes me more aware of the crazyness we are in. The more I become whole the more I feel perfectly fine being single. I think you are right by saying men need woman to become in touch with there emotions. I just dont want to do the work for them if they dont show any effort of doing it themselfs.
Jonathon, you are so right and I understand your pain, more than you know. Honoring your son keeps your love alive and it has allowed you to help your community. I will share my story with you privately one day. Only the strong survive, my friend.
♥️ Thank you Jonathan for Ur honesty n vulnerability It's refreshing. Watching all the way from Papau New Guinea... Rest in Peace Connor.
Thank you for sharing your heart today. Everything you say makes sense.
we all go through that. I refereed my parents . So they got along. I had to take sides to show them correct path in conversation arguments to fix it so we can sleep. Or try use a pillow to try make it so can sleep pulling it tight over my ears. That not work so we refereed instead, Parents do not have books. There lots stress bills hubby sex pregnancies and feeling hate. Hate the way it is. she said to dad you work to afford the kids there no birth control and men can not keep it in the pants. As children do not understand any of that.
I felt the open heart in this message - congrats & hugs ❤️🤗
I have had to do lot of work on myself throughout my years I'm aware..conscious.but I find many men have not worked themselves despite they have had alot or lengthy relationships..the level I'm at does not match..and my innerchild therapist said if we met someone to get them to do this work so there will be balance
It's true my ex visited me..I could not open my heart as in the past he would not commit to me..I was afraid to speak my heart..part of it was due.to knowing he did not enjoy a talker.hes an introvert..I had a hard time with someone who doesn't talk much to share the air time..then It becomes a hard balance..and makes me look like I talk without that fair play
Hello Jonathon i was so emotionally touch with your speech in your video these was my favorite topic youve shared. I can feel you and relate everything youve said... Your my favorite adviser here on youtube. GOD BLESS YOU JONATHON AND ALWAYS TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOUR HEALTH.. More power to all your videos..
Thinking of you and sending big hugs on this difficult day of your sons memory
thankyou again for such inspiring content.
Much love & understanding to you as you continue to grieve, grow, rebuild & flourish ... in memory of your son Connor ❤🙏
God Bless Jonathon
I can relate to your experience Johnathan. My mother was the same way. I never knew what each day was going to be. She suffered depression for years. When I was a kid I had no idea what that meant. But, the turning on and turning off love was very confusing for not only me, but my siblings. I think it runs off on us.
Bless you today Jonathan, as you honor your son Conner’s life. May God continue to heal your heart. Thank you for your channel. I’m a therapist and I tune into your channel to help me understand couple’s and working with men. (And dating as a 50 plusser). 🌸
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for your talk today. I recently lost my Mother and, Man, can I identify with what you said. It took her dying to completely open my heart. I've tried to explain this to a few people, but no one understands. Thank you and God Bless You, for what you are doing!!
I love your honesty and transparency Jonathan
Pain. We need the pain of knowing what it feels like when we lose. Being ignored. Being distant towards us. Told off. Made to self reflect on bad crap. Yea, we need pain, loss, being ignored for a while and then women force us to make a choice. By then i was trauma bonded to her i just ended up marrying her and seven kids later, she lets me play my Xbox.😳
I dont even wanna play any more after all she did to me about it. Im still traumatized. Im telling you ladys, this crap works.
Is that what this is about? Men need to be treated badly? I don't get it.
Trauma bonded, in therapy? Not sure how that is going to play out for you or the seven kids who witness it.
@@brendalee1619 me either🤷🏼♂️
@@TH-eb5ro didnt you read it, THE B×*&^
didnt want me on my gaming systems. It was COMPETITION 😭😆😅🤣😂. We were still dating. Lol.
No children yet.
Thanks again so much shared..
Thank you, Jonathon, for relating. Gerhard Schroeder (already mentioned previous as he is a LEO man, grew up desperately poor. "We ate window putty". Like Charley Chaplin life was a struggle for the basics. Both men married many times.
I get so sick of hearing what MEN need.... show me a REAL MAN, and I might care what they need... might...
Hello Jonathon, my morher wasn't a safe source of love too, and my relationships have been incomplete because these guys give me love and then take it away, so I need to heal my childhood wound to manifest a better and complete relationship. i will get the Hoffman process, Thank you so much for your videos, are of great help. Hugs and kisses for you.