If these people were poor they’d be called hoarders. Overconsumption TikTok is an example of “what’s classy if you’re rich but trashy if you’re poor.” Hoarding
So true omg, and interestingly enough I feel as though some people who didn’t grow up with a lot of financial resources/literacy tend to over-consume. But this likely comes from traumatic experiences in childhood (ie not having enough ‘things’ in general)
Thank you for putting into words what I was feeling. All those organizers with items on the counter visually look like mine when things are not so good.
Yup. I have been slowly purging through all of the stuff my mother accumulated during her lifetime. People have asked if it was a hoarding situation. The only reason someone wouldn’t call it hoarding is because she had enough space in her home to spread it out without it being too noticeable. Still hoarding though. When you see those giant walk-in closets of celebrities with two rooms full of clothes-more than any human could wear in an entire year-also hoarding. The difference is those folks can afford to pay someone to organize and do collections management, and/or have enough space to spread it out so no one calls a mental health professional. 😆
I have a friend whose parents often took things away from her growing up, so she overpacks when she comes to hang out. And sometimes she does overstock her skin care cabinet. She's aware of it though.
No when I restock at work I feel so satisfied. Like half of these creators would feel so fulfilled from doing inventory and stocking I’m not even joking.
I've been alive for 53 years, and never have I realized that the root cause of all my troubles was that the shape of my ice cubes did not match the shape of my beverage containers! Now that I've discovered this wonderful secret to success and happiness, my life is going to be so much better, I just know it!!!
It’s so funny you say this because this is exactly how marketing is trying to make you think: how could you EVER be happy without this product, you NEED this product!!!
@@Bunny-sw8zt This is exactly what my comment was mocking - the importance attached by some to most insignificant things. And I can't help thinking of all people, especially young and deprived of critical brain, who actually do fall for this BS. This may not be exactly tragic, but it's certainly sad.
The guest bathroom thing drives me crazy, because if I'm sleeping at a friend's (for a night or for a week or whatever), I'll bring my own toiletries? Like, I have my favorite brands, products that work for me, and also I'd never expect for these things to be provided for me. I'd expect there to be toilet paper and soap and towels.
Nah, that’s the only one that’s actually fair. We live at least 2 hours from everyone we know. We have people staying over our home weekly. We keep extra things for them in case hey forgot something/ended up staying over after being unsure if they were going to and were tired. 🤷🏻♀️
@@sajh881 but it’s a lie? Fair point or not, the videos themselves are disingenuous because they ain’t stocking that bathroom for guests at all. It’s just a story so they can display their sponsored PR tush wipes and endless touchlands. No one is actually using it, all that stuff is either rotting in the draw or thrown out after the camera stops recording.
I mean, I’ve forgotten stuff before when I’ve stayed with friends, and vis versa, but then we just share stuff? Like… I can come use your toothpaste. You can use my shampoo…
now exactly!! When that mom just put a bunch of junk food and CANDY for her daughter. and i understand they're sponsored but it seems like they can't even drink regular water. Regular water is way more healthy for you than whatever supplement or vitamin you put in it
As a clumsy person I feel this. And my anxiety would be through the roof with it sitting on the table. I know I'll whack it over. I do it with coffee haha
40:13 ‘or am I trying to buy those childhood memories back’ … dang Kiki you were COOKING with that one. I think you’ve covered this topic with more care and nuance than I’ve seen any other creator. The kindness and compassion you extend to strangers gives me some hope in society. Cheers :)
The lady saying she got her sister’s social security number in order to buy an expensive purse because she has little money is one of the most batshit insane things I’ve heard
It’s nuts. This is the first time I’ve actually considered shopping addiction to be as influential over a person’s decisions as more commonly discussed addictions such as substances or gambling. Attempting to commit fraud over a purse is wild, but I’ve know people who have done much crazier things for drugs, alcohol, sex, scratch off tickets, etc. This is peak shopping addiction. To the point you have to feed the beast daily to get that monkey off your back. Just one more hit…except in this case, the hit is a $500 purse. 🙃
Right? You’ve gotta sneak outside food into the theater inside your backpack. 🙃They aren’t going to let you waltz into the movies with a smorgasbord of cookies and the entire McDonald’s menu strapped to your Stanley cup under the guise of drinking water. “Outside water is allowed in the theater.” Ma’am, there’s half the grocery store hanging off that cup.
The worst are the freakin "restock my Stanley with me" or "get ready with me for the day", then it's just clips of them showing off their house and whatnot. These fools actually have time to get ready to go do a 10-minute errand. It is SO useless but like anything for clout I guess.
I think the "wanting your house to look like a store" came from shows like MTV Cribs and the Kardashians, when celebs showed their walk in closets which were designed so store-like. People saw it as aspirational and associated it with wealth, which they then wanted to emulate themselves. Also, propping things up like in a store is a tidy way to put the items on display. They love the stuff they hoard, so they want to see it, I guess. As for that phenomenon on TikTok, it makes sense that the stuff is put up that way because in the end, it IS a store when they make commission.
I am genuinely suprised that Stanley Cups are still a trend. Most trends come and go so quickly, and I was shocked to see people still fighting over them. I thought they would have gone out of style already.
Yeah, same. I don’t have TikTok so I don’t know what’s trendy there until I watch these videos. I figured this trend was over since I never see someone in my town with one anymore. And if stores post in our towns group about having the new colours all I see is people complaining about the prices. They are like $50-70 CAD here.
44 yr old straight male here. Obviously probably not ur target demo. I gotta say, your videos are GREAT. They're researched. You cite things when needed. And they're entertaining
She really is a master at youtube!! I can’t stand when other creators talk about something like I already know what it is. Explain yourself!!! She does very well at that AND she always says what we are all thinking. She is not going to sugarcoat things and I love that!
This, but also, almost everything that I need I probably already have except for food and household products. If I don’t have it, my dad likely does since my mom left him with a house filled to the brim of pretty much every item you can think of. She was the 80s and 90s version of the TikTok overconsumer. Someone should have taken her damn credit cards away. 😆 If I need something, I don’t have to go to the store…I just go to my parents’ house. There’s like a 90% chance they have one if I don’t.
I'm so glad you mentioned the scarcity mindset. A lot of times overconsumption is a symptom of an addiction to shopping which develops due to past traumas. Humans are constantly seeking security and when one purchases "backups", it artificially scratches that itch to feel secure and safe. It's crazy to think that our desire for emotional safety can sometimes be hidden underneath a pile of body scrubs or hand sanitizers. But of course, there is hope for all of us as we continue to learn and grow toward feeling complete in healthier ways.
This! I feel more secure when I have all of the money that I would have purchased on these things, just sitting in my bank account instead. That is true security that over-consuming stuff cannot buy you!
I remember reading that, in Germany, the insult "hobbyless" was a thing for a while and it honestly applies so hard to these people. Buying accessories for your Stanley is not a hobby. A hobby doesn't need to be amazing or super creative or anything but buying stuff for the sake of buying stuff is not a hobby. Please, just find something to fill your time with that isn't browsing amazon et al until you start thinking you need a snack bowl for your cup.
There is not nearly enough hate in this video so far for the MINI TIC TAC BOTTLES. the plastic to product ratio is making my blood absolutely boil. Tic tacs are already small to begin with I cannot fathom this
Literally every time they pop up in these vids I'm like WTFFFF are we doing why??? 😭😭 so damn stupid and I'm glad somebody said this lol I was going crazy 😂
They're so unnecessary I get it lol. My mom is an over buyer. She loves to shop and over buy, but I've been trying to gently show her how this useless 💩 kills the planet. Shes open minded thankfully 😂
Out of curiosity, is there anything inherently wrong with flushable wipes in general or is it just the fact that these are individually wrapped and have a stupid name?? I personally find using dry paper to clean myself ineffective and kinda gross (no offense) so I’ve always opted for flushable wipes when possible but would never buy these individually wrapped ones or anything. If anything, I put a couple of my wipes from home in a baggy that stays in my purse if I really don’t want to have use toilet paper in public. I’d have a bidet in a second if I could but unfortunately I still live with family and the men in the house are of the belief that bidets would take their backend virginity or something, so I guess I’ll have to wait on that until I’m on my own.
@ They actually are known to clog pipes and can cause serious plumbing issues. From my understanding they don’t break down like TP does and it can cause problems in pipes and also if you have a septic tank. Plumbers don’t recommend using them because of those reasons.
@ wow thanks for the reply. Guess I should push for that bidet then. lol I just don’t understand how they’re so much worse. The wipes I use at least literally feel like wet toilet paper and break apart with very little effort. I wonder what exactly makes them not break down the same way as toilet paper.
When I see some pale-ass beige-y or gray sleeve pulled down almost covering their hand full of overly manicured nails, I start cringing... Immediately. Add the tappy tappy and crinkle and it literally makes my skin crawl.
Agree 100%! All the crinkling and tapping and squeezing and having their microphones turned up so it picks up all of that irritating noise even more... I can't scroll away fast enough! Why are we doing this????????? Side note, I think the Woobles crochet kits are cute but I SWEAR I thumb those UA-cam ads down SO FAST. That squishy crinkly sound makes me want to lose it. Certainly doesn't make me want to buy their product so why is everyone doing this?
As someone with a financial planning degree I see so many bad spending habits in overconsumption. “It’s their money” of course, doesn’t mean I can’t notice poor decisions, sacrificing long term growth for fancy behind wipes and purses.
I used to struggle with impulse spending so much. I'm not perfect but I do way better now. Hubby is trying but still spends too much then stresses about money so he spends more
@itseIv part of it was realizing that having less of something made me like it more. Have you ever had some self care thing become a chore? It's because you did it all the time and so it felt less luxe. I was eating so much candy for example that it stopped tasting as good and it wasn't even the treat I actually like. I want cake. So instead I made a cake once a week and cut it into "a slice I would enjoy eating " sized pieces and put them in individual containers. I gave the rest to friends or coworkers if i felt safe to. Then I let myself have a piece every day. I didn't stop for the morning donut or the 2 afternoon king sized candy bars because who needs lesser treats when the thing you love is waiting for you. At the same time, I worked on my emotions with my therapist and added in a gym class so I felt human connection. Eventually I wanted less and less of it so now it really is just a treat but if I was still eating a piece a day it genuinely would be fine because I wasn't eating in excess anymore. Perfection is the enemy of progress
Re the childhood thing that leads to overconsumption is true. My husband was never told he could not have anything as a child. Whatever he wanted, he got and its followed him into adulthood. In terms of gaming consoles, games, trainers (sneakers, im from the UK)....he has to have it. Whereas my childhood was different, I got toys and things but not all of the time and was encouraged to save my pocket money for things i really wanted if it wasnt near my birthday or xmas. I personally hate having a lot of stuff around, this year i have worked towards being minimal, having a capsule wardrobe and using what i have. Xx
I think you are correct when you say that a lot of people who over consume have a touch of childhood issues in the closet. They likely grew up with little or felt shame for not having the “cool expensive stuff” that their friends maybe had. I never thought about it that way but you hit the nail on the head.
