family issues [sad multifandom]

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  • Опубліковано 29 гру 2020
  • Fandom: Instant Family, Little Fires Everywhere, Shameless, Supergirl, Grey's Anatomy, Riverdale, The Originals (in order of appearance)
    Song: So cold - Ben Cocks
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    Fandom: Instant Family, Little Fires Everywhere, Shameless, Supergirl, Grey's Anatomy, Riverdale, The Originals (en orden de aparición)
    Canción: So cold de Ben Cocks

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  • @jazmin5709
    @jazmin5709  3 роки тому +345

    Hi everyone, i wanna thanks you for the support❤️ I also shared a new video, I leave you the link and I invite you to see it!
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  • @user-wz5dj3dx1l
    @user-wz5dj3dx1l 2 роки тому +3565

    *The worst feeling ever is being in your own house...and feeling like you need to go home.*

    • @pranjalchauhan237
      @pranjalchauhan237 2 роки тому +33

      I will listen to you talk to me pls..

    • @pabluu6506
      @pabluu6506 2 роки тому +61

      I just want to go away i just dont wanna live here, i am done, why are parents so manipulative, fulfilling your kid's need doesn't mean you care or understand them. They dont know me, they want me to change for them, they dont even respect my personality and call me fucking selfish.

    • @pranjalchauhan237
      @pranjalchauhan237 2 роки тому +15

      @@pabluu6506 that's the problem with parents nowadays but don't worry you can talk to me if you want to share bro everything will be fine :) 💗💗

    • @pabluu6506
      @pabluu6506 2 роки тому

      @@pranjalchauhan237 sure, do u have discord

    • @user-wz5dj3dx1l
      @user-wz5dj3dx1l 2 роки тому +16

      pabluu I feel you so much...
      It seriously hurts when your own parents can’t even understand you...
      Like, you’d end up feeling so damn alone, like you’re only on your own, because the people who’s supposed to be the one who understands you when no one else does, are the people who literally doesn’t understand you the most.

  • @fujoshithrash6680
    @fujoshithrash6680 3 роки тому +8256

    Promise that we will be better than our parents💝

    • @thatsnailgirl945
      @thatsnailgirl945 3 роки тому +249

      I will I will care and love my kids I won't ever hurt them if they need help I'll help them

    • @melisauniverse4453
      @melisauniverse4453 3 роки тому +152

      @@thatsnailgirl945 I promise I’ll do everything I can not to be abusive like my mom and never leave like my dad did

    • @thatsnailgirl945
      @thatsnailgirl945 3 роки тому +69

      @@melisauniverse4453 I'm so sorry that happened I have family issues to my mom yells and emotionally abuse me my dad dose the same I will never be like them

    • @jenejen4351
      @jenejen4351 3 роки тому +105

      I never want to have family. I want to go far away

    • @thatsnailgirl945
      @thatsnailgirl945 3 роки тому +45

      @@jenejen4351 I feel that I'm gonna do that when I turn 18 I can't live in my home any more I mean my parents will let me but it'll make my life wores so I'll join the air force for a few years then I can go to college (cuz they give you scholarships for being in the military) then maby I'll get married and adopt kids (cuz I don't want to be prego)

  • @livalopp9242
    @livalopp9242 3 роки тому +3343

    i don’t need a complete family all i want is a peaceful family no fighting

  • @slayer952
    @slayer952 3 роки тому +3459

    In my experience family causes nothing but pain and misery

    • @claral8237
      @claral8237 3 роки тому +108

      Family is the first to break your heart...

    • @catraaa5261
      @catraaa5261 3 роки тому +20

      @@claral8237 ooof that deep- but true

    • @gachatwins3789
      @gachatwins3789 3 роки тому +38

      same..at first they act like they love you so much and care about you..they do anything for you but the older you get the more you see the act..it's all just a damn lie..it was never real..and the older you get the less they wanna deal with you..

    • @kleanthianastasiou9842
      @kleanthianastasiou9842 2 роки тому +9

      Same ... everyone hates me and i need no family anymore

    • @kleanthianastasiou9842
      @kleanthianastasiou9842 2 роки тому +6

      @Caylee Daughtry i know how you feel my dad abuses me ... stay strong

  • @bibbles4life695
    @bibbles4life695 3 роки тому +1416

    everyone wants a perfect family, i just want someone who feels like family

  • @ilvomor2302
    @ilvomor2302 3 роки тому +1632

    I'm feeling so bad , because i know that many people feel the same thing as me.
    But at the same time i'm happy because i know *i'm not alone*

  • @irenerivera1407
    @irenerivera1407 2 роки тому +898

    “You were my mother too” always breaks me Fiona deserved better I’m glad she got her happy ending💕❤️

    • @feruzamehari1660
      @feruzamehari1660 2 роки тому +8

      Something I wanted to say for a long time too. That she was my mother too. Oh well

    • @carolginelle9633
      @carolginelle9633 2 роки тому +1

      which series is that?

