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  • @letsnottalkaboutit1727
    @letsnottalkaboutit1727 5 років тому +8633

    “Cause there ain’t a damn thing he could teach me about how to love my kids”

  • @shaquishalopez2265
    @shaquishalopez2265 4 роки тому +11343

    It hurts even more when you have a father figure but he doesn’t act like a father

    • @katsqoa949
      @katsqoa949 4 роки тому +41

      Shaquisha Lopez ikr...😔💔

    • @anasilva1242
      @anasilva1242 4 роки тому +407

      It really does...and it's even worse when you try to talk to him and he laughs at you because "you're just a teenager and you don't know what you're saying"

    • @liaaa-xz8tv
      @liaaa-xz8tv 4 роки тому +40

      same right here

    • @HoeBitch-qn5sl
      @HoeBitch-qn5sl 4 роки тому +82

      Ana Maria Silva lol my father is going to die any minute because of the corona virus and not even once has he been my dad 🤗
      I’m scared Because love him 😭😭😭
      I want a chance to build a relationship with him and tell him I love him

    • @anasilva1242
      @anasilva1242 4 роки тому +31

      @@HoeBitch-qn5sl I'm so sorry...I'm sure everything is gonna be okay, you'll see. And I hope you can build a beautiful relationship with your dad! It's just a hard time :)

  • @bLaKeFN55
    @bLaKeFN55 2 роки тому +5232

    those teenagers who sit in their rooms at night and cry themselves to sleep were once children with light in their eyes and hope in there heart

  • @Wolfsta
    @Wolfsta 9 місяців тому +4816

    I come from a good family and my parents are still together. I am writing this comment for everyone who never had that. You have a chance to create that family for your children. You DO get a second chance to have a family. I know you got this.

  • @findingreefs
    @findingreefs 4 роки тому +5566

    Daddy issues are hard, but mommy issues hurt too.

    • @deletingmyself5526
      @deletingmyself5526 3 роки тому +288

      Imagine not believing in love cuz the first person who was supposed to give u love is abusive.. Nd then people tell me why u don't belive in love.. Love is shit

    • @samriddhisaxena9556
      @samriddhisaxena9556 3 роки тому +102

      Ask me.... Cause I have both....

    • @deletingmyself5526
      @deletingmyself5526 3 роки тому +21

      @@samriddhisaxena9556 💜💜

    • @pysxdxlic7502
      @pysxdxlic7502 3 роки тому +69

      Oh whole family issues are hard to

    • @vicky-lr1ty
      @vicky-lr1ty 3 роки тому +42

      I have both which sucks but tbh I learn it the hard way

  • @sjy4554
    @sjy4554 3 роки тому +6083

    when u are a girl you're gonna rlly have trust issue, when ur father is the first one who breaks ur heart and betray u

    • @vorttevorvor4775
      @vorttevorvor4775 3 роки тому +14

      😢❤

    • @YN-fy4cd
      @YN-fy4cd 3 роки тому +47

      *Can relate*

    • @darianasosa8336
      @darianasosa8336 3 роки тому +26

      I get you I understand you

    • @a1oexo
      @a1oexo 3 роки тому +68

      I just wanted him to love me
      Why did he leave
      Why didn't he let me love him
      Why couldn't he stay

    • @selenah25
      @selenah25 3 роки тому +26

      He left me when I was 6 he never looks for me

  • @daya.999
    @daya.999 2 роки тому +1008

    "Trust me..family problems will kill your all happiness..."
    Once i read it...now i felt it...i know how painful it is..🙂

  • @ginaadelaide8419
    @ginaadelaide8419 2 роки тому +324

    Promised myself I'd NEVER let my kids feel the same way my dad made me feel

  • @itslynn4597
    @itslynn4597 5 років тому +4690

    That first scene from fresh prince always gets me crying

    • @lil_dak_1587
      @lil_dak_1587 4 роки тому +14

      The second scene gets me because of how real it became. He did marry a "beautiful honey" and while I don't think two kids counts as a "whole bunch of kids," I think, in a way, we are all Will Smith's children. So in a way, he did have a"whole bunch of kids.". And he raised them better than his father raisied him.
      😢😢😭😭

    • @chaengsoo
      @chaengsoo 4 роки тому

      Same girl same 😢

    • @Moonstone_er
      @Moonstone_er 4 роки тому

      I don't know my father

    • @nextttcallerrr91
      @nextttcallerrr91 4 роки тому

      ItsLynn 45 sameeeeeeee

  • @aylineraslan3836
    @aylineraslan3836 2 роки тому +333

    Stop telling people "at least you have this or that" or "you should be grateful".
    It is not about how serious what one goes through is, it is about how one feels while going through sh*t.

    • @artscraftsgaming7169
      @artscraftsgaming7169 2 роки тому +11

      Like I love to say, “pain is pain no matter how small.” It shouldn’t be ignored because someone has it worse. It still hurts, so it still needs to be addressed and healed.

    • @deliacozo8542
      @deliacozo8542 6 місяців тому

      I agree. I see a lot of people say in this comment section they have parents who dont love then or show them. My parents always do, like a couple hours my dad told me I was cute or beautiful ( forgot wich) and tells me every day

    • @deliacozo8542
      @deliacozo8542 6 місяців тому

      ​@@artscraftsgaming7169Yes

  • @bhavana3751
    @bhavana3751 Рік тому +69

    Telling your problems to your parents is like adding another problem in your life

  • @thatssadtho9084
    @thatssadtho9084 4 роки тому +4245

    I'm scared to die. But I'm also scared to live.

    • @Vxillophe
      @Vxillophe 4 роки тому +43

      It’s a never ending fight with myself.

