I felt that My friends always complain about how their moms make them clean and on my head I’m like at least you have a mom and then they processed to say how lucky I am that I don’t have a mom. Like when they want to go to talk about what’s going on in their fucking heads they have somebody to go to but when I have something going on I can’t say shit to my dad cause he’ll tell me to grow the fuck up or he’s not even there to begin with
there’s always quotes and help for the kids who’s dad or mum left them but never for the kids who have been ignored but there family who they live with everyday and have to see there siblings be loved while they cry them self to sleep every night
I can feel this. My mom works till' 4p.m. when she comes home i usually run out, hug her and kiss her cheeks, told her how much i mised her and how much i love her, her only answer is i love u too and a fast kiss. And then she go there to my lil sister who literally doesn't even care and kiss her, tell her huow beatiful she is and how much did she think about her. My stepdad is the same.
My mum called me HOE! And she told me that I'm just ugly af and my future husband will be unlucky to marry an ugly girl like me she told me that she don't trust me ! She say that she hope that i die ... now she's out and im in my room alone trying to decide betwen keep going or just stop and su***!
“That’s what moms are suppose to do . Their not suppose to be the cause of your pain ,their suppose to make it go away . Their suppose to hold you and tell you everything is suppose to be alright “😢
Madison Smith same my mom HATES me she couldn’t care less what happens to me she only still has me for the child support because she has no job, because nobody will hire her, because all she dose is drink and make everywhere she goes a living hell
Just a nobody aww my heart goes out to you babes 🥺 keep your head up better days are coming . & you’re not “ just a nobody “ that name breaks my heart .
marvel men are superior ikr I’m so done I don’t feel anything for her since the past 4 years, she doesn’t seem to care and she’s told me horrible things
My mom hasn’t come around since I was 3. I feel numb to it. For so long I’ve been taped up trying not to fall apart because I knew if I did there’d be no one to catch me
my parents are still together. but they are constantly arguing with each other even for the tiniest things. my dad has a really bad temper so he’s the one who started everything first. it has always been like this since i was a kid. ofcourse we do have our happy moment but they dont last long. there’s always something that triggers someone in our family so i learned to just be quiet everytime something occurs. its hard, everytime i hear my parents shouting from the kitchen or the hallway of my house. i just wish i have a more peaceful family.
I had this situation for a log time. I’m out of it cause they divorced and now I don’t have any contact with my mom. I’m glad cause we were not good, but it hurts when I see my friends with their happy family. My dad got married and I got 2 stepsisters. I was always forgotten by my stepmother. My dad forgot me too till I wasn’t able to handle this and were speaking. I told him so much and cried for so long. A few months later he broke up with her, not just for me. He had some problems with her too. I’m not really happier today, but I feel better. Better than the last 8 years.
I always smile when with people, but they dont know I cry myself to sleep almost every night because I'm my anxiety, depression, and my family issues. Many people can relate and if you do just know your not the only one.
My mom recently came into my room while I was watching this and she started crying and saying that I am sorry. She was saying that because this multifandom was my life
“Fathers cause pain”.... wow. That hit home! That was my whole relationship with my dad. Never really interested in me, never knew how to talk to me, all that stuff. And we were living under the same roof!
