How to stop WASTING MONEY on CLOTHES you DON'T WEAR!
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- Опубліковано 10 чер 2024
- Do you have clothes in your wardrobe that have hardly been worn? Do you want to know how to stop buying the wrong clothes? There are a few things we can do to make less mistakes when shopping for clothes, so in today's video, I wanted to share my tips on how to stop wasting money on clothes you don't wear.
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0:00 Intro
0:16 Video structure
1:07 Top reasons WHY we waste money on clothes
1:45 Marketing and consumerism in the fashion industry
3:30 Fast fashions role in all of this
4:53 Personal style
8:44 Do you have anything to match with that?
9:26 Money mindset
11:51 Impulse shopping
13:21 Fashion trends
14:57 Does this fit your lifestyle?
16:04 Outro
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- how to buy clothes you'll actually wear
- how to stop buying the wrong clothes
- how to stop impulse shopping
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I have found that I am much happier buying one high-quality piece rather than multiple fast fashion ones. For example, I bought 1 Ulla Johnson dress this year for church and parties. Since it was expensive, I can't afford any other dresses until next year, but I take much better care of it and it is such better quality material and fit than items I have bought in the past.
Yes!!! 🙌🙌 This is huge! This is something that can often take a while to understand, but once you do it, it’s so worth it. You may only buy one dress, but you’ll be wearing this dress for years (if not forever) because of the fit and quality 👏🏽♥️ a really great point to bring up xxx
That is the best way to shop. I keep trying to convince my Mum to stop buying cheap jackets and invest in a good quality one, that she will love wearing. She buys and buys and her wardrobe is full of jackets, what is the point?? You will never feel special in a cheap item. It is a good investment to buy well tailored, in cashmere, wool or natural fibres, instead of synthetic cheap jackets that are made in mass production.
I try to never “browse” aimlessly for clothes and instead seek out specific items of clothing I know I need. The more specific the better.
Good advice. I’m so guilty of browsing.
This is great advice! 🙌👏🏽 browsing can definitely be dangerous. Thank you so much for sharing ♥️ x
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I kinda have that disease, its like when I see someone who looked good in skirt, i will buy a similar skirt and buy it in every color. But once I got them, I'll just put it in my closet and not wear them, coz after trying them on and finding out that it doesn't look good on me realizing that my body type is different from that of the model in their ads, i feel kinda guilty. Not to mention I sort of have ocd, its difficult for me to mix and match color combo outfits, dont know how to color block,and yet still buying clothes both neutral and bold colors. Your video is very helpful and still working on how to stop impulse buying, practicing minimalism and learning how to mix and match colors in my outfits. Great video as usual.
I find that "buying" is kind of like an addiction. As you said, that shot of dopamine you get when you come home with a new item. Frankly, this is true even of buying second hand. During COVID when stores were closed I would spend way too much time scrolling through eBAY and buying things that maybe I shouldn't have. Sure, it's second hand, but it's also the fuel used by the airplane or the truck to transport them... so the point is to try to stop the addiction at its root. One thing I do is to organize the clothes I have and plan new outfits with what is there. Figuring out a new outfit I hadn't considered before gives me a bit of a high and satisfies my fashion tooth (almost) as much. I also have started keeping a record of my clothes I own, by categories, and of outfits that have worked together. (Sometimes with photos.) Maybe it's silly but again it satisfies the fashion craving and is free and eco-friendly. Those are my tips.
I do the same thing when I need a fix. I shop eBay or Poshmark and purchase things I don't need just out of boredom for the dopamine rush. It is fun getting new/used clothing in the mail but half the time it doesn't fit right or look right and Postmark does not accept returns and eBay usually does not on clothing either.
On eBAY there is a company called THRED UP that accepts returns, no questions asked, and sends you a label to return. I find them pretty safe to deal with.
Thank you for the great tips! I think that keeping a record of the clothes I own would show me that I have plenty of pieces and that I do not need more.
Not silly at all Heidi! I do that as well and catalogue them by season and occasion. It helps me to quickly select an outfit on those days "I have nothing to wear".
The “ does it fit my lifestyle tip” I think is such a good one . So many times I have loved things , that were very flattering or fit my budget , but in the end of the day, weren’t really relevant to my life . Like buying a really heavy coat, when I live in mostly warmer climate. Or buying trousers that I wouldn’t really wear to school… I think it’s important to realize that just because u love something , doesn’t mean it’s for u.
