The Differences Between Men and Women

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  • @raisingarrows127_4
    @raisingarrows127_4 Рік тому +850

    This explanation was so accurate. The world is scary when you and your children are vulnerable.

    • @mirabilis
      @mirabilis Рік тому +5

      Men's children are also vulnerable.

    • @SusieQ156
      @SusieQ156 Рік тому +10

      Been there - as a single parent - felt and acknowledged our vulnerability and vowed to be protective as possible and not have any more children until my situation was more secure! Needless to say l had no more children as l never found that safe space with a prospective boyfriend/ partner.
      I’m still vulnerable now as a single woman , but not as much , as my sons have grown and they now fill that protective role to a degree !
      And lastly it’s so tiring emotionally having to constantly fend off all the attacks on your vulnerability as a single parent- man or woman. Protect yourself no matter your situation!!!

    • @avapilsen
      @avapilsen Рік тому +22

      Absolutely. Men don't realize how intimidating they are to women, even when they're nice and all.

    • @mirabilis
      @mirabilis Рік тому

      @@avapilsen Women are intimidating to men too.

    • @avapilsen
      @avapilsen Рік тому +14

      @@mirabilis Yes, but for different reasons.

  • @kauffrau6764
    @kauffrau6764 Рік тому +1896

    As a woman, I completely agree.

    • @Wise__guy
      @Wise__guy Рік тому +43

      As a banana, this sounds like word salad to me

    • @kierzo8543
      @kierzo8543 Рік тому +13

      ​@@Wise__guy 🍌

    • @kauffrau6764
      @kauffrau6764 Рік тому +5

      @@Wise__guy 🏆

    • @sophiehanson5559
      @sophiehanson5559 Рік тому

      Now we have soy boys as protectors and look at the sexual assault rates and trafficking😢

    • @rosemaryruiz1878
      @rosemaryruiz1878 Рік тому

      Yeah same here

  • @empoweredchoice1893
    @empoweredchoice1893 Рік тому +1999

    Imagine a world leader this intelligent and articulate.

    • @yinyang1217
      @yinyang1217 Рік тому +49

      If only most of the people weren't so attached to their subjective opinions and had critical thinking...

    • @annier6835
      @annier6835 Рік тому +12

      No, sadly, I can’t imagine it.

    • @cochiseseals
      @cochiseseals Рік тому +17

      @@annier6835 it would be dangerous for him, because he wouldn't be left to reign for long (on earth). He wouldn't be of help for the rich, but mostly those who are common decent men & women. So I don't think that'd be a good idea. Nor do I think they'd think it'd be a good idea unless it's their calling like it was MLK. But of course, his reason for d**th had to be because he knew too much. And was trying to help as well.

    • @bigbird4481
      @bigbird4481 Рік тому

      ​@@cochiseseals what do you mean "on earth"

    • @dariuscodreanu5687
      @dariuscodreanu5687 Рік тому +5

      ​@@bigbird4481means he would get killed

  • @dontdrinkclorox8679
    @dontdrinkclorox8679 Рік тому +127

    Completely true. I always got so Confused when my male friends were so comfortable in dangerous situations or didn't even realise they were in Danger. For us women, we are on high alert most of the time.

    • @SanthoshGparapurrathu
      @SanthoshGparapurrathu Рік тому +12

      That's because risk taking behaviour men love conflicts and thrive in it and women hate conflicts

    • @lxDastanxl
      @lxDastanxl Рік тому +5

      Keep in mind that even if a men is not into you meaning he likes you he will still pretend not to be scare even if he is because that will keep you calm, by showing confidence that we have things under control you keep does that you care emotionally safe plus is really inconvenient having to deal with whatever dangerous situation and a couple girls or kids or even other men making everything more complicated. If you feel curious about this take a male kid and put him on this situation by role playing haha is the cuties thing ever when a little young boy gets all cocky and confident cause he knows the girls around him are looking up to him. We as men like that feeling we like to be at the front we like to protect you specially if you are important to us

    • @lxDastanxl
      @lxDastanxl Рік тому

      ​​​​@@SanthoshGparapurrathuctually is the opposite unless you are talking about a trouble maker which is definitely not the stereotype of a man the stereotype of a man is the one who solves problems and keeps peace meanwhile women are the ones that love conflict but it's an evolutionary trait since their attention to detail is no way near to a men's attention we are simple minded tied up with the basics while women are able to see problems where they are not but since we love our women and we want to keep things in peace we please them the best way we can that's why we have art, architecture, food overall culture is because men attention to basic necessities and woman attention to detail this is the reason why society is the way it is it's do to the relationship between a men and a women otherwise the whole world will nothing but a flat bed with pizza on the corner a T.V and a videogame console, I swear it's the true we don't really care about decoration or organizing till a girl comes visit our place that's when we clean up and decorate otherwise we are find at least the majority of the male population

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 Рік тому +1

      I wonder how you expect a man to react to a dangerous situation? To show aggression? Fear? How would that help?

    • @lzestrara1518
      @lzestrara1518 Рік тому +4

      I also think about how societal groups need both sets of propensities. We need risk takers and we need risk-averse individuals. And it only makes sense that the risk-seeking variety of humans have physical traits that improve survivability, such as size, strength, spacial awareness, reaction times, courage, and prowess (i.e., men!) And that the risk-averse group take on other qualities that provide value to the community, such as organization, multi-tasking, empathy, communication, relationship building, and home/child care (i.e., women).
      The value of having both types of humans is that we can make what we hope are the best possible decisions for the group. As well as specializing in tasks that require one over the other. There's a very good REASON that women historically took on lower-risk tasks, while men take on the higher-risk tasks of hunting, battle, conflict engagement, etc.
      We have expectations for the genders not because of some mythical patriarchy, but because it's literally built into our DNA.

