I Wasn't Ready for My Puppy // Story Time
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2019
- I had zero intentions of filming this video about how the timing wasn't right to adopt my puppy, Finnegan. But I continue to get private messages and comments from new puppy owners that are starting to regret their decision to adopt, because they realize how challenging new dogs are.
I wanted to be vulnerable, honest and truthful with you all. While Fin is THRIVING and doing SO well in our home, it probably wasn't the best timing to adopt him when we did. I had so much going on in my life, but it turned out... all of the fostering I did was preparing me to be the best damn dog mom to my puppy, Finnegan.
And today, we couldn't imagine a life without Fin. He completed our family, and in the end bringing him home was the best thing we could have done
If you are struggling with your new foster dog, or new puppy, please remember that we all have struggles - but you ARE capable. You can do this, and you don't have to do this alone.
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I had zero intentions of filming this video, but I wanted to be honest and vulnerable with you. I continue to get private messages and comments from new puppy owners (or people with new foster dogs) that are starting to regret their decision to adopt or foster, because they realize how challenging new dogs are.
So I decided to share a side of my dog mom story I never planned to share, because I believe you all deserve to hear this. While Fin is THRIVING and doing SO well in our home today, it probably wasn't the best timing to adopt him when we did almost 2 years ago. I had SO much going on in my life, but it worked out better than I could’ve dreamed... all of the fostering I did was preparing me to be the best damn dog mom to Finnegan.
I also wanted to be open with you about my struggles, because life is hard. And I want to remind you, if you are not in the right situation to care for a new dog properly - it’s okay to wait. Timing is everything. And if you have already adopted your beautiful dog, but are finding yourself struggling, DON’T give up!!
You got this, you are the right person for your pup. And you don’t have to do this alone. Let me help you @RachelFusaro on Instagram ♥️♥️♥️ xoxo!
I get it...I have been there before. I love your videos! You are my idol!
I had a similar experience. When i first got my puppy, it was like a roller coaster ride. It’s been 6 months and I can’t expect my life without him. No regrets! NEVER!
Thanks for the video.
Thank YOU for sharing your story. It’s hard to talk about the challenging times, bc we want everything to be picture perfect. But it’s rarely perfect. And that’s okay. The key is to remember it does get better (with LOTS of training, exercise and good routines!) ♥️
Mallikharjun Marrey Thank YOU for sharing your story. It’s hard to talk about the challenging times, bc we want everything to be picture perfect. But it’s rarely perfect. And that’s okay. The key is to remember it does get better (with LOTS of training, exercise and good routines!) ♥️
Just fyi - I am posting a video tomorrow (July 23, 2019) and you are my comment of the day. XOXO
Rachel Fusaro Thank you and I really appreciate your work.
Lol it’s my 4th month and I still feel like this, hopefully it will pass.
Thank you so much for the video I thought I was the only one struggling with my dog 🐶❤️
Naisha De los santos my pleasure love. And no, you are not the only one. We have ALL struggled. And to this day, I still have struggles with both Fin and my ~10 year old Labrador, Bentley.
I just want you, and the 🌎, to know that you’re not alone
It’s challenging to give our dogs everything they deserve, but we can do it - together ♥️
Thanks for sharing this with us. I'm a first time puppy mum and I thought I was ready to welcome a new puppy home. I'm working from home and have enough time and money and love to give to him. But then with the second day I took him home, I started crying so bad that this never happen to me. I had read all the posts, watched tons of UA-cam video before I took him home. But I'm questioning myself every day now that did I make a bad decision. Now I know that this will pass with all the comments I'm seeing here so certainly make me stronger in mind and encourages me that both him and I will be better.
Thank you SO much for this transparent video, the 11:00 minute mark (take a breath, your dog needs you, you need your dog, your dog was placed in your life for a reason) had me almost tearing up. 🥺❤️ what a breath of fresh air in terms of relatable content !!! 👏🏼 glad Finn found you !