-Glee -Fresh Prince of bell Air -One Tree Hill -Supernatural -Once Upon A Time -The Originals -Arrow -Girl Meets World -Criminal Minds. -Dawson’s Creek
"As a girl I hated myself, I thought I was broken that nobody could or ever would love me. Its the only way a child can grow up when their father abandons them." Feels 😔
The baddest thing is, that u want to be enough for the only persons u love on earth, your parents, because no one can give u that love that your parents gives, but they don't do it, they don't give u that type of love, and u can't be enough because they don't love u like they're should do. How can I love myself when my parents don't do. I feel like I'm never enough, and this shit hurts man,
I'm 11 years old and I wanted to die ever since I was 9. You may be like, oh your so young you should have no problems but that's not true. My dad killed himself when I was two my mom left me and chose drugs over me when I was five my grandparents fight every night, I'm so insecure nobody loves me and I'm a disappointment and I hate life and just want to end it Edit: I'm 12 years old in 7th grade and I play volleyball..mmlife still sucks but I'll make it through....life is though but I'll be fine
I hope you’re doing good today or maybe just okay today. I’m 19 but I felt the same when I was 13. I know it’s extremely isolating feeling these emotions, specially at a young age because you feel like you have no one to turn to but please don’t let them overpower you. You’re not a disappointment and never will be one nor become one, Tell somebody who you trust or can help you (like a teacher) how you’re feeling and you’ll get the support you desperately need
@@barbieoncoke thank u I needed thar. People call me so many names and the one that hurts so much is getting called fat. I'm so insecure and nobody cares to notice I'm hurting...i can't tell anyone how I feel or they might think I'm a baby or not care...byt thank u...your message helps
katie Callaway I can relate, you sound like a younger me. I got called names and “fat” got to me the most. I developed an eating disorder because of it, I hope you don’t consider starving or purging because it’s a dark,dangerous place and I’d hate for you to experience it. Mental illness took my youth from me and I’d hate for it to take yours. You’re not a baby for experiencing these emotions/thoughts most people experiences them but for others it’s more intense and people understand that and are willing to help. I use to keep all my emotions and feelings to myself because I thought nobody cared and depression told me “this is where you belong” but I overpowered it and took back control and told my doctor. I’m getting the support i need and it’s helping so please I urge you to tell somebody you trust how you’re feeling. I know people say this all the time but don’t let them people put you down because you’re valid and you have a right to feel the way you do. I care about you otherwise I wouldn’t have messaged you. People do care, some don’t show it very well but deep down someone cares for you x
@@barbieoncoke you care because you've been threw what I have been. People don't know I do starve myself sometimes and make my self throw up after I eat..i only cut on my ankles so it's easy to hide with long socks. Thank you for being the only person that cares. But you don't know me as a person. To myself I'm stupid fat ugly annoying worthless idiotic crazy+ more. I wish I had the guts to tell someone but I'm too weak
katie Callaway I don’t need to personally know you to care. I won’t tell you to stop doing these self destructive things because I know it’s hard and you simply can’t just stop as it becomes a sort of coping mechanism and I can’t make you tell anybody. I know me saying these things won’t effect you much because it’s you’re personal opinion about yourself and thats very hard to change but please take into consideration that you don’t need to change for anyone. I hope you have a good day/night and if you ever want to talk to me about these things my instagram is BarbieOnCoke, I’ll just listen to you but only if you want me to, I’m not forcing you
I miss my birth father... But my mother doesn't understand. She asks me why I would miss him if I never got to know him and he left. But it hurts so much. He left such a hole, that even with an amazing Step-Father who tells me he loves me, I still feel empty.
am total opposite of you and your mother I wish mom was like that I hate him bcz he left us even 12 months before I was born and I think he had the chance to be with me but I chose to not be ... so why would I feel something for him I used to hate him all my life until now 22 I have no feeling fo him ... why would I feel even something for someone who doesn't exist in ma life? It doesn't make sense to me! I am hurt and angry at him at the world at everything bcz of him ... but I force damn a smile and live life as I want it even if I hate it and am living miserable I hate myself for that all bcz of him ...
Wheelbarrow Byers you know my birth father also left me, my whole family hates me and would talk bad about him and i would get this mad and hurt feeling, and even tho i was just a baby when he left i didn’t know anything, i’m not that little girl who asked my mom where is my daddy? does he still love me?..not anymore. bc now i know the answer the hard way. even tho he hates me, i for some reason need him. i need my dad. i need him. i needed him by my side , even when he was the first man who broke my heart before any boy had the chance to..i can’t help but cry myself silently at nights and pretend i hate and don’t need him with my family
Same. My biological dad would always punch my mom in the stomach, he would always kick my mom when he is drunk, he would yell at her everyday after my mom gave birth to me. I hate him. I never want to see him ever again. I realized that is why my mom never answers my questions about him. "I had 14 great birthdays without him and he never sent a goddamn card." When I was 11, I really wanted a brother. I didn't really care who mom chooses to love. Fortunately, mom's boyfriend is very kind and has great dreams for us and my mom got pregnant with a girl. Now I am 15, my step-dad, in order for us to survive, he went abroad to work. But now that he is there, he talks to me sometimes but she only shows love to her own daughter. My mom would get mad at me if I wouldn't clean the house everyday. My grandmother doesn't like me. She would kick my legs and shout to tell me to get something in a mean way. And she would be mad if I laugh, like what's wrong to laugh? I always tell my self to be thankful I'm still laughing even though there is too much pain for me to handle. That is my everyday life. Sometimes I try to end it. But my sister really makes me stay.
