What is it like dating a FILIPINA... is it worth going all that way? (U.S.A vs Philippines)
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concentrate on the good things. keep your head on a swivel, common sense, and learn to say, "no". Glad to to know your first experiences were positive.
I now cherish my good experiences and try to remember the negatives as "learning" experiences.
Gentlemen, don't kiss and tell!
Come to India , I will accept you 😮
Chad: That's fine but you didn't even attempt answer the question in the title. You know what they call that.
No thumb-up for this one, m8.
I was particularly touched when you said your level of energy goes up when you have someone that cares about you. I'm glad I'm not alone 😊
Work out, stay fit, and you won't lack energy. Works for me.....
@@alals6794 Yep then get a girlfriend to use the energy on. No use having energy with nothing to spend it on
Mine goes down, well, up at first, then down, if u know what I mean, those girls will give you a workout..........at the gym I mean.
@@Roksella that's because I'm not 🤣
Philippines is a family oriented country sweetness in a relationship is a sign that you are important
My filipina wife and I have been married for 30 years. She is loyal, caring, and loving. We have raised kind, hardworking, and most of all good children. She really makes me and our kids feel special.
Thank you for using so such polite language and not cursing. God bless you man.
Agree.
I'm a so called passport bro and I'm proud of it. Go where you're treated best! - Nomad Capitalist
You go girlfriend!!! (Said in a sassy voice with a head wag)
You're treated like a king ha!?
Yeah right… I’d like to see your retirement savings and your real estate holdings when your 60. You will be living out of your car if you afford that
Facts!
Amen
Thanks for sharing an overview of your dating experiences in the Philippines 🇵🇭. I’ve never been to the PHs yet, so don’t have first-hand experience like you. However I met many Filipino people when I was back home in Canada and did find them to be the kindest, friendliest people ever. What a huge difference comparing Filipinas to many western women. It’s like comparing black and white.
The Filipinos in Canada are relatives of your prospective girlfriend i.e. if the Filipinos in Canada equally find you to be kind, friendly and hardworking. You may ask them to introduce their single relatives for a possible friendship/relationship. Keep on looking until you find someone compatible with your values and belief systems.
@@usersubscriberSC Hello, Miro. Thank you for your kind message. I agree with you. I’m Canadian living in Japan right now. I am doing research on the Philippines 🇵🇭 and am considering moving there in the future. Thank you for your advice.
Why do you reckon some western woman have ended up being more entitled, or come with a huge tick list which you must fill to qualify regardless of what they may offer, I don’t know how this has happened in western society.
Its really normal for the filipino to help the family especially if they’re really poor but in a limited time but you have to explain it. Helping them with a little amount make them happy and will treasures it. Most important makes them happy and will respect you as well.
This was such an articulate and well made video. Thank you. I’m Filipina by race but raised abroad and married to a foreigner. I am westernized as I grew up in American schools but still have Filipino traditional values that make it a struggle for me to be really close with western females; they often seem too haughty for me. Obviously not all! I have a couple of very sweet western friends. But for the most part I’m not a group girl with tons of friends surrounding me in pictures or anything like that. Now in the Philippines, many of my friends have tons of friends and family surrounding them, but not because to post on FB all the time; they’re just like that! I lived there for a few years and actually learned how refreshing it was to have friends who shared some of the traits I had. But at the same time, I was in the city, so there were some people I didn’t care for as well because they were a bit proud and full of themselves. If you are thinking of province Filipinos, that’s nice but be aware some may also be wanting to get out of their condition and just want you for money. Plus you’ll be expected to help her family sometimes (or in worst case scenarios, all the time). I would say my husband wouldn’t really know much about the difference between western and Asian women; we just married because we loved each other and see that. And there have been many hard times but through it all we have stuck through and loved each other more not because of ourselves but because of God, Who brought us together.