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So I decided to get a puppy. I did..But I used to think.."This will be easy!" But the truth is..It wasn't! So many sleepless nights and money! I dont really care about the money...But I could not even stand up straight on the first 3 nights. Okay...So puppies are *lots* of work. But when they get older..They learn and they will not stay needy! I regreted getting my puppy on the first 3 nights. But I do not regret it after 2 weeks. She was a whole different dog!
Dogs may be alot to handle when you barely got them..But it gets better..Trust me
thank u so much that made me feel so much better LMAO!
Thank you. I just got a puppy a couple of days ago and I’m having a lot of trouble because I’ve never had a puppy and I thought it would be a lot easier than it is, mainly, believing I wouldn’t be soooooo tired all the time. I hope he does get a bit better when he gets a little older because I do love him, so it makes it a lot harder regretting getting him. But I think it’ll get better. I hope. 😢
thank you for that im getting a 13 week old puppy really soon and thanks for the heads up !
Thank you because I’m getting a dog today
I needed to see this, thank you🙏
Same, but I don’t regret getting my pooch ever!!!
Nikhil S yes!
I’m embarrassed to admit that my timing was poor, but my heart was always there. Not one minute have I regretted Fin. It hasn’t always been easy but he’s worth it 🙌
Im so happy I found you!!! Today Im going on my second day of adopting my puppy and its not easy😩😩 I honestly thought it would be all rainbows and smiles but it can get overwhelming. But I love her soo much, I get frustrated for a second and when I look at her little face, I get over it even though she pooped right in the middle of my livingroom🥴🥴😷 but im going to invest in some training classes and want to start crate training. 🙂🙂 Thanks for your words of encouragement and Im so relieved im not the only one struggling 😓😓
I’ve made the same mistake before and didn’t realize how important and crucial timing can be! I love how you’re just so down to earth and learn from past mistakes! I think everyone will agree that you deserve WAY more subscribers ❤️❤️❤️
Timing is everything! But I also believe that with the right intentions, we can make most anything happen. Raising dogs is tough! Sometimes we just need to hear that it’ll be okay, and to stick with it :))
I cried watching this video. I am having severe puppy blues right now. The worst of it is, the timing IS perfect. I have all the time in the world to be there for him. He is an AMAZING little puppy. Well behaved. Only been here a week and no accidents in 4 days. Sleeps fine in his crate .... so why do I feel so sad? Why can’t I “play” with him? I can’t eat, I feel anxious all the time. I’ve never felt like this before 😔 will this get better? ❤️❤️
I was the same, i loves him, loved spending time with him but I could not stop crying, couldn't sleep or eat. Ended up rehomed my puppy to my new neighbour with two kids. I was really sad and sorry but was sp happy that he went to such a happg family who were so ready to have a puppy for a long time. My puppy is having his best life in there now. I am getting a photo & video update from them. I thanked them for saving my Charlie & my life.
I got my first ever dog : a micro golden doodle, Benji, in the middle of a career change and moving into a brand new house but watching videos like yours made the process much easier. I did my research before choosing this breed and how to prep me and my family for him. Even tough my life was crazy, I was ready and never had any regrets. Benji is now 14 months and a therapy dog in progress in my medical clinic. Thanks for the quality content. 🐶🐾
So ironic that I just randomly read your post. I’m going through a major career change and also getting ready to pick up an 8 week old Cavapoo in a couple weeks. I just feel in my heart he’s meant to be here with my husband and I and feel that he is going to bring us so much love and healing into our lives even more than we expect. I know it’s going to be tough at first but I’m ready. I’ve been binge watching these videos and learning so much. I’m a rehab therapist and it’s crossed my mind to also look into training our puppy to be a therapy dog. Guess what….two weeks ago we decided to name him Benji 😊
I feel like on life you can never be ready for anything. Was I ready for my dog? Well I was at a good point in my life (financially, working from home, spare time, etc.) so all those boxes checked out but still when he came home I didn’t feel ready. I was ready as far as getting everything he needed. I was ready as far as being able to devote time and money and lots of love to him. I was ready for a dog but I wasn’t ready at the same time. I think you can be 100% ready and not ready at the same time for everything. My older sister had a baby last year and she seemed so on top of everything to me. Then she told me when he was born she felt so not ready to be a mother. You wouldn’t know that from looking on the outside (I didn’t even know and I’m super close to her) but sometimes out mind stops us from feeling comfortable with change.
