Without A Trace: The Disappearance Of Dulce Alavez
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- In September 2019, a 911 call was made. A little girl had vanished from a park. It would set in motion an investigation into one of the most baffling missing child cases, which is still ongoing to this day.
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I don't understand how if a dog hurts a child the dog is put down, but a person gets to live on with their life.
Thank you yes.
Agreed.
People like to pretend we aren’t just animals with technology.
I mean, there are numerous arguments against the death penalty, but the most relevant is that the law is not infallible, and occasionally its straight up corrupt. According to a study by the 'innocence project'; 3200 people in America alone have been exonerated in the last 33 years. Almost 100 per year. And that's just those lucky enough to have their cases reviewed. 69 people have been exonerated from Death Row since 1973 as far as I can find, from an article in 2014, but I'm sure that number has risen. And numerous have been found to be innocent, after their execution.
Maybe that will ingrain some understanding.
couldn't agree more. well said ❤
Anyone that harms a child has forfeited their right to live.
I too believe this, if you take a beautiful little life.
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Define harm
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Agreed
I can’t believe they still have not found her or her abductor. There is definitely someone who knows what happened to her out there.
I know right
She kind of look like the girl from Pasadena that was killed while her dad was at work
Houston tx 11 year old girl murdered by a 18 yr old Guatemala
@@ivonnecancino1076yeah in a way. poor girls. 😭 so innocent and so much life ahead of them
@ivonnecancino1076 she would be 9. This happened in my area and her and my daughter went to school together. She's 1 year younger than my daughter
And this is exactly why I watch other ppl kids when they’re unattended at the park even if I don’t know them…parents leave their kids unattended all the time…idc nobody’s getting abducted while I’m there‼️
Amen 🙏🏾
@@Thelovelylifee you’d be surprised by the amount of ppl who just leave their kids and walk off smh
This! People are so reckless and then they have the audacity to say "I only took my eyes of them for a few seconds."
I worked in retail and I was the fitting room attendant for the day. A lady came in with a bunch of clothing, she spent close to 90min in the fitting room alone, not taking into account how long it took her to pick out the clothing on the floor. When she eventually came out of the fitting room she had the nerve to ask me if I had seen her child. And to be clear, it turns out she came into the store ALONE. she simply walked out of another store previously in the mall and LEFT her child there! Luckily the assistants of that store called on mall management and they looked after the child while getting police involved. She was without her child for about 4hours before she noticed.
Suffice to say, a few people handed her ass to her for her absolute disregard.
@@annieannie2887 omg😂smh
God bless you for doing that !! Those children don’t have to go through so much suffering some parents don’t understand that this world is filled with so much evil and sick people
That little angel picking up and carrying her baby brother in the store broke me bad. Such a loving big sister :'(
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That 911 dispatcher was horrible. She repeated back details to the caller and got every detail wrong.
What an incompetent operator
The mother should have corrected her.
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@@1ronin907 she shouldn’t even have to correct her she can hear the woman
Listen to the 911 call from the beginning she said "We were down at the park and someone said; "Somebody PROBABLY took her". I'm not believing this mother as she's to easily influenced. She did something with this baby!
Asking that girl what she would have done differently was cruel. Obviously, she wouldn't have taken her eyes off her kids. But all of us have looked away for a minute. We don't think someone is waiting in the shadows to snatch up our kids.
She said she wouldn’t have done anything differently, disappointing
It is the right decision to ask her as the mother .As a mother i would ask myself what could i do better for my child or for for me to her.Sitting in the car let the kids by them selfes it shows me not a mother would do it.A mother should be sitting there and have a eye on them.I let my own child go alone to her friends or play ground if she was 6 years old ( go to friends she has m old handy ,i call the mom of her friends she is going now and she has to call back if she has arrived) The playground was behind the house.But the time as my child was little was the earlys 2000 .The children has friends playing outsides with not less than 4 .We parents playing with them ,making Picknicks outside for dinner ( all the neighbour kids parents and the elderly's ..Now the most parents are -- without words!!!
We all have taken eyes off our child for a quick minute, but in her case she did it for a long ass time for her to not notice either of her children 🤦🏽♀️
@@mafalda268 english is not her first language you can tell she is confused
@@mafalda268 she didn't understand the question. You can't judge her for that.
the fact that children can’t even go to parks to play anymore without parents fearing for their safety, what a cruel world we live in.
World is sick
This is nothing new though. There's been PSA's about kidnappers in children's parks for decades. But of course you never expect something like that to happen to you, especially if you only step away for a second and there's other people around.
I agree sad 😢 my daughter is 12 and don’t let her go out alone. It’s worse since 2020 Child trafficking went way up 😢
In ancient times men could sell their children legally into slavery or god knows what else the buyers had in mind. Only fools think this world has ever been sane
kids are being sexualized and propagandized at school these days, the entire system is rotten
The mother's story has been consistent. It hasn't changed from the 911 recording. There were too many bystanders claiming to see dulce taken by other people. Also her message is the same: keep looking for my daughter. I don't believe the mother has anything to do with her disappearance
no just made a mistake and im sure is in agony over it
Why didn't she remember wat kind of shirt her baby girl was wearing that's just weird to me
@@tamikadalton4288 how is it weird sometimes I forget what I wore the day before sometimes we’re just to busy you legit can’t recall it’s happened to me before it would’ve been more dumb for her to just lie and make up an outfit.
@@tamikadalton4288 that was on the 911 call ! Her mind probably was racing! But eventually it came out that the shirt was yellow and I’m assuming that came from mom
@@tamikadalton4288 not really weird, this is actually my worry because i have the worse memory ever and just scared if this happened to me
“Would you have done anything differently that day?” The nerve. I bet she thought about that every single day
Who knows.
Thank you I scrolled down lookin for this comment cause how could u not have done anything different get out the car and watch the kids
Just seeing if she’d say anything g that would change her story.