True my mom grew up Buddhist and with a strict vegan diet where my gran locked the cabinets. My mom was never overweight my gran was an almond mom. My mom over compensated and I was a chunky middle schooler. Thank god our HS had a free gym.
My problem with overconsumption of beauty products and clothes came from my parents not letting me having the trendy stuff I wanted as a kid cause they thought it was stupid to spend so much money on brands when you can get a lot more for less. I got bullied at school for this and when I got adult money I went crazy. However, I’m working very hard on it since I’ve discovered the reason why I’m like this.
Have you seen the Casemate bag one with the lady who is practically beating the bag. It's like a blend of the asmr and that lady who does the school teacher videos where she yanks her purse around. It's like a really really bad parody. That on sends me over the edge.
I started throwing things away because the clutter was causing me anxiety and depression. I never had a problem like this, but I held onto stupid things for sentimental reasons that really didn't exist. The second I started minimizing my life and the things around me, I felt so much better. I felt like things were clean, more calm, and it helped my mental health tremendously.
I agree. Earlier this year I started decluttering a lot of makeup and skin care items. The amount of expired things that I had to throw away made me so mad at myself.
In defense of the “shared toothbrush” person, it’s possible they meant they share the electric toothbrush BASE with their husband, but they each have their own replaceable/interchangeable toothbrush head. At least I hope that’s what they meant…
I totally agree about the nostalgia part of overconsumption. Trying to "heal" my inner child led me to become over $40k in debt. Please regularly check in with yourself and ask yourself why, why do you need this or more importantly, can I live without this? It's also important to be kind to yourself and show yourself grace. Thank you so much for your well researched vids, love them so much 💙
I go to therapy to heal my inner child. It's not cheap either, but it's been such a great help! And the better I feel, the less often I need to have a session, so it actually tapers off.
I got over that by like killing my inner child instead of listening to that spoiled fucking brat who had absolutely horrible taste in everything and decided to like fully embrace the passage of time and how I am so thankful that I am not that person anymore like thank god I am not that girl anymore Pretty much the only thing you were right about was Taylor Swift being a good pop star
as a chronic migraineure and fragrance sensitive person, i could not go near some of these people’s bathrooms! also, maybe we should start shaking for how they’re environmental menaces for all the mini packages. the individually wrapped makeup wipes, mini tic tacs, tiny everything, it’s so much unnecessary single use plastic!
I feel like the "that girl" trend has crossed a line in the same vein as "nice guys". If you have to tell us you're "that girl" or a "nice guy" you're not "that girl" or a "nice guy".
I didn't realize "that girl" was a thing people WANTED to be. It sounds to me like an insult lol, or at the very least like something negative. "That girl" is the one other people whisper and giggle about because she's the only person who thinks she's any kind of cool.
100% I saw on Twitter a while back a video of Cardi bs daughter lunch for school. She’s like 6? Or 7? She had all the sugary drinks, sugary cheap snacks and junk food that could fill a large lunchbox. If I remember correctly Twitter went wild. She’s got how much $ and her child isn’t eating organic, healthy foods? But she has her child carry a Birkin from Hermes? The priorities are all out of wack…
IKR ?!?! I’m showing my age here, but we used to take a sandwich, a piece or two of fruit, and maybe a Little Debbie snack in our lunchbox, and buy milk at school… 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Before overconsumption TikTok there was overconsumption UA-cam. I used to love watching people’s insane makeup collection videos back in the late 2000s/early 2010s and get so jealous. It’s all a cycle lol
This is one of the best comments I've seen on these videos. You're absolutely right, too! Even before UA-cam, there are always trends, whether right or wrong, cool or lame, nothing has changed. It's always been like this. The only difference now is that people want to be the next viral sensation, so they post videos about everything, and put it out for the world. Honestly, it's a never ending cycle and even this video, along with others like it, are all getting attention, views and pay, for slamming those people. Without those people and the trends, these videos would cease to exist then, wouldn't they? It's just ridiculous. 😂
@@moustik31 I think most adults realize this is for content purposes only. Even if teenagers watched this most couldn’t afford doing this type of over consumption.
I bought a ton of the “purse restock” items when I got my first bag 2-3 years ago and I don’t even think I’ve ever even used all of the stuff that I got. The fact that some people restock on that stuff WEEKLY absolutely baffles me
What I was thinking. Replacing things during supermarket shops is one thing, but having to regularly restock anything in your house like they do in these videos is strange
It's funny how "under-consumption" is a trend to some people whereas to many people that is a lifestyle that isn't a choice at all. That's just how they have to live to survive, using what they have and very often not being able to buy what they want, or even need. I'm glad that this is something that is being discussed and considered though. Great video, thank you!
It's a fucking insult to people who actually have to watch how much they spend, but if making it "trendy" is an effective way to encourage modest consumption, then by all means they should keep doing it.
@@courtykatI like it, because it helps me feel normal- and to be fair, in this economy it is normal. The under-consumption creators I've seen typically share budget and recycling hacks, which I find useful.
Since I saw the Liquid IV in several videos - just want to point out that unless you are doing strenuous exercise, sweating a lot, in the heat, etc. an average person does NOT need to be consuming electrolyte beverages in this way, and certainly not just to sit on the couch and watch a movie. I think people have gotten the impression through marketing that electrolytes are like "healthier water" or just taste good, but that is not the case - they're designed for athletes or to replenish nutrients AND SALT from excessive sweating. And even in those cases, having more than one serving per day can be dangerous bc it can throw off your electrolyte balance which can cause serious health complications - so enjoy them if you want, but please do your research about whether it's right for you before consuming them, instead of just going based off the ads!
Very much this! I have POTS, so my doctor has recommended I consume a much higher amount of sodium and water than what the average person needs. I keep Liquid IV in my purse the way grandmas always keep Werther's caramels in theirs lol. But most people do not need to be drinking electrolyte beverages all the time. I don't view them as objectively "healthy" or "unhealthy," and more like an OTC pain reliever or cold medicine. For example, cold medicine might be make you feel better when you're sick, but it's not a multivitamin you want to take every day "just because."
@@Sweet_Dee that's a really good way to think of it! and i do like drinking liquid iv/other electrolyte bevs - i have them for after my harder/sweatier workouts where i know i need to replenish and it really does help me recharge. but i don't need it on days where i'm just chillin at home watching youtube lol
When I was anaemic and almost bedridden, I had to go to hospital for an iron infusion but my condition was so bad they gave me electrolytes before they could treat me. So I understand how electrolytes work now. If people drink them for no reason they can’t get rid of the stubborn visceral fat that accumulates in their body.
Just a note on the shared toothbrush: being an electric one, I think she means they share it because you can just change the tip and not have two handle/motor parts. I had a friend from childhood who did that and her whole 4-person family shared the motor. If this is not the case, well, then I subscribe to everything you said hahaha
@@ipuke_glitter yeah, especially considering these toothbrushes are like $60, the cheapest electric toothbrush at my Walmart is like $39.99 (not counting the kid ones or knockoff ones that dont have changable heads) ive seen them be up to like $120 and stuff too
My husband and I each have our own electric toothbrush, but if you’re swapping heads and only sharing the motor it’s sanitary. It’s not like the motors touches your mouth.
My husband and I share the motor but have different brushes. Not because we have to save money but because we don't deepthroat the handle and we clean it when we're done.
My two best friends come to visit every year from Mexico. I always ask them not to bring any toiletries to have an easy go through TSA but also my opportunity to gift them with goodies that they start using right away. We even give each other pajamas. They do the same for me as well. I get them things on clearance, sales. But they come and take them I don’t accumulate stuff. And I definitely ONLY do this for them. The rest of my guests get toilet paper, hand soap and clean towels. This overconsumption is getting ridiculous. I love your content so much.
Lived in Mexico for 7 years and 100% Mexico is like a fancy toiletries wasteland. 😂 Also caught me so off guard that TP is scented lmao. But I get you l, when my 3 SILs visit I get excited to pamper them and love to do mini kits of korean skincare, and the like.
Yeahhh I’m not from America and I was just wondering - is this a cultural thing? What kind of “guests” are they hosting any way? If I were to stay at somebody else’s place, I might “expect” them to have basic shampoo and body wash, but I would totally be bringing my own skincare, makeup, even hair conditioner if I’m not sure if they personally use it. I don’t think anyone would expect to have all toiletries provided to them just because someone lends you a room. Plus, most people have very specific brands/products they are used to, so it’s just more cost effective and convenient for you to bring them yourself…? Is that abnormal in America…?
@@SilverlinedViolano this is not a part of our culture and If it becomes normal we’re screwed. Like most other countries when you go somewhere you are expected to bring what you need for yourself 😂😂 what’s in this video is so exaggerated and overly extreme. I must say though, I feel like Americans are the only people participating in this bullshit 😂😂 our overconsumption is definitely getting out of hand. That bathroom restock is NOT normal tho
I decided years ago to eat through my food stores and use up products before I buy more. This was brought on by moving and realizing how much crap I’d collected after living in the same place for 9 years. It took me a year to get through the food (you know those cans that are perfectly good but you didn’t want to eat) and 3 years to get through bathroom products. And every time I get close to finishing a friend moved and I get what they don’t want to move with and then I have more to work through. I don’t buy clothes until what I have can’t be mended any more. Literally spend like $200 a year on clothes. It’s saved me so much and I’m not debt free and living below my means. It’s amazing and I’m consuming less.
@@renataughsome “asmr” is nice and helps with anxiety but all these tiktok videos are literally just advertisements. They are all trying to sell you shit.
When I was a kid I had to stay at a domestic violence shelter and you go there with nothing but the clothes on your back (sort of an emergency situation if you get me) so they provide toiletries and some other basic items. Just an idea for people that want to horde stuff. Maybe donate to places like that.
Most of the time they don't accept a once used or opened item. At least in The Netherlands they are verrrry strict. It's sad because 90% of the products can be reused
@@IrisvanIersel hopefully the algorthm does't take down this coment, but it's better like that, imagine what "people" could do to an opened product without you noticing, especially when it comes to situations like this where many "animals" are looking for revenge
Whenever we would travel, we would snag all the hotel bathroom products and donate them to our homeless shelter when we returned. I mentioned it in class once and my teacher started doing it also.
I just found you and this video spoke to me…. You are so lovely- you put yourself in people’s shoes and also speak on how it is fun to watch some of these. I recently had a pretty big surgery the week before my 40th and being at home…. I started to order things. I wanted to go back to work to avoid my emotions of a hysterectomy… long story short, I have a great job and my own home… but, I quickly realized I was buying cute things and beauty products way too much to fill a void… you helped me kinda see maybe some reasons why! Thank you! Subscribed and will watch more 😊
My question is in our economy right now the bread and peanut butter is EXPENSIVE and gasoline don’t even get me started HOW are these people affording this type of products at this much quantity?!?! Is it because tik tok pays them????
