Dining Etiquette: how to master the basic table manners

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    In this video, I share with you the most essential table manners rules when it comes to formal dinning. This is your go-to video to watch in preparation for a formal dinner.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 10 тис.

  • @trish8104
    @trish8104 3 роки тому +56118

    This is really beautiful. I'm gonna practice this at McDonald's

    • @Kachamorich21
      @Kachamorich21 3 роки тому +2649

      This cracked me up😂😂

    • @andysilver9642
      @andysilver9642 3 роки тому +2056

      Hahaha... try eating your burger with a fork and knife next time 😂😂

    • @emillyhss4501
      @emillyhss4501 3 роки тому +345

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @carmelladurand6532
      @carmelladurand6532 3 роки тому +376

      Screaming 😭😂😂😂😂

    • @romaguarda8119
      @romaguarda8119 3 роки тому +133

      Ha ha ha 🤣🤣🤣

  • @LowkeyBone8
    @LowkeyBone8 3 роки тому +5393

    she's different level of living. Can you do a video on Arguing etiquette, it'd be so aggressively polite.

    • @NothingToSeeHere836
      @NothingToSeeHere836 3 роки тому +466

      Wait what, I know there's a 99% chance that you're joking but I would actually love to see that. The things I would do to argue like Elizabeth Bennett and Mr Darcy in that rain scene

    • @LowkeyBone8
      @LowkeyBone8 3 роки тому +163

      @@NothingToSeeHere836 on the contrary Mimi, I wasn’t joking!

    • @NothingToSeeHere836
      @NothingToSeeHere836 3 роки тому +124

      @@LowkeyBone8 Good to know. If you ever happen to find a tutorial on Arguing Etiquette, please do let me know!

    • @anweshakonwar3956
      @anweshakonwar3956 3 роки тому +22

      LoL 😂

    • @laylay222slayah5
      @laylay222slayah5 3 роки тому +15

      Omg😂😭

  • @KH-xi9td
    @KH-xi9td Рік тому +74

    My mother was the queen on etiquette. It resonates with me as of today. Manners are very important. How one dresses tell a lot about that person. There's a time and a place for jeans. It should not be worn in an opera concert as I saw it in Florida (Bocelli's concert)
    Thanks. It was refreshing. I wish people would adhere to good manners or improve their manners.

    • @NajLahsen
      @NajLahsen 14 днів тому +1

      Completely agree with you, dressing well and appropriate is a must (teachings of my mother also) I get so repelled when I go to a fine dining restaurant and see people looking like they're going to the park! Also was at the theater for a ballet performance and most ppl without any proper etiquette, behaving inappropriately and dressed like they were going to Walmart!

  • @surija9925
    @surija9925 Рік тому +351

    At times like this, I am thankful for my father for being a little more strict about our Dining Etiquette. Thank you for this helpful video.

  • @gmlviper
    @gmlviper 3 роки тому +4708

    Me: eating like a pig.
    YT: Here, learn peasant.

  • @madhurima6206
    @madhurima6206 3 роки тому +15138

    Imagine the pressure on her boyfriend on their date.

    • @ananthim7358
      @ananthim7358 3 роки тому +435

      I cant even imagine 😂

    • @S.sangma2839
      @S.sangma2839 3 роки тому +583

      *sweats profoundly *

    • @toughsoftieyogi
      @toughsoftieyogi 3 роки тому +1344

      She would probably date someone who was raised with this type of etiquette.

    • @mehnazrahman1016
      @mehnazrahman1016 3 роки тому +496

      She is already married and have babies 😍

    • @ranimdas1
      @ranimdas1 3 роки тому +19

      😂😂

  • @terrymasseyterry1520
    @terrymasseyterry1520 9 місяців тому +54

    I have worked in fine dining for many years and have served very important people. All the things you teach are the same thing I taught other servers for years. You are doing an excellent job.

  • @NEET-br1bl
    @NEET-br1bl Рік тому +69

    Thank you Jamila for making our lives beautiful by sharing these helpful etiquette lessons with us.

  • @saminathapaliya4062
    @saminathapaliya4062 3 роки тому +5298

    Finally ready to accept the queen's invitation.

  • @DonovanDaniels
    @DonovanDaniels 3 роки тому +3097

    This is everything my grandparents wanted me to be 😂

    • @florencesepisompo5483
      @florencesepisompo5483 3 роки тому +9

      😂 😂 😂 I can imagine the pressure

    • @TsarOfRuss
      @TsarOfRuss 3 роки тому +47

      😂😂😂😂 i was raised with normal table manners like "Close your mouth while chewing, and don't talk while chewing"
      When i moved out and started living with friends, i realised how POSH i was, we werent even remotely rich or close to being rich! my friends don't have any manners at all

    • @matthines4748
      @matthines4748 3 роки тому +15

      It’s funny how that works. My mom comes from an upper middle class - almost aristocratic - background, and I remember the table manners and general etiquette she constantly instilled in me. To this day, I hate eating anywhere but the table. But, its allowed me to be somewhat comfortable in fine dining situations, and in business lunches.