Interesting that the operator repeated back an account that the mother did not say. She never said 2 black males threw her son's ice cream on the ground and then left with her daughter. She didn't say anything like that.
Exactly what I say..
First thing I notised.
I did a interview with the local news stating this on her 3 years. It's very important to collect all details especially during something as sensitive as this crime. The whole time the officers were probably out looking for two black males when she stated a black male and Hispanic male. I still question why wasn't there a sketch produced for the black guy yet we received two different descriptions for the Hispanic guy.
@@brenda6820 You are spot on with what you say. Here is a "possible" reason: riots, screams to defund the police, BLM burning down black businesses and neighborhoods if anybody even mentioned a black person blinking. Or blinking while black within 100 miles of a police officer. That sounds insane but sadly there may be some truth in my exaggerated examples.
@@Joanla1954 I agree and I believe at that time those things were happening.
It should never take hours before an Amber Alert is issued. Red tape shouldn't be involved when children are in immense danger.
Maybe it wouldn't have if her name had been "Amber" or similar.
@@NoBootyBeauty I do agree that responses are completely disproportionate, but I've seen recently a case where a 14 year old (white) female was missing, but couldn't do an Amber Alert because of the certain criteria was not met. Which was my initial response, in that red tape and missing children should not go together.
@hope paperwork or busywork. And I get why it’s often needed but in cases like this, it wastes valuable time.
Amber alerts have a criteria that has to be met before it is used. It has to be a child abduction involving a vehicle description. If people don’t like this then I suggest you go jump through the hoops like Amber Hagermans parents did to get a new law passed.
@Sunny bob Quackers it's not really hating on the average person it was a dig at those in positions of power who may have racial biases. Unless that includes you, you shouldn't be that offended
Just heard that reporter ask, "Is there anything you would have done differently that day?"
What a loaded, judgemental and disrespectful question. Wrong place and time to ask that. 😔
Valid question and if it saves the life of even one child and acts as a wake up call to parents, it's worth it.
Exactly you literally see that the mother has a low IQ she didn't even understand the question when she was asked if she would have done something different. She isn't smart enough to even pull off Dulce going missing she would have been caught up and im not trying to insult her intelligence but it's obvious she still has the mindset of a 14 yr old the same age she was when she gave birth to Dulce being that young she probably is traumatized and mentally stuck at that age because one minute your a kid running around with no worries and the next you give birth to a baby who depends on you for survival.
@@melinaesposito3434 I agree it's a valid, acceptable question (in some contexts) but not at that time.
@@jabellatv3240 I agree that she didn't seem to understand the question. It could have been due to a language barrier. I can't comment on her intelligence. I don't have enough information.
@@melinaesposito3434 not really valid as can’t change anything and solves nothing apart from making a devastated mother (who absolutely would do things differently given the chance) feel bad.
The only person who really knows what happened is her brother. Hopefully when he's a little older and not so scared he will remember what happened and speak up
Remembering stuff from around his age isn't easy for the majority. It's not that he's keeping quiet, it's stupid to assume that.
@@_mister_midnight i said Hopefully he remembers. Try to comprehend before you open your mouth because you look stupid. Traumatic events are easier to remember compared to daily activities like going to the grocery store.
@@_mister_midnight exactly and sometimes they start to forget things from age, plus what people talk about around them sometimes stays in their minds and covers up what they actually did remember
I have 2 girls the same age as Dulce and the little brother…my 3 year old talks but in no way could communicate if something like that happened. I doubt he will ever remember as older because children block memories when there is a traumatic experience like that.
Maybe they can do hipnosis on the little brother to remember ? Wonder if theyve done that? You would be shocked what hipnosis therapy can do
Thank you for talking about this. It happened very close to my hometown and it's like...everyone just forgot about it. People cared for a few minutes but after a few days people stopped posting about it, the news stopped reporting on it. This little girl has been failed by so many people and it's sickening.
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That second officer she spoke to on the phone was not listening at all!!! Basically pick various details and made up her own story. This is why witness evidence is so unreliable!! That phone call was literally that in action.
I was thinking the same !! She made up the story by saying @ two black men threw the ice cream in the floor and took your daughter “ that was never said by the mom the dispatcher made it up!
She was horrible! I sure hope she was fired. Can you imagine having someone like that work in that field? Nope! It wasn’t even a chaotic situation, everyone was calm, she just wasn’t paying attention or just didn’t care. 😮
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The 911 calls were obviously edited down for the video. You can hear the places where the audio has been cut. Noemi definitely have the details about the supposed black men and the ice cream herself.
Yeah she just heard black male and just completely stopped listening after that
Her poor mother is just a baby herself. She doesn't look unemotional, she looks shell shocked. Of course I don't know anything about anything that I would bet money that her mother had absolutely nothing to do with her disappearance... Heartbreaking.
She didn’t seem to sad on the 911 call
@@brandyday3101 how does one “seem sad”? There is no distinct template for emotional responses, so stop trying to police them. Some people go numb. Not everybody screams and cries. This isn’t a movie.
@@brandyday3101 Keep in mind that (from memory) English is not the mother's first language, so this may be why she sounds less emotional, if she's focusing on trying to communicate (in English) with the operator.
I grew up suppressing my emotions, crying in silence so no one knows, and feel uncomfortable being comforted when I’m sad. When my grandpa died 2 years ago, and my grandma 10 years ago, I didn’t cry and my family were worried about me. It’s just how I experience emotions. I grieve alone, privately. It’s how I function, and it’s unusual I’m sure.
People always try to talk about how people look during trauma because they watch too many movies.
Ok parents out there, let’s learn from this very sad situation: we live in a world where you can’t take your eyes off your children when they’re in your care. Let’s keep our children safe and at the same time, keep an eye out for anything that doesn’t seem right.