In my experience fathers cause pain, whether by presence or their absence there’s a certain type of ruin that only a father can leave behind. This hits hard
I suffer from depression and tried to take my life...my parents didn't care. I tried to tell them they hurt mr and that's why I overdosed... Thet didn't believe me. I cried to my mom saying i needed them but she told me she wanted nothing to do with me... I cry myself almost every night begging to have my mom and dad love me but they don't want me... I miss them
@@faymorr3706 I'm doing okay life is hard and it has officially been 3 years sincd i basically lost my mom and dad. Thanks for responding i didn't think anyone would respond
You are not alone, and you are loved. I hope that things are better now, and I know that you can make it through because you are strong. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m right here. xoxo
I hope you are doing well, my mom told me that i will never be successful but ill remain poor, overdose, will be lost, will never find a nice job, will never have my own house, will never find a happy family or maybe i would even take my own life, she said. While physically abusing me by throwing heavy things scratching me slapping my face.. In return i take care of her kids from another man while she is gone with her man gambling with casinos i don't know why she is treating me like this. She even blamed me for going in debt with her man she is honestly hurting me so much
“When I was a girl I hated myself, I thought I was broken, that no one could or ever would love me. It’s the only way a child can grow up when their father abandons them.” I felt that
when klaus came up and hope was like "i just want my mom", i broke down. tvd is my absolute favorite show, and those characters are so real to me. their pain becomes mine.
"mom's aren't supposed to cause pain, they're supposed to make it go away" this hit me deeper than any other quote. I wish my mum knew she was supposed to take away my pain instead of inflicting it
I needed her... I needed him... Why didn't they want me... What was so wrong with me that they dicided that ANYTHING was better than me. God and I wonder why I'm so messed up
To be honest sometimes I just felt like I couldn’t take it that I had a huge panic attack I just wanted parents that cared but instead they don’t care when I say I need help.. everyday I’m like invisible to them and other days I’m just worthless to them
Honestly....it’s like ppl see what’s wrong and pretend like the issue isn’t there and then when the results of how someone treated them kicks in, everyone looks around shocked like they didn’t witness it
My mom left me and my little brother when I was 13. After, she ignored me, but I saw her, I knew she was near me. She lied, she didn't care about anyone else. "Is she here?", I asked this every morning years ago and now maybe it's the same... it dipends of my humor. She's selfish. She said that is my fault and I hated me so much. But... she didn't do what a mother supposed to do. I'm 16, my friends have a great family and their life is so simple. I'm growing up alone. I lost my security, I lost the woman who I believed was the most important to me and... I'm walking away, in silence, without her. It's hard, it hurts. Be parents is not for everybody. Perhaps, I have to thank to her because I wont to do this if in the future I'll be a mother.
I can feel their pain my birth mother never wanted me so walked at on me and my siblings when I was 7 years old I had to be a mother and a father and not just a sister and I still haven’t seen her in 8 years... guess what I’m 15.
Seeing other people interact with their family so normally while I barely utter a word to mine. I try to think of ways to make it better. I do what I’m told, I clean up when they’re at work, I stay out of the way, I don’t ask for anything, I keep quiet. But it’s all useless in the end because my dad would be happier if he wasn’t a father in the first place and my mum would be happier if she walked away and never looked back. I get envious when people I know post family pictures on social media. I think that it looks nice and it looks like fun. But then I remember that I don’t want such a thing because it only leads to let down.
It hurts the most when you have your parents but they never understand you, your dreams , when you experience pain because of your parents who never try to understand you .
Same but all she does is cause my pain but all i hear is you will thank your mum when youre older she loves you and youre the child youre wrong.i want my mum and dad to love me
My parents are together and we have happy moments but my dad gets scary when he’s mad and yells loud and everybody I learned to hide when it got to that and I’m not really emotionally connected to my parents
imagine your parents causing you the most wrenching pain and they resent you for not being the slave of their will because they believe they own you and you are not allowed to have your own will
🙂 abusive parents are best.. Actually yes they are cause that make person strong to HOLD&SURVIVE EVERYTHING rock life's trows after. Or is nothing worse then a person who should love, tc treath like shit, air,insulting,hurt mentaly&fysicaly. Nothing can be worse then that hell
@@randomdoublechinwithintern5446 when you been dead inside for many years suicide attempts or doing it ain't so impulsive reaction after a week planed it starts sound ridicilious and then you keep going on life
You know it's bad when you're still in their life and when you watch anything even this triggering you then remember everything that person has done to you yet you can't get away from them.
I waited for them to be proud if me. I waited for them to notice me. I waited for anything positive, but they never noticed the positive they only tore me down. Now here I am in my adulthood still waiting for something that will never happen.
