My Past, My Present, and My Future (30 Days of Meditation)

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  • Опубліковано 2 сер 2020
  • Books I mentioned:
    The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success
    www.amazon.com/Seven-Spiritua...
    The War of Art
    www.amazon.com/War-Art-Throug...
    The app I used to meditate (Headspace) www.headspace.com/?...
    Oprah’s Super Soul Conversations Podcast:
    open.spotify.com/show/0nMF1JL...
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 13 тис.

  • @ricardograna4353
    @ricardograna4353 3 роки тому +2580

    The situation aside , I've never seen Ryland so serious.

    • @RockinLoud360
      @RockinLoud360 3 роки тому +27

      then you are not a true fan. he's made serious videos before

    • @zmaria739
      @zmaria739 3 роки тому +1

      i was just thinking that

    • @gyatgyatgyat123
      @gyatgyatgyat123 3 роки тому +11

      He probably is a fan but wasn’t into him that much

    • @disasterology9573
      @disasterology9573 3 роки тому +15

      zoda yes but most videos are just silly- this is one of the most serious ones

    • @charlymatush21
      @charlymatush21 3 роки тому +14

      zoda chill

  • @sophiejade9242
    @sophiejade9242 3 роки тому +358

    I respect Morgan and Ryland for addressing it and acknowledging the problems

    • @123abcd..
      @123abcd.. 3 роки тому

      Rightttt

    • @Stanasaur
      @Stanasaur 3 роки тому +4

      Shane be like ❌👄❌

    • @frankie7510
      @frankie7510 3 роки тому +1

      Shane is the only one to blame

    • @mcguinness5494
      @mcguinness5494 3 роки тому +5

      He didn't acknowledge his embarrassing, childish twitter rant though?

    • @amandastarfan
      @amandastarfan 3 роки тому +1

      @McGuinness
      Ehh who cares? Everyone’s rude on twitter lol and he didn’t hurt anyone 🤷‍♀️

  • @BengalTiger29
    @BengalTiger29 3 роки тому +1186

    I hope this is not taken the wrong way, but I like this side of you way more. You seem so much more real and more relatable/easy to watch.

    • @DrSuess-tl7ln
      @DrSuess-tl7ln 3 роки тому +3

      or is he

    • @ArtyMars
      @ArtyMars 3 роки тому +7

      So you're saying you hate happy, effortless, "gay ryland" lol

    • @BengalTiger29
      @BengalTiger29 3 роки тому +20

      Arty Mars no not at all. Just some of his videos feel forced, and this one didn’t.

    • @BengalTiger29
      @BengalTiger29 3 роки тому +17

      Arty Mars also he’s always gay so idk what you mean 🤣

    • @emilymendez9615
      @emilymendez9615 3 роки тому

      i think he seems sad.

  • @oliviatankinganimation7732
    @oliviatankinganimation7732 3 роки тому +329

    “I’m not going to let someone who knows a small piece of my puzzle define me.” I like this. I sometimes look back on events where it hurts to know people think bad of you, but they only know a small part.

  • @briannapalverento9495
    @briannapalverento9495 3 роки тому +601

    When I’m telling you I RAN TO THIS.

  • @laceyjones5105
    @laceyjones5105 3 роки тому +3025

    I love that you’re not defending his past actions, you’re defending his GROWTH. ❤️

    • @arianaalexis8206
      @arianaalexis8206 3 роки тому +9

    • @manialord1699
      @manialord1699 3 роки тому +2

      🤠

    • @thenubivagantsytem4239
      @thenubivagantsytem4239 3 роки тому +47

      Nope, he’s just defending his actions.

    • @laceyjones5105
      @laceyjones5105 3 роки тому +44

      The Nubivagant Sytem well the great thing about 2020 is if you don’t like what someone else does or what they say... you can always block or hide their comments and content from your feed. ☺️

    • @manialord1699
      @manialord1699 3 роки тому +13

      The Nubivagant Sytem no he isn’t.

  • @XxViktorijaxX
    @XxViktorijaxX 3 роки тому +98

    Those glasses fit his look very well. I like them on him.

  • @brandynettleton1658
    @brandynettleton1658 3 роки тому +827

    I wish this was the Ryland we’d gotten all along. This is someone I can actually listen to. I don’t know if Shane can come back from all of this, but he has a whole lot better chance with THIS guy in his corner!

    • @jazzyharris5697
      @jazzyharris5697 3 роки тому +17

      I hope he never recovers from this. However I do hope he and Rylan have a happy life together.

    • @timeddie3134
      @timeddie3134 3 роки тому +8

      Brittany Walton people are dying Kim

    • @sirmeliodas2854
      @sirmeliodas2854 3 роки тому +1

      @Brittany Walton its called dark humor

    • @kellywalsh30
      @kellywalsh30 3 роки тому

      Totally agree

    • @gerrysapalaran873
      @gerrysapalaran873 3 роки тому

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  • @stankatbarrell9878
    @stankatbarrell9878 3 роки тому +9014

    Say it with me: Shane's mistakes are not Ryland's. We can't expect him to not stand up for his fiance. Ryland knows the real shane, we only see bits of him on the internet.

    • @MAGman159
      @MAGman159 3 роки тому +94

      So he should call off the wedding

    • @crystalgarcia8455
      @crystalgarcia8455 3 роки тому +152

      @@MAGman159 wat

    • @queeneliane7745
      @queeneliane7745 3 роки тому +26

      Exactly

    • @queeneliane7745
      @queeneliane7745 3 роки тому +75

      Walter Dis what? Why

    • @eggiene
      @eggiene 3 роки тому +181

      YES!! people always assume that other people that aren’t shane need to talk about him but they don’t need to. ryland is still with shane because he sees a different shane than what his past was

  • @kellyruiz5239
    @kellyruiz5239 3 роки тому +518

    I didn’t realize how much Morgan looks like him lol those headshots were Morgan 100%

    • @nadinefregoso
      @nadinefregoso 3 роки тому +1

      I always thought she looked like the other brother

    • @rose8306
      @rose8306 3 роки тому +1

      And yes, they are 100 related, not the half bs lol

    • @Madeyoustitch
      @Madeyoustitch 3 роки тому +1

      Is kat von d your neighbor? 🙂 she had a Band play for her husband.

  • @damincartwright9476
    @damincartwright9476 3 роки тому +2518

    Funny how y’all judge Shane for his content then say Ryland is using his “straight voice”. Guess we get to pick and choose what we find offensive.

    • @destructtheconstruct919
      @destructtheconstruct919 3 роки тому +127

      Stop getting offended by everything. That is what is wrong with society. Getting offended is a choice. Stop silencing others, you don't have the authority.

    • @damincartwright9476
      @damincartwright9476 3 роки тому +101

      Destruct the construct Exactly. I enjoyed Shane’s content and still do.

    • @gt3018
      @gt3018 3 роки тому +20

      Facts.

    • @shelbybailey5021
      @shelbybailey5021 3 роки тому +6

      He did the voice of what he sounded like when he was straight 💀

    • @damincartwright9476
      @damincartwright9476 3 роки тому +32

      Shelby Bailey When he “was straight” lmao.

  • @meganroepke9601
    @meganroepke9601 3 роки тому +1379

    Ryland does not deserve all the hate he has been receiving. He knows who the real Shane is, and of course he is going to defend him. But we don't know what goes on behind the scenes. Maybe Ryland did get mad at Shane and confronted him about it. But he isn't going to leave him over past mistakes. Shane has grown as a person these past few years. Is he perfect? No. Is his past mistakes wrong and dishonorable? Yes. Everyone has a different journey and grows through life. When your young (as I am) you do a lot of stupid and wrong things. Im glad Ryland has stayed by Shane's side and been loyal. Canceling Ryland is not good. He doesn't deserve this.

    • @taylorbenefield8180
      @taylorbenefield8180 3 роки тому +21

      That’s so true😢I wish there were more comments like this

    • @kidkruschev
      @kidkruschev 3 роки тому +21

      Fuck both of them. They’re both privileged and they do very little with the privilege. They can’t admit his mistakes, only highlight how he’s “changed”...
      Where is this change? NOBODY changes within a week of something happening.
      Why are they claiming he’s changed?
      Why can’t they be actually critical about Shane’s past actions?
      Why can’t they be objective about it...? What Shane did was horrible. Inexcusable-because it happened multiple times even with warning. Shane KNEW what he was doing.
      Shane’s career shouldn’t be ended, it should be reevaluated.
      If Shane releases a documentary and you guys all eat it up, he’ll have played you all, and you’d be letting a truly shitty person get away with saying “sorry :///“, not feeling any repercussions, and moving on as if nothing happened.
      You guys worship two pieces of bread. I’ve never seen people defend such shitty behavior from people they don’t know.