Yes, once you get to a certain amount of followers, you get sent stuff for free. You can also request products from companies and they will send them to you for free as long as you make a video promoting it. Then you get a cut of the profit from sales. They can afford to have all this stuff because they don’t pay for it. So they get all the stuff for free + profit, while we get all the stuff and debt. They get richer through every sale while the consumer is still living pay-check to pay-check.
It’s credit card debt most likely. They’re not budgeting, they’re just putting it on cards that they don’t have the money to pay. If you watch Caleb hammer, you see how the average American spends more than they have on BS. So yeah, it’s credit card debt unless these people are getting paid to overconsume/are sent the product for free. It’s certainly encouraging the viewers to go into credit card debt for the products they’re influenced to buy.
While yes they do get promo ect, they still have to pay taxes on everything they receive. Furthermore, a huge amount of influences are in terrible debt
@greasi yeah, the bit about them being in debt needs to be shouted from the rooftops. Sure, pr and money from sponsorships etc help, but a LOT of these people are deep in the throes of a spending problem and probably hiding some dire financial straits with all these purchases.
One thing that has been immensely freeing for me? I am on palliative care and finally got sick enough I had to step away from my clinical career, so I got rid of nearly everything and bought an RV. I have to really think about what I want, how beneficial it is, longevity, and where it will live. I’ve always been one to save money up for a purchase and choose a high quality item that will last me longer, possibly serve more than one purpose, not fall into gimmicks, which has definitely reduced consumerism and eco footprint. Also, buying quality and keeping that item for longevity saves money in the long run, is usually elevates above trends, and sometimes becomes a generational item! I have a tiny 5x5, temp controlled storage unit for books, storage tubs where we can swap out seasonal clothing, micro holiday decor, document safe, my specialty cooking things I may need because I still like cooking when I’m well enough, tools, that stuff. I live light and experience as much as I can!
something that has really helped me has been taking inventory of everything i have (clothes, makeup, decor etc) and then making a list of the things i want/don’t have. if it’s been on my list for a while and i still want it i can purchase it.
I actually gasped when I saw all of those shampoos and body washes in the shower 😭😭😭 THEYRE GONNA EXPIRE BEFORE YOU CAN USE HALF OF THEM WHAT ARE YOU DOING
Most of these ladies suffer with depression and won't shower until they need to make a video of how they stay clean.. wait they don't shower that day either. Lolz.
yeah how many guests do they host? and they have to be making good money because all those tiny stuff are EXPENSIVE. makes my personal bathroom look like barebones lol
@@ginagrubb2939 that’s what I’m saying!! I bought mini bottles from target like 3 years ago and just refill them when I go places. I thought that was the norm 😭
The Stanley ones with food piss me off because if we’re being real the only reason they get away with putting all that shit in their cup is because based on their aesthetic they’re assumed to be skinny. Imagine if a bigger person “packed” their Stanley with four cookies, a slice of cake, and an entire candy bar. The comments would look very different.
The guest bathroom thing…who goes to someone’s house as an overnight guest and doesn’t pack their own toiletries??? I forget stuff once in a while but not the whole damn bag. This is crazy
Also, why don’t they just have full size bottles for them to use? I can understand mini toothpastes and deodorants, but other than that why can’t you put a regular shampoo, conditioner, and mouth wash in there with some paper cups?
I have sensitive skin, therefore i'm taking and using my own cosmetics. I might use toothpaste and micellar water if I forget my own. So much plastic it makes me angry
I remember when Hyrdo Flask was the popular bottle to have. I got a knock off on Amazon called hydro cell and have been using it since. Works great and it was like 20$
My son is at daycare. This is the first day I've had alone in my first and new apartment. I'm going to lay in my bed. I just took a shower and I'm going to eat snacks. Living my best fn life.
This video was incredible. I think the most impactful video of yours that I've viewed and otherwise. So honest and hardhitting. You have prompted me to completely rethink my spending and my plans to purge. You are a Rockstar! Thank you.❤
Agreed it certainly took me by surprise. When hydro flasks were big it was max bracelets and hella sticker. Ya know, casual. All of this random trash is so over the top.
Stuff like replacement caps and straws make a lot of sense since then if the original breaks, you can get a new one for cheap, or in the case of straws just have some extras. idk why someone would need to put their food on their cup though. Surely it is more annoying than putting the cup to the side.
My hot take is that if you’re buying all these themed accessories and whatnot for a Stanley or whatever - start collecting dolls. What you want is to collect something and dress it up. Scratch that itch and then it won’t pop up everywhere else
You want to play pretend and that’s okay but playing pretend in real life if wasteful, impractical, and expensive. Play with dolls or something, it’s fine
@@Shushu-sp5ke well I think anyone can do things in excess, and it’s not inherently wrong or bad. And collecting is over consumption to a degree, but usually it’s only that item. A psychological issue with this is that we are now treating everyday items as collectible, so it means that people will come up with every random thing to claim you “need” for it. AND we lose the reason why those things are made anyway (it’s much easier to make 20 shades of water bottles that people “HAVE to have” than create something that is meant to be collected and therefore only has, say 5 versions released each year). People who collect dolls are way more intentional in their collection. So while yeah overconsumption is a problem, I think the psychology behind it and how it continues to come up with new ways to shift our mentality to see life through capitalism is really important to remember here.
I’ve had TikTok for a long time. Never had these videos. Only had homesteading stuff, animal videos and recipes. It really is what you loook for. I uninstalled it anyway because doom scrolling is bad even when it’s not inherently toxic content. But yeah I never got this brain rot shit
Your reactions to this are so funny! But so real! Just watched the Netflix documentary about overconsumption and it just makes me mad. I used to play outside as a kid with no shoes and rocks in my pocket… now kids Christmas lists are more than my salary and we’re all doom scrolling to look for the next new thing 😢 great video.. really makes it all look so silly and sad!
Idiocracy was not just a movie but a real look into our future. My friend and I love watching your videos and laughing with you at the absurdity of all the shit happening online.
The mini version of tic-tacs baffle me...there's like 4 pellets in there! The original size is already small enough to fit their lil Stanley backpack pouch
literally the motivation behind the guest bathroom restock is to flaunt wealth like “not only can i buy these expensive brands. i can buy them with the purpose that I don’t use them”
I totally agree that there can be a backstory. My dad grew up in rather poor family, with lots of children, completely different times. They didn’t have fancy stuff, had food on their table but nothing special. Now my dad is over-consuming food. When he shops he tends to buy way more than we can eat. We had so many discussions about it but there is something in him that just makes him buying more and more just to keep the fridge completely full. I feel that older generation had to be smarter with money and didn’t allow kids much and now those kids are grown ups with money and they want to finally be in a power of getting whatever they want.
This is exactly what I was going to comment! I feel like the over consumption comes from a scarcity mindset. I used to see this on tv years ago where people would buy things in bulk and would pretty much have stores in their garage. Like the amount of things they bought would be enough to last them in an apocalypse, and they would just restock, so they never really consumed everything. I find it just so crazy. They get a false sense of security from it
My mom is a hoarder, growing up in a similar situation. I think it’s a mental thing that compensates for their childhood. I’m still trying to understand her and I’m sure it’s not an easy thing to deal with.
@@ae7645 I agree. I see some stuff like that with me - we always had money but my parents knew the value of dollar. I dreamt about all the toys but they were rather expensive in Poland. Now I’m a grown up with great job and I buy lots of Lego sets. Do I need it? No. Do I feel like I’m fulfilling those dreams I used to have? Hell yeah.
…that explains my parents so much. my mom grew up in a family of 10, struggling to feed them all and now she buys way too much, and my dad grew up in a family of 7 with the same issue but he has problems throwing expired things away now
I used to buy so much body and skin care and makeup products that my husband sat me down and told me that I’m spending so much money on all crap. I didn’t believe him until he showed me the bank statements. When I saw the amount of money i was spending, it was a major reality kick in the face. In 3 months, I spent almost 5K on just skin care and makeup, it made me sick. It’s been almost 3 years since that conversation my husband had with me and I’m still going through all the stuff I bought. Watching these kind of videos makes me really sad and thankful that I’m no longer that person.
Had a similar situation! Im just glad we have people who care and can be honest with us!! I definitely am better than last year and currently trying to get rid of the junk i bought 😊😅
What’s extra frustrating about the Stanley target fights, is that I bet a majority of these people who are grabbing multiple bottles are going straight home to list them on EBay for hundreds of dollars
I was hooked to these kind of videos during lock down and trust me it is so scary. I never realized but i was buying stuff i never needed just for that aesthetic look. I am glad that i worked on it. Thank you for bringing this topic.
Okay. I know I will be ridiculed for this, but I own a 40 Stanley cup that I use for water. The only accessories I own, and really use is a straw cover, and yes, the tray that fits on top. I fill one side with sunflower seeds, and leave the other side empty so I can put my shells in them. I guess I’m supposed to be embarrassed about this, but it is so handy for when I relax and watch tv, no 2 bowls to deal with, and the smell of sunflower seeds smell yummy as I sip my water. 😊. But yeah, hamburgers, fries, etc. is silly. The other accessories are eye-rollers for sure. I enjoyed your content! 😊❤
Honestly, I commend you for this comment. Very brave and bold, to actually post this comment. No sarcasm included, I'm impressed and think you have some serious balls. If you like your cup and enjoy using it, who cares what anyone else says or thinks? In all reality, overconsumption is a problem, but so is being judgemental about everyone and everything. Especially when at the end of the day, videos like this are being made and providing income for someone using the content from the people that are supposedly a problem. Anyway, cheers! ❤
36:52 My guest shower has one large bottle of shampoo, conditioner, and body soap. There are also a couple towels and extra toilet paper rolls under the sink. That’s it. You’re welcome. lol 😂
Exactly! Most people have their own personal preferences of what toiletries works for them. Those restocking videos are only for the influencers aesthetic and not their guests.
How HEAVY must those Stanley’s be to carry around with all the crap on it?! I hate carrying mine with just a drink in it. And god forbid it tips over!!!
To your point of spending money on experiences rather than things, there's a saying I've heard before and I feel it applies here: "Look at all the things you own, and all you've got is a list. Look at all the things you've done and you've got a story."
I think it's crazy how much space all those products take up in those hoarders' places. You're paying rent for products to live there, not for yourself
As an ADHD dopamine seeker, I love shopping so much. I definitely have an unhealthy spending problem. My husband sat with me recently and had me read from my bank account so he could total it up, and gave me the amount I'd spent in the last two weeks, I was horrified. It adds up, one thing here, two things there, oh this is on sale, I love this color, boom an entire paycheck is gone. You lose track of it and it slips away from your control. Maybe you're getting the dopamine from buying, or maybe it's for the validation from others. It doesn't matter, it's a mental health issue that needs addressing that way, you can't just talk your way out of it. "I'll do better" is a great start but it's going to take more. I'm on that journey right now.
