How to know when to leave your Software Engineering Job // Muko's Corner

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  • @anirudhrowjee1378
    @anirudhrowjee1378 3 роки тому +299

    Mayuko is the elder sister none of us asked for, but the one all of us need. Thank you, Mayuko!

    • @juliosoto9471
      @juliosoto9471 3 роки тому

      pfft speak for yourself kiddo. She would be the baby sister, or even the daughter, that I needed.

    • @yato809
      @yato809 3 роки тому +6

      @@juliosoto9471 bruh why

    • @muhammadaiman2674
      @muhammadaiman2674 3 роки тому +8

      @@juliosoto9471 wish i could down vote you

    • @shahda5894
      @shahda5894 3 роки тому +4

      Love her 💗💗💗

  • @lilly7500
    @lilly7500 3 роки тому +70

    How to know when to leave your software engineer job:
    Step 1: get a software engineer job

  • @calvincruzada1016
    @calvincruzada1016 3 роки тому +31

    wholesome Mayuko always with the wholesome advice during these crazy times.

  • @SomethingNick
    @SomethingNick 3 роки тому +70

    I was so close to quitting my job because of a really bad work culture/commute but then we all went lockdown remote in late March and have been loving it ever since, the moment they ask us to go back I'm outties

    • @muhammadaiman2674
      @muhammadaiman2674 3 роки тому +3

      sir can you describe the bad worn culture in your workplace? im curious

    • @juliosoto9471
      @juliosoto9471 3 роки тому

      yeah I'm curious too. Can you elaborate plez?

    • @SomethingNick
      @SomethingNick 3 роки тому +7

      A lot of expected unpaid overtime and always sudden deadlines, now that everyone is remote nobody seems to check we’re online late and a lot of our old deadlines were extended from lockdown so the work pace has been easier!

    • @santosh_ramu
      @santosh_ramu 3 роки тому +10

      Maybe you can use this lockdown time to prepare and switch, instead of waiting till post covid-19.

  • @perdust1272
    @perdust1272 3 роки тому +23

    i really appreciate that you were honest about your initial feelings towards your jobs. I feel like a lot of us in this industry (or any industry) struggle with comparing ourselves to other people. It seems like everyone else knows exactly what they're doing it. Nice to know someone with the experience you have faces the same struggles

  • @jeffzhuo992
    @jeffzhuo992 3 роки тому +2

    As a highschool senior, I could not comment much on my work experience. However, I love the transition from career decisions to bakery and back! It made the video more interesting than just talking about career decisions.

  • @gummydogs
    @gummydogs 3 роки тому +42

    11 minutes in: Finally realized you weren't saying "shoe cream" but "choux cream"

  • @elinadangol7394
    @elinadangol7394 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this Mayuko. You are the ' Colleague Big Sister' I always wanted at work. Love you tons.

  • @thebluechimera
    @thebluechimera 3 роки тому +5

    honestly I've never felt my life desicions so affirmed as I do after watching this ❤️

  • @_mto
    @_mto 3 роки тому +4

    I feel like it's hard to get helpful, unbiased, and nuanced career advice, but this is one of the rare corners of the internet where it happens!

  • @nariorudulphval
    @nariorudulphval 3 роки тому +2

    I study code by myself. You give me the motivation to continue. Thanks

  • @nobodys2358
    @nobodys2358 3 роки тому

    I love the vibe of the video. Exactly what I needed right now, something cozy and chilled

  • @rhkilis
    @rhkilis 3 роки тому

    You hit the nail on the head with this one, Mayuko. I appreciate the deeper dive into the role of a manager in your career after one of your previous Muko's Corner videos. Having been a manager myself, I sometimes feel that the "People leave managers, not companies" mantra is a little overstated. Yes, employees do and should leave bad managers who only look out for themselves. But people also leave jobs for a whole variety of reasons. No one stays in a job forever. As a manager, my goal was always to help my team members find the next thing that will let them achieve their ultimate goals.

  • @helmetnachos17
    @helmetnachos17 3 роки тому +1

    I’m learning English from Mayuko’s videos☺️

  • @CodeWithCal
    @CodeWithCal 3 роки тому

    Great monologue. Perspective is everything.

  • @takumivlog1500
    @takumivlog1500 3 роки тому

    おいしそー
    I started a software engineer job in Japan this summer after graduating from an university in the states.
    I’m wasn’t able to work on the area I wanted so I’m feeling unfulfilled.
    It’s 4 month right now so I’ll try until April and if I still don’t enjoy it I’ll go talk to my boss.
    I prefer doing something I enjoy since I’m using most of my day at work.
    Thank you again!

