Staind - Here And Now (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2023
  • Staind's "Here And Now" comes from their album, 'Confessions Of The Fallen,' out now.
    Buy/stream "Here And Now" at staind.lnk.to/HereAndNow
    Listen to the album now at staind.lnk.to/COTF
    Directed by Brad Golowin
    Social links:
    IG: / staindoffic
    Twitter: / staind
    Facebook: / staind
    Lyrics:
    You always said that I’m better when I’m not trapped in my head
    And you tried to explain, but forgiveness feels much better than the pain
    Here and now
    After everything we thought we knew
    Broken lies and shattered truths
    Lost and found
    Every memory that’s bleeding through
    They all just seem to lead me back to you
    I can finally see
    The mistakes I made are glaring back at me
    For all I’ve done, for all I’ve lost
    The in the moment wasn’t worth the cost
    Here and now
    After everything we thought we knew
    Broken lies and shattered truths
    Lost and found
    Every memory that’s bleeding through
    They all just seem to lead me back to you
    Lead me back to you
    Here and now
    After everything we thought we knew
    Broken lies and shattered truths
    Lost and found
    Every memory that’s bleeding through
    They all just seem to lead me back to
    Here and now
    After everything we thought we knew
    Broken lies and shattered truths
    Lost and found
    Every memory that’s bleeding through
    They all just seem to lead me back
    They all just seem to lead me back
    They all just seem to lead me back to you
    #HereAndNow #Staind #Rock
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  • @johnlucky5700
    @johnlucky5700 8 місяців тому +1656

    This song hits hard when you grew up listening to staind. From happy child to sad adult. Such a good song!

    • @deathfromabove26
      @deathfromabove26 8 місяців тому +63

      Sad child to a sad an alone adult due to my choices

    • @BEEFSERPENT
      @BEEFSERPENT 8 місяців тому +35

      More like more mature and self aware adult

    • @deathfromabove26
      @deathfromabove26 8 місяців тому +2

      @beezybeez7231 Glad you sent me to STL you're a legend in the comments. 🤘🤘🤘

    • @cynthiamastin7119
      @cynthiamastin7119 8 місяців тому +9

      Wow, felt this comment!

    • @8-bite393
      @8-bite393 8 місяців тому +16

      You only have one life. Do your best

  • @cruzazulfan0001
    @cruzazulfan0001 8 місяців тому +735

    Damn, I cried like a little boy. Makes me think of my dad. Thank you Staind, you guys have been saving my life since I discovered your music.

    • @filmnmusic1
      @filmnmusic1 8 місяців тому +11

      Same here. My dad has Alzheimer’s disease, and my grandma on my dad’s side of the family had it before him.

    • @PHoda-C
      @PHoda-C 8 місяців тому +9

      Three crybabies 😢😢😢, guys!
      I couldn't hold back...
      Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

    • @Jillady
      @Jillady 8 місяців тому +3

      Me too

    • @VicariousNick55
      @VicariousNick55 8 місяців тому +4

      same!

    • @karenwatkins6303
      @karenwatkins6303 8 місяців тому +6

      Agreed. This comes just as I found out last week that my great aunt has it. 😢

  • @tylerbrengle9652
    @tylerbrengle9652 7 місяців тому +6

    I wasn't planning on crying today.

  • @richmichniak
    @richmichniak Місяць тому +69

    If u are listening to this song in 2024 You are the best person on the Face of this earth

  • @Calibur43
    @Calibur43 8 місяців тому +337

    This song is an instant Staind classic that will remain even 10 years down the line. Remarkable.

    • @chrisezelle
      @chrisezelle 7 місяців тому

      🔥🤘🏼♥️👍🏼

    • @lonerunner89
      @lonerunner89 7 місяців тому +4

      I think it's one of the top 10 singles they've ever released. The music video makes it even more legendary.

    • @damienscythe4334
      @damienscythe4334 7 місяців тому

      oh yeah!

    • @KennyDresden98
      @KennyDresden98 7 місяців тому +1

      This is Confession of the Fallen’s “It’s Been Awhile.” Makes sense beings it’s been awhile since we’ve gotten such beautiful songs from Staind. 🖤

    • @Duurston
      @Duurston 6 місяців тому

      @@lonerunner89agree.

  • @lotofbitsabout
    @lotofbitsabout 8 місяців тому +223

    Lost my dad to Lewy Body Dementia. Prayers to the warriors, the survivors, the caregivers, the researchers, and doctors. One moment at a time.

    • @rainamenchetti388
      @rainamenchetti388 8 місяців тому +7

      Oh man, LBD is such an awful disease. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

    • @pope_13
      @pope_13 8 місяців тому +4

      I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my dad to LBD too. The long good bye is one of the hardest to go through.

    • @Duct_Tape_Boyz
      @Duct_Tape_Boyz 8 місяців тому

      I send positivity your way in these times of grieving. I lost my dad about 20yrs ago an now we're going through possibly the second time my mom has gotten lung cancer. She had it once an beat it after they removed half her lung. Now today the hospital did a biopsy on her other lung. 7 to 10 days of fingers crossed these results come back negative 🤞 I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with your dad. I know pain hurts and sometimes never goes away. Most days I'm angry because I have to sit back an watch this happen. But during the negative times I still try to stay positive. I hope you can too. Sorry for the rant I'm not on fb or insta anymore so I dont have a place to vent. I made this channel here on UA-cam an Tiktok so my mom can see what I do at work on the mountains and all the hard work my team does to make snow. Honestly this video/song helped me calm down today. I hope it does for you @lotofbitsabout too and anyone who takes the time to read this mess lol. Hope everyone has an awesome weekend 🤙

    • @metalheadrelic9873
      @metalheadrelic9873 7 місяців тому +3

      ❤❤❤🤗

    • @fiveseven695
      @fiveseven695 7 місяців тому +4

      I'm a stairlift engineer. I work with folks like this weekly.
      It's a very challenging but very rewarding career.
      Meeting and working with alzheimers and dementia patients and their kids never gets any easier (I'm 9 years in), but it does make me appreciate the "Here and Now."
      I'm married with 3 children and every day after work I get a little scared from all the stuff I see and, am a part of. I drive the long road home, and when I get there, I do the best I can.
      These folks may be in pain, but that doesn't mean I can't flip it around and use it to see that at the end of the day, having your health, your mind and your loved ones are ALL that matters.