Dean…Dean wasn’t just a brother…He had to be a mother, and a father, to keep Sam safe…Yet Mary and John try to act like it wasn’t their fault…R.I.P. Dean❤️💗😭
toxic parents are the worst
d I knowww they really are
Yeah they rlly are that's how mine are
Stg
Yes..😔
but they can be the best bc they can make you be more successful and a better parent bc u know what not to be
“That’s what moms are supposed to do, there not supposed to be the cause of your pain there supposed to make it go away”
I felt that.😔
Just a nobody criminal minds hits diff😔🤛🏿
Same
me too
Same
That’s what rly hurts
You know it's bad when you're here again
Dang it
You’re right 😞
Why?
Yeah :/
I love my parents but I cannot see them the same ever again.
Yes i have parents, but why do I feel like i have none?
hey chette hey sorry that you feel that way, it must be painful, but just know you’re not alone.
saisha bhargav thankyou very much
I feel the same why at moments
sorry but you Felt nothing the same when your Dad leave you.
I don’t even know who I am
"I just want my mom I just want my mom!" Gosh the amount of times I've said that in my life.
😭😭😭
I felt that My friends always complain about how their moms make them clean and on my head I’m like at least you have a mom and then they processed to say how lucky I am that I don’t have a mom. Like when they want to go to talk about what’s going on in their fucking heads they have somebody to go to but when I have something going on I can’t say shit to my dad cause he’ll tell me to grow the fuck up or he’s not even there to begin with
Sorry I didn’t mean to go all off but holy hell that felt goof to get off my shoulders
Yup drugs does a lot to people 😯🙄
Ive said the same but instead of mom i said dad
there’s always quotes and help for the kids who’s dad or mum left them but never for the kids who have been ignored but there family who they live with everyday and have to see there siblings be loved while they cry them self to sleep every night
Mahender Adati I knoww it hurts
unknown x this
I can feel this. My mom works till' 4p.m. when she comes home i usually run out, hug her and kiss her cheeks, told her how much i mised her and how much i love her, her only answer is i love u too and a fast kiss. And then she go there to my lil sister who literally doesn't even care and kiss her, tell her huow beatiful she is and how much did she think about her. My stepdad is the same.
unknown x what about a mix of two?
I know the feeling all too well 😫
"He never send a damn card TO HELL WITH HIM"
That hit hard.....💔😔
TO HELL WITH HIM
Yea that's what I said lol
Felt that 😭 why do people have kids when they can’t y’all care of them!
That’s why I don’t want to have kids until I damn well know that I can treat them and raise them in a good way 🥺
Me too..
Same here
Me too ,i have a bad example
Same here
Me too am terrified to have kids cause of my father
"What was so wrong with me that you'd leave" this line hurts in the heart
Hope you're doin better now luv
I understood that cause my dad left me at a young age and never explained why he left
@@razzledazzle361 same, my dad left me when I was five and he hasn't talked to me for 10 years and I still don't know why...
My mum called me HOE! And she told me that I'm just ugly af and my future husband will be unlucky to marry an ugly girl like me she told me that she don't trust me ! She say that she hope that i die ... now she's out and im in my room alone trying to decide betwen keep going or just stop and su***!
“That’s what moms are suppose to do . Their not suppose to be the cause of your pain ,their suppose to make it go away . Their suppose to hold you and tell you everything is suppose to be alright “😢
Madison Smith same my mom HATES me she couldn’t care less what happens to me she only still has me for the child support because she has no job, because nobody will hire her, because all she dose is drink and make everywhere she goes a living hell
Just a nobody aww my heart goes out to you babes 🥺 keep your head up better days are coming . & you’re not
“ just a nobody “ that name breaks my heart .
That is also what fathers are supposed to do. But sometimes, even the people who are supposed to love you let you down and break you.
The storms happened ,but you didn't
when you're watching this for the millionth time to accept the fact that your mom is never gonna be there for you
marvel men are superior ikr I’m so done I don’t feel anything for her since the past 4 years, she doesn’t seem to care and she’s told me horrible things
I am trying to be strong....
I felt this on a whole other level
yep
My mom hasn’t come around since I was 3. I feel numb to it. For so long I’ve been taped up trying not to fall apart because I knew if I did there’d be no one to catch me
The Originals😭😭🥺
That damn show always breaks
my heart 😫😭😭
Ikr Julie plec did us dirty THE WORST ENDING
heartbreaking ending 😿
Ikr 😭😭
Klaus gets me all the time😭😭💔
Sheniqua Cain omg me too 😭😭😭😤
i have parents, but they’re toxic.
same sis
IKR I feel you. I have a mom and I live with her but I haven’t seen her in 4 years, the real here :(
💔same..they give us PAIN
Same for me they hate each other but neither want to move out
Same mine are emotionally abusive
All you had to do was be my father.
