12 Tips for Autism Moms

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  • 12 Tips and Advice for Autism moms and basically any caregiver for an Autistic Child.
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  • @7Aheadfamily
    @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Friends, here's how we can support you, and how you can support us ❤
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  • @RebaMiran
    @RebaMiran 3 місяці тому +6

    Thank for these tips! Especially the reminder of taking time for myself….sometimes it’s hard to do…I’m so focus on my child’s needs that I forget about my own.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      You are so welcome and always remember: You got this!🩵🩵

  • @blo1314
    @blo1314 3 місяці тому +2

    My little girly is 5. She's decided to start getting into my makeup and put it on her face 😂 this is so exciting to me because its what children do. She's mimicking me and im so happy about it. We have to just celebrate and love all the little moments. These kids are so unique and fun! We are lucky to be moms to these amazing kiddos. ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      love this! THank you for sharing. Simon is now saying "Why?" again and again, i am not annoyed, because I know this is a typical milestone for a four year old. Love it!

  • @nikkileroy1011
    @nikkileroy1011 2 місяці тому +2

    This video made me cry. My son is 2 1/2 and we're in the process of diagnosis. I feel devastated and then guilty for feeling that way. This helped me. Thank you. ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for sharing ❤️❤️❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому +1

      It’s comments like this that keep us going.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому +1

      People will say a lot of dumb things, but know we are here for you if you need anything ❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому

      Mother REACTS to "Autism is the Mother’s Fault" UA-cam Commenter
      ua-cam.com/video/T1qHiv7R69U/v-deo.html

  • @christinaweight1619
    @christinaweight1619 3 місяці тому +3

    Thanks for your wonderful channel. Thanks for your bravery about the loss of your precious daughter. My youngest is on the spectrum. It has helped me adjusting to watch your channel.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      You can do it!❤️❤️ Thank you for being so kind!💕💕

  • @Sonicfan-cc1te
    @Sonicfan-cc1te 3 місяці тому +3

    Tomorrow is Autism Acceptance day and a great thing to watch for autism acceptance day is the cartoon Show Run Jump Play which is all about autistic children playing sports (I already told you a lot about the show and I know you checked it out as well) but it’s a great show for children to watch to learn about autism.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for sharing!💕💕 We appreciate you telling us about it!💕💕

  • @HautePinkFluff
    @HautePinkFluff 3 місяці тому +5

    You’re brave calling yourself an Autism Mom. I used that term on social media and people were very angry with me.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому

      I’m sorry people got upset with you. What was their hang up? If you don’t mind me asking

    • @Colbsnipes
      @Colbsnipes 2 місяці тому +2

      It’s fine to use that term whoever was mad must’ve not understood what you were saying

    • @SpecialEdTalk
      @SpecialEdTalk Місяць тому +1

      People get insulted by everything.... Especially in the US. Whether its the autism puzzle, parents asking about behavior therapies or ABA... Or using the word autistic compared to using child with autism.... Just ignore them and move on. The internet is full of bullies.

    • @HautePinkFluff
      @HautePinkFluff Місяць тому

      ⁠​⁠@@7Aheadfamily Autistic adults are upset with moms that post on social media talking about their struggles with their autistic children. I don’t agree with the backlash at all and seeing other moms talk about the same struggles that go through makes me feel less alone, which is also why I love your channel. ❤

  • @autisticjenny
    @autisticjenny 3 місяці тому +5

    I look forward to watching this. I just made a video on my channel about what is like to be an autistic person, autistic mom (me) when you have kids. There are far and few videos about that. But I look forward to watching this because my grandson is autistic😊

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you. I checked out your channel and it looks great! We subscribed!

    • @autisticjenny
      @autisticjenny 3 місяці тому

      @@7Aheadfamily that is amazing! Thank you💕

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      Of course!💕💕💕

  • @DestinyAR
    @DestinyAR 3 місяці тому +3

    I love the thumbnail photo, thank you for these tips 😀

  • @Echokaylee
    @Echokaylee Місяць тому

    You have such a beautiful family!! I have to tell you Ezra was the cutest baby I have ever seen!!! 😍 thank you so much for your content; we are on the waiting list, & after we get diagnosis I am definitely joining ASD club! I love the "you're in good company" line ❤ Amen 😊 can't wait to read your book!