Always trust your gut instinct.
Amen
More specifically, if you take young children to the park - STAY with them at the play structures where you can keep a close eye on them and their surroundings. Do NOT stay in the car!!
We have always lived in that world. We just hear about it more easily because information moves more freely.
@@shastajustice3753 my kid is 7 and i still never take my eyes off. This kid is gonna hate me as a teenager heh
@@shastajustice3753 exactly
I have no words. As a mother my heart breaks for Dulce. I hope she is found.
Same
Glad you guys were able to do this to bring awareness to this little girl's disappearance. I still think about her from time to time since her story was first put out. Praying that her family gets her back safe and sound soon!♥️
This is one of the finest channels on UA-cam. The thorough job that's done, the compassion with which information is presented, and the overall concern for those affected by these tragic cases all make it a class act. I cannot recommend this highly enough.
Yes. Brilliant channel.
If you like this channel, check out "Dark Curiosities." It's just as good as this. Actually fantastic. They tell stories going back to 1800's. The really lesser or never heard of stories.
It's truly great. Again if you like this friend you'll like Dark Curiosities, I absolutely love them both.
Blessings 👑🙏🏻🕊💜
This and That chapter r my 2 fav
Yes but around the 20 min mark the mother is being interviewed and she left out the sound
Everyone else mentions these other channels as I know all of the true crime channels and no one even comes close to the level of professionalsism and production quality this channel does. This sets a new standard I think rivals anything I've ever seen on cable television.
This is devastating. I live in Texas, and we JUST had a little girl, age 7, taken by a contracted FedEx driver. He’s trying to say he accidentally hit her while driving, but no one believes that.
It’s so unbelievable how many crimes against children occur in Texas. I myself live in Austin and it’s relatively safe here. But crimes against women and children are extremely common in Texas. Especially murder/ suicide. 😢
@@leslieyoung2485 It's the laws. They're designed to kill women.
So many people try to use the “I hit the victim with my car and that’s why they disappeared” malarkey. I’ve been hit by a car and the driver got out, came to me, waited for police and the ambulance. She did not abduct me.
At worst, it’s a hit and run. Nobody buries the body. That’s just not done.
@@BeckBeckGo This dude…lied, but of course he did. One tiny piece of evidence?? The Strands’ didn’t have a regular driveway, it was circular so he saw Athena the whole time.
@@leslieyoung2485 I mean it's Texas. That's not surprising at all.b
That poor mother, pregnant and giving birth at 14, having 3 kids before she was 20, losing her young daughter at 19... I can't even imagine how traumatic and horrific this is for her
You don't have 3 kids by the time you're 20 on accident. She's clearly idiotic. Her 2 brain cells are probably barely able to comprehend what's happening.
Hispanic culture, darling.
@@BasedOkie No it’s not. How ignorant and insensitive can you be.
@@BasedOkieabsolutely not, darling. I’m Hispanic and it’s not a part of my culture. It is a part of life for all people who live in poverty, white, black, Asian, native populations whatever. Go look anywhere where are high levels of poverty are you are going to find high levels of teen pregnancy.
@@BasedOkie has nothing to do with Hispanic culture. Woman of ALL races have children at young ages!
When the mum asked the son where is your sister he pointed to the building, I don't remember any mention of anyone checking the building. This is such a sad story and still a mystery as to what happed to Dulce.
Exactly what I heard. She said she saw kids coming out the bathroom but never went in to check it.
My daughter is sleeping as I watch this, I can't help but hold her tight and feel thankful that I have her. For Dulce going missing, I promise to never keep my eyes off of my daughter for I never want to give a monster the chance to do this to her. Praying Dulce comes home soon
This is a case I don’t understand. It’s unfathomable how she vanished without a trace. Somebody snatched her when she got a little too far out of sight I think. It’s just so creepy how in a matter of minutes after buying ice cream, she’s gone.
Exactly
Someone was on the prowl and/or saw it as a crime of opportunity
Her mum is genuinely upset, I wish people wouldn’t assume she had anything to do with it.
I know, with most of these cases, the parents are involved, but you can usually tell this during interviews and press conferences. This family is genuinely distraught.
Matter of seconds, that's scary as hell
It’s unimaginable in the time of cctv and phones in every hand but it does still happen. Whoever took this baby got super lucky but I believe they will be found and brought to justice. This can’t go unpunished, it just cant
There is a case from decades ago where a little boy was literally kidnapped in front of a park full of people, including their parents. No clues. Never found. It happens, sadly.
They need to check the man in gas station where they bought the ice cream. There's a man shown twice in the video. Even watches the kids in what seems an extra long time to me
This gives me a sinking feeling in my gut, that Dulce was kidnapped by a sexual predator and is buried somewhere that no one will ever find her unless they stumble upon her bones, or that she was kidnapped by human traffickers. Globally, _1.2 million children_ are trafficked every year. It's a horrifying statistic.
Gotten out of the car and watched her children the whole time.
More children than that are abducted globally. They are easy targets in part because good parents do not get educated on how easy it is to victimize children and how to better protect them. And unfit, dangerous parents aren't turned in and monitored enough by Child Protective Services and the law. And when they are, the reunification laws give unfit parents too many chances. The mom was asked if she would do anything different and stated no. She could have
@@RLF1 I think she didn't want to admit her negligence. It's one reason people ended up pointing the finger at her. Five years old is way too young to be left unsupervised on a playground, and her brother was even younger.
1.2 million..let that sink in🥺
@@RLF1 Victim blaming is trash behavior.
Not gonna lie, there have been episides that made me cry with the narrator's words alone. If you see this, thank you tremendously for acknowledging that victims were human and deserve such compassionate recognition. ❤❤❤
Her mother is a child herself. The Hispanic culture needs to stop perpetrating young motherhood. And I speak as someone in the Hidpanic community. And the lack of education within this family is sad. The mother couldn't understand basic questions from reporters.
