Questions Girls Are Too Afraid To Ask Guys (Pt 2)
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- Опубліковано 6 кві 2020
- ‘Questions Girls Are Too Afraid To Ask Guys (Pt 2)’
Welcome to part 2 in our series where we answer hot topic questions that girls are often shy about asking. Bring Em On!! Thanks for all the zesty and vulnerable questions you guys wrote in! Be on the lookout for part 3. As usual, we’re having fun while being open and honest. Let us know what you think!
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I have a couple questions:
Do guys think about the girl they like a lot?
Are there any signals guys give when they like you? Even unintentional signals?
You guys are the best!
@@christyn1459 as a guy I can say yes. if a guy has a crush then she's on his mind all the time. There are different signs (ex: I stutter a bit), most talk about dating w her and go out of their way to be around you. Some seem nervous and some are harder to read
have you guys addressed how rape or sexual assault affects your purity? I have watched quite a few of your videos about purity and sex but I have not seen anything about that specifically. I think that's a really important subject for a lot of women and men who feel broken because of an experience they didn't consent to.
Great Video.. Thank you!
I have a question for part 3
What do you men think when a girl they are dating asks them to delete certain females or Males (inappropriate pictures, language etc) from their social media? Thank you :)
I have a question: Do guys like it when girls speak up about how they feel about them? For example: I like my guy friend but I'm not sure he likes me back. Is it worth the jump? Especially senior year? And quarantine? (This separation but still texting them)
For me, as a guy, the first thing that I notice is technically looks, but I don't think about a relationship with someone based on looks, though. I might be like "oh, she's attractive", but then I go about my day. However, a girl's mind is the part that hooks me. Like, if she can have deep philosophical conversations and share theological insights, that's INCREDIBLY attractive! (For me)
AJ For Short ..well said brother 👍🏿
I think a lot of Christian women would say the same thing of men. :)
@@kayleenchenette7180 for sure!
@@devinrivers5808 thanks!
AJ For Short thanks for sharing bro!
We need to see this sweater.
yessss
Konami haha
Riiiggghhhtttt?
I found you guys through another UA-camr that isn’t a fan, and didn’t care for Paul at first because of preconceived notions. Now, I’ve binged your videos and I think Paul is a beautiful soul and a true man of God. God bless 😀
Did you find them through JaclynGlenn?
Mary Loves Makeup77 awe haha glad to hear that😊😊
I found them through Jaclyn Glenn too but I disagreed with everything she said and as a christian, I watched some of Paul and morgans videos and was like "hey this is a good christian channel!"
I love this comment. There's so much hate out there.
@@PaulandMorgan Hey somebody made a video you 2 and Jaclyn Glenn
Watch and respond to it
ua-cam.com/video/VJadzgz90EM/v-deo.html
As a Christian single guy, I agree with pretty much all of Paul's answers. The only thing I would add about a girl having a career is that I would be more looking to see what kind of work ethic she has and how she goes about her current job, more than I would does she have a good career. It would be comforting to know that you have a spouse who is a hard worker and you know she will always do whatever it takes to help out her family.
Blake Weaver interesting! Do money care how money money we make? Do they care if we are in a leadership role?
@@anncoron6562 For me, her income wouldn't play a major factor. Now I wouldn't be opposed to sugar mama. lol But I have my own job, so I'm not to concerned with how much money a girl makes. I've personally never had one of my friends say this was a big deal when they first met their wife or girlfriend.
I guess it depends on how you define a leadership role. If that means she wears the pants and makes all the decisions, then NO! But I personally don't believe the man should be the dictator style leader either. I've seen some guys go this route in their marriage, and they have a lot of issues because of it. God created a man and woman to work together in the book of Genesis. That is why God refers to Woman as a helper in Genesis 2:18. (Gen. 2:18 (ESV) - Then the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.) The word helper is used about 20 ish times in the bible. 2 times it describes a woman, and the other 20ish times it is used to describe God. Do a study on the Hebrew word for Helper "`ezer" in this passage, it is very fascinating. In my own opinion of course.
