The most effective ways to deal with an addicted member of your family and why you feel manipulated
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- Опубліковано 20 жов 2024
- If you are dealing with an addicted member of your family and you feel used, manipulated, angry etc etc, please don’t hate yourself for it, these feelings are totally valid.
Addiction takes a toll on everyone including the addicted person and on this episode of LNS, Trizah Kainika the lead therapist and psychologist at All Smiles Therapy and Rehabilitation Center will be walking us through the genesis of addiction, its causes, effects and how to treat it and I hope we can all learn from her and continue extending love to those battling addiction
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Addiction is a spiritual disease, an addicted person must be willing to start the process of recovering by asking God for help and allowing God to take charge..full surrender..therapists play an important role as well because there's always a deep rooted cause why you are addicted..i.e childhood traumas , bereavement PTSD etc
@@TessCarey addiction is genetic and with awesomeness we can break the pattern that layers in our coded genes and when the pattern is broken in our individual genes and then goes to be broken as well to the collective human consciousness!
Life itself is spiritual anyway but is good not to negligence the body and it complex construction and the spirituality of life hides or exists in the closest that called the body.
To understand the spirituality aspect then one have to start by understanding the body in the holistic glass.
A good teacher start to teach the students in the things they know and then go upwards!
@gss290 you are quite correct.
Everything is spiritual nonsense here we go again. Come deliver our brother, show us your magic like seriously. Listen to the professional and stop misleading people.
I wonder why most of time people rush to the spiritual aspect? Can it be the spiritual christianity addition apon africans? Or the trauma of religion over the continet?
I suffered the consequences of alcohol addiction and i understand well how addiction can ruin ones life to thq extent of even causing death. My addiction resulted in me being permanently on a wheelchair due to spinal cord injury. While at the hospital i met a counselor who walked with me thru the process until i accepted my condition. After being discharged from the hospital i was interested in studying psychology so as to help others and also to understand how drugs end up ruining other peoples lives.
I feel it for you,but where excertly can one get a counselor
LNN is all inclusive, this is addiction in scientific /world understanding..am sure we will have one on a spiritual understanding.its by God's grace that i am free of three addictions for 2 year's now... it's a journey.
Hapo kwa telling lies, I relate. My brother once told his friend to inform us that he was dead and they needed money to transfer his body to the mortuary. My sister saw through their lies and politely told him to inform the police to help them transfer the body to the city mortuary, and we would follow later . The following day,my brother called saying he needed money urgently😂 . To cut the long story short, he's now saved and we are so grateful to God.
That was extreme 😂
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Thats faaaar deeep …😅 n sad,,,,thank God for salvation!!!
@Auntiesheey Yes, it was, but he was using the language of death for the third time, so we kind of knew. He had lied about the death of his child, then girlfriend, and unfortunately, it didn't work.
Amen
Dear Lynn,
Thank you for giving hope to those who are affected directly or indirectly. Thank you for allowing us to hold such a sensitive discussion that is rarely addressed in your great platform.
My heart bleeds for all those affected......ADDICTION IS A MENTAL HEALTH DISORDER.
There's hope, there's help and at Allsmiles Therapy Center & Training Institute Allsmiles we are here for you all.
Thank you Team LNN for the love & support🙏.
With love❤️.
Trizah Kainika.
I must confess this has been my prayer 😢to know how to help a loved one who's an alcoholic..God bless you Lynn fro this topic 🙏🙏❤️
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ME TOO..COZ WEEEH HUBBY IS DRIVING ME CRAZY
@@@raelwangari6635the struggle is real am In the same boat, and it is such as roll coaster
I love how Trizah explains everything in a layman language.
Thanks Lynn for this flatform may God always walk before you.
Addiction is when you have a strong physical or psychological need or urge to do something or use something. It is a dependence on a substance or activity even if you know that it causes you harm.
Enabler -a person who encourages or enables negative or self-destructive behaviour in another.
"being an enabler to an addict does more harm than good"
Addiction is just like any other disease healing takes time❤.
Let me take my notebook
Morning team 🤛🥰 let me take my notebook so that I can help my bro, so help me Lord 🙏🙏
Lynn thank you for bringing the counselor on board, one of my parent is an addict it's really annoyes me a lot it's a bother , I personally hated alcohol at an early age up to date I fear alcohol by all means literally all drugs but I really thank God
And to you Lynn and your Crew Baraka Tele Kama Kawa 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹
Addiction comes through various packages. It may be sexual, drugs (both and soft), alcohol, food, gaming, unhealthy eating and so on. Although most of the things are good, too much repetitive consumption is harmful and we describe it as addiction. Some addictions result from poor personal choices but others are a result of unwilling manipulation from the spiritual realms.
For easy understanding host pastor t he will give a deep teaching on this matter. Because I can't write an essay on how this issue is connected to the spiritual side.
Lynn tuletee Father CK. Aongee kuhusu parenting
And Lynn please make a panel of parenting especially to this Gezs
I support. He is well versed with many topics.
