I feel like this video is more likely to eventually represent what not to do. She’s from Duma (foreigner central), talking marriage and family after a couple months, says she’s done going out, he disclosed his finances and gives her an exact allowance (never disclose), etc. etc.. I think you need to date for a long time to ensure the girl isn’t playing the long game. She might be everything she seems which is a good person, but only time will tell, don’t rush.
Well, I rushed more than anyone on the planet. Still married a couple years later. In the olden days we used to arrange marriages. While mine is not "arranged," I guess I've experienced what someone whose marriage had been arranged experiences that kind of relationship with his/her spouse. You don't really know much until after you're committed. It unravels as the marriage progresses. It's like "we're committed for life," so any negative thing that comes up is like "oh well, we're married..." So I knew she had no tattoos because I asked her before marriage. I knew she'd never dated Ever, because you can just Tell, a homebody, no college, destined to be a maid either for the family or abroad (her visa to Malaysia was denied while her aunt's wasn't so she probably would have tried again the next year - I didn't know this before marriage though). All I knew before marriage was that she seemed just like a family-oriented mountain gal, like the Beverly Hillbillies. We've had arguments and I know when these arguments are going to happen now. It ALWAYS happens when we are in an area of the Philippines we've never been to and I want to go one way and she wants to go another or she's having her visitor simultaneously. No other time were we in a spat. She doesn't really need the lux resort vacation life. She can take it or leave it. She only wants family and duty to the household, mine/hers.
I agree with @pauls. This guy is saying not to rush, yet after two weeks of dating he has her move in and worse to be giving her an allowance. Not that this relationship won’t work, but Lance is setting himself up for what could be a downfall for their relationship later on. Living together right away, giving her an allowance, stating what his financial status is, talk about taking her to the states, and I didn’t quite understand his intentions of having children or not, but hers were to have children later on. All of this in less than 6 weeks of dating. This is considered a no no in the book of Do’s and Don’t of dating a Filipina for a lasting relationship.
Prenup brother. Save yourself a trip to hell. Hope it works pal but remember.. you have health insurance right? Why do you have it? Because you can't predict the future. Same with prenup.
She might be a bit camera-shy (which makes sense) but she does seem to be into him. He seems to be focused on having a serious relationship with her as his choice. He spoke in place, answered 99% of the questions, she looks cool with it, and I like their relationship. Great story, great interview.
This Filipina is completely different from the rest. She speaks with intelligence, honesty, and practicality. This man is fortunate to have found a girl like her. There are many negative comments about her appearance and enthusiasm but she is an intense and observant lady who is observing and does not speak nonsense. She does not have a piece of baggage, has never been married, has a job and is somewhat successful compared to other girls who got knocked off at 16. Of course, she must feel proud of herself, and value herself like gold! Screw you, negative commenters! Filipinas who have never been married, no kids especially those who have no experience with relationships are hard to come by and have higher expectations. Filipinos are family-oriented and exactly what this relationship is all about. Other Filipinas hide because they have dysfunctional families. They are pure gold!
Finally! Someone with a positive comment, who understands that there still are diamonds in the crab bucket! All these negative comments of doom and gloom were getting tedious to read! Best of luck Lance and Emelyn! Only positive vibes from me to You!
I agree, thank you for the positive comment. We are so used to seeings giddy Filipinas and hearing about only the good things. It’s refreshing to hear two mature adults be transparent. Whether it works out, only time will tell. However, watch out for Filipina tampo. I wish them only the best.
Yes you are Right.. me as a Filipina he found the perfect woman for him .. the woman is very mature and intelligent. A perfect house wife. Not just a typical Filipina..
@@ricke6854cold body posture reminds me of my Filipina…she had a local boyfriend the entire time and my gut knew it…now I have the proof that resets that infatuation…
Hi Chad, that's an excellent interview with a lovely couple. It would have been good to have heard more from her about her search and what she was looking for. Had she had any other experiences with trying to meet a foreigner guy, etc.?
Remember THE GOLDEN RULE. live with her 2 years in a rented place before making any long term decision including investing in real estate. DONT BREAK THE RULE! OR YOULL BE BROKEN HEARTED AS WELL AS FINANCIALLY BROKE.
Wish them luck. Way way too fast though. No major decisions for at least a year. Three months, He is in the honeymoon phase and has rose colored glasses still on.
So Chad, I’m looking for what “change” this guy made to find a relationship? All I see is mistakes made so early in a relationship that could bite him in the ass later down the road.
I bet that “baboon” makes more money with his retirement income that you make slaving at your shit job. Also willing to bet his girlfriend is prettier and a nicer lady than anyone you ever slept with.
@@JMC0704 I don’t think it’s fair to call Lance or any men his age a bafoom for this. Just like him, I’m 52 years old. Unlike many men who have or still lived in the USA, we all have dealt with some bs from these unruly American women. As I like to say when we are in our 4th and final quarter of life, we know we don’t have that many summers left. So, we seek for a real woman to love and be with. No games. So, time is of essence. If she is real, she go along. If she is fake, hope Lt much sooner than later, he’ll discover and dump her. One thing for sure, Filipinas are in the top 2-3 best women to be potential spouse. The issue with Philippines and most other countries globally are being infected by the matrix aka USA.
@@ropineapplehead2198yes very important. Fireigners are bafoons if they ignore r whom her family, and their dynamics. And how he will grt involved into her family. Almost as important as his chemistry with her. For thry will always be part of her. And either be a strength or daggers into the foreigner marriage.
I have seen videos where the girl is always looking at her man, and smiling, and hanging on every word he says... She is in LOVE.. ... But this girl sits there with no expression, IDK if she is really in love with him or not. She looks bored. Dude, slow down, you can't see anything negative in the emotional state you are in
There’s no chemistry, when the Filipina approaches the 30’s the archetypal body clock and social pressures are immense unless she’s of a different mindset. She’s appears disconnected..very strange.