  • @rigobertosebastiancastro5949
    @rigobertosebastiancastro5949 7 місяців тому +232

    Tears come to my eyes, I lost my father three years ago and just three months ago my mother reached him in heaven. Thank you Staind for this song, it reaches the deepest part of my heart.

    • @PrecisionwoodBob
      @PrecisionwoodBob 7 місяців тому +5

      Sorry for your loss. Not a day goes by we don’t think of our parents

    • @sniperNOsniping26
      @sniperNOsniping26 7 місяців тому +3

      Brother I lost my father 3 years ago it still hurts this song reminded me of that a week after he passed my mother had a stroke and double annuerysim it shook me she is still here but a ghost of her former self. Keep your head up 💪

    • @KevinNudge2023
      @KevinNudge2023 6 місяців тому

      Oh rigo im so sorry but dont worry we will see them all again in heaven one day i just think about them in my heart you will be ok 😢

    • @misfitbrit1989
      @misfitbrit1989 6 місяців тому +2

      I am so sorry to those who have lost their parents here. My heart is with you.

    • @dethmedic52
      @dethmedic52 6 місяців тому

      ​@@sniperNOsniping26I been caregiver for a former vet an everyone who come by says he was at least here with us then, I wish I could have known his real self instead of the man I have to watch die slowly while I can do nothing in my prime...

  • @tylrjsph
    @tylrjsph 7 місяців тому +68

    I started listening to you as a 19 year old Marine living in Okinawa , Japan. I am still listening to you at 44 and saw you in concert last month in Orlando. Thanks for playing my favorite song "Home"!

    • @AaronDahl
      @AaronDahl Місяць тому

      Same! Home was when I fell in love with them!

    • @lynnwinebrenner2187
      @lynnwinebrenner2187 13 годин тому

      Thank you for your service ♡

  • @vashsan71
    @vashsan71 8 місяців тому +170

    Man they still keep their signature sound! Takes me back to 2005!

    • @beezybeez5971
      @beezybeez5971 8 місяців тому +2

      This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “The Wave” by SLT 🤘🎶🎸

    • @adammatis5527
      @adammatis5527 7 місяців тому +6

      I haven't gotten goosebumps like that since "So Far Away"

    • @jdbruiser
      @jdbruiser 7 місяців тому +2

      Staind are one of the most versatile and relatable bands I've ever heard.

    • @cartorius
      @cartorius 7 місяців тому +1

      dem baritone guitars always hit hard.

    • @ZionistShekelstein
      @ZionistShekelstein Місяць тому

      Good old days long gone

  • @DrewHulsey
    @DrewHulsey 8 місяців тому +130

    Man this song broke me. First time I heard Staind was back in 2001, I was 13yrs old at a yard sale with my thrifty Grandpa and a kid drove by with the top down on his Jeep blaring ‘Its Been Awhile’. Been a fan ever since, first concert seeing them was in 06’… I lost all 4 of my Grandparents the past 4 years and my daughter just turned 1. She didn’t get to meet them but I’ll make sure she knows how much they affected my life. 💔

    • @beezybeez5971
      @beezybeez5971 8 місяців тому +1

      This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🎶🎸

    • @michaeljames87
      @michaeljames87 7 місяців тому +1

      Looking at my daughter in Taiwan… hoping she’ll get to know her grandparents in the UK more. I was the same age as you hearing It’s Been A While … I’m with you

    • @seashellmac1968
      @seashellmac1968 7 місяців тому +1

      so sorry for your losses. That's tough. I lost my paternal grandma she was just 43 from breast cancer, and my grandpa got hit on the head at work and he was gone aged 33, my own father died when he was just 47, then both his brothers not long after him (agent orange exposure from Vietnam war), then on my mom's side, my cousins, both grandparents, my aunt :( IN too short of time and all way too young. It's tough... this song hits hard for me right now as we are dealing with my father n law having early dementia. Breaks my heart.

    • @rongatzke5582
      @rongatzke5582 7 місяців тому

    • @paulwhiston9537
      @paulwhiston9537 7 місяців тому

      Best of luck to you both! Share your memories with your daughter, and she'll always remember her grandparents through all you've told her.

  • @Iwillbehavebutwontbeslave
    @Iwillbehavebutwontbeslave 7 місяців тому +20

    here i am again, aaron this is for you, you have no idea what this song did for me, i lost everything, my phone was hacked, i lost footage of my moms funeral, i lost all of her pictures and the ones of her and me, i lost the pictures i had taken with you in amsterdam, but this song came out just on time the video, cuz no matter what they took from me, they couldnt take this song from me, soo aaaron lewwwiiissssssss thank you from the bottom of my heart❤ and also the rest of staind, mike thanks, old skool thanks, sal thanks,

    • @user-tb4hr2ry3u
      @user-tb4hr2ry3u Місяць тому +1

      I love staind and the song and video footage

  • @Mustangs54100
    @Mustangs54100 7 місяців тому +124

    Staind always has the album that you're always wondering what song is going to hit your core. It's this song. My wife and myself lived through the pain of dementia. As bad as that was I also interpret this to my Marine buddies that were killed in Iraq and Afghanistan. We lost so many there but people don't realize how many we've lost here when they came home. I think about them every single day. When going to work and coming home from work. It's constant. Everything I do reminds me of them and it hurts bad. I just hope I'm making them proud.