  • @danielawilliams5988
    @danielawilliams5988 Рік тому +376

    I think this is true, especially when pregnant. I just wanted to be left alone and not really socialize very much. It felt more like a protective instinct.

    • @dhanagunter5893
      @dhanagunter5893 Рік тому +39

      It is a protective instinct, women are more vulnerable being pregnant. You're not wrong.

    • @Biggles2498
      @Biggles2498 Рік тому +19

      During Pregnancy a Woman or Wife should be treated like a Precious Diamond by their Husband or Partner, It could be said this should apply all the time if a Woman needs it.

    • @jimjk7
      @jimjk7 Рік тому +2

      ​@@Biggles2498simp

    • @SanthoshGparapurrathu
      @SanthoshGparapurrathu Рік тому

      ​@@jimjk7caring a pregnant wife is simp for you brah go and learn about what simp

    • @crazy4orlando2
      @crazy4orlando2 Рік тому +10

      ​@@jimjk7I mean, if there ever was a time to simp it would be when a woman is carrying your child.

  • @pusscat1147
    @pusscat1147 Рік тому +503

    Women are agreeable right up until there is a threat to their kids then all bets are off

    • @Fighting_Fatigue_117
      @Fighting_Fatigue_117 Рік тому +1

      Like other kids.

    • @yanna1993
      @yanna1993 Рік тому

      Not anymore. They are being programmed to throw their kids to the lgbtq

    • @wandawilson1787
      @wandawilson1787 Рік тому +21

      Agree, there is nothing more dangerous than a mom who's child has been threatened.

    • @IGMH17
      @IGMH17 Рік тому +7

      ​@@wandawilson1787 or a man who has nothing/everything to lose

    • @IGMH17
      @IGMH17 Рік тому +2

      ​@@wandawilson1787 those are my biggest fears

  • @ecarr7026
    @ecarr7026 Рік тому +59

    This is so true! I will never forget the first week after my son was born. I felt like I was constantly on high alert, and every little thing that was negative seemed huge and threatening to me, and it worried me for my little one.

    • @wakranich3488
      @wakranich3488 Рік тому

      I experienced that w/ my first child & it was depression.

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 8 місяців тому

      Estrogen causes woman´brain to notice "problems" 10 times more, but also inform everybody, or her man , protector......Testosterone makes the man much more calm so he may easily focus on ataks... testosterone is considered as problem solving hormone........ I guess it was probably how our brain and genetic information of body was developing over the thousands of years of social interaction .....Now scientists found out that small new born babies are at risk if they are left alone, because their brain noticed being alone, and they are inshock and afraid to not be fed by someone....its a survival instinct.....But the problem is these "shock experiences" may affect them in adulthood. The adult person is not remembering these experiences but the subconscious mind (original brain) remembers it........ Therefore the person may have some issues of attachment style if he/she was neglected in childhood, especially by mother, or someone stole the baby from mother, or there was some other circumstances like war, violence, kids being separated from mothers, sleeping in another room, in hospital, etc Gabor Mate experienced during war the doctors searated him as the baby, and put him in differet room. It may be a big shock for the baby, because the instinct of the bab yis being fed by mother, to survive Th ebaby can not think consciously, the child starts thinking consciously at age 7........... Small babies can not regulate their own nervous system and Gabor Mate said they need the mother close, to protect the baby. Its probably in the early stage of childhood. Of course as the child gets its own confidence by learning the stuff, it takes time. ...Scientists say if a small baby is separated for some nonsense reason from the mom, it may cause some damage in brain nad also the personality of the child.....after he she becomes and adult, because the brain remembers the early stage of the childhood, and the brain tries to protect the person from another harm...so therefore man ypeople have problem to find good partner, because their brain learned to not truust the unknown circumstances, the brain doesnt know the difference between imagined story or reality...therefore the brain (or subconscious mind) creates some false accusations, thinking ...I have to protect this body from another harm, from nother danger to survive etc, lets not marry, because relationships create danger.....But then the concsious mind is the exact oposite. The conscious mind is loving happy, creative joyful, but conscous mind operates only 5 percent, subconscious mind operates 95 percent. Dr. Bruce Lipton explains how to reprogram the false beliefs to find happy relationships.

  • @dogstar8027
    @dogstar8027 Рік тому +75

    This is really important stuff for both men and women to understand and explains anxiety and negative thought patterns I have struggled with for most of my adult life. That I have these because it’s how my female genetics have shaped me to be a good mother so my kids reach adulthood in one piece is really comforting. My husband is always saying that I have a negative mistrustful view of the world, and to relax. I’m going to have a serious chat with him.

    • @rainbowstones5431
      @rainbowstones5431 Рік тому +18

      He won't listen because, in part, he is right- you have to calm your inner voice that predicts the worst outcome- get a therapist to get this off your chest- dontvruin your marriage by nagging the man into trying to think like a woman- he cant

    • @Sandra-bx6yy
      @Sandra-bx6yy Рік тому +3

      ​@@rainbowstones5431 very helpful advice.👍

    • @cooperedith958
      @cooperedith958 Рік тому +21

      No we don't those feelings and awareness are there for a reason. Those thoughts and preparedness are what keep us and our kids alive and save. Better to avoid worst situations then let them happen. Men don't have to think like women but they can understand and respect why we do.