@Eric-qm5xw That's why trust is paramount. Imagine not knowing the other is actually attracted to the same gender. Concealment is misinformation, and misinformation is a lie!
I don't know what is more interesting.. the video or the comments! I'm amazed how many relationship psychics are here to predict the future of this couple! lol. Anyway, I enjoyed their story and hope they have a great life together. They mentioned they both have faith in God so I believe that if they trust in Him and love one another then they can continue building a strong foundation for their relationship. Many will say that there are no guarantees.. but there is one guarantee: God is faithful. And what is impossible with man is possible with God.
That's exactly what I would look for myself. Same age group. Someone who lives a healthy lifestyle with no kids. Get up early, train, eat, and the rest of the day is yours. Sounds like the perfect retirement!
She will make a walking apology out of him in no time, she already has him asking is something wrong? Is everything okay? Did I do something wrong? Next it will be, what did I do? I’m so sorry, can you forgive me? please…….honey…… please ….. please
@@Sniper416-yy8hu because it’s a word over used. Why call someone a simp? Are you them? Do you feel that bad about yourself having to call another human being a name? On top of that. I guess any relationship or and families. If a guy spends money on a relationship and for family are simps. Omg some people
The interview starts out as a train wreck with the girl looking so uncomfortable, though her demeanor improves a little bit over time. She certainly isn't acting like she's in love, but maybe she is and simply is afraid to express it? She could also be just scared to death about speaking English? They do have a lot in common and I hope what we're seeing is simply a slow start. He needs to see things from an external persective and slow down big time. She's obviously not nearly as ready for a relationship as he is. BTW, I wouldn't think this is a good advertisement for CF since the attraction is one-sided at this point.
Prenup for sure. I explained to my Filipina about prenups day one. She totally agreed to it. If she ever changes her mind in the future, I will move on. I’m in my 50’s and divorced and I will never take any more BS. My way or the highway. And my girl loves that. They want boundaries and they wanna hear “NO”. They don’t respect men who cave in all the time and say “YES” to whatever they want. Good luck to you. Be assertive but not a diq and she will stay loyal to you.
@ Don’t offer her a choice here. Then ask her what is she worried about? You leave the marriage with what you come in with. Obviously you will take care of her but she’s not entitled to half of what you worked your entire life for. Maybe not the right type of girl. Move on. There’s plenty of loyal sweet women out there. Been through divorce, trust me. If she questions you, that’s a red flag to you.
#1 19 years is not a huge age gap, many expats are doing 30 year gaps. #2 He’s very smart and very honest and did his research and found a quality gf. #3 Almost all Filipina’s and poor from poor families, this is not to put them down but point out the obvious. They often live in very third world conditions, have never taken a flight, been on an elevator, had a car, or even had a modern kitchen and bathroom. The main thing is a hard working Filipina with VALUES and integrity, etc. He feels he found the right Filipina and I wish them the best!
@@frontendzen4852lol, found the feminist-simp club ;) By natures biology, Men will obviously be drawn to youthfull beauty. Just as females will be drawn to a masculine protector, provider, etc. Its biology. And 20 years is not such a huge age gap if they habe strong values, not partying, etc.
@@frontendzen4852 not many 30 to 40 year successful financially stable men are going to the Philippines looking for a serious relationship, but I see your logic. Perhaps if the Philippines had more opportunities for women and men to have a middle class income then you would see less age gaps.
Lol he’s only been in the phil’s three months so presumably they’ve been together a couple months and she moves in blah blah. What a knucklehead 😂 a lot of guys without knowing it, are lead down the same old trap. If she had a meaningful career she would not just quit plus he is compensating lol. Lol there’s no way I was compensating my gf..she was a corporate banker in Manila 😂😂😂 these donuts.
☝️☝️Young Filipina’s get those stupid emotions going and logic and good senses have a hard time prevailing…enjoy it while it lasts and keep the budget small so it never breaks the bank!
Way to early to make the determination it is a successful relationship. Reminds me to much of insecure men desperate for a relationship, and grasp at any opportunity to keep the girl.
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She seems very nice but please don’t ignore the red flags as they come up. 33 and never married is a unicorn already. I just ended a 2 year relationship that I should have ended after 6 months but I was enamored with having a beautiful 34 year old Filipina as a 64 year old man. Cost me thousands and thousands of dollars.
Note to Self: THINGS HAPPEN FAST! ~ He said not to rush it, but 1 month in and he had met the family and they are living together.... They seem like a Terrific couple and it was really good of them to share their story and highlight some of the Tricky Steps along the way. Chad, that was a treasure trove of info.... really good interview and editing, thanks for the hard work. Salamat po. Peace and Love, B Goat
YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER!!!!!!!!! The only thing missing is he needs a big beautiful mustache!!!!! Great video and awesome interview!!! Thank you both for encouraging others to follow a dream and for being willing to share your experiences with us! With the amount of negativity in the comments and society being the way it is…. I can honestly say that means you’re probably on the right track!!! “Who dares wins!” And I’d say you’re both winning!!!
Everyone's situation is different. He took his time to look and then he met this girl. Yes, time will tell if they will last. No need negative vibes. They look like they are a match. They dont even in a hurry. Looks like they are in adjustment period. All the best. Thnx for another great video Chad.
Chad, Wow wow! Thank You sir for doing this interview. I am in the planning stages of visiting Phils within 6 months. Hearing directly from Lance his steps, what worked, didn't work, etc. was valuable. I think the content you put out from your steps and experience is valuable too. Grateful. Lance has met a very lovely filipina and she is mature and good communication. Best wishes to this couple!