    • @Neelysmusic
      @Neelysmusic 7 місяців тому +11

      They are right there with you when you are thinking about them most. Never doubt that. You feel it. Trust yourself. They are still with you and they are proud of you. Keep going and know they will be waiting for you. Thank you for your service to our country 🙏 ❤

    • @beenthruhellnback1617
      @beenthruhellnback1617 6 місяців тому +6

      Thank you for ur service! Semper Fi🙏🇺🇸🧡

    • @stephanefalconetti5544
      @stephanefalconetti5544 6 місяців тому +4

      Force et honneur frère continue et soit fier de toi...

    • @Dwall22
      @Dwall22 5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you from the bottom of my heart for seving this country for us. Stay up my friend...

    • @Randallsixx13
      @Randallsixx13 5 місяців тому +2

      I'll be praying for you, brother. Keep on.

  • @martinweigle6813
    @martinweigle6813 8 місяців тому +290

    Wow, the song gives me chills. Staind is timeless and constantly delivers

  • @marlynationtv
    @marlynationtv 8 місяців тому +124

    This song hits deep on so many levels.

  • @quiroal20ify
    @quiroal20ify 4 місяці тому +114

    My Dad passed away last month, this is a sad but beautiful song. Thank you Staind!

    • @randydunaway2590
      @randydunaway2590 4 місяці тому +4

      You will never forget losing a parent, and the song always brings emotional feelings😢

    • @allenwilson530
      @allenwilson530 4 місяці тому +5

      Sorry to hear about this. Time helps but dad's never go away

    • @johnmoore9787
      @johnmoore9787 3 місяці тому +2

      Just lost my Dad last month. Loved my Dad so much. This song definitely is a tear jerker.

    • @ZARZAOFGOD
      @ZARZAOFGOD 3 місяці тому +2

      May The LORD CHRIST JESUS GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO OVERCOME ALL THE THINGS THAT COMES IN LIFE. STAY STRONG.(MAY GOD HEAL YOUR HEART, AND GIVE YOU COMFORT, PEACE, AND BRING BACK JOY IN YOUR LIFE AMEN)🙏🙏🙏🕊🕊🕊

    • @pattyhardtke
      @pattyhardtke 3 місяці тому +2

      Prayers 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bizzmoneyb
    @bizzmoneyb 7 місяців тому +64

    i am so grateful to still hear new Staind music after so many years!!

  • @95mudshovel
    @95mudshovel 8 місяців тому +80

    Staind is maturing. this feels like a natural continuation after ten years to grow and heal.

    • @filmnmusic1
      @filmnmusic1 8 місяців тому +10

      I always thought they were a pretty mature band, even when their album “Dysfunction” released back in 1999. But yeah, they keep getting more mature.

    • @Dcalderon1901
      @Dcalderon1901 8 місяців тому

      ​@@filmnmusic1dysfunction is thee great album in history

  • @arkhamsaiyan
    @arkhamsaiyan 8 місяців тому +80

    My God this is the best thing I've ever heard... Makes me think of my dad and my daughter. Who turns 12 in a few hours... Thank you Staind

  • @billychilders2270
    @billychilders2270 7 місяців тому +60

    Lost my mother to small cell lung cancer Jan 2 2023. I was her caretaker her last months of her life, it most definitely was the hardest moment in my 35 years of life. But it was worth it, her last words were thank you son I love you. This album is perfect and was the birthday present I needed sept 22 1988🥰, THANK YOU Stained for giving a great album to help heal. est fan since 1999🤘

    • @josiah0303
      @josiah0303 6 місяців тому +5

      Good on you for being there for her. “To care for those who once cared for us is one of life’s greatest honors”.

    • @johnmacaluso8166
      @johnmacaluso8166 6 місяців тому +3

      God bless you mate

    • @kinda.austrian
      @kinda.austrian 6 місяців тому +3

      God bless you brother, currently doing the same for my father but he’s doing way better than we could hope for. Much love. Music keeps me going.

    • @Tylerdurdensoapman
      @Tylerdurdensoapman 6 місяців тому +4

      I can tell from your words they do the same for you that they do for me. This band has literally been medication since finding them my senior yr. I'm now 42 and love em just as much as ever. I'm sorry about your mom man but just know you'll see her again one day. God Bless you brother 🙏🏻

    • @benreynolds5179
      @benreynolds5179 3 місяці тому

      Good job son.

  • @MrDelco
    @MrDelco 7 місяців тому +24

    You, you always said
    That I’m better when I’m not trapped in my head
    And you, tried to explain
    The forgiveness feels much better than the pain
    Here and now
    After everything we thought we knew
    Broken lies and shattered truths
    Lost and found
    Every memory that’s bleeding through
    They all just seem to lead me back to you
    And I, can finally see
    The mistakes I’ve made are glaring back at me
    For all I’ve done, For all I’ve lost
    ‘Cause the “in the moment” wasn’t worth the cost
    Here and now
    After everything we thought we knew
    Broken lies and shattered truths
    Lost and found
    Every memory that’s bleeding through
    They all just seem to lead me back to you

  • @Rage-of-War
    @Rage-of-War 8 місяців тому +102

    My mom is deep in the dementia and this tears my heart out.... Staind is always right there holding me up......