    • @justsomemonkeymanwithlongh3188
      @justsomemonkeymanwithlongh3188 3 роки тому +25

      kidkruschev All of the things he did was yw was ago and of course he won’t change in a week he changed in 6 years are more

    • @justsomemonkeymanwithlongh3188
      @justsomemonkeymanwithlongh3188 3 роки тому +16

      kidkruschev also he doesn’t need to change again as he was brought into this by some people trying to cancel him again by bringing up some past shit

    • @justsomemonkeymanwithlongh3188
      @justsomemonkeymanwithlongh3188 3 роки тому +17

      kidkruschev you people are hypocrites everyone hating on him is as we all make mistakes and hating on another human for making mistakes funny ones at that is just disgusting

  • @lolitsrue9354
    @lolitsrue9354 3 роки тому +2294

    As someone who’s watched Shane from the age of 9 or 10 to present day (21 years old), I’ve seen him grow, tremendously. Nothing excuses his past, but I believe he’s changed for the better. I still support him, although I don’t support the things he’s done in the past. He’s grown and learned over these years.

    • @elizabethgrove675
      @elizabethgrove675 3 роки тому +75

      I’m right there with you! I was 7-8 when I first started watching his videos (now almost 19). People change & grow. It’s not an excuse but it sure is proof that they are putting in effort and bettering themselves.

    • @brittneymckenzie6535
      @brittneymckenzie6535 3 роки тому +41

      I started watching shane when I was 11 maybe 12! For anyone to sit and say he hasn’t changed is beyond me.

    • @fiona4968
      @fiona4968 3 роки тому +12

      I'm the same will support him no matter what love ya have xx

    • @miroh3540
      @miroh3540 3 роки тому +43

      Idk man ive watched him for a long time but after his insta meltdown it showed his real colours. Hes releasing merch and uplaoding on shane tv so it doesnt really seem like hes reflecting? Idk i just cant forgive him

    • @dionneappuhamyge25
      @dionneappuhamyge25 3 роки тому +14

      Lol it's rue same here. He has grown so much since his early days on UA-cam. I truly believe that those jokes were just a part of Shane's dark humour which weren't in good taste but he hasn't done anything like what has been said.

  • @teka_eros
    @teka_eros 3 роки тому +1289

    “Nobody else is responsible for how I’m feeling” I needed to hear that

    • @squamman631
      @squamman631 3 роки тому +5

      Do you not have someone in your life who can tell you that? Did you really need a UA-cam to tell you that?

    • @caylilambert4461
      @caylilambert4461 3 роки тому +53

      SQUAM man Maybe they didn’t, or maybe they needed a reminder.

    • @dorietriplett4259
      @dorietriplett4259 3 роки тому +2

      Same!

    • @mj-kd9uz
      @mj-kd9uz 3 роки тому +46

      SQUAM man sometimes it takes someone else to articulate something in a way you’ve never heard before for it to hit you. get the stick out of your ass.

    • @gabbygirl1832
      @gabbygirl1832 3 роки тому +34

      People like SQUAM scare me . Not empathetic or open minded to the fact that not everyone has someone to speak or give them good advice.

  • @MKMK11114
    @MKMK11114 3 роки тому +8

    I love KING SHANE. I’m 24 and have watched Shane for 12 years. Literally half my life. I love him so much!

    • @Patrick-pt4cy
      @Patrick-pt4cy 3 роки тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/x2WBythSGoQ/v-deo.html watch this clip for one of several examples why Shane shouldnt be forgiven, watch the whole video to see why Shane is an awful person and should be deplatformed.

  • @likelyana6880
    @likelyana6880 3 роки тому +100

    I miss shane so much, ryland knows him more than social media and his fans, I hope I get to see shane again soom♡

    • @wlnyuh2330
      @wlnyuh2330 3 роки тому +3

      Uneducated.

    • @no-vo9bm
      @no-vo9bm 3 роки тому

      Hope he's at least working on his movie:')

  • @recentlyasmr
    @recentlyasmr 3 роки тому +2172

    NOW THIS IS HOW YOU DO IT! this is how you address drama. No more allegations no more lies, just an honest opinion and statement on what is going on. I'm so proud of you Ryland. You are a great person and this video really inspired me.

    • @nik1128
      @nik1128 3 роки тому +5

      😆

    • @siouxd799
      @siouxd799 3 роки тому +6

      I loved that Ryland pointed the mirror back towards everybody! I’m going to try some mediation... it certainly looks like Ryland feels like he has more insight and control.

    • @snoox27
      @snoox27 3 роки тому +4

      I think he's a amazing person.

    • @lionizedlew
      @lionizedlew 3 роки тому +1

      that's what shane did you tosser..

    • @urgstheword
      @urgstheword 3 роки тому +12

      This is how you do what? Manipulate people into thinking they’re good people when they were just yelling on insta live weeks ago? Some of you may have amnesia but not me

  • @mariamakki2032
    @mariamakki2032 3 роки тому +2573

    i’m glad that morgan and ryland are addressing this. they know shane as an actual human being and not just a youtuber.

    • @Stanasaur
      @Stanasaur 3 роки тому +42

      They don’t know the Shane of 9-10 years ago rho

    • @lucasritter1252
      @lucasritter1252 3 роки тому +121

      @@Stanasaur people change tho

    • @urmother5558
      @urmother5558 3 роки тому +3

      HUH

    • @thepurpleones
      @thepurpleones 3 роки тому +46

      Megan Hill I mean Shane’s past from 9-10 years ago still exists on the internet and it’s valid for people to be mad about things he’s said.

    • @timmycola2
      @timmycola2 3 роки тому

      Wait what did Morgan say? I didn’t watch her video.

  • @84krist
    @84krist 3 роки тому +17

    “We can rewrite the start of our day”
    That was 🤯🙌🏼

  • @araelowo6794
    @araelowo6794 3 роки тому +112

    I know Shane has grown so much, he’s a great person, I hope others will be able to see his changes and encourage him to continue to grow

    • @bruhjsjnan5866
      @bruhjsjnan5866 3 роки тому +3

      are you serious? you have to be fucking kidding me rn...😹😹👋

  • @xebrabear
    @xebrabear 3 роки тому +3484

    I have watched Shane for years and I was one of the people laughing at those clips when they first came out. Do I still think they are funny? Of course not, but I would be a hypocrite to be mad about them now. I have grown and I know he has grown too. I hope he knows there are still people out there that support him and are rooting for him. I hope he can continue making content that makes HIM happy. Love you both.

    • @Kay-qq8eo
      @Kay-qq8eo 3 роки тому +207

      xena exactly. At that time everyone laughed about it. That’s why he kept doing it. Obviously it’s wrong because times have changed and people have grown. I just don’t understand the people that laughed about it then but say he should be canceled for it now. I don’t condone those videos. But when they were released I also laughed at them. We all fuck up

    • @turtlechow18
      @turtlechow18 3 роки тому +105

      uhhh it's not hypocritical to be mad about jokes you thought were funny when you were a literal child which most of his fans were

    • @Msgabbb
      @Msgabbb 3 роки тому +6

      Totally agree

    • @babyfriedrice183
      @babyfriedrice183 3 роки тому +81

      Mckayla 12122 well then you’re all in the wrong. especially if you’re not part of the communities he’s offended, you have no reason to be mad at him anyways. the black community especially is hurting from his actions and i think it’s important we all let people be hurt and mad at him because it’s valid.

    • @imuncomfbecuzihavsubsandno4371
      @imuncomfbecuzihavsubsandno4371 3 роки тому +16

      Amanda 'mandy' you were supposed to be thirteen when you watched his videos if you weren’t that’s your fault.

  • @mrsdubya4151
    @mrsdubya4151 3 роки тому +986

    “I can not let anyone who only knows a small piece of my puzzle define me as a whole” This statement seems to explain the entire purpose of him uploading this video...

    • @hazemhesham6115
      @hazemhesham6115 3 роки тому

      Mrs Dubya
      ua-cam.com/video/FSSFgWlDbJU/v-deo.html

    • @nelavalerio2177
      @nelavalerio2177 3 роки тому +1

      Agree 🙌🙌🙌

    • @NthabyAbby
      @NthabyAbby 3 роки тому +1

      Crazy how as I was reading this he was saying it at the same time.

