this is how ‘fashion trends’ are making you SAD and BROKE

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  • @NikiSky
    @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +89

    I wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the love and support on my previous video

    • @simplylovedandused
      @simplylovedandused 3 місяці тому +9

      I’m looking forward to your future videos! More than ever

    • @jaminova_1969
      @jaminova_1969 3 місяці тому +4

      I'm loving your evolution! At my age (mid-50's), I want to look stylish, but practical and not spend a fortune! Hope to see more of you, Thank You Niki!

  • @spacem.2344
    @spacem.2344 3 місяці тому +258

    For some reason a lot of influencers start to sell their clothings and get deep in to their soul. Is this a new marketing???

    • @MotivationMaster28
      @MotivationMaster28 3 місяці тому +91

      new trend , gets more views

    • @dvillano1682
      @dvillano1682 3 місяці тому +70

      I have been a follower of these fashion influencers and noticed that trend as well. All are closet clear outs but promoting something from a certain brand.

    • @Sarah-Weinberg
      @Sarah-Weinberg 3 місяці тому +36

      Opportunist people. Propably tired of their style and their luxury items.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +103

      I’m sorry you feel that way but my journey has been 100% authentic. If my content triggers you, I hope you look inward and ask yourself why.

    • @jessicaboo8424
      @jessicaboo8424 3 місяці тому +65

      @@NikiSkyI think your story can be authentic and this still could be a legitimate question from that viewer. You explained your reasoning well while other influencers have not all been so blunt about having chased the next high. But the new high number of cleaning out of closets has been obvious, so I as a viewer am actually interested what you think of this wave, regardless of your own journey.

  • @Claire-yo1nx
    @Claire-yo1nx 3 місяці тому +45

    Can seem inauthentic when also pushing idyl jewellery line 🙃

  • @nafee-sa910
    @nafee-sa910 3 місяці тому +41

    Making a video like this, but with a sponsored ad in the middle feels disingenuous.

  • @gwenlilly333
    @gwenlilly333 3 місяці тому +28

    Same thing with interior "home fashions"

  • @lifeisbeautiful7421
    @lifeisbeautiful7421 3 місяці тому +12

    influencers are starting to shift to this minimalism

  • @kristinam.p.5058
    @kristinam.p.5058 3 місяці тому +79

    We would love to see the items you didn’t sell! What you found versatile, etc.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +53

      I’m still purging some things and plan to talk about what I kept and why, and my future plans 🫶🏻

  • @annastyles7445
    @annastyles7445 3 місяці тому +13

    we need an updated wardobe tour!

  • @stephaniec4766
    @stephaniec4766 3 місяці тому +23

    Fashion as art and personal style rather than fashion as business and status. Love it, looking forward to more 💖💖💖

  • @arikle22
    @arikle22 3 місяці тому +20

    Breath of fresh air.

  • @christiafunkhouser7232
    @christiafunkhouser7232 3 місяці тому +16

    Preach sister!!! You have awakened your soul. It's a beautiful place to be. Authenticity and true self love will never be found from external sources, it creates this insatiable bottomless pit. Meanwhile all our discarded next trend items continue to destroy the planet. Sending peace and love your way ❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому

      thank you so much for your beautiful comment xx

  • @martylovellmusic.
    @martylovellmusic. 3 місяці тому +6

    Its an ADVERTISEMENT for Idyl.

  • @tigrezz0852
    @tigrezz0852 3 місяці тому +11

    “THANK YOU NIKI” bravo, well said 👏🏼 this really resonates with me at the moment… thanks for voicing out what I have been going through these past couple of years!