    • @cenaboyle
      @cenaboyle 8 місяців тому +3

      Horrible thing to have. My dad it plus Alzheimer's. He passed away last October

    • @Rage-of-War
      @Rage-of-War 8 місяців тому +3

      @@cenaboyle My sincerest condolences for your loss :(

    • @cenaboyle
      @cenaboyle 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Rage-of-War thank you

    • @carnivorehitman
      @carnivorehitman 7 місяців тому +2

      Stay strong, people. It’s all you can do.

    • @beenthruhellnback1617
      @beenthruhellnback1617 6 місяців тому +2

      Goin thru that wit our momma now. Comin up on a year of her diagnoses. She got 5 of us kids(43-23) it's crazy. Cause we're all so close, despite the age difference between us kids. There's us 3 older ones, then the 2 younger. 2 sets of fathers, of course, not around. Jus always been us, an our momma! B prayin for you, for sure! Stand has always been a part of my life for 25+yrs. Have seen em in concert more times than I can count. Honestly don't know what I'd do without their music!🙏🧡

  • @gamingplaylistsp
    @gamingplaylistsp 8 місяців тому +90

    Staind is one of the few bands that make you feel like you're back in the 90's. Even after all these years, their sound hasn't changed.
    Thank you Aaron. I'm 17 forever!.

    • @chrissparks3254
      @chrissparks3254 7 місяців тому

      🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻

    • @chrissparks3254
      @chrissparks3254 7 місяців тому +1

      Hard to believe it’s been that long since we first heard Staind. 90s was such a great time for music

    • @glycerinemarie5237
      @glycerinemarie5237 7 місяців тому

      Aaron took me back to my younger careless years!

  • @roryoconnor4349
    @roryoconnor4349 3 місяці тому +26

    I’m 53 and a Stained fan for years. I understand this song too well.

  • @inquisitiveminds799
    @inquisitiveminds799 7 місяців тому +70

    This song hits so hard. I very rarely find a song that can make me feel something anymore, but you really kicked me hard right in the feels button. Thank you for this incredible classic.

    • @rocketships
      @rocketships 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, this one got me too. I don't talk to my dad or mom enough

  • @LegendaryBeanBurrito
    @LegendaryBeanBurrito 8 місяців тому +134

    They just don’t miss. Even after all these years their music is top tier and amazing ❤

    • @ETAisNOW
      @ETAisNOW 7 місяців тому

      Emojis are gay

    • @LegendaryBeanBurrito
      @LegendaryBeanBurrito 7 місяців тому +1

      @@ETAisNOW God bless you ❤️

    • @ETAisNOW
      @ETAisNOW 7 місяців тому

      @@LegendaryBeanBurrito gayyyyy

    • @LegendaryBeanBurrito
      @LegendaryBeanBurrito 7 місяців тому

      @@ETAisNOW ❤️😍🥰😘🩷🩵🤍❤️💙🤎🧡💜💛🖤💚🩶❤️‍🔥❤️‍🩹💗💓💞💕❣️💖💘💝💟

  • @denisegeee3982
    @denisegeee3982 8 місяців тому +74

    It’s nice to know that the band hasn’t lost their touch to break my heart and heal it at the very same time ❤

    • @Jason_nolan223
      @Jason_nolan223 7 місяців тому

      @denisegeee3982. I agree they are truly a legendary band how long have you been a fan of them?

    • @johmreardon9303
      @johmreardon9303 4 місяці тому

      Yes I agree totally

    • @Tabzter2
      @Tabzter2 3 місяці тому

      AGREED 💯 I've been a Staind fan for about 25 years and I know EXACTLY what you mean by that statement! Their music is, and always has been, sadly beautiful and yet has the power to lift you up. ❤❤❤

  • @zer0to0l59
    @zer0to0l59 7 місяців тому +70

    Made me think about some of the times I had with my dad before he passed. Thank you for such an amazing song

  • @goodgreen4616
    @goodgreen4616 7 місяців тому +2

    From the 90s till now. These Last few songs hit me hard. Still as bada$$ as always😤💚🥁🎤🎸 I Need to get out of my own head.😢 Need dreams instead of nightmares.

  • @rachellawrence3085
    @rachellawrence3085 8 місяців тому +421

    Everything Staind puts out is amazing

    • @viewer9997
      @viewer9997 8 місяців тому +6

      yes always

    • @jenniferstadnik3120
      @jenniferstadnik3120 8 місяців тому +3

      I wholeheartedly agree!

    • @BEEFSERPENT
      @BEEFSERPENT 8 місяців тому

      shut up

    • @louimpell2718
      @louimpell2718 8 місяців тому +3

      Your a thousand percent right!

    • @joelschaffer9203
      @joelschaffer9203 8 місяців тому +7

      Absolutely 💯 and as I always say BEST FUCKIN VOICE EVER!!!!!!! 💪💪💪💪👏👌🤘

  • @beardedbrewedntattooed
    @beardedbrewedntattooed 8 місяців тому +87

    Wow what an evolved Staind! You can really tell how the band has changed over the years, their sound, the messages in the lyrics, and what the music's representing. The way this band has been together now for well over 20 years! It's incredible!!

    • @TheOxman420
      @TheOxman420 8 місяців тому +9

      Yeah they write what they want and not what the record labels want them to.
      This band is guaranteed to have a song we can all relate to.

    • @beardedbrewedntattooed
      @beardedbrewedntattooed 8 місяців тому +1

      @@TheOxman420 couldn't agree more

    • @jenniferpope89
      @jenniferpope89 8 місяців тому +1

      Well said!