    • @mai5345
      @mai5345 2 роки тому +2

      Shameless US

  • @aahmy
    @aahmy 3 роки тому +3068

    I just want a perfect family

    • @hafssaben948
      @hafssaben948 3 роки тому +16

      If you want to talk to someone, you can talk to me ،if you want of course ❤️

    • @arrow-verse-choni739
      @arrow-verse-choni739 3 роки тому +9

      Miss Grande that's what I want to, but wishes sometimes can't come true and sometimes we just gotta have hope that they can even if we know they can't and stay above the people around us

    • @ok.ok.ok.69
      @ok.ok.ok.69 3 роки тому +4

      No ones perfect . You know your not the only one theres me

    • @radioitengl448
      @radioitengl448 3 роки тому +3

      Same, I can’t deal with my abusive parents anymore, not to meantion my older brother, it’s all too much and I also have to worry about school. I will not end it and I will do whatever I can to not to that, I feel like their is a bright end at the other way of the tunnel, but sometimes I can’t see it, and it becomes blurry.

    • @yourmom1890
      @yourmom1890 3 роки тому

      Same

  • @jane_135
    @jane_135 3 роки тому +1142

    I just want a caring mother.

    • @idkanything0754
      @idkanything0754 3 роки тому +21

      It's ok just hold on there one day it'll be alright. One day they'll realize how much have they wronged us. The day of realisation will hit then hard, harder then they ever hit us and then on that day we'll know we won. We survive. We made it, to the end. To our destination.
      Just be strong and patience everything will fall into their places.

    • @gamingwithbella6615
      @gamingwithbella6615 2 роки тому +6

      Me too

    • @anyareacts6819
      @anyareacts6819 2 роки тому +7

      Me too

    • @ashboilol4737
      @ashboilol4737 2 роки тому +4

      My mom left me when I was 5

    • @gamingwithbella6615
      @gamingwithbella6615 2 роки тому

      @@ashboilol4737 same

  • @Toocoolforschool573
    @Toocoolforschool573 3 роки тому +849

    Shameless hits different 🥺🥺🥺

  • @bLaKeFN55
    @bLaKeFN55 2 роки тому +203

    those teenagers who sat in their rooms at night and cry themselves to sleep were once children with light in there eyes and hope in their heart

  • @shalomkalom6958
    @shalomkalom6958 3 роки тому +768

    I made a promise to myself when I was 10 that I would give 10x the love I ever got to my kids. I’m 14 and I’m gonna live up to the promise I made. Growing up with parents who are alcoholics I will never let my children go through what I did.
    I’m sorry if you ever experienced this, I love u and ur strong xx🖤

    • @aswanisanal664
      @aswanisanal664 3 роки тому +3

      You are also so strong 😊😊

    • @daughter3357
      @daughter3357 3 роки тому +3

      U hope you know you are loved and deserving of love❤️

    • @arliarapana5515
      @arliarapana5515 2 роки тому +1

      Someone wise told me that what doesn't kill us makes us stronger

    • @daughter3357
      @daughter3357 2 роки тому

      @@arliarapana5515 Kelly Clarkson??

    • @aisha3478
      @aisha3478 2 роки тому

      @Μαρια Νικου im so fuckin sorry for that... Plz stay safe ly sm ma discord is aish_1#4325 if u ever needa talk

  • @BunnyDrawBunny
    @BunnyDrawBunny 2 роки тому +446

    When this generation grows up and becomes a parent. I think they will either do a such great job because they felt how it was for their parents to not be there, or they just get worser and worse just because they are to broken and think thats the right way to do it.

    • @aleagupta8533
      @aleagupta8533 2 роки тому +4

      THIS!!!!!

    • @feruzamehari1660
      @feruzamehari1660 2 роки тому +26

      I don't think most of us want children all thanks to em

    • @DeenOverDunya613
      @DeenOverDunya613 2 роки тому +5

      I dont want kids, but if I have one, I will never abuse or hurt him/her.

  • @scarlettsparkles5410
    @scarlettsparkles5410 3 роки тому +832

    Do you ever watch these videos so then you can cry and relate and realise how messed up you are and think how numb you are physically and mentally. Because I do I know how it feels to be desserted and left and I have one just one tip for anyone here that's has took the time to read this that never ever walk into somebody's life to just walk out of it thank you for listening and reading I would of said more but I don't feel to comfortable talking about it.

    • @jamesnewton3128
      @jamesnewton3128 3 роки тому +4

      Same

    • @MammaMia-oi9sl
      @MammaMia-oi9sl 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you, and I promise to not just walk away from someone, no one deserves that.