"Do you remember that"?
"No.. I dont"
"Well that's because it never happened, the storm happened.. but you didnt"
Why am i suppose to be gratefull for them giving me life i dont even want it.
You don't have to be grateful for something you didn't want. That's emotional abuse
“they’re not supposed to be the cause of your pain, they’re supposed to make it go away” that shit hurts
i envy my friends with a stable household so badly.
The Klaus one is especially sad as it shows him repeating another cycle of daddy issues, even if he didn't abandon her willingly.
I absolutely hate the hollow for separating them.
Klaus was an amazing father and he deserved more time with Hope and happiness in his life
my parents are still together. but they are constantly arguing with each other even for the tiniest things. my dad has a really bad temper so he’s the one who started everything first. it has always been like this since i was a kid. ofcourse we do have our happy moment but they dont last long. there’s always something that triggers someone in our family so i learned to just be quiet everytime something occurs. its hard, everytime i hear my parents shouting from the kitchen or the hallway of my house. i just wish i have a more peaceful family.
My situation is exactly like yours
Same thing with me
I had this situation for a log time. I’m out of it cause they divorced and now I don’t have any contact with my mom.
I’m glad cause we were not good, but it hurts when I see my friends with their happy family.
My dad got married and I got 2 stepsisters. I was always forgotten by my stepmother. My dad forgot me too till I wasn’t able to handle this and were speaking. I told him so much and cried for so long. A few months later he broke up with her, not just for me. He had some problems with her too. I’m not really happier today, but I feel better. Better than the last 8 years.
It’s the same thing here to with my family my dad has lots of outburst,my mom said she wanted a divorce but he’s still living here.
going through the same thing
I always smile when with people, but they dont know I cry myself to sleep almost every night because I'm my anxiety, depression, and my family issues. Many people can relate and if you do just know your not the only one.
My mom recently came into my room while I was watching this and she started crying and saying that I am sorry. She was saying that because this multifandom was my life
Awww😭 hope things are going great now
same thing happened to me the only difference is she don't give a damn
You know it breaks your heart when you realize that your parents aren't supportive. They just always blame you for your problems and everything.
“Fathers cause pain”.... wow. That hit home! That was my whole relationship with my dad. Never really interested in me, never knew how to talk to me, all that stuff. And we were living under the same roof!
"i waited for you to explain jt ,but you never apologized"
when hope said that it hitted me so hard af
-Glee
-Fresh Prince of bell Air
-One Tree Hill
-Supernatural
-Once Upon A Time
-The Originals
-Arrow
-Girl Meets World
-Criminal Minds. -Dawson’s Creek
there’s also criminals minds
nicole boucher I’ll add it to the list
nicole boucher do you know what episode?
Dawson’s creek is in there
I think the originals in this
Edit:sorry just saw you had it on the list
"As a girl I hated myself, I thought I was broken that nobody could or ever would love me. Its the only way a child can grow up when their father abandons them." Feels 😔
The baddest thing is, that u want to be enough for the only persons u love on earth, your parents, because no one can give u that love that your parents gives, but they don't do it, they don't give u that type of love, and u can't be enough because they don't love u like they're should do. How can I love myself when my parents don't do. I feel like I'm never enough, and this shit hurts man,
for real it hurts alright:(
The shows;
- Girl meets world
- once upon a time
- Super natural
- Once upon a time
- Prince of bel air
- Arrows
- The originals
Thankyou for the pin and like x
Supernatural Is the show with the most parent issues
You forgot one tree hill and glee
C C you forgot glee
glee, one tree hill and criminal minds as well bby
Fathers break their daughters heart before any boy can do, I just wish he stopped yelling at me of what I do in life..
"You went to bed with a smile on your face I went to bed wondering if my dad was going to be at the breakfast table in the morning"
Ow.
I know that I am not alone but I always feel like I'm lonely
Aha I can relate..
That's a symptom of depression
i dont smile at home anymore and i don't say anything cause i don't want my mom to criticize me
DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE
relatable and it sucks.