In the Philippines, there is a great awareness of God and Christian values. I am not a Catholic, however. But I am a Christian believer. And there are times I do catch myself haughty and proud and what makes me want to change is not so much my Filipino values but remembering how God wants me to live. God is love and gives meaning and purpose to life and a hope for eternity. When two people are complete in Him, then when they come together, it becomes the original design of marriage. But the key is to stay humble. Many people actually have died in hospitals and came back to testify of experiencing a great Love. (See Randy Kay Ministries on UA-cam.) There is a source of true love, and it doesn’t come from race or humans alone, because we all have faults. In the Bible:
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.
I hope all the best for you and your perhaps future wife. Thank you for being a gentleman and recognizing the traits you appreciate.
After being here a year in the Philippines, my only advice to those guys coming here to find a good woman is to go slow and don't move a woman into your place right away and be very honest from the beginning about your intentions with having children or long term committed relationships, it's not like the West here when it comes to casual dating.
Yes
Insightful, well thought out and expressed. Thanks for sharing with a fellow Floridian CFE !!
My pleasure!
I found this very interesting. Great story and well told!
I first travelled in the Phillipines 40 years ago. Well, you can imagine how wonderful it was then!
Chad, you were having trouble trying to find the right word (7:29 in the video) to describe the Filipina as compared to the Americal women. Let me help you with the word that you missed....
FEMININE!!!!!
need i say more?
Great work you are doing, straightforward and on target. Keep it up!
I understand wanting to take the high road, but I think of you as a guide and advisor for the guys like me thinking of trying the Philippines .Hard to learn anything when its all a great mystery. We can learn from our mistakes, but its always better to learn from someone else's experiences.
He literally said he is speaking on specific women and out of respect he isn't putting anything out there publicly. Your comment surely reflects why you're single.
Hey there thanks for watching and commenting I actually have some videos on my channel where I discuss things I've learned and things to look out for and be aware of when dating in the Philippines and I'll be making more videos on that soon. it's all based on my personal experiences as well as through others experiences when I met them there in the Philippines. I hope you get a chance to check them out and stay tuned for the new ones... thanks again and good luck if you end up going over there you'll love it.
@@ChadFosterExploresthank you 🙏🏽 I’ll look for those- totally get your discretion on specific people but I was just left with a puzzle
From “don’t need no man” 🇺🇸 to sweetness 🇵🇭 might swallow me up at first bite 🤣
Right on Dude! Very sincere and honest emotions!
I only date Province Filipinas because I’m very comfortable with myself and I have the ability to bring out the best in others through many different ways and it works wonderfully for province Filipinas and myself. I am also psychologically minded as a result I understand Filipinas very well by merely observing what they do and don’t do. US women have trained men to be femininized. There’s no room for feminization of men in SE Asia. I’ve been to 7 SE Asian countries and it’s important to let go of US female training of men. I haven’t dated in US for many years because I see much better choices outside of US. Dating in SE Asia is healing for the brutality men have been through in the US.
Same. They are the best. Even girls from Manila are a no-no, but still miles better than Western chicks
"Dating in SE Asia is healing for the brutality men have been through in the US." Aptly put.
Great example of why the 1st date should always be a for a coffee :-)
Amen
You'll regret even the coffee with these entitled women. xD
Great video, Chad. Having watched several of your videos, I wondered about each of the women that you've mentioned here. I applaud your obvious respect for them and am sure that they have each grown from knowing you. As I prepare to move to SE Asia in the fall, My mantra there as it has been in so many other countries is to try to give a little more than you get. Whether you find the chemistry with someone or not, you can leave a lasting influence by your wisdom or experience. We have more to offer than just money.
thanks for that comment I appreciate it, and agree with you... cheers
Hi Chad! Thank you for the good characters how you describe Filipinas like me. I also have a long distance relationship with my American boyfriend for more than two years. We have a lot of differences but we really do our best to understand and be more patient with each other. Hope I can meet you in Cebu when you come back here in the Philippines. By the way Rosie is so beautiful 😊. God bless and more power for your channel ❤.
Great vid Chad. Come back soon! Amping:)
Thanks Chris! Can't wait to get back 😎
Patience, calmness and kindness are such important traits and being kind to animals is something I always watch for because it says so much about how they are to those that don’t benefit them.
Thanks!