I think good leaders know when to lead, and they know when to follow. You have to be good at both in my personal opinion. I naturally like to lead so for me this is the role that I would want to take on in marriage one day, but I also realize there are going to be areas that she will be better at than me. Leadership is not about having the only say, but knowing how to come to the best outcome by working with the people you trust around you. (Spoken like someone who is not married, so this all sounds rational in theory. lol) If I met someone who was very domineering and trying to lead me all the time, for me personally that would not be a good fit.
Definitely agree! Good insight, Blake!
@@louisaclarke3286 Thanks.
Blake Weaver thanks for the insight!
Song of Solomon is pretty steamy...
“Your teeth are like a flock of sheep Which have come up from the washing; Every one bears twins, And none is barren among them.” 🤤🥰
Miss Ellaneous haha😊🔥🐑🐑
Miss Ellaneous Here’s a kind long but super interesting commentary on Song of Songs ☺️. It definitely explains why it’s in the Bible because I was really confused what it meant haha
ua-cam.com/video/sdBygBvTSOc/v-deo.html
“Until their future wife makes them trim the bushes” 😂😭😭😭
Abigail Torres that had me dying omg
Abigail Torres 😂😂
Can we bring Michael in for part 3??
Hannah Salyer Great Idea!!!
Hannah Salyer he said he’d be willing to consider it😁👌 haha
Hannah Salyer yes we love Michael too !!
social distancing tho !(:
Yes, Michael for part III
have you guys addressed how rape or sexual assault affects your purity? I have watched quite a few of your videos about purity and sex but I have not seen anything about that specifically. I think that's a really important subject for a lot of women and men who feel broken because of an experience they didn't consent to.
This is a video from Emily Wilson that talks about this a little. I love her perspective and the kindness and sensitivity with which she handles this subject.
ua-cam.com/video/r82MQECtwug/v-deo.html
@UA-cam Responder thank you for posting the exact source material; i know where to look for more information. i, too, am frustrated by seemingly systematic aversion to this topic. jewish interpretation of the Torah laws tends to agree with St. Augustine in this manner. in light of Passover, i've recently learned a few interesting bits of consent and where/how women celebrate Passover. there's a lot more freedom than one would think in this situation, and Passover is understood to be one of the pivotal high holidays for women.
if i may summarize years of jewish, rabbinic, and Torah studies, Passover is a holiday where the participants receive love and protection; it's a holiday of receiving, not giving. women are believed to be called to receive gifts of love and protection in a special way. out of the abundance of the gifts (love, attention, conversation, affection, etc.) received, women are then able to give and share of themselves. a practical example provided by a teacher of mine was after she received the gifts of her students attending class, participating, completing homework assignments, etc., she was able to give better feedback on papers/tests, explain things in a manner those specific students would understand, alter the lesson pacing, and so on.
i know it sounds kinda weird as how i'm explaining it, but it's the best i can do right now.
Yes! 😭 Please address this. Ever since Nate from the Nate and Sutton channel said he really wanted a virgin wife, and was so happy to have found one, I've been left feeling a little low because I was sexually abused from the ages of 8ish to 14 and am not a virgin. It just makes me wonder how many Christian guys would say no to me if they knew I was not a virgin. 🤷🏼♀️ That was not helpful to hear. I keep wondering if he would have turned Sutton down if she had not been a virgin.
It doesnr affect it at all. You hold absolutely NO blame.
@@MyBeautifulLord so sorry to hear about your experience. What a lot of people, esp Christians, don't address is how abuse like this can affect you later. In the moment , for years, it can be like, somehow this is normal and ok. And maybe it only hurts to ride bikes for a few weeks here and there but it's fine and maybe he's someone you also love, like a friend or family member. Later on, this can cause so much guilt because wtf you should have stopped it. Right?! It can really mess with your brain. Future sexual experiences can be so terrifying and difficult to allow... But there is absolutely hope. The most important thing is to allow God to lead you to someone... In my experience, to the perfect person (though severely flawed lol) who respects you so much he can hear where you are coming from and you slowly learn together how to figure these things out. It will likely be difficult. But you earn so much safety and security in a relationship like that.
