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This is my situation right now, married for 5 years but no kid,my husband has 4 kids with other women,and now he has made it clear to marry the one with two kids,only God knows the pain am going through,the insults from this lady 😭😭😭😭 don't know what to do.
Hellen, two wrongs don't make a right. You got into a marriage as a second wife. Your hubby followed customary laws and paid dowry. You're officially his wife. By leaving him you've destroyed his life even more and that of his children. In my opinion, you should have just repented, renewed your commitment to God and then continued in the marriage - - in the permissive will of God.
Single ladies when u see a married man crying to you for a what is happening between him and the wife,funika masikio,fungua macho vizuri,run for your dear life...let Him tell Jesus his problems
So is the man also expected to stay childless because his wife is being respected? What's the man in such a situation expected to do since his wife will cry anyway? He shackles himself and suffers silently?
@@rosesengo4704 if the roles are reversed and it's the man who is infertile, is a woman allowed to have children outside of marriage as well? I hope so
@@chiherachashe8208 everyone has their reasons for getting married. If one of the wife's goals was to have children, she is free to walk away and get married elsewhere to have her children. The man will sort himself out. We found this world with its sorrow and we shall die and leave the sorrow waiting to catch other people.
@@rosesengo4704 the bible is there to teach us life ethics ,read your Bible..... expecially Abraham's story and understand it, you will understand barrenness is not the a factor to separate people.....
@@janerosejuma5840 it goes without saying … you can NEVER cause tears to an innocent person and get away with it , God never sleeps he opens the book of remembrance
Out of curiosity, how did you come to decide to leave? I’m asking because I’m under the impression that mostly it’s either the first wife leaves or they both stay in chaos 😢
My marriage was ruined by a lady i knew very well when my son was 3 years. i was thrown out of the house on saturday but on monday she was already in my house as a wife. i went through a very hard time psychologically and mentally. i was into deppression because she could even send me their selfie videos and photos. i almost ran mad. the pain i went through i wouldnt wish any woman to. it has taken me 5 years to heal from those wounds. But i thank God He has been so faithful to me. i overcame this emotional torment. its true first love never goes away easily. it takes time. Am believing God to bless me with a God fearing husband and a blessed marriage
Be strong girl...the truth is time heals all wounds...I assure you the man will try to come back...don't take him back no matter what...Also a person who does that to someone will repeat it on the new person..you wait and see...hakuna kitu mpya duniani...its just repetition
God will restore the same man He gave you. It's indeed very painful to bear. Yes it's easy for one to run mad but God's grace has carried us through it all! Praise God!
Give it time and you will see. Malipo ni hapa duniani however long it takes. Both man and woman will have to experience the pain you went through and more.
I feel as if all polygamous families pretend to be happy whereas deep inside they are haunted by their guilty. Ata mkiirembesha aje it's against the will of God alafu mkiambiwa mnasema we are judging and we are sinning differently. Sijataja mtu, na sitaki makasiriko
@@miriammugo5459 I know a polygamous family that pretends to have things running smoothly....ukiwachunguza you realise the man beats his old over 60 years first wife to keep her in line...he claims anakataza watoto wasimtumie pesa ashare na mke wa pili...I've seen the marks on her body couldn't believe someone can cane a 60 year old woman
But so sad to say apologizing wont remove the curse! spiritual Laws apply hata akiapologize its fine fantastic but she has to go an extra mile for this deadly mistake.
This is what I call a human still In touch with humanity, a woman who knows her creator! Well done Mama well done God will truly reward you for all you’ve done!! To God be the Glory!!!
@@Margysworld AMEN!!! The word protects us from a lot that people may not understand if they don’t know the word. If only we just obey, no matter how difficult it may be
The one who destroyed mine has never found it in her heart to ask for forgiveness. I was left with four young kids while my hubby inherited a daughter from her and got 2 more kids. I forgave them and after many years my husband asked for forgiveness but we could never be together again for I refused to be in a polygamous relationship. The good thing he educated our children. Unfortunately he died and this woman was happy inheriting what rightly belong to my family. Anyway I leave everything to God and than hubby for leaving something also to my children. But the tears that we shed are never invain. God can give you a husband you don't have to destroy marriages because you see wealth
God did not do further explanations when He said What He has put together let no man put asander. The God who fights for you shall not let it go unpunished. You shall watch. Let it go.
@@LolaBugzy85 It takes two to tango,a woman of character with good morals has no business grooming relations with married men.Set you're standards high as a woman.
@@spectra.4840 No woman on earth owes you committment to your marriage vows only your husband. Endelea kupigana na every woman you come across cs of your husband. And one thing I know if a man is a whore he is whore and there is nothing you can do about it.
We are all sinners expect we have sinned differently. None of us has a right to reprimand Hellen. I believe she has a reason for sharing her story with the world. You might have not ruined someone's marriage like her, but the fact is none of us is pure. Let God be our judge and also remember that no sin is Unforgivable.
I was dumped for another woman, left with the three kids and my marriage was 12yrs old. If it were not for God I don't know 😭😭, God has enabled me to take care of my kids now my daughter is joining compus. My hope is coming back. It's so so painful and heartbreaking.
Satan is after marriages,prayers must be a must in and on marriages,person's are not to drop their guard,Satan is out there with smoke coming from his nose(making trouble)..
The lady is talking of deep spiritual matters..... Her deliverance was total and complete. Is hard to verbalize spiritual matters,but you need to experience it to understand. God is good all the time.....and everything happens for good to those who loves Him....thank you for sharing, it encourages others to make the right decision.
My mum was brought up in a polygamous family but I'm happy she broke that chain. Got married to my dad until his demise. Here I am following in her footsteps. In my dating life I'd meet people's husband's who at first lie but God would reveal that later, guys with baby mama's but I never gave in. I'd run as fast as my fibble legs could carry me. I'm proud and thank God he gave me my man.
This also shall pass. You will marry a great man someday but you will see that husband fo after a young woman who will call u names and have babies for ur husband.
No, they use that to fool women. Any time a man comes to you and starts badmouthing the woman he is married to? RUUUUUUN. That is a broken man, or a poorly raised man. Especially if he has kids with the woman. People fall out of love, heck some get conned into marriage, but they must take responsibility. Any man or woman who cannot self analyze and know their role in the failed rship is not worth a try. He will do the same to you. Take this advice, and you will get a good man.
Very few women can admit they did wrong to intrude in a marriage, too much pride and self-righteousness! Marriage God's way is between 2 and anyone who comes in between is a 3rd wheel and no matter how people try to justify and sanitize it can never be right. Thumbs up to Hellen, she took a bold step and ashamed the devil!
True... Her family also practice what they profess ... It's unfortunate that some ladies are encouraged by their own parents hence thinks that they are doing the right thing...
God made only a men and women from beginning so marriage is only for 2 people.. thank you madam Hellen for testifying your guilty God is on your side thanks 👏👏👏
If there is one thing I have gotten from this interview is how God guides even when we are so lost , He is constantly trying to save us. Whatever the first wife went through must have been so hard on her ,but we thank God who still comforts and heals, He is still a restorer till today. May He do it upon her .
