OUR #1 TIP FOR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

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  • @AmnestyFrederickson
    @AmnestyFrederickson Рік тому +993

    My grandma said that if you never give yourself space to miss someone you will never truly know if you love them and she also said that if you never give each other's space to miss each other you will never have anything to talk about!!!

  • @Eléna-80s
    @Eléna-80s Рік тому +392

    I have some other tips too, keep this mindset I always do this “I just know that one day I will see you and we will live together just wait for a few months or years then you will have your whole life with him or her so don’t be upset ❤️

    • @kamran.i
      @kamran.i Рік тому +14

      Yes this is my reason to hold on....as tough as it is. Specially when you don't get to talk alot.

    • @Eléna-80s
      @Eléna-80s Рік тому

      yeahh great one@@kamran.i

    • @zlatna_ribica
      @zlatna_ribica 10 місяців тому +6

      @@kamran.iplease help me. I’m about to start long distance with my husband of two years. We’ve lived together for 3 and dated for 4 and now he has to go to another country to make money while i study. Do you think we can do it? I’m so scared! We have the same goal and that’s why we decided on that, but at the same time i feel so uneasy

    • @amethyst867
      @amethyst867 10 місяців тому

      @@zlatna_ribicayou can do this!! I’m in the UK and my bf is in USA and it’s been over a year since I saw him last! It’s a challenge but you and your partner have a stronger foundation where you’ve actually been a couple for 4 years! Long distance won’t break you if 4 years hasn’t! You got this!!

    • @KyleArmstrong-bt3xl
      @KyleArmstrong-bt3xl 5 місяців тому +4

      @@zlatna_ribicau have been married. U shouldnt have gotten married if u think a bit of long distance will ruin ur relationship

  • @bigarcher2730
    @bigarcher2730 2 місяці тому +41

    A thought of waiting a few years to meet your love... thousands of phone calls... hundreds of video calls... millions of tears... all in the hope saying" hold on a few years and then you both will be together " but reality 🥺... when you truly miss someone... the words you say yourself wont matter... you could never take the thought of missing that person away from your head... you always wanna speak to them... you always wanna wish to hug them... you always wanna cryyy looking at their pics... Its hard... its too hard... its like having a part of your heart at a distance you cant feel it everyday... Stay strong people ! STAY STRONG MY LOVE❤ AND MYSELF TOO ! We all in this together...

    • @LATAKANTURI
      @LATAKANTURI 2 місяці тому +1

      Reading this making me 😢

    • @bigarcher2730
      @bigarcher2730 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@LATAKANTURI we all will be fine ❤... Trust me...

    • @togu2981
      @togu2981 28 днів тому +1

      Thank you ❤️ 2 1/2 month to go

    • @Ethn30n
      @Ethn30n 27 днів тому +1

      My fiancé just left and I feel like dying I hate making him sad because he’s all alone and he doesn’t have enough privacy where he is to feel sad and talk to me idk what to do I feel so bad for him 😞

    • @bigarcher2730
      @bigarcher2730 27 днів тому

      @@togu2981 Its okaieeee... Keep working on yourself... keep grinding... You will meet your beloved soon... 🤍

  • @WarpedKarma6471
    @WarpedKarma6471 2 місяці тому +10

    Finding this the day after coming back from seeing him in person for the first time. I can still smell him on my short from when we hugged last almost 20 hours ago now. I’ve not cried so much in a while and it hurts so much. Thank you tho

    • @Ethn30n
      @Ethn30n 27 днів тому

      Girl same please tell me how you’re doing my fiancé just left 3 days ago and I feel like I’m dying without him does it ever get easier??? I hate being so sad everytime we call I can feel his pain bc he’s all alone 🥺

  • @luna-um5vw
    @luna-um5vw Рік тому +79

    I met this guy and I've known him for months. We both like each other so much, but he gets distant after a while and talks to me less. We have a 3 hour time difference and are both in high school. It would likely be years until I'd be able to see him in real life. I'm willing to wait because he's like no one I've ever met before, but it's harder for him and he feels defeated in a way. He told me we would be better off just having friendly convos from time to time and this is the 2nd time this is happened and it's heartbreaking to me.

    • @kamran.i
      @kamran.i Рік тому +5

      What exactly is hard for him?