@@keithg.1631 hey there thank you for that!🙏
Hey Chad, thanks for the wonderful vid. Can’t wait till you get back there to make some more content. You’ll find someone special on round 2! 😉
I'm psyched too and thanks here's hoping 🤞 🙂
Thanks for sharing. Totally agree.
thx for the truth sir.. great work, keep it up
But you know we are all wondering what happened. It was so abrupt. It makes minds wonder, what she married or had a kid and didn't tell you. Seems like it would take something pretty severe to break apart what appeared to be a great thing.
Of course I wish I could just make a video explaining everything, I've thought about it but I just can't do it. I apologize, I understand how it can be super annoying to be left wondering. All I can say is there's a valid reason that things ended, but it's not necessarily anything too unique to the Philippines that I think people should be aware of. Unfortunately things happen in relationships and it's also kind of a complicated situation, I truly wish her the best and I'll always cherish our good times together. Perhaps there are some generalities I can take from this experience and discuss in future videos without sharing details or putting anyone in a negative light. I'll figure something out. Thanks for watching and commenting I appreciate it
@@ChadFosterExplores I totally get it. Believe me, to many of us, Rosie came across as a perfect match for you. The chemistry between you and her was amazing and heart-warming. Keep doing what you are doing. I really enjoy watching your videos.
Hopefully , later you can touch a little on what happen between you and Rosie. Just a little so we all are just not hanging .@@ChadFosterExplores
Yes I would love to know she seemed very sweet. Are you using them? Have no intention of marriage? Or did she want children and you didn’t. Just curious.
Don't playing the feelings of a woman sir especially w woman who really serious about you if you don't like her just direct to point her , don't playing it ,thank you sir
Fellow passport bro here. I STAND WITH YOU Chad 🎉
Lol. You just described my last few dates in So Cal to a tee. This is why I just took an early retirement. I’m outta here.
Yes, sir. I'm finished with westernized females! Got my wife(soon to be)waiting and my 8 year old Princess! Already made Family! Don't get any better, then Filipina caring for her loved ones!
Another excellent vlog 👌 👏 👍
I did my first trip for a month in Thailand last year. The people and woman were awesome. This year I’m headed to the Philippines for a month then back to Thailand for a month. Being single I always have an eye open for a possible partner wether it’s at home or anywhere else I travel.
That's awesome enjoy your trip to the Philippines and Thailand! I'll be heading out in that direction later this year
Lets be honest.. I got Asian girl that also order the most expensive drink and food in the menu too... its the type of girls you take out. If they are for the street.. they are for the street.. in Asia or the West..
Probably date only cost 20 dollars in Asia
Or if they like a certain food. Who cares. You want her to enjoy the meal or no
I had seen some of your videos. You definitely had some fun..👍🏼
Most definitely
I think both of the girls that you've met in the Philippines were very nice. The first young lady, I think, was kind of shy. Rosie, on the other hand, did not seem shy. And I just thought she was so sweet and I really liked it when she talked. When are you finishing the video up or introduction in the video? She just did a great job. I really like her very friendly and nice. I thought rosie was a keeper !
Thanks for watching and thanks for your comment I appreciate it, overall it was an amazing experience with everything I did in the Philippines, your points are well taken and Rosy and I had incredible adventures together but some unfortunate circumstances led to me moving on but I'll be back to the Philippines there are a lot of wonderful people/girls there we'll see what happens 🙂
Great informative video Chad! Thank You!
1 year later, I can truly say I have learned and saved time from your unfortunate experiences that didn’t pan out. Enjoy your time in Canada 🇨🇦, looking forward to seeing Trip 3 to find your Filipina results.😊
Correct sir good things are hard to come by ! And when you get her try not to take her for granted
Thanks for the tips. I really like your perspective. I am meeting my Filipina in April in Bohol. She is from the province so I know what you mean. So different from girls here. Thanks again. Mike and Jean.
Thanks for your great response on dating in the Philippines 🇵🇭
I gave up in the US but Im 64 and not in good health... so I just stay single
P.S. I was born and raised in Port Tampa by Picnic Island (close to Gandy Bridge)
Chad,
Many thx for the video, have watched most if not all of your videos. Did wonder what happened to Rose, sudden disappearance etc…
Cheers
Glenn
Ps keep up the great work….
