Sex after vagina surgery | IT STILL HURTS

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  • Опубліковано 7 січ 2022
  • Hey ya'll. Here's a little update about what's been going on. What I'm learning from this whole experience is that patience is key and you really have to listen to your body. Thanks for following along and I sooooo look forward to the day that I can post a video titled I FINALLY HAD PAIN FREE SEX!
    IG: @paigehiggi
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    #vestibulectomy #vestibulodynia #vaginasurgery #painfulsex #pain #hurt #firsttime #firsttimeaftersurgery #firstimepostsurgery #intercoursepain #painfulintercourse #surgery

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  • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
    @PaigeHigginsVlogs  2 місяці тому +19

    Hey guys just a heads up, IM NOT TRANS! 😅 if you did any research on my channel you’d see that I am a female, had a vestibulectomy (yes, a vagina surgery), also got pregnant and had a child sooo..
    if you are here for tips on recovery from bottom surgery, I’m sorry but this video probably won’t be helpful but best of luck on your recovery.
    If you are here to be mean, GET OFF THE INTERNET! Your hate is not needed! Do not go to other peoples channels that have actually had bottom surgery and comment mean things to them! Grow up!

  • @The-Portland-Daily-Blink
    @The-Portland-Daily-Blink Місяць тому +7

    For anyone who doesn't know, Paige is a biological female who had surgery in her vaginal area because sex was painful. She is NOT a trans person. Also, some of the comments are really inappropriate. Do the research before you make incorrect presumptions.

    • @therespectedlex9794
      @therespectedlex9794 День тому

      Anyone who can get 19 thousand views in 2 years is a tranny.

  • @damaryordonez8881
    @damaryordonez8881 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Paige,
    I was looking your video, I would like to know which state do you live! I’m interesting on your doctor, I live in NJ

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  2 роки тому +3

      My doctor is in California. I live in utah. There’s a doctor named Andrew Goldstein that is in DC. You should look into him!

    • @damaryordonez8881
      @damaryordonez8881 2 роки тому +1

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogs thank you very much, I’m dealing with the same situation I been to different doctor and no one have help me ☹️ thanks God I find a urogynecologist I have appointment for next week I hope to God he can help me

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  2 роки тому +1

      @@damaryordonez8881 I hope so too! Feel free to message me with any more questions on Instagram @paigehiggi

    • @SuperRock120
      @SuperRock120 5 місяців тому

      Hi sweetie!! Can u tell me everything is better after this surgery! I mean any improvement in sex life . Do u get orgasm after this surgery! How long it will took to reinstate!

  • @meganjennings5766
    @meganjennings5766 9 місяців тому +1

    What kind of surgery was it? Like what was it called? I just had surgery and I wanna know if it’s the same thing lol.

  • @planetag310
    @planetag310 2 місяці тому +6

    I'm 60-effing 7 years old and why have I not heard of a vestibulectomy before?

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  2 місяці тому +2

      I know right! I had to go to so many doctors to figure out what was going on and none of them knew about it. Trying to spread the word about this condition here on YT!

    • @bobm4378
      @bobm4378 Місяць тому

      It simply means you have not bothered to do research!! a google search will provide you with a good short description....:) but of course 10 years ago, everyone thought cancer was incurable... ahh progress..

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  Місяць тому

      @@bobm4378 you can find information about this condition with Google, but you’d also be surprised how many doctors know nothing about it! I went to SO MANY doctors before being diagnosed. I pray the medical students are laughing, because hopefully they do know about this topic and are well educated!

    • @bobm4378
      @bobm4378 Місяць тому +1

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogs like I said, this was 10 years or more ago... when the internet was new, and 'widows 95' was still very new, and local doctors were very insulting about ladies problems!!! my girlfriend of the time had awful problems with mastitis, and a doctor who seemed to hate women...
      luckily my sister knew a good doctor who helped her out.. :)

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  Місяць тому +1

      @@bobm4378 I’m so glad to hear that ❤️ we’ve definitely improved in womens health!

  • @notreallyacitygirl
    @notreallyacitygirl 9 місяців тому +5

    You're tighter with no natural lube???? Oh my goodness, that's terrible. I hope it's gotten better for you and your hubby.

