How To Avoid Awkward Silences With A Girl

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  • @TrippAdvice
    @TrippAdvice  3 роки тому +21

    For more ways to avoid awkward silences with a girl and always have something interesting to talk about, be sure to watch CHICK CRACK: 4 Conversation Topics Women Go Crazy For ► www.trippadvice.com/chick-crack.

  • @bigjayfitness
    @bigjayfitness 8 років тому +396

    I think if you are constantly having awkward silences, either you two don't have too much in common, or you two are extremely nervous. What I actually do when I'm kind of into a girl to 'test' her, is I always start the conversation (say at work, or school with a girl), but then one random day, I will just say "hi", and I won't say anything else. If its in school and I'm sitting next to her, and she doesn't want to start the conversation after I had done so at least 3 times, then that's a clear sign shes not interested. Same goes for these awkward silences..you shouldn't be the one who has to break them every time. If shes not putting an effort into the conversation, it just won't work out. Trying to force anything usually never works

    • @yespleease5102
      @yespleease5102 7 років тому +9

      Jason 56 I'm like really shy in that kind of sense. So it wouldn't really work with ppl like me

    • @yespleease5102
      @yespleease5102 7 років тому +2

      jk I'm a girl

    • @Tech-vk2zk
      @Tech-vk2zk 6 років тому

      Vioria ayyy nope

    • @brendanfogel4573
      @brendanfogel4573 4 роки тому +8

      Jason 56 bro it’s so hard to explain but I know already know this girl is in love with me from all her friends. She has like really bad socializing skills. I had to ask all the questions and everytime I asked her to do something such as “what’s your favorite restaurant” she literally says idk to everything. She texted me tho that she is really weird and can’t think when she is with a guy she likes... I do like her tho. Like for me if I get in a relationship I will stick to the I don’t take them lightly I just need her to open up. We cuddled a lot in my car just taking. At least like 4 hours in total... idk

    • @notyouraverage1saiah660
      @notyouraverage1saiah660 3 роки тому +1

      @@brendanfogel4573 u fuck fogal?

  • @GarryBurgess
    @GarryBurgess 7 років тому +74

    Embrace the awkward silence, use your eyes at that point to communicate. There's nothing at all wrong with silence, and it can be a demonstration of confidence to not feel the need to ask meaningless questions.

  • @SiddhantTyagiST
    @SiddhantTyagiST 7 років тому +1194

    Pro tips: Chase goals not girls. They will eventually chase you

    • @richardvargas3308
      @richardvargas3308 7 років тому +39

      Single Boys what if you go for both ;)

    • @1179125
      @1179125 7 років тому +17

      ali t and kinda ironic.

    • @satan4403
      @satan4403 6 років тому +27

      thats not that true, doesn't really matter what you chase in terms of your goals in the end you have to approach the girl....enless its like a work thing or something.

    • @yashverma4204
      @yashverma4204 6 років тому +26

      Single Boys Issac Newton died a virgin.

    • @preritjha
      @preritjha 6 років тому +3

      ali that was a banger

  • @davidndiulor8428
    @davidndiulor8428 7 років тому +518

    If it happens a second time... *MISSION FAILED: we'll get 'em next time.*

  • @wastedgamer7027
    @wastedgamer7027 8 років тому +289

    What if she is deaf?

    • @sergior8667
      @sergior8667 7 років тому +41

      Wasted Gamer 👌🏼👈🏽?

    • @AustGamingAG
      @AustGamingAG 7 років тому +9

      Wasted Gamer write on notes or message her

    • @fitton27
      @fitton27 7 років тому +6

      Abc Abc finger her ring?

    • @jennapapa16
      @jennapapa16 6 років тому +1

      Wasted Gamer learn asl or pse and speak to her by that

    • @killbotbaggins4223
      @killbotbaggins4223 6 років тому +2

      Then marry her on the spot

  • @lordburritothe1st721
    @lordburritothe1st721 7 років тому +130

    Instructions unclear, child started crying when I tried talking to it

  • @Vogo
    @Vogo 8 років тому +116

    Going to a party : a)shirt ? check ! b)pants ? check! c)awesome hairstyle ? check ! d)Awkward Silence question ? check!

    • @yipperdeyip
      @yipperdeyip 8 років тому +19

      Awkward silence? Check!

    • @Vogo
      @Vogo 8 років тому +9

      NasIsLike well dont really need to take it with me .. it kinda appears outta no where

    • @fingermydickholeandspitonm2171
      @fingermydickholeandspitonm2171 7 років тому

      check? check

    • @itzphobia9973
      @itzphobia9973 6 років тому

      Dude you forgot the most important thing. Brush your teeth! I've defeated my "shyness" by making sure I have clean teeth and good breath. It's crazy how much confidence I gain after eating some mints.

  • @IgnisPyro
    @IgnisPyro 7 років тому +307

    so this morning i took a girl to starbucks after school, and we sat there and litterally talked for three full hours... might wanna give her a go actually

    • @ventusvacuum4129
      @ventusvacuum4129 7 років тому +21

      pyrofun 050 did you get her?

    • @jayluis189
      @jayluis189 7 років тому +7

      pyrofun 050 ??? What happened?

    • @keneilclarke8306
      @keneilclarke8306 6 років тому +22

      Did you talk to her maybe the person who owned the account died

    • @thatissomebadhatharry4801
      @thatissomebadhatharry4801 6 років тому +30

      Ignis Pyro he is still talking obviously

    • @arro613
      @arro613 6 років тому +15

      Bro your conversation skills are amazing

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 7 років тому +19

    Finally there's someone pointed out this kind of awkward situation. Even me can't handle this kind of pressure in regards to the silence between you and your date. Now I know how to keep the conversation get going. This is really helpful in attracting someone to be part of your life.