My heart goes to those women allover the world who are struggling with infertility.may God remember their marriages,they go through alot even with inlaws hating them and loving the "other''woman who can conceive.May God of Hannah come through for them amen
Amen and Amen 🙏🙏. Very true Hannah! some of us have gone through alot. Talk of infertility issues in marriage but what I know is that God will mek everything beautiful in it's own time.
I apologized too to a woman. But it is only by God that one can do that. I remember I cried so much after that. It felt like a burden had been taken off my shoulder yet I had ended the relationship years back due to pursuing my relationship with God. But the conviction to apologize to her was there for years until I finally got the courage to do it. Btw I too am getting married in s few months time. To the glory of God. I urge women in those relationships to pray for strength to leave. The end is never good if you don't leave. Leave soon. God will give you your own
God has forgiven her. He is that great. Enjoy your life and thank you for realising your wrong. Men cheat. But your blessings flow when you put down the wrong and pick up the right.
@@lovejones1897she apologized and healed. God is merciful. Everyone deals with different temptations and sins. Anyone(even a murder) who repents and is sincere is forgiven.
She's exceptional, candid, charismatic, eloquent and empathetic. God loves you and all your flaws are forgiven. When you pray Hellen, pray for the rest of us.
She is one brave woman. So many young women are sadly living that life but thank God Helen is here. Her love for God reverberates. Again, thank you Lynn for such an amazing show. Love you
After watching this and reading the comments I am so grateful to be born in a generation where men are held accountable for their actions and women actually love themselves. Thank you for sharing this story Lynn Ngugi.
The moment she started self seeking it was the moment of honesty of the mind and freedom! We all learn each day from our mistake, I am very proud of her re-correction of her life.
Hi Lynn I’m watching this show from the United States I’m proud of this lady for tackling head on the generational curse of polygamy.Let her know I’m still praying for her Journey with Christ. Peace
Whatever we sow we reap... Sometimes hurting other people feels like the best thing but deep down there's guilt in your heart. Never be an accomplice for a man to hurt his Wife.
very true.we sow what we reap,thats what most people dont know..i wish the so called slay queens looking for wababas can read your comment and understand
This is why I love the Christian faith, it can give you unbelievable courage to take steps you never imagined you could. God can take you out of any situation. Inspiring story.
The interviews could be unmatched if she could refrain from allowing herself and her guests to go on and on with thier local language. I'm surprised that they want to reduce these interviews to the local community. I thought this was international. I'm so disappointed and have to stop here and look for English interview.
We are all sinners expect we all don't come out to share our stories Otherwise if we would judge everyone with what they have done, Helen's case would be nothing. But again before God all sins are equal and no sin is Unforgivable.
There is no woman who breaks people's marriages ...it is the married men who don't respect the marriages and therefore make a DELIBERATE CHOICE TO HAVE ANOTHER FAMILY....We must start addressing the REAL Issue if you must get a solution
but you as the woman why would agree to be the other woman?? when women start refusing this men's stupidity that's solving the problem, true you might start without knowing what you getting into or rather not knowing they are married,but then when you find out why continue??
Exactly.As a woman,you shouldn't let a relationship continue after knowing the man has another family.It is also a woman's responsibility,not a man's tu.
Women continue eating the stupid married men's money...curses exist in the mind....you can also lock your men in the house.....you have no business taking care of something the owner doesn't value...thanks
Empowered woman. You don't need someone's husband, God created a special one for you. Thank you Helen for coming out and enlightening us on this sensitive lifestyle. She's the sacrificial lamb for the redemption of marriage.
Very true my sister God did the same to me , I had to leave a 17years marriage .I left all riches and started at point 0 but i thank God for His Mercy.
Just watched from South Africa. Couldn't understand some parts due to language barrier. Thank you for addressing such an urgent and sensitive topic. There is a wave in my country that is trying to normalise and subject women to polygamy, ignoring all the pain it causes. This show reminded us that God has a better way. I wish you the best Hellen and may God be with you in all things. All my love ,,
Sbongile you can say that again, the enemy is using polygamy and divorce to reduce marriage and label it useless, most young people feel its not for them and sin will continue to take place. May God expose the enemy and fight for unions.
Oh my God this woman is a full package of braveness, , like who does this, I feel so proud of her coming out and making it clear to people that if a sin is accepted by the world that doesn't stop it to be a sin...as many people out here take it to be...may God bless her as she starts this new journey...bravo to you mama
Thanks Hellen for being soo strong to share your story,this life is indeed spiritual and God saved you.May He give us the Grace to let His will be done in our lives. Whatever I rebuked in my past is what I found myself in and being born in a polygamous family does make matters worse.Sending healing and strength to those in similar situations.
I was about to make the same mistake,there was this guy who was always there for me,though married but hawakuwa na mtoto,he wanted me to get married to him to give him a child coz I had a son,he was mature but I promised myself that I won't break someone's marriage. God never fails,he gave me my own marriage and am grateful. 🙏
My family was destroyed when my father married a second wife...we were affected emotionally,financially and physically until we lost him 2019 since he became sick and we only learnt about his sickness much later.There was so much drama that went on in our lives that period ..I was so affected .I applaud you for coming out to condemn this thing and breaking that vice in your family.
Iam proud of her and may the Lord bless her as for me and my brothers we went through hell when when my dad married another woman and chased my mom away . My dad died with alot of pain of which we came to learn of his sickness when it was too late.
So sorry dear I know exactly how it feels to be in that situation .I wouldn't wish it even for my enemy .One day I will share our story so as encourage families going through the same.
Today my heart goes to every woman who’s battling infertility..Dear queens you have no authority over your womb but God does🙏in your weakness God is your strength ,May God of Hannah visit you! Sending 💕
It takes courage to share personal details publicly. Speaking out facilitates recovery and healing from childhood trauma and relationship trauma. Helen seems at peace setting boundaries with that polygamous situation 😇
Now that I have listened to the whole story, I have come to understand one thing. That the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. When she didn't know the ways of God she acted out of foolishness but now even from her way of talking she fears God. May God help intervene on the remaining part
Helen my schoolmate you have done well it doesn't matter what others will say about you, you learnt your lesson and you are brave to come out kudos to you
Never mock someone for not having a gift that only God can give. A childless woman's heart is an empty heart full of sorrows of uncertainties. The scar you have left is too deep to heal. Let marriage be holy, let the bed be respected. Even as you start your new journey be true to your conscious lest you fall again considering that children are involved. May God heal that first wife and give her hope.
Mockery can't Tek u anywhere, children are gift from God and He is the only giver. Childless woman heart is an empty heart and only God knows it well why. The wounds u live are usually too deep to heal. It will always come back to you. Be warned!!
@@oloipala8590 It's not justifiable..I acknowledge that fact that they are under dire pressure however, would you ask yourself if they were the ones with low sperms? Erectile dysfunction? Or any other issue they face? They would want them covered still despite the community pointing fingers to women who's husbands are suffering of such illnesses. Bottom line. The walk of infertility is uncertain path that only God understands and the least you can do is be there for each other.