    • @KatyVLOGS12
      @KatyVLOGS12 Рік тому +2

      It’s not that clear cut… you can’t just say you have anxiety because of your female genetics there is like a million factors bro

    • @dogstar8027
      @dogstar8027 Рік тому

      @Rainbow Stones Happily married for 44 years. I know myself and am honest abt my struggles and who I am. Knowledge of how we are made in order to survive is useful and interesting

  • @piercingtheveil7749
    @piercingtheveil7749 Рік тому +440

    NAILED IT!!!!! AGAIN!!! Don’t worry Jordan 96.9% of the population agrees with you, the other 3.1% don’t know which washroom to use! 😂
    Keep on rocking and rolling brother! 👊🏻

    • @olivesama
      @olivesama Рік тому +16

      Jokes aside, there's no evidence that even 3% are confused about that.

    • @piercingtheveil7749
      @piercingtheveil7749 Рік тому +3

      @@olivesama ❄️

    • @olivesama
      @olivesama Рік тому +11

      @@piercingtheveil7749 Facts don't care about your feelings.

    • @cathithomas2888
      @cathithomas2888 Рік тому +7

      Jordan would not approve of what you said, my fellow human.
      I want to ask you something…. Do you even have enough compassion for others to
      IMAGINE the absolute TORTURE some people go through just to be included in society? Put yourself or a loved one in that person’s shoes and absorb how bad they are made to feel, just for BORN?? humans come in all types of energy.

    • @cathithomas2888
      @cathithomas2888 Рік тому +2

      @@olivesama … they aren’t confused about who they are but perhaps YOU are!

  • @BetterCallSauS
    @BetterCallSauS 6 місяців тому +2

    Ladies and especially women with children should ALWAYS have something on them to protect themselves.

  • @MissSunflower242
    @MissSunflower242 Рік тому +6

    I don't have children but i wholeheartedly agree with him. Instinctually, i feel it, as a woman, in certain spaces especially. I'm tuned into potential dangers and i hate thinking that way but it's there

  • @Talks_2much
    @Talks_2much Рік тому +10

    I definitely agree. I've always been more cautious of the world around me that any man I've known and that intensified greatly when I had my son. His life is in my hands and most of the time, my hands alone because my fiance works. Although, I would say I'm much less agreeable now because being agreeable could put my son in danger.

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 8 місяців тому

      Estrogen causes woman´brain to notice "problems" 10 times more, but also inform everybody, or her man , protector......Testosterone makes the man much more calm so he may easily focus on ataks... testosterone is considered as problem solving hormone........ I guess it was probably how our brain and genetic information of body was developing over the thousands of years of social interaction .....Now scientists found out that small new born babies are at risk if they are left alone, because their brain noticed being alone, and they are inshock and afraid to not be fed by someone....its a survival instinct.....But the problem is these "shock experiences" may affect them in adulthood. The adult person is not remembering these experiences but the subconscious mind (original brain) remembers it........ Therefore the person may have some issues of attachment style if he/she was neglected in childhood, especially by mother, or someone stole the baby from mother, or there was some other circumstances like war, violence, kids being separated from mothers, sleeping in another room, in hospital, etc Gabor Mate experienced during war the doctors searated him as the baby, and put him in differet room. It may be a big shock for the baby, because the instinct of the bab yis being fed by mother, to survive Th ebaby can not think consciously, the child starts thinking consciously at age 7........... Small babies can not regulate their own nervous system and Gabor Mate said they need the mother close, to protect the baby. Its probably in the early stage of childhood. Of course as the child gets its own confidence by learning the stuff, it takes time. ...Scientists say if a small baby is separated for some nonsense reason from the mom, it may cause some damage in brain nad also the personality of the child.....after he she becomes and adult, because the brain remembers the early stage of the childhood, and the brain tries to protect the person from another harm...so therefore man ypeople have problem to find good partner, because their brain learned to not truust the unknown circumstances, the brain doesnt know the difference between imagined story or reality...therefore the brain (or subconscious mind) creates some false accusations, thinking ...I have to protect this body from another harm, from nother danger to survive etc, lets not marry, because relationships create danger.....But then the concsious mind is the exact oposite. The conscious mind is loving happy, creative joyful, but conscous mind operates only 5 percent, subconscious mind operates 95 percent. Dr. Bruce Lipton explains how to reprogram the false beliefs to find happy relationships.

  • @IDK-ci7yp
    @IDK-ci7yp Рік тому +168

    that's why women need a man around! balance. men cheer us up. men reduce threats around. if they are good men....

    • @SecondOpinionGarageDoorRepair
      @SecondOpinionGarageDoorRepair Рік тому

      Need or benefit?
      Probably in our lifetimes, they will have artificial sperm that would be superior to men.

    • @Fighting_Fatigue_117
      @Fighting_Fatigue_117 Рік тому +3

      Mmmm 🤔

    • @l_u5841
      @l_u5841 Рік тому +23

      I agree with you. I remember when I met my husband, and we laughed, and he made me laugh. He was protective, and I felt safe. Then his mom advised him to be different. She created a monster in her image. Now I feel sad all the time. He will never protect me against anyone.

    • @SwedishNationalist
      @SwedishNationalist Рік тому +27

      Men also need women in their lives

    • @katherinecolson2350
      @katherinecolson2350 Рік тому +5

      🤔 hmmmm, I don't necessarily agree with that

  • @Roboman1807
    @Roboman1807 Рік тому +6

    What Jordan is saying is that people should place themselves in situations where they have a skills advantage.
    If you have you have a caring heart, you should help others.
    If you are good at inventing, you should be an inventor.

  • @Lost_Again_
    @Lost_Again_ Рік тому +32

    Awesome as usual ❤️. I sent you a message about the new University. Very exciting!!!