    • @aswanisanal664
      @aswanisanal664 3 роки тому +3

      Just smile sister😊😊

    • @19971997nikki
      @19971997nikki 2 роки тому +4

      We cant make the same mistakes others did to us. We wont

    • @MammaMia-oi9sl
      @MammaMia-oi9sl 2 роки тому +3

      @@19971997nikki never have more truer words been spoken

  • @HaydenGrace_0810
    @HaydenGrace_0810 3 роки тому +848

    I didn't ask to be born with such a messed up family and abusive father 😭

  • @ash2574
    @ash2574 2 роки тому +352

    I hate when people tell me that I’m supposed to talk to my family and forgive them. That I’m being dramatic and family is supposed to love each other. Yeah exactly, family is supposed to love each other, they didn’t do that. How can I talk to them when they made me feel like this??

    • @cozyghostling8181
      @cozyghostling8181 2 роки тому +9

      You dont have to forgive them a lot of people say you do but chances are they may have not been through what youve been through. They say blood is thicker than water but they leave our the full thing.
      The actual quote is "blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb." Meaning that the people you choose in your life the bonds you forge are always stronger. You dont have to forgive your family you dont have to see them as your family. You didn't choose them find new people those people can be your family hope this helps

    • @sanemozdemir2052
      @sanemozdemir2052 2 роки тому +6

      Same Exact situation im in.....
      It's really hard

    • @katesalmon5460
      @katesalmon5460 Рік тому +2

      I hated it too.
      You don't have to forgive them if you don't want to.
      It doesn't mean you're not going to heal.
      There are some things that can't be forgiven.

  • @marianne7650
    @marianne7650 2 роки тому +72

    "In my experience, father causes pain"
    -yeah.

    • @imacat5684
      @imacat5684 2 роки тому +1

      😑 yes i understand

    • @DeenOverDunya613
      @DeenOverDunya613 2 роки тому +1

      *Mother causes pain*
      -Me

    • @gennieplandiano1308
      @gennieplandiano1308 Рік тому +1

      How about both of them 🙂 -" in my experience"
      My grandmother raised me loved me but she's in heaven now and it kills me everyday that I lost someone who really understand me 💔😔

    • @ssaffahmeaffahmehmood4209
      @ssaffahmeaffahmehmood4209 Рік тому +1

      I understand this on another level for both parents

  • @pertycillaarmy2859
    @pertycillaarmy2859 3 роки тому +213

    I just need love and hug from you...i don't need the perfect life but perfect love..

    • @imacat5684
      @imacat5684 2 роки тому +3

      🤗 hope you are happy now..

    • @bighits_janitor7308
      @bighits_janitor7308 2 роки тому +1

      Hey, Celine loves you for who you are. You're doing so well 🥺❤️

    • @pranjalchauhan237
      @pranjalchauhan237 2 роки тому +1

      *gives you a tight,warm,full of love,perfect love and "lean on me" hugs*
      Trust me :)

  • @user-mw8er6dp6m
    @user-mw8er6dp6m Рік тому +56

    The words "You're just like you're mother" kills me everytime.
    I don't care that its been years. I will never forget what she has done. Everything that she's done.

  • @cheesemaximoff
    @cheesemaximoff 3 роки тому +240

    My moms side of the family is constantly teasing me and making me feel like I’m not good enough. If I tell them something I enjoyed like Harry Potter or something, they wouldn’t care and make fun of me. Sometimes it makes me wonder why I was even born. And my mom doesn’t even notice. She takes everyone’s side except mine. What is WRONG with me?! 😭💔

    • @idkanything0754
      @idkanything0754 3 роки тому +11

      It happens with me too and believe me its the worst thing when your mom doesnt understand you. But one day she will.

    • @laiana_hope5407
      @laiana_hope5407 3 роки тому +8

      I’m so sorry your going through that but know your not alone and Harry Potter is amazing just keep your head up

    • @kimbapkidding7003
      @kimbapkidding7003 2 роки тому +1

      Ur not alone

    • @samriddhikhandelwal9641
      @samriddhikhandelwal9641 2 роки тому +5

      You know what, it's crappy when people most closed to you never stand up for you. I felt betrayed and alone and I thought something is wrong with me. But guess what I never for once, for once wanted to believe even think that they could be selfish. But I thought maybe I should stand for myself, why am I acting weak, but the truth is you need help. And they were supposed to help you. But fine, they didn't. It's not your fault. Nothing is wrong with you, mentally, psychologically, physically. Nothing, not one single thing.

    • @pizza762
      @pizza762 2 роки тому +3

      Well.. I guss we are the same. 💔😊

  • @sadxx4613
    @sadxx4613 3 роки тому +98

    Dear parents, do not crave to have a child Just to look after you in your old age . Because you are ruining someone's love by not let them living their life . If you want to fulfill your dreams just go on but not by forcing your child to do it because they too deserve to live their dream life .

    • @bengalshead
      @bengalshead 2 роки тому +4

      My dad: I’ma pretend I didn’t read this.