  • @BlueTurtle23
    @BlueTurtle23 3 роки тому +1

    Mayuko is my role model :) I’m a senior in high school and I’m set on becoming a software engineer.

  • @antoniopt6046
    @antoniopt6046 3 роки тому

    Great video as always! I landed my first SE Internship a few months after starting watching your videos last year and started working fulltime for that same company in January. This is a question that I've had even before getting any offer and I'm satisfied with the answer I got from this video.
    Sidenote: Thanks for dropping the link for the recipe you used 😊

  • @albinsjolin649
    @albinsjolin649 3 роки тому +1

    Love these videos, very informative from someone senior! Thanks Mayuko!

  • @wanainai
    @wanainai 3 роки тому +1

    Very beneficial and quite interesting, thanks for sharing and congrats for keeping such a long vid so interesting..

  • @SoftwareJournal
    @SoftwareJournal 3 роки тому +3

    I left my job this year to have more leadership over the projects I build. The roles and leadership at the last company wasn't structured for me; no set path on how to move up in seniority. Plus I was putting in a lot of hours to get the same paycheck. Now I work less, getting more and the work is fulfilling. Great video, awesome points you touch on!

  • @zeecnla
    @zeecnla 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks for this. Ive been at this job for 4 years and at first we were coding. Now I'm managing this legacy software only coding off hours on my own. Trying to leave, but feel stuck because I haven't done "modern" development.

  • @WithSandra
    @WithSandra 3 роки тому

    i needed this

  • @carl2707
    @carl2707 3 роки тому +1

    That was educational and entertaining at the same time. I love シュークリーム 🤤

  • @Sakurambo
    @Sakurambo 3 роки тому +2

    “What do you want from your job?”
    MONEYYYYYYY 💵💸💰😂
    In all seriousness, great advice. Definitely agree with evaluating the “value” of your job. I think it’s especially difficult leaving a company who provides stability, great perks, and good work culture because it’s scary to leave a good job for a GREAT job. That risk was the scariest for me when I changed my job the first time.
    Personally I joined a company now that would give me the most opportunity with great internal mobility because I want to move soon, and also because I don’t like doing the same role for more than a year or two lol (I love new challenges and learning)
    Wishing you all the success in being your own boss ;)

  • @kydunnaicker7576
    @kydunnaicker7576 3 роки тому +3

    I love your videos thank you for being a rolemodel

  • @naffity
    @naffity 3 роки тому

    thx for this vid mayuko! love the honesty and advice 🙂

  • @hellomayuko
    @hellomayuko  3 роки тому

    Hey fam! Hope y'all are doing well and cozy-ing up for winter (or getting ready for summer, for your southern hemisphere folks). Don't forget that the first 1000 people to use the link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! skl.sh/mayuko11201

  • @mattwilkinsonn
    @mattwilkinsonn 3 роки тому

    Love this channel. Please keep making great content!

  • @Shannonmurray1504
    @Shannonmurray1504 3 роки тому +2

    I feel like youtube knows things... currently trying to leave my job in an it company to somewhere else and this confirms my reasons why

  • @TheRanguna
    @TheRanguna 3 роки тому +1

    I just left my job yesterday, this couldn't have come at a better time to help me feel positive about this change.
    Thank you for doing these awesome videos!!

  • @kala9907
    @kala9907 3 роки тому

    You are my career doppelganger. "...trying to give it the opportunity to open minded to what I could learn.." but at the end of the year, I didn't want my boss's job as career guidance blogs say. The job I wanted at the company wasn't created yet, I don't know how to get my big organization company to sign off on it. It would be a tech project related to corporate social responsibility. So I say that to say I am thinking about taking a 6-month sabbatical starting January but now it is hard because I want to see if there will be a smooth transition from the current administration to the current elected. I don't now if that will affect employment search. Anyhoo, thanks for this video. I feels good that someone else had the same feelings.

  • @speedywiz
    @speedywiz 3 роки тому

    it’s soothing watch people making food (i.e. Mayuko making chaud cream puffs in this case). 🤤😋

  • @asm-ex1jw
    @asm-ex1jw 3 роки тому +15

    Psychiatrist: "What do you see in this Rorschach card?"
    Mayuko: "Ah easy, that's a PUFFER FISH MATING RITUAL SAND THING"
    Psychiatrist, scribbling furiously: "...interesting."

  • @allthehui
    @allthehui 3 роки тому

    omg the rice paddle LOL. I'm seriously impressed by your multitasking ability, how you're able to be so eloquent while not burning the house down 😂 anywayyyy really great video and I'm glad you talked about compensation, learning, skills, culture, opportunities, etc! and how this can change over time. I actually recently left my old job and moved into a new one and it took a lot of self-reflection to decide to do it.