He hit the jackpot, meaning NO KIDS, never married, in the 30s which means she a little more mature than your 20s something. FYI: I met my ofw wife when I was 28 and she was 32. Now married 32 years and counting. Life begins when you are in your 30s.❤
@@GUITARTIME2024 that could be very possible, but my statement is from what is presented in this video. How knows the truth and we will never know their situation, because I believe this will be the only interview of this couple. Have a nice day.
Oh my, so he is paying her each month, not to work and to be with him all day. And she lived in Duma for a long time before, Chad, why didn’t you ask if she had ever dated a foreigner before? Cmon man, give the people who they want to see re the interviews, throw in a few slightly challenging questions.
And he used 3000 dollar/month. Cant figure out how he is able to flaunt his money so much. Its hard to waste 3k/month outside of BGC in Manila or outside of tourist spots. So he is leading with his wallet. Therd is so much more to this story.
Great interview and couple. They seem to be happy and found what they're looking for. If it turns out to be different then what they expect, then back to the drawing board right? As far as the all the negative, non constructive comments, which sadly are the majority...it must suck to be you. What you put out, you attract.
Every single time I asked "What are your goals?" to filipinas on the dating apps - that was the #1 most sure fire way to never get another response again..... lol such a disaster.
He seems a great guy. A little aggressive/desperate. She is hard to read. She will purse her lips at times personally she’s not my type check back in six months Chad.😊
I’m traveling to Cebu in a few weeks to meet someone I’ve been talking with. I’ve also talked with her family on video. I’m pretty confident normally but a bit nervous now. I never travel. Hopefully all goes well, she seems really sweet, intelligent, not too young either.
Been watching your videos for a few weeks Chad. You were very brave to “plant that flag” and decide to leave your life in Florida to take the risk on yourself to make UA-cam work as a supplement to your “rental empire”. Thank you for your content!
I enjoyed this interview chad and hope you can find more interviews like this in the future. I see a lot of negative comments here. None of us know anything about the situation beyond this video. Maybe it works out, maybe not. That is just life. Chad, Please tell these two i wish them a long,loving relationship.
I hope you do catch up again with this couple more than once more. I am am very similar to Lance. Seems like they have a good chance of being successful together, both intelligent and open. Key is to not wear those rose coloured glasses, and quietly keep your eyes and ears open. Best wishes to them both.
Thank you for the information. I don't want to visit Dumaguete but am curious about IloIlo City and Roxas City. I do not want to get into a situation were I am an ATM.
It all depends on what you want. If you are looking for a relationship like this clown, either place is a no no. But, if you just want to pump and dump either place is good.
@@Rhandlezz There is massive variance amongst the looks both inside Thailand and even amongst Filipinas. And men have different likes. You will find English widely spread in the ,,, lets say Entertainment areas of Thailand and how about maybe learning a bit of Thai ??? It's not a particularly hard language to speak ,, I think I had 20 words before my first visit over 25 years ago and now a few thousand. By the way i have only ever met 2 or 3 Filipina's that speak English ,, most speak a form of American not real English
@tilapiadave3234 true, I notice a lot of Filipinas act like they know more English than they actually know. You made some valid points about thialand. It's definitely on my list to visit. Appreciate the info
Basically, women are women doesn't matter what country, but great interview, some men luck out, other have nightmares, one UA-camr I follow is getting a diverse as we speak, just have to spend Quality Time with the person. Thanks.
Filipinas in their late 20s to early 30s with no kids and a low body count are not rare. They’re pretty abundant. It’s not 90%. But it’s definitely way more than you would think. Definitely way more than here in the west for sure. You’re lucky to find Bigfoot riding a unicorn here in the west
@@WOLFSENT1i am interested in your comment if you can expand on it. I would like to try PI retirement and am 55. Not interested in 18 year old girls. I find what this guy has as extremely fortunate. Are you saying my chances of finding a similar lady is good?
@@mattclark7718 Your chances are VERY good. Perhaps not in the timeline he is talking about. But it is good, nonetheless. You cannot go in with a western mindset. What I mean by that is that you literally have to wipe the chalkboard clean as far as what you are expecting from an eastern woman compared to what you’re used to in the west. If you do that, that is a big step into finding your ONE. That being said. You can’t be an out of shape, fat pig who doesn’t care about his appearance or health. AND…The girls in the Philippines don’t look at age like they do in America. They see you as passed your playing around stages. More mature minded. More ready to settle down and be serious. When they date. They date to marry. It’s not really even dating. It’s more like courting. There’s an acronym in the Philippines that is called NBSB. Which means no boyfriend since birth. These girls have to take the lead role as the breadwinner in a lot of these families because the men are too busy playing around, getting drunk, gambling, getting girls pregnant and disappearing. Basically irresponsible pricks. Sure. There are Filipinas who will scam you out of your money. But even a dead Ray Charles has the visual sense to see that coming. You have to take your time. You have to vet these girls. Don’t go in desperate. Have an attitude where you “own the room”… but don’t be a dick about it. Confidence. Don’t pour your heart out. Don’t talk about exes. Don’t talk about your money. Even if she asks about these things. You have to say that you don’t feel comfortable talking about that because it has nothing to do with your relationship with her at this moment. The reason a lot of these girls have only had one boyfriend, and that was for, most likely, less than six months, or just outright virgins, is because they’re too busy going to school, and earning money for the family. Family is everything over here. There’s so much to unpack. There’s not enough space on UA-cam for me to describe. But, hopefully you get the gist, and let your own personality and mindset lead you into the right relationship. I wish you good fortune
Right. What dude gives a girl an allowance to quit job so soon or even at all? No wonder all these Filipinas trying to scam foreigners because they are so easy like this clown in this video. He's new to the Philippines, yet he's another expert now on the Philippines 😂😂😂
Very informative, and I wish them the best! Lance is very fortunate and blessed, as I imagine she is, as well. They seem on a path that I think so many of us pursue, and I think he made the absolute right decision in pursuing an older woman. I have no particular interest in a relationship but if that changes, at 61 I would be looking for no younger than the 40 age range.