    • @Perrrywinkle
      @Perrrywinkle 3 роки тому

      Keeping this quote for sure

    • @alphawolfie1122
      @alphawolfie1122 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/1WyypHkyxvo/v-deo.html OMG I MET RYLAND JUST NOW

  • @melannyvega1960
    @melannyvega1960 3 роки тому +636

    Why is ryland getting so much hate for standing up for his fiancé he knows him not just by the internet and why are people still telling him things or bullying him for things he did in the past? Like he isn’t perfect it’s not like you have lived without saying something offensive to someone like just forgive him Shane is trying his best and I have been a fan of Shane for the past few years that I’ve memorized all the lines in my favorite videos and I forgive him because just like him I’ve probably said offensive things before like nobody is perfect like just let it go Shane is a good person and is getting harassed for things he did more than a decade ago like please stop hating on him he is trying his best.

    • @ShrikeCult
      @ShrikeCult 3 роки тому +20

      People do not have to forgive you for the offensive things you may have said to them! They don't even owe you 0.1% forgiveness because you are not perfect and blah blah blah. Tell that to someone who cares. You chose to forgive Shane - good for you! The rest of the internet does not - does that make you angry? Would you like to force them to forgive Shane because thats what you like? Would you like them to hurt because they don't forgive Shane like you do?

    • @barryscott3327
      @barryscott3327 3 роки тому +33

      @@ShrikeCult People change as they get older. Shane isn't the same person he was 10 years ago.

    • @ShrikeCult
      @ShrikeCult 3 роки тому +8

      @@barryscott3327 I read your comment multiple times. You don't claim that Shane changed for the better! Just that people change in general through the years and so Shane must have - ok Shane changed for the worst!

    • @barryscott3327
      @barryscott3327 3 роки тому +28

      @@ShrikeCult Are you really this dense? It's pretty obvious what I meant. Do I have to spell it out for you?

    • @yoitsbreezylol
      @yoitsbreezylol 3 роки тому +18

      I TOTALLY agree. I also really dont agree with cancel culture all together. But ryland is the one thst knows the true shane and shane is really trying his best to apologize, but the internet sees no apology video as "good enough" But, It is not my place to accept his apology for others. The shane from 10 years ago is not even CLOSE to the shane we have today. I believe shane doesnt deserve to lose anything from a mistake in the past, and no one is perfect, we all say something offensive, whether we know its wrong, fucked up, offensive, etc. WE ALL SCREW UP. 😾

  • @DebbieBlatt0816
    @DebbieBlatt0816 3 роки тому +31

    The beginning of your video was so genuine and honest. You didn’t just say, FU I love Shane and so I see no wrong: you made so much sense, and I agree with you 100%!
    I hope Shane is doing better, and he’ll come back soon- doing what we all love.
    Great video Ryland. Xx

  • @MandaFandaa
    @MandaFandaa 3 роки тому +1490

    “We don’t get what we deserve. We get what we expect.” Never heard this before but it hit home for me. Thanks for sharing this Ryland. You’re one of kind.
    Seriously in tears watching this.

    • @NosyHausfrau
      @NosyHausfrau 3 роки тому +9

      I heard this by a man on Oprah in the 80s and it really stuck with me because it's SO SO true. I refer to it frequently.

    • @alphawolfie1122
      @alphawolfie1122 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/1WyypHkyxvo/v-deo.html I FOUND RYLAND'S ADDRESS JUST NOW OMG

    • @sarahmyers9285
      @sarahmyers9285 3 роки тому +4

      We dont get what we expect either. What happens, happens and we have very little control over it

    • @littlewonder3388
      @littlewonder3388 3 роки тому

      So true.

  • @8sweetgem8sweetgem53
    @8sweetgem8sweetgem53 3 роки тому +270

    You and Morgan are wonderful people. Shane is blessed to have you as his true love.

    • @arashf6094
      @arashf6094 3 роки тому +4

      peridot he may have a couple questionable friends, but his fiancé and sister and law are incredible people and influence him positively i’m sure

  • @menoname3357
    @menoname3357 3 роки тому +268

    I've been watching Shane for 10-11 years... Shane has matured so much, also so have I.. I used to think his content was funny now that I'm older his new content is more interesting and mature.. he'll get through this. He's a great guy

    • @luciafromwiisports37
      @luciafromwiisports37 3 роки тому +13

      👏👏👏

    • @lileh7456
      @lileh7456 3 роки тому +8

      😌😌😌

    • @juliaac
      @juliaac 3 роки тому +7

      yess

    • @steelo2712
      @steelo2712 3 роки тому +3

      What would Shane have to do in order for you to think deplatforming him is necessary?

    • @Noneofyourbyisness
      @Noneofyourbyisness 3 роки тому +10

      @@steelo2712 say those past things today. Even the beauty drama shouldn't lead to a de-platform.. subscribers choose who they want to watch and if people dont like shane they'll stop watching. He'll stop collaborating..sponsors etc. He already has the world hating him. What more could you want .

  • @mikaelashepherd9195
    @mikaelashepherd9195 3 роки тому +454

    a lot of people found shane’s old videos funny when they were young even though we are disgusted by them now as we have grown up. shane thought his videos were funny at one time, he grew as a person and got older and realized they are disgusting just like the rest of us. we’ve all said or done things ten years ago we regret, thankfully the majority of us don’t live our lives online.

    • @EpsilonFreak604
      @EpsilonFreak604 3 роки тому +44

      Exactly. It's hard to not 'age slam' this, but I find that most of the people involved in 'cancelling' Shane, were barely old enough to understand words. I remember watching Shane in 2009/10, and finding his videos absolutely hilarious, as a 14 yr old female. His jokes didn't disgust me back then because that's what UA-cam was about. Being 'edgy' and 'crazy'. It's tough to see people who are barely 15 themselves, slandering him for videos in a time when they were still in diapers.
      (of course this doesn't apply to everyone, and yes it's disgusting looking back on the content)

    • @duckymomo29
      @duckymomo29 3 роки тому +16

      Emma Dawn my point exactly!!!! Anyone who hasn’t watched Shane before doesn’t understand it!!!

    • @steelo2712
      @steelo2712 3 роки тому +11

      Emma Dawn What would Shane have to do for you to think that deplatforming or “cancelling” him is a good option? What’s one thing he’d have to do for you to stop supporting him?

    • @nw6070
      @nw6070 3 роки тому +20

      @@steelo2712 good question! apparently defending pedophilia and bestiality and mocking other races aint bad enough...i also am dying to know what would it take for people to react seriously.

    • @steelo2712
      @steelo2712 3 роки тому +4

      n w I asked someone the same question and they said the only way she’ll support deplatforming him is if he’s accused of raping a kid. You really have to be pure evil in order for these people to think you don’t deserve a platform.

  • @NameiSarah
    @NameiSarah 3 роки тому +1413

    I hope the internet understands that these are real people not just public figures .. I’m glad ryland is back love you ❤️

    • @damnjessieh_
      @damnjessieh_ 3 роки тому +6

      ...yeah but on youtube they are the public figures who hurt people, so what's the point?

    • @tundra3693
      @tundra3693 3 роки тому +2

      I agree

    • @siejent
      @siejent 3 роки тому +18

      @@damnjessieh_ By the law even if you have acc here, FB, Insta etc. you are public figure too, wanna show us your posts or stuff you said couple of years ago? No? So sit down and let people live their lives and let them change :)

    • @ji-mb6wg
      @ji-mb6wg 3 роки тому +2

      i missed ryland so much

    • @TooOldForThis
      @TooOldForThis 3 роки тому +5

      Willow Smith was a real person when Shane pretended to m*********** on her. Your point?

  • @patootiesushi4469
    @patootiesushi4469 3 роки тому +4520

    You know it's serious when Ryland uses his straight voice

    • @StrawberryCoke
      @StrawberryCoke 3 роки тому +23

      Lol

    • @Maximillian630
      @Maximillian630 3 роки тому +26

      Lmao true

    • @pskugd8385
      @pskugd8385 3 роки тому +8

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      To bear witness that there is no god to be worshiped but Allah , and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah
      And to obey Allah as He commanded and to refrain from what He forbade
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    • @Maximillian630
      @Maximillian630 3 роки тому +112

      @@pskugd8385 im an athiest satanist, thanks tho👍✌️

    • @moyy.y7037
      @moyy.y7037 3 роки тому +62

      @@pskugd8385 shut up please 😘

  • @Dyslexiclex
    @Dyslexiclex 3 роки тому +358

    I don’t understand how anyone could dislike Ryland. I love him(:

    • @pillowbean3426
      @pillowbean3426 3 роки тому +6

      @Brittany Walton he is not money hungry? the fuck, Ryland is so sweet and kind.

    • @pillowbean3426
      @pillowbean3426 3 роки тому +6

      @Brittany Walton You arent making any valid points, see what you wanna see sweetheart, its not gonna alter the truth. Come back when you have actual valid points.