You sounds very stupid by classifying Hispanic ppl this way ….. there are other cultures that does that too no one is perfect
BUT YOIU? 💩💩💩
She was 14 when she had the girl? And then another one at what 16? Then pregnant again, that’s insane, she can’t even take care of one. No, I don’t think she did anything to the girl, but she neglected to take care and protect her.
That poor little girl. I can’t fathom having a child abducted, the immeasurable pain and living hell. There have been cases of victims breaking free after years of captivity, I hope she and her family will be reunited one day.
been binging watching a lot of truly criminal videos and i’d say the coverage is amazing. every last detail is told in amazing fashion. nothing ever skips a beat.
I Do Believe The Young Mother Did Do Something To Her Daughter I Just Feel It
@@michellegoodluck1829 She is acting strange. Okay english is not her first language, but still, her behaviour and aura to me is odd. WHo is she pregnant by at this moment the child disappeared ? From the same man she had Dulce by I thought he was in Mexico. Something is wrong here.
I can't believe you just posted this case. I was thinking about her just yesterday when I passed by one of the billboard that used to have her missing poster. I remember this case very well, and I have been keeping tabs on it, there's barely any progress on it. Thank you for talking about it, I feel they are barely doing something about to find her.
Have they looked into the man shown in the gas station? He watches the kids extra long the second time he's in frame.
Wow you're so cool 👏
I ran across a very similar situation when my son was 3. A little girl was left at the playground she was no older than 7 and her dad left her there while he played basketball with friends close by. Apparently he somehow forgot she was at the park and went to the parking lot without her. As people left with their children this girl was left alone in the playground. Being she was so young and alone and that i was the only adult in sight, i asked the girl if she was ok by herself before i left with my son. Some kids play alone and i get that but i just thought id check in to make sure everything was ok before i left such a young child alone. The girl said "im ok my dad is over there.." and she realized everyone at the basketball court was gone and she started to panic. I told her id help her and she was safe despite her starting to cry. The police subdivision was next to the park so i took her there and the police eventually got a call from the dad, who returned ONE HOUR later about the girl being missing. The police said she was at the station after being left alone at the park and asking for help to find her dad.
How nice of you to help her i am the same way if i see a small child with no one around i also help them and not leave them alone i feel i no they are safe with me till we can find their family. A few years back i was walking up to my mail box and i saw this cute 2 year old boy he was African American he was bye his self he came up to me since i had a little dog i let him pet her. Then i watched to see if his mom or dad or brothers or sister would be coming to look for him no one came and i could not leave a 2 year old alone so i took him bye the hand and took him to the office here at my apartments to see if they new who's kid he was or where he lived. We took him back where i found him and let his hand go and he ran right to his apartment.
Back in the late 80s and early 90s, I spent a lot of time at the basketball courts with my dad as well. Thank God he never left me because I would’ve lost my mind
The mother said she was “sitting” in her car while her children played in the park. That’s the first wrong thing that happened in this tragic case. As a parent, when your child is playing in the park you need to walk and stand in close proximity of them to keep a close watch on them. That mother should have never stayed in her car. 4:39
Give her a break.
Thank you captain obvious, it’s because we live in a sick country that we are at the point where we need to hold onto our children in fear, every where they go, including schools.
@@toothless2690No! She should’ve NEVER allowed her kids to play while she sat in the car and scratched off her lottery ticket while her sister did homework!! Also in a very impoverished area where kids go missing every day due to trafficking, etc. NEVER! I didn’t let my kid play in backyard by herself, a fenced in backyard in a decent neighborhood, bc of horror stories like this. It was very irresponsible of her, period! Do I feel bad? Yes, I do but it’s also maddening bc it didn’t have to happen!!
@@kenzierocks1240she went through enough there's no need for more internet warriors blaming her for something she already feels immensely guilty for. Also a fenced area in a decent neighborhood? She was a very poor teenager where the hell would she find those things?
@@roserand639 it’s obviously not so obvious because people do it all the time
Dulce's mother was 14 when she had her. Children having children is never a good idea. My heart goes out to her.
Three kids by age 19... My heart breaks for her.
@@missychan63 childhood cut short… it is too young 😢 I’m not saying being younger makes for a bad parent.
Poverty and lack of education causes so many problems, one of them is underaged mothers.
@@OrangeCat1992 also lack of affordable birth control and little to no sex education.
@@Cajuux yep. 100%.
The 911 caller interrupted too soon when the mother was trying to explain. Also, the 911 caller stated 2 black men instead of 1 black man and a Mexican man, as the mother stated. It is very very crucial to learn how to listen especially in these situations.
correct 911 is crap in america
She didn’t correct then either
@@introvertsunite7414how could she on that moment she’s probably in shock
EXACTLY. First Responders are the worst! Ignorant.
@@introvertsunite7414 She actually did.
She sent a 5yr old and 3yr old alone onto a park while she sat in a car and she doesn’t know if she would do anything different? That really confuses me.
She didn't even remember what her child was wearing, hmm
I don't think she's very bright!
Absolutely- I’m only halfway through but not convinced at all the mother isn’t involved. I’ve never had such an instinctual feeling about a case.
I think she was a very immature 19yo, who’s first language wasn’t English and probably didn’t finish high school. I’m mixed on whether she’s involved, but I’m sure she’d have responded very differently if she had different life experiences. I’m also convinced, but for covid the investigation wouldn’t have lost momentum. It’s the child I feel for .
she’s uneducated, very clueless.