Well I for one wish them both all the Happiness in the world. They both have been independent for a lot of years and, so they will need to learn to feel each other out. She did well in finding this Man and he did well finding this young lady as well. Now you two move on with the rest of your lives together and be blessed
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I'm so red pilled that marriage is an absolute impossibility. Once burned, forever learned.
Then stop watching man
I feel like this video is more likely to eventually represent what not to do. She’s from Duma (foreigner central), talking marriage and family after a couple months, says she’s done going out, he disclosed his finances and gives her an exact allowance (never disclose), etc. etc.. I think you need to date for a long time to ensure the girl isn’t playing the long game. She might be everything she seems which is a good person, but only time will tell, don’t rush.
Well, I rushed more than anyone on the planet. Still married a couple years later. In the olden days we used to arrange marriages. While mine is not "arranged," I guess I've experienced what someone whose marriage had been arranged experiences that kind of relationship with his/her spouse. You don't really know much until after you're committed. It unravels as the marriage progresses. It's like "we're committed for life," so any negative thing that comes up is like "oh well, we're married..." So I knew she had no tattoos because I asked her before marriage. I knew she'd never dated Ever, because you can just Tell, a homebody, no college, destined to be a maid either for the family or abroad (her visa to Malaysia was denied while her aunt's wasn't so she probably would have tried again the next year - I didn't know this before marriage though). All I knew before marriage was that she seemed just like a family-oriented mountain gal, like the Beverly Hillbillies. We've had arguments and I know when these arguments are going to happen now. It ALWAYS happens when we are in an area of the Philippines we've never been to and I want to go one way and she wants to go another or she's having her visitor simultaneously. No other time were we in a spat. She doesn't really need the lux resort vacation life. She can take it or leave it. She only wants family and duty to the household, mine/hers.
I would stay away from any Filipina that has been with a few foreigners.
Yeap..lol
I agree with @pauls. This guy is saying not to rush, yet after two weeks of dating he has her move in and worse to be giving her an allowance. Not that this relationship won’t work, but Lance is setting himself up for what could be a downfall for their relationship later on. Living together right away, giving her an allowance, stating what his financial status is, talk about taking her to the states, and I didn’t quite understand his intentions of having children or not, but hers were to have children later on. All of this in less than 6 weeks of dating. This is considered a no no in the book of Do’s and Don’t of dating a Filipina for a lasting relationship.
Yep. The vibe is clear. This dude will see. 😅
Prenup brother. Save yourself a trip to hell. Hope it works pal but remember.. you have health insurance right? Why do you have it? Because you can't predict the future. Same with prenup.
To the couple, take your time, dont rush, get to know each other more.
Thank you for the couple doing this interview & Chad for doing it as well!
wow, this guy is 180 degrees different than 90% of Expats.
Sending them best wishes
In what way(s)?
Lol
He's probably reading these and saying no no no. She's different lol
😂😂😂😂 lol this comment section is the funniest thing I have seen in a while. The video is kind of funny and sad at the same time.
She might be a bit camera-shy (which makes sense) but she does seem to be into him. He seems to be focused on having a serious relationship with her as his choice. He spoke in place, answered 99% of the questions, she looks cool with it, and I like their relationship.
Great story, great interview.
@@paulwerdak5888 Agree! Great couple, great interview 👍🏼
This Filipina is completely different from the rest. She speaks with intelligence, honesty, and practicality. This man is fortunate to have found a girl like her. There are many negative comments about her appearance and enthusiasm but she is an intense and observant lady who is observing and does not speak nonsense. She does not have a piece of baggage, has never been married, has a job and is somewhat successful compared to other girls who got knocked off at 16. Of course, she must feel proud of herself, and value herself like gold! Screw you, negative commenters! Filipinas who have never been married, no kids especially those who have no experience with relationships are hard to come by and have higher expectations. Filipinos are family-oriented and exactly what this relationship is all about. Other Filipinas hide because they have dysfunctional families. They are pure gold!
Finally! Someone with a positive comment, who understands that there still are diamonds in the crab bucket! All these negative comments of doom and gloom were getting tedious to read! Best of luck Lance and Emelyn! Only positive vibes from me to You!
I agree, thank you for the positive comment. We are so used to seeings giddy Filipinas and hearing about only the good things. It’s refreshing to hear two mature adults be transparent. Whether it works out, only time will tell. However, watch out for Filipina tampo. I wish them only the best.
Yes but why rush??? Get to know each other more
Yes you are Right.. me as a Filipina he found the perfect woman for him .. the woman is very mature and intelligent. A perfect house wife. Not just a typical Filipina..
The sisterhood uber alles
Look at her facial expressions during the video. She is not engaged. This guy really needs to slow down.
Yep.
No chemistry.
In love with his wallet, really. He comes across very intimidating
@@ricke6854cold body posture reminds me of my Filipina…she had a local boyfriend the entire time and my gut knew it…now I have the proof that resets that infatuation…
I noticed the same
Excellent interview, thanks Chad, from a fellow Canadian
Impressive interview. This guy and his Filipina are a class act. Intelligent, great communication, proper boundaries set, fiscally responsible.
Lol😂😂😂😂😂
@@WealthLogic 💯
Hi Chad, that's an excellent interview with a lovely couple. It would have been good to have heard more from her about her search and what she was looking for. Had she had any other experiences with trying to meet a foreigner guy, etc.?