    • @Red_Dusk
      @Red_Dusk 3 роки тому

      Yoo🥴🥴

    • @captainobvious8037
      @captainobvious8037 3 роки тому

      A bag holder/chair.

  • @cherryig2893
    @cherryig2893 Рік тому +179

    I'm part of the younger generation, and I appreciate these videos so much! I've always been fascinated by etiquette that schools don't teach so being able to learn them is an absolute miracle to me

    • @phylis3917
      @phylis3917 8 місяців тому +2

      Great if you meet the upper crust. Never know.

    • @cherryig2893
      @cherryig2893 8 місяців тому +2

      @@phylis3917 so true

  • @eve_______
    @eve_______ Рік тому +21

    The hardest part about this is expecting the establishment to be able to keep up with your manners, but realistically this will only be applicable in certain circles that already know quite well about all the etiquette and are expected to act accordingly.

  • @HarryPotter-gw6ee
    @HarryPotter-gw6ee 3 роки тому +3298

    I'm going to practice with my dog. She is my guest of honor.

  • @jiminsjam1074
    @jiminsjam1074 3 роки тому +11804

    Step 1: get invited to a posh restaurant.

  • @ZenzeraBellaAnna
    @ZenzeraBellaAnna Рік тому +12

    I’m so delighted that I learned these by taking an etiquette class in high school. It has served me so well in my profession. But I didn’t know about the thank you note to the host the next day. I quite like that idea. It’s very courteous and respectful. I’m going to try it. 🤗

  • @GoddamnAxl
    @GoddamnAxl 8 місяців тому +3

    I always make sure I lick the plate clean after eating pasta so that the plate is easier to wash after.

  • @momna0093
    @momna0093 3 роки тому +9203

    Tomorrow is my exam but here I'm learning etiquettes of dining.
    Guys it's been an year since I commented this and today was also my exams but here I'm replying you guys.

    • @amethystx5554
      @amethystx5554 3 роки тому +116

      holy shit same

    • @deejhone5795
      @deejhone5795 3 роки тому +54

      this is me

    • @fatimafarzam4861
      @fatimafarzam4861 3 роки тому +65

      OMG same here😂😂😂

    • @cs7364
      @cs7364 3 роки тому +71

      Me too 😂😂 wtf are we people!

    • @momna0093
      @momna0093 3 роки тому +78

      @@cs7364 We are Pro level careless people. 😂😂✌

  • @itisdidi
    @itisdidi 3 роки тому +13331

    watching this while laying down on my bed and eating a bag of chips

  • @Sidera17
    @Sidera17 7 місяців тому +5

    I am so glad I found this channel. I never learned any of this when young and have suffered from a slight coordination disability, so as I re-learn coordination of activities I'm going to learn the proper etiquette way. It's never too late to learn!

  • @melanieturquoise1111
    @melanieturquoise1111 Рік тому +5

    Oh my goodness what a glorious find you are! I cannot wait to watch all of your work!
    It's dawned on me recently that I feel uncomfortable at restaurants and I don't know how to sit and relax, how to eat without making a fool of myself. Thank you for such a beautiful channel.

  • @alenko2682
    @alenko2682 3 роки тому +2676

    Note to self: Don't go eating fine dining when hungry.

    • @shubhashreesarkar8051
      @shubhashreesarkar8051 3 роки тому +33

      Haha.. Actually. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @yovanak1860
      @yovanak1860 3 роки тому +14

      😆😆 Haha! Agreed🤣

    • @rishusmom6908
      @rishusmom6908 2 роки тому +5

      😄

    • @maretvilla1531
      @maretvilla1531 2 роки тому +52

      If you do, expect to stop at McDonald's or Burger King before going home.
      Fine dining is created with women in their mind. It's a perfect dinner for women where they dressed up and expected to eat expensive meal served on tiny portion.

    • @kooklious1217
      @kooklious1217 2 роки тому +3

      Agreed 🥲 the bill 👀

  • @eliceiam_
    @eliceiam_ 3 роки тому +2105

    This comment section is the funniest section in for a while , you gotta love humans 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @aura_studio_
    @aura_studio_ Рік тому +30

    The way we eat differs greatly because we are Indian. Most of the time, we eat with our hands or a spoon. The video has really given me a profound understanding of fundamental table manners. Thankyou for making this video

    • @bive4167
      @bive4167 9 місяців тому +4

      Same with us Nepalis. I saw a British girl eating bhaat (rice) with a fork and almost had a stoke lol
      Things you eat with hands, you can't with cutlery. It just doesn't feel right. And since it is our culture, it won't be considered lack of manners either. But slurping loudly, chewing with an open mouth and dirtying your entire hand is very gross.

    • @frantschou2369
      @frantschou2369 8 місяців тому +2

      These aren’t “fundamental table manners” these are “advanced table manners for posh snobs”. As long as you’re using knife and fork, not making a mess, not chewing with an open mouth etc. you’ll be fine 95% of the time.