Yea there was a sudden unfortunate acknowledgment of something that ended things on the spot. Thank you kindly for supporting the channel!
Why on gods green earth would you pay for her dinner and drinks?!? You are not obligated to do that and she didn’t do anything to deserve that kind of treatment. Many a time I have ended a date mid stream when I see this going on and say it is not working out and ask for two checks. You knew you wouldn’t see her again so stop encouraging these women to behave this way. I know my worth and the value of the time I’ve put into earning my money. I hope you and other men out there learn yours.
I appreciate all the information. Its hard to know what to look out for if you won't or can't give any general things to look out for.
Hey thanks for watching and commenting. Actually I have a few videos on my channel about things to look out for and things to consider. in this particular video it was more about specific people so I didn't want to put them in a negative light but I did mention the potential for communication barrier and shyness and difficulty connecting due to cultural things like that etc. with my relationship ending it's not exactly things specific to the Philippines or Filipino culture, however I will think about a way to generalize and talk more about it in future videos without putting anyone in a negative light.
I married mine Quick! only knew 2 weeks. We're only a few months in and it's been pretty amazing. We met on Tinder. She'd only been on it 2 months suggested by a friend. She dropped it right after I proposed to her. She'd not had sex before marriage. I think that finding one that Doesn't go with the crowd or drink while young is the one to look for. You need one who just simply detests drinking or partying. Simple as. One that goes to church as much as she can - not All the time necessarily but 2 times a month, even once a month.
not all filipina is honest keep that in your mind not all know how to cook mostly but not all
Great video…110% true.👍❤️
You spot on Chad I had to bounce out of here ✈️🌴 found a beautiful young lady in phillipines who respects me and my time city and province women are from 2 different worlds. I visited a woman in the province her family were very nice and treated me like a king. It was very weird I had to get use to when I stand to stretch it was like ringing a servants bell. My GF or mother or sister ask me what's wrong you hungry, you want drink, you want massage people I kid you not... My GF comes in my room when I'm sleeping and ask me hope you ready for me this was twice a day. Life is good their 😊
There.
Absolutely love your videos. It’s amazing similar circumstances dating. There’s no wonder why a guy like me too wants to become passport bro.
LOL you got suckered into buying drinks she got a buzz for free. I've been married to a Filipino for over 15 years - it's beyond beautiful. We both don't drink or smoke, life is great & health is good. We are blessed 💞
You’ve got a really good flow in your presentation 👍🏻 your channel should do very well and you’re on point with what you address..bon chance ! 🙏🏻🇹🇭
I can't lie. It kind of hurts when I see how sweet, kind and loving Filipinas are, because I see it's genuine...it's from the heart and doesn't fade. On the other hand, having been in several relationships here in the States, IMO, Western women know how to behave sweet, kind and loving, but it never lasts, leaving you feeling stung and dismayed because you realize it was a short-term goal-driven act to try and "close the deal." Sad.
You handled that very well. We already know both of those ladies were special.
Ur a classy, good dude! I dont say that to vloggers! Can't wait for more great videos! Ur honest also!!
I enjoy watching your blog im from philippines watching here from miami florida…
Awesome! Thank you!
I appreciate your positivity and sharing.
That’s why when I set up a date, I tell her we can meet for a drink but I have -- to do. One drink and I’m out. I pay and tell her to call me. Attraction isn’t a choice for women. So if they like you, they will call. If not, it’s fine too. I don’t date one at a time because women don’t either. Haha
You should call her not her calling after your date. Maybe she's shy or something right? Lol! Just saying😅✌️
@@redsparrow8640 nah. She will send a text if she is shy.
@@JamesGreenier Haha that's not gonna work for me😂
Chad is a nice guy. Makes good quality content. Good guy. My only question here is whey isn't he married yet? Out of all of those girls (plus the other who didn't even make "the cut")? I've been married to my Filipina wife for 20+ years now. We're "hoping" for you, Chad!