Also the putting off to buy something and seeing if I still want it in a month is a very useful tip. And that way I know if I really wanted or needed something, or if it was just in the moment
Yes, I agree with you. I always love blazers and knitted cardigans but I live in a warmer country now. It just seems impractical.
Totally agreed with you! I also think this tip really knocked some sense into me. What I like may not suit my daily life. Especially during Covid19 situation, my lifestyle changes a lot.
One of my biggest tips is to leave the tag on! Leave it on and try the item on at home, that has honestly saved me so much money. My boyfriend thinks I am rediculous for even bringing the item home, but that gives me the ‘impulse buy’ rewarding feeling. However when that feeling wears off, I can return that item and at that point I might even have learned what it was that made me feel like it was’nt worth it❤️
Yes! I know.. lately I've been applying that little trick as well. Over here it's mom thinking of me as 'loco' for doing so. . 😅
I also do that!! I even wear it out once with the tag. I wore one shirt and realized how much I didn’t like it and returned it lol
I noticed I do this as well, it really helps get it out of your system!
The downside of doing this is that, at some places, they will not always put the clothing back on the rack. Instead, it can either be sent to a discount store, donated, or just straight up thrown in the trash. Excessive donated clothing can also end up just being thrown out, depending on which organization receives it. Unless you are sure that the store will resell an item if it has not been used, be very very cautious about doing this. You may get your money back, but it can end up being much more wasteful than many people realize!
My boyfriend worked at a return center. Some things are sent back to the main stores, but the majority are donated, and it was protocol to straight up destroy some things, even if they were still brand new and in perfect condition.
Fitting your lifestyle is SO essential. As a mom of three living in the country with a dog/garden who loves being outside and works from home as much as I want to buy a blazer I know I will never wear it. I also know I run hot so though I love knitted winter sweaters I have only one heavy one for really chilly days. I have made SO many impulsive buys and regretted them but I’m learning!
I have an amazing wardrobe which has taken several years to pull together. I spend most of my money on quality healthy foods. I can't wait to start traveling soon, so looking fiward to it!!
Well done!! It takes some work doesn’t it, but then it’s so worth it and you can spend your money on important things like quality healthy food 🙌🙌♥️ love it!!! Xxx
@@EmilyElizabethMay I so agree! I feel so happy with my wardrobe now as I slowly built it with mostly second hand high quality pieces I would not buy brand new because they are too expensive. And it's fun to be on the hunt for something and wait until you find that perfect piece that was missing, most of the time for a fraction of the price. At least for me, it is the best way to shop for clothes that will stay in my wardrobe for many years.
@@frenchstyle7038 I also agree wholeheartedly! I think when buying 2nd hand, quality is key!! Making sure to buy good pieces from good quality brands and PLANNING these purchases helps to make less mistakes. You are so right.
Just last night I found a Sezane sweater that I have been searching for for months 🥲 I was so happy and it was so worth the wait. I know for sure it’s something I will get wear out of because I spent so much time thinking about it and planning it 💕 xxx
A few years ago I started eating clean and healthy. I am amazed at how much better my clothing looks on me.
Now I am willing to buy better quality clothing, just like I buy better quality food.
@@EmilyElizabethMay I so hope u will share this Sezane sweater in one of your future videos. Love Sezane pieces. Not easy to find the 2nd hand Sezane pieces u love since they only make limited quantities and mostly sold in Europe. I live in US.
Today I bought in a second hand shop my summer lounge wear capsule wardrobe. I’m so happy bc It was finally a thoughtful purchase.
I ended up buying exactly what I’m sure I need: 2 shorts, 2 t-shirts and 2 dresses.
If I’m capable of going to a supermarket with a list in my hand, check the quality and prices of the products why I’m not capable of applying the same strategy to shop clothes? Why does it has to be so much more emotional than rational??
In the end of the day, shopaholics get tired of this cycle: buying > guilty > buying … I’m tired 😪
Gorgeous girl, you have said this so well 👏🏽 I completely agree with everything you’ve said. Once you start planning your wardrobe properly, you see the huge benefit of it more clearly.
So true about the buying > guilty cycle. But remember to be kind to yourself. We’re all bound to make mistakes again and shop when we probably shouldn’t. But recognising it, without punishing ourselves and the learning from it is the ultimate goal! (It is for me anyway 😌🥰)
Xoxox ♥️
I know it’s silly but I can’t buy from a second hand shop, I do donate to them though
So very true I could not have said it better
Thank you for making this video! I am 28 years old and recently realized I use to waste so much money on clothes and shoes! Some fear wearing things multiple times on social media as a big no. Since when?! Im literally building a capsule wardrobe and I feel so great about it! Not enough influencers are discussing this! Every week, new Zara its to the point where its overwhelming! So, thank you again for making this video!