    • @pasttimer27
      @pasttimer27 6 місяців тому +6

      You know there are etiquettes for eating with hand as well. How only tips of fingers should touch the food and not the entire finger, not to let the food touch the palms in most cases.

    • @AWB777
      @AWB777 Місяць тому +1

      Eating with ones hands or rather fingers can be an uplifting experience when done properly which, incidentally in a world of fast foods, applies to almost everyone.

  • @nafnaf0
    @nafnaf0 5 місяців тому +1

    Manners and etiquette are very important. As she says good etiquette makes you and everyone around you more comfortable

  • @farhalmaqsood8369
    @farhalmaqsood8369 3 роки тому +2757

    At this point, i don't even know if i'm breathing PROPERLY !!

    • @exoscalmfan191
      @exoscalmfan191 3 роки тому +72

      most likely you’re not

    • @jessig9970
      @jessig9970 3 роки тому +3

      @@exoscalmfan191 🤣🤣🤣

    • @maevelovesjack
      @maevelovesjack 3 роки тому +6

      I know I’m not, I have some bellyaches because of that when I run

    • @rocketassistedgoat1079
      @rocketassistedgoat1079 3 роки тому +25

      You are not. Now stand outside in the snow and think about what you've done, peasant.

    • @liza7722
      @liza7722 2 роки тому +4

      😂😂😂

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube
    @christinawatkinsyoutube 3 роки тому +1579

    Perfect timing, I didn’t know what to do during lockdown 2. Now I know how to eat properly at my table alone in my room

  • @enchanting_elizabeth
    @enchanting_elizabeth Рік тому +5

    My parents never taught me this. I finally know the proper dinning etiquette

  • @ketystojkov
    @ketystojkov Рік тому +2

    Well done.
    90% of this I already knew. Grateful to my parents who taught me all of these from my childhood ❤

  • @elizamartinez4184
    @elizamartinez4184 3 роки тому +2459

    The napkin thing explains why people throw their napkin onto the table at the end of arguments in shows

  • @uyenduong2547
    @uyenduong2547 3 роки тому +2312

    Your voice sounds really elegant

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +74

      Uyên Dương thank you 🙏🏻

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +78

      @Bilal Al Rashid no, I am from Azerbaijan 🇦🇿

    • @TsarOfRuss
      @TsarOfRuss 3 роки тому +21

      So relaxing! im about to watch her "Tea Etiquette" now.. just incase i've been drinking tea the wrong way all my life 😋

    • @kaustubhsingh9023
      @kaustubhsingh9023 3 роки тому

      @@TsarOfRuss 🤣🤣

    • @AnaMaria888
      @AnaMaria888 3 роки тому +4

      Beautiful woman with nice voice,elegant 100%

  • @acer6049
    @acer6049 8 місяців тому +3

    This is really helpful. I have always wondered what etiquettes and manners to follow in a restaurant since I was a child. Now I know them.I will definitely follow your advices the next time I'm on a restaurant.
    Thank you Jamila

  • @ashmitatamang
    @ashmitatamang 3 роки тому +1644

    Watching this because one day i believe i will be invited to a dinner in A BIIIGGGG CAASSSTLEEE . 😆😆

    • @duarda8199
      @duarda8199 3 роки тому +18

      Best comment lol

    • @anonaka131
      @anonaka131 3 роки тому +19

      It's not like I want to be princess or something

    • @indepthana
      @indepthana 3 роки тому +10

      JUST IN CASE YOU KNOW

    • @richauntie316
      @richauntie316 3 роки тому +20

      That's faith baby,I also watch and learn for future reference because I don't wana embarrass myself

    • @annnnxh
      @annnnxh 3 роки тому +2

      @@anonaka131 totally 🙄

  • @johnkoenig8739
    @johnkoenig8739 3 роки тому +2301

    I take it that licking the plate when you’ve finished is out of the question?

    • @arturbies
      @arturbies 3 роки тому +99

      There was a joke about some countess, which, to offend the guests, gave her plate to the dog for licking after the dinner, saying "this way, we save on washing up dishes before next meal".

    • @85-subhadrapanda80
      @85-subhadrapanda80 3 роки тому +74

      Or licking ur fingers to appreciate the aftertaste

    • @evettekelly3575
      @evettekelly3575 3 роки тому +6

      🤣😂🤣

    • @ttephi3667
      @ttephi3667 3 роки тому +21

      Burping too?

    • @Poppy_pop
      @Poppy_pop 3 роки тому +4

      😂 😂 😂

  • @WasThisIntended
    @WasThisIntended 10 місяців тому +1

    Many thanks for the eloquence and direction in this video. Very informative and quite enjoyable as well.