    • @allthehui
      @allthehui 3 роки тому

      also I'm in my first month and I am RIDING THE WAVE SO HARD AHHHHHH

  • @pageegap1
    @pageegap1 3 роки тому

    thank you mayuko! nice video!

  • @ihatefinishline
    @ihatefinishline 3 роки тому

    Nice video. Now that I think about it, it appears you have successfully transcended yappy status. Keep up the great work homie!

  • @jacintha1000
    @jacintha1000 3 роки тому +1

    Software developer jobs are underpaid these days with lot of people are available to work for low wages , the salaries are stagnant and deflating . Functional consultants are the highest paid like in SAP . I left my software engineer job but it’s too late to switch to sap after being in java for more than a decade. If a job underpays there is no point in doing it while easy jobs like sap cloud professionals are making a hell lot of money than us . I quit my job in software engineering and never going back to programming role. Not worth the effort being underpaid . New subscriber from Nebraska 😭

  • @TheParkitny
    @TheParkitny 3 роки тому

    Great video thanks for the perspective.

  • @melvinpatomendoza
    @melvinpatomendoza 3 роки тому

    I love this!

  • @Hannah-Bernal
    @Hannah-Bernal 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your advice on this :)

  • @MarshmallowHumor
    @MarshmallowHumor 3 роки тому +7

    I’ve been working in Desktop Support IT for the last 7 years and I feel stuck. I don’t really feel that IT work suits my personality anymore, even though I am skilled at what I do and people at my company like me, but it isn’t enough. I’m insanely bored and tired of the same routine... moving forward, I’ll place greater importance on following my natural interests instead of the money flow

    • @antst5712
      @antst5712 3 роки тому

      I'm in completely different situation, I am a welder and hate it now. Want to get into IT or Drafting such as AutoCad , Solidworks, Revit .Even learn web design.
      Was IT support hard when you first started, what you liked / disliked about it ?

    • @redhotchillidazer2013
      @redhotchillidazer2013 3 роки тому

      ive been a support also in our company hub application. but it get me stagnant in because of the same routine almost everyday. i ask my manager to pursue my dev career and i turns out it made me happy. sometimes you have to decide and choose best options for your career and most of all your life.

    • @jay5t
      @jay5t 3 роки тому

      Do you think IT is a gonna be there in the next 5-10 years as someone who has been in the industry for a while .

  • @AssistantRegionalMgr
    @AssistantRegionalMgr 3 роки тому

    Mayuko is a daughter you never knew that you needed but lighten up your life.
    I’m single by the way, and don’t have a kid.

  • @andyv4822
    @andyv4822 3 роки тому

    love your channel!

  • @takumainoue5884
    @takumainoue5884 3 роки тому

    I hope we can have fun while trying different things.
    Still, it looks delicious!
    いつも美味しそうな料理で素敵です!
    まゆこさんがお店を開いたら、きっとマメに買いに行くと思います笑

  • @Machin396
    @Machin396 3 роки тому

    Thanks, very interesting topic.

  • @joymae
    @joymae 3 роки тому +3

    I think working corporate isn’t so bad with the autonomy we are given working from home and lack of commute

  • @nickykepp
    @nickykepp 3 роки тому

    Thank you! This is very helpful

  • @itshenreh7687
    @itshenreh7687 3 роки тому

    Definitely applies to most, if not, all IT jobs as well!

  • @krithikkumar959
    @krithikkumar959 3 роки тому +1

    I may sound negative but in my observation you can never get back things equal to efforts you put in because all of the tech companies or corporations always take more from you than it gives you back in the form of satisfaction and monetary compensation.
    You will not believe but even swe from Faang companies are underpaid relative to the work they put in with fewer exceptions.

  • @telladesina100
    @telladesina100 3 роки тому

    Thanks muyuko.. you read my mind.

  • @jj1bdx
    @jj1bdx 3 роки тому

    Allow me to be opinionated. I don't still get the idea to "graduate from a work" or 仕事を卒業する shigoto wo sotsugyo suru in Japanese (which is quite commonly used these days among Japanese young workers); you can't really get rid of what you've learned or experienced. Of course, you can leave and refocus on something new, but you need to expand yourself further from what you've got learned anyway. So I've never used the term being graduated or 卒業した sotsugyou shita from a job/workplace/team. Actually, quite often you might rejoin the team/workplace in the future!
    Most if not all reasons which made me decide to leave my previous jobs are about the fundamental differences of the values I saw and the other people in the workplace saw, especially about the work ethics, and the organizational culture. (It's one of the reasons I finally went freelance; you can't really choose your manager when you're *hired*.)
    OTOH, it's simply the expiration of the contract period (usually 5 years (or shorter) in Japan), or the lack of budget to justify your hiring, which you have to leave the job even if you still want to be there. So one thing for sure is that you've always got to be prepared for when you leave or quit the organization/team/company you belong to - the termination day might come earlier than you think.
    BTW les choux à la créme looked very nice and yummy! :) And thanks for the video as always! :)