You are lucky to have discovered this so young. most people don't realise until they are in their 40's. Capsule wardrobe is the perfect solution and ideal for packing too.
I think consumerism and fashion marketing can divert us from concentrating on what really matters: our physical & mental health. Much better to spend $500 on a personal trainer and/or life coach than $500 on the latest trends. The trends don’t flatter a physique that needs work, or fix a poor self image. Concentrate on the core elements that make you YOU, and forego the hype of clothing manufacturers.
For me, what slowed me down was sticking to the basically 2 or 3 styles that work on me. I don't let myself drift from these few formulas because in the end they won't last and I'll be kicking myself. Another big thing for me since I've moved from dyed hair to Grey is sticking with the right colors. It's been an expensive learning curve I hope to not revisit.
Really great tips! These are so helpful. Knowing what works and what doesn’t work for you, and not getting swayed is a great goal 🙌 also, not the first time I’ve heard this about grey hair. Such an interesting topic, so good to bring it up for others who might be committing to their grey hair 🙏🏽✨ thanks lovely xxx
Oh yes - totally! I love my grey hair but now have a new dress that I can't wear because I chose as if I still had chestnut locks. Sigh.
A little thing that helped me was to do a list of clothing that I really wish/need, just like the grocery shopping list. That little practice prevented me from doing lots of impulse shopping.
I have been shopping second hand for great brands. Good fiber content which you have taught me. My wardrobe is so good now. I can wear anything in my wardrobe which is so satisfying. Thanks for your help every week. I learn something every time from you. If i buy something and I don’t like out it goes.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰
Oh I’m so glad to hear this! You are such a lovely support to my channel so I am so happy I have helped you love your wardrobe 🥰🥰🙏🏽 xoxo
Very well put together! Personal style is an ongoing process...I have seen my style change every 7-10 years since my twenties. Now at 51, I am embarking on yet another style journey, but this time it's not following trends, not spending money on new things, but auditing and rethinking/reworking what I have already got. For items that haven't been worn much, I take the time to plan to wear it at least once during the season before selling it or giving it away. I also buying secondhand first, to really test the waters before even considering buying an investment piece. I finally feel like I am in control!!! AND I have been saving so much money!!!!
10 years ago I didn’t know what my style was and tbh I didn’t think about it so much, so I would walk into a shop and buy whatever the shop was telling me to wear. Over the years I realised I was wearing clothes that were just SO unflattering for my body and for me. It’s took a long time but I’ve really had to think about the clothes I ACTUALLY like, finding a style really helped me to make sure I was buying things I knew I would get wear out of. I try to keep away from trends unless I really like it.
I've got much better at buying clothes I actually wear over the last two years thanks to you and others such as Alyssa Beltempo and Signe Hansen. My challenge was the lack of time to carry out research and shop my closet, as a working mum of two small kids. So my tip would be to accept that capsule wardrobing and sustainable style is a continuous journey and rarely something you can achieve over a weekend. Be patient with yourself and try different strategies, and be kind to yourself if you miss a step. Like you have been role-modelling, Emily! Thank you for your content, I like your advice and your genuine, warm communication.
Oh, I wish I could like this 1000 times over! Thank you for your kind words. I completely agree, it is such a journey! And it's the journey that will actually teach you all the wonderful knowledge about your personal style that you will then have for life. I am still on this journey without kids, so I can imagine having two small kiddos would definitely make the journey longer 🥰 Well done for sticking to it, staying patient and enjoying the process 💫♥️xxx
Emily, what an informative video. And I so relate to you! I was buying white stiff shirts like I had shares in the company and never wearing them. The same with white, long sleeve Henley t.shirts, though I do wear those I didn’t need fifteen of them!! I started to look at what was in my closet and really question why did I keep bringing home the same item each time I shopped?! Either I had no confidence in my ability to make decisions for my own wardrobe or I was chasing someone else’s dream of how to look. When I solved that issue (and that took time) , I stopped bringing home so many “white” shirts, wore the couple I kept, and made stronger choices when I shopped. It is actually freeing. Thanks so much for such a helpful talk!
Great video with so many valuable tips. I really appreciated the comment about blazers. I love blazers and the look of them but I realised that I actually almost never wear the ones I have. I tend to gravitate towards my cardigans a lot more because to me they're much more effortless and comfortable. Working out what you wear and feel comfortable in really does help with reducing wasted purchases.