  • @AmyLynn94
    @AmyLynn94 Рік тому +4

    As a woman and a mother, I agree. It’s in our nature to be more on guard, and having a child only amplifies that. It’s instinctual to want to protect ourselves, especially as a woman, but when it comes to our offspring, it’s like an animalistic instinct to protect and be even more aware.

  • @melodyjones5305
    @melodyjones5305 Рік тому +9

    I agree I had a counselor tell me these things years ago only worded a little different. Thank you for sharing this alot of men & women needed to know this information ❤❤love you!

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 8 місяців тому

      Estrogen causes woman´brain to notice "problems" 10 times more, but also inform everybody, or her man , protector......Testosterone makes the man much more calm so he may easily focus on ataks... testosterone is considered as problem solving hormone........ I guess it was probably how our brain and genetic information of body was developing over the thousands of years of social interaction .....Now scientists found out that small new born babies are at risk if they are left alone, because their brain noticed being alone, and they are inshock and afraid to not be fed by someone....its a survival instinct.....But the problem is these "shock experiences" may affect them in adulthood. The adult person is not remembering these experiences but the subconscious mind (original brain) remembers it........ Therefore the person may have some issues of attachment style if he/she was neglected in childhood, especially by mother, or someone stole the baby from mother, or there was some other circumstances like war, violence, kids being separated from mothers, sleeping in another room, in hospital, etc Gabor Mate experienced during war the doctors searated him as the baby, and put him in differet room. It may be a big shock for the baby, because the instinct of the bab yis being fed by mother, to survive Th ebaby can not think consciously, the child starts thinking consciously at age 7........... Small babies can not regulate their own nervous system and Gabor Mate said they need the mother close, to protect the baby. Its probably in the early stage of childhood. Of course as the child gets its own confidence by learning the stuff, it takes time. ...Scientists say if a small baby is separated for some nonsense reason from the mom, it may cause some damage in brain nad also the personality of the child.....after he she becomes and adult, because the brain remembers the early stage of the childhood, and the brain tries to protect the person from another harm...so therefore man ypeople have problem to find good partner, because their brain learned to not truust the unknown circumstances, the brain doesnt know the difference between imagined story or reality...therefore the brain (or subconscious mind) creates some false accusations, thinking ...I have to protect this body from another harm, from nother danger to survive etc, lets not marry, because relationships create danger.....But then the concsious mind is the exact oposite. The conscious mind is loving happy, creative joyful, but conscous mind operates only 5 percent, subconscious mind operates 95 percent. Dr. Bruce Lipton explains how to reprogram the false beliefs to find happy relationships.

  • @boessheila50
    @boessheila50 Рік тому +14

    U make very good sense. Dr. J Peterson
    Yes we women r very perceptive also

    • @Fighting_Fatigue_117
      @Fighting_Fatigue_117 Рік тому

      About what exactly?

    • @boessheila50
      @boessheila50 Рік тому +1

      @Treat_your_family_well LOTS of emotional things in life. Children. Other people and issues in friendships, plus Husbands,many things that can affect them and loved ones. I think if women are not focused narcistically on their nails, hair, wardrobe. Materialism. and competition with other women they have time to see Reality of life more clearly in all aspects!@

  • @manuelmurielcagigal9971
    @manuelmurielcagigal9971 Рік тому +39

    You are truly one of the greatest minds of our time

    • @maskofsan1ty
      @maskofsan1ty Рік тому +1

      He's an idiots intellectual...

    • @ddhqj2023
      @ddhqj2023 Рік тому

      lololololololololol..............

    • @Fighting_Fatigue_117
      @Fighting_Fatigue_117 Рік тому

      I'm struggling with his current works.

    • @Georgia.J
      @Georgia.J Рік тому +2

      He is stating the obvious , Plato he is not!🙄

  • @Valstein0
    @Valstein0 Рік тому +352

    Imagine humans wipe ourselves out and the deep sea angler becomes the next intelligent species and then they try arguing that sex is a social construct.

    • @waynebruce24893
      @waynebruce24893 Рік тому +1

      Water World?

    • @froggo5690
      @froggo5690 Рік тому +18

      sex never was the social construct, gender was and by that people generally mean the gender roles that are FORCED onto people rather than the roles some people naturally tend to take

    • @mrburns91
      @mrburns91 Рік тому +43

      ​@@froggo5690 how was it forced? Up until the industrial revolution, and even for at least 100 years afterwards. In order to survive and feed yourself, taking care of the home and all the jobs that go along with that required someone to remain at home the majority of the time while the other was either out in the fields or working somewhere in the community or out hunting for food. People had lots of children because A. there was no reliable birth control, B. it increased the chances of having children that survived into adulthood, and C. more family members meant more hands to help the family survive. What makes more sense, the men or the women to stay home? Obviously, when there are young children involved, it makes more sense for the mother to remain home. Both men and women had it just as hard, it was a struggle to survive no matter what gender you were. You don't survive if you're constantly arguing over who does what. So, it makes sense to stick to a tradition of roles. There are no human societies in which the jobs of men and women in the community are 100% the same, it makes no sense for everyone to do the same job. So you play to your strengths. Naturally, mothers in both the human and animal worlds, tend to be more nurturing which is necessary for early childhood development and survival, so it makes sense that they stay with the children more of the time. There are very few animal species, especially among mammals, where the male is the primary caregiver. People love to shout that humans are merely evolved animals and yet always get offended when humans order things in a way that mirrors most animals, such as gender roles. Men are on average stronger and more aggressive, so it makes sense to send them out to hunt and work intense jobs, or go to war. We are privileged to live in a time and society where we have the opportunity to do more than just survive.