    • @beardedbrewedntattooed
      @beardedbrewedntattooed 8 місяців тому +2

      @jenniferpope89 I've been a very loyal fan of Staind for over 20 years, so I've definitely grown with the bands music and can definitely see a difference and maturity that's become of the music, of Aaron, of the band as a whole

    • @Son-Of-David1990
      @Son-Of-David1990 8 місяців тому +2

      Their 11 year hiatus definitely helped not burn them out and to reflect and do their own thing which definitely shows in this album. 10/10 for sure

  • @pr3modeling239
    @pr3modeling239 7 місяців тому +30

    I can't turn this up loud enough. This hits so hard.

  • @justvibingtomusic
    @justvibingtomusic 7 місяців тому +44

    This is easily the best Staind song since the Grey album. I said it. Love you guys. Aaron I've said this before on other videos and people are probably so sick of me saying it, but you were my childhood. I'm 37 and still can say you helped me through the hardest years of my life. Thanks for that

  • @dairydregone7146
    @dairydregone7146 8 місяців тому +19

    This song gives me a lot of flashbacks of my childhood. 😔 When things were easy and fun

  • @cmomo852
    @cmomo852 8 місяців тому +102

    I’m in love and in tears. Thank you Staind, for all your hard work dedication to the music and your fans.

  • @schreiber9864
    @schreiber9864 7 місяців тому +55

    This is heartbreaking and beautiful. Classic Staind.

  • @KimSmith-ec8oi
    @KimSmith-ec8oi 3 місяці тому +4

    Aaron is so amazing. What a beautiful soul❤

  • @flubbyflooble6177
    @flubbyflooble6177 8 місяців тому +10

    This made me cry pretty hard. I didnt get the lyrics at first but just by watching the video. Makes me regret so much of my life. Im such an angry person.

    • @shellybooth3028
      @shellybooth3028 9 днів тому

      Start living now it’s not to late. Let the anger go. You deserve to live with happiness in your heart.

  • @goingoneight
    @goingoneight 8 місяців тому +109

    I lost my mom to cancer very close to eight years ago. There were some similar situations outlined in this video.
    Staind can still cut like a knife and extract every last bit of emotion out of me. This is an absolutely beautiful video and great song.

    • @whoisharo4689
      @whoisharo4689 8 місяців тому +1

      Im sorry for your loss

    • @animeshock2006
      @animeshock2006 8 місяців тому +1

      Sorry for your loss I feel yah my dad died of cancer when I was 6

    • @markwilkin1580
      @markwilkin1580 8 місяців тому +1

      My mum died of cancer a couple of months ago, this song hits so hard, thankyou staind ❤

    • @pfarfan1
      @pfarfan1 8 місяців тому

      This inspired me to write a beautiful song and turn down a notch...thanx Aaron and Mike see you boys in Nov. In Alb.N.M.
      D@PB...Chino505

    • @rebeccacotten2691
      @rebeccacotten2691 8 місяців тому

      Read my comment I just posted !! ❤️

  • @wagnerfamily378
    @wagnerfamily378 7 місяців тому +22

    Lost my dad on 8/4/23 to this shitty disease...miss you dad...fly high

    • @wiseandhumble2470
      @wiseandhumble2470 3 місяці тому

      My pops too, fucking alcohol, smh

    • @seanjohnson3877
      @seanjohnson3877 3 місяці тому

      My Dad in 2018, I know exactly what you're saying...Love and peace to you...DJ Sean Wolfy Johnson

    • @Thegamercat420
      @Thegamercat420 3 місяці тому

      Your father carried a lot of weight on his shoulders. Sometimes it's too much to handle. I'm grateful that god gave me broad shoulders To handle the weight of world.

    • @damoncoyle224
      @damoncoyle224 2 місяці тому

      Lost my grandad to dementia 2 years ago.

  • @derekthemountaindawg467
    @derekthemountaindawg467 7 місяців тому +2

    I remember when we gathered together at my mawmaws for Thanksgiving like we did for years and she couldn't remember how to cook the turkey that she had made for 50+ years
    Very sad day. Even though our family moved states apart over the years we always gathered there on thanksgiving or Christmas and once she passed our whole family fell apart. She was the only proverbial thread that held us together and we didn't even know it. Now the only family I have left is my mom and she's not in the best of health. This song just hit me dead in my heart. Sorry for the sadness 😢 ✌️

  • @nicoleb.7226
    @nicoleb.7226 8 місяців тому +102

    Still amazing after all these years ❤️

  • @im_called_greg
    @im_called_greg 8 місяців тому +8

    My dad has Alzheimer’s and dementia. This song hits home so hard. Hard to see my phone… 🥺😢😭 thanks Staind & AFL.

  • @christiangeier4597
    @christiangeier4597 Місяць тому +7

    His voice and message has only gotten better with age like a fine wine. His acoustic country set was amazing live, can’t wait to see Staind in Milwaukee soon

  • @tomikaze777
    @tomikaze777 7 місяців тому +20

    They never stop ripping our hearts out. Real powerful stuff.

  • @One_light_out
    @One_light_out 8 місяців тому +4

    I think even an iceberg would melt with this song

  • @jaytrujillo1244
    @jaytrujillo1244 8 місяців тому +36

    I lost my dad just over a month ago. I miss him so much 😢. This song came out just in time, just for me it seems. Thank you Staind

    • @DefiBrent
      @DefiBrent 8 місяців тому +1

      Same for me. I lost my dad to cancer on August 9, 2023.
      @Staind thank you for this song.

    • @animeshock2006
      @animeshock2006 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@DefiBrentsorry for your loss I've been there my dad died from cancer when I was 6 it's been 28 years songs like this get me in the feels all I can say is hold deep on those good memories because there will hard times

    • @DefiBrent
      @DefiBrent 8 місяців тому +2

      @@animeshock2006 I am sorry to hear that. You have my condolences. Losing a father is tough.