Amen! ❤ good luck babe! This resonated a lot with me. The doom scrolling, out of boredom or dopamine. We need to work on being Grateful for what we already have!
As someone who has short arms so sleeves always cover my hands it drives me nuts when people force their sleeves over their hands like this.. its not practical and it's annoying 😅
I just came across your channel through your TJMaxx video and oh my gosh you’re my new favorite UA-camr. You’ve been my entertainment while I’m sewing Christmas gifts. Thank you for being so entertaining!
My breaking point in overconsumption this year, has been what I’ve witnessed in the reader community. First they did “house purses” because they couldn’t be bothered to carry their reading “essentials” from one side of the house to the other. So a whole other purse with snacks, lip balm, kindle, hand sanitizer, everything that could be in your purse. But just one for strictly your house. THEN recently they started ordering mp3 players and downloading the kindle app and coining them as their “pocket kindles”….. YOUR PHONE IS A POCKET KINDLE 😂😂
Why does anyone need lip balm and hand sanitizer for reading? I love to read, but i'm too poor for bookstore books, i read kindle freebies and 0.99c books, or i am going to the library. I just need a book and maybe a coffee.
I've been part of the BookBlogging (focus on blogging!) community from 2011 to 2016. And I had quite a huge following in my country. Considering it was an absolute niche topic/community. I recently learnt about BookTok and all I can say is: I am so HAPPY that I left the online book community when I did. BookTok is crazy and peak overconsumption and supporting fast-food-books, which lack quality and only tick certain trope-boxes to please the BookTok community. It's wild.
I heard Stanley's hitting the ground in that Target video... if you drop your Stanley hard enough, you'll lose the vacuum seal that keeps your drinks hot/cold. Grown-ups acting like children at a birthday party when the piñata's busted open, is INSANE!
Lolol the Bath and Body thing - it’s a slippery slope! They have so many dang deals all the flippin’ time so you always feel like you’re scoring big but then you end up with more lotions, creams, sprays, and body washes than you could ever use! Thankfully I’ve recognized my hoarding/stocking (lol) and have stopped spending. I’ve also shared my scores as gifts to friends and families and donating to my school’s (I’m a teacher) staff bathrooms and nurse to give to girls that may need it at home.
If these people were poor they’d be called hoarders. Overconsumption TikTok is an example of “what’s classy if you’re rich but trashy if you’re poor.” Hoarding
Very good point
Well said
So true omg, and interestingly enough I feel as though some people who didn’t grow up with a lot of financial resources/literacy tend to over-consume. But this likely comes from traumatic experiences in childhood (ie not having enough ‘things’ in general)
Thank you for putting into words what I was feeling. All those organizers with items on the counter visually look like mine when things are not so good.
Yup. I have been slowly purging through all of the stuff my mother accumulated during her lifetime. People have asked if it was a hoarding situation. The only reason someone wouldn’t call it hoarding is because she had enough space in her home to spread it out without it being too noticeable.
Still hoarding though. When you see those giant walk-in closets of celebrities with two rooms full of clothes-more than any human could wear in an entire year-also hoarding. The difference is those folks can afford to pay someone to organize and do collections management, and/or have enough space to spread it out so no one calls a mental health professional. 😆
“What is the psychology behind people wanting their house to look like a store?” Yes! Thank you!
You should see us crocheters and knitters. But to be fair we do tend to make a lot of stuff.
Honestly I think it’s the dopamine rush of opening a new product. It’s a lot of minis so they’re opening a new whatever every few days.
I have a friend whose parents often took things away from her growing up, so she overpacks when she comes to hang out. And sometimes she does overstock her skin care cabinet. She's aware of it though.
Probably also overcompensating the fact they previously had no money/grew up with parents that were buying only necessary stuff
It’s a way to disassociate with reality. Continued externalization of the self, which is a product of late stage capitalism.
For the people who enjoy restock videos or doing restock videos.. ..just work retail as a stocker. You get to restock hundreds of items every day!
Good idea 😂😂😂
that would make an amazing job promotion ad
No when I restock at work I feel so satisfied. Like half of these creators would feel so fulfilled from doing inventory and stocking I’m not even joking.
Maybe that's why I don't like these videos I tried sooo hard at dollar general in hs all for naught 😅
okay wait but why is this low-key genius to me, I wanted to be a night stocker because of my anxiety, I could look into that maybe! :)
I've been alive for 53 years, and never have I realized that the root cause of all my troubles was that the shape of my ice cubes did not match the shape of my beverage containers! Now that I've discovered this wonderful secret to success and happiness, my life is going to be so much better, I just know it!!!
lol
Can you really call that “being alive”? It sounds like you were barely surviving! Now you can start living for real.
@@eleagens Truer words have never been spoken!
It’s so funny you say this because this is exactly how marketing is trying to make you think: how could you EVER be happy without this product, you NEED this product!!!
@@Bunny-sw8zt This is exactly what my comment was mocking - the importance attached by some to most insignificant things. And I can't help thinking of all people, especially young and deprived of critical brain, who actually do fall for this BS. This may not be exactly tragic, but it's certainly sad.
These videos are me at 8 years old trying to find random things to fill my little purses with so i feel cool
Girl I needed this today😂😂😭😭😭😭 it’s so true
Same!
😂😂😂😂 relatable
You win.
😂😂😂
"If you are not very careful, your possessions will possess you." - Marina & the Diamonds
I KNOW EXACTLY WHY I WOK AND TOK LIKE A MACHEEN 🗣️🗣️🗣️
@@MyNameHere101IM NOW BECOMING MY OWN SELF-FUFILLED PROPHECY🔥🔥🔥
And all the things you own, own u KNOWWWW! Coby- papa roach 😂
“TV taught me how to feel, now real life has no appeal.” Fits too. Especially if you replace “TV” with “TikTok”.
Love Marina ❤
The Stanley thing reminds me of little girls having purses and finding anything to put in it cause they’re just excited to have a purse lolol
stanley is the new purse but instead you put your things on the outside 😭
Exactly! Thought the same thing, it's super childish!
😂 I had fabric swatches in mine!
Yes exactly! You’re so right! People are allowed to enjoy things! ❤😊
@@DawnKellyMedia🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣
The guest bathroom thing drives me crazy, because if I'm sleeping at a friend's (for a night or for a week or whatever), I'll bring my own toiletries? Like, I have my favorite brands, products that work for me, and also I'd never expect for these things to be provided for me. I'd expect there to be toilet paper and soap and towels.
Nah, that’s the only one that’s actually fair. We live at least 2 hours from everyone we know. We have people staying over our home weekly. We keep extra things for them in case hey forgot something/ended up staying over after being unsure if they were going to and were tired. 🤷🏻♀️
@@sajh881 but it’s a lie? Fair point or not, the videos themselves are disingenuous because they ain’t stocking that bathroom for guests at all. It’s just a story so they can display their sponsored PR tush wipes and endless touchlands. No one is actually using it, all that stuff is either rotting in the draw or thrown out after the camera stops recording.
I have never had a person set up a guest station for me like that. I think it's silly
I mean, I’ve forgotten stuff before when I’ve stayed with friends, and vis versa, but then we just share stuff? Like… I can come use your toothpaste. You can use my shampoo…
@@ellim1585 yeah, use my toothbrush, my deodorant and hairbrush go right ahead 🙃
Done stocking my Stanley so now I need to stock my Stanley stocking station.
😂😂😂
Winning lolll
And then what's funny is you know they have the bulk of those items stored and organized somewhere 😆
Omgg don’t give an influencer their next video idea!!😂
dont forget stocking the stanley stocking station 💀
I love how they drink bloom, which they think is healthy, but then load those things up with 9,000 calories worth of snacks.
But they aren’t eating what’s inside…
They could at least pretend and put some carrots in there…
now exactly!! When that mom just put a bunch of junk food and CANDY for her daughter. and i understand they're sponsored but it seems like they can't even drink regular water. Regular water is way more healthy for you than whatever supplement or vitamin you put in it
Right! Lol
The bloom cancels it out, obviously /s
HOW DO THE CUPS NOT TIP OVER!!!!!!!!!! One wrong bump and everything is a MESS, thats all I can think about.
My Stanley tips over easily lol maybe I got a defective one for Christmas🎉.
I kinda want those bowl things for roadtrips, for my kids 😅
@@limegreenlover21I recently dropped my Stanley on the ground at work and I only got a small amount of damage lol
Especially with the milk and cereal?!?! No thank you...
As a clumsy person I feel this. And my anxiety would be through the roof with it sitting on the table. I know I'll whack it over. I do it with coffee haha
40:13 ‘or am I trying to buy those childhood memories back’ … dang Kiki you were COOKING with that one. I think you’ve covered this topic with more care and nuance than I’ve seen any other creator. The kindness and compassion you extend to strangers gives me some hope in society. Cheers :)
The lady saying she got her sister’s social security number in order to buy an expensive purse because she has little money is one of the most batshit insane things I’ve heard
I love when these people admit to straight up fraud on a public platform 😂🤦🏼♀️
It’s nuts. This is the first time I’ve actually considered shopping addiction to be as influential over a person’s decisions as more commonly discussed addictions such as substances or gambling.
Attempting to commit fraud over a purse is wild, but I’ve know people who have done much crazier things for drugs, alcohol, sex, scratch off tickets, etc. This is peak shopping addiction. To the point you have to feed the beast daily to get that monkey off your back. Just one more hit…except in this case, the hit is a $500 purse. 🙃
At least she seemed aware she had a shopping addiction i guess :')
The fact that her sister gave her ss# is crazy. I have no money and my credit is tanked, can I use Your credit? No. No you may not.
And illegal
"going to the movies"
Mam wtf movie theater are you going to that allows you to bring an entire buffet?
Right? You’ve gotta sneak outside food into the theater inside your backpack. 🙃They aren’t going to let you waltz into the movies with a smorgasbord of cookies and the entire McDonald’s menu strapped to your Stanley cup under the guise of drinking water. “Outside water is allowed in the theater.” Ma’am, there’s half the grocery store hanging off that cup.
@@amandamarklandyoga 😂😂💀 I can't with these people
their couch
They're just going into their living room and burrow into the couch.
The worst are the freakin "restock my Stanley with me" or "get ready with me for the day", then it's just clips of them showing off their house and whatnot. These fools actually have time to get ready to go do a 10-minute errand. It is SO useless but like anything for clout I guess.
People don't need a purse anymore, they just carry around a Stanley cup with 20 pounds of products hanging on it instead
😆😅😅😅🤣
I'm sure these are the same people crying about the struggles of inflation.
That was great!!!! I'd rather carry a lil purse and cup/mug that buy all the BS to add to a Stanley cup....