    • @zeno8309
      @zeno8309 4 роки тому +19

      I don't think I've ever related to something more omg

    • @siddx388
      @siddx388 4 роки тому +24

      That is why sometimes I feel like I should’ve not been even born or exist

    • @midnightkiller5242
      @midnightkiller5242 4 роки тому +1

      I almost caused my death but u lived and still don't want to

    • @Joseph-gb1vr
      @Joseph-gb1vr 4 роки тому +6

      I don’t want to live but I’m to scared to die... 💔

  • @christachilds5578
    @christachilds5578 4 роки тому +3747

    “How come he don’t want me man”
    That hit me hard

  • @vidhayaksigma251
    @vidhayaksigma251 2 роки тому +222

    Being in the same situation,I literally cried,
    "Why don't they understand? "

  • @ricerispies110
    @ricerispies110 2 роки тому +78

    I find it amazing that some people actually had a loving dad. I find it astonishing that people don’t have trauma. I can’t imagine what that’s like but it must be amazing

    • @deliacozo8542
      @deliacozo8542 6 місяців тому

      I find awful to see people writte this comments. I have a dad who loves me and cant imagine a father or a mother dont. Is awful, I am crying( hope my sister and cousin dont come, I am a mess)

  • @jcsdaa4230
    @jcsdaa4230 5 років тому +5518

    *It hurts to realize that human who gave you life makes you want to end it*

    • @marvelisfun1340
      @marvelisfun1340 5 років тому +175

      And you can’t tell them when they ask what’s wrong because they’re what’s wrong

    • @maja9066
      @maja9066 5 років тому +57

      My mom

    • @boognificent
      @boognificent 5 років тому +23

      Dude, you just made me cry so hard!😭😭😭

    • @alissaa.142
      @alissaa.142 5 років тому +25

      My parents.... I DONT WANT TO BE HERE

    • @mayc.4176
      @mayc.4176 5 років тому +5

      @@marvelisfun1340 exactly.

  • @bingbong2643
    @bingbong2643 4 роки тому +15727

    Imagine having a dad that actually genuinely loves you.

    • @shannonhawk8890
      @shannonhawk8890 4 роки тому +492

      I can't imagine

    • @imagine4416
      @imagine4416 4 роки тому +106

      No

    • @meadowlea1185
      @meadowlea1185 4 роки тому +179

      Bing Bong lol what’s that

    • @aberleepropst7719
      @aberleepropst7719 4 роки тому +171

      Bing Bong I had one...he’s umm gone now and so is my mom I miss my dad my mom was never there for me

    • @bristolwest4608
      @bristolwest4608 4 роки тому +122

      That would be amazing to even have a dad

  • @agnella1640
    @agnella1640 Рік тому +65

    The thing with abusive parents is that they're so good at manipulating us and making us believe that we're wrong and all they're doing is out of love and when we have just one good day with them they make us feel like we were just overdramatizing things in our little minds and when we're finally depressed they still manage to make us blame ourselves💔💔

    • @agnella1640
      @agnella1640 Рік тому +5

      Like I refuse to allow my kids to ever go through what I'm going through and what I went through and that's a promise I'm willing to keep
      They won't ever have to cry themselves to sleep or awake
      They'll never have to slit their wrists to numb their emotional pain
      They'll never have to wear winter wear in summer to conceal their bruises
      They won't have to do so many things I've done as a kid growing up

    • @missmisery1694
      @missmisery1694 Рік тому +2

      I swear it sucks more than anything

    • @missmisery1694
      @missmisery1694 Рік тому

      @@agnella1640 u okay?

  • @lynlyn6766
    @lynlyn6766 2 роки тому +94

    To those that grew up with only one or neither of your parents, remember that you did nothing wrong. Never blame yourself or believe that you’re the reason they left. Stay strong 💪

    • @deliacozo8542
      @deliacozo8542 6 місяців тому

      What If they did grow up with a parent for a while? My cousin 's dad due to a heart attack when she was 13 and now she is 15. My dad's dad left them when he was young and died of cancer

  • @londonsmith-strawmier7661
    @londonsmith-strawmier7661 5 років тому +7250

    The voice crack when will says "How come he don't he want me man" is heartbreaking. The saddest thing is when you here the voice crack when someone is one the verge of crying

    • @humbertourbina6119
      @humbertourbina6119 5 років тому +15

      London Smith-Strawmier Wow you saw that picture to

    • @londonsmith-strawmier7661
      @londonsmith-strawmier7661 5 років тому +8

      @@humbertourbina6119 yep i did

    • @lix8764
      @lix8764 5 років тому +15

      He said “how come he don’t want me”

    • @blahhzay5042
      @blahhzay5042 4 роки тому +49

      did you know that part was unscripted? Will Smith just did that himself. makes me think about how it mustve hit close to home :(

    • @londonsmith-strawmier7661
      @londonsmith-strawmier7661 4 роки тому +12

      @@blahhzay5042 I know i happy to know that a celeb can still be happy with a bad past

  • @yoisheeshee8376
    @yoisheeshee8376 3 роки тому +2744

    "We are just suicidal kids telling other suicidal kids it's going to be okay"
    -unknown

  • @Foreveryoung5578
    @Foreveryoung5578 Рік тому +25

    I promise . If I ever become a mom in the future I'll never let my babies go through all those sufferings that I went through . I'll protect them .

  • @chaytongommers478
    @chaytongommers478 11 місяців тому +9

    I wonder how it feels like to have a mother who actually cares about you.

    • @deliacozo8542
      @deliacozo8542 6 місяців тому +1

      I am sorry to hear that. My mom always showed love more than my dad( he still does, like giving complements) is amazing. I saw this videos couple years ago and now rewatch because I wanted to cry and looking at the comment section it made me cry. Is amazing

    • @nandhu2162
      @nandhu2162 Місяць тому +1

      I wish I had a loving mother who actually care about me 😌

  • @anc301
    @anc301 3 роки тому +5763

    At least the next generation will have parents that actually understands them.

    • @foreverminee
      @foreverminee 3 роки тому +214

      That’s what I love knowing that I would understand my future kids I’m never treating them the way my parents treat me

    • @Spooky_man
      @Spooky_man 3 роки тому +79

      This is to all that reading this...
      Most parents try to be better then their parents...
      all parents fail in one way or another... either through forgetting to teach their kids a valuable lesson that was too obvious for them OR by never being thought that lesson in the first place...
      Then it up for the next generation to heal themselves from their trauma in order to make sure their kids do not inherit it... then teach them the lessons they learned from their life...
      this dynamic has existed for millions of years, but now when humans has gone from a state of surviving to a state of living it is more important then ever!
      Stay strong everyone! Peace!

    • @lia507
      @lia507 3 роки тому +44

      My future kids won’t have to go through hell and back or suffer at all. I will give them my fucking all I’ll never ever make them feel like I’m someone horrible or that their home doesn’t feel like a *home*

    • @marcuswimberly9325
      @marcuswimberly9325 2 роки тому +2

      😞yep

    • @jitendrakumarsingh135
      @jitendrakumarsingh135 2 роки тому +5

      Next generation children will probably live with single mothers or in blended family.