Wow ! Great video, well explained about how the girls are there, I know this would be prying But how did you lose what you said where TWO wonderful caring women? I don’t expect an answer, only is that a Commonality that the culture differences catch up and the relationships don’t last after the excitement and newness of the relationships ??
I like the rant! Nice of you to stay on the date and not excuse yourself and run for the door.
Filipinos are the most kindest people . They looked out for each other ❤
Great vid
Im a widow and am sad to hear women are like that now. I could never treat a man that way
It was already getting to be the case, 30 years ago. Granted, many guys have issues too. It’s not just the women. However, my experience was that I have a few good relationships but there were issues around not wanting kids and I could see that they were the types to be career oriented and park the kids in daycare. Other women I dated has issues with their morals or mental health. I met a Filipina and I could tell in two weeks that she was the one. One thing that I liked was that I could treat her really well and she would appreciate it. She acted like someone out of my mom’s era (very conservative and religious). We are celebrating our 30 years anniversary this month.
Our son was having issues with local women also and met a Filipina contract worker that is such a sweet and elegant girl.
I made sure that my daughter was raise with good values and am proud of her. She’s a beautiful woman. That said the men are also no good and as pretty as she is, she can’t find a decent guy..yet. So, I do feel bad for the good single women out there.
Hi there thanks for watching and commenting, yes dating has definitely changed over the years, I must say I don't want to make a statement that every girl is like that that was just a recent experience that I shared to make a point about some of the frustrating aspects of dating now from a guys perspective. Thanks again
Hi Chad thanks for the videos.Hope to meet you soon when you go back here in the Philippines.God bless!
Only date I considered in the past 12 years is with my barber. The last line used in a nightclub, "Can I buy you a drink, or do you just want the money?
Great video
I could hear western women's heads exploding as the video went on.
I am so used to bad attitudes and entitlement from the majority of western women when dating that it might be uncomfortable with the opposite.
I'm sure I could get used to it lol
100% entitled the 1st word I use to explain dating an American girl
I would have paid my part of the bill and left her with her part since she said she makes her own money and doesnt need a man its fine leaving her with her part of the cheque
Most of the women I meet here in US have been divorced & their husbands left them for a younger, prettier woman. They expect you to pay for their bad luck & they are very bitter. I have a beautiful girlfriend in Thailand now. I'm 72 & she's 52 so, not.a kid. She has 2 beautiful grandkids & they are very important to her & they love me. We've been seeing each other for over 2 years now & I've been there 8 times for 2 months at a time. I'm thinking of relocating there in a couple of years to be with her.
I just watched your video and I was shocked to hear that you and Rosie split up, it seemed to me like you and Rosie were great together don't understand that
I wish I could make a video explaining everything, I've thought about it but I just can't do it. I apologize, I understand how it can be confusing and probably annoying to be wondering what happened. All I can say is there's a valid reason that things ended. Unfortunately things happen and it's also kind of a complicated situation, I truly wish her the best and I'll always cherish our good times together. Perhaps there are some generalities I can take from this experience and discuss in future videos without sharing details or putting anyone in a negative light. I'll figure something out. Thanks for watching and commenting I appreciate it
@@ChadFosterExplores you're absolutely welcome 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
First impression: Can hardly wait to get to the Philippines! You're the first recommending a dating site other than Christian Filipina; that one is getting most all the mention.
Learn lessons it’s ok to have experience ❤I’m pilipina married to an American 2008 up to now
Your absolutely correct about the entitlement demands and or expectations from so called modern women in North America and no gratitude from them not even a thankyou !
Yeah, you are correct Chad. I prefer dating in southern Asia. The women are much more kind and attentive to my needs
Southeast Asia
Yes Philippinos are good, generous people. Thy are always ready to share their foods with others
It's funny and ironic how these strong and independent women like to talk about how much money they make and the get quiet when the check comes.
Nice video, Mr. Chad.I love to hear about dating in Philippines, but I think I have a " leg up", on this because I was in the U.S.Peace Corps in Kingdom of Tonga ( 1978-80).Geez ,I learned about dating foreign girls, and As a 23 year old ,I never dated in the U.S. But now, fast forward about 45 years, now Im an old 69 year old widower, but guess what the common denominator is, in Tonga,( and I think in Philippines), is young or old, IM.STILL QUITE A CATCH,( HA HA HA).