While they can still ambulate. Because at this rate, eating all that unhealthy food and sugary drinks will lead them into obesity.
@@brendaradziwon-zapora4450I have never owned a Stanley Cup but I love my one cup that keeps my drinks cold or warm. One cup is all I need.
I think the "wanting your house to look like a store" came from shows like MTV Cribs and the Kardashians, when celebs showed their walk in closets which were designed so store-like. People saw it as aspirational and associated it with wealth, which they then wanted to emulate themselves.
Also, propping things up like in a store is a tidy way to put the items on display. They love the stuff they hoard, so they want to see it, I guess.
As for that phenomenon on TikTok, it makes sense that the stuff is put up that way because in the end, it IS a store when they make commission.
I am genuinely suprised that Stanley Cups are still a trend. Most trends come and go so quickly, and I was shocked to see people still fighting over them. I thought they would have gone out of style already.
It’s the accessories and seasonality
Same. I feel like they briefly weren't as popular but went right back to being super popular.
they're also sooo ugly
Yeah, same. I don’t have TikTok so I don’t know what’s trendy there until I watch these videos. I figured this trend was over since I never see someone in my town with one anymore. And if stores post in our towns group about having the new colours all I see is people complaining about the prices. They are like $50-70 CAD here.
@@X.outofhermind.XI don't have tiktok either and I had never heard of that spray hand sanitizer or butt wipes until this video lol.
44 yr old straight male here. Obviously probably not ur target demo. I gotta say, your videos are GREAT. They're researched. You cite things when needed. And they're entertaining
patrick you're a king
You're a king ❤
real patrick
She's also beautiful right?
She really is a master at youtube!! I can’t stand when other creators talk about something like I already know what it is. Explain yourself!!! She does very well at that AND she always says what we are all thinking. She is not going to sugarcoat things and I love that!
I don't deliberately underconsume. I just procrastinate shopping for things I need.
this is the most relatable thing I've heard all day
same bestie!🎉
This, but also, almost everything that I need I probably already have except for food and household products. If I don’t have it, my dad likely does since my mom left him with a house filled to the brim of pretty much every item you can think of. She was the 80s and 90s version of the TikTok overconsumer. Someone should have taken her damn credit cards away. 😆
If I need something, I don’t have to go to the store…I just go to my parents’ house. There’s like a 90% chance they have one if I don’t.
This is SO true 😂
Same! Hahah! I just buy hygiene products and clothes when I absolute need them.
I'm so glad you mentioned the scarcity mindset. A lot of times overconsumption is a symptom of an addiction to shopping which develops due to past traumas. Humans are constantly seeking security and when one purchases "backups", it artificially scratches that itch to feel secure and safe. It's crazy to think that our desire for emotional safety can sometimes be hidden underneath a pile of body scrubs or hand sanitizers. But of course, there is hope for all of us as we continue to learn and grow toward feeling complete in healthier ways.
This! I feel more secure when I have all of the money that I would have purchased on these things, just sitting in my bank account instead. That is true security that over-consuming stuff cannot buy you!
I remember reading that, in Germany, the insult "hobbyless" was a thing for a while and it honestly applies so hard to these people. Buying accessories for your Stanley is not a hobby. A hobby doesn't need to be amazing or super creative or anything but buying stuff for the sake of buying stuff is not a hobby. Please, just find something to fill your time with that isn't browsing amazon et al until you start thinking you need a snack bowl for your cup.
"Der hat wohl keine Hobbys" is still a nice and cultured insult here in Germany :) And yes, it 100% applies to these Stanley Zombies.
Diese Kommentarsektion ist nun Eigentum der BRD
That's absolutely it!
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The only accessory for a Stanley I would get is the straw topper but I've been burned with a bug sitting in my straw before so im biased.
There is not nearly enough hate in this video so far for the MINI TIC TAC BOTTLES. the plastic to product ratio is making my blood absolutely boil. Tic tacs are already small to begin with I cannot fathom this
Literally every time they pop up in these vids I'm like WTFFFF are we doing why??? 😭😭 so damn stupid and I'm glad somebody said this lol I was going crazy 😂
Yesssss
Literally they hold like 5 tictacs???
Howw do you even get the tictacs out? They're bigger than the package they came in!
@@yeeyeeyeeye that's what I'm saying! It's totally pointless.
A "restock" of a bathroom with no shower curtain is SENDING ME. They can't use the products if they can't shower in there
I didn't even see that lol
But that’s logical! 😂 my bathroom has a glass frame instead of a curtain and it would be like cleaning the entire bathroom and not cleaning that 🙈🙈
The real enemy in those videos are those freaking sleeves covering their whole hand while they touch everything 😭
Yes. I was always wondered why they always had to have their sleeves covering their hands plus the sleeve is going to get dirty very quickly.
the reaction to the tush wipes getting progressively more angry/annoyed is pure comedy and also, I absolutely relate
Her facial expression when those showed up was priceless!
They're so unnecessary I get it lol. My mom is an over buyer. She loves to shop and over buy, but I've been trying to gently show her how this useless 💩 kills the planet. Shes open minded thankfully 😂
Out of curiosity, is there anything inherently wrong with flushable wipes in general or is it just the fact that these are individually wrapped and have a stupid name?? I personally find using dry paper to clean myself ineffective and kinda gross (no offense) so I’ve always opted for flushable wipes when possible but would never buy these individually wrapped ones or anything. If anything, I put a couple of my wipes from home in a baggy that stays in my purse if I really don’t want to have use toilet paper in public. I’d have a bidet in a second if I could but unfortunately I still live with family and the men in the house are of the belief that bidets would take their backend virginity or something, so I guess I’ll have to wait on that until I’m on my own.
@ They actually are known to clog pipes and can cause serious plumbing issues. From my understanding they don’t break down like TP does and it can cause problems in pipes and also if you have a septic tank. Plumbers don’t recommend using them because of those reasons.
@ wow thanks for the reply. Guess I should push for that bidet then. lol I just don’t understand how they’re so much worse. The wipes I use at least literally feel like wet toilet paper and break apart with very little effort. I wonder what exactly makes them not break down the same way as toilet paper.
It's the forced "unintentional" ASMR with the excessive tapping that drives me bananas....
The tapping and the bending the plastic packaging back and forth so it crinkles makes me wanna transform into a werewolf
The excessive tapping needs to go bye bye
When I see some pale-ass beige-y or gray sleeve pulled down almost covering their hand full of overly manicured nails, I start cringing... Immediately. Add the tappy tappy and crinkle and it literally makes my skin crawl.
When she tapped on the $3 cheeseburger wrapper I was gone 😂. It’s just so absurd at this point.
Agree 100%! All the crinkling and tapping and squeezing and having their microphones turned up so it picks up all of that irritating noise even more... I can't scroll away fast enough! Why are we doing this????????? Side note, I think the Woobles crochet kits are cute but I SWEAR I thumb those UA-cam ads down SO FAST. That squishy crinkly sound makes me want to lose it. Certainly doesn't make me want to buy their product so why is everyone doing this?
As someone with a financial planning degree I see so many bad spending habits in overconsumption. “It’s their money” of course, doesn’t mean I can’t notice poor decisions, sacrificing long term growth for fancy behind wipes and purses.
I rather save my money for a early retirement. 🤦♀️
@@stitchinggirlaye! Smart girl!!
I used to struggle with impulse spending so much. I'm not perfect but I do way better now. Hubby is trying but still spends too much then stresses about money so he spends more
@@dismurrart6648 how did you get better? genuinely asking, I am always like "I want to treat myself" but I do not know when is it is irresponsible
@itseIv part of it was realizing that having less of something made me like it more. Have you ever had some self care thing become a chore? It's because you did it all the time and so it felt less luxe.
I was eating so much candy for example that it stopped tasting as good and it wasn't even the treat I actually like. I want cake. So instead I made a cake once a week and cut it into "a slice I would enjoy eating " sized pieces and put them in individual containers. I gave the rest to friends or coworkers if i felt safe to. Then I let myself have a piece every day.
I didn't stop for the morning donut or the 2 afternoon king sized candy bars because who needs lesser treats when the thing you love is waiting for you.
At the same time, I worked on my emotions with my therapist and added in a gym class so I felt human connection.
Eventually I wanted less and less of it so now it really is just a treat but if I was still eating a piece a day it genuinely would be fine because I wasn't eating in excess anymore.
Perfection is the enemy of progress
Re the childhood thing that leads to overconsumption is true. My husband was never told he could not have anything as a child. Whatever he wanted, he got and its followed him into adulthood. In terms of gaming consoles, games, trainers (sneakers, im from the UK)....he has to have it. Whereas my childhood was different, I got toys and things but not all of the time and was encouraged to save my pocket money for things i really wanted if it wasnt near my birthday or xmas. I personally hate having a lot of stuff around, this year i have worked towards being minimal, having a capsule wardrobe and using what i have. Xx
Not the girl in the pink headband ADMITTING TO COMMITTING A FEDERAL CRIME!
IKR like how does she openly admit that like its just some silly rhing
I wonder if her sister said yes cuz 😕😕😕
I think you are correct when you say that a lot of people who over consume have a touch of childhood issues in the closet. They likely grew up with little or felt shame for not having the “cool expensive stuff” that their friends maybe had. I never thought about it that way but you hit the nail on the head.
True my mom grew up Buddhist and with a strict vegan diet where my gran locked the cabinets. My mom was never overweight my gran was an almond mom.
My mom over compensated and I was a chunky middle schooler. Thank god our HS had a free gym.
My problem with overconsumption of beauty products and clothes came from my parents not letting me having the trendy stuff I wanted as a kid cause they thought it was stupid to spend so much money on brands when you can get a lot more for less. I got bullied at school for this and when I got adult money I went crazy.
However, I’m working very hard on it since I’ve discovered the reason why I’m like this.
I did too, but come on, this is insane
Or trauma of not having enough attention, or @buse.
The tapping/attempted ASMR sound effects put me into an irrational rage Every. Single. Time. 😂😂🤯🤬
Have you seen the Casemate bag one with the lady who is practically beating the bag. It's like a blend of the asmr and that lady who does the school teacher videos where she yanks her purse around. It's like a really really bad parody. That on sends me over the edge.
Same! Can not handle it. I immediately block the person.
I hate them with a raging passion
ME TOOOOOOOO OH I HATE IT SO MUCH!!!! Makes me sick!
I feel so vindicated, it makes me irrationally angry with those fuck ass nails
"who wants to drink out of a stanley tumbler and under your nose is a cheeseburger" EXACTLY.
I started throwing things away because the clutter was causing me anxiety and depression. I never had a problem like this, but I held onto stupid things for sentimental reasons that really didn't exist. The second I started minimizing my life and the things around me, I felt so much better. I felt like things were clean, more calm, and it helped my mental health tremendously.
I agree. Earlier this year I started decluttering a lot of makeup and skin care items. The amount of expired things that I had to throw away made me so mad at myself.