    • @imacat5684
      @imacat5684 2 роки тому

      @@bengalshead lol😂 mine too

  • @vkeibrainrot
    @vkeibrainrot 3 роки тому +315

    My arm hurts...I wonder why 🙂

    • @user-hw1lr6vw5e
      @user-hw1lr6vw5e 3 роки тому +14

      Omg you oki🥺💔

    • @vkeibrainrot
      @vkeibrainrot 3 роки тому +10

      @@user-hw1lr6vw5e eh I’m ok kinda thanks for asking

    • @groaches
      @groaches 3 роки тому +5

      Omg it’s okay,there people who love you! but what your doing is not poggers ok 🥺

    • @ina2099
      @ina2099 3 роки тому +16

      @@vkeibrainrot that doesn’t sound like ‘Okay’ buddy....if you need to talk we’re here dude. Sending virtual hugs 🫂

    • @thatsnailgirl945
      @thatsnailgirl945 3 роки тому +1

      It's ok I do it to I'm trying to stop and it's hard and I would say it will get better but I don't know we can find out together

  • @apassionateadmirer7177
    @apassionateadmirer7177 3 роки тому +144

    I love my mom and all but rn she's yelling at me because i talked to my grandma who she fought with. She told me not to talk to her but i did she's yelling at me like "your grandma yelled and insulted me all the time" I'm not even facing her rn I'm on my bed :) how ironical she doesn't even realize she's doing the same thing to me ;)

    • @apassionateadmirer7177
      @apassionateadmirer7177 3 роки тому +11

      She yelled at me again cause i didn't eat anything from the house for 4 days i was trying so hard but i had a snack yesterday and she started yelling again I'm not gonna listen

    • @haileyblum5037
      @haileyblum5037 3 роки тому +4

      i felt this on a personal level

    • @whotfisbalqees5703
      @whotfisbalqees5703 2 роки тому +2

      @@apassionateadmirer7177 maybe she's trying to protect u from him maybe he wants to hurt u

    • @apassionateadmirer7177
      @apassionateadmirer7177 2 роки тому +3

      @@whotfisbalqees5703 No my grandma loves me to bits,she would never hurt me.She's very sick rn and nobody's caring about her it's so hard.I've been getting nightmares every night that she'll get hurt.

    • @apassionateadmirer7177
      @apassionateadmirer7177 2 роки тому +3

      @@haileyblum5037 i hope things will get better for you

  • @hawaiiangirl8085
    @hawaiiangirl8085 3 роки тому +264

    Because of my family and how messed up everything in my life is I build up walls to keep people out and I didn't even notice every time someone gets enough for me to be happy something happens so I feel I built a wall to trap my emotions in and people out I had an I had anxiety attacks panic attacks everything my dad wasn't even there he was either doing drugs sleeping with somebody or in jail the longest I know he's been out he was out of jail for one month's top that's the longest he's been out and out of an entire month I got three days with him that's the most days time I got with him one time when he came out I wasn't supposed to go home I was in foster home and I got and he was out and I got to talk to him for an hour and then he left and he was in jail again he wasn't there and he's not the only one in my family who is messed up f***** up in the head I 11 and I already have issues I shouldn't have I've seen things I shouldn't have I've known things I shouldn't have I watched my mom stab someone to death I know that my grandma was stabbed on my favorite Beach and almost let out to death I know that life is a horrible thing and I know that nobody can help me

    • @caitlinrussell8928
      @caitlinrussell8928 3 роки тому +13

      You are so unbelievably strong okay! I know I’m just some random person but I know that you have the strength to keep going even on the baddest of days, to push through everything no matter how impossible the situation feels you will get through it, you will keep going and power through life even when it feel super shit and hard. You will grow up into a beautiful human and achieve all of your goals get you dream house and car but most importantly prove everyone who has ever made you feel small, prove them wrong. Keep going it might not seem like it, and it might a get worse but it sure as hell will get better okay just keep going find something you love and just go like nothing can stop you! Your amazing and I hope things get better for you soon. You got this.

    • @akshaysuryavanshi3649
      @akshaysuryavanshi3649 3 роки тому +3

      Stay strong

    • @doodlesandstuff6032
      @doodlesandstuff6032 3 роки тому +3

      stay strong! i believe in you and you deserve so much happines and dreams coming true! keep going keep fighting! you can do this! you are not alone worth it!

    • @arrow-verse-choni739
      @arrow-verse-choni739 3 роки тому +3

      Stay strong 💜❤💙 you'll find the right people sometimes it just takes time 💜💜💜 😔

    • @malialove495
      @malialove495 3 роки тому +2

      I understand I was sexual abused 3 times by my dad my mom was never there always worries about perfect life 😔😣doesn't have time for me , I wish someone could love😍 me

  • @rozio_fck_it
    @rozio_fck_it 2 роки тому +58

    You know I always thought that my first lover would break me, I wouldn't never guessed that my own blood would break me.