  • @MHS-ql7ee
    @MHS-ql7ee 4 місяці тому +2

    The comments on this are sending me!😂

  • @rixgaming9989
    @rixgaming9989 4 місяці тому +24

    just take the dog for a walk already

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  4 місяці тому

      You must’ve not seen him hobble down the hallway. He literally couldn’t even walk

  • @danatmonst3594
    @danatmonst3594 Місяць тому +2

    Im not even sure how I ended up here. I was watching Lego fortnite videos.
    The "wasnt even turned on" statement threw me. Uhm. Ya'll dont do foreplay in america? Like hug & kiss passionately? No offence but, yikes. Doesnt matter how long you've been married you can still take the time to pamper each other & enjoy each other, right?
    Its been 2years since this video was uploaded. I hope you & your husband are doing much better now ❣ (The titles of the two videos of yours suggested to watch next. Oh mah gosh)

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  Місяць тому +2

      No need to be rude. If you’ve watched any of my other videos (which you obviously haven’t) you’d know I’ve been on anti depressants for years which is VERY well known that it ruins your sex drive. It’s very rude to shame someone for something they can’t control. I’d advise you not subscribe. Thanks. Here to help women in the same circumstance.

    • @DannyD-lr5yg
      @DannyD-lr5yg 15 днів тому

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogsHey you may like Dr Witt-Doerring’s videos over on his TaperClinic channel! Almost all his content is about recovery from SSRIs and benzos, and a lot of his guests talk about PSSD (post SSRI seggual dysfunction)

    • @DannyD-lr5yg
      @DannyD-lr5yg 15 днів тому

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogshey!

  • @janoss-zk5fk
    @janoss-zk5fk 4 місяці тому +18

    Wait until you realize the big mistake you made. That will be be the worst pain of all.

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  4 місяці тому +10

      ….what?

    • @soukaina2828
      @soukaina2828 4 місяці тому

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogs he thinks you are a trans woman

    • @loudgaydollars923
      @loudgaydollars923 4 місяці тому +14

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogs this is in the recommended for trans/detransitioning videos so lots of people think you are mtf and just had bottom surgery lmao

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  4 місяці тому +8

      @@loudgaydollars923 yeah I’m gathering that. Guess I’ll change the title lol

    • @PrecociousFriand
      @PrecociousFriand 2 місяці тому

      What a jerk you are Janoss. Run along little boy.

  • @tiasara5967
    @tiasara5967 2 місяці тому +1

    Never got through a single coherent sentence. The agony of listening to her never get to the point equals her agony.

  • @Dahna_
    @Dahna_ 4 місяці тому +3

    wow you look so good. Were you on hormones a long time before your transition?

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  4 місяці тому +10

      This wasn’t a transition surgery. I was born female and am still a female. I had an overgrowth of cells in my vestibule that was causing pain with intercourse. It’s called Vestibulodynia

    • @Dahna_
      @Dahna_ 4 місяці тому +6

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogs oh I apologize!

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  4 місяці тому +4

      @@Dahna_ no worries at all. I understand where the confusion could be.

    • @Spacey4000
      @Spacey4000 4 місяці тому

      @@Dahna_ lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

  • @BabyShark-kd9jl
    @BabyShark-kd9jl 2 місяці тому +2

    Charlie seems lonely.

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  2 місяці тому +2

      Charlie missed his parent and cried the whole time we were dog sitting. No. Matter. What. We. Did.

  • @marcielynn4886
    @marcielynn4886 25 днів тому

    Pick your physician carefully.

  • @user-cq9mb3wg5g
    @user-cq9mb3wg5g 2 роки тому

    Thanks for updating.!
    Do you have pain because of your muscles or the scar tissue?
    Also, did they remove the bartholin glands? I know if they don't remove them then you won't lose your natural lubrication!

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  2 роки тому

      I’m pretty sure it’s because of scar tissue but either way that’s why I’m going to PT because they can target the muscles too and teach you to relax. They did not remove the glands. From what my doctor and PT have both told me, you will lose 1/3 of your lubrication from removing the vestibule

    • @user-cq9mb3wg5g
      @user-cq9mb3wg5g 2 роки тому

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogs my doctor told me the lubrication will be the same. Now I'm pretty scared to lose my lubrication:(( Did you have muscle tightness before the surgery?

    • @PaigeHigginsVlogs
      @PaigeHigginsVlogs  2 роки тому

      @@user-cq9mb3wg5g interesting. I’m pretty dry to begin with so we have to use lots and lots of lube. I had muscle tightness before the surgery too. I guess it just takes time to learn to relax

    • @user-cq9mb3wg5g
      @user-cq9mb3wg5g 2 роки тому +3

      @@PaigeHigginsVlogs I guess you may have dryness just because you're not in the mood. It happens to me too very often

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 11 місяців тому

      @@user-cq9mb3wg5g A neo-vagina does not self-lubricate.

  • @Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alot
    @Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alot 2 місяці тому +2

    Hi there! Jesus Christ loves you and says to you today: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." He is the only way to heaven. May God bless you!