I want to give you all a word of advice. If in life you have gone through the checklist (eg. you want a dog so you make sure it’s the right time, you are financially stable, etc.) and you still feel uneasy once the change occurs (eg. you bring your dog home) just know it’s the change that is causing that. Just push through because your life will be better because of it. I know mine is because of my dog.
Thank you for your commend ❤
Thank you for posting this is so helpful! I am trying to convince my parents so this channel is giving me information to prove that I am really serious. I love you so much Rachel, keep doing what your doing. 💖🐶
Ella’s Garden I appreciate you Ella, thank you for leaving such a lovely comment 😍
Rachel, I love your video and you are so right. Thank you for your attempt to stop people from doing something they might regret. Lots of love to you!!!
I just admire your honesty and encouraging people of being patience and optimistic as well.
Thank you so much for this video, this made me feel so much better. I had been waiting to get a dog for 2 years and finally I could, and then when I got the puppy I was so overwhelmed and upset that I couldn't cope. I love him so much and wouldn't change anything but it's so nice to know you don't go through this alone 🤗❤️
This video sums up why I adore you and this channel. You're honest! So many other channels focus on the positive which sets puppy/dog owners up to wonder why things can be so hard raising a dog (possibly then adding to more pups in rescue). The dog community need more people like you! Positive and honest. Dogs are hard work but if you have the proper time and attitude are incredibly rewarding and phenomenal.
First time owners especially need the encouragement and honesty you provide. I'm forever grateful to you for this amazing channel. Keep up the good work! You're an inspiration. Love and Wags to you all from me and my pack 💖🐺💞
This video really helped put my mind at ease and I felt like you were speaking to me at the end. I recently adopted a 4 month old doodle who had been neglected. His story spoke to me, and it’s no where near the best timing in my life. I was really considering rehoming him, but he’s such a perfect and well mannered puppy. My parents offered to take care of him while I finish my masters. Love your videos. Keep inspiring and saving all the damn dogs
it more than inspired me...it made me cry, because I have raised older puppies but 10 years later im raising a 3 lb. 8 week old puppy is so much more than i expected and I am sooo exhausted...love you, and thank yoy for the hope and encouragement, Rachel!
Thank you so much for making this video! This is a great help to us. Even though we thought we prepped and planned everything, it has still been a struggle to handle a new puppy. It makes it easier knowing that even someone with so much experience with dogs can have trouble, too. Your honesty is very much appreciated!
Thank you for this comment. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to share this video, but we’re all human. And life is hard. Which is actually okay! Everything worked out in the end, and I want others to know it’s okay to struggle, bc with some work and support, it’ll absolutely get better 😍😍
its very overwhelming adopting a new dog even more so a puppy, like adjusting to a new baby. Its mind blowing how much work it is and the no sleeping and watching them 24/7 how to run errands and just have free time to get a break🥹
Cried so hard at the end, I needed to hear that. I am so frustrated with my puppy. I love him so much and I am so afraid to start receiving complaints from the building complex because of his barking. I have tried everything and nothing seems to work.😞😞
Thanks for this video...we all get that anxiety in those beginning stages but it's so worth it once you get over those hurdles!!!
This was a great video. There are a variety of dog videos, but rarely do you see the side of struggle. People show what only they want to share, and that tends to be the happy moments. I appreciate the honesty. May those who are also struggling see the light at the end of the tunnel.
ttlee that is my hope and dream! When times are tough, knowing I’m not alone is the #1 thing that gets me through (well that and dog, obvi) LOL
Thank you. So much.