The part where you said u wrote down why you don’t wear a piece is very valuable information. I wrote down all my clothes too a while back and trying to mark how many times i wear an item and you are so right - most of the highstreet pieces i have only worn once or twice. I was shocked to realize it.
Thank you for your vids xx
This is so interesting to hear! I really think I want to track my clothes too, I’m sure it’s so insightful and like you said “shocking”. Such a valuable thing to do! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽♥️ xxx
I keep spending unnecessary money on replacing clothing. My purchases are 100% thrifted. I’m tired. It doesn’t make sense and I am ready for a change.
Sounds like you are motivated to make a plan 💪 ♥️ I’m interested, what clothes are you replacing? Items that are worn, or don’t fit? Or just aren’t quite right? X
If I get bored with certain items of clothing I've worn a lot, I will pack them away for a few months. Then later when I unpack them they feel fresh and new again, and I'm inspired to try them in different ways with other things in my wardrobe. Sometimes I just need a little break!
One thing that has helped me minimizing impulse buy or having less regrets while working on developing my personal style is sticking to to basic, sustainable non trendy items.
These items will never go out of style and even if my style evolves as it naturally does, I am still able to utilize those pieces because they are the foundation of my wardrobe.
Also,
If they are quality sustainable pieces, they can be re sold or passed on to someone else if they no longer fit our needs.
Good tips! Great video 💕
This is one of the best fashion videos I've ever watched ❤️❤️
And this video is soooo great awareness for any kind of products, not just fashion (clothes) 💖
I love when people focus on their own style rather than trends.
Soooo much love to you 💖💖
I am working on having an amazing quality wardrobe where I love every piece of clothing. It is a slow process but your videos give me loads of inspiration. I have not bought any fast fashion in the last 18 months and I have bought some beautiful thrifted clothing. I am also not buying as much as I feel there aren't enough occasions to even wear all the stuff I used to have in my wardrobe. I am much happier with a smaller number of items. I love watching your videos!
Ahh this is so nice to hear! 🥰 it sounds like we are on a very similar path. I think I am around 14 months of no fast fashion (approximately 😋). It feels so good! No turning back 💃 xxx
something that slowed down my clothes buying habit was asking myself about a specific garment.... "Is this for your fantasy life? Or for your real life?"
I loved this video, it's really made me think about my purchases in the past 18 months. Covid has really changed my style and I feel like I've been in a style rut, buying things just because I'm not wearing my pre-Covid clothes anymore. So your video has inspire me to really take a look at my wardrobe, my needs now and think about redefining my new style to match my lifestyle. Thank you so much. So glad I found you.
U know that cycle u mentioned of buying a piece of clothing, using it once and then getting bored with it, was exactly what I did in the past.. Mom always struggled with me, always complaining about me buying clothes that sometimes i never even get to wear.. I guess being aware of whatever we purchase and actually asking ourselves if we really do need it, or is it just that moment where we can't leave that specific item behind because it was "too cheap" or "too cute" or probably "on sale"..
Ever since I was a kid, i somehow enjoyed thrifting, i mean, the joy of finding a unique piece of clothing with a reasonable pricing was very fun to experience, yet i just bought and bought without thinking if I'm ever using these clothes...
Now, that I'm a lil bit more conscious about the money i spend and what I'm spending on, i actually had the chance to build my wardrobe where i enjoy all of my clothes that actually got me and are very much my style, either from thrifting or buying good quality clothing items.. I'm pretty proud at my self for achieving my dream wardrobe, Wich contains pieces that definitely fit my personality and are not based on "trends" or "social media's models".. I'm happier ☺️
Found your channel yesterday and I absolutely love you!! You are so natural, lovely, clear in your communication and pretty. Someone who I can relate to totally. Will have to watch all your videos and write down a lot of notes 😍 all your outfits are so classy and easy chic and when I think of my wardrobe I’m like what the hell is in there 🤣 because whenever I have to put an outfit together in which I should feel comfortable in, that should be easy to wear, it’s so hard!! So sad that I have two and a half wardrobes full of clothes and actually „nothing“ to wear that makes me feel good and is easy to combine🙄 Need to find my personal style tho and have to work on me and my bad money habits😅
I have been trying to stop the small purchases, but make a note of how much I was about to spend. I.e, basic tank £8, duplicate white tee £15 etc. and then I can justify a single bigger spend on something I have been wanting for a long time, the gradual “saving” means the time passes for me to be sure on the bigger buy - and so far, no regrets when the buying time comes for the splurge ❤️ great videos, I’m new here and very much enjoying and learning great tips xx
You're absolutely right. I myself is guilty of impulse buying.buying clothes that not suits me thanks again for reminding me to shop smart 😘
You’re welcome! So glad it’s helpful. Sometimes a gentle reminder is all we need to stay on track 😌♥️ xxx
You don't understand or comprehend what you're doing... You're helping so much. I appreciate this so much. Thank you.