  • @ashthatsliterallyit9433
    @ashthatsliterallyit9433 3 роки тому +74

    If anyone knows me, I’m Ashleigh. Yes that one, the girl with glasses. I hate myself and really need a hug, so the next time you see me please hug me, I always want to talk to people but I always feel like a burden. I cry myself to sleep many nights, I really need someone

  • @gangstae3838
    @gangstae3838 3 роки тому +220

    it's scary to think how i am not the only person who is miserable and that there are so many other people out there who also have familly issues and are struggling.
    *virtual hugs to every person out there who have toxic family, just promise that you will not be like how they are and you will treat your children better \( ̄︶ ̄*\))*

    • @zaraelizabeth2932
      @zaraelizabeth2932 3 роки тому +2

      I don’t even have a bed I sleep downstairs on a couch. Sending love to u 💖💖

    • @zaraelizabeth2932
      @zaraelizabeth2932 3 роки тому

      @Simm JJ thank you I really mean it x

  • @ninjawolfie2657
    @ninjawolfie2657 3 роки тому +131

    I’m currently writing a story on wattpad about a broken family and this really helps so thank you.

  • @josleenlisakhanya3504
    @josleenlisakhanya3504 2 роки тому +87

    I wonder if parents realise what type of damage they cause to their children,in my experiences I actually went from being a nice innocent girl to someone who became a brutal monster to protect myself from hurt and how can adults be so stupid how can they expect a child to absorbed all that negativity and still function normal and pretend everything is okay

  • @rishitasingh9195
    @rishitasingh9195 2 роки тому +25

    To everyone watching this or reading this, you are loved. I'm sorry you have to go through this, I really am. Remember I'm proud of you!

  • @elise6319
    @elise6319 3 роки тому +25

    All i want is a family that actually cares about each other nothing more i dont care if it's a poor family as long as everybody in the family loves each other and cares for everyone thats all i want i life its not that much but the world doesn't seem to see me as deserving to have that

  • @dejaholladay4978
    @dejaholladay4978 3 роки тому +40

    the second clip where she says '' what is wrong with you, you need professional help'' my mom says that every damn day.

  • @bunbun3725
    @bunbun3725 2 роки тому +4

    I’m so used to people fighting, I can’t sleep unless I have music blasting through my ears. It imitates the yells, the hurtful words and the slams of doors. I’m not even able to say I’m fine or okay, but I can say I’m getting better now. I’m with better people now.

  • @zubairmahmud3124
    @zubairmahmud3124 3 роки тому +16

    When we hurt our parents even unintentionally it's sin bt what happens when they do it intentionally nd never try to understand their mistakes? It hurt every single seconds and nothing to do but accept those and live with that pain. It's fucking painful 😔😔

  • @sandra-nu3tx
    @sandra-nu3tx 2 роки тому +4

    "who are you want to live with, ur mom or ur dad"
    that words been hurting me so much this year, but idk why, i always try to smile and laugh in public like there's nothing wrongs with my life :')
    here's my weakness.

  • @Alia-uk4li
    @Alia-uk4li 3 роки тому +61

    I just wanted my mom to love me and my dad to be there for me.

  • @a.k.2132
    @a.k.2132 3 роки тому +19

    There was little fires everywhere in it.. This series was just so heartbreaking..

  • @stevienay9672
    @stevienay9672 2 роки тому +4

    ohh god i have an emotional attachment to some of these characters especially fiona and the part where she said "she didnt love me. she didnt love you." im cryinggg

  • @Alita_Kazami
    @Alita_Kazami 7 місяців тому +1

    There is no pain greater than knowing that the people who made you don’t love each other. It tears your world apart. I am lucky that I don’t know what it is like, but it’s an unbearable pain to realize how many kids have this happen to them.

  • @noone-qp8ly
    @noone-qp8ly 3 роки тому +8

    “it’s about what i and i did a fucking great job” “you were my father too” “he was never fucking here” “i was here not him, me”

  • @kleanthianastasiou9842
    @kleanthianastasiou9842 2 роки тому +25

    I promise to never make my kids feel the same way my parents made me feel

  • @annaesparza6157
    @annaesparza6157 2 роки тому +6

    I know what it's like. Listening the fighting and thinking how life can be mess up before I met people who are like family to me. I love my family and sometimes we have issues but all I ever wanted was no fighting and peaceful family. There's no perfect family but you can have a family what you really want as love and caring

  • @aakansh45yearsago83
    @aakansh45yearsago83 3 роки тому +14

    whenever my parents fight i watch such vdos to feel like i'm not alone.

  • @Gul-ep2ii
    @Gul-ep2ii 14 днів тому +1

    What hurts the most is when everyone's family is having a wholesome time and u ....

  • @fatimahazzahra9718
    @fatimahazzahra9718 2 роки тому +10

    I just want a family that feels like a family

  • @mycroissantwasdropped4558
    @mycroissantwasdropped4558 3 роки тому +11

    How many broken families out there really breaks my heart, including mine...they put the pain out on us, but don’t expect us to react and act like everything is fine when they put me in this place..I want to know why I had to always feel not good enough. The most important people in my life never showed me any kind of example so I’m broken everywhere that this toxic behavior is normal. The abuse...scars will always torture me forever. Sorry for the rant, but needed to let it out.