I made the same mistake moving into a new home and welcoming out puppy home THE NEXT DAY. we didn't choose for things to align this way but they just did. Needless to say it's been a struggle and a half lol. But I know he's our boy and he's here to stay. He challenges me everyday to be a better person, these are growing pains and if I can move past them and evolve through them, there will be nothing like it. Your video has affirmed this for me given me the encouragement I needed for today. Thank you
You got this my friend 🙏
Thank you! I needed to hear this. I'm one week in with my mini golden doodle and it's been really tough, but I do believe he is in my life for a specific reason or reasons! Your videos have been so helpful - thank you!
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Hey, did it get better??
Omg I NEEDED this video, thank you for being authentic 💗
Thank you for this. I love my 6 month old puppy so much. Although at times I start to doubt myself and feel like maybe I am not ready for this, but you are right. She was put into my life for a reason and I am currently looking for a job where i am able to work from home to give her more of my time. I have so many questions and I’m glad I found you on UA-cam. You’ve been very helpful through my journey.
Berrykim thank you for sharing this. You are the best person for your pup. And will get easier. 6 months is very young and a tough age, but they learn so fast! I always recommend working with positive reinforcement dog trainers to help, as they can pinpoint problem areas to make your life easier
Never forget that you’ve got this, you really do 🙌
Ugh YES. I can agree with so many people in the comments! 😂 The first five months were HELL. Between housebreaking, puppy bitting, not sleeping and the training (which I actually enjoyed but I don't think my dog did 😂) but I also miss it... Hard to explain. timing IS everything! I tell myself that Everytime time I wonder onto Petfinder 🤣🙃
zaria caprio “I tell myself that every time I wander on petfinder” hahah should be a shirt quote! Thank you for sharing your experience 🙌🙌
Thank you Rachel for this video! I'm struggling right now with my yorkie but he's still a puppy & I know it'll get better
Currently in the process and journey of getting a puppy to add to my life...Your videos are helping me tremendously! Im taking notes!!! New Subscriber!!!
Great video. People really need to understand that a dog is a family member and similar to having a child. I’ve wanted my own dog for the past ten years. Really got serious the last TWO years and binge watched your videos, did research on different breeds, checked rescue websites weekly. Took my time and got my F1b Goldendoodle 1 month ago.
It’s been difficult but honestly easier than I expected. Doing all my research, I knew it would be a challenge. Luckily covid allows me to work from home so I am always available for her for training etc. I was not however 100% financially ready but thank God I still have enough to support her vet, Insurance and every thing else bills. I LOVE HER. It helps that I’m an active person who runs/hikes regularly.
Dogs are active & require regular exercise like humans do- otherwise depression can settle in. but you know that 😘 thanks SO much. Your vlogs were literally a HUGE reason why I was able to get my girl.
I needed this today. My sweet 15week golden retriever is super intense but this has helped me know we got this!
Got one…12 weeks , its so hard! Potty traning is hell! Today she pees one my shoes when i was going to go outside with her…and the bitting omg ! I hope this stop one day
Oh my gosh, I LOVE your videos!!!! I'm getting my Samoyed puppy on my birthday! You really inspire me, and I love you :)
Biscuit & Bon Bon the Hamsters happy early birthday!! I hope all of your wildest wishes come true :)
@@RachelFusaro Thank you!
This is a very important video. When I search up videos on puppy blues (which I'm going through right now pretty bad with my new pup) a lot of the results are sad, about how they had to rehome their dog, and that is simply not something I can handle hearing right now.