Me too
2:13 in my experience fathers cause pain
I'm 11 years old and I wanted to die ever since I was 9. You may be like, oh your so young you should have no problems but that's not true. My dad killed himself when I was two my mom left me and chose drugs over me when I was five my grandparents fight every night, I'm so insecure nobody loves me and I'm a disappointment and I hate life and just want to end it
Edit: I'm 12 years old in 7th grade and I play volleyball..mmlife still sucks but I'll make it through....life is though but I'll be fine
I hope you’re doing good today or maybe just okay today. I’m 19 but I felt the same when I was 13. I know it’s extremely isolating feeling these emotions, specially at a young age because you feel like you have no one to turn to but please don’t let them overpower you. You’re not a disappointment and never will be one nor become one, Tell somebody who you trust or can help you (like a teacher) how you’re feeling and you’ll get the support you desperately need
@@barbieoncoke thank u I needed thar. People call me so many names and the one that hurts so much is getting called fat. I'm so insecure and nobody cares to notice I'm hurting...i can't tell anyone how I feel or they might think I'm a baby or not care...byt thank u...your message helps
katie Callaway I can relate, you sound like a younger me. I got called names and “fat” got to me the most. I developed an eating disorder because of it, I hope you don’t consider starving or purging because it’s a dark,dangerous place and I’d hate for you to experience it. Mental illness took my youth from me and I’d hate for it to take yours. You’re not a baby for experiencing these emotions/thoughts most people experiences them but for others it’s more intense and people understand that and are willing to help. I use to keep all my emotions and feelings to myself because I thought nobody cared and depression told me “this is where you belong” but I overpowered it and took back control and told my doctor. I’m getting the support i need and it’s helping so please I urge you to tell somebody you trust how you’re feeling. I know people say this all the time but don’t let them people put you down because you’re valid and you have a right to feel the way you do. I care about you otherwise I wouldn’t have messaged you. People do care, some don’t show it very well but deep down someone cares for you x
@@barbieoncoke you care because you've been threw what I have been. People don't know I do starve myself sometimes and make my self throw up after I eat..i only cut on my ankles so it's easy to hide with long socks. Thank you for being the only person that cares. But you don't know me as a person. To myself I'm stupid fat ugly annoying worthless idiotic crazy+ more. I wish I had the guts to tell someone but I'm too weak
katie Callaway I don’t need to personally know you to care. I won’t tell you to stop doing these self destructive things because I know it’s hard and you simply can’t just stop as it becomes a sort of coping mechanism and I can’t make you tell anybody. I know me saying these things won’t effect you much because it’s you’re personal opinion about yourself and thats very hard to change but please take into consideration that you don’t need to change for anyone. I hope you have a good day/night and if you ever want to talk to me about these things my instagram is BarbieOnCoke, I’ll just listen to you but only if you want me to, I’m not forcing you
I miss my birth father... But my mother doesn't understand. She asks me why I would miss him if I never got to know him and he left. But it hurts so much. He left such a hole, that even with an amazing Step-Father who tells me he loves me, I still feel empty.
am total opposite of you and your mother I wish mom was like that I hate him bcz he left us even 12 months before I was born and I think he had the chance to be with me but I chose to not be ... so why would I feel something for him I used to hate him all my life until now 22 I have no feeling fo him ... why would I feel even something for someone who doesn't exist in ma life? It doesn't make sense to me! I am hurt and angry at him at the world at everything bcz of him ... but I force damn a smile and live life as I want it even if I hate it and am living miserable I hate myself for that all bcz of him ...
Wheelbarrow Byers you know my birth father also left me, my whole family hates me and would talk bad about him and i would get this mad and hurt feeling, and even tho i was just a baby when he left i didn’t know anything, i’m not that little girl who asked my mom where is my daddy? does he still love me?..not anymore. bc now i know the answer the hard way. even tho he hates me, i for some reason need him. i need my dad. i need him. i needed him by my side , even when he was the first man who broke my heart before any boy had the chance to..i can’t help but cry myself silently at nights and pretend i hate and don’t need him with my family
I can relate to this so much
Same but I was adopted and my father was never there I'm now 16 and he was only there for me when I was 2-
Same. My biological dad would always punch my mom in the stomach, he would always kick my mom when he is drunk, he would yell at her everyday after my mom gave birth to me. I hate him. I never want to see him ever again. I realized that is why my mom never answers my questions about him.
"I had 14 great birthdays without him and he never sent a goddamn card."
When I was 11, I really wanted a brother. I didn't really care who mom chooses to love. Fortunately, mom's boyfriend is very kind and has great dreams for us and my mom got pregnant with a girl.
Now I am 15, my step-dad, in order for us to survive, he went abroad to work. But now that he is there, he talks to me sometimes but she only shows love to her own daughter. My mom would get mad at me if I wouldn't clean the house everyday. My grandmother doesn't like me. She would kick my legs and shout to tell me to get something in a mean way. And she would be mad if I laugh, like what's wrong to laugh? I always tell my self to be thankful I'm still laughing even though there is too much pain for me to handle. That is my everyday life. Sometimes I try to end it. But my sister really makes me stay.