    • @froggo5690
      @froggo5690 Рік тому

      @@mrburns91 i ain't read alladat nerd

    • @susandrakenviller3683
      @susandrakenviller3683 Рік тому +3

      @@waynebruce24893 Imagine you still don’t know that sex in not the same as gender and nobody thinks sex is a social construct.

  • @annettejudge3597
    @annettejudge3597 Рік тому +4

    There isn't anything this beautiful man says that doesn't touch my heart. ❤

  • @cinthiaham1517
    @cinthiaham1517 Рік тому +2

    I definitely became more protective and rather aggressive once I became a mother. What I mean by that is that I would jumó to any threats that I perceived even though before kids that may never have been a fear. It’s quite something! I recently learned that it takes about 2 years to feel comfortable in motherhood and lean into the role with more confidence. Now with my second child I don’t feel as “crazy” but I am still highly protective of them (they are 2 and 3 months)

  • @jjohnsengraciesmom
    @jjohnsengraciesmom Рік тому +20

    I wish I had gone to him as a patient amd psychologist.

  • @rentravis4493
    @rentravis4493 Рік тому +1

    My goodness he is such a precious soul!!! 🥰 God be with him and protect him!! 🙏🏻

  • @jeanlaubenthal698
    @jeanlaubenthal698 Рік тому +11

    AND that is what makes it so low class and messed up for a man to mess with the mother of his children.

  • @amberburlet3601
    @amberburlet3601 Рік тому +1

    I would also say that people who are more self-sacrificing (or are expected to be) would have more
    negative emotions for obvious reasons.

  • @megbertch138
    @megbertch138 Рік тому +22

    EXACTLY! Not many can articulate that... or brave enough to even try.

  • @Merman184
    @Merman184 Рік тому +1

    God bless REAL woman.

  • @megamaze00
    @megamaze00 Рік тому +3

    100% agree. When my husband tells me to stop being “negative” (about our sons playing dangerously) I remind him that’s literally my God-given duty.
    It’s my job to worry and it’s his job to discern which of my fears are actually warranted.

    • @spybreak23
      @spybreak23 Рік тому

      Rare smart woman caught in the wild. Impressive.

  • @jennifercrocker5063
    @jennifercrocker5063 Рік тому +2

    Man he always hits the nail on the head.

  • @hiwelcometochillis2579
    @hiwelcometochillis2579 Рік тому +1

    That's why "manifestation trend" is popular on negative women that battle to change bad emotions doubts and sabotage

  • @jovn7732
    @jovn7732 Рік тому +1

    its not abt agreeing with what he says, its sience and facts

  • @IRENAA32
    @IRENAA32 Рік тому +1

    High on negative emotion also can mean that we women are predictive on anything negative that might hurt the more vulnerable ones - infants, therefore to be protective for the ones we are caring for.

  • @Zaa-102
    @Zaa-102 Рік тому +1

    Bingo! He hit the proverbial nail on the head with truth.

  • @gsrc6876
    @gsrc6876 Рік тому +11

    love you mr. jordan, you made my life much easier,thank you for explaning it to me..

    • @maskofsan1ty
      @maskofsan1ty Рік тому

      Why was thiis making your life difficult?

  • @nicojourney
    @nicojourney Рік тому +1

    I'm not usually afraid of straydogs but when I'm with my babygirl outside there's this fear inside of me and I think of how can I protect her the best. I remember one time there was this huge dog that was jumping in front of her tricicle to play but he was very agressive about it.I cried because I felt helpless, I just couldn't shoo him off. I knew he was just playing because he did it with other people too but it was scary.
    I truly felt weak at that moment.

  • @cathybradford3075
    @cathybradford3075 Рік тому +1

    Love how he articulates

  • @Donald-ky2fg
    @Donald-ky2fg Рік тому +1

    Thats very clear understanding
    Agreed.

  • @lorraines7208
    @lorraines7208 Рік тому

    So grateful to be part of the majority in this world who agree with JP 100% Keep spreading the facts! We Feel You!

  • @ludovicacastracane4975
    @ludovicacastracane4975 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you to be a reliable person

  • @p1nc3r95
    @p1nc3r95 Рік тому +1

    Except for many of those who are not that way.

  • @JohnaFactsDontCare...
    @JohnaFactsDontCare... Рік тому +27

    I love his genius.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 Рік тому +3

      Not necessarily genius, just talking common sense. But he does articulate important matters, and I respect him for that. A great thinker willing to speak the truth.

    • @JohnaFactsDontCare...
      @JohnaFactsDontCare... Рік тому +3

      @@returnoftheromans6726 So, you don't think his IQ is above 140? I definitely do. Yes, he speaks a lot of common sense. But his ability to reason out a problem step by step in
      minutia is genius.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 Рік тому +3

      @@JohnaFactsDontCare...
      Actually, I retract that comment. What I should have said was that he IS a genius for talking about things in such a way as to make it appear like common sense. That in itself is a gift. And yes, he is very smart. One of the greatest thinkers of our times. And unfortunately, people mock and belittle him. They always have with geniuses. Their loss.

    • @JohnaFactsDontCare...
      @JohnaFactsDontCare... Рік тому +2

      @@returnoftheromans6726 true, and they belittle even more a man who shows his emotions. But that's one of the things I love, a man secure enough that he doesn't have to shut his emotions down
      And well said, he can explain things in such a way anyone can understand

  • @queenelizabeth4242
    @queenelizabeth4242 Рік тому +2

    We also have different points of balance. Men in their shoulders and women in their hips.