  • @callmejobson
    @callmejobson 3 роки тому +5

    I definitely was trigger (not really) by "re org" lmao I have heard that word at my current job more times then I would like lmao 😂

  • @nobodys2358
    @nobodys2358 3 роки тому

    Sometimes one aspect of "compensation" or "value" might outweigh the another one. And then it becomes tricky to balance and figure out whether e.g. losing in pay but gaining fulfilment would worth it in the long run.

  • @kydunnaicker7576
    @kydunnaicker7576 3 роки тому +2

    I saved downloaded, shared and liked

  • @amroali8977
    @amroali8977 3 роки тому

    You know I like that you give professional talk about software engineering. I think you should not wait for people to evaluate you. Giving talk about software engineering would improve your skills if not improve self esteem

  • @tomarquis
    @tomarquis 3 роки тому

    ピカピカの冷蔵庫の後光効果がすごい!神のお告げみたい

  • @EgayuuG1
    @EgayuuG1 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your experience.
    Honestly I dont know why I, as a new-grad sales person, am going to sell the web product which my colleagues have made. I will figure out what I want from my current job. Basically I want more “fulfillment”.
    But…how can we rightly identify where our “fulfillment” comes out of?
    Before this job, personally, I studied political philosophy and history in my college and wanted to try my ability in a IT-business world.
    This simply doesn’t make sense for anybody. But to some extent I (really..?) wanted something out of “IT-business world”. If this is true, I shoul be able to find out what it is. It could be how to set up nice working environment with the latest technology or else.
    I will detect what I want from my current job, and communicate with my manager. Thanks.

  • @supdograinbarff1460
    @supdograinbarff1460 3 роки тому +13

    The jokes on you, you don't need to leave a job when you don't have one

  • @vexpressivo
    @vexpressivo 3 роки тому

    She's the frd everyone needs during this Illness.

  • @threednov
    @threednov 3 роки тому

    Hii Mayuko.. may all your day full of happiness.. 🙂

  • @ickimadrasi8965
    @ickimadrasi8965 3 роки тому

    Mayuko, you are a very talented woman

  • @musicislife5485
    @musicislife5485 3 роки тому

    Iloveyou mayuko♥️

  • @aljon7992
    @aljon7992 3 роки тому +5

    Imagine getting a mentorship with Ms Mayuko :)

  • @krista-r
    @krista-r 3 роки тому

    This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Been struggling with this for months now - thank you! On a side-note, who's the new doggo? :D

    • @hellomayuko
      @hellomayuko  3 роки тому +1

      Haha got a vlog coming out real soon about her 😊

    • @krista-r
      @krista-r 3 роки тому

      @@hellomayuko just watched it :) Ellie is adorable! Her ears are soo floppy :3

  • @tarrySubstance
    @tarrySubstance 3 роки тому

    Will keep that in mind

  • @ehr1188
    @ehr1188 3 роки тому

    You are awsome! Ty

  • @princeiscpv
    @princeiscpv 3 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @nishantjoshi5762
    @nishantjoshi5762 3 роки тому

    happy diwali everyone
    happy diwali mayuko
    love from india❤️

  • @shuvojyotirakshit5808
    @shuvojyotirakshit5808 3 роки тому

    Happy Diwali Mayuko

  • @gogl92
    @gogl92 3 роки тому +1

    Mayuko, I really want to know your opinion of what happened on Terrace House, I know it didn't ended up well but it could be a good opportunity of talk about the now a days Internet problems.

  • @wranther
    @wranther 3 роки тому

    Hi Mayuko! What happened to poor Kono? The photobombs suggest somehow that spots have grown. Now wait a minute, at about a little after 10 mins, was that a real Kono butt shot? Is there a Kono Jr now also? Awesome whipping skills to go with your cream puffs ... did you make a "real" hot fudge sauce to go with the cream puff and the true New York Vanilla ice cream? Words for today include avoid black cats and dont walk under ladders! Great video! -Bob...

  • @thaer954
    @thaer954 3 роки тому +2

    do you have advice on how to get a software engineering job in the US for people leaving overseas? Could you do a video with someone that is a foreign worker in the US to tell us his stories maybe or advice.... Thank you!