I am so grateful for your channel! I've watched about 100 videos of yours in the last 48 hours and I learned so so so much. I finally decided to get a little puppy after getting a bunch of signs and hints from the universe and I AM SO EXCITED!!!🥺😍 I'm getting a little boy F1b Mini Goldendoodle and he was just born a week ago! All I can think about is where I'm gonna put his crate, which lick mat I wanna buy him and which foods I can sprinkle cinnamon or turmeric on top of!! 😂 Your videos are amazing. Thank you so much for making the whole process so much easier and fun!
I honestly thought I was alone on this topic, I got a puppy yesterday and have been crying ever since because of puppy blues. I feel like I am getting sick from being so stressed and was honestly already thinking shit... I can't keep him I can't give him what he deserves. I really want to try everything but the first step was really seeing that I am not alone and I am not a horrible person for regretting.
I'm feeling the same way at the moment, how are things going for you now, any better?
@@captaincc5700 things are going very great now to be honest. it definitely got better for me sort of fast :)
@@theathomsen02 pls encourage me, I feel like I’m doing everything wrong. Does it really get better??
@@thuytienpham8385 i promise it gets a lot better i was VERY stressed the first Week with my dog Keegan but he is 9 months Old now and i could NEVER imagine my life without him. However i would advise you to talk to someone you trust and feel comfortable with about the topic so you dont sit with these feelings alone. :) but yes, it does get better and it’s SO worth fighting for.
@@thuytienpham8385 i actually had my parents help me out a lot and sort of babysit him from time to time so i could get some Air for a few hours since he really loves and trusts my parents. It worked out Well.
I rescued a dog that came from a VERY abusive home it’s been so hard so I thought I couldn’t handle it. In all reality he is my love and I need him. He needs me too. I traded him for another dog that would be easier to care for then I just felt like a horrible person. Horrible. I cried the way home. I’m so happy that the guy said I can have him back tomorrow and also keep the other dog. Don’t know what I’m going to do but god said everything is JUST. I got this. I’m gonna give these dogs all of my time patience and love. Don’t know what I would do without prayer. My baby was so scared. Can’t believe I let him go but I’m so happy I realized that was the worst decision and to never let his baggage get to me ever again. It’s more harder having a dog that came from an abusive home than people think! I will give him all the time in the world to get over his trauma though. Because we need each other. Forever.. made me so upset I made the wrong decision letting him go!
I really appreciate this video. I need your help. It makes me feel better and cry at the same time.
1 year later and this video really helped me just feel like I’m not alone in this. I’ve adopted a goldendoodle 3 months ago and love him so much. But with my work schedule this thought would always come up as if I made a mistake and went over my head. But everyday and night I wouldn’t have it any other way. I know he’s in my life for a reason. Just one day at a time, definitely not easy but even giving myself a 30 minute break away from him I just feel like I’m missing a part of me.
I needed to hear this
Omg!! Thank you honey, You got me, I got one baby and I’m having so many regrets and yes having a super hard time, I have a lot of control issues and if anything the puppy is training me
U r amazing. And are soooo helpful in me wanting to get 2 pups when I’ll get out of the military.
Who can put thumbs down on this amazing story! 😢
Rehoming my goldendoodle tomorrow, so excited but I know there would be challenges and I’m trying to get myself ready for him.
Lol we just adopted a puppy 2 weeks ago... on the same exact day we moved into an apartment in a completely different state. My husband just started a new job too... we’re feeling the stress!
Thank you for this video. My yorkie passed away last July and I wasn't going to get another dog, but about two days after her death, I was standing in the local shelter with Zola, a cattledog mix. I fell in love, she fit everything I was looking for, so I adopted her. I'm not going to lie, I have doubted my decision it has been a struggle, however, I will never change my decision. The love she has for me and the love o have for her. She has been there through some of my darkest times. As a matter of fact, as I type this in tears, she jumped into the chair to give me hugs and kisses and cuddle. I want to adopt again, but I'm waiting until we both are ready.
Very sorry for your loss. I know your heart must be broken
Thank you for sharing your story. Xoxo 🙏
Hi!