  • @Mikinoarisu
    @Mikinoarisu 3 роки тому +973

    She’s the definition of classy elegant woman and love her voice so much omg

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +42

      🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @Utkarsh2607
      @Utkarsh2607 3 роки тому +8

      @@JamilaMusayeva yes,ur voice is soo,sweet & elegant,it soothe my mind and soul too😊

    • @aa666aa
      @aa666aa 3 роки тому +4

      ​Thank you @@JamilaMusayeva for educating people on proper manners. Also, you could have pointed out that in many places to signal the waiting staff with anything else than a look or nod is considered rude (you managed to make raising your finger look quite classy, tho).

    • @shoyusufsiddiqov3329
      @shoyusufsiddiqov3329 2 роки тому

      @@JamilaMusayeva Hi, aren't you Uzbek ?!

    • @lostinreality3808
      @lostinreality3808 2 роки тому +2

      @@shoyusufsiddiqov3329 she's azerbaijani

  • @shrutimalabhagabati8123
    @shrutimalabhagabati8123 3 роки тому +11105

    Me, an Indian, who eat with their hands and lick their fingers after finishing, watching this 🙂

    • @ss059
      @ss059 3 роки тому +1000

      As an Indian, our food is finger licking good so I don't care I'll wipe out the entire plate😂

    • @shrutisinha1384
      @shrutisinha1384 3 роки тому +106

      beautiful name u have ❤️

    • @arikween9207
      @arikween9207 3 роки тому +168

      @@shrutisinha1384 lol thats literally same as your name tho😂😂

    • @ruchideole2925
      @ruchideole2925 3 роки тому +47

      Shru Ti. I relate as an indian🤣🤣

    • @gitmaze6630
      @gitmaze6630 3 роки тому +280

      True. LOL, She said good etiquettes will make others feel at ease. I would be stressed rather than at ease

  • @user-on1vs3pg6m
    @user-on1vs3pg6m 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for this! My mother taught me most of this when I was a kid, but a recent fine dining experience reminded me that it's always good to brush up on what's considered good table etiquette =)

  • @levoyageur9981
    @levoyageur9981 8 місяців тому

    Very useful. Thank you for sharing. I'm glad UA-cam recommended me a video with an elegant lady who presents in a very understandable way a video, neither too long nor too short, on how to be comfortable at a dining table. I'm not sure in other countries, but a basic restaurant in France, even though it might not have all the cutlery, most of what you teach here is actually usefull and can be put in practice.

  • @Shortvideostik
    @Shortvideostik 3 роки тому +1533

    I’m going to watch this everyday for it to get stuck in my head.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +121

      ☺️

    • @girlhappy6442
      @girlhappy6442 3 роки тому +19

      Me too haha 😂

    • @sakshikamble4575
      @sakshikamble4575 3 роки тому +13

      I do it every month

    • @princessaria5009
      @princessaria5009 3 роки тому +19

      @@JamilaMusayeva I have a question, when you started to be a lady? I am Aria and now I have 15 years old and my mother learn me how to be a lady, she herself is very elegant and stylish and she wants me to be like her and I want to be like her because I would like to be a lady. When I had 14 years old, she learned me how to eat in elegant way and how to behave. Now I have 15 years old and today she painted my nails. My nails are pink now and they are so beautiful. I love them. Tomorrow she will learn me how to walk in high heels and play piano and I can't wait. I would love to walk in high heels. Anyway thank you for your tips. Aria is my real name if you would like to know, my mother gave me name Aria because in her opinion Aria is wonderful and elegance name, I agree with her. Aria sounds beautiful and when you started to learn how to be a lady?

    • @siri0627
      @siri0627 3 роки тому +1

      🤣

  • @user-cd1ld2yw7s
    @user-cd1ld2yw7s 3 роки тому +862

    I'm obsessed... I mean, I don't do anything she's teaching but it's so interesting that people like this exist in the world.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +67

      Thank you!

    • @kumaryogesh5829
      @kumaryogesh5829 3 роки тому +76

      @jamila i don't think he is complementing you.

    • @stephlon6757
      @stephlon6757 3 роки тому +10

      @@kumaryogesh5829 🤣🤣

    • @eluby
      @eluby 3 роки тому +20

      I am sure that she is ... well, just a regular person, actually, who has knowledge of very niche type of information/skills. And those who are interested, will find her and learn what they need to, OR just be entertained by the content. 😊

    • @maryamal-hassan1866
      @maryamal-hassan1866 3 роки тому +9

      This made me feel like i never wanna go out and eat food in public . Glade were in lockdown 😂😂

  • @thecapone45
    @thecapone45 5 місяців тому

    I’m so glad I came here. You are really pleasant and come across as respectful and proper. Excellent video!

  • @AdenikesSKLife
    @AdenikesSKLife 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for this beautiful video on dining etiquette. Before now, I've always felt timid about being invited to parties or fine dining. After watching your video, I feel confident and enthusiastic. Thank you!

  • @QuickClips_69
    @QuickClips_69 3 роки тому +4961

    I followed this on my dinning table with my parents.
    With one slap I was back to normal.