In my experience fathers cause pain, whether by presence or their absence there’s a certain type of ruin that only a father can leave behind. This hits hard
I suffer from depression and tried to take my life...my parents didn't care. I tried to tell them they hurt mr and that's why I overdosed... Thet didn't believe me. I cried to my mom saying i needed them but she told me she wanted nothing to do with me... I cry myself almost every night begging to have my mom and dad love me but they don't want me... I miss them
Flor Haschak how are you doing today ?I know things are hard but just so you know you are never alone Xx
@@faymorr3706 I'm doing okay life is hard and it has officially been 3 years sincd i basically lost my mom and dad. Thanks for responding i didn't think anyone would respond
Flor Haschak nah you need to talk to someone I’m here (warning though, I’m very Essex so enter this friendship at your own wish 😉)
You are not alone, and you are loved. I hope that things are better now, and I know that you can make it through because you are strong. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m right here. xoxo
I hope you are doing well, my mom told me that i will never be successful but ill remain poor, overdose, will be lost, will never find a nice job, will never have my own house, will never find a happy family or maybe i would even take my own life, she said. While physically abusing me by throwing heavy things scratching me slapping my face..
In return i take care of her kids from another man while she is gone with her man gambling with casinos i don't know why she is treating me like this. She even blamed me for going in debt with her man she is honestly hurting me so much
"Your acting like a child" "how would you know you werent around when i was a child" that hits hard
My family is emotionally and physically abusive and I’m tired of life I’m done I’m so exhausted
"They are not supposed to be the cause of your pain they are supposed to make the pain go away" hit hard
Klaus hit different tho🥺
“When I was a girl I hated myself, I thought I was broken, that no one could or ever would love me. It’s the only way a child can grow up when their father abandons them.” I felt that
when klaus came up and hope was like "i just want my mom", i broke down. tvd is my absolute favorite show, and those characters are so real to me. their pain becomes mine.
watching this on father’s day w a father who doesn’t want you hits different
you know what is the worst pain??
knowing that your own parents doesnt want you...
"mom's aren't supposed to cause pain, they're supposed to make it go away" this hit me deeper than any other quote. I wish my mum knew she was supposed to take away my pain instead of inflicting it
I needed her... I needed him... Why didn't they want me... What was so wrong with me that they dicided that ANYTHING was better than me. God and I wonder why I'm so messed up
"there's nothing wrong with you, sweetheart!"
But... Why did you leave if there was nothing wrong with me?
the worst feeling is being in your own house and feeling like you need to go home.
Michael Raymond-James has a way of making Baelfire’s simplest lines carry so much weight and pain. Breathtaking and relatable
Hi, if you read this I just wanted to say I hope you're good. You are strong and I believe in you, stay safe I love you, reader ❤️🥺
All I wanted was for you to be proud of me dad
" i needed u i needed my mom" that fucking hits me even tho my mom is with me. I felt like no one is there.
To be honest sometimes I just felt like I couldn’t take it that I had a huge panic attack I just wanted parents that cared but instead they don’t care when I say I need help.. everyday I’m like invisible to them and other days I’m just worthless to them
This made me cry because I can relate so much...
It's related with my life 😢
Honestly....it’s like ppl see what’s wrong and pretend like the issue isn’t there and then when the results of how someone treated them kicks in, everyone looks around shocked like they didn’t witness it
Years later, I still feel Pacey's pain. "When did you give up on me dad, when I was 5? I'm 16."
It’s the hurndreth Christmas I’ve spent without my dad but for some reason it’s hurts the worst
that hurted
"the storm happened, but you didn't"
Felt that
anyone else see Klaus and break down cuz seeing him sad makes you sad. the mikealson's emotions are so powerful that they always effect my emotions
Girl meets world
Once Upon a time
Fresh Prince of Bel Air
Arrow
The originals
Supernatural
One tree hill
Criminal minds
Glee
(Updated)
Glee is there too!
Lord Anubis time stamps would be great
My mom left me and my little brother when I was 13. After, she ignored me, but I saw her, I knew she was near me. She lied, she didn't care about anyone else. "Is she here?", I asked this every morning years ago and now maybe it's the same... it dipends of my humor. She's selfish. She said that is my fault and I hated me so much. But... she didn't do what a mother supposed to do. I'm 16, my friends have a great family and their life is so simple. I'm growing up alone. I lost my security, I lost the woman who I believed was the most important to me and... I'm walking away, in silence, without her. It's hard, it hurts. Be parents is not for everybody. Perhaps, I have to thank to her because I wont to do this if in the future I'll be a mother.