Never take your eyeballs off your child,especially in a public place,and especially in todays world. Child predators are all around,watching and waiting
My prayers are with this family🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Or in this case, put your eyeballs on your child...for more than a second
Wow! There’s some really terrible presumptive nasty comments here. The mum is young, but as parents, haven’t we all had a lackadaisical moment! Because I know I have. Thankfully without anything as awful occurring. There’s a 5 year old child missing, gone without trace. And whilst I don’t particularly believe everything that’s come out of Madeline MaCaan’s parents, at the end of the day it doesn’t alter the fact that Maddy’s still missing. Or maybe there’s people who blame little James Bulgers mum for turning her back to pay for her groceries! Ffs people, stop being so insensitive.
In a better, nicer world, children should be able to play on a park, near their homes etc; Unfortunately we live in an evil, vile world where children are not safe, not cherished, protected and loved as they should be! My belief is, you give up your human rights the moment you grossly harm or kill a child, an elderly or disabled person!
Yes, this! 👏🏼👏🏼
Brilliantly put 👏🏻👏🏻
I cannot imagine year after year going by and not knowing where my daughter is. I know this rips her family's heart out every single day. I hope this family gets answers soon. 🙏Prayers ♡🥺
This case hurts my heart so much. It's also one of the reasons why I don't let my kids out of my sight. There are monsters lurking around every corner. I'll never stop seeing Dulce's face and never stop thinking of her and her family. I feel for her mama. 😭
I've been hoping a big channel would cover this story, it happened close to my hometown and we got a lot of the coverage on the news. I've always thought the biggest hurdle in finding her was getting information out. I felt, and still feel, so bad for Dulce's mom, she was only a kid when she had a baby, only nineteen when Dulce disappeared. How's any teenager supposed to deal with that?
She was on Dr Phil. I hopes that kind of press would bring in some more tips.
How can you feel bad for her? She kept getting pregnant, completely ignorant of her not being able to take ofcthose kids that SHE those to bring in to this world!!!!! Does any of those kids even have the same dad? She took (takes) absolutely NO responsibility AND even let two kids UNDER the age of 5 out alone without her having eyes on them. Just no!!!! If she had taken care of her kids, her daughter would still be here. We HAVE to not accept this poor behavior !!!!!!!!!
@Negle Lir I think you have to think about how at 13 she got pregnant and when reading her statement, sounds like she is struggling to read so likely didn't finish school which helps people mature socially, morally, etc. With their peers. When girls have kids it stunts a lot of things and when you are 14 or even 19 you are still at an age where mistakes are inevitable. Victim blaming is not OK. It doesn't matter how she's made mistakes along the way, she bought her kids ice cream and brought them to a park, she deserves to have her child taken because she keeps getting pregnant?? Ridiculous! No one deserve their child taken from a park no matter how Crappy you think their parenting skills are.
I'm a wonderful mom and you think my eyes are on my kids 100% at the park? No! Cuz parks are for kids and yeah maybe she should've checked more but she was 19 with probably the mentality of a 14-15 year old. Stop victim blaming
@@NegleLir wow, how can you think this way?
A 13 year old is a CHILD. A CHILD. PERIOD. Children have 0 responsibility for birth control or educating themselves about avoiding pregnancies because - and this is important - NO ONE SHOULD BE HAVING SEX WITH CHILDREN!!!
As a child she could not consent and whoever sired her first 2 children is a RAPIST.
It doesn't matter one whit if the fathers of her children are the same; what matters is that this CHILD was repeatedly raped (since she couldn't consent) and was left to raise children when she was still a child herself.
A child has no concept of child rearing nor is it their responsibility. It is the responsibility of the parents and schools to teach them about predators, about sex, and about choice, and it's incredibly important to have resources available for a child who is sexually assaulted, like rape counseling and medical care. She wasn't even old enough to comprehend the impact having children would have on her mind or body or her whole life.
Victim blaming is not okay. What a shameful comment you've made.
Are the parks not gated down there ? i know in jersey city nyc all gated meaning one way in and one way out so it makes it hard to wonder or be snatched
I’m from NJ. I remember when this happened like it was yesterday. I was living in south Jersey at the time & I was always looking around in case I saw her. I hope she’s found one day. 🥺💔
So many people in the comments judging and claiming “no parent would ever take their eyes off their kid for that long”. You’d be surprised how incompetent some parents can be so, no.. “no parent” is incorrect. And we also seem to forget that Noema is a literal TEEN parent, a mom of THREE at 19 (unfortunately, lack of sexual education, lack of reinforcing the importance of protection to avoid being parents so young when you’re not ready and lack of accessibility to more dependable methods of BC/protection are at fault for that). While also being a part-time guardian to her younger siblings. Expecting teens to be perfect parents who make no mistakes, when there’s literal adults with full developed frontal lobes doing similar shit or worse INTENTIONALLY is ://// I don’t think she intentionally sat in the car hoping one or both of her two children that were running around would get kidnapped. Clearly they go to the park often, it was a part of their routine at some point in their days. That day just sadly happened to be the day that whatever evil was lurking in the shadows.. keeping tabs on them, finally decided to make a move.
When I checked my mailbox this week she was on the missing section of the grocery ads, here in CA. Can’t believe 3 yrs have already passed by.
I’ve seen her mentioned over the years and every time I do I’m like “I should look more into that one” and I always forget to. Glad you guys did this, it’s the deep dive I needed. Sending love to Dulce’s loved ones, their community, and to you guys ♥️
My heart breaks when I keep hearing stories of child abuse, abduction, cruelty, and murder. She would be 9 this April, and has been gone almost half her life. My condolences and love are with the family!! ❤️
I always come back to this case, hoping there's a positive lead. I wish all but love to her relatives for this hardship.💗
I love how this channel cover cases I have never heard of. Always shining a light on the stories provoke thought and empathy. Praying for Dulce 🙏🏿
@yvie I Agree🥰❤️
Do you really need to be provoked to think and care??