I just found your channel! This video was super engaging, and your method of describing things was simultaneously informative and compassionate - subscribed!
Watching slowfashionyoutubers like you helped me very much!
Oh yay 🥰🙏🏽 consuming the right content to keep a slow fashion mindset is key 👏🏽 this is a great point and I can’t believe I didn’t mention it 😋🙏🏽♥️ xoxo
Emily, like your simple but good taste and honest tips about the traps of fast fashion and sustainability. Love the down to earth style so unlike flashy fashion videos! Kudos to you and thanks for the great tips!
Aw ♥️ thank you so much. You are welcome and thank you for your support 🥰 xx
Finally really good advice on the subject! I am a sucker for these marketing tricks, even though I am aware...lately buying 'high quality' on sale but ending up buying non essential things. Like TWO Bassetti kimono's when in need of a new bathrobe. Need to 'clean out' my wardrobe of the items I have bought like that, it's just difficult getting rid of nice items, hardly ever worn (designer items bought only because they were on sale). And yes, those super duper trendy items, only feel comfortable as long as the trend lasts and when you wait for it to go on sale... the joy is short-lived. So thank you, will listen carefully :)))
THEE BEST VIDEO ON UA-cam FOR FASHION AND SHOPPING ADVICE. Thank you xo
@Emily Elizabeth, I'm a new subscriber and I am really enjoying your channel. Thank you for such an informative video. I'll be watching it again to take note.
My wardrobe was mainly comprised of corporate dresses and suits. I found it difficult to shift to casual wear as I didn't feel comfortable and found mixing and matching daunting so I'd end up in my uniform... leggings and a top. That was until I hired a stylist that came to my house and she did a wardrobe edit. I was surprised to find that there was little to purge and she made casual outfits with suits and dresses! She worked out what were the best colours for me especially the ones that brighten up my face and she gave me a list of what basic items I needed to purchase. It was real value for money. As a petite, she also taught me the value in good tailoring so I am mindful of what I purchase. It's a shame that in Australia we don't have especialised stores for petites. I have also turned off all the notifications from the sites as I was bombarded on a daily basis with sales and special offers. I was wasting a lot of money purchasing online.
You are absolutely right. I bought all types of tops but most of the time I would wear just the tunics because they were so comfortable and flattering so I just stopped buying tops that weren't tunics. When you hit your 50's being comfortable is a must!
I’m still struggling stop buying and it’s not impulsive. I keep thinking of the thing I buy alot before buying. I ended up with a decision that I’ll set a small budget every month for clothes so I buy one item a month. I know it’s not the best but it’s really difficult for me not to get something new
I’m the exact same way :(
Then maybe it’ll be good for you to resell the clothes you don’t wear much or shop second hand? Helps me a lot:)
Love your minimalist tips on clothing and style! Thank you. I've been feeling really overwhelmed with my wardrobe and the need to buy more. I am working on this issue atm. Your vlogs will assist.
I'm so glad you found this helpful! You got this 💪 it's definitely a slow continued journey but it gets easier and is so worth it! x
Great video with tons of good information! Better money management and awareness of the horrible state of the fashion industry in general as far as its negative impact on our planet has helped me become a selective consumer. I also feel that discovering my true personal style has been key for me.
Two things that have also helped me so much as well! 🥰 thank you Mary xx
Hi Emily. I'm in a weird phase in my life right now. I think I'm bored because of the pandemic and not being able to travel or socialize as much as we did before, so I've been chasing trends and shopping online a lot. Hearing you say that doing this is tiring is such a relief! For me it's just exhausting. The thing with trends is that they never end! And no matter how many trends I follow I never seem to fully like my wardrobe or the way I look in my clothes and I get bored of my brand new pieces really quickly. I guess it might also have something to do with middle age crisis, I'm 40 now. I've set my mind to stop buying for a month at least but, honestly, I don't know if I'll be able to. I'll try! Your videos are like therapy to me. Thanks a lot. I'm Spanish, by the way. Greetings from the Antipodes! :)
I am now only finding my personal style and it's very refreshing. It felt so unsustainable having to keep up with the trend and I'm guilty of having clothes I don't even wear that often. I decided to learn how to sew and make my own clothes and it's been fun so far.