    • @songsthatarecatchy
      @songsthatarecatchy 8 місяців тому

      So sorry for your loss. Hang in there

  • @ShortProducktion
    @ShortProducktion 3 місяці тому +7

    What a song 🥹🥹🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @canyonproductions7683
    @canyonproductions7683 4 місяці тому +15

    Thank you guys for this. Just called my dad with Dementia. Today was a good day with a few blips in the convo. Merry Xmas everyone🎄

  • @JJRiley
    @JJRiley 8 місяців тому +17

    Well that was an unexpected emotional roller coaster. Thanks Staind and thanks Aaron for coming back to the rock side.

  • @lostsoulinafishbowl
    @lostsoulinafishbowl 8 місяців тому +57

    This song and video hits doubly for me, 11 months since my dad suddenly departed and 5 month's since losing my mum to Alzheimer's at only 56, such a horrible disease to watch a parent go through. Thank You Staind for such an amazing song and video, even if it made me cry a little, probably due for a grief release anyway 😅 Can't wait for the new album! 🩶

    • @MrDamburger
      @MrDamburger 8 місяців тому +1

      i wish you all the best for your future and may your beautiful parents rest peacefully, i hope you'll get to see them again some day..

    • @joshgolo
      @joshgolo 7 місяців тому

      damn 56 thats sad

    • @mattdaddy76
      @mattdaddy76 7 місяців тому

      I’m so sorry for your loss😢 I lost both my parents within 18 months. My mother had dementia and I watched her either away to nothing. I watched my dad lay in a nursing home bed unable to walk for nearly 3 years. It’s gut wrenching and with them gone I feel I lost a piece of myself. ❤️ the new Staind album is great

    • @NicTube777
      @NicTube777 6 місяців тому

      So sorry to hear you've gone through that.

  • @murphy874
    @murphy874 3 місяці тому +5

    33 years here and NOTHING has made me feel more emotion than music has. Many years of staind songs in the rotation smacking me around and this one hits like my unhealed military father when I was 16. 😂😂

  • @Brandi081898
    @Brandi081898 7 місяців тому +2

    And I’m balling, at work, straight balling….

  • @Kevin83184
    @Kevin83184 8 місяців тому +53

    This album will be one of their best by far. Well done fellas!

    • @DL-gx9jp
      @DL-gx9jp 8 місяців тому +1

      I also think this will be their best album

    • @Tmoney445
      @Tmoney445 8 місяців тому +2

      If they don't release half the album by singles 😂

    • @celticspats5548
      @celticspats5548 8 місяців тому +2

      It’ll definitely be in their top 8

    • @Tmoney445
      @Tmoney445 8 місяців тому +1

      @@beezybeez7231 This is a Staind video not whoever SLT is 😂

    • @snakeeyes9246
      @snakeeyes9246 8 місяців тому

      ​@@Tmoney445the album comes out next Friday September 22nd

  • @gargoyleb
    @gargoyleb 8 місяців тому +44

    I always liked Staind. But when I was in rehab, I heard "It's Been a While", and that song became my personal anthem. I heard the meaning of every word in that song. Now that song is a sort of a reminder, a warning and a promise. The damage I caused, the guilt I feel. The little peace, and the abundant forgiveness of others. The tiny mile marker on the side of the road that reminds me where I am, and that I'm going in the right direction now. So, Thank You, Staind. Thank you, every writer and producer and musician (drummers included) and engineer. I won't say 'Staind saved my life!" but I will say they gave me support, a very strong pillar, to rebuild. Thank You.

    • @gargoyleb
      @gargoyleb 8 місяців тому +1

      P.S. DAMMIT!!! I got emotional and started writing.... anyway, what I meant to say was "FUCK YOU FOR WRITING SUCH GOOD SONGS!!!!!"

    • @deadbod9306
      @deadbod9306 8 місяців тому +1

      Lmao ! Your 2nd response is exactly something me and my best friend would say 😂😂

    • @Nicole-bi9zl
      @Nicole-bi9zl 8 місяців тому +1

      I was in rehab too and alot of their songs and Aaron's solo stuff reminds me how I was so far gone then boom a song about it. Like he's literally in my head. The damage I've done...man I can't say enough sorry in a lifetime and I sometimes feel I don't deserve their forgiveness

    • @possiblykaren
      @possiblykaren 7 місяців тому

      I’m proud of you for going to rehab

  • @TheRedTribe
    @TheRedTribe 7 місяців тому +19

    ...and this is Staind, the band i grew up listening to and is one from among the list of my favourite bands. You guys are awesome, your songwriting and composition is what pushes me through everything, the good times and the bad times!! Respect to the band 🙏🙏 Much love from Shillong 🤘🖤🤘

  • @erikbernard7334
    @erikbernard7334 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for coming back and making me smile again, It’s Been a While..

  • @kornfreak78
    @kornfreak78 8 місяців тому +74

    Beautiful song, gentlemen. This one hits hard lyrically, that's for damn sure! I lost my Mom back in 2017... She was my best friend and I miss her everyday... So many things remind me of her... one such example? This song.. especially the lyrics: "Every memory that's bleeding through.. They all just seem to lead me back to you" That really says everything. So many things bring me back to memories of her. I know everyone interprets lyrics differently but that's what it means to me. Thank you for writing such a wonderful song, Staind.

  • @nestoralbertoperezcastro
    @nestoralbertoperezcastro 8 місяців тому +32

    Man....this comes at the right time. ❤ It's been a very difficult Time with my son. Some anger management but we suspect of something wrong with his brain functions.
    He's just a kid,but it hurts to see him suffering from these episodes when he loses it and then asks us "Is there something wrong with me? I'm sorry for what I do to you. I try to stop it but I can't control it" and it saddens me a lot to think I might need to admit he needs help. This songs comes right after one of his episodes...NGL It made me cry. Im a little scared of what's coming ahead for us.
    This song means more to me than words can describe. It feels personal. Thank you Staind.