Just did the same thing. Threw away crap I’ve been hauling around w me since 1984.
Such great advice! And taking social media breaks as well!
Absolutely. I'm going through items, too. It does help.
it is important to be mindful about how we are disposing items as well!
In defense of the “shared toothbrush” person, it’s possible they meant they share the electric toothbrush BASE with their husband, but they each have their own replaceable/interchangeable toothbrush head. At least I hope that’s what they meant…
That is what I was hoping as well. My ex and I had a power toothbrush but we had our own brush heads that we used.
I personally just think it was rage bait
It was just rage bait so her video would go viral
That's what I assumed, but I did get a good laugh out of her reaction 😂
I hope so
I totally agree about the nostalgia part of overconsumption. Trying to "heal" my inner child led me to become over $40k in debt. Please regularly check in with yourself and ask yourself why, why do you need this or more importantly, can I live without this? It's also important to be kind to yourself and show yourself grace. Thank you so much for your well researched vids, love them so much 💙
wtf did you buy? genuinely curious.
I go to therapy to heal my inner child. It's not cheap either, but it's been such a great help! And the better I feel, the less often I need to have a session, so it actually tapers off.
I got over that by like killing my inner child instead of listening to that spoiled fucking brat who had absolutely horrible taste in everything and decided to like fully embrace the passage of time and how I am so thankful that I am not that person anymore like thank god I am not that girl anymore
Pretty much the only thing you were right about was Taylor Swift being a good pop star
as a chronic migraineure and fragrance sensitive person, i could not go near some of these people’s bathrooms! also, maybe we should start shaking for how they’re environmental menaces for all the mini packages. the individually wrapped makeup wipes, mini tic tacs, tiny everything, it’s so much unnecessary single use plastic!
“Are we hearing voices? Are we treating our Stanleys as if they’re a real person?” As someone with schizophrenia, I busted out laughing!!
😂
You've got a great sense of humor ❤
@@jaclynns.jungle i appreciate that! it’s all we can do sometimes, is finding the humor in what we live with 💚 hope you’re having a great day!
I feel like the "that girl" trend has crossed a line in the same vein as "nice guys". If you have to tell us you're "that girl" or a "nice guy" you're not "that girl" or a "nice guy".
Very true, I love this take
As far as I'm concerned, "pick me girl" and "that girl" are the same girl.
I didn't realize "that girl" was a thing people WANTED to be. It sounds to me like an insult lol, or at the very least like something negative. "That girl" is the one other people whisper and giggle about because she's the only person who thinks she's any kind of cool.
My mom always told me "if you have to convince people of the person you are, you're really just TRYING to convince your damn self."
i don’t think those things are really comparable lmao “nice guys” are violent misogynists
Aside from the overconsumption, WHY ARE PEOPLE FEEDING THEIR KIDS SO MUCH JUNK?!???
This is what i was thinking
100%
I saw on Twitter a while back a video of Cardi bs daughter lunch for school. She’s like 6? Or 7? She had all the sugary drinks, sugary cheap snacks and junk food that could fill a large lunchbox. If I remember correctly Twitter went wild. She’s got how much $ and her child isn’t eating organic, healthy foods? But she has her child carry a Birkin from Hermes? The priorities are all out of wack…
If you see what she packs in her stanley, wait until you find out what she packs for lunches everyday, sugar and chips galore
America
IKR ?!?!
I’m showing my age here, but we used to take a sandwich, a piece or two of fruit, and maybe a Little Debbie snack in our lunchbox, and buy milk at school… 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Before overconsumption TikTok there was overconsumption UA-cam. I used to love watching people’s insane makeup collection videos back in the late 2000s/early 2010s and get so jealous. It’s all a cycle lol
This is one of the best comments I've seen on these videos. You're absolutely right, too! Even before UA-cam, there are always trends, whether right or wrong, cool or lame, nothing has changed. It's always been like this. The only difference now is that people want to be the next viral sensation, so they post videos about everything, and put it out for the world. Honestly, it's a never ending cycle and even this video, along with others like it, are all getting attention, views and pay, for slamming those people. Without those people and the trends, these videos would cease to exist then, wouldn't they? It's just ridiculous. 😂
mother is feeding us today w a ONE HOURRRR video
😂
It IS the spooky season.
I am fed and full thank u mother!!!!
These videos are not people showing their actual day to day but rather "actors" showing props for financial gain and/or clout.
Yup!!❤
Yes but regular people watch them and get "influenced" into debt!
@@moustik31 I think most adults realize this is for content purposes only. Even if teenagers watched this most couldn’t afford doing this type of over consumption.
You should watch Hannah Alonzo! She's talked about that (regarding the trad wives and probably other things)
Bingo
All that plastic.. What gets me is they enjoy refilling, but won’t refill the small things like the mini tic tack containers
And then throwing all the plastic and cans in the trash.....
Literally all that plastic for 2 tic takcs 💀
I bought a ton of the “purse restock” items when I got my first bag 2-3 years ago and I don’t even think I’ve ever even used all of the stuff that I got. The fact that some people restock on that stuff WEEKLY absolutely baffles me
What I was thinking. Replacing things during supermarket shops is one thing, but having to regularly restock anything in your house like they do in these videos is strange
If i ever went to someone who stocks their bathroom I would probably take it all tbh, I’d probably never be invited back but it would be worth it
🤣🤣
They wouldn't even notice if you did...
you mean financially worth it? probably 😂
Lmfao real
Gross.
Stealing is so cool /s
12:27 hand sanitizer as a status symbol just sent me into a spiral because i remembered how people used to fight for sanitizer in 2020
Probably why the wipe your tush wipes are so popular in these videos too 😂
Every time I see those exorbitant touchland sanitizers I smdh
I remember in the 2010s when hand sanitizer from bath and body was the thing
We still have containers full of them because everyone would buy us some and our parents bought some. 😭
It's funny how "under-consumption" is a trend to some people whereas to many people that is a lifestyle that isn't a choice at all. That's just how they have to live to survive, using what they have and very often not being able to buy what they want, or even need. I'm glad that this is something that is being discussed and considered though. Great video, thank you!
Yeah, the cosplaying being poor as if it's a lifestyle choice 🤮
It's an interesting case study in marketing. If that's pushed as something to be desired or attainable then it's luxurious
It's a fucking insult to people who actually have to watch how much they spend, but if making it "trendy" is an effective way to encourage modest consumption, then by all means they should keep doing it.
@@courtykatI like it, because it helps me feel normal- and to be fair, in this economy it is normal. The under-consumption creators I've seen typically share budget and recycling hacks, which I find useful.
I really have an issue with overbuying things & this video really inspired me. I’m glad you made it!
Since I saw the Liquid IV in several videos - just want to point out that unless you are doing strenuous exercise, sweating a lot, in the heat, etc. an average person does NOT need to be consuming electrolyte beverages in this way, and certainly not just to sit on the couch and watch a movie. I think people have gotten the impression through marketing that electrolytes are like "healthier water" or just taste good, but that is not the case - they're designed for athletes or to replenish nutrients AND SALT from excessive sweating. And even in those cases, having more than one serving per day can be dangerous bc it can throw off your electrolyte balance which can cause serious health complications - so enjoy them if you want, but please do your research about whether it's right for you before consuming them, instead of just going based off the ads!
Very much this! I have POTS, so my doctor has recommended I consume a much higher amount of sodium and water than what the average person needs. I keep Liquid IV in my purse the way grandmas always keep Werther's caramels in theirs lol. But most people do not need to be drinking electrolyte beverages all the time. I don't view them as objectively "healthy" or "unhealthy," and more like an OTC pain reliever or cold medicine. For example, cold medicine might be make you feel better when you're sick, but it's not a multivitamin you want to take every day "just because."
@@Sweet_Dee I have POTS too so I do use Liquid IV also
Preach! Your little kid going to dance class doesn’t need a Liquid IV
@@Sweet_Dee that's a really good way to think of it! and i do like drinking liquid iv/other electrolyte bevs - i have them for after my harder/sweatier workouts where i know i need to replenish and it really does help me recharge. but i don't need it on days where i'm just chillin at home watching youtube lol
When I was anaemic and almost bedridden, I had to go to hospital for an iron infusion but my condition was so bad they gave me electrolytes before they could treat me.
So I understand how electrolytes work now. If people drink them for no reason they can’t get rid of the stubborn visceral fat that accumulates in their body.
Just a note on the shared toothbrush: being an electric one, I think she means they share it because you can just change the tip and not have two handle/motor parts. I had a friend from childhood who did that and her whole 4-person family shared the motor. If this is not the case, well, then I subscribe to everything you said hahaha
It's still gross in my opinion but I understand families who have to make ends meet or save money.
@@ipuke_glitter yeah, especially considering these toothbrushes are like $60, the cheapest electric toothbrush at my Walmart is like $39.99 (not counting the kid ones or knockoff ones that dont have changable heads) ive seen them be up to like $120 and stuff too
My husband and I each have our own electric toothbrush, but if you’re swapping heads and only sharing the motor it’s sanitary. It’s not like the motors touches your mouth.
My husband and I share the motor but have different brushes. Not because we have to save money but because we don't deepthroat the handle and we clean it when we're done.
I do this with my partner. The motor doesn't touch your mouth! AND, you could go the extra step to wipe it down if you're THAT o.c.d.
My two best friends come to visit every year from Mexico. I always ask them not to bring any toiletries to have an easy go through TSA but also my opportunity to gift them with goodies that they start using right away. We even give each other pajamas. They do the same for me as well. I get them things on clearance, sales. But they come and take them I don’t accumulate stuff. And I definitely ONLY do this for them. The rest of my guests get toilet paper, hand soap and clean towels. This overconsumption is getting ridiculous. I love your content so much.
Lived in Mexico for 7 years and 100% Mexico is like a fancy toiletries wasteland. 😂 Also caught me so off guard that TP is scented lmao.
But I get you l, when my 3 SILs visit I get excited to pamper them and love to do mini kits of korean skincare, and the like.
Yeahhh I’m not from America and I was just wondering - is this a cultural thing? What kind of “guests” are they hosting any way? If I were to stay at somebody else’s place, I might “expect” them to have basic shampoo and body wash, but I would totally be bringing my own skincare, makeup, even hair conditioner if I’m not sure if they personally use it. I don’t think anyone would expect to have all toiletries provided to them just because someone lends you a room. Plus, most people have very specific brands/products they are used to, so it’s just more cost effective and convenient for you to bring them yourself…? Is that abnormal in America…?
@@SilverlinedViolano this is not a part of our culture and If it becomes normal we’re screwed. Like most other countries when you go somewhere you are expected to bring what you need for yourself 😂😂 what’s in this video is so exaggerated and overly extreme. I must say though, I feel like Americans are the only people participating in this bullshit 😂😂 our overconsumption is definitely getting out of hand. That bathroom restock is NOT normal tho
I decided years ago to eat through my food stores and use up products before I buy more.