Q: Do guys care about whether or not girls tell their friends all the details about dates/phone calls, etc?
A: I don't know about ALL the details, but it's fine to talk about a fun time or share a lesson learned. No big deal.
Q:DO guys groom "down there?"
A:My understanding is a fair number do. That may have more to do with the influence what is seen in porn though. I personally do not, and was not comfortable last time I tried to. But in my mind, once I'm married, my wife will also technically own my body. If she wants some maintenance down there, it'll happen.
Q:Do guys judge girls by their jobs?
A: My mindset is similar to what Paul basically said. If something IS going to bother me about it, it's going to be because the job is taking a large part of who she is, her time and energy, etc away from where it perhaps should be. (example: Not sure I could be married to a CEO of a company who works 60-80 hours a week and travels a lot, or a firefighter who is gone half the nights every month. That being said, I put the same standards on myself I won't take a job that takes me away from family mentally or physically for extended periods of time, or that requires my heart to not be focused on being a good husband and father to do well.)
Q: Why do guys find boobs so attractive?
A: I think when God made Eve as a perfect partner for Adam, the "glory of Man," He built her to be beautiful; to exhibit the finer qualities of humanity. He also built differences into her body that Adam would appreciate. Before sin warped our ability to appreciate physical beauty, Adam had a perfect appreciate for Eve's body, and vise versa. After the Fall, there are sinful and unsinful appreciations of those differences, but the initial attraction is there. In short, Man was especially was made to be attracted to the differences God made Woman with. :) (And yes, we're very thankful for those differences.)
Q:Do guys really have the need to lead?
A:It's more of a duty, and obligation. It's not a "need" if it's at a healthy level, but a guy should take final responsibility for those hard choices or for spiritual growth. Like Paul said, it'd be easy to sit back and not do that.
Q: How can we nicely tell you you need to dress better?
A: Either be straightforward and lovingly just say it. Or take a more subtle approach and wait til they're wearing something good, then complement them heavily on it and mention that they look good in clothes like that. (Ask if they have other shirts like that, etc) If it's really really bad, go to Good Will and get some cheap stuff that looks better for them. In a relationship, the straightforward approach is probably ok, but perhaps start with the subtle.
Q: Looks or personality for first attraction?
A:For the very first interaction, looks, yes. But for me, if that attraction is going to stay very long or grow at all, the personality is key.
And sometimes it's a mix. One time, we were playing a guys vs girls game. I noticed that the girl I liked at the time was the ONLY girl on the girls team that had knee-length shorts. It wasn't a huge deal, but the modesty made me like her even more, and went with her awesome personality. :)
Good video guys. Looking forward to the Patron call! :D (P.S. I like Paul's Goatee, but the sideburns aren't quite ready to look 100%)
Zogly great insight bro! Appreciate you sharing😊
Good information!
It's so funny when I've seen my guy friends get a girlfriend they instantly started looking more put together and less like a baggy fith grader!😂
Bahaha
Yes, yes, and YES!!! Definitely do a Part III. I'm loving all of them :) Also, I've said it before and I'll say it again haha I just really REALLY appreciate how you take each question seriously, even and perhaps especially, the potentially awkward ones. The way you address them makes them seem more normal and ordinary and not "hush-hush" which I can't thank you enough for haha Love you guys and keep shining
Tabby RH haha really glad to hear that! Appreciate your insight Tabby, let’s us know we’re doing something right!😊❤️
"Hey man." Bahahaha I love how chill Paul is. You guys are adorable and inspiring! Much love to you both! ❤️❤️❤️
Christy N haha awe thank you😊
For me at first, appearance is the first thing I notice and they could be the best looking woman alive, but if their personality isn't what I'm looking for it's an easy no for me. Personality to me is a huge deal way more than the way she looks (not saying I don't prefer certain types of looks).
Michael Edwards thanks for sharing 😊
Paul and Morgan your videos are light and life. They are so life giving. I struggle with my health and your videos are the highlight of my day!! Thank you for seeking after God in all you do!
Awe thank you, Kenzie❤️❤️
You guys are incredible! An inspiration for my future marriage and life in general! God bless you guys!