  • @Kmfriend1
    @Kmfriend1 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for sharing this ❤️ it was nice to hear!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +2

      Glad you enjoyed it!❤️❤️❤️

  • @littlejonathorn6860
    @littlejonathorn6860 3 місяці тому

    Great tips Hollie!!!

  • @andrearamosramos130
    @andrearamosramos130 2 місяці тому

    Thank you I needed this

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому

      We are so glad that this was helpful!😊😊😊

  • @tamaraanderson7260
    @tamaraanderson7260 2 місяці тому

    What a great chair to relax in each day, I hope you get to use it! Simon looks like he loves it too.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому

      He does like it! Thank you for commenting!💜💜💜

  • @MEME-ic4gr
    @MEME-ic4gr 2 місяці тому

    My grandson is almost 7 and he knows lots of words and i see a light switch coming on!!!! I was giving him a routine bath and he said”MEME BATH” and full clothed i went in and we loved it! If he tells me , if i can i do it!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому

      We wish you and you grandson the best!❤️❤️❤️

  • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
    @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 3 місяці тому +1

    I call myself a type 1 diabetes mom and an autism mom also . I have my oldest daughter with type 1 and my 5 yr old has level 3 non verbal. In fact having kids with both the type 1 is way scarier and xomstant stress since my oldest is a picky eater. She changed after her type 1 diagnosis. Both can be alot . But I am thankful for both my children 🙏 ❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for commenting!❤️❤️❤️

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 3 місяці тому

    Bill Engvall has some pretty good stand up comedy and most of it is clean and pretty family friendly.
    I found his UA-cam channel last year when I had an eight millimeter kidney stone and watching his channel made things easier for me in the roughly two months that I waited for the stone to pass. I was able to relate to about half to three quarters of his routine about the kidney stone (fortunately not including the pulling the stent one) that he had. In my case the stone was able to pass on its own without any procedures.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for commenting! Sorry that you had a hard time with your kidney stones❤️❤️

  • @amacooper9702
    @amacooper9702 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much!! For this , I do wish my mother had stumbled across you guys while I was growing, I think things would have been significantly different and better for the both of us had she done so.
    Also the not comparing things! We know when people are doing it to we aren't stupid just tend to communicate in different ways ...the amount of times I remember adults talking around me about how someone else's child did something first , or how I couldn't do this and I was weird or rude to strangers ect like I heard it all and it didn't make me feel good at all...because it's not like I wasn't trying to communicate or meant to be rude by not talking when I was meant to or not hugging someone or shaking hands or whatever but it hurt... especially when a kid did something and my mum went see why dont you do that or , why cant you be more like so and so ect

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      First of all, a big hug from all of us here at 7-Ahead. So sorry that people have been so mean. That is extremely difficult to deal with. Honestly, the thing that has got us through our tough times has always been our faith and belief in God and the Lord Jesus Christ. Happy to share more about that if you’d like, another book, I actually just listened to was this one here, and it’s a pretty good one as well. Ultimately you are a child of God with limitless potential, no matter what anyone else may say or think. Build your relationship with God, and he will guide you to overcome all obstacles that get thrown your way. You can get a free audiobook by going to this link, and the book we recommend is called, "The Obstacle is the Way" amzn.to/47kCeER

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 3 місяці тому +2

    In connection with the tip about independence some examples of things not to say are “Act Normal!”, “Stop acting like a baby (or infant)!”, “Don’t be such a baby!”, and “Act like a human!”. I could add some other ones to this list but these are some of the ones that I have heard the most.
    I have been on the receiving end of of some of these (and variations of them) off and on over the years and I have seen some people make these same types of comments to other people who are on the spectrum.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your insight!🩷🩷🩷

  • @nathanjw940
    @nathanjw940 3 місяці тому

    I am right there with Ezra love nature. I am home too much little things can get into a full meltdown. Stores and the environment tends to gets sensory overload where I get gassy and bloating.
    Watch their siblings I really feel siblings get their autistic sibling sometimes more than the parents. We had cousins night my mom was so worried my brother would get lost in the crowd. We had a great time with him and he could just be himself. I see it in Marie just being there to guide as just one of the cousins and nothing else.
    My brother is flying to visit me in Florida alone excited he has a great sense of direction and he's getting help with airport staff but he's getting independence

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your story!💕💕💕

  • @Lauvreede3003
    @Lauvreede3003 3 місяці тому +1

    extra tip: prevent stressing over details. both for the child and yourself. allow things to go different than you planned and don't plan a day to the last second.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing!💕😊💕

  • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
    @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video i really needed this 💗. Alot of people in my life are on me about im not quote doing enough. Emmalina wants me to carry herm. Shes not always wanting me to do stuff with her. I just kinda let her do her thing and take her cues. She only has melt downs for 3 hours when someone visited and in her face and keeps bothering her or telling her to say something over and over

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing!💕💕 Who is Emmalina?💕💕

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 3 місяці тому +1

      @@7Aheadfamily emmalina is my 5 yr old autistic daughter level 3 non verbal

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому +1

      That's right. Thank you fro sharing about her.

  • @user-ej9nb9qz3u
    @user-ej9nb9qz3u 3 місяці тому +1

    i have some austium good night happy easter

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      Good night to you too! We're excited about Easter too!

  • @gamergate2.0andbooks
    @gamergate2.0andbooks 3 місяці тому

    I also know one of the things i use to do as a kid and my brain still wants to do and im fighting it everyday and its to put thing's inline

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing, can you tell us what you want to do?❤️

  • @user-ej9nb9qz3u
    @user-ej9nb9qz3u 2 місяці тому +1

    im getting tested for austium 24th of this month

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому

      Cool. Thank you for sharing. ❤️

  • @rbrtpongo
    @rbrtpongo 3 місяці тому +1

    I been working on a few autism pictures of when i was a kid about what school was like also I have a twin brother in the autism world granted i don't have a twin brother in real life but i do have a twin brother on the spectrum in the autism world. there something that i have learn about myself as well to. Im having trouble in sunday school and in elders meetings like I sometimes talk alot when i try not to and i also have the same issue in sunday school. last sunday in church a friend of mind ask me if i could help him in the deacons meeting and i had a fun time.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      glad to hear you had fun. thanks for sharing. I think we are all constantly learning new things about ourselves.

  • @Christian_Martinez_yt
    @Christian_Martinez_yt 3 місяці тому +3

    I thought Mother's Day was in May

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +2

      It is!❤️ It is just because we explain tips for moms of children with Autism❤️❤️❤️

  • @joshuanutter5454
    @joshuanutter5454 Місяць тому

    I wish my sons mom would be a part, but unfortunately she only wants to sleep and ignore us. So it’s me and my son all day everyday. I’m sorry for your loss😢

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Місяць тому +1

      We are very sorry that you are going through that. That is a very hard thing to deal with. Honestly, the thing that has got us through our tough times has always been our faith and belief in God and the Lord Jesus Christ. Happy to share more about that if you’d like, another book, I actually just listened to was this one here, and it’s a pretty good one as well. Ultimately you are a child of God with limitless potential, no matter what anyone else may say or think. Build your relationship with God, and he will guide you to overcome all obstacles that get thrown your way. Hope this is helpful to you❤️❤️❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Місяць тому +1

      You can get a free audiobook by going to this link, and the book we recommend is called, "The Obstacle is the Way" amzn.to/47kCeER

  • @gabriellahsdancingheart8808
    @gabriellahsdancingheart8808 3 місяці тому +4

    How can I help my son mask less? (ASD1)
    Also, fyi, the autism alliance website is not working.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      Good question. An autistic person would be able to answer this question better than me. And thank you for letting me know about the link; we'll go and see what's wrong. I would say, as a parent, encourage him to be himself, but it's ultimately up to him whether or not he chooses to mask in public. Try to make home a safe place where he doesn't feel like he needs to mask. Don't point out when he is engaging in autistic behavior or stimming, don't shame him.... Perhaps you already do all of these things. I would ask someone who is autistic, this question. Does anyone on this channel who is seeing this want to answer?