  • @sumitrepassahspassah4099
    @sumitrepassahspassah4099 3 роки тому +25

    This is just like me and my family I hope I can stand my own leg and fly my own wing

  • @lillithjones3787
    @lillithjones3787 9 місяців тому +1

    Reading the comments you just get to the conclusion we are all kinda fucked up in some way or another, in some strange way it gives you comfort to think we all kinda messed up and there is light at the end of the tunnel. We should be thankful for that. There is no perfect family and we all got our issues, so at least lets celebrate that we can share the pain together. Stay strong, folks. We may not do a lot better, but we can try ❤

  • @whywontyouworkvwv8405
    @whywontyouworkvwv8405 3 роки тому +74

    Why must the people who brought us into a place so called earth hate us so much?

  • @layla.opolentisima
    @layla.opolentisima 3 роки тому +6

    Fantastic that I got this on my recommend while worrying about my parents making a big seem at my graduation (their divorced, and can barely stand in one area with each other without fighting)

  • @moniqueasferg4158
    @moniqueasferg4158 3 роки тому +11

    “She is using again” that hurt

  • @sebastianathiememorial520
    @sebastianathiememorial520 Рік тому +6

    "The real reason why grandchildren and grandparents get along so well is that they have a common enemy"
    Sam Levenson

  • @snitchesendupinditches1111
    @snitchesendupinditches1111 2 роки тому +6

    "I used to see those tv shows in which all those perfect family lives happily didn't knew i wasn't destined for that"

  • @serenacampbell6570
    @serenacampbell6570 3 роки тому +13

    because of how my family is I never let my guard down

  • @m1y4h41
    @m1y4h41 2 роки тому +6

    My family is the best thing I've never had.. Happy memories outnumbered the pain.. But, the pain hurts! ❤

  • @zonetbutterfield5456
    @zonetbutterfield5456 3 роки тому +10

    idk what it is with my family but one minute were cool and the next im the outcast that everybody hates until the want something from me. i really am the nice's person but i will never let them or my ''friends'' see that side of me tbh i just want to be loved and not needed for things like babysitting my younger siblings. something about being the oldest sibling just triggers me i have quit on life and im distancing myself by i only feel more alone. because of my family i build walls around my heart so i will never get hurt but always end up being hurt. im trying to trust in god because they say he has a plan but im not really feeling it, i cant talk to my ''friends'' because they can't relate to me in this area so im spreading my info on youtube to get this off my chest.

  • @tricky4025
    @tricky4025 3 роки тому +26

    I’m just gonna say it. I’m reading all these comments and it breaks my heart

  • @fjrova
    @fjrova 3 роки тому +32

    I just want my parents to love me..

    • @emilyjadela860
      @emilyjadela860 2 роки тому

      same

    • @basmanour6318
      @basmanour6318 2 роки тому

      I so sad for us 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
      I mean we didn’t ask to be their children

  • @UnholyLucif3r
    @UnholyLucif3r Рік тому +3

    I remember calling my dad and telling him wanted to move in with him. He asked “why” I told him the only thing I wanted was a loving family and a peaceful life. He couldn’t even give me that. It was made clear to me that I break everything I touch.

  • @YuriJO45
    @YuriJO45 2 роки тому +3

    I Feel like Everything falls apart. My Family See me as a disappointment I was talking to a Close Friend about it and I was surprised we have the same issues with Family and Friends we had a lot of Deep Talks it was very Good.
    But yk how it is.. I still Feel like I have a hole in my Heart that soaks up all of my feeling and makes me Fell so lost .

  • @kavithaginige8559
    @kavithaginige8559 2 роки тому +6

    i promise to be a better parent than my parents and give my kids a happy family life

  • @emmafive2647
    @emmafive2647 3 роки тому +23

    I want to share my sorry here because I can’t talk to anyone in my life and I am this close to ending my life . I was a straight A student and got excepted into a elite school I started finding it hard and my grades dropped to D and C dreams of becoming a doctor slipped away slowly my dad walked out of our life my mum had BPD and with both my brothers at college I deal with it alone . My friends always comment on my depression saying I am faking it and my crush for a really long time abused my kindness and broke my into pieces . I want to move out for college but I have no money left since my dad took out savings . What is the point of living if I have nothing to look forward to . And no way out of this

    • @arpitajindal3552
      @arpitajindal3552 3 роки тому +1

      Just think about how many changes the whole universe goes through every single second to make your existence and everything will be worth it just breathe and count till 5

    • @emmafive2647
      @emmafive2647 3 роки тому +1

      @@arpitajindal3552 I try to think positive but everyday something pushes me closer to the edge the only thing that’s stopping me from leaving this world right now is death. I am scared of dying but ironically I have already been dead for years 💔

    • @marissasmith7561
      @marissasmith7561 3 роки тому +2

      you are such an extraordinary person! we may be complete strangers but I am so incredibly proud of you and all of your accomplishments. you are going places and you are going to do great things in life! screw your crush and your friends that have treated you like shit, you deserve love, happiness, and success!! keep fighting and keep pushing to the top. you got this.