My name is Amy and I LOVE dogs they make me so happy I have a passion for them let’s save all the damn dogs! I’m new here and I’m obsessed with your channel and your beautiful dogs
This is my story...so for years I wanted a puppy and my parents said NOOOOO! But now they say soon and that’s when I started watching Rachel so I know what to do before I get the puppy. I ❤️ Rachel ( my parents think I, weird to watch puppy videos lol) stay safe!
Omfg your doggos are so darn cute!
It’s A Chair they’re the best tho I’m a bit biased 😎😜
I just subscribed but I've been watching this channel for 2 years
I am a big fan of your channel😍😍😍
YAYYY IM THE FIRST LIKE AND COMMENT ALSO I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL SO MUCH 🥰🥰
I can always count on you ♥️
Thanks for sharing Rachel, i think us as adults we seem to think that we are in away perfect and everything we do is correct and that we made the right decision. Well first of all we are only human we are not perfect we make mistakes sometimes wrong choices. But what matters here and what's important is that you made it work you didn't give up you didn't give up on your dog and that's what makes you a super super super responsible person responsible pet owner pet mom👊😎and a loving pet owner. that's why your my superwoman... this is the most important thing we get from you, that your not a quitter your a fighter, against the odds you made it work👊😎🐾 you go girl😊
Gun Enthusiast awhhh 😍😍😍😍 thank you so damn much!!!!
After months obsessing , wavering between should I get a puppy, studying breeds, communicating with a couple breeders Im mentally exhausted. I even had a wonderful breeder from the AKC website who has 3 adorable chihuahua puppies offer to drive 300 miles ( if I pay her gas) to bring them to me , when it was too far for me to drive.
But finally today I decided I just CANT DO IT, I CANT DO THE PUPPY THING.
Im just going to have to be patient and keep looking at the shelters and fosters for an older dog.
I am just about to get a 9 week old cockapoo and I’m so excited but a bit nervous because I want to bring it up right 🙂at what age do I take it for walks at the beach ? P.S love your videos there really helping me prepare for the puppy ❤️❤️❤️xxx
i live with my parents and I'm getting a 3 month labrador puppy, we live in FLorida,my house has a small yard with fence, my question is should the puppy sleep inside or outside, im new to this so I dont know what's better for the puppy. Also do I need to buy a crater? This would be my first dog ever so i'm trying to learn 🐶❤️
Also you videos are fantastic
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Does your rescue have more Golden Doodles right now?
I just got a new puppy nearly 4 weeks ago now and a week into having her I knew I wasnt ready for another dog but there was no going back. She had already bonded with my older dog and I couldnt take her away from him. :( were working on it though. :)
Hi there. I work full time in the hospital and I really have always wanted a dog. I am on the list for a shih tzu but now i am getting super paranoid about getting one. I don know if i can manage. I can barely cook for myself!!!! I have always just wanted a Shih Tzu so much.
Could you do a video on how to help your puppy cope with loud noises like fireworks or thunderstorms?
I think Mazie will get a good home soon
Thanks in believing in me😊
my puppy is an alarm now he wake me up from 3 to 4 midnight barking and scratching his cage very loud so now my neighbors are complaining i love him so much and i dont want to re home him please what can i do?
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So early!!! How much do you spend on your dog each month?
👋 love! It varies, I would say $100-200 a month depending on food costs that month! Plus I pay pet insurance
Is there somewhere we can send you a message for advice on a new puppy? Im struggling.
Hello, it's the first time I leave a comment, I really enjoy your videos, some of them helped me a lot with my puppy Marley. 💜🐶
a few month ago we adopted a puppy from a shelter, and it didn't worked out at all, we wasn't ready and didn't had the experience and the time to give him what he needed ( he had some food agression issues and was growling on my partner when he got to close to him and some other things that needed a lot of time to fix..), so we had to rehome him after a few weeks. I didn't wanted him to become agressive because of our lack of experience. It was a pretty devastating decision, we failed, without even have the time to try. Even if it was the best for this dog, who has now the family he deserves.