William V. Why's that???
I've also got a boyfriend sorry :(
@@williamv.4711 I don't understand why first of all. Secondly, Ive got a great Godly guy already by my side, and don't plan on ending anything soon. Sorry :((( God bless you though!!!
Hey Paul, as a Johnathan, I felt that fashion talk, however, I don't think I can get rid of my lucky cargo shorts.
johnathan long haha👊
Don't. Cargo shorts are the best 😎
This made my day. XD
So excited you did a part 2 and can’t wait for a part 3! Love, love, love your videos and advice. Thank you Paul and Morgan!
Kyrié Elizabeth awe so glad to hear that!❤️
If you want your man to dress better, compliment him when he wears something you like, gift him clothes and shoes like and hopefully he'll get the hint lol
I'm a muslim, but I still love to watch and learn from you guys because everything you say is 100% compatible with what I have been raised and taught
My mom blacked out Song of Solomon with a sharpie.
😂
That's... I mean.. it's the Word of God.. I wouldn't do that. Lol
She sharpied the holy book!😂😂😂
Konami 😂😂
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You know what this means? Questions Guys Are Too Afraid To Ask Girls Part 2
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0blivi0usss 😏
Oblivious? 😂❤
Love the insight! I have a question about guys as well. Do they notice when a girl is eager? Like when they’re talking can guys see the excitement and if they do, is this a turn off for guys? Thank you Paul and Morgan!
Stephanie Anguiano thanks for the question😊😊
I'm not sure quite what you mean by eager, but if a guy doesn't know you well yet, being overly excited around them might be taken the wrong way. It's hard to know how to interpret what is going on and what to do about it, if that makes sense. Once they know you better, know what makes you excited, and what your intentions are, that isn't really a problem. Especially in a relationship.
Zogly thank you for your feedback!
@@stephanieanguiano1004 For me it's not really a problem unless she is being super clingy or super readable without having known her long
Love you guys, keep posting the content that you do. As a Christian lady as myself, it is so encouraging to hear you guys talk about things that are on our minds and genuinely converse about it. And I feel especially now since everyone has time on their hands, questions in their minds and just stuff that they are going through (and have a LOT of time to think about it!) it is super encouraging to watch your content.
Kataryna Hernandez 😊❤️
He answered every question the way I would word for word
Levi Cervantes haha wow🙌👊
Great video as usual, looking forward to part three! I just felt compelled to touch on this topic:
When it comes to a woman’s line of work, hopefully she’s following God’s purpose for her life, in which case it may not just be a job for her but her calling. I’m not a firefighter but I have a similar demanding career that does take me away from many special occasions, holidays, nights/days from my family and friends. It’s hard but I know that this is what God made me for and it’s my ministry in a way. Even with my demanding work life, I still desire marriage and maybe even kids one day. Now, I can’t change my calling but only trust the Lord to work everything out for my good and the good of His kingdom. I understand that a husband and kids would rather have mom home more instead of working long hours and vice versa. But the reality is for some careers, Firefighters, Paramedics, Military, Police, Nurses/Doctors (careers of service), they’re not necessarily away from family by choice or for the money (it’s another issue if they’re consciously pulling extra shifts for money or to avoid family). If someone is intentionally choosing to work more and neglect their responsibilities at home by choice, irregardless of whether they’re male or female, that’s an issue that should be addressed.
My point in all this is, yes I agree with the notion of being present, working less, putting God and family first but there are those who have to make some sacrifices for the good of their communities, State, Country and humanity as a whole.
Christian brothers, please don’t be so quick to judge a woman based on her career path or dismiss a good relationship because her work is too demanding and you can’t see how things would work with her working so much. If the relationship is meant to be, trust God to help and guide you both in utilizing the times you do have together to do even more then maybe you would if you had all the time in the world. Also, don’t be threaten because she might be in a male dominated career. Trust in the Lord and trust each other. Communication is key!
Question for Part 3: When guys ask you on a date, are they thinking you have wife potential and how soon into the relationship are they thinking seriously about a married future with you?
Bethany Eloise great question!