  • @Kuronuma_11
    @Kuronuma_11 3 роки тому +7664

    We're all depressed kids telling each other to stay strong an not commit suicide :)

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 роки тому +53

      ily

    • @arrow-verse-choni739
      @arrow-verse-choni739 3 роки тому +108

      Not depressed just kinda sad, I'm happier the longer my dads gone I guess, or maybe that's just what I tell myself 💜 if you are depressed I hope you get better 💜 *Virtual hug*

    • @sukriti8351
      @sukriti8351 3 роки тому +18

      💜

    • @_addy_2832
      @_addy_2832 3 роки тому +66

      Yep, no matter how much I want to die, I stay alive so I can tell other people to keep going. Remember, I love you and Jesus loves you!

    • @arrow-verse-choni739
      @arrow-verse-choni739 3 роки тому +9

      @@_addy_2832 💜

  • @Jellyfish7273
    @Jellyfish7273 Рік тому +9

    If I ever have kids, I will never let them feel how my parents made me feel

  • @ilandghost5012
    @ilandghost5012 2 роки тому +3

    *WE ARE ALL GOOD AT ADVICES WHICH WE NEVER TAKE THIS TO OUR SELVES*

  • @samhitapothuri511
    @samhitapothuri511 4 роки тому +5524

    “ You found a job?”
    “ I did,”
    “ You’re job was to stay,”
    I’m not crying something is in my eye.

    • @lemons6561
      @lemons6561 4 роки тому +9

      your*

    • @goaway4625
      @goaway4625 4 роки тому +66

      @@lemons6561 You proud, smartass? Just ruined the moment.

    • @fam4ever182
      @fam4ever182 4 роки тому +5

      Idk if u rilly mean that but just know that 99.9 precent of the ppl including u are depressed so he/she might be going through a rough day or year so maybe u should shut ur mouth... Because we all human being

    • @minhthupotthoff7383
      @minhthupotthoff7383 4 роки тому +8

      I don’t even know who my father is , he knows that I am his daughter but he doesn’t care

    • @fam4ever182
      @fam4ever182 4 роки тому +1

      Omg im so srry

  • @katemullins9561
    @katemullins9561 3 роки тому +6365

    the thing about abusive parents is that you have one good day with them, and you start to feel like all the abuse was just overdramatized in your brain and you still love them.

    • @AnureetD
      @AnureetD 3 роки тому +320

      right, I always tell myself when I'm 18 I'm cutting them off, but then everything is okay and my dad doesn't do anything for a day, I'm like nvm, maybe I'm just overreacting

    • @aaryapathak9259
      @aaryapathak9259 3 роки тому +49

      I can feel it. 💔

    • @nnn.nnn2
      @nnn.nnn2 2 роки тому +45

      I can totally relate :)

    • @ksbsksoshdhd
      @ksbsksoshdhd 2 роки тому +34

      I've never related to something morem

    • @btslovetaekookies4886
      @btslovetaekookies4886 2 роки тому +28

      Omg I wanna cry now , its so true

  • @sophiebennett7339
    @sophiebennett7339 11 місяців тому +2

    3:23 it hurts more when you’ve cried like this and you know exactly why but no matter how hard you cry you know they won’t come back.

  • @thedenominator2640
    @thedenominator2640 2 роки тому +11

    I really dont want any "I'm proud of yous" or "I love yous" any more, all I want from them is a "I'm sorry" because they both refuse to acknowledge what they did and for me that's the worst part of it all

  • @katherineu1175
    @katherineu1175 5 років тому +12929

    Is crazy how some people actually get to have a nice family...

    • @marielaolivia9993
      @marielaolivia9993 5 років тому +158

      nobody does

    • @savannahgonzalez1908
      @savannahgonzalez1908 5 років тому +310

      No ones family is perfect

    • @treehousesociety6129
      @treehousesociety6129 5 років тому +628

      They said nice, not perfect. Having family issues and is different than the occasional argument

    • @jennarose8097
      @jennarose8097 5 років тому +157

      Bitch don’t your right some people have it so easy while others don't and they don't know what the others are going through

    • @destinyg3729
      @destinyg3729 5 років тому +5

      Ik huh

  • @zendraz2921
    @zendraz2921 5 років тому +6369

    “How come he don’t want me, man?”
    tHaT LiNe HiTs My HeArT
    I’m CrYiNg

    • @fluffypony4684
      @fluffypony4684 5 років тому +221

      That scene wasn't actually scripted, his father actually left him at an early age. That's what, to me makes that scene even sadder, is the fact that actually came from the heart.

    • @hafsaomar8204
      @hafsaomar8204 5 років тому +6

      Hi what movie or series is that

    • @nia101lol
      @nia101lol 5 років тому +3

      @@hafsaomar8204 fresh prince of bel air it's a series

    • @NatsuDragneel-ew3jp
      @NatsuDragneel-ew3jp 5 років тому +6

      Hafsa Omar the fresh prince of bel air, it was a series which aired back in the 90’s or the 2000’s

    • @ashrice4642
      @ashrice4642 5 років тому +15

      Kinda how I feel. I know my dad and I live with him I have my whole life but dude never takes care of me, never got a present from him. First time he told me he loved me is when I was 12

  • @narainosman2717
    @narainosman2717 8 місяців тому +1

    Imagine having someone, one person who cares about you. That would feel amazing. I don’t think I’ll ever feel that feeling.

  • @charlesedwards4261
    @charlesedwards4261 Рік тому +5

    I will never understand how you can be in a room full of people who love you but can still be alone as if no one is there.

  • @hi2763
    @hi2763 4 роки тому +2581

    The one thing I refuse to do in my life is raise my kids like my parents. I refuse to raise them to resent me for the rest of their lives. I will raise them right. No matter what.

  • @bambidollie
    @bambidollie 4 роки тому +3947

    "I had 14 great birthdays without him..." 💔

    • @snucsnuc
      @snucsnuc 4 роки тому +59

      Right on fucking point I'm 14 and I haven't even met my dad (15 birthdays and counting)

    • @lulcs3231
      @lulcs3231 4 роки тому +10

      @@snucsnuc be strong 🌸

    • @jadestar5772
      @jadestar5772 4 роки тому +4

      I have had 13 birthdays without .....h.
      .him I miss him I MISS U DAD😓

    • @SelenaLaVonne
      @SelenaLaVonne 4 роки тому +7

      I had 15 great birthday w/o him n still dont need him💔

    • @softdydream_6719
      @softdydream_6719 4 роки тому +5

      @@SelenaLaVonne if you don't need him now then you dont need him ever! He lost his chance at having a beautiful child like you

  • @uNL4m3nt3d
    @uNL4m3nt3d 2 роки тому +4

    Imagine being happy and healthy with a nice family. Can’t relate 🙄🙄

  • @spellew178
    @spellew178 Рік тому +3

    if I ever have kids, I'm going to make sure that they know that they're LOVED, I won't stand to be like my father ever

  • @steph3172
    @steph3172 3 роки тому +4672

    i hate how people think it isn’t painful to have a father who’s physically there but never emotionally. it’s basically the same thing.