    • @kamran.i
      @kamran.i Рік тому +4

      I am in a similar situation ...he is more focused on his future and busy cz he is working on running a business and it's all under construction...I talked to him about it and we were able to talk at night when he gets time at times he is just tired and I tell him to rest but at times he is just irked and speaks very rudely that he doesn't realize. He has told me that this is how things are and I can back off if I like but I choose to stay as hard as it is it agravates my anxiety if all waiting will be worth it.

    • @luna-um5vw
      @luna-um5vw Рік тому +3

      @@kamran.i the distance. He wants to be able to hug me and stuff but we can't ofc. :/

    • @kamran.i
      @kamran.i Рік тому +6

      @@luna-um5vw I can understand and yes it's very natural to want someone that way but trust me if he is really into you he would make it work. As I told you I am going through something similar while he sees me as a friend and wants to get to know me more before we move into a relationship I might have caught feelings for him in the process which makes things hard for me also I don't understand while I am transparent and honest why wouldn't he feel the same for me? Recently he told me that things might get tough as he wouldn't even get time to talk so I suggested that we talk less from now on so I dont feel when this happens cz I am too attached so I am suffering and for some reason something is telling me we will only grow apart and he will not miss me while I wait for him.

    • @luna-um5vw
      @luna-um5vw Рік тому +1

      @@kamran.i yeah that makes sense, thanks ♡

  • @monica.driessen
    @monica.driessen Рік тому +73

    Love is worth it all❤️

  • @Dribbz07
    @Dribbz07 Рік тому +88

    And trust in Jesus

  • @emersonh6
    @emersonh6 Рік тому +15

    yea but it sucks not being able to c him

  • @PurpleMatahariInk
    @PurpleMatahariInk 21 день тому

    I miss you, Ivan Laki!

  • @madisonpatman
    @madisonpatman 8 місяців тому +5

    I stopped missing him though. I don't know what to tell him. I feel stuck.

    • @idiobox4U
      @idiobox4U 3 місяці тому

      Then start talking to him get closer to him then u will feel it again😊

    • @madisonpatman
      @madisonpatman 3 місяці тому

      @@idiobox4U We went no contact and I haven't talked to him in about 3-4 months but thanks lmao

  • @BobF510
    @BobF510 11 місяців тому +12

    This content is superior. I found a book with related themes to be equally pivotal. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @tarasteward4797
    @tarasteward4797 Рік тому +5

    I hate ny relationship so much. I feel completely abandoned

    • @PaulsMom93
      @PaulsMom93 Рік тому +3

      Same. It sucks.

    • @Hello-jl5uq
      @Hello-jl5uq Рік тому +5

      Then end it all and don't be in a relationship without knowing about the person u are gonna spend ur life with..

    • @kmrashmisharma
      @kmrashmisharma Рік тому

      samee

  • @whereistheramyon
    @whereistheramyon Рік тому +54

    could someone explain what does "get to miss you" mean, please?

    • @katie-qn7xr
      @katie-qn7xr Рік тому +112

      It’s being able to look on the bright side, it being a blessing that you even have anyone to love and have such an intense connection with and strong emotions such as missing them so deeply. It’s a blessing and hopefully it’s only a momentary hurdle in the relationship that you both can grow from and be able to come back together with a stronger love and desire for one another, now knowing how it feels to be apart. And just how much of a prize it is to have them.

    • @whereistheramyon
      @whereistheramyon Рік тому +18

      @@katie-qn7xr thank you for your response, now I get it🥺

  • @raysacanelo9702
    @raysacanelo9702 5 місяців тому +1

    Oh I miss my baby I can’t wait to meet him 😢😢😢😢

  • @GalaxyDestroyer622
    @GalaxyDestroyer622 Рік тому +34

    can yall give me advise, I'm LDR and must wait 8 years! I love her with all the love I have, I swore on my life ill never leave her, how do I wait that long though, I can, but just how?

    • @Diamondaaliyh
      @Diamondaaliyh Рік тому +3

      Can you guys see eachother? like is that an option?

    • @GalaxyDestroyer622
      @GalaxyDestroyer622 Рік тому +1

      @@Diamondaaliyh it's hard cause our age difference is by 3

    • @Gigi0990
      @Gigi0990 Рік тому

      same

    • @GalaxyDestroyer622
      @GalaxyDestroyer622 Рік тому

      @@ceciliiilia Thank you:D

    • @Hello-jl5uq
      @Hello-jl5uq Рік тому +11

      Brother.. God wants to test ur capability to see if u can wait for ur love or not.. If u love someone with whole heart.. Then u can even wait 100 years for her.. So have patience.. God loves you..