We all are imprinted to addiction...because of the emptiness that layers in every individual...Just because some does not do drugs that don't mean their don't find other ways to feel that they have been relief for something.
Addiction is feeling relief from something for a shorted time and then for seeking of more...
With the awareness we can then exposé us to good stimulation for exemple creativity...good balance in workalik...and other ways that get us to find dopamin sources...working, running be in harmony with nature...environnement that loves us for what we are and not for what we do and etc!
Lynn God bless you. All your shows are ever a blessing. This is the best. I must take two family members who are struggling to this rehab, so help me God
I cannot sit and watch two great destinies go down the drain. Yehoshua ,Yahweh the Lord of the Host I need your divine intervention in this matter.
I can relate to the enabling part and lies that has no end. I thank God that my relative went through detox and has been well and clean for three months confessing that it was a disease that people should be taught about.
Thanks Lynn and Terry.
My late friend was so addicted that even when his health started to deteriorate, he couldn't stop. It's a terrible feeling knowing there's nothing you can do to help, unless they take the first step 😢😢
This is my prayer to break addiction in my family,God take control 🙏
God bless you Trezah for providing a safe space for Lynn, a safe space for LNN Community and a safe space for the world at large. Trezah your professionalism is outstanding and yes, keep winning.
For everyone you can read the book "Unchained by John Asogonnde" he talks about his battle with addiction and how he far he's come.
Also his concept of the Eden Bar- Non alcoholic bar in Ghana is also mind-blowing 😊
My Dad is addicted to alcohol 😢and the situation is worsening day by day,,he started spending all his hardly earned wealth and everything has been diplited,,now he ask money from us and he says I brought you up ,I schooled you so it's time for paying me back ,,mind you he even con us sometimes 😢😢 being a first born it's just a huge burden for me bcoz irresponsibility took his larger part and I have siblings to educate,feed dress,The other day mom was diagnosed with reducible hernia and it needed surgery but he kept assuming it's not his role I thank God mum got help she is recovering
Thanks Lynn, we are greatful for these educative shows, its hard for society to accept that drugs addiction is a disease making difficult for them to understand, accept and find ways of helping those addicted that judging and discriminating them.
This is an eye opening conversation. Kindly,be holding such kind of conversations oftenly.
A silent viewer and follower to your channel Lynn,Let me comment before i even i watch, a lady and very addictive to alcohol and smoking I feel embarrassed but my mind tells me it's not yet time to change haki hope this show of today makes me quit.when family members try and ask me if I'm on the drugs the answer is to deny deny and deny cz no one of them have ever seen me take it cz I just distanced myself from them 😢
You better go to a rehab for at least one or two month and try it out
Thanks for your concern dear ❤will definitely do it@@sarahngugi2779
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Watu wengine wako na addiction ya drugs mm niko na addiction ya kupea muhindi pesa through aviator 🥹🥹 uweeeh nataka muniombee 😅😅😢
You have to quit man😅
Great insights
Sure it takes time and dedication
Good morning ☀️ Team LNN❤ nice 👍 to see you our resident therapist Trizah from all smiles therapy
Thank you for tuning in Latifah🙏
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Great job Lynn and Triza. You are helping many
God saved me from alcohol addiction. It is generational too.
Keep going
Great insights.
Addiction of what.....? Lnn plz
And what I know about addiction
Is that it's related to witches.... life is spiritual
Eg alcohol, prostitution,stealing failing etc this all are related to witches with high percentage
Though what she's saying makes some sense.
Thanks LNN for this unlimited knowledge.
Ar you for real??? Witches? Stop watching Nigerian movies
@@damariszuckschwert9489 I wonder too
Witches....😀😀how now
Did you even go to school ?😢
Good thing is that the addicted individual has to make the decision solely for them to start the recovery journey.
Lynn always reads our minds and delivers everyday
Thank you for tuning in 🙏
It usually overpowered through prayers
Thank you Triza...More Grace to you and your Crew....❤❤🌹
I love this lady
First time to comment on this show
Great job Lynn
Haki girl you are 100+1% correct. Am listening to you and can attest to all what these guys do. Weee..
Answers i always ask myself while dealing with my own addicted son in a rehab the fifth month now feeling so down right now😢
So sorry he will come out well take 1 day at a time it's not easy.
@@fousiaibrahim8335 thank you ksh is my biggest challenge although am trying
Good morning team Lynn❤❤❤❤❤❤ tuned in
Listening to this 😢 going through the same because of my dad anakunywa pombe... everything is about him... nimechokaaaa watu hawalali kwa nyumba na ako 52yrs shually 😭😭 Lord. Mchukue tu🤲
My mom hadi ataki kuona mtu kwa compound yake n ni watoto wake😢😢soo toxic
Waaah don't wish your dad to die just pray for him
Wao!
A great show
Worth watching
Lynn please share contacts for suppliers of those 😍 burnt yellow seats
I think I dispute this perception on this subject
Incredibly educative episode.
❤❤❤ thank you .