I thank God you finally released my friend's husband Joseph. Only God knows how many prayers and tears we have cried with the wife. God will heal her. It's has been so painful. She has really suffered. God forgive you more and more.
Thanks Lynn and Hellen I was just about to make the same mistake but I have learned from her and I have made up my mind. Glory be to God may the almighty God be with her because am saved and I could have gone in the same pain.
I am stuck at what she went through with the man who impregnated her when she was young then abandoned her, that's where the issues began. I'm happy she's on the path of healing
Self reflection is very important in our lives. Always reflect on everything in your lives. Nobody is perfect n there's always room for correction or rerouting
You cannot build your happiness in unhappiness of others. Some altars that we build can only be broken by going beyond what we see and by doing what is right and walking with God. Fear of society and other fears can hinder us but Am proud of you Hellen for conquering all that. Your story will teach those in the same situation on how to go about it.
You don't destroy another woman's life then when life turns against you, you start talking about God this and that! Hiding in church is not a solution. As a young lady years back one thing I knew was "a married man is a no go!!!" Period!
@Joan miks Abel we should not be judges since all of us fall in way or another. But the good thing is once we know our mistakes let us rectify and act right.
@@nyagakify this wasn't a mistake!? Give me a break! Lusting for someone else husband when you grew up in a polygamous family and know all pro's and cons is pathetic. She says she even used the wife's weakness told by "their husband" against her!!! Who does that? She felt she was the little god as she could bear children that the other woman wouldn't!? Karma is a bitch! She can hide in church but ain't seen nothing yet. She went to far and its disgusting for her to ask foe any forgiveness and even an insult yo say they :the other lady and husband " should get back together! WTF is she to give such a statement? Church my foot!
@@noiczakma58 it's even mockery to narrate this! Somethings are better left as is. She just opened the wound. I feel sad for that lady, a victim of a street husband snatcher!
You can not make a home, through another woman's tears. Women are enemies of their own. Some learn, some don't ile roho nguuuumu💪. Thank you mama for coming go your senses
Good day Lynn. I am from South Africa. I love your shows. Most of your guests tend to mix English and their mother tongue. This creates a problem for us who don't speak other African languages. I am humbly appealing that there should be a way of translating when that happens. Otherwise keep up the good work and the interesting topics. I really enjoy the show. 🙏🙏 Nomsa.
Lynn you such a blessing to the entire world.Am from Uganda but I love you so much like my big sister.You inspire me Mama.Nakupenda mami,.....I don't know Swahili but am learning it through your show.
A woman will never build a home by ruining another woman's home,,you gat to pay for it.. It's a lesson to gals out there planning to do this be cautious,"bwana ya mtu ni sumu" As for Hellen it's nice you owe your mistake and may you find peace 🕊️✌️
This is one of the most sober interview I have listened and what makes it interesting is how God convicts someone. God bless you for speaking out especially because nowadays most influencers in Kenya tell young ladies it’s ok to share men and even be with people’s husband.
Man, I'm sitting here thinking about this married man who's been stalking me for 5 years and wanted to take me as a second wife. And this episode shows up. He lied and pretended he was single at first, thankfully I didn't do anything with him coz I wanted to wait for marriage for sex, I kept my legs closed. Boom, turns out he is married with two kids. And has the audacity to want to take me as a second wife. I cut him off, coz I can't imagine putting another woman through that pain. Plus, what greed and deception is this! Ay, some men! He came with a bad intention to deceive me use me sexually and when that failed now he wants to take me as a wife? No, and I won't be that woman that harms another sister! Let alone her beautiful children! Marriage covenant, union is taken so lightly these days, its shocking!
Right now, you think you can handle him and he knows that too. But he is waiting on when you will be desperate or weak. His bad intentions towards you won't stop and you shouldn't put yourself on the path to receive the bad intended for you by being friends/friendly. Girl, put that boundary. Cut him off!
I wish women were all proud of themselves. Why go for number 2? We deserve no 1....hakuna mambo ya wanaume ni wengi! There is a husband for every woman.
I can give Hellen a thumbs up because I don think there are many of us who could open up pages and unravel whatever went down .her life impact can send waves of blooming sadness through our hearts we should learn from this ..thank you Lyn you are a girl of clarity I choose you amongst the best ❤️❤️
@@janerosemwangi3563 They are never at peace, so they react to take away yours, they can have the man but dont allow your peace and integrity to be taken away from you
I honestly feel like God took over Helen's mouth n started to talk to all the women who will watch this interview n they are in a marriage that belongs to someone else. May God bless you so much Helen for making such a brave move in order to obey our heavenly father.u r a rare kind Helen.👏👏
True..many women are crying out here coz now this wave of wababa is trending not knowing this women in their 20s sahi or even younger their time will come aki ju waliharibu Boma za wenyewe
@@julietwanjira8622 very true.n we all know that those tears of that 1st wife burn like sulfuric acid and somehow, God always avenges those tears.thats y Helen said that, when the 1st wife of that man forgives her, she'll know her n her kids are good.
What a brave woman!!! You took a call from God and through you people will get saved!!! And Lynn thank you for the platform to the world and saying yes to this call from God!! You are changing the world... And the first wife may you find peace and heal as a woman l also apologize on behalf of this woman. Forgive them both...
No matter how long or far you have gone down the wrong road, stop. It is never too late" I am proud of you and your change Hellen. Your story will definitely speak to someone and change the course of their life.
Until someone exepiriences real awakening huezi understand this lady... True Repentance is change of mind. Big up gal. I knw the peace and God's assurance is worth it all and.... Psalms 119:130...the entrance of His Word brings light and understanding to the simple
I cry every night , soaking my pillow with tears because of my home,my childlessness is killing me slowly, The worst of it dealing with another woman who has kids for him 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭,God of Hannah where are you?
May the God of Sarah and Hannah see you...take chance like Jacob and tell God your not leaving his presence until he changes your name...you can attend holy communion service this week huku mombasa kwa pastor Ezekiel....your miracle is waiting for you go and snatch your kids from the hands of your enemies.
How old are you...? Because fertility clinics can help you if you are still under 45.. ..... You can still have a baby and live joyful love with your baby....May creator wipe your tears and all shall come to pass
@@stewartmuwangala2053 well said. I come from such a set up. It's the pathetic set up I can ever want for myself leave alone for my children. The "humble or meek" must swallow the bitter happenings for the sake of peace.
Me to and the Wanjihis. Let them learn from this and go make their own homes and look for their own husbands. It shows like others have failed and they come to amend things well
The painful part is, we only realize this after years when the excitement of the relationship is gone, when we see the real person, now we wish/want to send the man back to the first woman!
@@rosesengo4704for real most are very evil women hiding as angels in marriage, my cousin is suffering because of his wife, me I ll support another woman
I really needed to hear this...this was for me...have changed my mind...am not going to be a second wife anymore...I will wait upon the glory of God... Thanks so much Lynn this is my turning point...