Exactly I Completely Agree I'm So Glad I Somehow Stumbled Upon This Amazing Channel With So Much Newish Content!! 👍🏾😍😍🥳🥳🥳😍😍👍🏾
Love the narrator's voice. Agree, great Chanel
The poor little one that went missing and also her mum and bruva for having to go through something like this!! My heart goes out to all three of them!!
The mother should be charged with child neglect. Sending her 5 and 3 year old alone to the playground while she stays in the car "scratching lottery tickets"...... how f****** irresponsible! 😠
Love this channel and the respectful way you treat victims of horrible crimes. Much respect for not glorifying the murderers you feature and instead titling the video to honor the victims instead.
I wish the captioning for these videos were written by humans instead of auto generated. During the press conference, she's asked how she's doing and she says, "Worried. About my daughter" but the captions say "Worried about my bottom".
Millions of people around the world have partial or full hearing loss or auditory processing issues and depend on captions and subtitles (they aren't the same) but very few content creators make their videos accessible to people with hearing issues by uploading a transcript.
I know you put so much effort into your videos and my request adds to your workload but please consider it, as it helps so many people.
Thank you, and have a lovely week!
Thank you for bringing this up. So many people don’t understand how it is for those of us who have hearing issues. I’m thankful that the captions are much much better than they used to be on UA-cam but it’s still would be nice if they were accurate.
Please understand I’m not knocking this creators content. She does a wonderful job compared to so many other and seems to be very consistent when she digs into a case. Her facts are always researched extremely well and she’s very sincere when it comes to the victims and their families. That’s something I appreciate most about this channel. You can really tell she cares a great deal about the cases she works on. So I thank her for all of the hard work she puts into everything she covers.
Happy holidays everyone take care 👋🏻
This poor mother 😭 people are so damn cruel, her baby was taken and everyone wants to blame her, which does nothing. She is doing enough of that herself, either shut up or get out and help her! I want to wrap my arms around her and huge her so tight. :( Prayers her baby girl is found! ❤️
I feel the same way. My heart breaks for her. The mob seems to love to point fingers, and like you said, all it does is direct eyes away from the actual perpetrators.
So I’m copying and pasting my comment I posted on the post above yours. But this!!! Thank you for saying exactly what I was thinking, I just wasn’t sure how to word it and you did it perfectly 🙏
We are not here to judge the mother, that doesn’t help bring her baby back. We are here to spread information and hopefully someone has seen something or knows something and comes forward.
I hope and pray that Dulce is brought back home safe! No one should be talking so badly about the mother the way I see some of the people in these comments are. It pains me to read those type of comments, so just imagine how the mother feels. She’s already being hard on herself, no need to kick someone while they’re down. For God’s sake, she even said she doesn’t leave her house much anymore because she’s afraid of what might happen. Let’s all just be positive and hope this baby gets home to her family where she belongs.
I had my daughter a week after I turned 19, and she's 5 now, I find that stories like these end up touching me just that little bit more when you can put yourself in the position of a parent who loses a child around the same age. I feel for that poor family. I don't believe the mother had anything to do with it, considering her sister and son were both there too. Young parents make mistakes (as do older ones!) and you cannot do everything perfectly. It terrifies me how in just a matter of seconds something can happen to your child.. Kids are fast, they can run off, they might not be old enough to comprehend stranger danger yet. It breaks my heart to admit that I don't think poor little Dulce will be found alive, but I pray that this family gets some closure and find out what happened to her. 💞
Amen
So sad!!! It's been over 3 years😞😞😞 we wonder what could have happened to her and where she might be. Our strong prayers for her safety and wish she will be found soon.
I saw a comment where LE is of suspicion she was sold. One commenter stated she lives in area and parts of it are impoverished and it’s not unusual for kids to go “missing” for trafficking., etc., whether abducted, sold. I’m not accusing her mom just stating a few comments I’ve seen. I, personally, believe she has been abducted and trafficked.
@@kenzierocks1240 yeah, there could be the possibility of her abduction, or may have been trapped in trafficking.
All your cases are so well researched & so brilliantly presented, with compassion & real respect for the victims! Keep it up.
This case still breaks my heart and the fact she was likely trafficked. You can't take your eyes off your kids for a minute.
I remember when this happened and was on the news. Hoping to hear there was an end that I must’ve missed. Sadly, this case is unsolved. Hopefully this video will bring some awareness again so she can be found safely.
It is beyond disgusting the way people behave to parents of missing children.
Not every single child is hurt by a parent, the attitude about this needs to shift.
My heartbreaks for Dulce's family but even more so for Dulce herself.
I really hope she is found one way or the other.
Statistics and proven facts do not lie. I know it's very confronting and abnormal, but many parents have physically harmed and murdered their children. It's horrendous, but it happens.
It’s like a 12 times more likely that a child is killed by a parent or someone close than by a stranger. But of course, reckless speculation doesn’t do any good. This case doesn’t look like a cover up, like other high profile missing or murdered kid cases. It doesn’t appear that the mother had anything to do with the disappearance.
@@melinaesposito3434 You don't just go accusing grieving parents of that tho
@@melinaesposito3434yes but you’re in no position to accuse grieving parents of this with no evidence it’s just tacky. It reeks of people who watch too much true crime and play at detective. Sure, parents have been guilty in cases like this but there’s just as much if not more times where it’s some random psycho predator who doesn’t get found until they’re elderly 10 years later
I think people are more concerned with what has happened to the child than the feelings of the parent who might possibly be involved in the child being harmed. Doesn’t make it right, just a possible reason for why people do that.
Also, I think because this mother was only 14 when she first started having babies and appears to be lacking in education, she doesn’t quite know how to respond to questions and didn’t seem to understand simple questions being asked of her. Because of that it gives off the appearance that she’s callous and uncaring.
While I won’t condemn her for any of that, and I won’t directly point fingers. I also won’t write off the possibility that she could be involved. You just never know.
Thank you for posting about Dulce. I think about her constantly.