    • @pillowbean3426
      @pillowbean3426 3 роки тому +5

      @suzy ! Do you even realize how intense and aggressive everybody was at the time that all the drama happened? Everyone was ridiculously angry and everyone needed to calm down a little, so he let people calm down and then made a video, in the video he spoke about what happened, didnt defend shanes actions, addressed what he had to address and then went on to make content that people wanted to see so that maybe everybody would feel a little better and not focus so much on negativity because everyone needs a little more positivity.

    • @MackemSlayer1999
      @MackemSlayer1999 3 роки тому

      @@pillowbean3426 And rightly so? He is supporting Shane so that should tell you all you need to know about him tbh.

    • @ShrikeCult
      @ShrikeCult 3 роки тому

      you identified your problem quite well - you can't understand how people don't agree with you! Do you hate them for it?

  • @emilyabdolali3035
    @emilyabdolali3035 3 роки тому +10

    This intro was amazing, I have so much respect for Ryland and what a man by sticking by his future husband who has proven over and over that he is continuing to grow ❤️

  • @jewel4christonly
    @jewel4christonly 3 роки тому +1784

    Growing up extremely sheltered in a conservative Christian family, I am truly disgusted by who I was years ago. The real world showed itself to me, I educated myself and I am completely different today. All I’m saying is, I’m so glad I wasn’t on camera when I was that person.

    • @ellens9100
      @ellens9100 3 роки тому +63

      This needs to be said more!!

    • @keilajackson1476
      @keilajackson1476 3 роки тому +17

      fr tho

    • @thekidwasmyson4339
      @thekidwasmyson4339 3 роки тому +47

      My situation was the same except I went from being raised in an atheist liberal home, and became a conservative Christian😂. But I see what you're saying, I'm so glad I was able to expand my horizons for what suited ME better as an individual, without millions of people in the background mocking my every miss step.

    • @jewel4christonly
      @jewel4christonly 3 роки тому +14

      The kid WAS my son right it would haunt us. And respect to you, whatever beliefs suit you best! The main thing I wasn’t taught was to love in the best way you can. I was so ignorant and hateful to people I didn’t agree with. But it was what I was taught sadly

    • @angelgard
      @angelgard 3 роки тому +5

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @nfvy8111
    @nfvy8111 3 роки тому +2805

    Ryland is a lot more sensible and articulate than people give him credit for.

    • @RAHHicecream
      @RAHHicecream 3 роки тому +6

      Wait no one said he isn’t articulate and sensible???

    • @relyjames1672
      @relyjames1672 3 роки тому +11

      @@RAHHicecream Ryland is not sensible and articulate. I'm sure my grammar is terrible there but anyways I said it.

    • @bellea.4570
      @bellea.4570 3 роки тому +22

      He sure wasn't when he popped off on twitter though 😂

    • @yasmine1974
      @yasmine1974 3 роки тому +8

      You need to stop supporting Shane and ryan. Have you ever seen shakes podcast he said in exact words he looks up CHILD P...... O....... R........ N STOP SUPPORTING PEOPLE WHO DO THAT. STOP IT.

    • @yasmine1974
      @yasmine1974 3 роки тому +1

      *shanes

  • @treearoha
    @treearoha 8 місяців тому +3

    Ryland is the perfect partner for Shane. They balance each other out. Shane is the chaotic, spontaneous, child-like and precious energy, Ryland is the down to earth, calm and level-headed one the the relationship. They bring harmony to each others lives and it’s beautiful.

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 3 роки тому +180

    Ryland showing all of his old headshots he’s thinking he looks so gay and I’m thinking “I would’ve totally had a huge crush on him in school” 😂

  • @jerijustify
    @jerijustify 3 роки тому +2845

    I think it’s so sad that Ryland has to clarify why he isn’t wearing his rings. Like the internet is that petty and that full of sad people who love drama. He didn’t wear it for one cooking video and everyone speculated he was leaving Shane and that their relationship was over. Like that has to take a toll on someone. And it obviously has to some degree if he had to clarify in the beginning as to why he isn’t wearing his rings in this video. Rings don’t equate to love or anything. I’m married and I don’t wear my rings for various reasons. Doesn’t mean someone doesn’t love someone or that your relationship is over.

    • @magicman4326
      @magicman4326 3 роки тому +23

      Ikr, I actually saw a thumbnail the other day that pointed out him not wearing his ring, and the title made it as if they were going to speculate why.

    • @keniamandujano946
      @keniamandujano946 3 роки тому +21

      My parents have been married for 29 years and they’ve never worn wedding rings ever!..

    • @jojojeep1
      @jojojeep1 3 роки тому +3

      Kenia Mandujano I’m married 37 years and my ring is glued on my finger

    • @Natalieejo
      @Natalieejo 3 роки тому +13

      Ita so rediculous! I've been married 5 years and I never wear my rings at home, only when I go out

    • @ducky4762
      @ducky4762 3 роки тому +9

      You do have a point. I just thought it was for the cooking video, since people I know take off their rings to cook food, just as safety reasons and that. It’s a good thing some people understand that. I’m also glad you had the courage to speak up about that, unlike me. Lol

  • @dragondream659
    @dragondream659 3 роки тому +926

    He knows Shane in real life, he knows him better than the whole internet.

  • @lifewithnikkimoore3298
    @lifewithnikkimoore3298 3 роки тому +3

    I know this is your channel but I just want to say that I miss Shane, I love seeing you guys together, you two are great together. Also, I'm happy the meditation is working for you.

  • @treylorence5381
    @treylorence5381 3 роки тому +3

    I'm so glad you're posting videos still. UA-cam hasn't updated me at all for the past four months and now I'm looking at your channel like 0.0. I HAVE SO MUCH TO WATCH

    • @rylandadams9100
      @rylandadams9100 3 роки тому

      Thanks for the feedback~~~if you have any ideas you want me to talk about feel free to chat me immediately for more enlightenment ~~ 🇼 :🇭 :@🇹 :🇸 :🇦 :🇵 :🇵 •••🇲 🇪 • 💬•••+1️⃣4️⃣0️⃣7️⃣2️⃣7️⃣8️⃣9️⃣9⃣3️⃣2",

  • @jessigarcia1545
    @jessigarcia1545 3 роки тому +134

    I’ve been watching Shane since 2010, and I have seen him grow and change for the better and I have been there through so much of his issues and I will continue too love and support him no matter what, he has changed my life for the better, I have suffered from depression and severe anxiety and Shane has saved me so many times and I just love him

    • @efflorescere-miranda1852
      @efflorescere-miranda1852 3 роки тому +17

      Jessi Garcia amen! The ones like us that have been around since the beginning know all the growing and suffering Shane has done in his life. It’s a shame that all these new viewers have so much power to destroy him.

    • @jadetrussoni5054
      @jadetrussoni5054 3 роки тому +6

      I love him!

    • @9_iq48
      @9_iq48 3 роки тому +8

      Finally some good people

  • @Dj_gabbb
    @Dj_gabbb 3 роки тому +5206

    Shane’s mistakes from the pass aren’t Rylan’s, Morgan’s, Andrews, Garett’s, or any other person that makes or has made videos with him. Thanks for your time babes 😘

    • @lustforcris
      @lustforcris 3 роки тому +186

      yet he was acting like a little bitch , that's why i'll stan everyone but ryland and shane

    • @anagarza777
      @anagarza777 3 роки тому +33

      @@lustforcris thank you!!!!!!!!

    • @heshohesho4512
      @heshohesho4512 3 роки тому +3

      Stxrry Gab
      ua-cam.com/video/FSSFgWlDbJU/v-deo.html

    • @ashtonsumpter676
      @ashtonsumpter676 3 роки тому +27

      Aa33cris Sss it’s kinda his fiancé

    • @shymoomoo9554
      @shymoomoo9554 3 роки тому +7

      Aa33cris Sss how?

  • @art3m154
    @art3m154 3 роки тому +93

    Ryland doesn’t sound like ryland, LITERALLY but I just love how sensible he is

    • @micaylavargas8075
      @micaylavargas8075 3 роки тому +3

      He only sounds like that bc he wants his life to go back to normal 😂

    • @samechic101
      @samechic101 3 роки тому +1

      @@micaylavargas8075 you do understand that UA-cam tend to exaggerate their personality on camera. That, and people have different tones for what's going on. This is serious stuff that's going on, his happy-sassy attitude seen in his usual videos wouldn't fit and wouldn't be genuine

    • @micaylavargas8075
      @micaylavargas8075 3 роки тому +1

      samechic101 yeah I know that his happy attitude wouldn’t fit the scene he is portraying.