    • @rockbison1420
      @rockbison1420 3 роки тому +39

      So true:(

    • @parisadr5142
      @parisadr5142 2 роки тому +204

      Its worst..peaple say atleast you HAVE a father :*)

    • @v_2053
      @v_2053 2 роки тому +91

      @@parisadr5142 And my comeback is "I rather not have one tbh.."

    • @iconicali8928
      @iconicali8928 2 роки тому +10

      @@v_2053 be grateful ur father didn’t abandon u at least

    • @user-zx2et9lf8y
      @user-zx2et9lf8y 2 роки тому +101

      @@iconicali8928 don't assume please.
      I'd rather want my father to not exist because of his bad behaviours towards our family. It's like we're his slave and well you get it and we would be free if he died

  • @zee166
    @zee166 3 роки тому +15176

    please promise we will be better than our parents :) 💜

  • @faithsuluapefaalili9707
    @faithsuluapefaalili9707 Рік тому +6

    Most of us get bullied in our own families and mostly by parents, we always make these promises to ourselves even at a young age. If I achieve this in my life it would the best thing I'd do.

  • @phoebe2811
    @phoebe2811 Рік тому +5

    watching these makes me so grateful for my family, my heart goes out to everybody that can't say they relate.

  • @mochafrappe4120
    @mochafrappe4120 4 роки тому +2601

    The part when the women was drowning, really hit me.
    Don’t you ever just want to cry when you see a happy family?

    • @zoehill6586
      @zoehill6586 4 роки тому +9

      Mocha Frappe yea

    • @ervxyz.bandana
      @ervxyz.bandana 4 роки тому +3

      yes

    • @eatmyasthma999
      @eatmyasthma999 4 роки тому +3

      What's the weather fucked up like why why would you want to cry in a happy family, Let them be happy arsehole

    • @trxshyvxbes1013
      @trxshyvxbes1013 4 роки тому +4

      Yes

    • @sadestokes3774
      @sadestokes3774 4 роки тому +6

      She wasn’t drowning, it’s from scream the TV series her boyfriend had died and she went into the pool and screamed.

  • @Velinaaa.
    @Velinaaa. 3 роки тому +3897

    Does anyone else feel guilty talking about your own feelings
    And immediately stop cause you think you being annoying and selfish cause i do 💔🤙🏼

    • @itssupposedtobefelicity4658
      @itssupposedtobefelicity4658 3 роки тому +91

      Yeah everytime, whenever I try to open up and express my feelings, thoughts, grieves, pain and traumas to someone. It ALWAYS ended up ME listening to them, ME who's patting their backs, ME who's trying to understand them when It's me who needs someone at the moment.
      It's not that I complained. It's just that I also want to be heard, I also want a hug, an advise, an ear that I could borrow even just once.

    • @autumnc518
      @autumnc518 3 роки тому +21

      @@itssupposedtobefelicity4658 Couldn’t relate more. I’ll listen if you need me.

    • @sylvia2099
      @sylvia2099 3 роки тому +14

      I’d rather have others feel important then I. It’s feels better. Plus no one wants to listen anyway. They always just say “oh, I can relate.” So I’d rather just right down stuff in a journal or talk to myself

    • @mrbeastfan1014
      @mrbeastfan1014 3 роки тому +8

      I do everytime i try to talk to one of my friends or family member all of my pain and my regret and saddness comes pouring out but right when jt does i start overthinking and feel like they probally have bigger problems or something else then i just bottle it back up in tears...

    • @autumnc518
      @autumnc518 3 роки тому +5

      @@mrbeastfan1014 EXACTLY what I do.

  • @fariyahoqueorin1046
    @fariyahoqueorin1046 Рік тому +2

    Honestly yeah it hurts when you have parents but who can't understand you! Basically there with us physically but not mentally. And yeah again it hurts bruh:)

  • @amberbrimble
    @amberbrimble 10 місяців тому +2

    imagine have a mum that really genuinely loves you like how you loved her after everything that happened…

  • @kzvrev
    @kzvrev 3 роки тому +1543

    what hurts is having parents but it feels like they’re never there :)

    • @evaleyveith957
      @evaleyveith957 3 роки тому +7

      what hurts is when people are ungrateful. you might have parents but what if others dont?

    • @rehabward3582
      @rehabward3582 3 роки тому +36

      @@evaleyveith957 thats how the world is. People die. And that natural. There is nothing they or u can do bout it. But when they r there but it doesn't feel like they r thats much worse. Trust me. Cuz that's their choice. The dont wanna be there for u or they left u its a CHOICE. Which hurts more. Them being there physically but actually not.

    • @bvflxx
      @bvflxx 3 роки тому +28

      @@evaleyveith957 Emotional neglect is not something to be taken lightly. No, this person isn't trying to invalidate people who don't have parents. They're sharing that sometimes it's tough even when you do have parents. That's why people like us come together to push through it. Some parents are present, but aren't there for their kids emotionally or even physically. I hope you understand.

    • @bvflxx
      @bvflxx 3 роки тому +3

      @Raeesa Jasat I'm sorry about that. I hope you're doing well. I really recommend finding someone you really trust to talk about your loss. It's hard to mourn on your own. Good luck 😊

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 роки тому +1

      ily :(

  • @logic3442
    @logic3442 5 років тому +4660

    Will Smith one had everyone in tears yo
    That was deep

  • @Atchoom.
    @Atchoom. 2 роки тому +21

    i don't wanna talk about what my father did, all I wanna do is forget about him totally because remembering the past hurts me even more

  • @Soukoku_suki
    @Soukoku_suki 2 роки тому +4

    Everyone deserves a pair of understanding and loving parents.

  • @Niggasbehatin22
    @Niggasbehatin22 3 роки тому +2882

    POV: Most of us relate ✨

  • @kaiahs1829
    @kaiahs1829 5 років тому +3379

    Will was actually going off script and talking about his real dad in that scene. :(

    • @mati2618
      @mati2618 5 років тому +128

      Kaiah S lol no, he had a nice family and his father always support him, that was just a rumor.