  • @Samantic2332
    @Samantic2332 Рік тому +8

    Exactly...
    Watching him.. Hugging him.. His presence alone..
    Maybe he would want to make this work?.. like, I do..? Build something.. more..? Feel like a Dummie for it though. >^

  • @markbalmores1877
    @markbalmores1877 4 місяці тому

    Oh sige, may unan naman ako dito dun ka na lang lahat ibubuhos pangungulila ko sa knya😭😓😞

  • @stashedxTRAPSTAR
    @stashedxTRAPSTAR Рік тому +5

    I have a girlfriend I met two years ago, never met in person, i am in Michigan and she’s in Florida, we plan to move to Hawaii, and have plans for marriage, children, pets, and to share a home. But we also have set times FOR the marriage, and for the children, but I don’t know how well get the starting finances, and if we should move in together before moving, but that may delay marriage and children? But don’t know what matters more? I am just not at all experienced in this yet because I’m in my early teens, but i just want to know because I am skeptical and unsure about this and I’m extremely nervous because I don’t know. Can ANYBODY help me?

    • @patrickh799
      @patrickh799 Рік тому +12

      youre super young and have lots of time. no need to stress. things will work out if they are meant to

    • @kyarafederico3643
      @kyarafederico3643 Рік тому +8

      You are very young, just plan on meeting each other and have your dates see how it feels, have your experiences. Start from there maybe. You need to speak to your partner so you don’t feel distant or alone on this overwhelming stress. You’re very fortunate to have them living in the same country, nourish yourself and your relationship. What ever you do be careful in falling too hard for them that they affect your daily life. Wish the best🙌

    • @Ilive4soccer
      @Ilive4soccer Рік тому +5

      Take it slow since you guys never met in person. You never know what the future holds for you, and you shouldn't take things for granted because expectations can often cause dissapointment. Just keep loving her and be honest to eachother since it's a long distance relationship. Just don't stress too much, do your best, and forget the rest.

    • @stashedxTRAPSTAR
      @stashedxTRAPSTAR Рік тому +1

      @@Ilive4soccer thank you for the great advice but we broke up a few days ago

    • @stashedxTRAPSTAR
      @stashedxTRAPSTAR Рік тому

      @@kyarafederico3643 everything is okay, thanks for the advice, we broke up a few days back

  • @marioguerra1028
    @marioguerra1028 4 місяці тому +1

    It’s hard because she in another country 😢

  • @scottmcewan6612
    @scottmcewan6612 6 місяців тому

    For you Paola Espinoza

  • @megbzk
    @megbzk 2 роки тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @Bob-zu2li
    @Bob-zu2li Рік тому +3

    I'm shy help

  • @Lilac.13aesthetic
    @Lilac.13aesthetic 3 місяці тому

    The thing is I’m using him aka playing him so yh

  • @JJsmallworld
    @JJsmallworld 2 місяці тому +1

    Swap phones

  • @JescaKaundula
    @JescaKaundula 10 місяців тому

    I need someone

  • @farizexo5439
    @farizexo5439 3 місяці тому

    hell no its impossible

  • @User-uw7uw
    @User-uw7uw 8 місяців тому

    lol I don’t want to though

  • @Robert-3691
    @Robert-3691 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm captivated by this content. I read a book with similar content, and it was truly captivating. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @megbzk
    @megbzk 2 роки тому

    Fav

  • @nasserdaami5113
    @nasserdaami5113 Рік тому +1

    pls help

  • @ishanrandhawa4525
    @ishanrandhawa4525 5 днів тому

    Another tip j don’t do it 😃

  • @Goku_edits76
    @Goku_edits76 15 днів тому

    "Long distances relationship" ha, What a joke 😐

  • @Hoo_huu
    @Hoo_huu Рік тому +2

    Wtf

  • @scarlettmcneill8239
    @scarlettmcneill8239 Рік тому

    #longdistance

  • @CXGINDUSTRIES
    @CXGINDUSTRIES 8 місяців тому +1

    Worst mindset you could ever have

  • @Me-ee7qw
    @Me-ee7qw 5 місяців тому

    It is so inapropriate to post such videos. What is the sense behind this?