When an intentional serious guy asks you on a date, he’s seen enough to want to get to know you better. He wants to get to know you on a deeper level, and to explore how the two of you work together. The second part of your question varies widely depending on the situation, how intentional you two are, how you handle conflict, etc.
Really enjoyed this! I so appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable and open, in this video as well as in your other videos:) Thanks for sharing your hearts with us!
Awe thank you❤️
nobody:
Paul: *tWin fAWnS oF a gAZeLLe*
You two are hilarious together! :) I'm waiting for a godly man to be my husband. It's hard to wait but I know it's worth it. :) I just wish I had the chance to meet single Christian men but my church is very small.
The clothes question was good! I've helped my brothers with fashion advice and they've really appreciated it. I hope that my future husband will enjoy dressing nicely as well. :)
Kayleen Miller haha thanks for the comment😊❤️ Just keep putting yourself out there while waiting on God’s timing :)
Sister, I feel ya, I go to a small church too😂🙌
@@PaulandMorgan Jaja, I'll try! The likelihood of meeting someone is very low so if and when I do I'll know it's of God! :)
@@kassperlynwoods-mott5184 You know how it feels!! Jaja, it can be so hard and discouraging! At my church there's only married men; not one single guy! I've been learning to be content in this time and trust the Lord. But it's a struggle! :)
Yes yes yes!! We need a part 3!! Your insight is so appreciated!! ♥️
Little Darling awe cool!❤️
I'm all for seeing these question videos at least once a month. Very helpful!
Joela Diaz 😊😊
Great! Yes! Another great Q & A.
Recently started a FB page for Christian singles of different ages and stages in life, in our area and your videos are some I have posted since this is a page for those committed to date in a Godly way.
Keep up the great videos!
The beard, at the stage where it is, suits you Paul. Normally I prefer clean-shaven but you have a nice combo going on there.
Tolise Adkisson awe that’s really cool to hear! We appreciate you using our stuff😊❤️
@@PaulandMorgan You're welcome 😊
Thank you for being such a great example of a Godly married couple!! You both always have the look of love in your eyes...one can tell how in love you are with each other!!
I love your beard, Paul! All of my four bros have them and are rocking it. Go facial hair!
Candace Oppenheimer woot woot! Your bro’s sound like cool dudes!
@@PaulandMorgan They sure are! And very sweet godly men, too. They're my best friends in life! Keep up the godly videos, they keep my mind filled with wholesome thoughts.
I really appreciate you guys shedding light on a career path. Of course it’s different for each couple, but I think some of us women can be looked down upon (by other women) for not wanting 60 hour work weeks and being high up in the business chain. We have known since day 1 that we wanted 1 or both of us home with our kids and love that my husband has a job that he can do so.
Rebecca Durden thanks for the comment, that’s very true. Keep being a light and example, Rebecca!😊
Rebecca Durden I agree. It's such a shame the world has grown to look down upon a woman who simply wants to stay at home and raise children. Its an incredibly honorable and underrated pursuit, but I guess feminism states otherwise.
You guys do an excellent job with these videos all the time! Keep up with the good work! It’s not easy to answer these questions as a representative of your whole gender, whether it’s Morgan or Paul answering the question; yet, you both do oh so well with these! Keep up the good work with turning your passion that God gave you two into action!
Sedric Granger awe thanks so much!
This was so good! Awesome points about being consumed with work. Some people are called to do high maintenance jobs, and we need to be grateful for that. But I know what it's like to have a workaholic in your life, and it's definitely something I'll be taking into account when pursuing a relationship.
Susannah Rose thanks for sharing😊🙏
Thank you for making that distinction. There certainly is a huge difference between being consumed by your work (workaholic) and having a demanding job. I guess I’m a bit passionate about this topic because I live it.
Definitely do a part 3 love the video 👌
Blessed and Highly Favoured glad to hear it!❤️
@@PaulandMorgan love you guys this video definitely helped a lot ❤
I'm in my 40s, and not dated for a long time. I came across your vids, and am encouraged as a Christian! I've heard about dating these days, and am familiar with the distractions & impure relationships as well. I want no part of that. Modest, old fashioned as I am, I wasn't very hopeful at meeting a Christian man. Your honesty, God fearing approach on real life topics in the world we live in are a relief, and I feel more hopeful. Thank u for putting this out there, and for being you!