What a good looking couple! Great interview. Thanks Chad. Wishing them only the best. Hope it works out.
Remember THE GOLDEN RULE. live with her 2 years in a rented place before making any long term decision including investing in real estate. DONT BREAK THE RULE! OR YOULL BE BROKEN HEARTED AS WELL AS FINANCIALLY BROKE.
Just stay single. Many guys too old here and nothing in common
You will be considered married by the law. You could end up lonely, broke and locked up if you try to leave.
Would love to hear her dating history of her 20's.....
High body count
It sounded like claimed she had none.
@@paulruano1903 LOL.
Wish them luck. Way way too fast though. No major decisions for at least a year. Three months, He is in the honeymoon phase and has rose colored glasses still on.
So Chad, I’m looking for what “change” this guy made to find a relationship? All I see is mistakes made so early in a relationship that could bite him in the ass later down the road.
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Exactly. Click bait bs. Will stop watching this dude. And this couple is moving too fast. Train wreck in the future for this dude in the video.
This couple has a good vibe, on the surface she exemplifies maturity, I hope they take time to gel. Hope they are happy together.
sounds to perfect , time will tell . best of luck to you both .
It looks fake. Just a commercial for a dating service.
6 weeks together. And he wants her to meet his parents. Dude is another bafoon!
I bet that “baboon” makes more money with his retirement income that you make slaving at your shit job. Also willing to bet his girlfriend is prettier and a nicer lady than anyone you ever slept with.
☝️☝️Why? Parents? WHY? Meet her parents and family yes…
Why not? If he wants to learn more about her, her family dynamics is an extremely important one to learn.
@@JMC0704 I don’t think it’s fair to call Lance or any men his age a bafoom for this. Just like him, I’m 52 years old. Unlike many men who have or still lived in the USA, we all have dealt with some bs from these unruly American women. As I like to say when we are in our 4th and final quarter of life, we know we don’t have that many summers left. So, we seek for a real woman to love and be with. No games. So, time is of essence. If she is real, she go along. If she is fake, hope Lt much sooner than later, he’ll discover and dump her. One thing for sure, Filipinas are in the top 2-3 best women to be potential spouse. The issue with Philippines and most other countries globally are being infected by the matrix aka USA.
@@ropineapplehead2198yes very important.
Fireigners are bafoons if they ignore r whom her family, and their dynamics. And how he will grt involved into her family.
Almost as important as his chemistry with her.
For thry will always be part of her. And either be a strength or daggers into the foreigner marriage.
I have seen videos where the girl is always looking at her man, and smiling, and hanging on every word he says... She is in LOVE.. ... But this girl sits there with no expression, IDK if she is really in love with him or not. She looks bored. Dude, slow down, you can't see anything negative in the emotional state you are in
There’s no chemistry, when the Filipina approaches the 30’s the archetypal body clock and social pressures are immense unless she’s of a different mindset. She’s appears disconnected..very strange.
@Eric-qm5xw That's why trust is paramount. Imagine not knowing the other is actually attracted to the same gender. Concealment is misinformation, and misinformation is a lie!
Body language is hard to hide! It’s the best true communicator…
@@Eric-qm5xwhe is not her type. Different generations, no connection. She needs a guy in his 30s or early to mid 40s
Hi Chad, Enjoyed the video. Wishing them both good success in their journey ahead. Thank you for sharing…
I don't know what is more interesting.. the video or the comments! I'm amazed how many relationship psychics are here to predict the future of this couple! lol. Anyway, I enjoyed their story and hope they have a great life together. They mentioned they both have faith in God so I believe that if they trust in Him and love one another then they can continue building a strong foundation for their relationship. Many will say that there are no guarantees.. but there is one guarantee: God is faithful. And what is impossible with man is possible with God.
You can tell she’s been ran through more times than a South Texas stop sign 🛑
😢😢😢😢😢
Did not expect such a comment from you. You seemed very classy in your video.
Do background checks to make sure she’s telling the truth. There are services for this.
can you name some or give some link?
Yes how to check? What to check?
Married or not, debts, amount of kids?
Foreigners rarely do that. Theyre scared. Lol
Chat GPT is a good service
Cenomar is a certificate of no marriage, but you’ll find it hard to get the real story. Social accounts are the best way..
That's exactly what I would look for myself. Same age group. Someone who lives a healthy lifestyle with no kids. Get up early, train, eat, and the rest of the day is yours. Sounds like the perfect retirement!
The woman usually 95% want kids!
Exactly 👍 I don’t know why so many people are bagging on these two. It’s not like she’s a bar girl…
@@karlenzmann Well said.
This situationship is doomed. The awkward glances tell it all.
At no time will a Filipina thinks it’s okay to chat other girls…that won’t happen unless it’s transactional…
Pretending she’s super smart…😂😂😂😂
From Filipino comments which I agree... take your time don't rush marrying... for your own good. Get to know each other more
Lol this is so sad and cringe. Basically a commercial for a dating site 😆 🤣 😂
Ok I'm onboard with this one, not so much of a huge age gap here and they seem compatible with similar outlook/hobbies and maturity
Autistic much?
She will make a walking apology out of him in no time, she already has him asking is something wrong? Is everything okay? Did I do something wrong?
Next it will be, what did I do? I’m so sorry, can you forgive me? please…….honey…… please ….. please
😂😂😂
Remember he talked 99.5% of the interview
exactly
Blank stares the whole time does she have lead poisoning ?
He's a full blown simp
@EamonnHogan-eu3qc he is very handsome though.
I bet you have been married multiple times. Such a dumb phrase
How so?