  • @marisol8332
    @marisol8332 2 роки тому +1917

    My first grade teacher taught us good table manners. We had to wait for everyone to be served before eating during class parties. We were in an under resourced school but everyone from her class learned good table manners and how to read proficiently. When I transferred schools the following year, my new teacher thought I came from a private school (her students were still sounding out words). Thank you Mrs. Castillo.

    • @Im1BossyChick
      @Im1BossyChick 2 роки тому +10

      💖💕💖

    • @mscorashairstudio455
      @mscorashairstudio455 Рік тому +3

      Love it😊❤

    • @PeacePlease.
      @PeacePlease. 10 місяців тому +17

      I can just imagine how pleased Mrs. Castillo would be to read this. I pray she gets to see this, because it will make her heart sing. I remember doing what your Mrs. Castillo did many years ago with some of my kids at lunchtime. We often ate in class as a special treat when they got all their work done, & I would teach & check their table manners then. It's wonderful that you remembered - God Bless You, Marisol - ✌!!

    • @cutie.woohoo_0x0
      @cutie.woohoo_0x0 9 місяців тому +2

      I really love the idea of children learning manners in school ❤

    • @matildaronzy2951
      @matildaronzy2951 8 місяців тому +2

      That's interesting! I wish we'd have that kind of a teacher 😢

  • @sanjeetasamal475
    @sanjeetasamal475 Рік тому +3

    It's my first time watching her video and u know what am already in love with her

  • @larabardot6836
    @larabardot6836 Рік тому +8

    Thank you for making this educational video, I have a lunch interview in a fancy restaurant in a few days and this makes me feel more confident about my dining manners!

    • @MARIADaSilva-dw9cs
      @MARIADaSilva-dw9cs Рік тому +1

      Good luck with the new job!!

    • @larabardot6836
      @larabardot6836 Рік тому +1

      @@MARIADaSilva-dw9csI’m just now seeing your comment, thank you so much! It went really well and I am currently waiting on them to send me the official job offer 😁

  • @agbafaty4155
    @agbafaty4155 3 роки тому +2391

    oh my god when i see this , i realise that i 'm a monster when i start eating lol

  • @CarbonInstinct0
    @CarbonInstinct0 3 роки тому +2033

    I feel like I have been eating like a cave man after watching this.

  • @mooslimboi
    @mooslimboi 8 місяців тому

    The fact that this video taught me more than any class I had in school day is amazing.

  • @mutisiab
    @mutisiab Рік тому +1

    It was an excellent, detail explanation for that level of dinner. Thanks and congratulations!

  • @RocckeFella
    @RocckeFella 2 роки тому +1354

    here I am eating 10 french fries at a time.

  • @tasmin5596
    @tasmin5596 3 роки тому +705

    World's ending and UA-cam be like.. "Relax, watch some table etiquette" 😂

  • @BrinnTDSowo
    @BrinnTDSowo Рік тому +2

    my prom is tommorow
    and they said dining etiquette will be strictly observed
    thank you so much

  • @lisasim278
    @lisasim278 8 місяців тому +1

    I took a culinary class and we had to learn the correct placements plates, silverware, and glasses for both American and European formal dinning. It was Extensive!! When I worked at a world class Country Club we put all those skills to the test. I needed a refresher lesson, since has been a very long time since culinary school & the Country Club experiences, and am so happy to have found your video! Thank-you so much Mrs Jamila Musayeva for all your wonderful videos and taking the time to teach these important skills.
    P.S- Do you have a video on how to exit a car properly? Sometimes depending on the model of the automobile it is tricky!!

  • @ABDULSALSALANI
    @ABDULSALSALANI 3 роки тому +3714

    WHY AM I WATCHING THIS?

    • @timothy6966
      @timothy6966 3 роки тому +102

      Same reason as me. For the hot girl.

    • @et5895
      @et5895 3 роки тому +36

      Because... Attractive

    • @yuki-rf6hl
      @yuki-rf6hl 3 роки тому +11

      U and me both

    • @rheapradhan1714
      @rheapradhan1714 3 роки тому +6

      Haha

    • @bt3755
      @bt3755 3 роки тому +26

      good manners!!

  • @preshmadhakal5752
    @preshmadhakal5752 3 роки тому +3418

    So basically do everything that makes you uncomfortable

    • @annegachanja3468
      @annegachanja3468 3 роки тому +28

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Tlani_k
      @Tlani_k 3 роки тому +165

      Pretty much 😂😂😂. It made me appreciate my simple life lol

    • @AnchelJakhar
      @AnchelJakhar 3 роки тому +11

      So true😂

    • @komal146
      @komal146 3 роки тому +134

      It doesn't seem that difficult once you get into a habit

    • @nondumiso2957
      @nondumiso2957 3 роки тому +4

      🤣🤣😅😅

  • @justgameplay921
    @justgameplay921 10 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou so Much Ms. Jamila. Being from India. Great experience to learn such etiquettes from you. And want to say your class and energy is really different. Wish you enlighten others through your channel. 😄😄

  • @legacylo7895
    @legacylo7895 3 роки тому +923

    "To show your partner that you're not holding any weapon under the table"
    Hahaha! I'm out.