    • @myryamghobrial2416
      @myryamghobrial2416 5 років тому +266

      mati no his dad was like that research it bud its not a rumor he was even interviewed about that scene it hit him hard

    • @shookbitch123
      @shookbitch123 5 років тому +68

      mati shut up and do your research

    • @jazmineest4life792
      @jazmineest4life792 5 років тому +68

      SHOOK BITCH why are u being rude he was just saying that it was just a rumor he wasn’t being rude about it so maybe u should shut up u may can be rude but I can be twice as rude

    • @seasonof_melodies586
      @seasonof_melodies586 5 років тому +39

      I'm gonna cry even more everytime I see that scene now

  • @BTSArmy-sk8dx
    @BTSArmy-sk8dx 2 роки тому +2

    All the broken fam ..thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings..I feel less lonely

  • @sourirereveuse3809
    @sourirereveuse3809 2 роки тому +5

    I'm 19 years old and I have a broken family. My mom and dad already have problems even before I was born I guess, I never experienced a whole family. They still have a feud until now. I wasn't blaming them for my shortcomings (although before I did). I kinda pity them actually because I know they were young and immature when they became together and the fact that they thought they could build a family is outrageous. They never thought about the consequences of their actions and they never thought that it was going to affect me in some way. Now, they blame me for my shortcomings, they actually never thought that maybe some of those came from a broken family problem. Now, like any other children from a broken family, I'm lost and I don't know if my parents are gonna be there for me.
    For ppl reading this, I hope you'll overcome your problems. God bless you. You deserve love everyone does, we are just a little unfortunate.
    Lots of love 💕

    • @wilpse
      @wilpse Рік тому

      I'm 17 and have horrible parents too. I wish you a great life, you deserve it

  • @SS-zo4yg
    @SS-zo4yg 3 роки тому +3989

    I just need someone to hug me and tell me: "It's not your fault. You did great job. I'm proud of you."

    • @SalmaKhan-gw1sh
      @SalmaKhan-gw1sh 3 роки тому +62

      I just want someone who I cna cry on they're shoulder and they will understand and fight with me then telling "it will get better when ur older" then leave out of my life

    • @classicteen2313
      @classicteen2313 3 роки тому +35

      Hey there :))) I just wanted to say that you're doing a great job and I'm proud of you,, I know I can't actually give you a tight hug but here's a virtual one ⊂(・▽・⊂) hope you have a great day/night :)))))

    • @naazaliaroberts4324
      @naazaliaroberts4324 3 роки тому +7

      It's okay

    • @taylorhand1842
      @taylorhand1842 3 роки тому +3

      God does

    • @carina7898
      @carina7898 3 роки тому +6

      this made me cry so bad

  • @rin-je1ti
    @rin-je1ti 5 років тому +4671

    The fresh prince of bel air gets me every time

  • @psychogang8867
    @psychogang8867 2 роки тому +5

    Sometimes having a family is like a curse for a child :)

  • @unknownperson6625
    @unknownperson6625 2 роки тому +6

    “im very proud of you"
    “well done"
    “i love you more than anything"
    I'm still waiting for you to say that dad

  • @sarahrose5610
    @sarahrose5610 4 роки тому +4995

    Numer Four saddest Quotes in this Video
    1. how come he don't want me, man
    2 you were my mother too!
    3. your job was to stay
    4 it's Not Your Fault
    Edit: Thanks for the likes!

  • @emmalovelife8915
    @emmalovelife8915 5 років тому +3196

    will smiths one broke me because my dad also wasn't there for me as a child so I could relate.

    • @stephanienash9346
      @stephanienash9346 5 років тому +18

      My dad was not in my life ether

    • @aijeonie
      @aijeonie 4 роки тому +8

      yeah.. I relate too..

    • @shakilaazimi7900
      @shakilaazimi7900 4 роки тому +17

      The reason why Will was so emotional was because that happened to him in real life aswell

    • @MotiveDBD
      @MotiveDBD 4 роки тому +6

      Same but it was my mom

    • @kirrasnyder6152
      @kirrasnyder6152 4 роки тому +10

      My mom took me away from my dad when I was little,I didnt see him for many many years,but now he has kids and a wife and hes happy.

  • @lindseyr1796
    @lindseyr1796 Рік тому +1

    The one thing I am so grateful for and could never live without is my dad. Even tho he's going through a tough time with my mom and sister, he is always there to listen to my problems, and help me when I need it, he understands things better than anyone in my life ever has. He's the best dad in the world and I'm so grateful for him. Idk how I'm ever gonna live without him

  • @Sarahhere05
    @Sarahhere05 2 роки тому +3

    I really want to live my family .. to go and live alone in peace .. no screaming .. no arguing , no tears .. but i can't cause there's no where to go to ...

  • @abbykrebs1382
    @abbykrebs1382 3 роки тому +1475

    Imagine having a dad that wasn't an complete jerk imagine not faking a smile for the sake of your family and friends

    • @cands8351
      @cands8351 3 роки тому +2

      I can relate

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 роки тому +2

      i’m sorry :((

    • @Katherine-db7mq
      @Katherine-db7mq 3 роки тому +3

      I used to but not anymore😢i lost him to cancer last year
      He's the most precious thing to me and he did a lot for our family even tho he's sick and tired😭
      I miss him a lot😔

    • @Katherine-db7mq
      @Katherine-db7mq 3 роки тому

      I used to but not anymore😢i lost him to cancer last year
      He's the most precious thing to me and he did a lot for our family even tho he's sick and tired😭
      I miss him a lot😔

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 роки тому +1

      @@Katherine-db7mq i’m so sorry

  • @jajatieverready
    @jajatieverready 3 роки тому +2217

    Has anyone else ever felt the feeling of having your parents alive in the same house, yet u don't feel the feeling of having parents?

    • @rose-mz3kg
      @rose-mz3kg 3 роки тому +21

      @Jajati Keshari Sahu
      yeah, kinda like they were there, but they weren’t doing their jobs i guess.

    • @apalnamedalex1149
      @apalnamedalex1149 3 роки тому +21

      yep.. just two people who can´t wait for the day Imma finally leave

    • @lanakhan4206
      @lanakhan4206 3 роки тому +7

      rn tbh :) when i need my parents the most

    • @zannatrida3351
      @zannatrida3351 2 роки тому +3

      I do....