@@Sniper416-yy8hu because it’s a word over used. Why call someone a simp? Are you them? Do you feel that bad about yourself having to call another human being a name? On top of that. I guess any relationship or and families. If a guy spends money on a relationship and for family are simps. Omg some people
yeah name calling dude says way more about you than it does your target. 🤡
Great interview. Wish them both all the happiness in the World. Blessings to them both.
The interview starts out as a train wreck with the girl looking so uncomfortable, though her demeanor improves a little bit over time. She certainly isn't acting like she's in love, but maybe she is and simply is afraid to express it? She could also be just scared to death about speaking English? They do have a lot in common and I hope what we're seeing is simply a slow start. He needs to see things from an external persective and slow down big time. She's obviously not nearly as ready for a relationship as he is. BTW, I wouldn't think this is a good advertisement for CF since the attraction is one-sided at this point.
Prenup for sure. I explained to my Filipina about prenups day one. She totally agreed to it. If she ever changes her mind in the future, I will move on. I’m in my 50’s and divorced and I will never take any more BS. My way or the highway. And my girl loves that. They want boundaries and they wanna hear “NO”. They don’t respect men who cave in all the time and say “YES” to whatever they want. Good luck to you. Be assertive but not a diq and she will stay loyal to you.
Most dont like prenump she thinks you dont trust her many see it that way filipina or not
@ Don’t offer her a choice here. Then ask her what is she worried about? You leave the marriage with what you come in with. Obviously you will take care of her but she’s not entitled to half of what you worked your entire life for. Maybe not the right type of girl. Move on. There’s plenty of loyal sweet women out there. Been through divorce, trust me. If she questions you, that’s a red flag to you.
#1 19 years is not a huge age gap, many expats are doing 30 year gaps. #2 He’s very smart and very honest and did his research and found a quality gf. #3 Almost all Filipina’s and poor from poor families, this is not to put them down but point out the obvious. They often live in very third world conditions, have never taken a flight, been on an elevator, had a car, or even had a modern kitchen and bathroom.
The main thing is a hard working Filipina with VALUES and integrity, etc. He feels he found the right Filipina and I wish them the best!
You’re a dipshi-t, 3rd world is a country politically aligned with Russia. It has nothing to do with financial development! Idio-t
19 years is quite a bit anywhere in the world. She is better off with a guy in this 30s or early 40s. Why older people obsessed with young ones
@@frontendzen4852lol, found the feminist-simp club ;)
By natures biology, Men will obviously be drawn to youthfull beauty.
Just as females will be drawn to a masculine protector, provider, etc.
Its biology.
And 20 years is not such a huge age gap if they habe strong values, not partying, etc.
@@frontendzen4852 not many 30 to 40 year successful financially stable men are going to the Philippines looking for a serious relationship, but I see your logic. Perhaps if the Philippines had more opportunities for women and men to have a middle class income then you would see less age gaps.
She looks very sad and detached from reality.
She also looks about 42
@@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in 😆
I think she look fine, a pinay at a work i had was 44 she look 32
Not really a happy look! ☝️☝️
She’s acting like a real wife you don’t speak in less spoken to yyeeeaaahhh
So many red flags, the bald guy is not the brightest
Look at you alone and jealous. Shut up you. 🤣🤣🤣
Lol he’s only been in the phil’s three months so presumably they’ve been together a couple months and she moves in blah blah. What a knucklehead 😂 a lot of guys without knowing it, are lead down the same old trap. If she had a meaningful career she would not just quit plus he is compensating lol. Lol there’s no way I was compensating my gf..she was a corporate banker in Manila 😂😂😂 these donuts.
☝️☝️Young Filipina’s get those stupid emotions going and logic and good senses have a hard time prevailing…enjoy it while it lasts and keep the budget small so it never breaks the bank!
Nice video...the best video so far for me because this guy is a lot like I am...Thanks Chad.
You can't rush it. Yet in 6 weeks they're talking marriage. Idiots.
Way to early to make the determination it is a successful relationship. Reminds me to much of insecure men desperate for a relationship, and grasp at any opportunity to keep the girl.
@@jaycockerille3227true but he isn’t married yet!
@ I do wish him the best of luck, but he needs to give it a good year or two before he jumps into marriage . LOL
too quick to get to know someone
I have a soulmate, she is from the Philippines. Funny girl, caring, Loyal and Gorgeous, no make up, when she goes out with me sometimes💋💄, 10 out of 10 Fabulous👩🏽❤️💋👨🏼💞😌, 2 languages and English, 3 👩🏽🤓. And I speak 3 languages. 10 years vegan✅♥️💪😬👱🏼♂️♥️👩🏽 plant-based. Age younger when you go plant-based, 14 years average !!. Imagine it was your dog🐶. Imagine it was your parrot😍🤗🦜🤥. Sweet potato 🍠, and sweet potato plants 🍃, cook them, and corn and brown rice etc. UA-cam delicious vegan food. Herbivores✅♥️💪😬🦍🦧🐵🐒👩🏽❤️💋👨🏼😉🤙
GREAT COUPLE/VIDEO CHAD
very needy guy
@@craig6815 i love needy simpy guys like him.
Something about American military training that makes us immune to roosters, karaoke, and traffic. Thanks for sharing.
And often, commen sense with women.
She seems very nice but please don’t ignore the red flags as they come up. 33 and never married is a unicorn already. I just ended a 2 year relationship that I should have ended after 6 months but I was enamored with having a beautiful 34 year old Filipina as a 64 year old man. Cost me thousands and thousands of dollars.
Can you share more? Did you get married? Curious to hear more. Thx
$5000 USD?
@ oh I wish. More like a $1kUS a month and much more on three family vacations.
Truth!
Should be surprised? I am 35 and if I had a 60+ partner I'd need to be paid tens of thousands to be with her 😂
Note to Self: THINGS HAPPEN FAST! ~ He said not to rush it, but 1 month in and he had met the family and they are living together....