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      so glad you enjoyed! thanks for watching xx

  • @yiramariani8236
    @yiramariani8236 3 місяці тому +41

    Hi Niki, I just wanted to say that I was a subscriber and then I unsubscribed to your channel for this reason. It became too much and felt more joy in minimalist or sustainable fashion more. I’m happy to hear that you’ve changed, would love to see more of your content❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +10

      thank you for your comment, i appreciate your honesty and i hope you find my new content inspiring

  • @AndreeaDimaFotograf
    @AndreeaDimaFotograf 3 місяці тому +30

    The best way to have a sustainable wardrobe is to make use of all you have until it falls apart. I also started to wash more by hand and dry laundry natural, everything lasts more, even if it's from a fast fashion brand. I declutter only when I am sure that it will not fit me anymore. My body changed a lot after the second child.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +2

      thanks for sharing xx

    • @vaniemars5217
      @vaniemars5217 3 місяці тому

      I actually completely agree.

    • @user-dt3wm8rn4j
      @user-dt3wm8rn4j 3 місяці тому +1

      2 ND child, I agree. Bounced back to 103 lbs first time but not unscaveved. Weight loss.

  • @ivetaruskova5867
    @ivetaruskova5867 3 місяці тому +5

    She is walking billboard for brand Idyl.

  • @thatsimplelifeweneed8708
    @thatsimplelifeweneed8708 3 місяці тому +10

    Pushing the idyl jewellery seemed so out of context tho 🙃 I think that you need to stop marketing brands so we can take your transition more seriously

  • @JelenaContent
    @JelenaContent 3 місяці тому +18

    I guess this is just a new influence strategy

  • @lifeisbeautiful7421
    @lifeisbeautiful7421 3 місяці тому +11

    low key endorsing jewelry, very contradicting to the whole video

  • @amyrosegordon
    @amyrosegordon 3 місяці тому +11

    The 'new purchase' buzz is fun. Following trends is fun. Experiment. Enjoy fashion. Enjoy shopping. It doesnt have to be that deep... The issue isnt trends. If you allow yourself to be manipulated by marketing, thats on you and its to do with a deeper inner issue that that person has.

  • @sreyphon-thill3297
    @sreyphon-thill3297 3 місяці тому +3

    Stumbled across your videos and it’s so nice to see someone else that wants to make a change in their life and not put so much worth into material things. People should understand that we go through phases in our life and what someone is doing or not doing is not an attack on you and your lifestyle. Love this content!

  • @seaha9256
    @seaha9256 3 місяці тому +14

    You are SO right in this entire video! When we say we have nothing to wear it’s not that we don’t have clothes it’s just not our style or something I would wear because I was influenced by someone else 🤯.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      i'm so glad you agree with that statement! it truly is mind blowing when you think about it!

  • @claudial1240
    @claudial1240 3 місяці тому +5

    WOW your last few videos that i have watched have been amazing, thank you so much for sharing. For years i couldn't figure out why I felt so disconnected to all the fashion stuff etc and I think very similarly to you, once i became a mum my whole world changed, and I have found myself constantly trying to declutter and just discover what ot is that I'm most comfortable in. The timing of your videos are perfect, thank you ❤❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      thank you so much for your beautiful comment, it means a lot

  • @lifeisbeautiful7421
    @lifeisbeautiful7421 3 місяці тому +35

    pls don’t use “we” because that is just you, use “me”

  • @sharylanne7738
    @sharylanne7738 3 місяці тому +6

    Love the message, Niki!

  • @MilaBeri
    @MilaBeri 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you, Niky! I really like the direction this channel is taking :)

  • @SashaBlake
    @SashaBlake 3 місяці тому +1

    Love your authentic style! SO classy, chic and cool! Love this era for you ❤

  • @danielleboodram4485
    @danielleboodram4485 3 місяці тому +4

    Hope this video doesn’t get cancelled. Everything you said is so true! And more people need to hear this 👍🏻

    • @TregerEllerbeck
      @TregerEllerbeck 27 днів тому

      Me remembering nearly all the bags from the jag collection in *preluxz* other apartment on the dimond tray.. I think i watched that video like 40 times. Purse collection goals

  • @escolero08
    @escolero08 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this! I think as a mother the whole soul searching and shift in life happens. Really appreciate this video!!