Hi Chad following you for a while Rossy is a wonderful person hope you are still keeping in touch.All the best to you and Rosy
Filipinas are not submissive but it's natural for us to look men as had strong position in a relationship that we should respect. The men and women position is often respected in relationships in the Philippines. We value and respect men through loving and caring them. That is the real Filipina attitude.
The 2 relationships you highlighted were very special and great yet they ended…Hmmmm….
Hi chad . I will be coming to the Philippines in October for the second time. First time, 2 weeks went by fast. This time 3 weeks. I hope to find someone, but don’t have a clue where to start or go. I hope you can give me some directions, or maybe some of your viewers can lead me in the right direction. Thanks for everyone’s advice.
Hey there thanks for watching and commenting. Well I would imagine everyone will have a different approach or suggestion, but since you have a limited amount of time I would say it may be in your best interest to try to make a good connection with someone online before heading there. OKCupid is pretty good even for the free version.
If online is not your thing, I would just suggest being friendly with everyone, start conversations, Filipinos are very welcoming of foreigners and are often open to conversing with you, my biggest suggestion with this approach is to not focus on trying to get someone's number or having any kind of pressure to find a girlfriend, but rather just be sincere and friendly and let it happen naturally. It's also great to make friends with foreigners or anyone for that matter just to have a friend base there because you never know who they may know and can introduce you to someone. Good luck!
Filipinas are great & a perfect partners if they are treated right, well respected and truly loved . They will love & take care of you respectfully …. till’ you die ….!!!
I been happily divorced since 1989 - much for the reasons you discussed on your date recently - as you described as 'entitlement' ! -- Not a worthwhile venture in my mind either. -- I'm alone and quite content given the 'alternative' available in America !!! -- My experiences were 100% 'expect' and very little 'respect' !?! - - - Not looking for another relationship - I am fine alone and ready to enjoy the culture the food the weather the travel and the adventure ! ❤🙏👍👋💫🍺 🏈
🇺🇲🛫🛫Passport Bro is the way to go!
🛬🛬🛬🇵🇭😅
Not only in the USA guys, also here in the SA(south africa) i, white guy, minority here, there is not a lot of us, but most of us are unappreciated by the women... Maybe it was all that western/hollywoodization of the modern western woman, placing her on the pedestal, and it got engrained in our culture in the west... No wonder we feel so different about women of other cultures, our own western women don't flinch a thank you, not even this much... But hey, there are a few good ones far and few between, well maybe, i don't know anymore... I can relate to the trend, western society is going bust, thank you hollywood! The old school ways still is and always will be the best... Hello from sunny south africa and hopefully one day from the tropical Philippines! 😀
@ChadFosterExplores I salute you for being a good adventurer,and a good thought for my country and the Filipina you met as well.
But remember,when dating a filipina, Action speak louder than words. Dont be trap please,dont kiss, and dont do S^^ while dating. Be true to yourself.be aware,and extra cautious.
Hey, Chad.
Have you made a video about your experiences traveling to different places with a philipina ?
Hey there thanks for watching and commenting, do you mean a reflection video or actual video of me traveling with a Filipina? I have several travel vlogs like that and I've done a little reflecting on what it's like being with a Filipina more of that kind of stuff will be coming especially when I get back to the Philippines. Thank you kindly for watching and commenting
Beautiful kitchen with nice pics especially BM on the wall
Hi Chad.. Ty for the great content you provide. Kinda bummed that Rosie is out but that’s your decision so best of luck but she’s the real deal and IMO you may want to reconsider. Anyhow I married my filipina 27 years ago in Hong Kong and she was the same way. Grabbing tissue and wiping off my dress shoes in public but I quickly asked her to stop that as I was not looking for a slave but a woman I fell in love with which was her. She understood. My suggestion for anyone else looking to marry a filipina just be careful. Yes very caring people but if you choose to bring her to America to live then in time she will adapt to how American women act. If that’s ok with you then you’ll be fine but if the reason you chose to marry a filipina because you don’t like the ways of American women then you’re better off living in the Philippines.