@@mummystastytreats179 Thank God he is not a man, a man will not forgive, but God has forgiven her ..He says no matter how your sins are red as crimson I will wash them and you will become white as snow...some of these behaviours are bondages just like addiction. The spirit of polygamy followed her from her father. God father says your Sins I WILL REMEMBER NO MORE when you ask for forgivness...that how good God is
@@KNAK-uk9rc u did not understand me, God forgives but the problem is consequences. A thief cought and taken to jail is forgiven even if he will still serve the term....Am i making sense?
Listening to this story has made me realise some mistakes we make in life, then deep inside our hearts we hear God whispering to us but we become busy to listen, HE KEEPS INSISTING THE ROAD YOU CHOOSE SHALL NOT LEAD YOU INTO YOUR DESTINY. Hellen you are strong n genius to have realise what God's plan to u was and is. May God keep u safe as u fill that Gap, keep winning
My pastor said a few days ago, its wrong to get involved with a man knowing he is married coz when both of you pray whom do you think God answers? its wrong to get involved with a married man. its good you realized it...
She's so eloquent,i cud listen to her all day.The fact that she acknowledged her mistakes and walked away from them and is commendable.Few ppl are able to do that
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This is my situation right now, married for 5 years but no kid,my husband has 4 kids with other women,and now he has made it clear to marry the one with two kids,only God knows the pain am going through,the insults from this lady 😭😭😭😭 don't know what to do.
Hello team Lyn uiii me Ata nimengalia mara mbilimbili am used to red 😂😂😂
Lynn me na believe we ni or Utakuwa Oprah Winfrey wa Kenyaa.
@@syphroseanyika7544 hugs mummie
Hellen, two wrongs don't make a right. You got into a marriage as a second wife. Your hubby followed customary laws and paid dowry. You're officially his wife. By leaving him you've destroyed his life even more and that of his children. In my opinion, you should have just repented, renewed your commitment to God and then continued in the marriage - - in the permissive will of God.
Single ladies when u see a married man crying to you for a what is happening between him and the wife,funika masikio,fungua macho vizuri,run for your dear life...let Him tell Jesus his problems
Allow me to laugh😂😂😂it's just funny
Very true..they are time wasters and most of them are hypocrites
,😄😄 funny... though true
Exactly.
So true its a curse woiii.
I'm I the only one who loves how she talks ? She's so clear and eloquent
She looks to be so sweet soul and she is cute. May her co wife find a place in her heart and forgives her
Mimi Pia
True
But her mistakes overshadow her eloquence!
@@benardmakori6924 😂 she's regrets what she did ... And she's sorry ... Kwani wewe hujaifanya mistakes 🌝
"you can't build happiness on another woman's tears "this lives rent free in my head
Absolutely 💯
Exactly
Karma will catch up with her, she thinks eti imeisha, bado, every action produces a reaction.
What you do to others is your Karma!!
No matter how far you have gone when you realize you are on the wrong direction turn....Bishop David Oyedepo
Very true ❤
the first wife doesnt need to reconcile with the man, she deserves better. just let her be
correct
The wife. Not 1st wife.
Yes i agree with you
"Never be an accomplice for/of a man to hurt his wife" no matter the reason. Lesson learnt
Sure
Exactly
I love it when Lynn says, "allow me". She never just interrupts someone, she is very professional and has so much respect.
I feel sorry for the woman who stayed without children after 10 years of marriage. Never, never mock a woman in such a situation.
So is the man also expected to stay childless because his wife is being respected? What's the man in such a situation expected to do since his wife will cry anyway? He shackles himself and suffers silently?
@@rosesengo4704 if the roles are reversed and it's the man who is infertile, is a woman allowed to have children outside of marriage as well? I hope so
@@chiherachashe8208these were married? So ur point is irrelevant
@@chiherachashe8208 everyone has their reasons for getting married. If one of the wife's goals was to have children, she is free to walk away and get married elsewhere to have her children. The man will sort himself out. We found this world with its sorrow and we shall die and leave the sorrow waiting to catch other people.
@@rosesengo4704 the bible is there to teach us life ethics ,read your Bible..... expecially Abraham's story and understand it, you will understand barrenness is not the a factor to separate people.....
If I was considering being 2nd wife, I would have changed my mind 💯 after listening to this story. .
You can never build happiness on the back of someone else’s tears … I don’t know why people never learn that
True
Sure
What do u mean by that?
Powerful
@@janerosejuma5840 it goes without saying … you can NEVER cause tears to an innocent person and get away with it , God never sleeps he opens the book of remembrance
May God restore the 10 years of pain, loneliness, questions and shame stolen from the first wife.
Amen
Sure
Amen
Amen,,may God remember her womb like Sarah
This interview creates sobriety and opens eyes to the blind and the lost. Respect marriages
I was a second wife too in 1yr and left...hiyo ni upuuzi heri nikue single nikae na amani kuliko kuharibu ndoa ya mwingine
Out of curiosity, how did you come to decide to leave? I’m asking because I’m under the impression that mostly it’s either the first wife leaves or they both stay in chaos 😢
Please translate in English. I'm watching from Nigeria
Eye opening thanks dear more grace ❤
My marriage was ruined by a lady i knew very well when my son was 3 years. i was thrown out of the house on saturday but on monday she was already in my house as a wife. i went through a very hard time psychologically and mentally. i was into deppression because she could even send me their selfie videos and photos. i almost ran mad. the pain i went through i wouldnt wish any woman to. it has taken me 5 years to heal from those wounds. But i thank God He has been so faithful to me. i overcame this emotional torment. its true first love never goes away easily. it takes time. Am believing God to bless me with a God fearing husband and a blessed marriage
And the lady are they still together pole sana hugs hugs mami
Be strong girl...the truth is time heals all wounds...I assure you the man will try to come back...don't take him back no matter what...Also a person who does that to someone will repeat it on the new person..you wait and see...hakuna kitu mpya duniani...its just repetition
God will restore the same man He gave you. It's indeed very painful to bear. Yes it's easy for one to run mad but God's grace has carried us through it all! Praise God!
Give it time and you will see. Malipo ni hapa duniani however long it takes. Both man and woman will have to experience the pain you went through and more.
Pole I can imagine! God never slumbers
I feel as if all polygamous families pretend to be happy whereas deep inside they are haunted by their guilty. Ata mkiirembesha aje it's against the will of God alafu mkiambiwa mnasema we are judging and we are sinning differently. Sijataja mtu, na sitaki makasiriko
Kudos hellen
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Very true.
Hakuna furaha wanakuanga nayo My mother in law aliteseka sana nahakuna mtu alisikisana nayeye it's was as if there evil spirit were coming to her
@@miriammugo5459 I know a polygamous family that pretends to have things running smoothly....ukiwachunguza you realise the man beats his old over 60 years first wife to keep her in line...he claims anakataza watoto wasimtumie pesa ashare na mke wa pili...I've seen the marks on her body couldn't believe someone can cane a 60 year old woman
No marriage can be build under another womans tears. Regret will always follow you.
Siku hizi wanasema hakuna Karma. Anything involving using people and causing pain to children, Karma reigns.
Karma is real
Your very true my Dear
True
TRUE AND SHE WILL NEVER HAVE PEACE
The fact that you are here and apologizing having learnt your mistakes proves a lot. God bless you and I pray others will learn from your story
True dear
IKR... unlike that other lady who was saying she's "friends" with the first wife.