    • @sharronkaur6890
      @sharronkaur6890 2 роки тому +3

      Yes true plus I'm the middle child so yea I know how that feels

  • @JenniferAndrusak
    @JenniferAndrusak 6 місяців тому +2

    I had problems with my dad growing up, and then he wasn't a part of my life, and slowly got a little bit of a relationship with him within the past few years, but he's my dad and I grieve for what we could of had. I just want him back. I want to talk and get to know him. I never thought my dad would die when I was only turning 25. He had issues in his family and I just wish everything had been different and I miss what could have been, and I miss him even though he couldn't be what I wanted him to be, he still loved me. Especially seeing he had all the cards I made him and had our picture up in the apartment. He loved us. :(

    • @emaanahsansarfraz1940
      @emaanahsansarfraz1940 Місяць тому

      Hello, how are you? I hope you are safe and well. I am very sorry for anything that seems bad that may have happened in your life. I am truly sorry for your loss. Everything will get better. Know that you are amazing and have rights as a human. I want you to know that you are incredible and are capable of wonders. What matters is your inside, not your exterior. Love yourself and cherish yourself. Words cannot explain how astonishing you are. You deserve care, love, and happiness, don't let anything make you feel otherwise. You may or you may not think that you are a failure but you are not, we are humans and we are bound to make mistakes so failures will come but that will give you the prize of what you have learned. Even if it may be a very small prize, it is very significant and important because you are amazing and deserving to learn and grow just as everyone else is. Please have appropriate action for anything that you know is wrong. Try and find professional or trusted help. Anything that seems bad or wrong in your life right now will get better. Please don't do what is wrong, fighting back and harming others will not solve the problem. Please understand that and do the good thing. It will one day come back to you. The people in the world are so much more than what we know about them, not everyone opens up about the beautiful things and acts they have witnessed, not all those amazing doings are acknowledged. There is more to people than it seems. Please understand that and know that. If you feel like no one cares about you, know that I care about you. Keep your head up high and never give up. Together, we can be a better community. Stay safe, healthy, happy, kind, understanding, positive and strong. Have a great day.

  • @creamytoast2
    @creamytoast2 2 роки тому +5

    Its really hard to live with people who hate us...especially when we treat em good but they gave us shit...living with toxic siblings is so hard AF..but you know what?..we don't have to care about em...they're jealous.. They like to give our life miserable...but just f*ck them off..they r the one who choose to live like this..maybe we have to face what they talk shit behind us..but don't worry,one day...everything gonna changes.. This is for those who have toxic siblings

    • @emaanahsansarfraz1940
      @emaanahsansarfraz1940 Місяць тому

      Hello, how are you? I hope you are safe and well. I am very sorry for anything that seems bad that may have happened in your life. I am truly sorry for your losses. Everything will get better. Know that you are amazing and have rights as a human. I want you to know that you are incredible and are capable of wonders. What matters is your inside, not your exterior. Love yourself and cherish yourself. Words cannot explain how astonishing you are. You deserve care, love, and happiness, don't let anything make you feel otherwise. You may or you may not think that you are a failure but you are not, we are humans and we are bound to make mistakes so failures will come but that will give you the prize of what you have learned. Even if it may be a very small prize, it is very significant and important because you are amazing and deserving to learn and grow just as everyone else is. Please have appropriate action for anything that you know is wrong. Try and find professional or trusted help. Anything that seems bad or wrong in your life right now will get better. Please don't do what is wrong, fighting back and harming others will not solve the problem. Please understand that and do the good thing. It will one day come back to you. The people in the world are so much more than what we know about them, not everyone opens up about the beautiful things and acts they have witnessed, not all those amazing doings are acknowledged. There is more to people than it seems. Please understand that and know that. If you feel like no one cares about you, know that I care about you. Keep your head up high and never give up. Together, we can be a better community. Stay safe, healthy, happy, kind, understanding, positive and strong. Have a great day.

  • @iinferuslunitaa3169
    @iinferuslunitaa3169 3 роки тому +2373

    Someone asked me : what is worse, not having a mother, father or both?
    I replied : Having parents that aren't like parents

    • @kimbadantimurmu3382
      @kimbadantimurmu3382 2 роки тому +42

      That feeling when you feel like living with some people known as your parents coz that's what we're supposed to do like supposed to live with PARENTS since the moment we were born but your home doesn't feel like home I I I can understand that 🙂

    • @jaidynpaulson278
      @jaidynpaulson278 2 роки тому +11

      or having to be the parent and missing out on that part of your childhood.

    • @kjosen5962
      @kjosen5962 2 роки тому +3

      @@jaidynpaulson278 yes

    • @muhsanatakter6386
      @muhsanatakter6386 2 роки тому +4

      What if the boy brother gets more attention??

    • @randolphderoypichardo1141
      @randolphderoypichardo1141 2 роки тому +2

      I feel you I know how it feels its a horrible feeling

  • @excuseme7668
    @excuseme7668 4 роки тому +1373

    when i grow up i’m going to make sure they don’t recognise me.
    i’m going to stop following after them the moment i turn 18.
    i’ll make my own choices, create my own personality because at the moment,
    i’m too close to them.

    • @imkidinc.9568
      @imkidinc.9568 4 роки тому +2

      Excuse me

    • @yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252
      @yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252 3 роки тому +22

      That's my plan too.

    • @deletingmyself5526
      @deletingmyself5526 3 роки тому +10

      18?i live in Pakistan nd I don't know how I am supposed to live how will I make money how can I leave my abusive dad nd take my mom away

    • @yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252
      @yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252 3 роки тому +6

      @@deletingmyself5526
      In America we can get jobs at 14 (not good ones but they pay). We can save up until we are 18. That's when we're aloud to move out without our parents permission.

    • @deletingmyself5526
      @deletingmyself5526 3 роки тому +4

      @@yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252 Pakistan is fcked up here when people divorce womens will not have financial support

  • @felixitysworld
    @felixitysworld Рік тому +1

    This video hits hard. Both my parents abandoned me, and I lived through shit like this, and i'm glad they're gone, because you know what. I'm sick or crying, thinking it's my fault, like I didn't try hard enough, like being born was my choice and I did it to spite them. Because, you know what, it's not my f*cking fault they did it and I was born. But, it's still hard to know you are hated and cursed for being born. As much as I hate them, it hurts not having a family.