4:28-4:32, when he says future wife i love how she smiles and waves and then u see the realization set in, like eXcUsE mE, fUtUrE wIfE?!😂
Abigail Cohen haha😁
I saw that too! 😂😂😂
You two seem so radiant. I love your new content!!!
Reba Elizabeth awe thank you😊❤️
Do like a five part series! This is the best! I was literally just thinking the other day they should make another one of these! Love you guys!
Haha awesome😊
I love these type of videos that you do aha they’re so fun and really interesting to watch. Defo would like to see a part three haha
Storm Knock awe good!
Love this so much!!! Definitely up for a part 3! ♥️♥️♥️
Kayley Sims 😄❤️
so funny, my boyfriend's name is Jonathan! But he dresses great! haha
Trinitie Harrison haha nice!🙌
PART 3 !!!! Great job you two! And PART 2&3 for the women !!
hoc1992 😊🙌
Yesss part 3 please! Love y’all ❤️
Gracie Walrad 😄😊
I love love love your videos! I really appreciate you 2!!! Morgan is so funny and her laugh makes it so much better. I never realized that being so involved in pursuing my career could actually turn guys away if I don't have some sort of balance. I understand that this is Paul's opinion, but the feedback in the comments from the guys seems to be like Paul is on point with the answers.
Thanks for the comment😊❤️ Much Love, Ana!
You guys should just make a ton of videos like this and make a “Questions girls are too afraid to ask guys” playlist
Maybe we will! 😊
To elaborate on the last question: physical attraction is huge but it isn't everything. A girl who is a 10 at first glance can easily be brought down to a 2 if she has an awful personality. On the other hand, a girl who is a 6 or 7 can easily be brought up to an 8 or 9 if you two click and she has a great personality. Looks spark an attraction, but it's sustained by the personality. And to be honest, I don't think girls view it much differently.
Synjin Ghost appreciate the honest insight :)
Very true
Yeah, I like your beard 😁 thank you for the advice, looking forward for part three!
Katerina Stiplova woot woot, awesome!🙌
That's an awesome video on all levels. Also can I add my idea for the question of looks over personality, it might honestly depend on how you are raised. Also girls just tell a guy something and be straight forward. Most of the time, guys can handle it.
Thanks Paul and Morgan for another awesome video.
P.S. A third video....😲😲😲👍🏻
Lucas Nizankiewicz thanks for the comment! 🙌
Thanks for the info!! Part3??? Love you guys!!💙
Katelynne Michael 😄❤️
I can so relate to Morgan on the point she made of how guys sometimes aren’t attractive until you get to know them. When I first starting really talking to my now boyfriend, I really didn’t think he was that attractive but now he is the most attractive guy to me
Katelyn Liby awe that’s cool to hear :)
This was great! Ready for part 3 😁
Haha I'm 25 and still use one of my shirts from 9th grade. It's one of my favorites
Rock Lee haha
The credits at the end crack me up. Great advice, keep these coming!
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You guys are great!!
My older sister loves you guys and she really wants to meet you!
She's been through so so much and you have helped her alot!!!
Got super excited when I saw the title 😍 your videos are so good!
Melisa Dyck wahoo🙌❤️
Part 3 pleaseeee! Love these videos!
Jamie Martin 😄❤️
Another amazing video! Great job you guys ❤
Megan Marlene thank you!
Hi Paul and Morgan! I've just found your channel and have absolutely LOVED watching your Christian dating videos and advice and to just see some great role models like yourselves talking about how you can honor God through relationships. I have another question that girls might be too afraid to ask guys which is what is the best thing you can do for your man if you know something is wrong or troubling him? A lot of people tell me it's best to just leave a guy alone when he is upset about something but I was wondering what a guy genuinely wants to hear from their girl when they are upset or what we should do when they are upset. like, give them a hug or something idk lol. Let me know what you think!