IAM too suffering from addiction of game mania gambling I used almost my business capital worth 2,7milion, I regret but still I play,I don't know what to do to stop this addiction
Pole but stop it will make you loose everything
My dota is Lynn
Addiction is horrible I dealt with Cirrhosis of the liver of a family member was really bad finally rested in pain going for parasanteisis .
Watching 👀 ❤❤❤good morning Lynn Ngugi network
This is beautiful
How do you help an addicted person who refuses to go for rehabilitation?
I also want to know😭😭😭
My bro smokes more than twenty cigarettes per day,,,is he already addicted? It's slowly interfering with his life....I'm scared he might develop lung or throat cancer
I always thank God my son has never been suicidal all those years from 2020 and he never steal or sell things all what he have been doing is asking money to everyone he knows but i trust God he will soon recover through Smecc rehab in Muranga with Sergeant Kimenchu Moses
Is there a cheap rehab,I want to take someone but the cost is high
@@RoseMwangi-hk7io yes based in Muranga Smecc rehabilitation pocket friendly
Road to 1mill 🎉🎉🎉
Thanks so much, this has really enlightened me. Am Dealing with a loved one who is addicted, used to get bitter but now I am healed.
Thanks so much Lynn n more Grace, kudoz to Trizah🙏
My brother sold his plot imagine 😢
We are already they❤❤❤❤❤❤
Support don't punish
Is there chance that my brother who has had alcohol addiction for now over 5 years can recover. If yes, please drop me the emails, am in Uganda
As a medical practitioner and a believer, I approve most of what u said. But what I don't agree with u is u saying addiction has nothing to do with curses. That's not true. Addiction may have everything to do with possession and curses in certain cases (individuals). In religion death was a consequence of sin. It's therefore a curse we shall all face. It results mainly through diseases and disorders. Some of which are genetically predisposed to a race or family. Therefore some diseases and disorders have a direct spiritual origin. And this can be proven directly from Scriptures. Eg an epileptic who had a mute demon exorcised by Jesus and bacame well. Also a psychiatric who had a legion of demons, a person who got leprosy as a result of being cursed and so on. In association to addiction, we first have to consider the etiology. Some addictions are a direct consequence of one's lifestyle but not all are. Some are engineered in the spiritual realm where the enemies agents are attached to a certain bloodline to ensure a continued destruction or bondage. For example a certain blood line have familiar spirits or are witches or sorcerers and an individual is ordained to be the next successor but he/she refuses. What happens is they'll encounter spiritual harassment to a point that it becomes unbearable so as they are forced to take respond to their call. In the process one may dive into drug abuse henceforth addiction. Also they maybe possessed with demons that push them to addictions like jezebel spirits may lead to sexual addiction, mommon may lead to unhealthy love of money and so on.
For such indepth knowledge please listen to father carlos martins in the UA-cam series called the exorcist files. You'll be shocked. He has intensive knownledge pertaining this matters (addictions and spiritual relations). Though im not catholic, but i must give him credit when its due he's too got to start with.
Thank you for reading this long message.
@@dondony- I agree to disagree...I think it's wise to catégories subject by their concept...in this dialogue is all about to see things from the psychology of the mind rather than the spiritual one.
We all have the printed code of addiction and it manifestation in different forms. We live in the time where we catégories and give status to what is good or bad rather than acknowledge situation and things the way their are! We judge and label addiction by the instruments or substance we use to try to feel the emptiness we feel.
To understand what addiction looks like we then have to visit the brain! The brain gets the feel good even when you exposé alot to your mobile...in this case we can conclude that we all have addiction and awareness about it is get to be our protection...the difference is just that some people are more vulnerable to some kind of substance than other but that doesn't give anyone power to point out other...we are all in the same drama of life! And the papoose is to recognise those patterns so that we can awaken to the greater consciousness and recover and maybe heal from our human suffering and traumas we have as individuals and as collective!
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I agree
@@gss290ofcourse in my introduction I stated that I approved most what she said. But only the part she stated it can't be spiritual. The medical and psychological part is on point. I was amazed on how the put things on there places. She did a good job. But it can also be spiritual
@@dondony-I thank my parents because I wasn't raised being fed stories of witches a curses. That one is pure freedom. You grow knowing you are responsible for your own mess and no one else. Nothing can stop ypu from doing anything. Children raised with these kind of beliefs have a burden of fear for the rest of their lives. As a doctor it's a pity because education should enlighten people and stop them from primitive thinking.
Team team, Gooood morning ❤❤❤❤
Watched all through ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wololo😢mimi niliitwa hio Darkness (Advocate)
Thanks for this...Now I Know better 🙏🙏🙏...
Nilianza from being a Helper/Rescue to a Hero...now to an Advocate 😢😢😢
God forgive me 😭😭😭🙏
True 😊
Lynn what about those addicted in gambling especially this thing called aviator,what can we do about them
Very good question, what about gambling addiction?
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My mom😢
Anyonone who is addicted to velo like i am??
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