  • @blaine._.9069
    @blaine._.9069 2 роки тому +1

    Ik I’m really really late but…..when a parent leaves before u even know them,see them,hear their voice…..it’s the most traumatizing thing a kid…or any kid will go through….their will be a part of life they are missing….a part they will never know…..on Mother’s Day or Father’s Day u can’t go up to others and say “ yeah my daddy/mommy is awesome!!” -coming from a person who goes through this

  • @depressedgoth8426
    @depressedgoth8426 5 років тому +3811

    It sucks when this really is my life and my family is like this, I’m sorry to anyone who’s going through the same thing because I sure am

    • @mariannamartinez7489
      @mariannamartinez7489 5 років тому +19

      I understand you so well. I have similar problems. so if you want dm in Instagram. @rosely.savage I will be glad to talk. By the way, write all who have any problems. I am well versed in psychology

    • @alexsiamorales4456
      @alexsiamorales4456 5 років тому +10

      Marianna Martinez you me and depressed goth should start a group chat on instagram

    • @mariannamartinez7489
      @mariannamartinez7489 5 років тому +3

      @@alexsiamorales4456 yea, if u know someone like us than dm in instagram pls

    • @cheynicely6561
      @cheynicely6561 5 років тому +4

      Depressed Goth ya ik how you feel I spent my life without knowing my father abd then I finally met him 2 years ago when I was 17 just to be told by my half sister he would claim me without a dna test

    • @isawatches
      @isawatches 5 років тому +2

      Depressed Goth same

  • @malu8710
    @malu8710 5 років тому +1938

    I wish I knew what love was. Between family, friends,lovers. I just dont know what it is.

    • @KimTaehyung-ln9ee
      @KimTaehyung-ln9ee 5 років тому +14

      이설 비
      Same here! I bet there are so many people who love you so much, it's just sometimes people don't know how to show it!! but believe me, We really do love you!! Okk?💜💙 Now smile, and have a good day/night! I Purple you!💜💜💜

    • @kerrybecker4486
      @kerrybecker4486 5 років тому +1

      이설 비 ok mood

    • @c7bts370
      @c7bts370 5 років тому +3

      Well I had love of parents but friends it's sad that you are always fucken there for them ik it might do like idk bad but they might be having problems and stuff but it's just fuck up not even asking or calling or texting me and asking how I am and shit it is fuck up and the fact that they tell you they love you like wtf is that what you gonna call love 😓. *sorry I need to get that off my chest*

    • @violetwoodcock8421
      @violetwoodcock8421 5 років тому

      Me too

    • @disregard2635
      @disregard2635 4 роки тому +2

      you do you fucking edgelord

  • @hidayawajid6327
    @hidayawajid6327 4 місяці тому

    great parallels drawn between some real and raw realities, ur strength is admirable thank u so much

  • @thegongoozler5108
    @thegongoozler5108 2 роки тому +4

    I never had any problems with my parents or anything, but to y’all that have.. I’m praying for you. Stay strong darlings!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @myyurplelis1898
    @myyurplelis1898 5 років тому +664

    'You were my mom too'
    'how come he don't want me man?'
    'im so sorry'

  • @blacktulip2006
    @blacktulip2006 3 роки тому +667

    "I had 14 great birthdays without him"
    "I had 14 bad birthdays with him"

  • @ii_svunset12355
    @ii_svunset12355 2 роки тому +2

    It hurts the most when you know ur dad is in your life... But he puts work before the family and on ur birthday he works instead

  • @akariazumaya8303
    @akariazumaya8303 2 роки тому +5

    I just want to live my life without the fear of never seeing my family happy again.

  • @catperez4564
    @catperez4564 5 років тому +1119

    I fell like the first clip was more than acting 😭its sad

    • @wadhaalharbi7227
      @wadhaalharbi7227 5 років тому +64

      Cat Perez yes it was off script he was talking about his own father

    • @uphaul1850
      @uphaul1850 4 роки тому

      No he had a great relationship with his dad

    • @uphaul1850
      @uphaul1850 4 роки тому

      He is just really good at acting

    • @yanii6665
      @yanii6665 4 роки тому +7

      Acrophobia no he didn’t. He spoke on it many times. Wth are u talking about. Do some research bro

  • @shoiyoow
    @shoiyoow 3 роки тому +4251

    I spent half of my life studying in my room so I could get good grades and make my parents proud. Since I was born till this day I never once heard my parents said they are proud. All I'm asking for is a hug from them, Is that too much to ask for?

    • @annm2831
      @annm2831 2 роки тому +100

      i am so so proud of you!!!!!!!

    • @midnightsnowfox9449
      @midnightsnowfox9449 2 роки тому +57

      Everyone will be proud of you! Don't worry there are better people to be proud of you instead of them.

    • @ngoclinhh9495
      @ngoclinhh9495 2 роки тому +69

      why is your story sound just like mine

    • @annchege6277
      @annchege6277 2 роки тому +26

      a big hug from me

    • @anii221
      @anii221 2 роки тому +30

      Yes apparently showing love to your kids is too much to ask from a parent, My parents were the same no matter what I did to make them proud I never saw love in their eyes for me or saying they were proud of me... I have children now and everyday of every second i tell my children I love them and hug them because I don't ever want my children to feel unloved the way I felt with my parents.

  • @sigmaya4617
    @sigmaya4617 Рік тому +1

    It's good that they are accepting their mistakes

    • @down4anything969
      @down4anything969 10 місяців тому

      Owning everything if I said I do something I’m do something ur never believe me but you don’t have boundaries when I slap ur ass checks n said pull out okay but I said no I’m creaming inside ur gna have my babies

  • @audrinavallejo2493
    @audrinavallejo2493 2 роки тому +1

    It's always the mother that stay no matter how much she been through.she always support u even when she at her lowest. but a father he leaves and don't look back instead of looking back he find a new family to care for when he has a family. when people use to say I need a father in my life I would I'll say who need a dad that leaves and don't come back. when u have a mother that stayed that never turned her back on u. she is always there when she at her highest and when she at her lowest. when she Broke and has no money she always find a way to feed u. so who need a father when all u need is your mom so if anyone is reading this then go hug your mom and tell her u love her.

  • @liyahliyahh
    @liyahliyahh 5 років тому +1626

    “It’s not your fault” that hit my soul😭😭😭🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @akitaxx
    @akitaxx 3 роки тому +2956

    this comment wasn't intended to express some of your pain... however, please do. vent all you need, this comment is now a safe place. vent all you need

    • @vorttevorvor4775
      @vorttevorvor4775 3 роки тому +42

      Im not family but hey, I care about you...🥺

    • @akitaxx
      @akitaxx 3 роки тому +13

      Vortte Vorvor Oh-
      That’s so nice... Omg, Ty so much. I care about you too!