    • @Kontsu21
      @Kontsu21 3 роки тому

      Please don't end your life like this...
      You have a lot of thing to experience...
      Never forget the beauty of life that your mom give it to you... you own your life to her.
      Please live for her sake✋

    • @enchantedgapples576
      @enchantedgapples576 3 роки тому +1

      You’re smart, straight A’s are hard to maintain but I’m proud of you for trying. I’m a stranger on the internet so it might not sound like much but I’m proud of you. Im proud of you for holding on. Live for yourself. Live for you future. You say there’s nothing to look forward to but there is. One day you’re going to walk into your first home and smell the air near your scented candles. You’re going to see the little cute face of your first pet and their first licks. It’s going to be amazing seeing the look on your kids face when they tell you about how good their dream was and how they were dreaming about ice cream. The feeling of going home after working double shifts at the hospital. Or the feeling of finally getting to the hotel room after being in a plane. You’ll feel that because you’re gonna go on so many vacations. You’re gonna see the beautiful view and touch the beautiful sand. You’ll even drive by a little park and see a cute dog playing with a kid. These are the things in life that are beautiful. Life isn’t gonna be easy in the beginning but how you live it determines how it’ll be. I’m extremely proud of you for not giving up but please don’t give up, live for yourself

  • @lexiwhitted4106
    @lexiwhitted4106 3 роки тому +2

    If i do make it long enough to have kids I will never let them go through what I’ve been through. My dad an alcoholic he had been my entire life and he was an addict till I was 7. My mom does what she can to make me and my brothers life’s bearable but she still causes me pain. I’m only 14 and I’ve been through hell and back. It can only get worse from where I’m at now. For anyone who’s taken the times to read to the end just know that you at not alone there are so many people out there who feel the way you do. Stay strong ok you can do this❤️

  • @charlottemath9395
    @charlottemath9395 2 роки тому +2

    This is so amazing!! So beautiful, so sad to know that this is real for some peoples... Every child deserves parents but not every adult deserves childs

  • @gargichoudhari1406
    @gargichoudhari1406 2 роки тому +5

    I just want to be surrounded by the people who ACTUALLY care . I don't wanna silently cry alone in my room anymore . I want a shoulder to cry .

  • @myuniverse9629
    @myuniverse9629 2 роки тому +9

    My parents emotionally abuse me. I swear, I will never be like them! I want to be a good person to my future kids ❤️

  • @kavyadave3988
    @kavyadave3988 2 роки тому

    Even though everyone in my family loves me still ....some bad memory and worst fights keep haunting me and I can never forget the words they said ...

  • @alimuzaffar5281
    @alimuzaffar5281 2 роки тому +2

    The family is a blessing and sometimes a family fall apart and it's the greatest dejection but it also tell you from the other side. The door is open and flexible because a family can be anyone regardless of that you can't end who's your family that has granted to you by God but God also granted you a heart.

  • @brawrnr
    @brawrnr 3 роки тому +11

    Why can't I get love? Why can't ppl love me? I give up....

  • @lindsayvanmechelen6812
    @lindsayvanmechelen6812 3 роки тому +6

    Seeing all these comments..makes me realiza that im not alone. I just got put into an arphonage bcs my parents aboned me. My mother is in jail and my father is in the hospital-..i dont have grandparents. These days have been hard for me since i am an only child. I keep crying day in and out. And its hard- but i tend to get there and promise myself to keep going every morning. You should do! Remember your worth and who you are please. Dont let the negativity get to you xx

  • @R35PECT77
    @R35PECT77 Рік тому +1

    It’s weird how no matter how many times me and other people will try to open up and our families actually think we’re crazy or need help when really we just needed them and when you tell them the truth about it when it’s beyond too late they deny the shit out of it.

  • @samales4238
    @samales4238 2 роки тому +1

    Home is not a place it is a feeling.
    Family are not just people, they are people that care.
    Friends are not just people, they are people that understand.

  • @mckennax3467
    @mckennax3467 3 роки тому +11

    My stomach hurts so bad right now can imagine why

  • @carolrandall8287
    @carolrandall8287 2 роки тому +6

    When i was younger my father did drugs, he drank heavily and always came home drunk. He broke the table and tv, by throwing them across the room. The last thing I remember from then was sitting in my moms lap, watching her crying on the mattress laid in our living room.

  • @laisa6844
    @laisa6844 5 місяців тому

    I just want a family that feels comforting and where I actually feel loved because I know that half of the traumas that I have now and the reason why I'm so fucked up at this point is solely because of my family.I fee like I've been too much traumatized where I can't live with them anymore but,the sad thing is I can't run away either.