Hey John thanks for watching and thanks for the comment! Unfortunately there were some quite disappointing and significant things that happened behind the scenes so definitely moving on was the right decision but I'm optimistic about meeting the right one eventually ....your point about bringing them back to the US versus staying there is a big one I've heard a lot of people say things can change quite a bit after relocating which does make sense. Looking to head back there in the next couple of months I can't wait, thanks again!
I am just wondering what kind of change you two are talking about. 😊 I am a Filipina married to a French Guy and now living here in France.. My views on some things may have changed as I am now more aware of my surroundings and the things happening around me but my principles and beliefs remain the same. Now if you mean change in terms of what a woman wants for herself like material things😂, what woman does not want to be pampered and showered with gifts? It makes me so special and being loved when he gifts me with jewelries or bags during special occasions. It makes me happy. On the other hand, serving my husband in any way possible comes systematically , without being asked knowing he does these things for me, too. If you know how to love your wife, your wife will love you more. Good luck!
Thank you
I am on the move .
What is your opinion on ideal time to fire up dating apps in America for a 3 week vacation to the Phills (never been before)? Do you recommend 2 weeks, 1 month, 2 months? Don't want to start too early and waste time, but also want to cast a wide net.
Tricky question there's so many variables, in some ways starting to chat with someone way in advance is ideal and go slow getting to know them, I think the good ones move very slowly and are a bit cautious as they should be. Some girls won't even consider you if you're already in the Philippines, to me that's weird but it's definitely a thing here.. It just depends each person and situation is a little different but I would suggest starting to meet some sooner rather than later online before come here if you have the time but be cautious.
@@ChadFosterExplores Thanks for the response. Interesting that they don't want someone already in the Phils. So don't set my location to Manila before I arrive?
@@DD-ss1sl yeah some are definitely like that but not all. it's OK to put your location as a city in the Philippines because they expect foreigners to do that so you match with them. Ask them if they live in the city or the province many girls will put Manila or Cebu City but they live on a different island far away
Very nice video, thanks.
Good on you honest 👏 love nz
American ladies in contrast... Here in America I felt sorry for a lady I knew for years when her significant other died in 2019. I didn't own a car, she did. I said I'd like to take her out diner to relax and expressed my condolences etc. so it wasn't a "date" it was me treating her to going out as we were both living in government housing and on food support etc. So she's driving down a busy avenue and I said I'd treat her to like an all you can eat Chinese buffet something not elaborate. She said her son used to work at this Italian restaurant and we should go there, so she knew what we were getting into and I didn't. I did notice the pretty nice decor etc and hardly anyone there (their prices). She ordered expensive drinks and the menu was very high priced. Lunch, and I mean lunch, was for both of us $120, plus after we returned to her government housing apartment (she had moved) I was going to ride my bike 10 miles to get home and she had lived in my high-rise building and her significant other had lived and died there, so she knew the effort I made to reach out to her in her grieving. So before I get on my bike she asks me for a few dollars on top of that, and she didn't even thank me!
Also I found on the street, riding my bike, a gift card to the very nice Olive Garden restaurants. I called the 800 number on the back to see if I could find who had lost the card. They said it was worth $25 and no way to trace who had bought it. I asked three ladies in my Senior building that I would take them out to dinner, and we are Seniors who very rarely eat out as we can't afford to on our budgets. All three ladies knew me for years. I was always very nice and polite to all and even keep a lot of thank you cards from people thanking me for helping them etc on my apartment walls as positive affirmations... so all three I asked readily said without hesitation "no" and never even at least thanked me for thinking of them. That's the way American women can be. I know there are nice people everywhere but many other stories and it is the way things can go here "nice guys finish last." Thanks for being open about your attempts and adventures. You are one who acts rather than procrastinates and reacts, a bold and courageous person!!!