I love you. You will find peace one day. It will be hard and difficult, but if you continue to fight and research you will find it !
@@dsscorpi7785 I hope it... thank you...❤️
Only Niklaus could ease my pain of the hole in my heart, by breaking it again. "In my experience, fathers...cause pain."
As a child of divorced parents I can tell you that you never give up on hoping that your parents come together again one day.
I always cry at Maya’s and Hope’s😭😭😭
Klause mickelson and hope yeee 😁
"I waited for you for years. But you didn't come"
„What was so wrong with me that you'd leave..“
I felt that 💔
Like I have honestly spent so many christmass without him and it’s never hit me before but now it’s way different and I wanna die
I can feel their pain my birth mother never wanted me so walked at on me and my siblings when I was 7 years old I had to be a mother and a father and not just a sister and I still haven’t seen her in 8 years... guess what I’m 15.
Seeing other people interact with their family so normally while I barely utter a word to mine.
I try to think of ways to make it better. I do what I’m told, I clean up when they’re at work, I stay out of the way, I don’t ask for anything, I keep quiet. But it’s all useless in the end because my dad would be happier if he wasn’t a father in the first place and my mum would be happier if she walked away and never looked back.
I get envious when people I know post family pictures on social media. I think that it looks nice and it looks like fun. But then I remember that I don’t want such a thing because it only leads to let down.
It hurts the most when you have your parents but they never understand you, your dreams , when you experience pain because of your parents who never try to understand you .
1:09 Omg this part makes me cry more 😔😢 My mom hates me 😭
Same but all she does is cause my pain but all i hear is you will thank your mum when youre older she loves you and youre the child youre wrong.i want my mum and dad to love me
justamessed upkid same they always tell me you’re the problem
@@liomyanakid6144 Sounded like my narcissistic father.
My parents are together and we have happy moments but my dad gets scary when he’s mad and yells loud and everybody I learned to hide when it got to that and I’m not really emotionally connected to my parents
Sometimes it's funny when parents says whats wrong with me, and actually they are who make me felt so wrong.
I don't why? This all is pain but deep down it give us thrills to get in same situation . Cause of human nature
I am fighting depresion with this
why is someone cutting onions
when I go to my friends house, and they all eat together as a family I just sit there wishing I had that
imagine your parents causing you the most wrenching pain and they resent you for not being the slave of their will because they believe they own you and you are not allowed to have your own will
What are the names of the shows?
girl meets world, once upon a time, supernatural
the originals, arrows, prince of bel air,
one tree hill
Glee
Criminal Minds.
dean😭
“the worst prison in the world is a home without peace 💔”
🙂 abusive parents are best.. Actually yes they are cause that make person strong to HOLD&SURVIVE EVERYTHING rock life's trows after. Or is nothing worse then a person who should love, tc treath like shit, air,insulting,hurt mentaly&fysicaly. Nothing can be worse then that hell
☆MsKarma☆ but when ur not strong the person kills them selves and that’s reality
are you stupid?
☆MsKarma☆ what no I am just so broken n
@@randomdoublechinwithintern5446 when you been dead inside for many years suicide attempts or doing it ain't so impulsive reaction after a week planed it starts sound ridicilious and then you keep going on life
"That's because is never happened"
"The storm did, but you didnt"
The hit different
You know it's bad when you're still in their life and when you watch anything even this triggering you then remember everything that person has done to you yet you can't get away from them.
"he's not supposed to be here for you, you're supposed to be here for him." - damn
“Parents aren’t supposed to be the cause of your pain” wish mine knew that
It’s sad; I remember an idols birthday better than my own father’s, and barely my mother’s.
Isn't it strange we have people we call family but still seek comfort from the internet when we are depressed
I waited for them to be proud if me. I waited for them to notice me. I waited for anything positive, but they never noticed the positive they only tore me down. Now here I am in my adulthood still waiting for something that will never happen.
Fathers wil always be the one that will leave a ruin to their kid, and I'll never undertstand why.
*What's worse is finding out your parents abandoned you when you were a baby, and that you're adopted...*
"Fathers cause pain " I fucking felt that......
i am not sure what hurts more , growing up without a father or growing up with an abusive one ?
Dean…Dean wasn’t just a brother…He had to be a mother, and a father, to keep Sam safe…Yet Mary and John try to act like it wasn’t their fault…R.I.P. Dean❤️💗😭