  • @alexforce9
    @alexforce9 Рік тому +1

    Women will take that info and use it the wrong way. That's not an excuse to keep your negative headspace going. Men are more prone to physical aggression and taking risks - that doesn't mean that life style of aggression and constant risk taking is a good way to be.

  • @fb1767
    @fb1767 Рік тому

    There's so much we can learn from Dr. Peterson. He's a gift to the ones who seek wisdom.

  • @heracraft5526
    @heracraft5526 Рік тому +13

    The hand gestures always get me 😁

    • @ddhqj2023
      @ddhqj2023 Рік тому +1

      You mean his little twinkly fingers....kind of gay.....not that there's anything wrong with that! Hahahahahahaha......

    • @Fighting_Fatigue_117
      @Fighting_Fatigue_117 Рік тому

      I'm wondering if it's intentional or not. It reminds me of politician sign language.

    • @heracraft5526
      @heracraft5526 Рік тому +3

      @@Fighting_Fatigue_117 i think he does it unconsciously, i too automatically use gestures when explain something to someone

  • @Unintendedcompetence
    @Unintendedcompetence 8 місяців тому

    I have learned more from Jordan Peterson than I learned from all but two of my professors in college, including as a graduate student.
    He has a gently brilliant intellect.

  • @robertshank8412
    @robertshank8412 Рік тому +6

    A female friend of mine whom I have known for about fifty years said that Jordan Peterson is a misogynist. Since we were at a social occasion I didn't have time to ask her more. I still don't know why she thinks that.

    • @melissachartres3219
      @melissachartres3219 Рік тому

      Likely because someone told her so. Women are very hive-minded.

    • @book3376
      @book3376 Рік тому

      Well because the word misogynist gets thrown around like a hot potato (especially at right-wingers) and Jordan Peterson is typically a conservative right-leaning figure.

  • @petraselah7152
    @petraselah7152 Рік тому +1

    As a woman, I agree also

  • @willywonka1854
    @willywonka1854 Рік тому +1

    important man to this world

  • @sulakshanawijayagunaratne859

    this world needs more and more moral adjustment specially regarding men on vulnerability of women, infants children mostly talking about high vulnerability to women against sex because today's world less eared to or least nurtured according to religious rules, social norms since reducing trends of such accomplishments, growths, developments in general.

  • @Khaleesi_Of_Kittens
    @Khaleesi_Of_Kittens Рік тому +223

    *Not to mention that we're sexually harassed from the time we're 10 years old.*

    • @sydneyperson1336
      @sydneyperson1336 Рік тому +6

      fr

    • @LunastudyNOW
      @LunastudyNOW Рік тому +23

      Not 10 u can get harrassed as a freaking 3 month baby too I've heard that 1 did so

    • @rickysmyth
      @rickysmyth Рік тому +8

      BS. Its just boys in your school having crushes

    • @sydneyperson1336
      @sydneyperson1336 Рік тому +46

      @Chain NVSTR bro thats fucked, u didnt deserve that. yes ofc it happens w boys too but significantly less statistically, and culturally. women are taught to fear men by their mothers and sisters wheras men arent. that contributes to women being higher in neg emotion imo.

    • @rickysmyth
      @rickysmyth Рік тому

      I don't think it's possible for a man to be raped by a woman. It still causes an orgasm and they feel good so the guy would have to be frigid.

  • @nikolinarusev4279
    @nikolinarusev4279 Рік тому

    That's why we should be for very sensitive and protective to women and especially to the most vulnerable like pregnant or in domestic violence.

  • @diederickkruse8695
    @diederickkruse8695 Рік тому +1

    This really puts me towards ideas of expansion and it is faster than anything

  • @KIMOZz123
    @KIMOZz123 Рік тому +1

    I like watching you pull your crazy vast knowledge together it's like a symphony..... I confess yes I'm a forever learner :)

  • @counsellinglux
    @counsellinglux Рік тому +1

    💯 100percent right

  • @TheStudioArchitect
    @TheStudioArchitect Рік тому +1

    Anyone know the full clip? I wanna hear what he says about the average traits for men! You've got me curious!

  • @technicallyoverwhelmed2948
    @technicallyoverwhelmed2948 Рік тому +1

    Someone please give that man a Nobel price

  • @Sydneyasmr22
    @Sydneyasmr22 Рік тому

    Yes! 100% agree. My grandfather always taught me to be observant. Now i pay attention to everything. I see all the possible threats and pick up negative body language or instincts quick. My boyfriend on the other hand… a lot more chill, i guess you’d say.

  • @noreengkerekou8136
    @noreengkerekou8136 Рік тому

    I have listened to many of your talks and although you amaze me with your intelligence, I wonder if you ever go through a day without analysing things. You must be exhausted!

  • @ASmileSuitsYou
    @ASmileSuitsYou Рік тому +1

    It's hard to believe there are people who actually think this man is misogynistic

  • @trackee2024
    @trackee2024 Рік тому

    I can't tell you how much my anxiety went through the roof after I had babies. I remember standing over the crib in the middle of the night, after many sleepless nights, unable to sleep because I was worried they would stop breathing and I needed to check "just one more time".

  • @nikolinarusev4279
    @nikolinarusev4279 Рік тому

    He got it right

  • @AA-ld5zh
    @AA-ld5zh Рік тому

    When I am in a new environment, I feel like Bambi’s mother venturing into an open field and scanning the horizon for danger to make sure it is safe for my children. This explains why my husband can’t relate at all to this. It wore me out to be constantly vigilant.

