10 TOXIC FRIENDS you need to drop right now

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  • Опубліковано 15 січ 2025

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  • @saeshell
    @saeshell  5 місяців тому +7

    mother is here with another juicy video 😌💅🏼
    ( i had to film this four times bc of an audio glitch, hope u enjoy it omg )

    • @rebecca05528
      @rebecca05528 5 місяців тому +1

      @saeshell I'm sure we will love it! And omg, that is dedication filming it four times lol

  • @aeslayy
    @aeslayy 5 місяців тому +12

    i needed this video i have so many friends that just drop me after a while

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +5

      i'm so sorry to hear that, i hope this video potentially brought you closure but remember: another door closes, another opens with a more aligned opportunity 💖

  • @rebecca05528
    @rebecca05528 5 місяців тому +9

    Yay a sit down video with shelly = heaven! Just the video I need ❤

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +2

      i love a cheeky little sit down video in amongst the chaos of my channel hehe 💖

  • @abbypaiged08
    @abbypaiged08 5 місяців тому +3

    needed this before starting a new school year, i have dropped a lot of toxic friends and am feeling a lot better honestly!! ❤️

  • @eeveefever13
    @eeveefever13 5 місяців тому +2

    the way i literally NEEDED this video. love you shelly 🤍

  • @emberk39
    @emberk39 5 місяців тому +5

    I’m rebuilding my social network after a big move …this is good reminders

  • @Givernypandalover
    @Givernypandalover 5 місяців тому +1

    Shelly! You just helped me so much! There are things happening in my friend group and this was the push i needed to drop them!

  • @EmmaNewhamCallan
    @EmmaNewhamCallan 5 місяців тому +3

    you are amazing shelly im so excited in need this

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      no you're amazing!!
      i hope you enjoyed the video hehe 💖

  • @goofygirl1448
    @goofygirl1448 5 місяців тому +3

    TYSM I NEEDED THIS!!

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      SO HAPPY TO HELP💖💖

  • @Aestheticphoebe
    @Aestheticphoebe 5 місяців тому +1

    I needed this video there is some people that is a fake friend to me and jealous of me and now I know I know how to drop them because of this video thank you Shelly ❤

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      so so SO happy i could help, fake and jealous friends are not to be held at an inner circle vibe and i leant that the hard way omg

  • @OhanaFeathers
    @OhanaFeathers 4 місяці тому

    The amount of times I’ve watched this to validate my feelings over a friend who is 5 of the 10 things in your list.
    Bestie, I wish you can just be the one to tell her to efff off outta my life. I don’t wanna hurt their feelings, but they hurt mine.

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 місяці тому +1

      don't make excuses for somebody who is purposely hurting you!! block, delete, cut contact with that lemon

    • @OhanaFeathers
      @OhanaFeathers 4 місяці тому

      @@saeshell thank you bestie

  • @jeevika_19T8
    @jeevika_19T8 5 місяців тому

    U don't know how much I needed this video!! Thakyouuuu xx U always know how to make my day 10x better! ILYSMMM ♥

  • @amyrah9546
    @amyrah9546 5 місяців тому

    Love your videos, you are spot on with all your points and highlighting the red flags haha, you are so funny ☺️

  • @arianasophia89
    @arianasophia89 5 місяців тому

    love these types of sit down videos 😊

  • @fashiondiva99
    @fashiondiva99 5 місяців тому +1

    This video is on point & I can relate!

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      i'm so sorry you can relate, people can suck 90% of the time omg

  • @Khadija-1812
    @Khadija-1812 4 місяці тому

    Thanks so much this is really going to help me when I go back to school 😊

  • @emmajane32
    @emmajane32 5 місяців тому +2

    You don't have anywhere to go do you? You're not doing anything after this?
    Me: yes, sleeping :D

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +1

      oop your sleep is vital to a healthy lifestyle, IM SORRY 😭💅🏼

  • @Jojosartstuff
    @Jojosartstuff 5 місяців тому +1

    I lost my old best friend,because of a guy.She thought this guy was more important than our friendship

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +1

      that will ALWAYS hurt and you're left feeling so confused and worthless but to put it simply, the trash took itself out for now 💅🏼😌

  • @hanprincessxo
    @hanprincessxo 5 місяців тому +2

    This is why I have major trust issues with most people 😓

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +2

      don't let bad experiences stop you from experiencing good friends💖 they are out there, this video is to hopefully help you differentiate the bad n good

    • @hanprincessxo
      @hanprincessxo 5 місяців тому

      @@saeshell 🩷

    • @princealmighty5391
      @princealmighty5391 4 місяці тому

      ​@@saeshell does this video apply to me too? Im a guy

  • @coffieartist30
    @coffieartist30 5 місяців тому

    Hey Shelly
    I’m sorry I’m a bit late
    But good video bestie it’s really teaching a lot and you’re a master of advices !!
    Btw I’m sorry for your situation with your friend I sense that you also dropped someone from your life and I hope you learn more in the future!!
    Ok love you byyyye 💖💖

  • @BrowserLook-ew5vg
    @BrowserLook-ew5vg 15 днів тому

    I definitely was in a relationship similar if not exactly like no. 2

  • @lil3-ne6vc
    @lil3-ne6vc 5 місяців тому +1

    🌷🌷love these types of vids, just finished watching

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      that makes me so happy, i also love filming this type of video 🥹💖💖

  • @samyerinn
    @samyerinn 5 місяців тому

    well this came at great timing

  • @Zoeeee-11
    @Zoeeee-11 5 місяців тому +1

    I love your vidsss❤❤❤❤

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +1

      this means the world to me, thankyou 💖

  • @thabouba
    @thabouba 4 місяці тому

    ilovee youuuu girllll all i want is a friend like youuuu🥰😍

  • @notevelynbub
    @notevelynbub 5 місяців тому +1

    omg first aha slay, i just had to watch this video lol

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      hope you enjoyed bestie!! 💖