    • @samechic101
      @samechic101 3 роки тому +2

      @@micaylavargas8075 why's he got to be acting, though? He's letting out his thoughts seriously

    • @micaylavargas8075
      @micaylavargas8075 3 роки тому

      samechic101 i just know they have acting backgrounds so it’s hard to tell when they are being genuine or not. They’re literal actors so it’s easier for them to act sad or act serious without being genuine just bc they wanna portray an image. I’m not saying it’s not serious but when you talk about something serious like that you don’t make it seem so nonchalant

  • @terastadtmiller
    @terastadtmiller 3 роки тому +5

    This was very well spoken. He obviously took time to think this out and say exactly what he wanted to say.

  • @esthermccue1294
    @esthermccue1294 3 роки тому +1654

    I'm a recovering addict. I'm 12 years clean. People can change. I was a much different person when I was using. If people only judged me on that and didn't believe in me that I could change and get better i probably wouldn't be here today. Ive been married now for 8 years. Have a 21month old son And just bought a house. None of that would of happened if I didn't change and grow as a person. If I would of been judged also by that no one would of wanted to be with me and i wouldnt have my amazing little boy. Or my amazing husband. People can change for the better. As long as your moving forward and always working to better your self let the past live in the past.

    • @taralamalam1321
      @taralamalam1321 3 роки тому

      Esther McCue
      ua-cam.com/video/FSSFgWlDbJU/v-deo.html

    • @shaneandthesquad2076
      @shaneandthesquad2076 3 роки тому +11

      Sorry to be rude BUT why did I think you meant a recovering adduct to Shane Dawson content?

    • @esthermccue1294
      @esthermccue1294 3 роки тому +5

      @@shaneandthesquad2076 hahaha I dunno. And that's funny.

    • @shaneandthesquad2076
      @shaneandthesquad2076 3 роки тому +9

      @@esthermccue1294 😀 btw I'm glad your doing better! I wish you the best of luck fully recovering, I know it can and will take a long time but you will get through this. I'm sure of it.

    • @esthermccue1294
      @esthermccue1294 3 роки тому +2

      @@shaneandthesquad2076 Thank you!

  • @jessicagomez1760
    @jessicagomez1760 3 роки тому +740

    THIS is relationship goals. Having a partner willing to be there for you in the good and THE TERRIBLE. Ryland is truly a wonderful human and soon will become an amazing husband. Shane is not the devil, he has made many horrible mistakes, lets just hope he changes his future content and move on.

    • @jaelyng2353
      @jaelyng2353 3 роки тому +6

      Becks Woof 💯💯💯💯

    • @levistrudel9319
      @levistrudel9319 3 роки тому +1

      His future content?

    • @cxyj4y
      @cxyj4y 3 роки тому +2

      @@beckswoof9990 you don't know him

    • @debbielee4903
      @debbielee4903 3 роки тому

      What about when he told tana now that she's been 18 for one week she should see him naked and proceeded to encourage her to pee on him while "straddling" (his words) him. Kinda sus. Not saying he's an evil person or anything. I just think as a public figure of his capacity he should have someone look over the content that he's putting out. There are boundaries that should not be disregarding especially when you have a big following. I think it would also help him emotionally and mentally to have a content advisor.

    • @debbielee4903
      @debbielee4903 3 роки тому +2

      @Becks Woof like ryland said despite how long ago it was some people view these things only now. Personally I was sexually abused as a child and watching that video which popped up on my feed only yesterday was extremely uncomfortable for me and I felt disappointed in him as a content creator. It doesn't mean I want him cancelled, i think he might be a good person and I'm glad he's grown but that video still upset me and that's ok. I don't have to like every video he puts out.

  • @djmonkeydoo2
    @djmonkeydoo2 3 роки тому +9

    I’m so glad you’re not running away and letting the hate trains of some people just bombard you. Please, I’m due course, encourage Shane to do the same. You both put in endless amounts of hours and hard work into your platform and no one can take that away from you. This is YOUR territory and you’re good people. Enjoy it. Your fans love you🖤

  • @chloehenry2037
    @chloehenry2037 3 роки тому +7

    Ryland, I appreciate your openness and how you explain your perspective without pushing people to forgive Shane’s past. I truly believe you are such a down to earth person and it’s so refreshing to see someone well-known on the internet who is just so kind and doesn’t put on a facade. I hope you grow more mindful and positive with each day 💛

  • @searainsearain3054
    @searainsearain3054 3 роки тому +558

    You and Morgan are so even headed, what do many people need and that UA-cam and Hollywood has very little of. Don't ever lose you! 💜

    • @kaylaslavny6048
      @kaylaslavny6048 3 роки тому +5

      I genuinely love Morgan so much, we are close in age and i want to be her friend so badly, she seems so real and funny i love her.

    • @chels1993
      @chels1993 3 роки тому

      Don’t forget about his Twitter freak out 😬

    • @prachigupta1713
      @prachigupta1713 3 роки тому +4

      @@chels1993 anyone can lose control once in a while. It's ok he does have to be perfect all the time. He is a human first and then a celebrity. He has the right to express his opinions just like you and me.

  • @kathyj5316
    @kathyj5316 3 роки тому +2233

    I'm embarrassed after Facebook shows me something I posted 3 years ago I can't imagine 10 years ago I am not that person I was I was younger and I'll still trying to figure it out and I believe everybody goes through that one way or another

    • @alissa6157
      @alissa6157 3 роки тому +44

      I feel you on that stuff I’ve posted from 2013 I look back on it an think I was completely stupid .

    • @IamAlly90
      @IamAlly90 3 роки тому +28

      SAME omg the cringe. I got my Facebook in high school so there’s a lot of things I’d never post today. Also I’m so glad I deleted my Myspace years ago, lord only knows what was there 😂😂

    • @projectravevids6907
      @projectravevids6907 3 роки тому +30

      I feel the exact same way. I am an absolute completely different person, I would never make the same choices as I would 10 years ago. I also was ignorant. I definitely used to say insensitive things and didn’t really get why it that would be so bad. I know he’s done some bad things but cancel culture is just insane. Because we wouldn’t do this to “normal people.”

    • @ashtynofficial
      @ashtynofficial 3 роки тому +5

      Same honestly

    • @brittneymckenzie6535
      @brittneymckenzie6535 3 роки тому +12

      Omg seriously. Even just a year ago you get those memories that pop up and I go threw them like “wtf was I thinking”

  • @xeclusia
    @xeclusia 3 роки тому +7

    shane has really changed my life, i watched him everyday and he’s always made me smile. he knows what he did is terribly wrong, but he has tried to apologize so many times. he is a genuine human and doesn’t deserve what’s going on with him. i hope you and shane are doing well

  • @kennak9162
    @kennak9162 3 роки тому +330

    Why is no one talking about the fact that ryland added a wedding band to his engagement ring!?!?

  • @elmobabe979
    @elmobabe979 3 роки тому +3368

    the ppl in the comments here being like "yes lets accept peoples past and let people learn" are the same ones that were doing all the cancelling 2 months ago bc they were bored smh

    • @soap6633
      @soap6633 3 роки тому +15

      Did you even listen to rylands video and read the comments? Because that’s NOT WHAT THEYRE SAYING AT ALL🤣🤣🤣🤡🤡🤡

    • @skipppyy9814
      @skipppyy9814 3 роки тому +65

      em7639 yuupp! So many people just hop on the “trends”

    • @zlfex
      @zlfex 3 роки тому +35

      Mr. NLR you are actually dumb,he’s saying people that “accepted the cancellation of Shane “ are now people that are saying he’s just growing so it’s hypocritical.

    • @wisdamnmaglangit3965
      @wisdamnmaglangit3965 3 роки тому +5

      How do u accurately know that lol

    • @recentlyasmr
      @recentlyasmr 3 роки тому +37

      That's not true. The ppl who canceled don't even watch Rylands video. They probably never heard of him b4 the whole Shane drama. I bet they didn't even watched Shane's videos. Those ppl just spreaded hate bc they were bored.

  • @thatonekidweallknow
    @thatonekidweallknow 3 роки тому +1082

    He is mature. He doesn't try and defend him and explains that what he did was terrible but he grew from his mistakes

    • @moppersIsTheDawg
      @moppersIsTheDawg 3 роки тому +17

      i would sure hope he’s mature he’s like 30 bro

    • @Babygrl412
      @Babygrl412 3 роки тому +22

      @@moppersIsTheDawg unfortunately wisdom and maturity doesn't automatically come with age. We've all seen that firsthand in multiple situations

    • @neepsanta9690
      @neepsanta9690 3 роки тому +10

      Haven't seen growth till he talks about everything he's done and educate people with facts instead of sorrys on why it wasn't ok

    • @thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138
      @thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138 3 роки тому +7

      @@moppersIsTheDawg boi you got high standards for adults m8
      No one has their shit together straight

    • @Adamgarv
      @Adamgarv 3 роки тому +4

      Neep santa he has talked about everything he has done, educated people on why its bad, made apologies, supported and donated to BLM before he was ‘cancelled’ yet you dont think he has done anything🤦‍♂️

  • @HeartShapedDreams
    @HeartShapedDreams 3 роки тому +254

    The “straight voice” comments are super offensive, what the hell is wrong with you people?
    I’ve watched Shane since his Fred parody video, when I was a kid I found them very funny, now in hindsight I understand how problematic they where. I still love Shane because I’ve watched his growth and can really tell he’s grown because I’ve grown. I’m sending you all love 💕

    • @ronmand8763
      @ronmand8763 3 роки тому +16

      Kindness Kindness how old are you? Were you even born in shane’s earliest videos? Cus if you cant see the growth he’s gone through then how can you have a valid point.