They need to install CCTV at every playground
This is why you NEVER let your children out of your sight! Never..
Wow, I looked at the newspaper a few days ago and thought to myself how I couldn't believe she was still missing. I'm in CA so honestly I thought she had gone missing here and not NJ because I see her missing persons section on the newspaper often. A little eerie seeing this video uploaded about her but it did answer my questions about what happened and how she went missing. So sad
How strange you thought she was from your home. I could have sworn her family was from a large city in my state. It also shows that sweet girl has not been forgotten and people still think of and look for her every day. Her mother went through so much in just a few short years and at such a young age. This entire story is a tragedy, but we haven't given up.
Criminals who target children are the worst kind. They deserve harsher punishment than our justice system can ever impose.
I was just praying for Dulce yesterday when I received my “junk” mail- her sweet face was on the missing children’s section 😢 💔
She left her 5 and 3 year old alone in a park to go sit in her car to scratch a ticket??? Smh
Then watching and listening to her interviews… totally incompetent woman
She’s probably with her dad in Mexico
She is
No matter what, she failed as a mom. This is why immature teens should not be having babies, when they are just babies themselves.
Praying for Dulce. Her poor mother looks as if she hasn’t changed her clothes or showered in two weeks and I completely sympathize with her. Losing a child is my worst nightmare. God keep Dulce safe and return her safely to her family. Watch over her family and give her mother strength to get thru this. Amen.
Amen 🙏🏼
what a weird thing to have an opinion on worthy of a comment out of everything hhmmm each to their own
Thank you both for your hard work on each case
Does the man appearing TWICE, in gas station video, stand out to anyone else?????
Yes!!! He's looking at the kids too hard and for too long
@@tracey8698He needs to be identified, found and questioned.🤔🕵️♀️
What about the guy just looking at them while they’re in the gas station? Was he investigated? He looked suspicious and could’ve followed them
Was he Mexican or what?🤔🕵️♀️
I’m always paranoid when I go to the park with my son. We live in a sick world. I’m always observing everyone in the park and looking for any red flags or any person looking suspicious who should not be there watching children. I never leave my toddler out of my sight. All it takes is one split second for someone to kidnap a child.
I worked for a dentist here in SC. This was 25 years ago. He had a very good colleague that lived about 150 miles away in upper SC. His colleague had a hygienist who was asked by a couple of her girlfriends to take a girls trip with all their kids to Disney World in Florida. The hygienist’s daughter was 4. They were in Magic Kingdom and they all stopped bc they saw some acquaintances so were all standing around talking. The hygienist’s daughter was there…mom got distracted briefly with talking and she turned around and her daughter was NO WHERE in sight. She immediately started screaming. If you don’t think there’s security people walking amongst everyone there, think again. Three plain clothed security guys scooped her up and took her underneath the park where everything is being monitored. The whole time taking her below they told her “DO NOT look for anything but her shoes” - reason being most abductors don’t have time to change their shoes. She had on the sneakers that lit up when she walked. They started scoping the crowds on camera monitors and decided to focus on the main exit of Magic Kingdom. Don’t you know her mom saw her. She saw her shoes!! They had put a hat on her head. They caught a ring of 15 people who had probably been watching her for a while and when her mom turned her back they made their stealth-like moves. Her mom had a nervous breakdown and took her several months to get back to work. If she had made it out of the park, that would more than likely have been it. She would’ve never seen her again, doubtfully.
We took my daughter there when she was 2 but she was mostly in stroller but even so still have to be very cautious. I always briefed my husband the couple of times that we’ve been since she’s gotten a little older “just remember, if anything happens look for her shoes” LOL. I’ve heard it said that it’s not uncommon at all for child traffickers to acquaint places like Disney World where quite naturally there’s going to be small children. It’s terrible!
In cases where children go missing, I find it frustrating and tbh infuriating that people just turn up and start walking around. Yes, I *COMPLETELY* understand these strangers want to help but hundreds of folks walking around destroys scents for dogs and potential evidence. I don’t think anyone should go walking until the police announce it’s okay to do so. I sincerely hope this little girl is found safe and well and those responsible for her disappearance are punished accordingly. 💛
I raised 4 kids when they were little I never let them play outside unless I was at arm reach. This was always my bieggest fear, having my child abducted. I can’t imagine what her parents are going through.
yeah and why is it that we have to live in fear of our own species?
@@thefox8915it’s likely the vicious cycle of abuse that needs to stop. Females who were victims to human traffickers later help them in abducting other children for money as just one example. As a human race we need to be better at preventing such things while making sure not just our children are safe but others.
Poor Dulce. She HAS to be found, and justice served. Just hope it doesn't take another decade or 2, the lack of evidence is frustrating 🙏🏽
I still go with my 9 yr old son to the local park too much evil around
Thank you so much for keeping little Dulce’s story out there this is my hometown where I currently reside and I remember this like yesterday so heartbreaking it unfortunately happened right on my little girls birthday same age so I will never forget it or her I just wish she could be found safely and returned to her loved ones so many holidays and birthdays have passed with this little sweetheart lost it’s really sad.
Who is the man in the gas station? Is he local?? He needs to be identified IMO.
Love this channel, narrator voice so soothing. Thankyou.
I'm glad you've covered this case. Only 2 days ago I thought about her but couldn't remember her name. So thanks @Truly Criminal for bringing this to the forefront of missing/ abducted children. 💯❤
It’s sad but you can’t leave you’re child in the park to play. Evil is everywhere.
Then they might have abducted the younger sister from the car, sometimes you can not be everywhere having eyes everywhere with 3 kids to watch by themselves ☹️ kids disappear in seconds
The younger sister was eight though. Which makes me question why have the sister in a car to do homework while the kids are playing? Why not have them all together playing so you can keep on eye on them...instead of sitting in a car so far away making the sister do hw.