But so sad to say apologizing wont remove the curse!
spiritual Laws apply hata akiapologize its fine fantastic but she has to go an extra mile for this deadly mistake.
God really bless you Helen was about to get someone's 2nd wife but I'm ready to repent, you're so encouraging
second wive From Hell ….😳Apologize my foot this western women have ruined so many families.F
Who else agrees with me that this UA-cam channel is therapeutic!!! GOD JOB LYNN!❤🙏
Me here
True. You learn the spirit of asking for forgiveness
Here I'm deae
Me here watching from Kampala ug l just love Lynn's programs ni mafudisho sana big up Lynn
The problem with us watching frm SouthAfrica is language, wish they had subtitles
The pain of the 1st wife...... may God give her peace, strength and breakthrough
Amen
This is what I call a human still In touch with humanity, a woman who knows her creator! Well done Mama well done God will truly reward you for all you’ve done!! To God be the Glory!!!
Watching from Nigeria, please include a transcript in English for speakers that don't understand the local language.
@@bimbo3136 click on, cc(close caption),on your device screen.
God's ways are not our ways, but they are the best to follow. Mungu ni mtamu😘🥰
@@Margysworld AMEN!!! The word protects us from a lot that people may not understand if they don’t know the word. If only we just obey, no matter how difficult it may be
The one who destroyed mine has never found it in her heart to ask for forgiveness. I was left with four young kids while my hubby inherited a daughter from her and got 2 more kids. I forgave them and after many years my husband asked for forgiveness but we could never be together again for I refused to be in a polygamous relationship. The good thing he educated our children. Unfortunately he died and this woman was happy inheriting what rightly belong to my family. Anyway I leave everything to God and than hubby for leaving something also to my children. But the tears that we shed are never invain. God can give you a husband you don't have to destroy marriages because you see wealth
Never blame another woman for the break of your marriage blame the man
God did not do further explanations when He said What He has put together let no man put asander. The God who fights for you shall not let it go unpunished. You shall watch. Let it go.
@@LolaBugzy85 It takes two to tango,a woman of character with good morals has no business grooming relations with married men.Set you're standards high as a woman.
@@spectra.4840 No woman on earth owes you committment to your marriage vows only your husband. Endelea kupigana na every woman you come across cs of your husband. And one thing I know if a man is a whore he is whore and there is nothing you can do about it.
Part of your story is part of my mum's
We are all sinners expect we have sinned differently. None of us has a right to reprimand Hellen. I believe she has a reason for sharing her story with the world. You might have not ruined someone's marriage like her, but the fact is none of us is pure. Let God be our judge and also remember that no sin is Unforgivable.
i agree God bless you
Well put
True
Halleluyah
Biblically, there is an unforgivable sin.
I was dumped for another woman, left with the three kids and my marriage was 12yrs old. If it were not for God I don't know 😭😭, God has enabled me to take care of my kids now my daughter is joining compus. My hope is coming back. It's so so painful and heartbreaking.
🫂 same here 12 yrs as well swtht
Satan is after marriages,prayers must be a must in and on marriages,person's are not to drop their guard,Satan is out there with smoke coming from his nose(making trouble)..
The lady is talking of deep spiritual matters..... Her deliverance was total and complete. Is hard to verbalize spiritual matters,but you need to experience it to understand. God is good all the time.....and everything happens for good to those who loves Him....thank you for sharing, it encourages others to make the right decision.
For sure
My mum was brought up in a polygamous family but I'm happy she broke that chain. Got married to my dad until his demise. Here I am following in her footsteps. In my dating life I'd meet people's husband's who at first lie but God would reveal that later, guys with baby mama's but I never gave in. I'd run as fast as my fibble legs could carry me. I'm proud and thank God he gave me my man.
This also shall pass. You will marry a great man someday but you will see that husband fo after a young woman who will call u names and have babies for ur husband.
Oh mum you are a woman and a half I bless the Lord for the way you are God bless you
Wow congrats
@@wanjikumuragu5113 thanks gal
@@Radhiah9650 God answered my prayers I'm married to my best man. 8 years of knowing him,5 years married to him
The biggest downfall with men is not seeking therapy from professionals but confiding in other women...it always backfires
So true
Very true
Correct.
And other women took it as an advantage to them
No, they use that to fool women. Any time a man comes to you and starts badmouthing the woman he is married to? RUUUUUUN. That is a broken man, or a poorly raised man. Especially if he has kids with the woman. People fall out of love, heck some get conned into marriage, but they must take responsibility. Any man or woman who cannot self analyze and know their role in the failed rship is not worth a try. He will do the same to you. Take this advice, and you will get a good man.
Very few women can admit they did wrong to intrude in a marriage, too much pride and self-righteousness! Marriage God's way is between 2 and anyone who comes in between is a 3rd wheel and no matter how people try to justify and sanitize it can never be right. Thumbs up to Hellen, she took a bold step and ashamed the devil!
Bella, the one who separates become death. What God has joined together, let no man put asunder
@@phoebewanjiru1955 That's right
True... Her family also practice what they profess ... It's unfortunate that some ladies are encouraged by their own parents hence thinks that they are doing the right thing...
Word
God made only a men and women from beginning so marriage is only for 2 people.. thank you madam Hellen for testifying your guilty God is on your side thanks 👏👏👏
If there is one thing I have gotten from this interview is how God guides even when we are so lost , He is constantly trying to save us. Whatever the first wife went through must have been so hard on her ,but we thank God who still comforts and heals, He is still a restorer till today. May He do it upon her .
My heart goes to those women allover the world who are struggling with infertility.may God remember their marriages,they go through alot even with inlaws hating them and loving the "other''woman who can conceive.May God of Hannah come through for them amen
Ameen..I am one of them and it's not easy.
true gal
Amen and Amen 🙏🙏. Very true Hannah! some of us have gone through alot. Talk of infertility issues in marriage but what I know is that God will mek everything beautiful in it's own time.
Amen they go through a lot of pain.
Amen
I apologized too to a woman. But it is only by God that one can do that. I remember I cried so much after that. It felt like a burden had been taken off my shoulder yet I had ended the relationship years back due to pursuing my relationship with God. But the conviction to apologize to her was there for years until I finally got the courage to do it.
Btw I too am getting married in s few months time. To the glory of God.
I urge women in those relationships to pray for strength to leave. The end is never good if you don't leave. Leave soon. God will give you your own
Better hope it doesn't happen to you
God has forgiven her. He is that great. Enjoy your life and thank you for realising your wrong. Men cheat. But your blessings flow when you put down the wrong and pick up the right.
@@lovejones1897she apologized and healed. God is merciful. Everyone deals with different temptations and sins. Anyone(even a murder) who repents and is sincere is forgiven.
@@starrjohnson1327 doesn’t mean she is break free from judgment or karma
She's exceptional, candid, charismatic, eloquent and empathetic. God loves you and all your flaws are forgiven. When you pray Hellen, pray for the rest of us.