  • @brigittehayes1076
    @brigittehayes1076 3 місяці тому +4

    Love this video! I like to look at trends and just pick and choose what fits my style. My style is actually really close to yours- love your jewels 🫶🏻

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому

      Love that! so much love xx

  • @nastinka778
    @nastinka778 3 місяці тому +12

    more videos like this ❤ i'm obsessed with this new era

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +2

      makes me SO happy to hear xx

  • @helenamarhounova1120
    @helenamarhounova1120 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video. Amazing, exactly what all we need to hear it .

  • @anastasianovik7910
    @anastasianovik7910 3 місяці тому +10

    I love this content, we need more ❤

  • @KW-px5fk
    @KW-px5fk 3 місяці тому +24

    I think Niki is genuinely opening her eyes to an unhealthy relationship with consumerism. She’s authentic and sincere.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      thank you for your kind words

  • @joliejolie6201
    @joliejolie6201 3 місяці тому +5

    Great video I have a huge walk-in closet with so much stuff I need to start clearing all that stuff asap…please give us tips how to do it..I need help!! ❤

  • @a.nna22
    @a.nna22 3 місяці тому +6

    Love your videos Niki, you are a role model for me❤️

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому

      thank you for the sweet comment

  • @Shiryone
    @Shiryone 3 місяці тому +1

    happy
    adjective
    1. feeling or showing pleasure or contentment = a/k/a fleeting & does not last

  • @Ldizzy1414
    @Ldizzy1414 3 місяці тому +1

    Love this! ❤

  • @MarMarSnatched
    @MarMarSnatched 3 місяці тому +5

    i love this content!!!

  • @responsibleforwardfashion168
    @responsibleforwardfashion168 3 місяці тому +12

    You took the pill! You just became an Slow Fashion activist!! There are some non profits like Slow Fashion Movement, Fashion Revolution and Remake trying to make conscious about the negative impacts of the fashion industry! Maybe someday you want to get connected with some like-minded comuninity!

  • @Laauu
    @Laauu 3 місяці тому

    I really enjoyed this video. Thank you!

  • @cassandraknight8804
    @cassandraknight8804 3 місяці тому +18

    A little disappointed to see the sponsor add in this 😢

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +3

      not sure why you are disappointed as i am talking about a brand i genuinely love and wear daily. it was an organic fit for the example i gave in this video. my sponsors allow me to create impactful videos and take care of my family. it saddens me that it's so frowned upon

    • @BlackBeauty-yl8uq
      @BlackBeauty-yl8uq 3 місяці тому

      You can’t please everyone.

  • @elizabethpace1591
    @elizabethpace1591 3 місяці тому +1

    This is so true what you have said and thank you for sharing this message.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for watching xx

  • @gracepatricio7116
    @gracepatricio7116 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing, love your insights 😘

  • @reginamdec
    @reginamdec 3 дні тому

    I agree ! We are entering ‘the golden age’ and people are awakening to TRUTH .. Congratulations for sharing this incredible video that will awaken more consciousness

  • @aphroditeconstantinou2608
    @aphroditeconstantinou2608 3 місяці тому +1

    Where did you take the khaki outfit and the shoes of the outfit?its beautiful

  • @dmoody-hs7zj
    @dmoody-hs7zj 3 місяці тому

    Hello, I don't see the places you mentioned in the description box of where you sell your items...?

  • @ichiban6004
    @ichiban6004 3 місяці тому +2

    Wonderful video thank you for sharing ❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому

      thanks for watching xx

  • @angelagregory1696
    @angelagregory1696 3 місяці тому +10

    Amen sister !

  • @gargimishra1838
    @gargimishra1838 3 місяці тому +4

    Great video again thank you for discussing this topic!❤

  • @Riley0310
    @Riley0310 3 місяці тому +9

    Bravo, Niki! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾But girl I need you to come and help me sell some of the stuff you convinced me to buy over the years….jk😂😂😂 Love that you’ve found the Niki that makes you so happy.❤ This is the content I’m looking for!!!!!