This was brought on by moving and realizing how much crap I’d collected after living in the same place for 9 years.
It took me a year to get through the food (you know those cans that are perfectly good but you didn’t want to eat) and 3 years to get through bathroom products. And every time I get close to finishing a friend moved and I get what they don’t want to move with and then I have more to work through.
I don’t buy clothes until what I have can’t be mended any more. Literally spend like $200 a year on clothes.
It’s saved me so much and I’m not debt free and living below my means. It’s amazing and I’m consuming less.
I’m similar to you. I live in Australia and food is sooooo expensive here so I pretty much only buy products on sale and only when I run out.
The rage I have developed for ASMR and nail tapping
yeah, I never understood how people can like ASMR, it just annoys me so much, insta scroll on anything especially if they whisper
Same and I thought everyone liked it!
Actively waiting for it to be off-trend 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@renataughsome “asmr” is nice and helps with anxiety but all these tiktok videos are literally just advertisements. They are all trying to sell you shit.
IM SO OVER ALL THE TAPPING LIKE I SEE IT ON THE SCREEN! You don’t have to point it out even more!
When I was a kid I had to stay at a domestic violence shelter and you go there with nothing but the clothes on your back (sort of an emergency situation if you get me) so they provide toiletries and some other basic items. Just an idea for people that want to horde stuff. Maybe donate to places like that.
I am so sorry for that, hope things are different now
Most of the time they don't accept a once used or opened item. At least in The Netherlands they are verrrry strict. It's sad because 90% of the products can be reused
@@IrisvanIersel tbh i don't think most of the products in these vids will ever be opened
@@IrisvanIersel hopefully the algorthm does't take down this coment, but it's better like that, imagine what "people" could do to an opened product without you noticing, especially when it comes to situations like this where many "animals" are looking for revenge
Whenever we would travel, we would snag all the hotel bathroom products and donate them to our homeless shelter when we returned. I mentioned it in class once and my teacher started doing it also.
the sparkle in your eye makeup is magicallllll
I thought the same thing. Definitely on point!!
I just found you and this video spoke to me…. You are so lovely- you put yourself in people’s shoes and also speak on how it is fun to watch some of these. I recently had a pretty big surgery the week before my 40th and being at home…. I started to order things. I wanted to go back to work to avoid my emotions of a hysterectomy… long story short, I have a great job and my own home… but, I quickly realized I was buying cute things and beauty products way too much to fill a void… you helped me kinda see maybe some reasons why! Thank you! Subscribed and will watch more 😊
100% the Stanley snack cups are rage bait, especially the one with all the chips and candy for the kid.
Also a full Stanley is already heavy to carry so attaching all those dumb things is ridiculous especially for kids too
My question is in our economy right now the bread and peanut butter is EXPENSIVE and gasoline don’t even get me started HOW are these people affording this type of products at this much quantity?!?! Is it because tik tok pays them????
Stuffs prob so expensive because they gotta pay these ppl now 😭
Yes, once you get to a certain amount of followers, you get sent stuff for free. You can also request products from companies and they will send them to you for free as long as you make a video promoting it. Then you get a cut of the profit from sales. They can afford to have all this stuff because they don’t pay for it. So they get all the stuff for free + profit, while we get all the stuff and debt. They get richer through every sale while the consumer is still living pay-check to pay-check.
It’s credit card debt most likely. They’re not budgeting, they’re just putting it on cards that they don’t have the money to pay. If you watch Caleb hammer, you see how the average American spends more than they have on BS.
So yeah, it’s credit card debt unless these people are getting paid to overconsume/are sent the product for free. It’s certainly encouraging the viewers to go into credit card debt for the products they’re influenced to buy.
While yes they do get promo ect, they still have to pay taxes on everything they receive. Furthermore, a huge amount of influences are in terrible debt
@greasi yeah, the bit about them being in debt needs to be shouted from the rooftops. Sure, pr and money from sponsorships etc help, but a LOT of these people are deep in the throes of a spending problem and probably hiding some dire financial straits with all these purchases.
One thing that has been immensely freeing for me? I am on palliative care and finally got sick enough I had to step away from my clinical career, so I got rid of nearly everything and bought an RV. I have to really think about what I want, how beneficial it is, longevity, and where it will live. I’ve always been one to save money up for a purchase and choose a high quality item that will last me longer, possibly serve more than one purpose, not fall into gimmicks, which has definitely reduced consumerism and eco footprint. Also, buying quality and keeping that item for longevity saves money in the long run, is usually elevates above trends, and sometimes becomes a generational item! I have a tiny 5x5, temp controlled storage unit for books, storage tubs where we can swap out seasonal clothing, micro holiday decor, document safe, my specialty cooking things I may need because I still like cooking when I’m well enough, tools, that stuff. I live light and experience as much as I can!
Sending hugs your way. I know it isn't easy. I hope that you get to enjoy EVERYTHING you want in life. ❤
something that has really helped me has been taking inventory of everything i have (clothes, makeup, decor etc) and then making a list of the things i want/don’t have. if it’s been on my list for a while and i still want it i can purchase it.
Good idea!
I do the same!!
I actually gasped when I saw all of those shampoos and body washes in the shower 😭😭😭 THEYRE GONNA EXPIRE BEFORE YOU CAN USE HALF OF THEM WHAT ARE YOU DOING
Yessss!!!!! I thought that too!!!
We can just sit back and snicker six months down the road when they're washing their hair with a bunch of watery broken down chemicals.
Most of these ladies suffer with depression and won't shower until they need to make a video of how they stay clean.. wait they don't shower that day either. Lolz.
Its actually insane
Shampoo expires?
“restocking my guest bathroom” do you run a hotel out of your guest bathroom???
yeah how many guests do they host? and they have to be making good money because all those tiny stuff are EXPENSIVE. makes my personal bathroom look like barebones lol
Right? I have guests maybe 1-2x a year? If that?
And why is every guest showing up without any of their own products? Is this a common problem? Make it make sense!!
I scrolled way too long to find this comment!! Who tf hosts that many guests, and guests who don’t bring their own makeup or products? Haha
@@ginagrubb2939 that’s what I’m saying!! I bought mini bottles from target like 3 years ago and just refill them when I go places. I thought that was the norm 😭
The Stanley ones with food piss me off because if we’re being real the only reason they get away with putting all that shit in their cup is because based on their aesthetic they’re assumed to be skinny. Imagine if a bigger person “packed” their Stanley with four cookies, a slice of cake, and an entire candy bar. The comments would look very different.
Yes ! Exactly my thoughts when i see junk food / snacks related videos most of the time on the public space / social médias 😢
The guest bathroom thing…who goes to someone’s house as an overnight guest and doesn’t pack their own toiletries??? I forget stuff once in a while but not the whole damn bag. This is crazy
Period!
Also, why don’t they just have full size bottles for them to use? I can understand mini toothpastes and deodorants, but other than that why can’t you put a regular shampoo, conditioner, and mouth wash in there with some paper cups?
Guest bathroom more stocked than their own lol
I have sensitive skin, therefore i'm taking and using my own cosmetics. I might use toothpaste and micellar water if I forget my own. So much plastic it makes me angry
Exactly!
my biggest underconsumption flex is never owning a Stanley
same, literally any cup will do😭
Same 😭 never saw the hype even when I tried
Never had one either. And had no idea until this video that people were starting to accessorise them 😮
I remember when Hyrdo Flask was the popular bottle to have. I got a knock off on Amazon called hydro cell and have been using it since. Works great and it was like 20$
They are to expensive 😭
My son is at daycare. This is the first day I've had alone in my first and new apartment. I'm going to lay in my bed. I just took a shower and I'm going to eat snacks. Living my best fn life.
Yassss
You go girl!!!! You are winning today! Enjoy your time in your nest..
enjoyyyyy!! 🎉🎉🎉
Congrats on your first and new apartment!! 🖤 this sounds bliss!
Sounds great! You deserve it!
This video was incredible. I think the most impactful video of yours that I've viewed and otherwise. So honest and hardhitting. You have prompted me to completely rethink my spending and my plans to purge. You are a Rockstar! Thank you.❤
I never thought I would live to see the day of there now being aftermarket parts for Stanley cups like they are cars.
Agreed it certainly took me by surprise. When hydro flasks were big it was max bracelets and hella sticker. Ya know, casual. All of this random trash is so over the top.
Stuff like replacement caps and straws make a lot of sense since then if the original breaks, you can get a new one for cheap, or in the case of straws just have some extras. idk why someone would need to put their food on their cup though. Surely it is more annoying than putting the cup to the side.
Lucky us for getting to live this moment 😂
My hot take is that if you’re buying all these themed accessories and whatnot for a Stanley or whatever - start collecting dolls. What you want is to collect something and dress it up. Scratch that itch and then it won’t pop up everywhere else
You want to play pretend and that’s okay but playing pretend in real life if wasteful, impractical, and expensive. Play with dolls or something, it’s fine
@@Erin-xq3jb say that to the ppl who spend hundreds of thousands on vintage dolls/accessories for their dolls &other crazy hobbies.
@@Shushu-sp5ke well I think anyone can do things in excess, and it’s not inherently wrong or bad. And collecting is over consumption to a degree, but usually it’s only that item. A psychological issue with this is that we are now treating everyday items as collectible, so it means that people will come up with every random thing to claim you “need” for it. AND we lose the reason why those things are made anyway (it’s much easier to make 20 shades of water bottles that people “HAVE to have” than create something that is meant to be collected and therefore only has, say 5 versions released each year). People who collect dolls are way more intentional in their collection. So while yeah overconsumption is a problem, I think the psychology behind it and how it continues to come up with new ways to shift our mentality to see life through capitalism is really important to remember here.
@20:00 if they're packing Wipe That Tush wipes in their Stanley tumbler, does that mean they're bringing their Stanley into the bathroom with them? 🤮
Oh that’s nasty!
i used to work at starbucks and can confirm someone brought their stanley with them into the bathroom 😫
Do yall leave your drinks unattended in public spaces?
@@sayitaintso417 no we leave them in the car lol or anywhere but the bathroom tbh
How much deodorant in that bathroom. I bet they take the video and then turn everything to Target.
The fact that a normal lifestyle is considered “underconsumption” is the most dystopic thing.
I'm so glad you talk through the videos themselves because those noises trigger my misophonia horribly.
It drives me insane! I couldn't figure out why. Didn't know there was a name for it.
@@lysirae it's a relatively new term, if you happen to be neurodivergent there's a good chance you also might have it, I'd advice you to look it up
I can't stand all those extra sounds. Makes my body crawl lolz
DR PFP SPOTTED‼️‼️
Same, i cant stand them
babe wake up, kiki posted
I’VE BEEN WAITING
STOPPP I clicked on this video thinking about this exact meme 💀🤣
I literaly just woke up from a nap lol
I’m going back to bed
And here I thought the Stanley craze was over 😂😂
I don't have THAT app on my phone and have only seen THAT type of video on your channel. I feel blessed to avoid the craziness.