    • @NightNinja1998
      @NightNinja1998 8 місяців тому +2

      Well shoot man… I’m praying for you and your son, because I grew up high-functioning autistic, and it wasn’t easy exactly… Not to mention, I would recommend personally looking into treating this like a demon/fallen angel to cast out in the name of Jesus. It might help.
      God bless you guys. 🫂

    • @craigsovilla6578
      @craigsovilla6578 8 місяців тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about the difficult times you are going through with your son. I hope and pray that he gets the help that he needs.
      Philippians 4:13 🙌🙌

    • @NightNinja1998
      @NightNinja1998 8 місяців тому

      @@craigsovilla6578 Amen to that man! It's nice to see other Christians here giving this advice to such situations, I honestly wished I was given this advice when I was much younger... As school was a very trying time for me, and it is now too as I finally started college recently. This is definitely NOT high school. 😣

  • @shanemaurer3614
    @shanemaurer3614 7 місяців тому +1

    It's hard to take care of the man that always took care of you. Rip dad love you

  • @The_Etchaleon
    @The_Etchaleon 7 місяців тому +3

    if every hour of the day had an individual song ( it’s the cycle of life we call living) in love

  • @Professional0010
    @Professional0010 8 місяців тому +4

    Arron Lewis smacks it again 😊

  • @ythinder
    @ythinder 8 місяців тому +61

    Absolutely beautiful, Staind really knows how to kill a ballad. That chorus is soaring and Aaron's voice still as powerful as ever. Can't wait for the album!!! 🤘

  • @Swordbite
    @Swordbite Місяць тому +1

    This video broke me, I love my dad and my son so much, there truly is no bond deeper than father and son. Staind is such a moving and relatable band.

  • @adamrspears1981
    @adamrspears1981 5 місяців тому +19

    This is my fav praise & worship song. My church played this last Sunday.
    Praise Jesus!

    • @AdolfsGirl
      @AdolfsGirl Місяць тому

      Jesus never existed by kenneth Humphreys

    • @adamrspears1981
      @adamrspears1981 Місяць тому

      @@AdolfsGirl Is that a Christian song. I only listen to Christian music like this Here & Now song.
      Jesus Saves!

    • @AdolfsGirl
      @AdolfsGirl Місяць тому

      @@adamrspears1981 that's a book that isnt written by unknown men full of Fairy tales.

    • @adamrspears1981
      @adamrspears1981 Місяць тому

      @@AdolfsGirl Thank you & GOD be praised!

  • @brettconv83
    @brettconv83 8 місяців тому +31

    Aaron always delivers. Your music means so much to many. It helps a lot on the darkest of days. Thank You

  • @Norman-Bates
    @Norman-Bates 8 місяців тому +10

    STAIND with a another amazing song. 🫡

  • @Tabzter2
    @Tabzter2 3 місяці тому +3

    I grew up listening to Staind and this new one is so powerful by itself and yet it brings a bit of nostalgia with it for me

  • @elijahhutchins2447
    @elijahhutchins2447 3 місяці тому +1

    How is it this man has been able to see my soul....Aaron you've saved me countless times...from the dysfunction days to right now being a 43 yr old dad and son

  • @janellejanney
    @janellejanney 8 місяців тому +4

    This song reminds me of mom who is passed now but the words sound so much like her.

  • @EarthForces
    @EarthForces 8 місяців тому +5

    One of the few "timeless" bands that started in the 90s. If only music can have that Renaissance predominated by this kind of genre.

  • @irritatedphoenix
    @irritatedphoenix 7 місяців тому +5

    Daggum it Mr. Lewis.... Now my eyes done sprung a leak.... Lost too much since August of last year, and this hit hard. ❤

  • @passioncramps
    @passioncramps 3 місяці тому +2

    Going through this now, aside from him being in recovery AA it hit home. Hope everyone the best...

  • @Jack_huntakilla
    @Jack_huntakilla 8 місяців тому +7

    So Far Away vibess

  • @lilyblood2989
    @lilyblood2989 8 місяців тому +11

    I've listened to Staind for ever since elementary school because of a friend and I loved them to this very day. #Staind4ever

  • @frankbrendamancuso7601
    @frankbrendamancuso7601 7 місяців тому +11

    Aaron’s voice gives me chills. Awesome song!

  • @allstarscope
    @allstarscope 7 місяців тому +3

    Lost my Dad at 53, alcohol, Memories are all that remain, getting real Killswitch Engage - Always vibes from this song, I have followed Aaron Lewis and Staind for a good 20 years now, makes me feel old honestly! can't believe my Dad died in 2006 it feels like yesterday!

  • @je9886
    @je9886 8 місяців тому +12

    Omg this song is amazing and very sad at the same time it really hits home the horrible Disease of Alzheimer's affects my family And much as it really hurts to say I think its starting to affect my dad been a staind and arron lewis fan for years and that will never change

  • @swampdasaint
    @swampdasaint 8 місяців тому +5

    Real Music🖤

    • @kevinheatcoat2190
      @kevinheatcoat2190 8 місяців тому

      This Is Much Better Music Than Justin Bieber And Taylor Swift And Lady Gaga.

  • @LAHAWG57
    @LAHAWG57 6 місяців тому +8

    Man this one hit hard...might be the best song Staind has ever done.