    • @vorttevorvor4775
      @vorttevorvor4775 3 роки тому +7

      @@akitaxx Aww thank you😊😊😊 Don't worry you're not alone🙃

    • @magsinochen8077
      @magsinochen8077 3 роки тому +18

      lol my mom hated dramas so i had too keep everything sad from her because when i cry she just gets mad HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH i envy all of my friends that are close to their mom

    • @uraomote6244
      @uraomote6244 3 роки тому +6

      My dad loved me, but then he died when I was nine. Here's my third year without him

  • @happybubbles1697
    @happybubbles1697 Рік тому +2

    I keep coming back to this video everytime I feel really bad. And then I cry. I loop this video and I cry. I somehow feel better to cry with these sounds than in silence.

  • @abrianakiarawilliams2675
    @abrianakiarawilliams2675 2 місяці тому +1

    I can imagine without my family not being in my life or my dad. My family tries to be nice and sweet but then all of a sudden they aren’t supportive. It hurts bad it does. If I wanna cry I can. I have feelings and my family doesn’t understand what I’m going through. I go through this stuff every day. I’m 22 years old and the pain that I feel is killing me.

  • @evilkermit3102
    @evilkermit3102 3 роки тому +5038

    I want everyone here to promise me that you'll be a better parent than yours.
    I promise.
    Edit: for the people who don’t want or can’t have kids, just be a better person bc everyone could use a positive influence :)
    Edit 2: y’all even Kuroo promised to be a better person now y’all HAVE to
    Edit 3:If Bakugou says he’ll be a better person parent/person then you can be too

  • @angieympsx
    @angieympsx 3 роки тому +1847

    My dad always tells me “don’t let no man break your heart” whoopsies, maybe next time stay and do your job :’)

    • @UrFavReader
      @UrFavReader 3 роки тому +13

      Ikr

    • @desiraehughes4660
      @desiraehughes4660 3 роки тому +10

      Yeh

    • @_addy_2832
      @_addy_2832 3 роки тому +1

      ❤️

    • @Gabi-lj3wd
      @Gabi-lj3wd 3 роки тому +11

      My father always said to me find a man who loved you and take care of you and your kids. Well you should take your advice too.

    • @_addy_2832
      @_addy_2832 3 роки тому +3

      @@Gabi-lj3wd yup

  • @Stansstan
    @Stansstan 2 роки тому +3

    I can’t believe I’ve never really appreciated my dad who was there for me for 14 whole years and never left me. Took care of me when I was sick, drives me to school everyday, makes me dinner, I’m really sorry to anyone who hasn’t had a real dad before

    • @kinley_michelle
      @kinley_michelle 2 роки тому

      Omg ur so lucky my dad doesn't even care to send a text message saying just "hey" anymore. That's all I ever really got from him. Now I get nothing. Cherish every moment you get with your dad. He had a choice to leave you, and he didn't. :)

  • @THEYLOVE_ABBY
    @THEYLOVE_ABBY Рік тому +1

    Kids deserve parents but sometimes parents don’t deserve kids.

  • @bryn_zi
    @bryn_zi 4 роки тому +590

    I always envious of my friends good relationship with their parents.
    My parents just teached me how to love my future children

  • @christinajackson4152
    @christinajackson4152 5 років тому +2298

    i just found at that my dad isn’t my real dad that my real dad walked out as soon as he found out my mom was pregnant

    • @ilovesanya
      @ilovesanya 5 років тому +44

      Wow and you thought the best place to tell people that was in UA-cams comment section
      Wow hats off to you bud

    • @storytimebook8225
      @storytimebook8225 5 років тому +20

      Me too. But then my new father who I really love left and my real one came back into my life. I wished the other one were my real dad. I love him so much but he doesn’t talk to me anymore.

    • @Disco_Girls.A3S1R1
      @Disco_Girls.A3S1R1 5 років тому +64

      Sorry this is bothering me. Your real dad never walked out on you. Your biological dad did

    • @ashara9006
      @ashara9006 5 років тому +7

      Ik how this feel my real dad die before o was born, and my current dad side of the family always treated me like an outside but not my brother. During times in my childhood my dad would also say things that made me feel like he didnt want me

    • @nalaniedevyne9650
      @nalaniedevyne9650 5 років тому +5

      Christina Jackson I found out in 3rd grade, we had a project to see how we looked like our parents. I asked my mom and she told me the same thing but he doesn’t even know I exist so who knows.....

  • @pileofgay101
    @pileofgay101 2 роки тому +4

    it's so painful to hear my mother tell me about the happy girl i once was and how much she misses her when she and my dad are the ones who destroyed her

  • @iluvme9813
    @iluvme9813 2 роки тому +2

    All I ever wanted was for them to notice me when I'm sad and actually come up to me and ask me whether it's hard for me.
    I'm a good listener. I listen to people when they want to let it out. But no one wants to listen to me.

  • @anasofiacl5059
    @anasofiacl5059 3 роки тому +816

    the problem is when you can’t remember what they did to you because it’s so many things and then they ask and guilt trip you into thinking you’re the one in the wrong

    • @micheas8491
      @micheas8491 3 роки тому +33

      Also when they did something that is so tramautizing and bad but act like nothing happened. It hurts so much bruh. I hate it here.

    • @girlfromhell485
      @girlfromhell485 3 роки тому +1

      Yes

    • @muana6651
      @muana6651 3 роки тому +1

      The way I relate to u 😭

    • @elenaspector5008
      @elenaspector5008 3 роки тому

      UNDERRATED

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 роки тому

      ily

  • @hellokittypoopyprincess
    @hellokittypoopyprincess 3 роки тому +685

    "your job was to stay.."
    that hurt me..but my dad never cam back..

  • @yourbitzinfrance
    @yourbitzinfrance 2 роки тому +1

    Writing a whole paragraph but then deleting it - that's when you know you are going through a lot

  • @de4th.mp_
    @de4th.mp_ 2 роки тому +7

    the fact that my dad wasnt around very much when i was a kid hit me.when i was a kid he was barely around cuz he had business and when he was at home he would just be in his office and do more work and the next day he would be gone again.i thought it was normal and okay back then but its not. so lets just promise eachother to be there for our kids and support them they way our parents didnt :)