I have been watching many episodes in this platform but this one touched my heart since my marriage was destroyed by another woman. Thumbs up Lynn
Congratulations to Hellen for owning her part in the mess and making amends. May God continually use her to His glory.
She is one brave woman. So many young women are sadly living that life but thank God Helen is here. Her love for God reverberates.
Again, thank you Lynn for such an amazing show. Love you
No! one too many irreparable mistakes.
"What God has yoked together, let no man put apart" lesson learnt
After watching this and reading the comments I am so grateful to be born in a generation where men are held accountable for their actions and women actually love themselves. Thank you for sharing this story Lynn Ngugi.
You are a real woman of God. God will give you the grace to do needful thing to her. Please my sister still pray for God guidance.
I love the way God put things clear for us through His servants....."you are married to someone's husband"
Am proud of you Helen, you took up a stand and declared what your stand was in front of God. May God continue using you.
The moment she started self seeking it was the moment of honesty of the mind and freedom! We all learn each day from our mistake, I am very proud of her re-correction of her life.
Hi Lynn I’m watching this show from the United States I’m proud of this lady for tackling head on the generational curse of polygamy.Let her know I’m still praying for her Journey with Christ. Peace
I love this girl! She shares her triumphs and her failures very honestly. May God bless her business and ministry.
She wrecked the marriage
testimony is good,a lesson to many of us.
@@marygoretti3342 she was forgiven
Whatever we sow we reap... Sometimes hurting other people feels like the best thing but deep down there's guilt in your heart.
Never be an accomplice for a man to hurt his Wife.
very true.we sow what we reap,thats what most people dont know..i wish the so called slay queens looking for wababas can read your comment and understand
but again....God forgave her....she is just giving her past that came out of ignorance
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Lyn thumbs up. More of such. Tuwajue kwa majina.
@@voskilltheentertainer2564that's why these episodes are important... It's a learning curve😍
This is why I love the Christian faith, it can give you unbelievable courage to take steps you never imagined you could. God can take you out of any situation. Inspiring story.
My mum was a second wife and I can tell you for sure, we, her kids,are going through hell.
Take hrt en try to seek God will en i tell u his wisdom en understood how Jehova works.never give up
It's called the curse of the first wife why not go with a gift to her and ask for her to forgive your family?
I watch so many interviews on UA-cam from different channels, but Lynn's interview skills are unmatched 👌👌
I totally agree 👍
Very true
Truth
True 💯
The interviews could be unmatched if she could refrain from allowing herself and her guests to go on and on with thier local language. I'm surprised that they want to reduce these interviews to the local community. I thought this was international. I'm so disappointed and have to stop here and look for English interview.
love her story. Thanks Hellen for talking and apologizing. wishing her the very best
Consequences cannot be evaded. Forgiving someone doesn't always mean having them back to your life.
Very sad story.
Na she is born again mind you. Hee mi i dont get
Sad It Is 😢
@@Minister-Delina. p909 lol lol j
True
We are all sinners expect we all don't come out to share our stories Otherwise if we would judge everyone with what they have done, Helen's case would be nothing. But again before God all sins are equal and no sin is Unforgivable.
You cannot build paradise on top of another woman's tears!!!
I appreciate your courage action, you are wonderful and God is with you.
There is no woman who breaks people's marriages ...it is the married men who don't respect the marriages and therefore make a DELIBERATE CHOICE TO HAVE ANOTHER FAMILY....We must start addressing the REAL Issue if you must get a solution
but you as the woman why would agree to be the other woman?? when women start refusing this men's stupidity that's solving the problem, true you might start without knowing what you getting into or rather not knowing they are married,but then when you find out why continue??
Exactly.As a woman,you shouldn't let a relationship continue after knowing the man has another family.It is also a woman's responsibility,not a man's tu.
Women continue eating the stupid married men's money...curses exist in the mind....you can also lock your men in the house.....you have no business taking care of something the owner doesn't value...thanks
Married men who pursue other women are entirely to be blamed for breaking marriages. If married man were staying faithful we wouldn’t be here!
true my dear I like your wisdom
Helen, you have broken a generational curse my Sister. Serve God. He has forgiven you. I salute you.
What God has joined together, let no one separate.
May God restore the 1st wife marriage.
Thanks Hellen for sharing.🙏
Empowered woman. You don't need someone's husband, God created a special one for you. Thank you Helen for coming out and enlightening us on this sensitive lifestyle. She's the sacrificial lamb for the redemption of marriage.
Amen
I hear women saying ati 'Nairobi hakuna bwana ya mtu' that is a lie from the pit of hell!
What a love triangle 🙆. Ladies, avoid married men at all cost.
It doesn't end well.
True 🤞🤞
What If he didn't mention about wife and later you found out yourself and left him?
Very true my sister God did the same to me , I had to leave a 17years marriage .I left all riches and started at point 0 but i thank God for His Mercy.
U did gud ma sister after all those riches are just but vanity when someone else is crying everyday wid Ur name.
Me too Lucy,....after 10 years... currently on the ground,....but WITH GOD.
Me too Lucy,....after 10 years... currently on the ground,....but WITH GOD.
Just watched from South Africa. Couldn't understand some parts due to language barrier. Thank you for addressing such an urgent and sensitive topic. There is a wave in my country that is trying to normalise and subject women to polygamy, ignoring all the pain it causes. This show reminded us that God has a better way. I wish you the best Hellen and may God be with you in all things. All my love ,,
I had difficulty understanding some of what she sad too so I turned on the English caption it translates some of the words.
Well said Sibongile as women now in SA we living on a thread like u can just find urself meeting a Zulu man named Mseleku wen u don't want to
Sbongile you can say that again, the enemy is using polygamy and divorce to reduce marriage and label it useless, most young people feel its not for them and sin will continue to take place. May God expose the enemy and fight for unions.
You are saying that africans are trying to "normalize" african culture. Are you being serious?
@@ugalitamu9082 Normalise affairs using culture as a shield.
Oh my God this woman is a full package of braveness, , like who does this, I feel so proud of her coming out and making it clear to people that if a sin is accepted by the world that doesn't stop it to be a sin...as many people out here take it to be...may God bless her as she starts this new journey...bravo to you mama
Fighting spiritual battles is difficult but possible...congrats Hellen for the courage, perseverance and patience.
Thanks Hellen for being soo strong to share your story,this life is indeed spiritual and God saved you.May He give us the Grace to let His will be done in our lives. Whatever I rebuked in my past is what I found myself in and being born in a polygamous family does make matters worse.Sending healing and strength to those in similar situations.
I was about to make the same mistake,there was this guy who was always there for me,though married but hawakuwa na mtoto,he wanted me to get married to him to give him a child coz I had a son,he was mature but I promised myself that I won't break someone's marriage. God never fails,he gave me my own marriage and am grateful. 🙏
As a married woman myself I just want to say thank you for doing the right thing.
My family was destroyed when my father married a second wife...we were affected emotionally,financially and physically until we lost him 2019 since he became sick and we only learnt about his sickness much later.There was so much drama that went on in our lives that period ..I was so affected .I applaud you for coming out to condemn this thing and breaking that vice in your family.