    • @puiwenlamlam2691
      @puiwenlamlam2691 3 роки тому +6

      @Kindness Kindness did u not read the comment

    • @neon6944
      @neon6944 3 роки тому +3

      What growth?

    • @worldofdaisy._
      @worldofdaisy._ 3 роки тому +2

      So you think Shane funny for calling us the n word multiple of times okay weird ass

    • @HeartShapedDreams
      @HeartShapedDreams 3 роки тому +11

      Daizsa Banks I never said that 🤷🏻‍♀️, all I said was that his content has drastically changed. And the Shane I’ve seen in the last years is VERY different from the Shane I knew before, and it makes sense because more than 10 years have passed.
      And in MY case, the person I was 10 years ago was vastly different from the person I am now, so I can understand people change and grow up

  • @avakinemma9513
    @avakinemma9513 3 роки тому +254

    1- Ryland knows how Shane really is..we see him a little bit on the internet but Ryland sees him all day everyday 2- People change over the years..I’ve changed so much in the last 2 years since I moved..yes, Shane’s old content 10 years ago may have been offensive but correct me if I’m wrong, we laughed at it did we not? Just because the world is going through a crisis doesn’t mean u can dig up old stuff and use it against people. Everybody is going through the same things right now.

    • @kittythebitty4092
      @kittythebitty4092 3 роки тому +22

      Hadley Thompson but he shouldn’t have to be destroyed for something he can’t reverse.

    • @NWolf17
      @NWolf17 3 роки тому +17

      @@kittythebitty4092 exactly. People are acting as if he still does he things now which he doesn't. His content has drastically changed for the better in my opinion. To be honest I think people are just bored and what to bring up the past which is kinda ruining this year even more for alot of content cteators. People have to understand that when starting out your going to make inappropriate jokes just to gain attention, everyone does that but then they change their acts to be genuine but the cancel culture just wants to focus on the past and not the now cause they know there in the wrong when they start comparing the pwrson from their past self to their present self

    • @thedivinesone6459
      @thedivinesone6459 3 роки тому +7

      1 - How you behave on the Internet is just how you are in real life. 2 - I never laughed at his offensive joke or when he pretended to fuck a 11 year old willow smith poster. Shane is a terrible person and needs to leave the Internet alone

    • @lily-zc2eq
      @lily-zc2eq 3 роки тому +2

      goldenshmirks and he was in his twenties when this was going down . NO excuses , he was an adult and he understood the impact of his actions .

    • @amelia-pp2eh
      @amelia-pp2eh 3 роки тому

      *DISCLAIMER: i am not trying to offend ANYBODY. sorry if i am* most people laughed at it is because racism (what shane did) was more... accepted? i guess? so yeah. now, people are more aware that it is NOT okay and never will be and never should be, since im white (im not sure if you are or you're not so im not gonna say) im not allowed to accept his apology (because of obvious reasons) so yeah

  • @PaolaTheRobot
    @PaolaTheRobot 3 роки тому +1530

    Him and Morgan addressed this so well. They didn't push forgiveness and try to hide shanes past. Good on them!

    • @dramalamaice4110
      @dramalamaice4110 3 роки тому +4

      When did Morgan address it? And on what platform?

    • @natssmallpets9301
      @natssmallpets9301 3 роки тому +7

      holahelloand her youtube

    • @emilyabdolali3035
      @emilyabdolali3035 3 роки тому +2

      Couldn’t agree more xo

    • @lal5555f
      @lal5555f 3 роки тому +3

      Say it with me! Good for them! not good on them ok??

    • @pillowbean3426
      @pillowbean3426 3 роки тому +1

      @@lal5555f g-good f-fo- i cant do it🥺 good on them!🥺

  • @adamemac
    @adamemac 3 роки тому +343

    Ryland, just have to say, this is a PERFECT video. Seeing your humble beginnings and little tid-bits of what makes you tick was really interesting. Sure, we've seen the personal side of you before, but this felt so much more so. There's only a couple of times in allllll my years of watching videos on UA-cam have I felt a deeper, emotional understanding of the creator from their video, and THIS is one of those times. Also, your advice, by way of expressing your thoughts and opinions, was VERY well said. I truly hope people recognize it for what it was and able [and willing] to resonate with it.
    I wish you (and Shane) nothing but the best. Always remember: this too shall pass. 💚

    • @sanb05
      @sanb05 3 роки тому +7

      This perfectly sums up what I wanted to comment. Glad someone else felt this way watching

    • @aspendotxyz
      @aspendotxyz 3 роки тому

      @@adamemac what they say

    • @adamemac
      @adamemac 3 роки тому +2

      @@sanb05 Thank you for saying so! I'm glad you felt the same way as well.

    • @adamemac
      @adamemac 3 роки тому +1

      @@aspendotxyz 😂 Thanks!

  • @Casasitueninsnjmwn
    @Casasitueninsnjmwn 3 роки тому +8

    Rylands maturity and sensibility toward this situation is incredible, and so sad that it’s so rare to see. Shane’s mistakes aren’t Rylands. Cheers to Ryland for this, its making me think much more about the situation as a whole.

    • @lemonzboyy
      @lemonzboyy 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/x2WBythSGoQ/v-deo.html

  • @idamelisen
    @idamelisen 3 роки тому +36

    I still love you guys so so much! I've been a viewer og Shane for over 10 years. And when he posted all that stuff, it was a whole other era... Times change, people change. I'm sure that if i was to become famous today someone would most definitely find some old crap i did or said that i don't consider as a part of who i am today..
    When i watched shanes content back then i didn't take any notice of it being wrong.. people give him too much crap for his past.
    I really hope UA-cam gives him another chance, he practically made them.🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @amelia-pp2eh
      @amelia-pp2eh 3 роки тому

      honestly i think this may be it for him. theres been COUNTLESS jokes/memes about shane and if he DID come back it he'd either not get a lot of views OR cancel him even more ORR make even MORE memes

  • @ok-de5cx
    @ok-de5cx 3 роки тому +963

    so we’re all here at the same time

  • @rachelt4792
    @rachelt4792 3 роки тому +3317

    While I don't agree with everything Shane has done, I sincerely hope he's okay.

    • @thatbrowngurl9558
      @thatbrowngurl9558 3 роки тому +155

      Nobody is agreeing to it...but that was HIS PAST ....move along

    • @rachelt4792
      @rachelt4792 3 роки тому +67

      @@thatbrowngurl9558 I never sent him hate

    • @bitteersweet.-.6618
      @bitteersweet.-.6618 3 роки тому +91

      I hope he’s okay too, I ain’t that big of a fan but I do enjoy his content here and there. I don’t agree at all with what he has done but he is still human and I hope he is okay.

    • @kaii186
      @kaii186 3 роки тому +35

      Everyone with mistakes or none should be okay✨❤️

    • @up_in_flames239
      @up_in_flames239 3 роки тому +36

      @@thatbrowngurl9558 yesss girl I agree.....Was freakin 10+ years ago..

  • @TheHayngurl808
    @TheHayngurl808 3 роки тому +59

    All the Shane bs aside, I thoroughly enjoyed this video and seeing this side of Ryland

  • @danielasierra946
    @danielasierra946 3 роки тому +11

    Honestly just sitting here waiting for Shane to have a comeback because He’s in my top 10 UA-camrs, heck he is in my top 5

    • @DrSuess-tl7ln
      @DrSuess-tl7ln 3 роки тому +1

      @Ashish Agrawal this!

    • @steelo2712
      @steelo2712 3 роки тому +2

      His impressionable little fans really fulfill the phrase “ignorance is bliss”.

  • @Michelllelabellle
    @Michelllelabellle 3 роки тому +123

    I think what Ryland said at the beginning was very thoughtful. I hope people are able to truly listen and consider it.