    • @regt6681
      @regt6681 3 роки тому +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @WhatEver-yj5rg
      @WhatEver-yj5rg 3 роки тому +46

      You never know when your guest of honour turns into a murderer 😔😂

    • @ursulashabalala
      @ursulashabalala 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂🔥🔥

    • @jaimeduncan6167
      @jaimeduncan6167 3 роки тому +8

      In Arizona it still make sense, apparently 🤣

    • @brontewcat
      @brontewcat 3 роки тому +2

      I think in some parts of the world that should still be required etiquette.

  • @tate_0137
    @tate_0137 3 роки тому +2078

    Rules:
    1. Don't slouch
    2. Don't press your back to the chair
    3. Don't place your elbows on the table when eating
    4. Hold your hands on your laps
    5. Don't place your bag on the floor
    Dining table:
    1. Napkin on your lap, dap your lips. Place your napkin on the chair when you go to toilet/on the table when you leave the restaurant
    2. Right- glass, left-butter knife
    3. Champagne glass: hold the stamp, not touching the bottom
    4. Wetwide glass: hold the stamp
    5. Send a thank you messages/flowers

  • @sensualallure5325
    @sensualallure5325 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Jamila. I have learnt ALOT today ❤

  • @zimbabweanbosh7060
    @zimbabweanbosh7060 Рік тому +2

    Все очень доступно и понятно, красивая подача, приятно смотреть и слушать Вас. Благодарю 🙏🏻

  • @ManahilSajid-fe7lq
    @ManahilSajid-fe7lq 3 роки тому +452

    OK but your voice is so calming ❤️

  • @fairybirdhasmeteorwings929
    @fairybirdhasmeteorwings929 3 роки тому +2831

    asks for bag holder at McDonalds*

  • @bellecd7963
    @bellecd7963 Рік тому

    I really wanted to watch a video about etiquettes. I learned etiquettes in school like century ago but I forget everything because we barely use good table manners at home. I LOVOOOOOOOVE THIS VIDEO. THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @SB5SimulationsFerroviairesEEP
    @SB5SimulationsFerroviairesEEP 8 місяців тому

    Intéressant, et merci du partage! Merci de nous montrer que même pour le repas les civilisations ont leurs codes de conduites! Stéph.
    Interesting, and thank you for sharing! Thank you for showing us that even when it comes to eating, civilisations have their own codes of conduct! Stéph.

  • @zunairaaminarussell5670
    @zunairaaminarussell5670 3 роки тому +404

    The way you talk and everything is just perfect

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +16

      Thanks a lot! 🙏🏻

    • @livevolove524
      @livevolove524 3 роки тому

      @@JamilaMusayeva hope you are doing well ..are you in azerbaijan ?

  • @FahimaHaque
    @FahimaHaque 3 роки тому +1130

    This is THE MOST USEFUL etiquette video I’ve been across! Thank you!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +33

      Fahima Haque thank you Fahima ☺️

    • @ArcticFirepixy
      @ArcticFirepixy 3 роки тому +4

      for real @fahima this is so useful

    • @gemspiritmessages2754
      @gemspiritmessages2754 3 роки тому +8

      Absolutely, all class and no pretentiousness 👏👏👌

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +5

      @@gemspiritmessages2754 thank you!

    • @cfdby4784
      @cfdby4784 3 роки тому +1

      @@JamilaMusayeva Can i ask if you're a libra? You're so perfect omg 😍

  • @danielz.8447
    @danielz.8447 8 місяців тому +1

    Thats ASMR level of teaching, don't really need to know all that but it's a treat to listen to and relax

  • @mahinarora4928
    @mahinarora4928 Рік тому

    I was in a boarding school and there we were taught dining etiquettes, your video refreshed my memories

  • @aneesahperween2513
    @aneesahperween2513 3 роки тому +654

    her ex realising “oh thats where I went wrong”

  • @hooby7045
    @hooby7045 3 роки тому +3203

    Can somebody tell me why this is being recommended, I haven't been to a restaurant in 10 months. And besides the only table manner I have right now is to not spill food on my bed while eating
    Edit: I was going to say thank you for all these likes, but I realized I made a funny statement, I deserve those likes, let me enjoy my self I've had a bad day today

    • @isebi7592
      @isebi7592 3 роки тому +6

      😀😀😀

    • @ananthim7358
      @ananthim7358 3 роки тому +42

      Probably that comes under bed manners😂

    • @danyf.1442
      @danyf.1442 3 роки тому +5

      Relatable😂

    • @hooby7045
      @hooby7045 3 роки тому +3

      @@ananthim7358 lol :)

    • @hooby7045
      @hooby7045 3 роки тому +5

      specifically "Ramen"

  • @natalieodisho7264
    @natalieodisho7264 Рік тому

    Exactly what I was looking for to brush up! Thank you

  • @simplecia2014
    @simplecia2014 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge about this. I've learned so much from you today. more power.