That varies a little depending on the guy, and a lot based on the situation. If you're just acquaintances or friends, I'd stick to the usual "I'm sorry, I'll be praying for you" unless they ask for your help. (Actually pray if you say that though.) If you're in a romantic relationship, you have more room to give a comforting hug, and they are (hopefully) more open about what is wrong. In general, and especially in marriage, be supportive and loving, respect their space if they need it, and be there to talk and understand when they're ready to talk about it. (Let them know that you're there for them whenever they're ready.)
Ik for me if I'm angry (and not just frustrated) I just need space. I think that most other guys agree with me
@@zogly9469 thank you for the advice!
Chloe Roussin awe thanks so much❤️ Thanks for the question!
Please do a part three. Love you guys ♥️♥️♥️
Destiny Veteto 😄❤️
Loved it!!! Part 3 please!!!! A question for part three would be do “guys like girls who are honest about their personal struggles?” Thank you!!
I may not be Paul...
But if I may .
It matters not if a guy likes or does not like you having to address your struggles what matters is having them see in that address that your trusting them with yourself... Scars and Beauty. If they don't see it ...they don't see you
Great job you guys! Paul you did a good job representing guys!! Can you guys do another video on questions guys have for girls too??, I really enjoyed this video. I would like to know how do guy lose respect for a girl? Like do guy just think a girl is overreacting whenever she gets mad, over little things?
On a basic level, you're a person, and should always have the respect that comes with that. But past that, it depends on what you mean by respect. If, for example, you mean respect as in a healthy appreciation of you, how you look, etc...If you showed up in booty shorts and a crop top, I'm probably going to avoid you for my sake, and to try to protect the respect I'm supposed to have for you. In a relationship, I think one of the big ones is trying to control him too much, or not communicating what you think and what you want clearly.
Only_Bexs 😊
As a Christian guy, yes, guys, you should try to dress well if you are trying to attract a girl. Yes, demonstrating a Christ-like character in your behavior is much more important that how you dress. However, I would be lying if I did not admit that I have overheard numerous girls comment on that the fact that there is truth to the old Z. Z. Top song line, "Every girl's crazy about her sharp dressed man."
Love love love these videos. Keep em coming
Rebeca Iacob awe good!
Such a great video! Also... Morgan where did you get your shirt? It’s so cute😍
G&A forToday glad to hear it!❤️ Urban Outfitters😊
With dudes. You see a pretty girl, want to get to know her , and then find out her personality is so wonderful--that is such a blessing! Finding the inner beauty makes the outer beauty not as in focus.
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@@PaulandMorgan Thanks, I saw that!
Loved this!!!! Keep posting!!! ❤️❤️
Makayla Sotto 😊❤️
I commented something before super harshly really hastily. I only deleted it because it was too angry for what i was trying to say. Aside from my criticism my biggest desire is for more jesus content in the world. My nitpicking is so tiny in comparison to the important things christian content creators are doing with their abilities. I totally have some qualms, but they are dim in the light of you guys spreading the word of God through your videos. Sending love.
Siara Byers ❤️❤️
When you guys started talking about dressing better 😭😂
Faith Moorhead 😁
This was awesome! I'm in my twenties now and still when I read Songs of Solomon, I'm like, not old enough for this! ;) Thank you guys for this!! Great questions, and I love hearing the answers from the perspective of a guy!
I think asking a guy if he's tried different clothing styles could work as a hint, or encourage him to try something different, but telling a dude that he has a bad taste wouldn't work as well
nick :)
"we are grateful for your man brain" 😂😂😂
Rachel Savin 😁😂
Something that came to my mind later is that where I live it's very rare to find a man who wants his wife to stay home. It's a very career-drive, fast paced area (I live in the DC Metro area). I desire to be a housewife and raise children, always have, since I was very young. But finding a godly Christian man is hard enough not to mention one who actually WANTS his wife to stay home and raise a family! As hard as this has been for me, I've learned to be more content and rely on Christ more. I've become more happy and satisfied with my life as it is. I still desire marriage and a family but it's not an idol anymore. :)
KAYLEEN MILLER. You are blessed...not many woman have your mindset and it astonishing to have found one such as yourself.