  • @kurtanderson2763
    @kurtanderson2763 Рік тому +1

    I like the suit. Interesting collar.

  • @callmewonderful96
    @callmewonderful96 8 місяців тому

    That how you connect the dots ladies and gentlemen

  • @anonymousnation5235
    @anonymousnation5235 Рік тому

    Thank you JP. People been always telling me I'm angry and insane whenever I have felt threatened and tried to protect what's mine. And one more thing, women don't need to be agreeable to be caring mums. We can be assertive in non egocentric way.

  • @landofmyth221
    @landofmyth221 Рік тому +1

    I don't understand why people are so ready to kindly accept this. Especially women. I think its annoying in some sense that we only created to look up a child right? As if it's every women's life goal. I think we should all be human beings without getting differentiated by our gender this much.

  • @joniatoms9798
    @joniatoms9798 Рік тому

    As a starting point to understanding

  • @peacockLife
    @peacockLife Рік тому

    could not agree more. protectiveness is a strong trait of women, many a woman becomes a Durga when her children are under threat

  • @naomihu9399
    @naomihu9399 Рік тому +8

    I live in a very safe city. Last night I was out with my bf and he decided to get some groceries real quick on our way back and asked me to wait for him in the car and lock the car door. After a while the man whose car was parking next to us came back and he started to load groceries into his car. 😅I got instantly alarmed and felt a little bit threatened simply because I was alone and there’s a male stranger next to me in the night. There’s no logic behind that I know. It’s just biological.

    • @SensationalSeafairy
      @SensationalSeafairy Рік тому +4

      I wouldn't say it's entirely biological but also conditional, in presence of a (strange) man, well... because of their reputation.

    • @avapilsen
      @avapilsen Рік тому

      Totally! Women are usually intimidated by men, even their mere presence worries us. I don't think that's weird at all. We must be alert at all times.

    • @KatyVLOGS12
      @KatyVLOGS12 Рік тому +2

      @@SensationalSeafairy fr people forget about nature vs nurture

    • @J-sv9dp
      @J-sv9dp Рік тому

      Just because your response was instinctive, doesn’t mean it was illogical.

    • @SeraphsWitness
      @SeraphsWitness Рік тому

      Get yourself a gun and learn how to use it properly!

  • @dww34
    @dww34 Рік тому +14

    I think this dynamic changes when the current crop of young women are added to the data. There is no way young women today are as self-sacrificing or agreeable than the previous generations.

    • @melk6049
      @melk6049 Рік тому +12

      Everything he is saying about women is when qomen are compared to men. So yes women are still more agreeable and self sacrificing than men...he's not comparing women of yesteryear to women of today

    • @iimermaidii776
      @iimermaidii776 Рік тому +5

      That's a very broad brush.

    • @lifewasgiventous1614
      @lifewasgiventous1614 Рік тому

      @@melk6049 makes senwe

    • @PittontheMove
      @PittontheMove Рік тому +1

      I think the hormone added to our food and in out environment are to blame for that right now. Men seem more feminine and women more masculine now than before.

    • @planet_mogwai9310
      @planet_mogwai9310 Рік тому +1

      Self sacrificing and agreeable doesn't necessarily mean what you may consider to be positive traits. For example, it is promoted for women to chase sexual promiscuity, and that is a very self-sacrificing action, considering that we are the ones vulnerable to both sti's and pregnancy. We are also the ones more likely to modify our bodies to meet according to some social standard we have in our minds, which is very agreeable in a broad sense. Same behaviors, different setting/outcome

  • @ZaimahBeloved
    @ZaimahBeloved Рік тому +1

    I love him

  • @miss_mello_kitty
    @miss_mello_kitty Рік тому +1

    I'm curious as to how much of the cause is nature vs nurture

    • @leesun1104
      @leesun1104 Рік тому +1

      It’s natural read a history book on family in any country or culture in the world it’s the same something is spiritually and mentally very wrong with Europeans you are destroying everything decent…wow such evil

    • @SeraphsWitness
      @SeraphsWitness Рік тому

      These differences persist across cultures. So it's almost entirely nature.

  • @Whateverwhatever-cc2ib
    @Whateverwhatever-cc2ib Рік тому

    You deserve to be considered one if not the greatest in our time you understand more than any how necessary learning from our past is.

  • @katarzynabartkowiak264
    @katarzynabartkowiak264 Рік тому

    Women have been and still are vulnerable and agreeable because they used to depend on men. The one who has money in the family holds power and makes major decisions, while the one who doesn't has to adjust significantly to avoid ending up on the street. Let's not overlook these situations.

  • @JustMe-gw3eo
    @JustMe-gw3eo Рік тому +1

    Facts

  • @3mmm1111
    @3mmm1111 Рік тому +1

    Thank you 💕

  • @Mansplaner63
    @Mansplaner63 Рік тому +165

    I thought men could become women and women could become men. What? We are different?😂😂

    • @whitewolf3601
      @whitewolf3601 Рік тому +20

      on average... a man can be more female than certain women and the other way around, so be careful judging these people.
      I'm still not a fan of these transitions, because I think that there is no "being in the wrong body", but just being insecure and unhappy with it. However we should avoid pressing the people I mentioned above into the gender roles and let them be who they want to be.

    • @Mansplaner63
      @Mansplaner63 Рік тому +9

      @@whitewolf3601 😂

    • @twiztidtoker17
      @twiztidtoker17 Рік тому

      Well thus far letting them be as they want too be has brought an existential absurdity too our western world.
      This has been shown time and again; no their reality is not realistic and is only heeded as a cashcow for doctors,pharmacists,psychologists, universities and schools and media moguls

    • @davidcollin1436
      @davidcollin1436 Рік тому +12

      Play along with the fairy tales furry

    • @hiatusHD
      @hiatusHD Рік тому +43

      ​​@@whitewolf3601 "on average a man can be more female than certain women" That isn't even how averages work. What is up with everyone trying so hard to sound smart, what you have just said holds no actual meaning, you just said words that sounded good together.