They seem like a Terrific couple and it was really good of them to share their story and highlight some of the Tricky Steps along the way.
Chad, that was a treasure trove of info.... really good interview and editing, thanks for the hard work. Salamat po. Peace and Love, B Goat
Age does not equal wisdom. Simps will simply simp.
Such a dumb saying. I bet you have been married multiple times too
@ChaseNicholas-y1g so you simping, huh? Tell me about it...why do you feel the need to simp to get a woman?
Great Couple.. Age appropriate and made for each other..
What about you Chad, still single...😂
YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER!!!!!!!!! The only thing missing is he needs a big beautiful mustache!!!!! Great video and awesome interview!!!
Thank you both for encouraging others to follow a dream and for being willing to share your experiences with us!
With the amount of negativity in the comments and society being the way it is…. I can honestly say that means you’re probably on the right track!!! “Who dares wins!” And I’d say you’re both winning!!!
Everyone's situation is different. He took his time to look and then he met this girl. Yes, time will tell if they will last. No need negative vibes. They look like they are a match. They dont even in a hurry. Looks like they are in adjustment period. All the best. Thnx for another great video Chad.
Took his time?
Both of these people hit the jackpot. Good luck to you going forward
Chad, Wow wow! Thank You sir for doing this interview. I am in the planning stages of visiting Phils within 6 months. Hearing directly from Lance his steps, what worked, didn't work, etc. was valuable. I think the content you put out from your steps and experience is valuable too. Grateful. Lance has met a very lovely filipina and she is mature and good communication. Best wishes to this couple!
He hit the jackpot, meaning NO KIDS, never married, in the 30s which means she a little more mature than your 20s something.
FYI: I met my ofw wife when I was 28 and she was 32. Now married 32 years and counting. Life begins when you are in your 30s.❤
You get that she could have a kid hiding with grandma, right?
@@GUITARTIME2024 that could be very possible, but my statement is from what is presented in this video.
How knows the truth and we will never know their situation, because I believe this will be the only interview of this couple.
Have a nice day.
Chad great interview .. thanks for posting
she quits her job to spend Christmas with her family...she doesn't convince me much. she seems very detached from him.🙄
Oh my, so he is paying her each month, not to work and to be with him all day. And she lived in Duma for a long time before, Chad, why didn’t you ask if she had ever dated a foreigner before? Cmon man, give the people who they want to see re the interviews, throw in a few slightly challenging questions.
God yes! She could have been dating foreigners for 10 years! I have known of one who has dated foreigners for 12 years! Who would want that?
And he used 3000 dollar/month.
Cant figure out how he is able to flaunt his money so much.
Its hard to waste 3k/month outside of BGC in Manila or outside of tourist spots.
So he is leading with his wallet.
Therd is so much more to this story.
Great interview and couple.
They seem to be happy and found what they're looking for.
If it turns out to be different then what they expect, then back to the drawing board right?
As far as the all the negative, non constructive comments, which sadly are the majority...it must suck to be you.
What you put out, you attract.
@@MikejHamel 💯
Every single time I asked "What are your goals?" to filipinas on the dating apps - that was the #1 most sure fire way to never get another response again..... lol such a disaster.
She's got . Take care of my family in her mind haaaaaaaaaaa
He seems a great guy. A little aggressive/desperate. She is hard to read. She will purse her lips at times personally she’s not my type check back in six months Chad.😊
Of course the family was happy to meet him, of course…..if you know you know what I mean.
Meeting a guy with $3000 ++ budget is a huge win for her. So she doesn't mind the ex-cop gruffness.
I’m traveling to Cebu in a few weeks to meet someone I’ve been talking with. I’ve also talked with her family on video. I’m pretty confident normally but a bit nervous now. I never travel. Hopefully all goes well, she seems really sweet, intelligent, not too young either.
Been watching your videos for a few weeks Chad. You were very brave to “plant that flag” and decide to leave your life in Florida to take the risk on yourself to make UA-cam work as a supplement to your “rental empire”. Thank you for your content!
I enjoyed this interview chad and hope you can find more interviews like this in the future. I see a lot of negative comments here. None of us know anything about the situation beyond this video. Maybe it works out, maybe not. That is just life. Chad, Please tell these two i wish them a long,loving relationship.
Oh, Boy...😅
I hope you do catch up again with this couple more than once more. I am am very similar to Lance. Seems like they have a good chance of being successful together, both intelligent and open. Key is to not wear those rose coloured glasses, and quietly keep your eyes and ears open. Best wishes to them both.
You are so romantic. Lol😂😂😂
You sir are insane… this will end terribly.
Thank you for the information. I don't want to visit Dumaguete but am curious about IloIlo City and Roxas City. I do not want to get into a situation were I am an ATM.
sorta weird talking about the mating dance with other women while your girlfriend is right next to you.
At retirement age,
I just don't get why guys go 8,000 miles away in a hurry to learn EXPENSIVE LESSONS!!!
Definitely not as EXPENSIVE as the one you get in America..
@kingknights5107
That's NOT the point.
FOCUS!
🤔 body language
I think I would have gone slower. I wish them happiness.
She's playing the long game. This dude is toast
Guys please stop being so brutal.
You are both blessed
Make it to forever
WORK IT OUT 🙏🙏
Dumb-a-get-me ,,, probably second worst place to retire ,,, behind Angeles
It all depends on what you want. If you are looking for a relationship like this clown, either place is a no no. But, if you just want to pump and dump either place is good.
@@Rhandlezz If you just want to play and enjoy the Thailand has a far better infrastructure for that ,, Disneyland for men
@tilapiadave3234 I think Filipinas look better and a big plus is that they..or most speak English. But, i will work my way to thialand eventually.