Iam proud of her and may the Lord bless her as for me and my brothers we went through hell when when my dad married another woman and chased my mom away . My dad died with alot of pain of which we came to learn of his sickness when it was too late.
So sorry dear I know exactly how it feels to be in that situation .I wouldn't wish it even for my enemy .One day I will share our story so as encourage families going through the same.
Hugs🥰
Same story, why is this so common
@@aumaKNN men who marry second wife die early I lost my dad may 2022 there was no peace Just hate he just died he had pressure
Today my heart goes to every woman who’s battling infertility..Dear queens you have no authority over your womb but God does🙏in your weakness God is your strength ,May God of Hannah visit you!
Sending 💕
Just shed a tear
This is encouraging,best comment ever.
This life is emotional draining. May God intervene in any barren woman's situation.
@@chasimbarose6608 sure ..Amen 🙏
@@catherine1786 I'm going through this life, I will never wish it to my worse enemy. Barrenness is a torture.
It takes courage to share personal details publicly. Speaking out facilitates recovery and healing from childhood trauma and relationship trauma. Helen seems at peace setting boundaries with that polygamous situation 😇
Helen God bless 🙌 you.i see God in you. You don't know how many people you have touched.
Learning moments!!! When we fall, not to stay down but get up and move life forward!!! 👏🏽
Now that I have listened to the whole story, I have come to understand one thing. That the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. When she didn't know the ways of God she acted out of foolishness but now even from her way of talking she fears God.
May God help intervene on the remaining part
This is so true lady.
very true
Total lies!!! She's acting. It's boz
Uongo! Amemutoroka coz amesota. She is a golddigger!
@@gladysmwanzia2320 I'm here asking why after 10 yrs ..sijaelewa hii strory
Helen my schoolmate you have done well it doesn't matter what others will say about you, you learnt your lesson and you are brave to come out kudos to you
Never mock someone for not having a gift that only God can give.
A childless woman's heart is an empty heart full of sorrows of uncertainties.
The scar you have left is too deep to heal.
Let marriage be holy, let the bed be respected.
Even as you start your new journey be true to your conscious lest you fall again considering that children are involved.
May God heal that first wife and give her hope.
Mockery can't Tek u anywhere, children are gift from God and He is the only giver. Childless woman heart is an empty heart and only God knows it well why. The wounds u live are usually too deep to heal. It will always come back to you. Be warned!!
She has apologised
Kweli kabisa
What about the husbands of childless wives? Do you ever consider the challenges that lead some of them to arrive here?
@@oloipala8590
It's not justifiable..I acknowledge that fact that they are under dire pressure however, would you ask yourself if they were the ones with low sperms? Erectile dysfunction? Or any other issue they face?
They would want them covered still despite the community pointing fingers to women who's husbands are suffering of such illnesses.
Bottom line.
The walk of infertility is uncertain path that only God understands and the least you can do is be there for each other.
I thank God you finally released my friend's husband Joseph. Only God knows how many prayers and tears we have cried with the wife. God will heal her. It's has been so painful. She has really suffered. God forgive you more and more.
Amen God is a restorer.
What a Story!
God will always cause all circumstances to work and come together for ones good.
More Grace Hellen.
Love from🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Thanks Lynn and Hellen I was just about to make the same mistake but I have learned from her and I have made up my mind. Glory be to God may the almighty God be with her because am saved and I could have gone in the same pain.
Someone said when we keep on hating something sometimes we become it😊Hellen this is bold of you to take accountability ❤️
I tell you she's strong
Very true through experience and have passed through everything I hated infact I judged someone and it came knocking on me yenyewe earth is hard
I am stuck at what she went through with the man who impregnated her when she was young then abandoned her, that's where the issues began. I'm happy she's on the path of healing
Self reflection is very important in our lives. Always reflect on everything in your lives. Nobody is perfect n there's always room for correction or rerouting
You cannot build your happiness in unhappiness of others. Some altars that we build can only be broken by going beyond what we see and by doing what is right and walking with God. Fear of society and other fears can hinder us but Am proud of you Hellen for conquering all that. Your story will teach those in the same situation on how to go about it.
You don't destroy another woman's life then when life turns against you, you start talking about God this and that! Hiding in church is not a solution. As a young lady years back one thing I knew was "a married man is a no go!!!" Period!
@Joan miks Abel we should not be judges since all of us fall in way or another. But the good thing is once we know our mistakes let us rectify and act right.
@@joanmiksabel3598 your very right,hajawacha Huyo MTU the kids are giving her connection .sijapenda
@@nyagakify this wasn't a mistake!? Give me a break! Lusting for someone else husband when you grew up in a polygamous family and know all pro's and cons is pathetic. She says she even used the wife's weakness told by "their husband" against her!!! Who does that? She felt she was the little god as she could bear children that the other woman wouldn't!? Karma is a bitch! She can hide in church but ain't seen nothing yet. She went to far and its disgusting for her to ask foe any forgiveness and even an insult yo say they :the other lady and husband " should get back together! WTF is she to give such a statement? Church my foot!
@@noiczakma58 it's even mockery to narrate this! Somethings are better left as is. She just opened the wound. I feel sad for that lady, a victim of a street husband snatcher!
You can not make a home, through another woman's tears. Women are enemies of their own. Some learn, some don't ile roho nguuuumu💪. Thank you mama for coming go your senses
Good day Lynn. I am from South Africa. I love your shows. Most of your guests tend to mix English and their mother tongue. This creates a problem for us who don't speak other African languages. I am humbly appealing that there should be a way of translating when that happens.
Otherwise keep up the good work and the interesting topics. I really enjoy the show. 🙏🙏
Nomsa.
If you turn on the captions it gives the translation when they switch to a different language
Exactly! I really want to enjoy this show but I can't. Lynn and her guest are always mixing English with their native language. So frustrating.
Lynn you such a blessing to the entire world.Am from Uganda but I love you so much like my big sister.You inspire me Mama.Nakupenda mami,.....I don't know Swahili but am learning it through your show.
A woman will never build a home by ruining another woman's home,,you gat to pay for it..
It's a lesson to gals out there planning to do this be cautious,"bwana ya mtu ni sumu"
As for Hellen it's nice you owe your mistake and may you find peace 🕊️✌️
True
Thank you! They have no idea the pain that they cause.......but they PAY dearly......in due cause ...the cheating husbands included
Sumu
Confession is healing..Thanks Lynn for this episode
This is one of the most sober interview I have listened and what makes it interesting is how God convicts someone. God bless you for speaking out especially because nowadays most influencers in Kenya tell young ladies it’s ok to share men and even be with people’s husband.
Man, I'm sitting here thinking about this married man who's been stalking me for 5 years and wanted to take me as a second wife. And this episode shows up. He lied and pretended he was single at first, thankfully I didn't do anything with him coz I wanted to wait for marriage for sex, I kept my legs closed. Boom, turns out he is married with two kids. And has the audacity to want to take me as a second wife. I cut him off, coz I can't imagine putting another woman through that pain. Plus, what greed and deception is this! Ay, some men! He came with a bad intention to deceive me use me sexually and when that failed now he wants to take me as a wife? No, and I won't be that woman that harms another sister! Let alone her beautiful children! Marriage covenant, union is taken so lightly these days, its shocking!