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for the sweet comment 🫶🏻 I’m really happy you are enjoying the new content

  • @MyKimmunity
    @MyKimmunity 3 місяці тому +8

    I love this and have been thinking about the same thing!! Thanks for sharing

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      thank you for your kind words and for watching xx

  • @happilyhired622
    @happilyhired622 3 місяці тому +16

    Your current style likes follows todays trends; getting rid of timed trendy purchases makes sense, but it isnt revolutionary. Sounds like youre trying to pivot into minimalism and a capsule wardrobe which has been trending for years now.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +3

      i'm not pivoting into minimalism. i don't believe in labels. i'm simply being more mindful of the things i bring into my life and how they align with my true self

    • @Claire-yo1nx
      @Claire-yo1nx 3 місяці тому +5

      I agree she just doesn’t realise

  • @jingwang1038
    @jingwang1038 3 місяці тому

    Where is your necklace from? Thank you ❤

  • @user-zc7rl5uo7d
    @user-zc7rl5uo7d 3 місяці тому +46

    You just promote jewelry. is this not influencing people to buy it?
    Double standards

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +15

      if it's something i wear on repeat every day of my life and makes me feel like my most authentic self, then i will talk about it. i am not forcing anyone to buy anything they don't want to buy. you are in control of your own decisions

    • @QuietlyPeaceful
      @QuietlyPeaceful 3 місяці тому +11

      IKR! "I'm decluttering to be sustainable, by discarding most of what I have, while promoting something new. Trust me, I use this new thing everyday!"
      I liked her style before but was shocked to realise seeing these reasons that she is realising this ONLY NOW! And I was a fool to think that was her unique style, when now she blatantly says she was stupidly following fashion trends. LOL. STUPIDITY!

    • @cassandraknight8804
      @cassandraknight8804 3 місяці тому +11

      Still influencing to buy more. Spend more have more. I believe actions don’t Match words in this case.

    • @BreakFreeTV1
      @BreakFreeTV1 3 місяці тому +7

      Completely missed the point of the video. She didn’t say she doesn’t enjoy fashion. She’s saying she’s minimizing and curating her own style. No longer chasing trends or placing her value in labels.
      She also has to eat and take care of her family.
      We gotta get rid of this “all of nothing” thinking.

  • @aphroditeconstantinou2608
    @aphroditeconstantinou2608 3 місяці тому +1

    where did you take tha khaki set?it's beautiful

  • @WHATSHEYSAY
    @WHATSHEYSAY 3 місяці тому +1

    Love this.

  • @everdaylookbook4210
    @everdaylookbook4210 3 місяці тому +12

    But please What is the point of all this if you're still bring thing in ur wardrobe 😅

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому

      not sure i understand your comment ...

  • @francoisesmet4793
    @francoisesmet4793 3 місяці тому

    Happy that you finaly realise. 😉

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 3 місяці тому +1

    Best of luck with your vlog sale

  • @annamari545
    @annamari545 7 днів тому

    My favorite and only luxury item is my Bluey Vuitton aka my blue heeler named Greta. Love the brand and will be getting more😊.

  • @Rue100
    @Rue100 3 місяці тому +70

    YOUR JUST NOW FIGURING THIS OUTTTTTTTT??? WTF

    • @sop6160
      @sop6160 3 місяці тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @danyf.1442
      @danyf.1442 3 місяці тому +7

      Mhhh...better late than never I guess???

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 3 місяці тому +18

      I’m 55 and I’m just figuring out I don’t need all the crap.

    • @violakarl6900
      @violakarl6900 3 місяці тому +2

      so interesting what people learn at what age in this lifey isn't it?

    • @ericaelliott5047
      @ericaelliott5047 3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks I love you and your new attitude. I am on a fixed income and I always say you don't have to spend a million to look like a million. And I have never been in to brand name stuff even when I was younger I am 51.

  • @carrino15
    @carrino15 2 місяці тому

    The only place logos give respect is in the luxury boutiques as SA get dollar sign in their eyes. 💵💵💰🤑🤑

  • @dilekkesgin440
    @dilekkesgin440 3 місяці тому

    I see you, Lightbringer 💫🌟🙏🏻💗

  • @lindalazda2617
    @lindalazda2617 3 місяці тому

    Bravo, bravo!!