Hi Chad thank you for the good words about filipinas. It is true that the filipinas cater to their husbands & they do everything around the house. The filipinas also appreciate every little things you give them. Yes, the filipino people are family oriented. I hope against hope that you can find a good girl who will cater to you & possesses a good personality.
M'y Mexicana Amor said her radiatior in the truck was not working.
She said a machanic was coming to work on it in two days. But he had started working on the problem two days prior.
Knowing the make and model of the truck I asked her what was it doing? She described a common problem that is not associated with the cooling system.
I told her I would be right over. When I got there she was in some baggy blue grand and in a big Mexican straw hat. She had some new Nikes on.
I asked for the keys. I opened the hood. There was motor oil, hydraulic fluid, and muddy water on the engine and on the ground.
I was not dressed to fix any problems and I only had two pairs of pants and four shirts in Mexico at that time.
Before I could bat an eye she laid down on the ground on her back with her blonde hair catching drops of oil. Her blue green eyes now were ringing with mud, water, and grime. It was raining a cold hard rain that day. Dirty rain fell from the engine block into her mouth.
I did not know what to do or say. I had seen Viaja Filipinas do such manly things but I had never seen an exotic dancer type woman in the US do such a thing.
To this day, I waved as she drove by yesterday. To this day I am still ashamed of myself when I am around her
She never has said anything about it.
One day it was raining. I went into a store. She went to another. When I came out she was heading to the car. She turned and pointed at a spot. She told me I slipped right there. My butt is now bused.
I took her hand to pull her close and carry her to the car.
She pushed away and asked what are you doing? I am going to be ok.
She showed manly pride. The I got this type.
She did not go to work for three days and was on pain killers for two weeks after the fall.
She never asked me for a Peso when she was out of work.
Brasileiras, Filipinas, and Mexicanas live by the rule that anything a man can do they can do it for their children and sick husban too.
Good video ❤
Hi Chad. Your recent dating experience in Florida is almost hard to believe, but mostly out of my own absence from dating in the west for well over a decade. I’ve been almost completely out of the dating scene ever since I left Canada 12 years ago and moved to the Japan countryside. (I almost never have an opportunity to meet single women here, so a big motivator to want to leave). How does that woman you dated 1 time and paid the bill for all her expensive drinks and appetizers expect to attract a man into her life? How could she simply take your kind generosity without thanking you? I’m actually confused. Her actions make me think she would prefer to be ‘bought’ just like an escort. How did you leave the date? No offense intended, but in my opinion, she just played you for a night out of free drinks and food. No wonder men are getting their passports renewed. I want to leave Japan ASAP and move to the PHs. I’m in the planning stages now.
Yeah of course not all girls are like that but unfortunately many are nowadays. Good luck with your move to the Philippines I hope it all goes well!
@@ChadFosterExplores Of course all women in the west are not the same; however, I hear about exactly the same experiences as your recent one over and over. Thanks for the best wishes.
@@ShikokuFoodForest yeah you're absolutely right and unfortunately it's more often than not, really hard to meet good ones and find compatibility. You'll love the Philippines, hope you find someone great :)
Go to Davao City 🌆 Philippines 🇵🇭 down south if you want traditional women try check the public market and the massage 💆♀️ parlor.
Just be careful on dating sir , especially on your health
What do you mean?
Please explain lol
Well spoken Chad. Kept it positive and upbeat and choosing to focus on the positives … thank you for that. And you didn’t even really have to go there b/c your dating life shouldn’t be any one’s business but your own. I don’t get how people feel they need to know all the details and how things ended and why yatta yatta yatta. No body’s business … if you wanna share info, then that’s up to you but people shouldn’t feel like they deserve an explanation. Stay well 😊
Appreciate you saying that. Thanks
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14 years married without a single major argument. How is that for an answer?
What is health care quality in the Philippines? For someone who is considering living there.
I can speak a little bit on that in Cebu city there are quite a few highly rated hospitals and clinics and I know Manila has the same, from everyone I've talked to including locals and foreigners overall it sounds pretty good in the two main cities, perhaps devao as well but I don't know much about that area. When you leave the cities and go into the province from what I've heard and what I can tell it drops off quite a bit