    • @heshohesho4512
      @heshohesho4512 3 роки тому

      Michele Elehcim
      ua-cam.com/video/FSSFgWlDbJU/v-deo.html

  • @claudiaowens8011
    @claudiaowens8011 3 роки тому +1458

    Just a psa beforehand: If y’all harass this man for him supporting his future husband y’all are just as toxic as Shane’s past behaviors.

    • @basil9571
      @basil9571 3 роки тому +100

      Finally someone has said it

    • @godirl
      @godirl 3 роки тому +46

      bruh how

    • @haleyren2804
      @haleyren2804 3 роки тому +56

      It about time someone has some common sense

    • @nayelisandoval6032
      @nayelisandoval6032 3 роки тому +47

      Toxic but not predatory. I'll take it

    • @lorenagamez9511
      @lorenagamez9511 3 роки тому +22

      THANK YOU OMG SO TRUE!!!

  • @mackenzieedmiston4130
    @mackenzieedmiston4130 3 роки тому +16

    I stand with Shane and Ryland, we've all made mistakes, we all have a past. The only thing we can do is move on from it and grow as a person.

  • @amyblevins380
    @amyblevins380 3 роки тому +2

    your past is your past we have all did stuff were not proud of....im happy for you and shane i be glad to see him when he comes back

  • @wink360
    @wink360 3 роки тому +223

    You seem so real in this instead of your "bougie character." I prefer this. Hope to see more!

    • @fuwibie6068
      @fuwibie6068 3 роки тому +13

      His bougie character is entertaining LOL
      I love him either way

    • @annastacey508
      @annastacey508 3 роки тому +6

      I just came here to say the same thing, I was gonna say this is the most real mature Ryland I’ve ever seen!

  • @imamobile5609
    @imamobile5609 3 роки тому +155

    Nothing about the drama but... Ryland is really shining with those glasses!

  • @DalainaRenee
    @DalainaRenee 3 роки тому +7

    I admire you for making this. And for sticking by Shane. That’s true love. Love you both. What happened was wrong but I don’t personally know either one of you besides your videos. I have no reason to hate someone I don’t know. I hope things get better & you both learn from the past.

  • @sdo7151
    @sdo7151 3 роки тому +8

    I love shane, everyone says and does stupid things at some point. People grow and change and if you don't like someone because of someone they USED to be, then don't watch them, but don't punish someone who changed into a better person.

  • @ashleynicole_4121
    @ashleynicole_4121 3 роки тому +567

    I think you spoke beautifully about the situation at hand. Everyone has a past and we've all said and done things that we regret. To acknowledge that and grow from it is true wisdom. I hope you and Shane find the peace you're looking for.
    On a side note, the hydrangeas are beautiful. Working in my flower bed is my way of finding my "zen". It gives me a sense of connection that was missing from my life. Something about putting something in the dirt and watching become something beautiful gives me such a sense of peace and accomplishment. Love you and Shane both! Hope to see more from you soon!

    • @bibi-bi9qu
      @bibi-bi9qu 3 роки тому +8

      You’re really out here supporting a guy who laughed about a baby being raped 5 years ago. Have you even seen any of his past videos?

    • @lostitem
      @lostitem 3 роки тому +3

      I'm fully in support of forgiving and seeing people grow as a person and be better, but... With Shane, I just haven't seen that growth. Yeah, it's his past, but the level of severity of the things he's done ( racism and pedophilia) are just too extreme for me to easily let go of. Not to mention how he's handled these issues being brought up just... He really hasn't done that great of a job at handling it, to say the least. And I get it, confronting this shit must be extremely hard, but for him to then impulsively go live, say shit, tweet out shit etc just isn't a good idea imo.
      I've watched these guys for years and I did enjoy Shane's content and his relationship with Ryan, his friends, and family, but now I myself have learned I shouldn't let things like this slide simply because I used to admire Shane. I just can't.

    • @kaitlynmccartney1939
      @kaitlynmccartney1939 3 роки тому +2

      bibi again. we are not supporting his past actions, we are supporting the growth from them. youtube used to be a different place where people were mean to be “cool.” not that pressure to be cool is an excuse for the horrible things he said, but he’s changed. you can either accept him as a new person or dwell on his past character who doesn’t define him any longer. :)

    • @kimwatts6338
      @kimwatts6338 3 роки тому

      I just said the same thing on Shanes. Great minds!

  • @angels.5409
    @angels.5409 3 роки тому +1945

    at least the way he is addressing it is much better than anyone else.
    edit. I know there is alot of hate going on around Shane and ryland. But i still see the good in people and not only the bad. If alot of you cant accept them because of what they did or them being associated with a person with a bad reputation then its okay. Your views are valid and i cant judge you for that. But i just want the internet to move on from this drama. I know its a disgusting for shane to say and do those things but at the end of the day hating them wont make me a good person. ☺️

  • @JenVB
    @JenVB 3 роки тому +2

    Ryland, thanks for this one! I am happy to see you finding ways to take care of yourself! Shane is lucky to have a supportive man like you at his side. We all make mistakes, its how we respond to them that defines us. 💜

  • @DaniefromCanada
    @DaniefromCanada 3 роки тому +4

    Ryland seems like such a genuine sensitive sweet soul.

  • @yarahadi93
    @yarahadi93 3 роки тому +754

    I’ve watched Shane since his Shnay’nay days. And have been going back to watch his every now and then for the past years. However, since he started doing the more serious documentary series he has definitely changed and has grown into a better person. We all grow and make mistakes. We own up to them and move on to do better things and I think that’s what Shane has done. Thanks Ryland for being there for him.

    • @hazemhesham6115
      @hazemhesham6115 3 роки тому +2

      Yara Hadi
      ua-cam.com/video/FSSFgWlDbJU/v-deo.html

    • @eggiene
      @eggiene 3 роки тому +2

      YES!!!!

    • @adre7806
      @adre7806 3 роки тому +7

      What about him shows that he is a better person.

    • @jessbellish
      @jessbellish 3 роки тому +32

      Ariana washington the way he acts. The things he does. He shows that he is a kind, empathetic person. He doesn’t intentionally hurt people and now he is very self aware and cautious not to be offensive or say something offensive. He has stuck up for people of color and people in the LGBTQ+ community numerous times within the past few years. He tries to see the best in people and forgives people when they show they have worked to be forgiven. People who have actually watched his content, live streams, videos he appears in, etc., have seen this reformed, kinder side of him

    • @kimberlymathewes
      @kimberlymathewes 3 роки тому +20

      I agree with this statement. I love Shane. I only started watching him i think in 2017. I've never seen any of the stuff people are complaining about. I will stick by Shane's side. Thank you Ryland for standing by Shane. Please tell him I miss and love him! 🙂💜

  • @karamjotkaur9396
    @karamjotkaur9396 3 роки тому +128

    Hi Ryland if u see this please let Shane know that there are ppl who miss him and hope he’s ok ❤️ I’m glad your there for him x

  • @ashleyguyer3634
    @ashleyguyer3634 3 роки тому +49

    I hope Shane doesn’t stop doing what he loves because of the past. He has changed alit and I think he uses his platform for good

    • @ShrikeCult
      @ShrikeCult 3 роки тому +2

      I hope he stops earning millions for promoting harmful content, and never makes any more.

    • @DrSuess-tl7ln
      @DrSuess-tl7ln 3 роки тому

      @Ashish Agrawal he needs a REAL therapist, not someone that plays one the internet

    • @mistid1485
      @mistid1485 3 роки тому

      @Ashish Agrawal call the police then.

  • @runrandiiirun
    @runrandiiirun 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for the introduction, I think people need to understand how humans grow and that we all have made mistakes in our past that do not describe who we are today. Wise words and genuine words, so appreciated.

  • @alexandraholmes5533
    @alexandraholmes5533 3 роки тому +52

    I’m so glad to see ryland back. We have missed you all and I am very proud of you and excited for the future

    • @heshohesho4512
      @heshohesho4512 3 роки тому

      Alexandra Holmes
      ua-cam.com/video/FSSFgWlDbJU/v-deo.html

  • @Awansie1
    @Awansie1 3 роки тому +134

    Literally like 2 hours ago I was thinking “I wonder when Ryland will post...”

  • @alicenpiper7960
    @alicenpiper7960 3 роки тому +5

    Very well said. His true fans can see who he truly is. He’s not a bad person.

  • @mikalahprice9306
    @mikalahprice9306 3 роки тому +1

    Love you all so much, Kobe that you’re staying strong. Anyone with eyes and a brain can see how much and how genuine Shane has changed !

  • @fiolpinonnataliamichelle4277
    @fiolpinonnataliamichelle4277 3 роки тому +592

    imagine getting shamed for someone else’s mistakes ? this ain’t it, we support you ryland 💖

    • @lydiastubbs4762
      @lydiastubbs4762 3 роки тому +23

      No he is getting hate because he was supporting the person making the mistakes

    • @georgierose
      @georgierose 3 роки тому +32

      BYE he's literally engaged to him..