I got scared that we couldn't be good dog parents, even if I grew up with many dogs, and raised a puppy before.
But then a month ago I found Marley, his family coudn't keep him because their cat was scared of him, it was his second family already, so we took him in. And it was the perfect match. It was the right time, I got new work schedules, so I can come home for lunch, we found a puppy class not far from home, and he and my partner loved each other instantly.
Timing is really important when you decide to adopt a puppy, we changed a lot in our lives to make space for him in our family, and we have no regrets. He has a lot to learn, but now we really have the time to handle his issues. It might seem easy to make a little space for a little puppy or an adult dog. It is not so easy, the dog will take a huge place in your life and he deserves all the love and time you will be able to give him.
I'm glad you made this video because I think a lot of people are in this case. Thank you, and I hope we will be able to save all the damn dogs 💜💜💜
(sorry for my english, I'm from France )
Katja Deutschmann what an inspiring story. Thank you for sharing with me, and what a life you are giving Marley. As you also said, timing is everything
I just wanted people to know that it’s a HUGE deal to bring in a new dog, so much to consider. And that it really takes a community and support when caring for a pup
It’s hard to be so vulnerable and open about tough topics, so thank you for doing it with me. You are amazing and Marley has hit the jackpot with you! 😍 PS: I’ve just spent the last week in London with family, not too far from you :)
I'm glad you ended up finding a dog that was the right match for you! I'm glad I stumbled on your comment because right now I'm going through the devastating process of rehoming my rescue dog that I got 2.5 months ago. I rescued him from an organization that I thought was reputable, but they did a completely horrible job on their behavioural assessment. I was completely honest with them through the application process on what kind of dog Im looking for and what I can handle (I'm a university student and first time dog owner), but they gave me a dog that I'm incapable of handling. Hes a total cuddle bug, but he is pretty nervous around strangers as well as most dogs and has severe separation anxiety (all things that I began to notice within the first couple of weeks --his adoption bio gave absolutely no heads up on what hes really like and specific characteristics potential owners should be aware of). I love my dog so so much, which makes it hard to let him go, and I've been working so hard on the training but my mental health has suffered immensely since getting him (first anxiety making me physically sick from overwhelmed by my motherly instincts kicking in, then depression because I was so focused on my dog and the training I lost motivation to take care of myself and complete daily tasks). The hardest part is that fixing separation anxiety (especially in an adult dog) just takes time, and with my mental wellbeing and school I can't provide him with what he needs to be a calm, happy dog. It also doesn't help that I live in an apartment (doesn't help with his nervousness), he isn't big on toys and not that food motivated (scared when I threw a ball to play fetch, hard to mentally stimulate him). Sorry for the long rant; one of the biggest fears is that after this experience I'll never find the right dog for me and I won't be a good dog owner in the future, even though I put my literal blood, sweat and tears into this commitment and only ended up broken.
@@stefk1225 I know that feeling. You give so much of your time and your love and it's So frustrating when their is no progress... They take a lot of space in our life and we need to be aware of that. Our first puppy we got in the shelter wasn't well socialised and couldn't get along with my mums dog because he never learnd how to communicate, he always tried to bite and didn't understood when she was saying NO.. We stopped walking the dogs together because of that behavior. He bit us for playing but we couldn't get him to stop. So nobody came to the house because he we had to teach him to stop first. He had food agression so we had to be carefull every time he was eating something, he had so much energy that we couldn't even sit down on the couch in the evening, he was always jumping and biting. It was so exhausting... We were not ready and not the right fit for him.
A dog takes lot of space and when you take a dog you take that responsability. But there is a moment where you have to take care of you first. You have to be in a good place, to be a good dog parent.
Marley, or dog isn't The Perfect Dog. He jumps on cars, bikes and poeple in the street. And it's a lot of work to make him stop.
