When/Why/How to Leave a Guy in Dating and Relationships
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- When/Why/How to Leave a Guy in Dating and Relationships #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #blackwomendatingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #blackfemininity #femininityforblackwomen #bbwdatingproblems #bbwdating
“If you’ve made a pros and cons list, that’s a con” 😅😂 so true.
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“if you’re a ride or die YOU’RE GONNA DIE!” 😂😂😂 I could never be a ride or die, I ask too many questions…where we riding to? And why I gotta die?! 😩
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My motto is quit early and quit often so I'm with you Anwar. I just did this after dating a guy for almost 3 months were he was very enthusiastic and consistent the first half and then very unreliable the second half. Two months after I blocked him he mailed me a letter and then last week (4 months after I blocked him) he left me a voicemail asking me to tell him why I don't want to see him anymore. He should have KTSE when he had my undivided attention. I don't exert energy telling grown men why I don't want to see them anymore, I can only be as serious and considerate as they've been.
This is the only video so many of us needed collectively for real. This covers it. For realllll
Love coaches hate him
This strangely correlates with workplaces and leaving your job
It was tough but I had to let him go as soon as I started dating him. The red flag for me was silent treatment and not resolving conflict with communication as a grown adult is expected to. It was the making assumptions and allowing misunderstandings to pile up for me. These decisions are hard bc u recognize someone's trauma is preventing them from loving u fully, but that's never an excuse for poor behavior. Get help.
I was so quick on the trigger!!! Four months and you were fired if you weren’t marriage material. I judged based on what MY criteria were. I was in my early thirties, so I did not let men play in my face during my child bearing years……
This video right here is everything! I just started dating a guy that i realized im not attracted to. However, he treats me so well, and i was second-guessing myself if i should walk away. However, this video gave me the courage to WALK.
If you're not engaged or married after two years? Two years down the drain.
Yup lol
You can leave earlier if you like
Not necessarily. If theres a lot of communication about where you’re heading then there should be no issue. and if theres an action plan it really shouldnt take two years…either way if you did stay with them, that was the process the womam needed to go through to learn what not to do and hopefully they reflect take lessons from it. When you get better at trusting yourself it wont take a whole two years with every guy…
🔴➡️👑 🕊️ stay in church _to hear Holy Spirit_read/watch books on Boundaries to sharpen your awareness, discernment to recognize their unaddressed dysfunction and intentions_makes for easier navigation with prospects.
Some guys do not react very differently and oddly, they can become violent and will cause you harm. Sadly, this is the reason why many women ghost men. They can respond violently.
That’s exactly what he meant when he said differently and oddly.
Thank. You!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 You listed all the things I felt in my last relationship and I felt them in the first few months but stayed for 2 years. NOT AGAIN GIRL! ❤❤❤❤
We all make mistakes.
Forgive yourself, and don’t repeat the cycle.
I'm out! 🏃🏾♀️
This is gold.
This is the BEST BOUNDARY advice/help/step by step knowledge I ever received!!!! Thank you
Fairy god brother I feel awful. Took your advice on dating a golden retriever man. We only went on two dates. Talking for two months but the attraction isn't there. August is our birthday month and we already planned two more dates. He's already planning double dates and thinking we'll keep dating until Valentine's Day 😭 I'm going to break his confidence and his heart oof. Thanks for the video love. I needed this. Wish me luck that he takes it well though 🤞
3 years, i’m 20, he’s 21. i kind of want engagement in the next year because this is a lot of my youth wasted if he doesn’t hurry up.
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I needed to hear this thank u🙏
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I think this is your most helpful video yet! I was actually just wondering something along these lines and you popped up in my feed. I take it as a sign from God to stop caring.
I've watched this 4x, best advice ever ❤
“Get outta there!”😂😂😂
SUCH GOOD ADVICE
That is important information, thanks!
FREE PALESTINE! Thank you! for the advice 💗🇵🇸
Lemme gon head and save this video!
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This sounds like something I would do... Needed this
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I Love Everything about this! Thank you 😊
Him not asking you out after a WEEK is a red flag? WTF happened to let yourself get to know him first THEN decide on if you want to move into a relationship?😂
He meant not asking you out on a date. If a man is texting,
chatting, and calling…but not asking you on a date…it’s a red flag.
I have a friend that was texting a guy for 3 weeks that she’s never met. I told her that’s too long she disagreed. He turned out to be a catfish. I know another woman that the same guy that was texting her for weeks turned out to be an ex-con…
So are you going to know him over text messages???😂😂😂😂
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I have done great quick to fire slow to hire
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I love your hoodie! 🇵🇸 Free Palestine. You just got a subscriber outta me.
I’m gonna die for sure 😭😖💔
What if he’s always five minutes late for a date?
OOH = out of here if being on time is important to you. You could suggest a time where you bake that 5 minutes in, but whew, sounds like work.😊
Ask why? If one always late could be dangerous in traffic with rushing to make movie, event
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