1. I don't mind the marketing. The reason I buy the product is because I want it. The marketing usually just gives me a nudge to spend/buy more than I really need, but definitely want.
2. As a man, I prefer classic styles. Like, actual classic styles, not just what is being marketed as "classic."
3. Planning out your wardrobe is important. Random colors and patterns don't mix well.
Personal note: You would look best in mid-rise jeans. I promise.
4. Matching is key. What do you have that you can wear with it?
5. I do overspend for impulse buys frequently, but I rarely regret buying them. $300-$1,000 pieces get pricey, but I wanted them because they're great. (Men's clothing is anything, BUT cheap... outside of T-shirts and mesh shorts.)
6. I can't identify with much on this point. My impulse buys are things I want, but wasn't planning on buying.
7. Avoid trends/fads. Just... don't. Ever. I learned my lesson long ago. But, you need perspective to differentiate between fads and classic style. One thing I learned is to see if people who are young AND middle-aged look good wearing it. If it looks good on a fit 20 yr old and it looks good on a fit 40 yr old, it just looks good.
First time ive watched your UA-cam channel, Absolutely loved it.Thank you. Very inspirational. Looking forward to more tips. Laura x
This was helpful. My lifestyle has changed dramatically however, I still strongly prefer the clothing style from my previous pre-retirement lifestyle. A video on how to mesh the clash of styles would be appreciated. It sounds like you have gone through a lifestyle transition yourself. Thank you.
Oh this is a very interesting topic talking about meshing the two lifestyles, I will see what I can do! ❤️ Yep, you are right, I've had a few major lifestyle changes gradually over the past 5 years, and my personal style/wardrobe slipped away from me in that time! x
Yes please! My lifestyle and personal style don’t really go together.
Bravo Emily 👌🏼 thanks for breaking it all down for us! It made a lot of sense… we just have to make our peace with the unworn clothing we have purchased.. so much guilt packed away in our closets 😔✌🏼hopefully becoming a more smarter and conscious consumer in future!
PS hope your lockdown gets lifted soon! Stay safe XX
Yes you are exactly right, be kind to yourself, let go of the guilt and learn from your mistakes 😌♥️ thanks for watching lovely. We are doing very good, considering this sad lockdown again. I hope for small business’ sake that it’s not too much longer. Xoxo
YASSSSS finally someone that is discussing these things that are help us all be more mindful about where our money is being spent and how we're being manipulated by brands
Wow. This was so incredibly informative! I love the simple point about just asking yourself why you don’t wear something. I think that will really come in handy and I guess that wasn’t as obvious to me as it should have been 😅
You don't know how much I love this video. This is very valuable. Thank you dear. Keep it up !!!!
Great tips in this video, thank you! I have to ask though - where is your necklace from? (luckily it is very much my style and something I would wear a lot :D )
you r amazing and as someone trying to adopt a more minimalist lifestyle, this is very helpful!
Dear Ms Emily,
I am so grateful for your helpful, wise and intelligent video!!
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It may have been said, I apologize for repeating if so; one tip for me not to get into the trap of...buying for "nothing" , buying what I DO NOT need...
While at home, " if I feel content with what I have at this very instant, I DO NOT go to stores!" 😂 As simple as that!
I do not set foot...in stores!
Even if...I went with a list (now, I am succeeding but before...), I would ALWAYS see something I wish I had...or thought I needed...(as industries of fashion or others ...decor, etc...LOVE to make us think!).
Therefore: no store!
Voilà! 😆
helene :)
Thank you for the video. I was never a big shopper, but transitioning from college to work environment 3,5 years ago and getting more $ that I had when I was a student, as well as needing to change the wardrobe to look more like an adult 😆 made me purchase a little bit more items than I'd like. Currently on my journey of minimizing my possessions and trying to make better decisions!
Randomly found your channel. As soon as you broke down what the video would contain at the beginning, I hit the subscribe button. ❤ love that!