  • @ayubmarcus5566
    @ayubmarcus5566 3 місяці тому

    I am waiting for your new videos

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      They usually come out every week on Saturday🩷🩷🩷 Thank you for waiting!🩵🩵🩵

    • @ayubmarcus5566
      @ayubmarcus5566 3 місяці тому

      Ok

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 місяці тому +1

      💕💕💕

  • @LifeWithShawn2024
    @LifeWithShawn2024 3 місяці тому

    I know I've said this before but there's a high probability that I'm autistic on the mild end ( similar to your son Simon ) who has ASD level 1 . The social environment in my high school in west Tennessee is very toxic mainly 99.9% of students in all grade levels are downright menaces and negative demonic energy . Majority of the teachers about 75% are just as rude as the students draining my sanity & mental health very easily causing me to have alot of sensory overloads / meltdowns making me question my life . The huge amount of profanity , derogatory remarks , disrespect , fighting , violence that goes on is crazy . What is your honest advice for my situation ?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      First of all, a big hug from all of us here at 7-Ahead. So sorry that people have been so mean. That is extremely difficult to deal with. Honestly, the thing that has got us through our tough times has always been our faith and belief in God and the Lord Jesus Christ. Happy to share more about that if you’d like, another book, I actually just listened to was this one here, and it’s a pretty good one as well. Ultimately you are a child of God with limitless potential, no matter what anyone else may say or think. Build your relationship with God, and he will guide you to overcome all obstacles that get thrown your way.❤️🩷❤️

    • @LifeWithShawn2024
      @LifeWithShawn2024 3 місяці тому

      @@7Aheadfamily Have you seen all of the signs of the end times / rapture nearing & how the antichrist is corrupting people / society as we know it ?

    • @LifeWithShawn2024
      @LifeWithShawn2024 3 місяці тому +1

      @@7Aheadfamily Do you know about the end times and see it in our world we live in now ?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      you can get a free audiobook by going to this link, and the book we recommend, is called, "The Obstacle is the Way" amzn.to/47kCeER

  • @Sonicfan-cc1te
    @Sonicfan-cc1te 3 місяці тому +3

    Isn’t Mother’s Day on May 12th though?

    • @JonBrase
      @JonBrase 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, this just about gave me a heart attack...
      "Mother's day is tomorrow and I've coordinated nothing with my brother?"

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      yes. it's May 12th

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      Sorry to scare you, We celebrated Mother's day a bit early so we could get the video out a few weeks before.

  • @ayubmarcus5566
    @ayubmarcus5566 3 місяці тому

    Hello How are you i am from Pakistan were are you from nice voice God bless you all nice voice ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      Hi, thank you! We're from the US💕💕

    • @ayubmarcus5566
      @ayubmarcus5566 3 місяці тому

      @@7Aheadfamily wow nice God bless you

    • @ayubmarcus5566
      @ayubmarcus5566 3 місяці тому

      @@7Aheadfamily i am so happy you reply my message thank you love you ❤❤❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      Of course! We are happy to reply to comments!💜💜💜

    • @ayubmarcus5566
      @ayubmarcus5566 3 місяці тому

      @@7Aheadfamily Yes Thanks for reply my message

  • @Ollie-platt.801
    @Ollie-platt.801 3 місяці тому +1

    It’s not Mother’s Day 0:00 😂😂😂
    It’s Easter 🐣 😂😂😂😊

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому

      We know!😊❤️ It's just because we explain tips for moms of children with Autism❤️ But yes, it is Easter! Do you have any plans?

    • @user-ej9nb9qz3u
      @user-ej9nb9qz3u 3 місяці тому

      happy easter and im so stressed

    • @Sonicfan-cc1te
      @Sonicfan-cc1te 3 місяці тому +1

      @@7Aheadfamily I have plans all weekend. Yesterday I went to a really large indoor playground/fun Center and took one of my friends from my program that I’m in and today I had a friend over and after his mom took me to a trampoline park quite similar to the one you guys go to, Tomorrow I’m going on an Easter egg hunt and going swimming and Monday I’m going to the Zoo with my same friend I saw yesterday and another friend from the same program so I’m doing lots this weekend.

    • @Ollie-platt.801
      @Ollie-platt.801 3 місяці тому

      @@7Aheadfamily no just an egg hunt
      You should do an egg hunt
      I think Simon and Ezra with enjoy that😁😁😁😁

    • @Ollie-platt.801
      @Ollie-platt.801 3 місяці тому

      @@user-ej9nb9qz3u why

  • @joseph9637
    @joseph9637 2 місяці тому

    promo sm

  • @calvinnaude2402
    @calvinnaude2402 3 місяці тому +1

    Do 2 boys in wearing diapers ?

    • @Sonicfan-cc1te
      @Sonicfan-cc1te 3 місяці тому +1

      Simon is fully potty trained (at least during the day) and Ezra is in the middle of potty training I believe.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  3 місяці тому +1

      We are working on potty training Ezra right now❤️