  • @superduper5494
    @superduper5494 2 роки тому +2

    i’m having a really bad time due to my family pushing me over my limit one too many times, i’m so tired i want to go live the farthest away possible and i may be able to in a few months but i feel so helpless and tired of it all, they’ve ruined my mental health to the point that i feel like a ghost instead of a 20 year old girl

  • @victoriaraven8542
    @victoriaraven8542 2 роки тому +7

    If we’re all honest no one has a perfect family, right?

  • @yuriiwa1948
    @yuriiwa1948 2 роки тому +7

    i want to be that perfect family for myself and for whoever i know.

  • @tinakiani8306
    @tinakiani8306 2 роки тому

    Wow…
    It's amazing 👌🏼🥺💔

  • @juileb197473051
    @juileb197473051 Рік тому

    Yes the last video on abuse made me think of the story about my dad dumping spaghetti or something on his grandson, because he refused to eat it. Sad part is sometimes we also do mean things out of peer pressure from other judgemental people looking down their nose about how bf your child acts. So you do what they do, only to feel guilty about treating your child in such a horrible manner. Or you think about leaving a child with the other parent and seeing the abuse between them and not realizing the child probably blames you for that abuse as well as leaving them. So goes to say abuse is truly a generational curse

  • @rvvnclaww552
    @rvvnclaww552 3 роки тому +5

    Do you ever look at those videos and cry beacause you see yourself in it?

  • @manarelazizi6740
    @manarelazizi6740 2 роки тому +4

    I hope that we'll make it to adulthood together and we'll be the best parents ever

  • @popsocket6885
    @popsocket6885 Рік тому

    When you realize that your home doesn't feel like home. It's like a field were people go to war; constant fight and arguing being as loud as gunshots. As if eating with your family at the dinner table is a the only place you can connect with them or act as a normal 'family'.

  • @ridhimmanimble691
    @ridhimmanimble691 2 роки тому +1

    "Been feeling so alone in every crowded room" even in front of parents
    I want someone who feels like home, who feels like family, who feels like "yes you, just you!!"

  • @jojiitta9612
    @jojiitta9612 2 роки тому +5

    I just want a caring and respectful mother who can give me the example of a good and sweet woman, not someone who does nothing but emotionally hurt me.

  • @tachiruu
    @tachiruu 2 роки тому +4

    Why can't they just appreciate us at least once?
    I mean even if we're not good in everything like our sibling....but we're still trying.... trying to make them proud

  • @sohailaelfateh8911
    @sohailaelfateh8911 9 місяців тому

    Im just tired of the loud voice and the fightings all the time, i have the best mom and grandmom but they are so messed up, they've been through so much i feel so sorry for them but im so tired i dont wanna be here anymore but cant imagine my life without them. I love them soo much. i hope we all find our peace.

  • @hanei.
    @hanei. Місяць тому

    "Why don't I just die!?"
    ....is the thought I get everytime my mother targets me for LITERALLY nothing. No matter how much I try, no matter my best scores; she's just there to criticize me. More than anyone.
    That's the one person I need to support me but all I see is a person hating me for living.
    I should have never been here afterall, I guess.

  • @gigisworld6102
    @gigisworld6102 2 роки тому +4

    Tbh I need someone to talk to because nobody can understand what I’m going through. It’s so much literally everything is wrong. I feel like nobody loves me. 😔

  • @jazmin5709
    @jazmin5709  3 роки тому +86

    I am seeing that many of you are having a bad time, so if you need to talk to someone you can write to me (I leave my insta @jazgorriprestes)
    I hope you guys get over this, you deserve the best❤️

    • @brandimcvey1935
      @brandimcvey1935 Рік тому

      Can I please have your exact email I really need someone to talk with

  • @idiotsandwich4102
    @idiotsandwich4102 2 роки тому +2

    I might not be your mother nor am I one- I want you all to know that no matter who you are… I will always be proud of you!

  • @hannah562
    @hannah562 2 роки тому +1

    i hate how real this is, and not just for me but for others too. i personally don’t want kids but if i ever have them i would not treat them like our parents treat us

  • @mcqvrie
    @mcqvrie 2 роки тому +3

    did you know children who grew up in broken homes grow up to be terrible. like treating others how you got treated and some come out being better and doing better? sadly i feel like the opposite of being better, i grew up in a very broken home and i'm scared of who i'm gonna turn into

  • @Toocoolforschool573
    @Toocoolforschool573 3 роки тому +9

    Oh also little fires everywhere

  • @anushreepandey126
    @anushreepandey126 2 роки тому +2

    1:40 is the dialogue I hear every single min when I am at my home

  • @kyrstenyoung6779
    @kyrstenyoung6779 3 роки тому +2

    Every child deserves a parent. Not every parent deserves a child.

  • @clacastaneda859
    @clacastaneda859 3 роки тому +12

    Love it...life is great😁👍🏻😫

  • @Arghpiez
    @Arghpiez Рік тому +4

    I just wishing I could live in a happy family .

  • @crystalbonilla9992
    @crystalbonilla9992 2 роки тому +1

    I love seeing my family heart break in so many pieces.