  • @139harshavardhinikesarwani7
    @139harshavardhinikesarwani7 3 роки тому +2316

    She : using 10 items to eat 1 meal
    Me: uses 1 plate to put my cake, chips, dinosaurs and my whole life 😂😂😂

  • @AaBb-rh6js
    @AaBb-rh6js 3 роки тому +1300

    What if I’m fat and there’s no space between the back of the chair and the table?

    • @anasimic1109
      @anasimic1109 3 роки тому +320

      Then you must never eat again.

    • @peaceamongworlds2256
      @peaceamongworlds2256 3 роки тому +71

      @@anasimic1109 why would u say sth like that...

    • @anasimic1109
      @anasimic1109 3 роки тому +168

      @@peaceamongworlds2256 Um I'm obviously being sarcastic and joking? 😶

    • @rezi9754
      @rezi9754 3 роки тому +73

      @@anasimic1109 ppl got eating disorders so saying that might not be the right thing even if you are joking about it

    • @cfdby4784
      @cfdby4784 3 роки тому +6

      @@anasimic1109 LMAO thanks hun

  • @dianariverjackson5123
    @dianariverjackson5123 10 місяців тому

    Coming from an italian family with academics and sportsmen followed by antique dealers, I was raised with all sorts of etiquette. This brings me so much childhood nostalgia watching this video.

  • @MVR777
    @MVR777 8 місяців тому

    I've truly enjoyed the part with napkin arrangements, watched it over and over again...

  • @user-uz1sp1xg5x
    @user-uz1sp1xg5x 3 роки тому +231

    i really love the outfit but the way she carry herself makes it so much more beautiful

  • @Pres4Bevz
    @Pres4Bevz 3 роки тому +550

    I love this. Could you please do a series on how to host a breakfast, brunch, lunch, tea, dinner. The correct etiquette. The way the table should be set. How to Ask guests about allergies and preferences. How to be a good hostess

    • @nooneknows8150
      @nooneknows8150 3 роки тому +3

      Yesss

    • @AdrianaBarron1
      @AdrianaBarron1 3 роки тому +2

      Yeeeeeeeeeeesss a million times!

    • @creamy6680
      @creamy6680 3 роки тому +2

      Yessssssss

    • @anja-beveneberle3472
      @anja-beveneberle3472 3 роки тому

      how about you use your own brain and just think of how you would like to be hosted and then do it that way? why let someone else tell you what is "right" or "wrong"?

    • @AdrianaBarron1
      @AdrianaBarron1 3 роки тому +4

      @@anja-beveneberle3472 It's not even about what's "right or wrong", it's just seeking advice from someone with more experience. What's wrong with that? What's wrong with asking questions and learning?

  • @tineypamuditha4160
    @tineypamuditha4160 Рік тому +1

    Thank god finally I found this.. thank you Jamila for this wonderful video. I'm so lucky to find your channel! ❤️ Love from Sri Lanka

  • @shekhargupta6718
    @shekhargupta6718 Рік тому +1

    You are super talented unique personality in demand. Keep up the good work.

  • @fatimaibrahim1185
    @fatimaibrahim1185 3 роки тому +20

    Appreciate her voice... sooo calm n sweet!

  • @xijean4727
    @xijean4727 3 роки тому +58

    Im so thankful for my friends' grandmother who at age 9 taught us dinning etiquette & Tea party etiquette. This knowledge helps a lot when you want to make a nice impression.

  • @FlorBantique
    @FlorBantique 11 місяців тому

    This is beautiful ways to learn/I watch lots of etiquette manner on table thisone i learn more..thank you so much, because you do it good.

  • @tanyacharbury4728
    @tanyacharbury4728 7 місяців тому

    This is how I was raised. It was nice to see it summarized and explained like this. Thank you!

  • @LuLu6214
    @LuLu6214 3 роки тому +68

    I grew up learning this from my grandmother, it's a nice refresher, also great to inform me about the glasses...since my family never consumed wine or Champaign, that was always left out of my grandmother's etiquette lessons.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +10

      Thanks Grandma for teaching from early on ☺️

  • @katiela7021
    @katiela7021 2 роки тому +1359

    I love learning proper social skills through videos like the one you have here. I will definitely apply these skills for dates, dinner parties that come alongside professional business meetings, and other events. I really want to make a good impression on others and succeed in life! Thank you so much for making this video!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  2 роки тому +58

      You are welcome

    • @Arstudook
      @Arstudook 2 роки тому +7

      @@messyhessy6318 bullshit

    • @MARIADaSilva-dw9cs
      @MARIADaSilva-dw9cs Рік тому +28

      @@JamilaMusayeva I met my gf at a beautiful bistro. At the end when we asked for the bill, the owner came over and said: this is my pleasure. You reminded me for much of my mother. Your table manners are impeccable. She's in Russia and I miss her so much. This was the nicest thing anyone has ever done. We left a 40% tip to our waitress. She was fenomenal.