  • @TerrieAlvarez-uu3pe
    @TerrieAlvarez-uu3pe 3 місяці тому +2

    I think You're great and your video everything you say is very true

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому

      thank you for your kind words xx

  • @rivkyfriedman1469
    @rivkyfriedman1469 2 місяці тому

    Half of even designer iteams are made in china🤦‍♀️

  • @pamelamattz3761
    @pamelamattz3761 3 місяці тому

    Nice Style

  • @pegasusjourney
    @pegasusjourney 3 місяці тому +14

    Hypocrisy

    • @BlackBeauty-yl8uq
      @BlackBeauty-yl8uq 3 місяці тому +1

      Exit her channel since it doesn’t serve you anymore.

  • @extrememinimalism
    @extrememinimalism 3 місяці тому +4

    Are you decluttering for views, or are you decluttering because you realised just how incredible simple, slow, minimalist living actually is? Also, you can be a minimalist and still own expensive or colourful pieces and lots of something but very little or nothing in other areas. I own one shampoo but have lots of variety in my closet. I don't own any cushions but have 4 pillows on my bed. I don't own any decor but have 3 mirrors. Etc.

  • @jessicasims5596
    @jessicasims5596 3 місяці тому +1

    💜

  • @saskia6693
    @saskia6693 3 місяці тому +1

    100 % 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @yasuchan7147
    @yasuchan7147 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Niki, I feel like I am in a similar situation with you and these videos have given me the kick to purge my closet even more. As a mom of two I feel like I am drowning in the amount of clothes, toys and stuff in general that a family of four possesses 🫠 thank you for your honesty! I would like to ask a question about how you feel about your home now that you are going towards a more minimalistick lifestyle?

  • @janregalafreeman9796
    @janregalafreeman9796 3 місяці тому +1

    You must be in a different phase in your life and that’s totally ok

  • @fleurbeckwith9280
    @fleurbeckwith9280 3 місяці тому +2

    People don't come across as creative by having the same bag as everyone else, maybe consider a purchase from a small brand or artisan maker.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      yes, i agree

  • @lianazstyle7003
    @lianazstyle7003 3 місяці тому +10

    Wow the level of judgement here almost feels toxic low 🔑 just saying

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +4

      i'm sorry you feel judged or triggered. this was not my intention. everyone is free to do what makes them happy. this is my journey and i hope you can respect it as i do yours

    • @lianazstyle7003
      @lianazstyle7003 3 місяці тому

      @@NikiSky I personally feel nothing, just thinking of others. I don’t buy luxury brands as a lifestyle

  • @eleawanis1732
    @eleawanis1732 3 місяці тому +10

    Looool

  • @ManjGill
    @ManjGill 2 місяці тому +2

    The nonsense of this video ... of course it’s nothing to do with consciousness or awareness but to promote a brand. Her entire career is based on promoting fashion and trends and for the sake of this sponsorship she’s reneging on everything she’s built her brand on. There’s nothing authentic about this video. I don’t believe anything content creators say there’s always a paid sponsorship behind everything

  • @nelly8592
    @nelly8592 2 місяці тому

    Some people just are doing TOO well. 😏

  • @booboo9570
    @booboo9570 3 місяці тому +1

    so what about your luxurious house? sell that next or nah? why don't you move into a more modest housing? don't tell me it's cause you have kids: you can find big enough home for all your family without marble floors. LOL. If you despise luxury so much, why you live in such nice place? that's no minimalism.
    if you don't like logos anymore, fine, but do NOT play saint, cause you ain't

  • @idyljewelry
    @idyljewelry 3 місяці тому +1

    Niki🤍 We're so honoured to be part of your transition. Your support for years now truly means the world to us and we hope to do the same for you too✨Keep on shining!

  • @CaraFitchFit
    @CaraFitchFit 3 місяці тому +1

    I actually bought your Burberry trench coat a couple of years ago from your site. This content is so relatable for so many women! Excited to see more ❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  3 місяці тому +1

      love that! thank you for watching and supporting xx