But he is a great fit for us. And if I could give you one advice with your dog, or the next one.. Dogs need schedules, they need something they can rely on. That is the Best way to have a happy and balance dog.
I know it' s hard but you will find a dog that will fit your life style.. I've been on both si des, I gave one away to someone Who could take better care and gave a great home to another, and it was the best thing to do in my case.
Hey I need help...my dog died last year and I really miss her and having dog in my life. It's like something misses everyday, I really need a dog. But there's a problem, my step dad won't let me. He says dog would make him nervous and would irritate him and we would fight a lot. He also said I'm not the problem, I mean, I already had a dog plus I take care of horse I'm riding. (My dog could go to barn with me)
Idk what to do, I know he loves dogs, he always pets strays and feeds our local stray cat.
He and my mum are not maried and he says we would probably part our ways if we argue a lot about dog. Please help...
Is it ok to only walk a dog for 10 minuites a day? I have a 7 month old miniature poodle. He has little energy (he'll play for a few minuites and then sleep for like an hour on and off). But I still would like to walk him and people would always say like 30 minuites 2x a day! I tried 20 minutes in the evening and he hated it. After about 5 min. he has to take a breather and after 10 he lies down on the sidewalk and goes in and sleeps for like 2 hours! Is this efficient enough?
Taryn Michelle every dog is different, I’ve never had a miniature dog before but I imagine they don’t need as much exercise as my big rambunctious boys 😍😍
@Jennifer Muñoz I have been walking him since 4 months. He enjoys it but after 10 minutes he gets too tired. However, I have been bringing treats and convincing him to keep going for about 15 - 20 minuites but after that he doesn't even care for the treat he just wants to go inside. I wont drag him across the sidewalk lol
What do you do for work now?
Notification squad, where you at?? 😀😀😀
Aurelija Garbanovaite cool kids club 😎
Random question:Can you please tell me what heartworm prevention you use?
Victoria Bravo-Soto right now i use heartguard but I am not a fan of it.. exploring more natural options but where I live in Texas, it’s a big problem
@@RachelFusaro thank you! Ya. I've heard bad things about medications, but I'm more concerned about the heartworms. I wonder what a happy medium would be, I wouldn't want to risk heartworms.
So I just got a 7 week old puppy and it was a last minute sort of thing so I didn’t have a kennel for the first night. When I got a kennel the next day she won’t go in it and whines really loud the whole night do you have any tips to help?
im getting a 3 month labrador tomorrow and i don't know if im' ready either 🐶❤️
Just don't put her in the kennel. I've never understood why people use them. A dog needs to be free to move around and will sleep on the floor perfectly fine/happily.
I got a puppy but then she got sick on her first day, so I had to give her back 😢😭
Irem DERBAZLAR I am so sorry to hear this! I can’t imagine how heartbreaking that would be. My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing
can you tell me more about it? why did you give her back if she was sick? what about the vet? just asking? 🐶❤️
MartialArtsBoy Hey, I gave her back because it was my first dog experience and I didn’t want my puppy to suffer because of my lack of experience, so I gave her back got a big dog, my current dog is so healthy, I think puppies need much more experience
Irem DERBAZLAR i just got a labrador puppy 🐶 and she’s so chill, she loves to play but is been three days and she’s so cool 😍😍 is my first puppy 🐶 ever
what kind of dog is Fynn/Finn
Izzy Cole we think a goldendoodle! He’s a rescue not not 100% sure
He looks more doodle now then when he was a puppy
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Still top 3 👏👏
everyone grab your popcorn. i will pass some out just in case 🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿
This should be called times that you should not get a dog am I right
I had a puppy it was a shar pei and I got ran over it was 3 month old
Glad u expressed what was happening
Love u sooo much
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Could I maybe get a shoutout...... 😊
Ahahahhahaha I got a like from the best person in the world 😮😀🥰😘