  • @Wildone21
    @Wildone21 Рік тому +1

    True! I dont have kids but I helped raise other peoples kids ..Im a mama bear..than you for posting! ❤

  • @rise4rumtheeashes987
    @rise4rumtheeashes987 Рік тому

    I love how he sees the truth. The law of nature regarding the sexes. The real reasons for psychological differences between women and men. Makes a lot of sense. Very intelligent man. To say the least.

  • @silvanyferreiradesouza2348
    @silvanyferreiradesouza2348 Рік тому +1

    I couldn't agree more !

  • @cyncin1163
    @cyncin1163 Рік тому

    Every word is truth.

  • @annc560
    @annc560 Рік тому +5

    Men fix problems as they occur.
    Women try to prevent the problem from occurring by avoiding those things that lead up to it.

    • @confusedturtle8
      @confusedturtle8 8 місяців тому

      Have you met a man before. Most are useless when it comes to the homes or work life.

  • @assholeyeng
    @assholeyeng Рік тому

    I'd like to see the sources to gain more insights

  • @yesenia3816
    @yesenia3816 Рік тому

    Yes.

  • @patnisbert4139
    @patnisbert4139 Рік тому

    You are very kind

  • @MrIdontknowww
    @MrIdontknowww Рік тому

    I love Jordan Peterson's analysis'

  • @mikaela12979
    @mikaela12979 Рік тому

    People forget that , biologically speaking, the human species didn't evolve too much from its beginning and things that relate to the survival of the species are deeply ingrained in our brain and our body. We're so proud of the technological and intellectual progress we've achieved, but spiritually it seems like we're regressing, and biologically we're mostly the same as hundreds of thousands of years ago.

  • @markb9051
    @markb9051 Рік тому

    He says what everybody already understands.

  • @PaoloGasparini-ux2kp
    @PaoloGasparini-ux2kp Рік тому

    Thank you, Dr.Peterson.

  • @kburnham8755
    @kburnham8755 Рік тому +6

    Absolute genius Jordan is. The voice of reason and sensabiliyy

  • @manoo2056
    @manoo2056 Рік тому

    It would be interesting to explain what on "average" means, because the knowledge of the common people in statistics, distribution sucks.

  • @alexchudilovski860
    @alexchudilovski860 Рік тому +1

    How about we start speaking about conditions themselves that produce men's and women's emotions?

  • @gabrielavilla7308
    @gabrielavilla7308 Рік тому

    Yeah this is the reason but he doesn’t emphasize that this is biological which makes people think that he’s saying that women are just more negative because each individual woman senses more of a threat. What he’s implying but doesn’t explicitly emphasize is that this is actually wired into our biology, and our social conditioning, and the fact that we’ve faced predation and bullying and domineeringness from men, starting in adolescence.

  • @patriciovelizcontardo848
    @patriciovelizcontardo848 Рік тому

    God bless you Dr. Peterson

  • @grainneo8545
    @grainneo8545 Рік тому

    We are not different, we have social differences pushed onto us once out of the womb. The doctor makes the decision if we’re “male” or “female”.

    • @SeraphsWitness
      @SeraphsWitness Рік тому

      Your genes decide that, darlin'.

    • @grainneo8545
      @grainneo8545 Рік тому

      @@SeraphsWitness your genes decide what genitals you have as a newborn? Intersex people make up 1.7% of the population. Do your research puddin’.

  • @shellyhart4324
    @shellyhart4324 Рік тому +2

    I'm not sure what woman he's referring to but that's definitely not me.

    • @elmo9293
      @elmo9293 Рік тому

      the thing is that statistics are facts and prove that ON AVERAGE women and men tend to.. that doesn’t mean all women and men are that way. for example, if 60% of women are more agreeable that does not that mean that every woman you meet will be in that 60% lol. there are still x % of women and men who think completely different. this is why you just take this as a grain of salt because it doesn’t mean every single woman you meet will fit that narrative. because then you have to factor in upbringing and personal experience. for example, i was raised in a home where there was drug addiction and divorce. therefore i might behave completely different than another man.. because i learned behaviors that allowed me to cohabit in that type of environment. it’s much more complex than you think 🤔

    • @shellyhart4324
      @shellyhart4324 Рік тому +2

      @@elmo9293 thank you for that. I didn't need to be told that but I'm assuming you posted this year for other people to understand. Influencers tend to paint narratives that are indicative of their past issues as well.

    • @elmo9293
      @elmo9293 Рік тому +1

      @@shellyhart4324 I did! These people are ridiculous lol

    • @elmo9293
      @elmo9293 Рік тому +1

      @@shellyhart4324 i’ll post it for someone else lol

    • @inesarif8497
      @inesarif8497 Рік тому

      Me neither, most women nowadays don’t want kids and the thing is that people are struggling to see, is that not all women are maternal. I’m fine with kids but I’m not at all maternal it may be how I was raised or I’m not sure, I grew up in a house where my parents said I can do what I want to do and I don’t need to conform to what other people tell me to

  • @youtubeisbiasfyoutube2901
    @youtubeisbiasfyoutube2901 Рік тому

    Man speaks nothing but truth.

  • @landofmyth221
    @landofmyth221 Рік тому +1

    I don't think Im higher in negativity really.