  • @oishispamzz
    @oishispamzz 4 місяці тому

    With the tenth one i’m going explain abit about my story and why i exclude this person . So i recently joined a new school with this other girl who was supposed to be my friend but is such a bad friend ! She would never be happy for me LIKE EVER. I understand if someone is hurt and ur their friend u laugh abit then help them but there’s a point where you should understand how much pain that person is in ! I once twisted my ankle and physically couldn’t walk or even move and was crying my eyes out and this girl has the audacity to sit there laugh and walk away saying i’m over reacting! When i joined this new school i decided to make new friends and drop her but when i found new friends she slowly walked into the friend group making me feel left out ! So now i am trying to remove her from this group of friends for the sake of me and the other girls.

  • @ziaakbar2535
    @ziaakbar2535 5 місяців тому +1

    I love you so much 💗 😊

  • @kasenumi
    @kasenumi 5 місяців тому

    Just wait and see how mamy people from your friend list will contact you and just actually talk without wanting anything from you.
    You might be surprised.

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      leeches disguised as humans, they're tricky 😵‍💫

  • @Sezzy_24
    @Sezzy_24 5 місяців тому

    Shelly you might not see this comment cause I’m kinda late but I’m telling you man you really need to make a podcast because I could listen to you for hours 😊

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +1

      contemplating a podcast so so much omg

  • @BrowserLook-ew5vg
    @BrowserLook-ew5vg 15 днів тому

    I mean like not a romantic relationship but a friendship

  • @epoetrydepartment
    @epoetrydepartment 4 місяці тому

    Shelly we need a video on romantic relationships ASAP

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 місяці тому

      of course!! what would you like to know? 😌💖

    • @epoetrydepartment
      @epoetrydepartment 4 місяці тому

      @@saeshell How do you get over a situationship when you have to see them every day because you work together xx

  • @Jojosartstuff
    @Jojosartstuff 5 місяців тому

    I’m building Lego flowers for my best friends birthday gift while watching this video ✨🌸🌷

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +1

      STOPPP that's the cutest thing ever
      i was also talking about lego flowers today, i'm convinced you're a mind reader now

    • @Jojosartstuff
      @Jojosartstuff 5 місяців тому

      @@saeshell if you ever want to buy Lego flowers just be prepared for a small mental breakdown(they are hard to build and they break fast)

  • @farryiamarrium5797
    @farryiamarrium5797 5 місяців тому

    Hey loved the video but when are you going to upload a cockatiel video because i have a lot if questions i do everything that a good bird owner should do but they seem to not like me kindly make a cockatiel video!

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      hey!
      i've explained in a cockatiel video titled 'no more cockatiel content' that i will no longer be doing educational cockatiel videos :)

    • @farryiamarrium5797
      @farryiamarrium5797 5 місяців тому

      @@saeshell thanks i really love your beans i don't know the reason why you stopped making them but i will encourage you to because i love all your vids thanks again i really didn't thought you would reply but you are so sweet ❤️ love from Pakistan

  • @Praveena-j4h
    @Praveena-j4h 27 днів тому

    you're very cute and warm
    I love you and may god bless you absolutely

  • @farryiamarrium5797
    @farryiamarrium5797 5 місяців тому

    Well you don't make cokateils videos so can you recommend some birds channels I have a lot of questions

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      google is free bestie 💖 doing your own research is the most important thing you can do for your bird.

  • @pookieswift
    @pookieswift 5 місяців тому

    Shelly can you please tell me what to do I have a debating grand final and my parents are going to a concert and no one is going to watch me and I tried so hard for my speech I want to tell them but idk what to do can you please help me. ❤

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      this is a super hard situation as i can understand the importance from both parties: you want your parents support and they want to experience a concert they may never experience again. I would voice your opinion to them and talk through it, maybe you can have someone record your speech so they can still experience the moment but talk to them first and feel their vibe. if they hold zero remorse and don't care, that will be a completely outcome

    • @pookieswift
      @pookieswift 5 місяців тому

      @@saeshell thank you so much for your help. I might get my friends mum to record it for my parent. Thanks for the help!

  • @ziaakbar2535
    @ziaakbar2535 5 місяців тому

    You are so beautiful and gorgeous ❤😊

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      ohh you're too kind wow, thankyou!!

  • @lil3-ne6vc
    @lil3-ne6vc 5 місяців тому +5

    totally in need of this vid shelly- this year has been so up and down for me in terms of friends and i can’t wait to watch 🩷

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +1

      hope this helped you bestie, i'm sorry you've been having some ups and downs but it always gets better!! the trash will take itself out continuously 💅🏼

  • @EmL-kg5gn
    @EmL-kg5gn 5 місяців тому

    Omg hearing how your friends celebrated 100k with you 🥹 I’m so happy you have such good friends 💕

  • @charliecj
    @charliecj 5 місяців тому

    Babes this video is what I need right now🤍

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому +1

      this makes me so happy that i can comfort n help right now, love u!!!

  • @VlogsbyBlossom
    @VlogsbyBlossom 5 місяців тому

    This is such a good viedo🫶🏻This helped me so much!If you don’t mind,may I make a video request?

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  5 місяців тому

      of course you can!! and so happy i could help 💖

    • @VlogsbyBlossom
      @VlogsbyBlossom 5 місяців тому

      @@saeshellcould you make a viedo on how to drop friends?do you talk to them about how there acting or just not talk to them anymore?