Hello everyone!! Thanks so much for this honest video! I like it very much just as I like pt1!!
I also have a question for pt3:
When I'm takling to a guy (not in relationship) and he notices that I'm excited about it, what does he feel about it? Would he feel honoured or would he be more like 'ew we have a problem'? Or would it be sth else?
Edit: What would a guy think if I told him that I don't want to have kids?
And what would he de if I told him that I'm medically not able to get kids? Would you leave a woman because of that?
Thanks for all you work and honesty. You're really helping and supporting us!
Shout out to Morgan for that question! I’m a firefighter/medic and loved Paul’s answer ☺️ I’d love to know if guys are less likely to date a girl if her walk with God is newer/isn’t as long as his walk with God?
That beard thing🤣🤣 I do like it Paul, just don't let it get too long. Btw, thanks so much for being real! Don't be afraid to be honest!
Rebel Girl thank you!😊
@@PaulandMorgan 😊
I have a question relating to the part 1 video. You guys talked about how a married man can look at a single girl. My question is: as a single girl, can I protect myself or prevent it somehow so he doesn’t get too far? I would say I dress pretty modestly. Love watching you two by the way😍❤️
Anna Anipko 😊
Looking is not the same as ogling. Hes responsible for himself. Dress however you wish.
SPOT on Paul ,great opinions bro!
Tiaan Van Graan thanks bro!👊
Yesss great video guys. Love you guys. Keep it up
Elliot Perkins 😄❤️
As a guy, I love dressing nice!
Jarrett McIntyre 😁🙌
@@PaulandMorgan I hope y'all are having a good day! Greetings from OKLAHOMA!
Do a thoughts on veganism from a Christian’s perspective. Personally I think it makes me feel cleaner, happier and more aligned with my ethics. But I’d be curious to know your views!
Tanya Yei 😊
I'm a Christian vegan too :) The way I see it, Adam and Eve's diet in Eden was vegan, and on the new earth it shall be so, so that's good enough reason for me to live and advocate the lifestyle! It also makes me super happy to know no animals need to have their lives cut short for my sake :)
I feel like unless a girl is literally blatantly unattractive, her looks don't have too much bearing on my decision of whether or not I like her. Same for men. If a man is not necessarily "attractive" but not really "unattractive" then I don't see any reason for him to not have a shot at a girl.
YES PLEASE DO PART THREE
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Another great video! Thanks a lot 🤗.
arbre tree 😊❤️
Love your videos 😊
Tonia Moronczyk 😊❤️
Props to Paul for repping the guys well once again 💪👍
Joshua Idachaba 😊👊
Like these videos !! Please keep them up
Cassidy R woot woot🙌
Love this series.
I LOVED THIS VIDEO!!!
Awe😊🙌
Great video!
Kyle Viola 😄👊
Sometimes I rag on you guys for things I really disagree with but I actually agreed with everything said in this video. Well spoken!
Emily :)
Oh man!! I hope you guys do a Part 3!!! I love your videos!!! 👏🏻👏🏻 Also I have a question: Does it make a girl less attractive if she has a small chest?
Depends on the guy. I'm not turned off by it but ik a lot of guys do prefer that. It's honestly not as big a thing as people make it out to be though. A girl with a small chest can still be REALLY attractive
Hadassah Patches thanks for the comment :)
Hadassah Patches Like Godisgood2216 said, it depends on the guy. Some guys are really attracted by the upper body, others are more interested in the lower body and overall shape.
Maybe this is just me but I think there is a size that is too big but there isn’t a size that is too small. Small to medium look best to me
This is great!
GirlonfireforChrist 360 😊❤️
I appreciate your input so much guys!!! just personally wouldnt ask my partner to dress differently, because I would respect his own style and tast. but other than than, keep it as funny! you're doing so well!! love from germany xx
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Paul’s Beard 😘 Haha! I would also like to see a Part 2 of the Questions Christian Guys have, I enjoyed that so much!
Love it ❤️
Elaina 😊❤️
I loved your channel
Lana Bertelli ❤️❤️
P&M I love your videos! Would yall ever do another combo q and a with another couple?