    • @bayernmunchen6762
      @bayernmunchen6762 Рік тому +1

      and every country is different go to asia and it is very different than the EU

    • @perasima6533
      @perasima6533 8 місяців тому +9

      These are not social skills, most of people don't know or use this stuff. This is mostly for rich people who are dinning at some high-end restaurants. I'm sad you feel like you need to do this in order to impress people.
      Good social skills would be helping an old lady in the elevator, holding a door for someone, feeding a stray cat in front of your building... Acts of kindness come in all shapes and sizes. Do that and god will love you much more than for simply holding a fork in the "right" way.

  • @MaximinaD.
    @MaximinaD. 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for your very knowledgeable videos. I am glad a found you!

  • @sanjoyghose1952
    @sanjoyghose1952 8 місяців тому

    Extremely beautiful presentation. I personally like to attend formal dinner or lunch with this grammatical correct manner.

  • @samchoi3304
    @samchoi3304 3 роки тому +251

    I’ve been living like a beast

  • @fahds2583
    @fahds2583 3 роки тому +912

    as a kid, this is everything i thought the grownup world would be like....

    • @iwakuralain1459
      @iwakuralain1459 3 роки тому +11

      Same

    • @bellatrix9256
      @bellatrix9256 3 роки тому +6

      dude same

    • @aliveuser3293
      @aliveuser3293 3 роки тому +8

      But now its only you commenting in videos 😂

    • @o_neill66
      @o_neill66 3 роки тому

      Yeah... so disappointed

    • @NoOne-rg1og
      @NoOne-rg1og 3 роки тому +2

      it is typically used by the upper class at formal dinner gatherings as these forms of eating etiquettes show you have class and have manners. i had to attend one of these "formal" like events for a huge family gathering in the past. half of the people there were wealthy, while the other half (myself included) were in the middle to middle upper class level. needless to say, it was quite intriguing to watch 3 different class structures. one being wealthy and having these subtle etiquettes that give a person "class" as well as their oozing aura of presence that is almost palpable. second being wealthy but lacking in these forms of etiquettes. basically having money but lacking in class. they dont have that much of a presence as the ones who carry themselves with that aura of godlike and class. you can probably mistake them for just being upper middle class. and finally, the common folks who lack in both money and knowledge of these social rules and manners but try their best to adapt and fit in to their surroundings so that they dont stand out in a negative way.

  • @kalikaaloide856
    @kalikaaloide856 Рік тому +1

    I love this,besides wanting to impress in the first place,i feel more relaxation after watching this and more comfort with myself rather than for others🧡☕️

  • @bestill365
    @bestill365 Рік тому +1

    You did an amazing job explaining etiquette! Great video!

  • @nikamikano3512
    @nikamikano3512 3 роки тому +394

    I am really thankful to my dad for teaching me all this when I was little. Now, thanks to that and years of experience, I don't need to think much about it as it has become my second nature.

    • @Gaburierairuze
      @Gaburierairuze 2 роки тому +14

      Same
      It's nice watching videos like this though to refresh my memory since I don't dine out or with many people often

  • @e0b1ff
    @e0b1ff 3 роки тому +1044

    At the start I was thinking.. "how the hell is she so skinny"
    And then I saw the food.

  • @BlackCoffeeee
    @BlackCoffeeee Рік тому +20

    To indicate that you're not finished your meal but want to take a pause from eating, put your knife and fork at the 12-6 angle then move the fork to a 12-7 angle and the knife to a 12-5 angle (like a triangle on the plate). This let's the waiter know not to remove your plate.

  • @janosik47
    @janosik47 8 місяців тому

    Much needed video at the present .
    Good old us has 5 millions guests and nobody wants to host them.For those guests manners at the table are very important. 😊

  • @jonesie8377
    @jonesie8377 3 роки тому +479

    I really enjoyed this video, thank you. People may not realize how much of an impression proper etiquette can make at a formal work diner or charity event. It shows a level of refinement most people do not have.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  3 роки тому +16

      Thank you!

    • @datshitcray
      @datshitcray 2 роки тому +7

      If that's the case, then who are you showing it to?

    • @datshitcray
      @datshitcray 2 роки тому +2

      @Isabel reed but according to Jonesie these people do not have the necessary level of refinement so they wouldnt recognize it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @datshitcray
      @datshitcray 2 роки тому +4

      @Isabel reed just being present in a situation doesn't mean you learn from it. You need to be conscious of what is happening in the first place.
      You are the perfect example. You have witnessed my sarcastic comment about the idiocy of the original comment, yet you still don't understand the essence of the humor.

    • @datshitcray
      @datshitcray 2 роки тому

      @Isabel reed Sure. I did like the video. I was just light-heartedly mocking the original comment of this thread

  • @zephyrz0902
    @zephyrz0902 3 роки тому +836

    The Aliens: Write that down! write that down!

  • @alvinjr.1776
    @alvinjr.1776 Рік тому +6

    This is great. Could you consider doing a video on proper etiquette for a young lady. I have two young daughters (10 & 8 years old) who who absolutely adore your videos.
    Thank you for your consideration. 🙂