Why allow conversation like this all this year's with him ..still hes in your circle..you gain what in this ?
@@rrcggcc 5yrs is a long time to string something you don't want along
Right now, you think you can handle him and he knows that too. But he is waiting on when you will be desperate or weak.
His bad intentions towards you won't stop and you shouldn't put yourself on the path to receive the bad intended for you by being friends/friendly. Girl, put that boundary.
Cut him off!
May the Lord open up the door of a good marriage
I wish women were all proud of themselves. Why go for number 2? We deserve no 1....hakuna mambo ya wanaume ni wengi! There is a husband for every woman.
I love how the lady explained herself till she repented may God give you a respected marriage
I can give Hellen a thumbs up because I don think there are many of us who could open up pages and unravel whatever went down .her life impact can send waves of blooming sadness through our hearts we should learn from this ..thank you Lyn you are a girl of clarity I choose you amongst the best ❤️❤️
I am living in a polygamy family.l am the first wife, challenges are unbearable,l advice everyone reading this to avoid such marriage
Nimeletewa 2nd and anabehave like she owns the world
@@janerosemwangi3563 They are never at peace, so they react to take away yours, they can have the man but dont allow your peace and integrity to be taken away from you
One Day.God will intervene 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Mm nlitoka dear, weeuh its hell .I was the fast after 12 yrs of white wedding
I honestly feel like God took over Helen's mouth n started to talk to all the women who will watch this interview n they are in a marriage that belongs to someone else. May God bless you so much Helen for making such a brave move in order to obey our heavenly father.u r a rare kind Helen.👏👏
Very true
True..many women are crying out here coz now this wave of wababa is trending not knowing this women in their 20s sahi or even younger their time will come aki ju waliharibu Boma za wenyewe
@@julietwanjira8622 very true.n we all know that those tears of that 1st wife burn like sulfuric acid and somehow, God always avenges those tears.thats y Helen said that, when the 1st wife of that man forgives her, she'll know her n her kids are good.
What a brave woman!!! You took a call from God and through you people will get saved!!! And Lynn thank you for the platform to the world and saying yes to this call from God!! You are changing the world... And the first wife may you find peace and heal as a woman l also apologize on behalf of this woman. Forgive them both...
I just needed this for sure May God bless this platform I was almost making such a mistake ...
No matter how long or far you have gone down the wrong road, stop. It is never too late"
I am proud of you and your change Hellen. Your story will definitely speak to someone and change the course of their life.
Me,iam gonna change🥰
Until someone exepiriences real awakening huezi understand this lady... True Repentance is change of mind. Big up gal. I knw the peace and God's assurance is worth it all and....
Psalms 119:130...the entrance of His Word brings light and understanding to the simple
True
Amen
she's right.repentance is confessing and stopping what you confessed
True .... Turning away from sin and practicing The Word . That's True repentance
God's word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. Psalms 119:105.
I cry every night , soaking my pillow with tears because of my home,my childlessness is killing me slowly, The worst of it dealing with another woman who has kids for him 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭,God of Hannah where are you?
Hugs mom it's well
Hello Anyika, sending so much love, light, healing and restoration your way. God of Hannah will bless your womb🙏🙏
May the God of Sarah and Hannah see you...take chance like Jacob and tell God your not leaving his presence until he changes your name...you can attend holy communion service this week huku mombasa kwa pastor Ezekiel....your miracle is waiting for you go and snatch your kids from the hands of your enemies.
How old are you...? Because fertility clinics can help you if you are still under 45.. ..... You can still have a baby and live joyful love with your baby....May creator wipe your tears and all shall come to pass
Take heart trust God and have faith
Brings me to the Abraham's. Thanks Lynn for these stories each with a unique title 🙏
@kirimi pamela talk to people who have grown up in such homes. They'll tell you. It is the worst thing you can do to your children as a man.
@@stewartmuwangala2053 am here.I wish it never happened...
@@stewartmuwangala2053 well said. I come from such a set up. It's the pathetic set up I can ever want for myself leave alone for my children.
The "humble or meek" must swallow the bitter happenings for the sake of peace.
@kirimi pamela eti humble and good hearted...watch the space and if you ever want to win your enemy bring her close to you
Me to and the Wanjihis. Let them learn from this and go make their own homes and look for their own husbands. It shows like others have failed and they come to amend things well
The painful part is, we only realize this after years when the excitement of the relationship is gone, when we see the real person, now we wish/want to send the man back to the first woman!
Exactly. And by then the first innocent wife may have fallen ill of depression or passed away out of high blood pressure
Wow i agree with yours comment so true if I was d wife I wouldn't take him back
@@estherchinagorom4490 sometimes the first wife is NOT innocent. There's a way they get to be elevated to angelic status when they get married
Very true, most women leave the excitement ends, when the pain has already been caused.
@@rosesengo4704for real most are very evil women hiding as angels in marriage, my cousin is suffering because of his wife, me I ll support another woman
God bless you Hellen for humbling yourself and feeling sorry for destroying your husbands first family..there is no sin beyond God
I really needed to hear this...this was for me...have changed my mind...am not going to be a second wife anymore...I will wait upon the glory of God... Thanks so much Lynn this is my turning point...
Pheny, this is the best decision you have made for yourself. Thanks be to Helen's real life story. God will surely bless your desires.
@@victoriamalaki8673 Thanks Victoria this platform has been of great help to me
The problem with consequences is that they don't spare u just because u have been forgiven.
Only God knows my dear. His ways are beyond our own reasoning.
@@dorothy_museo it's called Grace. I get u.
@@mummystastytreats179 Thank God he is not a man, a man will not forgive, but God has forgiven her ..He says no matter how your sins are red as crimson I will wash them and you will become white as snow...some of these behaviours are bondages just like addiction. The spirit of polygamy followed her from her father. God father says your Sins I WILL REMEMBER NO MORE when you ask for forgivness...that how good God is
@@KNAK-uk9rc u did not understand me, God forgives but the problem is consequences. A thief cought and taken to jail is forgiven even if he will still serve the term....Am i making sense?
Great work Lynn ,am South Africa and watch so many of your episode. For us who are not Khenyanan we will appreciate translation sis .God bless you
Turn on cc, they translate Swahili to English
Listening to this story has made me realise some mistakes we make in life, then deep inside our hearts we hear God whispering to us but we become busy to listen, HE KEEPS INSISTING THE ROAD YOU CHOOSE SHALL NOT LEAD YOU INTO YOUR DESTINY.
Hellen you are strong n genius to have realise what God's plan to u was and is. May God keep u safe as u fill that Gap, keep winning
My pastor said a few days ago, its wrong to get involved with a man knowing he is married coz when both of you pray whom do you think God answers? its wrong to get involved with a married man. its good you realized it...
True
She's so eloquent,i cud listen to her all day.The fact that she acknowledged her mistakes and walked away from them and is commendable.Few ppl are able to do that
It's called being cared for a lady is the key to her ❤