    • @Tsunade_5thHokage
      @Tsunade_5thHokage 3 роки тому +62

      Lydia Stubbs He met and fell in love with the Shane now, not the Shane years ago.

    • @kiwiangeldust6912
      @kiwiangeldust6912 3 роки тому +7

      Lydia Stubbs Which is not right at all

    • @amorphouscoffin9356
      @amorphouscoffin9356 3 роки тому +29

      People attacking ryland for loving and supporting shane are like arsonists attempting to burn down the family house with everyone in it cos something the dad did. Toxic opinions dont matter, people need to find a better way to point out what they feel isnt right, from everyone else's viewpoints they look excited to attack someone, not offended.

  • @Jocelyn-iy3kd
    @Jocelyn-iy3kd 3 роки тому +1040

    No one should be hating on Ryland at all ! He hasn’t done anything wrong, but I agree with him I’ve been seeing him for a long time now and I’ve seen the change in him even through videos.

    • @kimbes6427
      @kimbes6427 3 роки тому +28

      Yes but staying with a person like Shane shows us we’re his morals are

    • @Jocelyn-iy3kd
      @Jocelyn-iy3kd 3 роки тому +40

      fresh avocado you can’t really help who you fall in love with though. Anyways they met awhile after all those things he would do/say. Don’t talk when you don’t know the story,dates, etc.

    • @OrangeOnesGaming
      @OrangeOnesGaming 3 роки тому +43

      @@kimbes6427 you know theres more to a person than what you see on camera. You only see a 10-20 minute clip of shane while ryland sees him 24/7 every day. We don't know how shane is like off camera. Blaming ryland just because he is "staying with him" is disgusting for you to say that since you dont know who shane really is besides the drama and clips you seen over the internet. Only ryland knows shane personally.

    • @pedroortiz3065
      @pedroortiz3065 3 роки тому +5

      OrangeOnes Gaming periodt !

    • @virginiaanndavidson178
      @virginiaanndavidson178 3 роки тому +8

      @orange - PREACH! Hell yes, you’re dead right. @naive avocado - person, seriously STFU. You don’t know these ppl. So form your own opinions but don’t assume you understand the opinions of ppl you’ve never met. The ego on you is....embarrassing. For you. Grow up.

  • @shaylenecornelison442
    @shaylenecornelison442 3 роки тому +6

    Well stated Ryland. Hugs to you both.

  • @maddiegraceg
    @maddiegraceg 3 роки тому +2

    Love you Ryland! Been watching Shane for 10 years and he is a completely different person now. He has changed and never reverts back to immature humor. He has grown, and we can’t change the past, only the future. You guys bring so much happiness to people. Hope you both feel the love ❤️

  • @thatemilygirl9104
    @thatemilygirl9104 3 роки тому +685

    I know everyone is interested in what Ryland had to say about Shane, but can we just take a moment to admire how Ryland is handling this? I’m sure he is having a rough time, but the fact that he is striving to meditate and create a positive space for himself is really inspirational.

    • @charlietube7165
      @charlietube7165 3 роки тому +1

      Which Emily

    • @Tintintintin666
      @Tintintintin666 3 роки тому +15

      Girl wasn't ms rylan the one who cussed someone out on twitter? 💀

    • @Tintintintin666
      @Tintintintin666 3 роки тому +2

      Cale Lambert its so funny people are really claiming him to be this positive thing , suddenly rylan is being the bigger person?

    • @Tintintintin666
      @Tintintintin666 3 роки тому +2

      Like he does not need to be praised for realizing he handled a situation in a shitty way

    • @thatemilygirl9104
      @thatemilygirl9104 3 роки тому +4

      Let me clarify: I don’t care for how he initially responded, but he has taken a time out and has come back with an intention of creating a positive space for himself. That is a good and positive thing. It shows growth.

  • @nicolenearlynailed1489
    @nicolenearlynailed1489 3 роки тому +457

    I love seeing this side of you, Ryland can come off as a character and it’s nice to see you show Ryan! I’m looking forward to seeing you grow, Shane too, tell him, he’s got this and there are many who support him and wish him well!!

  • @zozeebo5697
    @zozeebo5697 3 роки тому +4

    I totally agree with all of this when I watch Shane it feels like I’m watching a totally different person depending on what year I’m watching and I’m sure most people feel the same. I could even say this for myself everyone is constantly growing and changing and something from the past shouldn’t come back to haunt us x

  • @Reneexelizabeth
    @Reneexelizabeth 3 роки тому +1

    I love seeing meditation being talked about more frequently! I also use headspace every day. Im currently on day 369! I have grown so much since I started meditating, it's incredible. I encourage everyone to try it consistently, the growth you see not only within yourself, but in all of your relationships as well is truly amazing.

  • @daniellewilson4543
    @daniellewilson4543 3 роки тому +1389

    Everyone has a past , I’m a recovering heroin addict (7 years clean) and if someone judged me on the shit I did 7 years ago.. I wouldn’t listen to any of it

    • @melinduhh
      @melinduhh 3 роки тому +56

      I'm almost 3 years clean, and im the same way.

    • @fayemcarthur4609
      @fayemcarthur4609 3 роки тому +59

      Congratulations on your journey.

    • @hannahraayy3368
      @hannahraayy3368 3 роки тому +33

      Im a recovering addict aswell. People can change and shouident be judged from there past i still cannot forgive myself for what ive done but the insane judgement is so unnecessary :/

    • @dayshat9182
      @dayshat9182 3 роки тому +12

      Congrats ❤️

    • @aman-.-
      @aman-.- 3 роки тому +83

      yes everyone does have a past and congrats on staying clean but “joking” about racism, pedophilia and bestiality isn’t an addiction

  • @kirstymills2839
    @kirstymills2839 3 роки тому +209

    I’ve never clicked something so quickly

  • @devyngaswint1856
    @devyngaswint1856 3 роки тому +4

    Shane is still my favorite creator. I feel everyone has a bad past, no one is perfect. As a society we are finally growing in the right direction to stop discrimination towards races,genders, religions, etc. I’ve watched Shane for years and ever since he fell in love with Ryland it’s obvious that he truly happy and it shows in his content. I love y’all and will always be here for y’all. Just keep going on the right direction.

  • @jessigarcia1545
    @jessigarcia1545 3 роки тому +3

    I love Shane very much, his videos have always been there for me through every hardship in my life from my grandma passing away in 2010, to the horrible years that where middle school and high school, from my suicide attempt to me finally getting my life on track, and I wish there was something I could do too thank him. I don’t want him to go away people can change and watching Shane over the years I have seen him grow and change into who he is today, he’s caring, loving, passionate, and so very giving I just want him to be okay and know that he still has fans out there that love him very much, like me ❤️ Shane you made shitty jokes but that was 10 plus years ago I have said many terrible things to people that I love over the past 10 years but I’ve grown and learned from my mistakes and I know you have too, I hope you are well and I hope you read this and know I will never stop supporting and loving you ❤️

    • @steelo2712
      @steelo2712 3 роки тому +1

      What would Shane have to do in order for you to think that deplatforming him is necessary?

    • @aliciavomitsunicorns1815
      @aliciavomitsunicorns1815 3 роки тому

      Steelo apparently being a p*dophile isn’t enough for some people 😒🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @steelo2712
      @steelo2712 3 роки тому

      Alicia vomits unicorns Exactly why I asked this question...cuz I know for a fact that if a nobody influencer did the shit that Shane did they would be rooting for him/her to be deplatformed. But they’re just so manipulated into thinking he’s actually a good person...

    • @jessigarcia1545
      @jessigarcia1545 3 роки тому

      Steelo I respect your opinion and you should respect mine, I have my reasons why I support and love Shane and you have yours why you don’t

  • @Miss_E
    @Miss_E 3 роки тому +281

    I know this took a lot of strength and courage to post. And I’m sure negative comments will make their presence. But regardless of the anticipated negativity, stay strong. Stand by your man. Continue to learn and grow, and do what’s best for you and your family. Social media comes and goes. Family is forever.

  • @AlishaMarie
    @AlishaMarie 3 роки тому +1046

    my goal in life is to be as well spoken as ryland HAHAHAH

  • @unicornbones
    @unicornbones 3 роки тому +2

    I actually needed to hear this. Thank you, Ryland. You're a really positive person.

  • @mercedes_1996
    @mercedes_1996 3 роки тому +3

    Awe, I love this. With all the negativity in the world,Im glad to watch something so wholesome and positive. I wish you and your whole crew the best.