I’ve had TikTok for a long time. Never had these videos. Only had homesteading stuff, animal videos and recipes. It really is what you loook for. I uninstalled it anyway because doom scrolling is bad even when it’s not inherently toxic content. But yeah I never got this brain rot shit
I have the App but only watch when i Google something and there is a tiltok Video, then i am gonna watch it. But otherwise i am not using this app
Your reactions to this are so funny! But so real! Just watched the Netflix documentary about overconsumption and it just makes me mad. I used to play outside as a kid with no shoes and rocks in my pocket… now kids Christmas lists are more than my salary and we’re all doom scrolling to look for the next new thing 😢 great video.. really makes it all look so silly and sad!
The only appropriate reason to have a guest bathroom like that is being a foster home
Or if you're in a 90s sitcom and you're renting your parents' house as a B&B while they're on vacation.
Idiocracy was not just a movie but a real look into our future.
My friend and I love watching your videos and laughing with you at the absurdity of all the shit happening online.
Great movie too! :}
The mini version of tic-tacs baffle me...there's like 4 pellets in there! The original size is already small enough to fit their lil Stanley backpack pouch
Think of all the plastic going in the landfills.
But then they can't fit their summer Friday lip balm and touchland hand sanitizer 😢😢😢 a real tragedeigh
literally the motivation behind the guest bathroom restock is to flaunt wealth like “not only can i buy these expensive brands. i can buy them with the purpose that I don’t use them”
i’m so glad hannah alonzo recommended your channel, i’ve binged all your videos
You’re an Anti-MLM viewer too! Hannah Alonzo is soo good I love her deep dives.
these two are the creators I watch the most nowadays
She is so good! I love both of these ladies!
Love both of them
SAME!! ❤
the girl saying she got a credit card under her sisters name to get a purse... sister you could not waterboard that out of me...
I totally agree that there can be a backstory. My dad grew up in rather poor family, with lots of children, completely different times. They didn’t have fancy stuff, had food on their table but nothing special.
Now my dad is over-consuming food. When he shops he tends to buy way more than we can eat. We had so many discussions about it but there is something in him that just makes him buying more and more just to keep the fridge completely full.
I feel that older generation had to be smarter with money and didn’t allow kids much and now those kids are grown ups with money and they want to finally be in a power of getting whatever they want.
My grandma is the same as your dad. She has food that expired in 2003 but doesnt see an issue with it. She even tries to serve us some
This is exactly what I was going to comment! I feel like the over consumption comes from a scarcity mindset. I used to see this on tv years ago where people would buy things in bulk and would pretty much have stores in their garage. Like the amount of things they bought would be enough to last them in an apocalypse, and they would just restock, so they never really consumed everything. I find it just so crazy. They get a false sense of security from it
My mom is a hoarder, growing up in a similar situation. I think it’s a mental thing that compensates for their childhood. I’m still trying to understand her and I’m sure it’s not an easy thing to deal with.
@@ae7645 I agree. I see some stuff like that with me - we always had money but my parents knew the value of dollar. I dreamt about all the toys but they were rather expensive in Poland. Now I’m a grown up with great job and I buy lots of Lego sets. Do I need it? No. Do I feel like I’m fulfilling those dreams I used to have? Hell yeah.
…that explains my parents so much. my mom grew up in a family of 10, struggling to feed them all and now she buys way too much, and my dad grew up in a family of 7 with the same issue but he has problems throwing expired things away now
I used to buy so much body and skin care and makeup products that my husband sat me down and told me that I’m spending so much money on all crap. I didn’t believe him until he showed me the bank statements. When I saw the amount of money i was spending, it was a major reality kick in the face. In 3 months, I spent almost 5K on just skin care and makeup, it made me sick. It’s been almost 3 years since that conversation my husband had with me and I’m still going through all the stuff I bought. Watching these kind of videos makes me really sad and thankful that I’m no longer that person.
Had a similar situation! Im just glad we have people who care and can be honest with us!! I definitely am better than last year and currently trying to get rid of the junk i bought 😊😅
@@globalhunnis3339 yes same here!
Oh I thought the purse tower was going to be a tower FOR your purses! Not a tower of supplies to pack your purse 😂😂😂
Well now I'm disappointed lol
Me too 😂 I was in for a rude awakening
Same!!
Same here
What’s extra frustrating about the Stanley target fights, is that I bet a majority of these people who are grabbing multiple bottles are going straight home to list them on EBay for hundreds of dollars
I was hooked to these kind of videos during lock down and trust me it is so scary. I never realized but i was buying stuff i never needed just for that aesthetic look. I am glad that i worked on it. Thank you for bringing this topic.
Nice to know i wasn’t the only one🥲
Okay. I know I will be ridiculed for this, but I own a 40 Stanley cup that I use for water. The only accessories I own, and really use is a straw cover, and yes, the tray that fits on top. I fill one side with sunflower seeds, and leave the other side empty so I can put my shells in them. I guess I’m supposed to be embarrassed about this, but it is so handy for when I relax and watch tv, no 2 bowls to deal with, and the smell of sunflower seeds smell yummy as I sip my water. 😊. But yeah, hamburgers, fries, etc. is silly. The other accessories are eye-rollers for sure. I enjoyed your content! 😊❤
That sounds more like what those trays are meant for not the craziness like what that lady did for her little kid filling it up with junk
Honestly, I commend you for this comment. Very brave and bold, to actually post this comment. No sarcasm included, I'm impressed and think you have some serious balls. If you like your cup and enjoy using it, who cares what anyone else says or thinks? In all reality, overconsumption is a problem, but so is being judgemental about everyone and everything. Especially when at the end of the day, videos like this are being made and providing income for someone using the content from the people that are supposedly a problem. Anyway, cheers! ❤
@jennifertempest397. Thanks sweetie! I appreciate your kindness and understanding.☺️. I really thought I might get some hate.😅
36:52 My guest shower has one large bottle of shampoo, conditioner, and body soap. There are also a couple towels and extra toilet paper rolls under the sink. That’s it. You’re welcome. lol 😂
Exactly! Most people have their own personal preferences of what toiletries works for them. Those restocking videos are only for the influencers aesthetic and not their guests.
Your guests are lucky just for getting their own shower. My guests have to use the same bathroom and shower as me lol.
Providing a bulk toiletry is wonderful!
That’s more than enough, I would love that 🙏🏻
I don’t even have a guest shower lol. We have one bathroom
How HEAVY must those Stanley’s be to carry around with all the crap on it?! I hate carrying mine with just a drink in it. And god forbid it tips over!!!
To your point of spending money on experiences rather than things, there's a saying I've heard before and I feel it applies here: "Look at all the things you own, and all you've got is a list. Look at all the things you've done and you've got a story."
Honestly, that’s beautiful 🖤.
I’m gonna try and remember that for future reference. Thank you for bringing that beautiful quote into my life!😊🖤
Dam I’m writing that down. Thanks stranger. ❤
I think it's crazy how much space all those products take up in those hoarders' places. You're paying rent for products to live there, not for yourself
As an ADHD dopamine seeker, I love shopping so much. I definitely have an unhealthy spending problem. My husband sat with me recently and had me read from my bank account so he could total it up, and gave me the amount I'd spent in the last two weeks, I was horrified. It adds up, one thing here, two things there, oh this is on sale, I love this color, boom an entire paycheck is gone. You lose track of it and it slips away from your control. Maybe you're getting the dopamine from buying, or maybe it's for the validation from others. It doesn't matter, it's a mental health issue that needs addressing that way, you can't just talk your way out of it. "I'll do better" is a great start but it's going to take more. I'm on that journey right now.
Proud of you for being honest with yourself! You got this!
I’m proud of you
Amen! ❤ good luck babe! This resonated a lot with me. The doom scrolling, out of boredom or dopamine. We need to work on being Grateful for what we already have!
Good for you!! I've been learning for years. I budget clothing and makeup for myself so I can buy a few things.
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They always have to have their sleeves pulled down over their hands and TAP on everything before they add it! 😂
As someone who has short arms so sleeves always cover my hands it drives me nuts when people force their sleeves over their hands like this.. its not practical and it's annoying 😅
The sleeve thing is so obnoxious. They're trying so hard to be cute.
I HATE the tapping. I hate ASMR stuff and noises to be fair tho
@@cinnamonsparrowdesignssame!!! It makes me irrationally angry.
@@cinnamonsparrowdesignssame asmr increases my heart rate nobody understands me
"Dopamine fades fast". SO true! I will remember this next time I want to buy another perfume I don't need lol.
I’m on a no buy lol I have to use what I have but I like smelling different every day lol
@iwiwd624 Consider getting three of your top faves and then alternating! I've been doing that, and I'm just now getting down to one bottle. Lol
I just came across your channel through your TJMaxx video and oh my gosh you’re my new favorite UA-camr. You’ve been my entertainment while I’m sewing Christmas gifts. Thank you for being so entertaining!
My breaking point in overconsumption this year, has been what I’ve witnessed in the reader community. First they did “house purses” because they couldn’t be bothered to carry their reading “essentials” from one side of the house to the other. So a whole other purse with snacks, lip balm, kindle, hand sanitizer, everything that could be in your purse. But just one for strictly your house.
THEN recently they started ordering mp3 players and downloading the kindle app and coining them as their “pocket kindles”….. YOUR PHONE IS A POCKET KINDLE 😂😂
Omg. I'm a writer and I rolled my eyes.
Why does anyone need lip balm and hand sanitizer for reading? I love to read, but i'm too poor for bookstore books, i read kindle freebies and 0.99c books, or i am going to the library. I just need a book and maybe a coffee.
I've been part of the BookBlogging (focus on blogging!) community from 2011 to 2016. And I had quite a huge following in my country. Considering it was an absolute niche topic/community.
I recently learnt about BookTok and all I can say is: I am so HAPPY that I left the online book community when I did. BookTok is crazy and peak overconsumption and supporting fast-food-books, which lack quality and only tick certain trope-boxes to please the BookTok community. It's wild.
I heard Stanley's hitting the ground in that Target video... if you drop your Stanley hard enough, you'll lose the vacuum seal that keeps your drinks hot/cold. Grown-ups acting like children at a birthday party when the piñata's busted open, is INSANE!
Lolol the Bath and Body thing - it’s a slippery slope! They have so many dang deals all the flippin’ time so you always feel like you’re scoring big but then you end up with more lotions, creams, sprays, and body washes than you could ever use! Thankfully I’ve recognized my hoarding/stocking (lol) and have stopped spending. I’ve also shared my scores as gifts to friends and families and donating to my school’s (I’m a teacher) staff bathrooms and nurse to give to girls that may need it at home.
23:12 The noise that came out of my body when the stiff, stale McDonalds "sandwich" landed with a thud.