Oh that’s so good to know! I don’t always do it for every video, but I agree it’s helpful. I’ll try remember for future videos too! X thank you for subscribing 🥰🙏❤️
BEST video I've watched on UA-cam. Thank you for covering all these important topics
🙏🏽 😄 oh thank you so much, a lovely comment to receive. I’m glad you got value from it 🥰 x
Amazing video. I need to get thinking on my wardrobe plan 🤔 ! xx
🙏🏽♥️ thanks Susie. I’ll aim to make some more wardrobe planning videos soon 😌 good luck! ✨
You are superb not only style advice but lifestyle wisdom, you're so lovely in every way, keep up this great content. 💖
“Replace your bad habit with a new good one” this is so simple yet so useful.
And realizing if Pinterest and IG make me buy more not get inspired is also a very simple yet useful advice
Thank you so much from 🇪🇬
Please make more videos like this one ! ✨ sustainable fashion is my favorite content 🪴
My tip for not buying clothes you end up not wearing. : - Never shop in a sale. You end up buying items because you believe you are getting a bargain, yet when you take it home, you never wear it. This has happened so much times to me, I do not go to any shop sales ever!! What is sold during sales - is items that was never sold and last season's items that the shop wants rid of. The other thing that ends up in the sale is sizes that are never popular. If you ever ended up seeing something you actually like, you will never get it in your size!! How many items do you have in your wardrobe, that still have the tag on? Are they a sale item? I bet they are!!!
I have a few sales items and I love them.
Emily, you're my 'Jiminy Cricket' (my conscience). I have recently fallen off the wagon and purchased several new items for my wardrobe which I just did not need and have not worn! My only solace is they are not trendy pieces. But seriously, how many shoes, jumpers and trousers can one person wear!? I listened to your words of wisdom and vow to get back on track. I shop when I'm feeling flat/blue. So that dancing around the house tip is a winner in my eyes. PS: Fanta knows he's a beautiful boy and he's not wrong! 😋 Have a great weekend, stay safe and well 🧡
We all fall off the wagon! I can totally relate. So glad this was a timely video for you! ♥️ sometimes a little encouragement is all you need.
My friend was tirelessly searching for a job in the lockdowns of 2020 and really struggling to stay motivated. She told me on the days she felt real bad, she would play the greatest showman soundtrack and dance around her house, and it would instantly make her feel better. So I started doing it when I needed to get myself out of a slump too! And it’s just so simple and so good! 🥰😊 xxx
@@EmilyElizabethMay Thank you for the motivation Emily. 😉💓
Very simple and extremely helpful 🙏
great tips! i do find it hard for me to develop my own personal style
I understand lovely. Ive got a lot more personal style tips/ content to share on my channel and blog, so stick around ♥️♥️♥️ xxx
You’re not alone Claire ✌🏼
@@tigrezz0852 😘😘♥️
Great info and really well broken down. Thank you!
🙏🏽 aw thank you so much! I spent a lot of time on it, so that’s nice to hear 😌 xx
I agree about the blazers. I have many (some never worn). So beautiful, I think there’re going to pull together some look I’ve seen, but it doesn’t happen. That’s my one addiction.
What a great video! Just what I needed. Subscribed!
Really smart video.
Thanks so much Susan 🙏🏽♥️🥰 xx
Your tips are so so good
Great advice, Emily! Guys are equally guilty of impulse shopping to keep up with fashion trends. Your video really helped to expose the downside of impulse shopping.
🥰Thanks so much Manuel. x
Great advice and tips Emily. Very helpful. It always so refreshing to hear your sensible recommendations. You are so sincere and passionate. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. I really appreciate your help.❤
♥️🥰 aw. Thank you Alma. This message brought a big smile to my face. I’m so glad I have helped xoxo
i really have a problem, like everytime i add so much stuff to my cart and i plan to buy them im like yes yes!! this is dream wardrobe and i will love this forever and now my dream wardrobe is gonna be full, but i always end up getting bored of them so quick or not even wearing them that often because i get insecure.. like i always buy such cool outfits but then never wear them because i feel so insecure wearing it outside so i literally just end up wearing sweatpants and the most basic shirts that i own i literally walk around in my grey sweatpants and a cartoon shirt everyday like literally what is wrong with mee
Thank you for this helpful video! What is the necklace you're wearing and where can I get one? It's gorgeous!
Excellent video - thank you 👌
I bought 2 tops last week but thought about them afterwards. They are pretty but do I really need 2 more tops and tbh it wasn’t planned. I felt really good yesterday because I returned them. In the past I would have hung onto them. So the dopamine rush was so much better because my bank balance is better.
Ah! This is so good! Well done 🥰💫♥️ xx
The one thing that stood out for me, was asking yourself why you don't wear something. I. have a very minimalist wardrobe, but there are still things that I have purchased that I don't wear - and asking this very basic question will certainly stop me from making the same mistake again.