    • @hellomayuko
      @hellomayuko  3 роки тому +3

      Already got one! ua-cam.com/video/zUfboMAPfeg/v-deo.html

    • @thaer954
      @thaer954 3 роки тому

      Thank you Mayuko!

  • @tulamili
    @tulamili 3 роки тому

    I just caught a Japanese phrase from your mouth, and am somewhat startled!

  • @vision3529
    @vision3529 3 роки тому +1

    i want to be a software engineer but the fact that you all eventually make youtube videos kinda scares me ngl

  • @andywu9774
    @andywu9774 3 роки тому

    how are you so good at multitasking !!

  • @fcsolis
    @fcsolis 2 роки тому

    Claire Saffitz shrank. It takes a lot of practice to think and talk and dispense advice and cook all at once. Thanks.

  • @udhayabanunatarajan8956
    @udhayabanunatarajan8956 3 роки тому

    Cooking and recording a video for your youtube at the same time. Maybe, the world was correct from the beginning that females are goooood with multitasking. One best, multitask that i can do is to eat my dinner and watch this amazing, funny and informative video of yours. Take care! さようなら. going to code now 👨🏻‍💻👍

  • @ayubaalim2201
    @ayubaalim2201 3 роки тому

    my LOVE from Somalia

  • @yellowbanana9866
    @yellowbanana9866 3 роки тому

    Yes

  • @AvinashSingh-vj3rk
    @AvinashSingh-vj3rk 3 роки тому

    Nice video

  • @juniortxitxi7901
    @juniortxitxi7901 3 роки тому

    Love ya

  • @martintrogen6100
    @martintrogen6100 3 роки тому +3

    If u start the cooking shows, that’s when u know it’s time to leave software engineer job😂

  • @videoguy640
    @videoguy640 3 роки тому +3

    How do you have the actual conversation that you're leaving? Can I drop some hints prior so its not so sudden?

  • @slapdagger5693
    @slapdagger5693 3 роки тому +1

    That 仕事を卒業するって感じ?? out of nowhere hahaha

  • @boot-strapper
    @boot-strapper 3 роки тому

    I also need to be my own boss. I'm trying to build a straightforward consumer facing webapp. Hope it works. I'm not pretty enough for youtube!

  • @whatislovebutonelonggame5406
    @whatislovebutonelonggame5406 3 роки тому

    Software Engineering is a fast changing job, you won't be able to keep up in less than a year after you quit

  • @jsilve1
    @jsilve1 3 роки тому

    Four jobs in six years? How do you get anything done? That's only 15 months per job. As a young worker I guess that might make sense but all my best jobs lasted around 5 years. Less than two years doesn't seem like enough time to really get very good at any particular job

  • @guynamedjoeFTW
    @guynamedjoeFTW 3 роки тому

    Graduating from your job like graduating from a Japanese music group?

  • @fayli7390
    @fayli7390 3 роки тому

    any engineer here is interested in working on a startup together with me? notice this is not a job offer, i'm looking for a technical cofounder. i understand it's hard to leave your job especially in this year, so maybe consider working on a side project? :)

  • @emartinez03
    @emartinez03 3 роки тому

    Graduate like in terrace house. Lol love it

  • @drovoseg
    @drovoseg 3 роки тому

    So what if my manager doesn't want to assign me to a different project because there is no one to replace me on the current project?

    • @EskoLuontola
      @EskoLuontola 3 роки тому

      It's the manager's problem? Anybody can leave a company at any time, so if there is only one person who knows a system, that's a big risk.

  • @rockey5520
    @rockey5520 3 роки тому

    :) Since you mentioned Uncle roger and British Bake offs, here he made another video yesterday making fun of that ua-cam.com/video/lf_OPDvX7Jk/v-deo.html

  • @Apragoc
    @Apragoc 3 роки тому

    I love my it job but some people at work😓

  • @tejaswi_5095
    @tejaswi_5095 3 роки тому

    muko

  • @iremkaya9103
    @iremkaya9103 3 роки тому

    when you watch this and realize u gotta get the f out of your job

  • @_Username__
    @_Username__ 3 роки тому

    please do a Japanese-speaking only vid, pleeeeeeeeease

  • @seanchoe
    @seanchoe 3 роки тому

    Rice paddles FTW

  • @josephc28
    @josephc28 3 роки тому

    You really seem to enjoy cooking. Have you ever thought about becoming a chef?

  • @powerfulduasandwazifaz
    @powerfulduasandwazifaz 3 роки тому

    Great video!
    I emailed you a while back but you never responded 😐
    I really relate to your content because I am a developer myself