@@Rhandlezz There is massive variance amongst the looks both inside Thailand and even amongst Filipinas. And men have different likes. You will find English widely spread in the ,,, lets say Entertainment areas of Thailand and how about maybe learning a bit of Thai ??? It's not a particularly hard language to speak ,, I think I had 20 words before my first visit over 25 years ago and now a few thousand. By the way i have only ever met 2 or 3 Filipina's that speak English ,, most speak a form of American not real English
@tilapiadave3234 true, I notice a lot of Filipinas act like they know more English than they actually know. You made some valid points about thialand. It's definitely on my list to visit. Appreciate the info
The trick for a long and lasting relationship is to put it in a bigger context. If you meet someone you want to take care of, that's what I mean.
This lady is so beautiful like a model. Magiging guwapo at guwapa ang anak.
Slow down
Dont rush
Is this a hostage situation - blink twice :)
Good video.
Basically, women are women doesn't matter what country, but great interview, some men luck out, other have nightmares, one UA-camr I follow is getting a diverse as we speak, just have to spend Quality Time with the person. Thanks.
Ask Geo how he went in Dumaguete with a loving relationship 🥴
Gio
@@tilapiadave3234 okay? That must be how you spell it. 🥴
@@gordon.Jacko1055 It is his name , I'm guessing he has the right to spell it as he pleases. Probably a shortening of name Giovanni
@ I don’t really care how he spells it
@@gordon.Jacko1055 Ok GERDIN
Honestly this video is so underrated. It is funny, sad and cringe all at the same time.
Very nice. I wish them well.
Filipinas in their late 20s to early 30s with no kids and a low body count are not rare. They’re pretty abundant. It’s not 90%. But it’s definitely way more than you would think. Definitely way more than here in the west for sure. You’re lucky to find Bigfoot riding a unicorn here in the west
Pretty sure that having kids before 25 is MORE common there than in the West. Also, she looks 37.
@ you didn’t really READ what I wrote, did you?….
@@WOLFSENT1i am interested in your comment if you can expand on it. I would like to try PI retirement and am 55. Not interested in 18 year old girls. I find what this guy has as extremely fortunate. Are you saying my chances of finding a similar lady is good?
@@mattclark7718 Your chances are VERY good. Perhaps not in the timeline he is talking about. But it is good, nonetheless. You cannot go in with a western mindset. What I mean by that is that you literally have to wipe the chalkboard clean as far as what you are expecting from an eastern woman compared to what you’re used to in the west. If you do that, that is a big step into finding your ONE. That being said. You can’t be an out of shape, fat pig who doesn’t care about his appearance or health. AND…The girls in the Philippines don’t look at age like they do in America. They see you as passed your playing around stages. More mature minded. More ready to settle down and be serious. When they date. They date to marry. It’s not really even dating. It’s more like courting. There’s an acronym in the Philippines that is called NBSB. Which means no boyfriend since birth. These girls have to take the lead role as the breadwinner in a lot of these families because the men are too busy playing around, getting drunk, gambling, getting girls pregnant and disappearing. Basically irresponsible pricks. Sure. There are Filipinas who will scam you out of your money. But even a dead Ray Charles has the visual sense to see that coming. You have to take your time. You have to vet these girls. Don’t go in desperate. Have an attitude where you “own the room”… but don’t be a dick about it. Confidence. Don’t pour your heart out. Don’t talk about exes. Don’t talk about your money. Even if she asks about these things. You have to say that you don’t feel comfortable talking about that because it has nothing to do with your relationship with her at this moment. The reason a lot of these girls have only had one boyfriend, and that was for, most likely, less than six months, or just outright virgins, is because they’re too busy going to school, and earning money for the family. Family is everything over here. There’s so much to unpack. There’s not enough space on UA-cam for me to describe. But, hopefully you get the gist, and let your own personality and mindset lead you into the right relationship. I wish you good fortune
Paid girlfriend. That's love for sure❤❤❤❤❤❤
Right. What dude gives a girl an allowance to quit job so soon or even at all? No wonder all these Filipinas trying to scam foreigners because they are so easy like this clown in this video.
He's new to the Philippines, yet he's another expert now on the Philippines 😂😂😂
Very informative, and I wish them the best!
Lance is very fortunate and blessed, as I imagine she is, as well. They seem on a path that I think so many of us pursue, and I think he made the absolute right decision in pursuing an older woman.
I have no particular interest in a relationship but if that changes, at 61 I would be looking for no younger than the 40 age range.
I would not take the bet these two will be together in two years
Well I for one wish them both all the Happiness in the world. They both have been independent for a lot of years and, so they will need to learn to feel each other out. She did well in finding this Man and he did well finding this young lady as well. Now you two move on with the rest of your lives together and be blessed
Great to see Dana White finally happy.
😂😂😂😂😂
Great couple
He shoulda just looked up Jen, who is now available
And as equally smart
@@patrick54847 Probably smarter. She is so amazing and came out of her shell from the time she first met Mark.
A total success story? Let’s review in 10 years.
😂😂😂😂
How about 10 months.
@@GUITARTIME2024 omg that is brutal. Plz stop. 😆 🤣 😂 😹
@@Roksella lol. I'm being generous. Look how she despises him. Rough.
@@GUITARTIME2024 😢 😭 😿 sad but true. He is very handsome. Hope he finds true love.
Video chats are important...esp since photos online most often do not look like the person you are video chatting with online.
Hate to say, another desperate man, wish them the best, but you can't fix Stupid,
There is still time to delete or reedit this 😂😂😂😂
Hard to watch.
I wish you the best.
Sorry mate can't watch this come in spinner .want u to interview him in 2 years she'll be happy 😮😮😢😢