Great tips! Thank you.
You are welcome 🥰♥️ thank you for watching xx
Thank you for the very useful tips. It's very relaxing to watch your videos😊
You’re welcome! I’m so glad to hear they are relaxing to watch, that’s great 🥰♥️🙏🏽 xx
Great video. Thank you.
It's a real problem for us folks who live very rurally. We are Miles from shops and the shops have limited options. Buying things that fit online is a real gamble.
I realized that many things that I bought "on sale", was low quality, and things that can't make essential wardrobe. I also learned not to buy wrong colors for me, and long skirts and dresses that does not make me look good. Knowing your style and things you like wearing in your life is the key.
I have been shifting from a clothes addict to more thoughtful, limited purchases over the past 2 yrs. Slow fashion videos and "shop your closet" advice has helped in my journey! I feel great about saving money and helping the environment, and also feel more in control. I use a closet app with uploaded pictures of my clothes so I can track how often I wear items. When I'm out shopping I use the app to check if a potential new item will work well with what I already have. Thanks so much for your content and valuable advice! 😘
like your sharing
such an amazing video. Thank you so much.
Love yr vlogs 💛 very inspirational
Thank you so much lovely x🥰xx
I've always watching yr videos ❤️ and I'm very happy cause I found u on UA-cam ❤️ I appreciate your aim, style and everything ❤️❤️❤️
Some tips. I do make fashion mistakes sometimes because I like a piece very much but don't have much to wear it with. I find if it's a top, jeans go with most tops, just work out from the jean style to tuck it in or not, or which jacket to wear over. If it's an expensive piece you loved in a sale, but not sure how to wear it, think about the shape and colour. Are they flattering? Can you wear it with other colours that lift it? Do you fit it in with neutral colours or all black with it? There are things I rarely wear but they are 20-30 years old, very good quality, and I wear them at least 2 or 3 times a year, in different ways. I always love them, but there are rare occasions I can wear them. Or have an element altered professionally to make it suit you more, or more fashionable for today. If the material and quality is good, it's worth doing that.
I also buy cheaper pieces in more trendy styles and for the basics, stick to classic pieces in good material.
Also write down what you saw on somebody else and loved and take this information shopping with you. You might strike lucky, and also write down how the original was worn and why you love it so much.You can often recreate a similar outfit, changed a bit to flatter you, from what you already have. Or just by buying one or two smaller pieces.
This is an awesome lesson. Thank you!
🙏🏽♥️ you are so welcome. Glad you enjoyed it, thank you for commenting ♥️ x
Such quality content. Thank you!
Love the greatest showman and yes! I play it and sing and dance around!❤️
Excellent tipps!!
Great advice I will keep you close dear ! Thank you a lot
One mistake I just made was buying a couple printed dresses. They are really beautiful and one fits me perfectly. Only thing is, I hate prints on me! Lol! I know this and rarely buy them anymore, yet, I just did it again.
I do love a polka dot or a stripe, and love a leopard print in belts, shoes or bags. ( definitely in small doses) Any other print I may love on the hanger but always hate it on me.
Oh well, mistakes happen !
I needed this video, thanks so much! 🙌🏻🇺🇸💛
Yay! 🙏🏽🥰 a timely video for you, I’m so glad ♥️ xx
Channeling our creative flares x❤❤❤❤❤
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I redirected my impulse buying to op shops a few years ago, so now i don't feel bad about buying clothes as they only costed a fraction of the cost. I can try out new styles on me and when I'm bored with the piece of clothing I donate it back to the op.
I do the same exact things when shopping (I ask myself the same questions, wait some time and really think before I buy something, and try to put it together in my mind with the pieces I already have in my closet), but the most effective thing for me is to remember: This thing will be paid by the money I earned by investing and irretrievably "losing" time from the limited time I have here on Earth: so is it worth it?
This is interesting, however I was disappointed that you mentioned transitioning but did not discuss it. I’m changing styles and colors. I’ve found myself constantly purchasing colors of clothes that I don’t even like anymore all the time. I was wearing mostly one color for many years, and having a hard time not buying. I don’t know if it’s just been such a habit for so long, or what the reason is. I do know that when I get home, I’m not happy with the items because of the color, and really having to find a way to stop doing this. I even tell myself that I won’t purchase that color when I go shopping, and I still do. It’s sooo irritating. Hopefully, I will stop soon though. Thank you for the otherwise interesting video 🙂
thanks for the tips
What a refreshing video, nice tips