  • @mn3boggs
    @mn3boggs 7 місяців тому +2

    I hear this song in a whole different way than most, I’ve had a lot of struggles with depression and PTSD from my military service, and then on top of that, having an extremely special needs daughter, I feel a lot of pain, and anger, of course most would never know it, but it’s like I’ve always got that younger, happier me in there, and I need to get back to that, it’s still there, its still inside me, lost and waiting to be found, and yet I find myself angry because of my daughters situation, both angry because I feel like I have been robbed of having a “normal” daughter, feeling sad every time I see a dad playing with his daughter, her running around and playing, talking to him, telling him, “I love you daddy”, all the things that I don’t get to experience, and I hold onto that, but forgiveness feels much better than the pain, I’ve got to learn to forgive, especially myself, for feeling the way I do sometimes and focus more on the small things, like the way after everything my daughter has been through, she still smiles, she still laughs, showing me that anything is possible, and I need to use that as fuel to get back to the care free, and better me.

  • @FreestyleGhost420
    @FreestyleGhost420 8 місяців тому +18

    Aaron, you breathe life into the lyrics of all the songs you sing, I don't listen to the songs I experience them. So glad you guys got back in the studio!!! Can't wait for the acoustic set Nov 30th Parx Casino Bensalem PA! ..Dont stop changing lives, you do it everyday!

  • @SweetLove7420
    @SweetLove7420 8 місяців тому +19

    Feelings overload🥺. Damn this band is the best. Can't wait for the album🤘

  • @unscriptedmind6212
    @unscriptedmind6212 7 місяців тому +4

    one hell of a voice when he opens it up boy do you feel it hit you deep

  • @marvinmonaghan
    @marvinmonaghan 7 місяців тому +1

    It’s been awhile, but thanks for being here and now 🤘

  • @harryvickers1945
    @harryvickers1945 8 місяців тому +23

    Saw you guys in Chicago a month ago…Aaron Lewis and the rest of Staind hasn’t skipped a beat. Been listening to the new and old stuff on repeat. Love you guys. Your music touches the hearts of millions

    • @CrissBurns
      @CrissBurns 8 місяців тому +1

      That show was the definition of mind-blowing.

  • @TheBeastKane
    @TheBeastKane 8 місяців тому +5

    Hell yeah this might be the best album yet! Just saw Staind with Godsmack in Massachusetts not long ago was awesome!

  • @paulmacchesney833
    @paulmacchesney833 5 місяців тому +2

    hits hard growing up ina broken family with that one person you never wanted to let go of

  • @LostKeysJambi13
    @LostKeysJambi13 7 місяців тому +1

    R.I.P. Dad it's been 2 and a half years since we lost you. That was the worst day of my life, I miss you and love you..............

  • @MaddieGrace1
    @MaddieGrace1 8 місяців тому +11

    Staind will *never* be forgotten 🖤

  • @lauryndourth5122
    @lauryndourth5122 8 місяців тому +33

    They never fail to hit the emotions, Staind has been and always will be one of my favorite bands🖤

  • @smokelahomamelv2797
    @smokelahomamelv2797 3 місяці тому +3

    3 seconds in .....oh the nostalgia thats over flowing my mind and body❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @augustily1
    @augustily1 6 місяців тому +2

    We can choose to forgive or live with the pain.

  • @ordinarylife2343
    @ordinarylife2343 8 місяців тому +3

    As a Songwriter from Philippines, I like the Songs and Genra of Staind.

  • @MichaelMckinney
    @MichaelMckinney 8 місяців тому +46

    This song and video absolutely tore me to pieces. This is so relatable for so many people once they get older and they have to watch their parents/grandparents health deteriorate until they are gone... this hits on so many deep emotional levels 😢

    • @usncorpsman7966
      @usncorpsman7966 7 місяців тому +2

      So many people....yes....now it is me. My son passed in 2008 and the other is gone in another world. Just my sweet wife of 44 of years.
      Life is way too fast.

    • @lisaadams3283
      @lisaadams3283 7 місяців тому +2

      It hit me hard also family members went through this it's so bittersweet.😢❤❤😔😔

    • @xg0ob3rx
      @xg0ob3rx 7 місяців тому +2

      It's gonna kill me the day I lose my parents. I don't even want to think about that day. This song brings tears to my eyes because I wish life could slow down.

    • @adammatis5527
      @adammatis5527 7 місяців тому

      Grandma, last year. It was tough to watch, even tougher to watch my mom go through it.

    • @lisaadams3283
      @lisaadams3283 7 місяців тому

      A family member lost to this terrible disease a few years ago. It's torture and devastating for everyone.😭😭

  • @jessicaprattixoxo884
    @jessicaprattixoxo884 3 місяці тому +3

    I lost my great aunt 😢 still missing her and this song reminds me of her

  • @skylerwilcox3925
    @skylerwilcox3925 7 місяців тому +3

    This is a great song. For 12 years I helped my mom take care of my mammal and we went tho all this stuff. Alltimers and dementia is something I wouldn’t wish on no one. So this one real hits home for me. Watching some u love turn to some one that don’t even know u hurts more than anything in the world. Rip mammal. An I have listened to stain for years but this one real got me. Thank u for spreading awareness about all timers and dementia.

  • @ericdraven7874
    @ericdraven7874 8 місяців тому +11

    Aron thank you bro 🙏🏽 for always helping me through your music rock on 🤘🏽

  • @noahdaubenspeck3658
    @noahdaubenspeck3658 8 місяців тому +4

    thank you

    • @jesselongworth9581
      @jesselongworth9581 8 місяців тому +2

      At the bottom of the comment’s. You are lucky if you heard it first.

  • @angieguerra9224
    @angieguerra9224 4 місяці тому +2

    Huge thanks to Staind for bringing us back to the early 2000's with this album ❤❤

  • @Jawz_17
    @Jawz_17 3 місяці тому +1

    This what I’ve been missing!!
    Like they never took off!!