@@belladonna5904Your question is mine too. It made no sense, to me, to let the youngest kids out to play while the mom’s 8 year old sister had to do homework. Strange. I think she was abducted and trafficked, sadly. If so, can’t accuse mom of having anything to do with it without proof. I think she was just very young and naive yet working on third child, at the tim.
Someone said put cameras in parks. That's a great idea. A predator is going to hunt for victims where they gather. And a park always has kids. We really need to do that.
I feel so sorry for the Mom.. she literally loves her babies and anyone with a brain could see that. She’s a young mother and sometimes as young mothers we do things lazily. I may never have sat in the car while my kids played at the park but I know for damn certain my mother did! There was numerous times I should have been taken as a child, my parents just lived in a morman area and assumed everyone was good... my point is that she loved her daughter! She was pregnant and probably tired and still took her kids to the park, that was a commendable moment on her end. I’ll be keeping this family in my prayers 🙏🏻❤️
I agree. It bugs me so much like my god how many of us as parents maybe had screwed up too. But the ones running her down must be the perfect ones. I think for her age she was doing well. I many times sat on a bench and let my kids play …………. This abduction happened fast so the brother and the mom don’t know what happened so they all need to quit the negative comments and look foe this child
@@sharonbrown6595 yeah I agree , it's like haven't she been thought enough ! Often people are more mad at the parent then the actual killer🙄everyone is perfection in the comments
With all due respect, you don't need to use the word "literally" in relation to a mother loving her children. Who are you trying to convince?
Are you shitting me? She was more bothered about scratching a scratch card in the car than looking after her kids at the park, she sounded like she was ordering a pizza on the 911 call so calm and relaxed and didn't even know what colour top her daughter was wearing. Fk the mother she's a waster and should have the other kids taken off her and be rotting in jail for neglect. You people have all your priorities upside down.
@@sharonbrown6595 not perfect and don't claim to be but never say in a car and let my kids run off to a park so I can't see them that's neglectful and she should be charged as such.
There are some disrespectful comments toward Dulce mam on here, I hope your never in this situation, my heart goes out to Dulces mam and family. I hope Dulce is found asap. Another respectful upload
My daughter would be calm like that. The worse things are the more she just freezes. Everyone would think she was cold but that’s just how she has always been.
Bet when she's alone it's a different story. I'm the same, come across cold and some say aloof but when I'm on my own all the emotion comes flooding out. Think in my case I was conditioned that feelings are weak and that tears show your weakness. People are so judgemental, we all react differently and at different rates. I'm sure Dulces mother is totally broken but has to keep strong because of her other children.
I'm the same way. Throw in social anxiety like a microphone or a gathering crowd (like at the press conferences), and I'd probably be struck mute entirely. Seeing that she was going days afterward without changing clothes or washing her hair, it's so clear that she was going through emotional hell. It's horrendous that in the middle of every parent's worst nightmare, she also had to handle people blaming and accusing her, too. Breaks my heart. 😞
Yes everyone reacts differently to shock. I’ve lost sight of mine shopping once I was an uncontrollable mess screaming like a banshee like some had died-which was no use to anyone. So I don’t know no which is better. But I do know you can’t judge someone on their reaction everyone reacts to fear/grief differently.
It's also likely because Dulce's mum is translating everything said, as English isn't her first language, so it takes a moment to process, think of a response, translate that into English, and respond.
I love your videos so much!! Problem is...I've watched ALL of them (except most of the unsolved ones). Keep doing what you're doing!!
This case impacted me, after a couple of years I come back to it. Ever since this incident I have never gone and don’t plan on going to a park alone with out my husband or more relatives. My husband was the most paranoid. My baby girl just turned 5 this year. So this impacts me even more.
I hope she knows we haven’t t forgotten about her. Praying she’s ok.
Whether at home or out and about, never lose sight of your children.
Incredibly heart wrenching. May they all find answers and peace one day
Thank you for such a compassionate telling of this sad story.
She will be 8 on April 25th. Prayers to her and her family. 🙏 I hope she comes home soon.
Hey. I truly respect this video. Thank you for the great content. I’ve never pointed that out. ❤ for Dulce
I think the mom knows more than she's saying. There's just no emotion at all ever in her voice. Even her body language is relaxed.
No, I don’t think so. English is not her 1st language and people react different to trauma. There’ are rules on how to behave when you are in a stressful situation.
This case is one that just went quiet😢💔I remember when this happened,I received an amber alert and am so saddened that she has still not been found or even any updates have kept the case in the limelight! Thank you as always for your hard work and the fact that you covered her case as many have not💔
My husband has 2 brothers missing now for 4 years. This has broken him many many nights. I can’t imagine a mother loosing her child. Unbelievable
Whilst I feel desperately sorry for the mother it does show that someone so young isn’t always equipped to be a parent. I’m sure she feels guilt for not being within sight to the playground when Dulce was abducted. It’s a sad indictment of society that you simply can’t leave a child even for a moment. I hope this story will ultimately have a happy ending.
Exactly !!! Sad reality
You don't feel sorry her at all. You just wanted to cast your judgement.
Nigel Bond 💯
@@liliesrnice NO, I DO! She continues to have 2 more when she can't even take care of the 1st she had! PLUS I'd be more sympathetic if they're here LEGALLY!! Many of us came over the right way! They want to break U.S. laws & then expect to be treated as regular citizens? How about all those that are waiting in line? Jennifer, try going to another country & getting food stamps, medical care, housing & money. You must be one of the uneducated kids coming out of 'colleges'. I feel terrible for the 5 yr old but NOT the family!
f#ck off with the victim shaming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That CCTV in the shop buying treats right before they get to the park is so heartbreaking..,she's happy and playing around not knowing she will soon be gone from her family...absolute devestation 😥😥
No one spoke to this girl about birth control?
People take grief differently, people should understand that.