  • @callumdepasquale3935
    @callumdepasquale3935 7 років тому +236

    I hate talking about myself... Am I the only one

    • @ashprasad9075
      @ashprasad9075 7 років тому +2

      same

    • @theabuellemator1159
      @theabuellemator1159 6 років тому +2

      Welcome To The Club Buddy

    • @stamatisvragas7720
      @stamatisvragas7720 6 років тому +5

      I used to be in you club guys. I then just stopped carrying about girls and I went to chase my dreams while having crazy experiences. After that you will want to talk about yourself too

    • @Expatnema
      @Expatnema 6 років тому

      Callum De Pasquale
      Same. I freak out everytime

    • @McconneIIRet
      @McconneIIRet 3 роки тому +3

      If I don't want to talk to a girl, I'll just talk about myself until she leaves.

  • @jonathonbagwell5892
    @jonathonbagwell5892 Рік тому +5

    With picking up girls you don’t have to do all that. It comes down to one thing, confidence

  • @Joemama-cu9fz
    @Joemama-cu9fz 6 років тому +23

    It happened to me once, I was with this girl at dinner. We were talking so much and suddenly a silence. I felt awkward and awful, so I started chewing my food to make it look like I can’t talk. The silence lasted for like 20 seconds, but I kept my cool and stayed calm. I just waited it out, and suddenly again we started talking.

  • @thepaxbisonica4742
    @thepaxbisonica4742 8 років тому +39

    Thanks man... usually when there is an awkward silence I'm like "Ummmm, so.... do you like.... stuff?"
    :)

  • @robby7997
    @robby7997 8 років тому +13

    I find the best way to avoid awkward silences is to not feel awkward. If you sit there and not let it bother you (showing confidence) she will continue the conversation almost every time. Of course this does not work if you just met her and are getting her number, but on a fist date it does if she is just a little bit interested in you

  • @kieranwatts4975
    @kieranwatts4975 6 років тому +105

    If a girl says, I wouldn’t sleep with you, if we were the last people on earth, just say well if we were the last people on earth who’s gonna stop me.😂😂

  • @AllTheNamesIPickedWereTaken
    @AllTheNamesIPickedWereTaken 7 років тому +39

    Usually for me it's the girl who can't keep a conversation going. Whenever I try to shift the conversation her way she just throws it back to me, but fortunately I literally never run out of things to talk about. Is that a good thing or bad thing?

  • @Taunimus
    @Taunimus 7 років тому +32

    I hate the case when the other person isnt saying anything and u just hae to keep on going talking bullshit.
    Then i continiue with basic stuff and smalltalk and try to go deeper into some topics but some people just dont seem to be interested into talking and then I get totally tired of being the one who talks the whole time.
    Then i punch them right in the face and just leave :D
    Ok just kidding... i punch them twice and run

    • @jaman198
      @jaman198 6 років тому +5

      Taunimus then the girl just stares at your blankly and you expect them to say something after going on for 10 minutes. Like damn it feels like you're talking to a wall

  • @tomthefish6064
    @tomthefish6064 8 років тому +13

    I work at McDonald's where you're basically forced to make small talk, to a lot of people, all the fucking time.
    I'm working on it. Some people are great to talk too and others are like a wall.
    What I picked up is:
    .Comment on your environment
    . Find ways to lightly insult people (emphasis on lightly)
    . Open ended questions
    . Most of the talk *is* small talk, so learn it.
    . Just chat whatever comes to your head basically, people want substance to talk off from.
    . Talk clearly
    . Eye contact
    . Confidence

  • @gyranos716
    @gyranos716 4 роки тому +13

    Thanks for the video.
    My problem is not even just with girls, I generally can't talk with people without having a moment of awkward silence

  • @RF-sk7fl
    @RF-sk7fl 8 років тому +22

    I actually don't believe I should learn how to escape/avoid silence. I'd rather teach myself to stay calm and grounded so that silence won't be awkward anymore.
    this reminds me of a quote, it says, True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable.
    also, the only thing that will make you better at a conversation is having more knowledge and experiencing/learning different things in life.
    these tips are only useful for the short term impression you leave on someone.

    • @HookupCulture
      @HookupCulture 8 років тому +6

      we dont want to be friends.
      we want a partner.

    • @TheLegionUnited
      @TheLegionUnited 8 років тому

      no bro, you got it all wrong. Avoid awkward silences by maintaining conversation, you cant have comfortable silence right from the start.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому

      Great approach.

    • @Vize_Iron
      @Vize_Iron Рік тому

      That quote is very true. My friend that lives down the road, me and him hangout almost everyday. I love him like he's my little brother. We can just sit in silence for as long as we want and it's not uncomfortable at all. Like I'll ask to come over if I'm bored or something, and we will just sit there and not talk for a while. It's just comforting knowing I have someone there.

  • @RonanAquilius
    @RonanAquilius 6 років тому +66

    if silence is awkward then you are not comfortable with that person

    • @isabelle1251
      @isabelle1251 5 років тому +4

      2vain4u this made me feel sad because it’s so true 😂

    • @isaacnuketon
      @isaacnuketon 3 роки тому

      Thing is I’m pretty sure she likes me because she always says hi to me and always sits near me even when I’m minding my own business just I’m too nervous to say anything because i don’t want to say anything that makes her feel uncomfortable or annoyed

    • @vocaIchops
      @vocaIchops 2 роки тому

      @Jimmy Williams YESSS I CAN RELATE

  • @psihopats760
    @psihopats760 8 років тому +259

    could you make more live conversations whit girls, its more easyer to learn :)

    • @EducatedIdiocy
      @EducatedIdiocy 8 років тому +35

      If only it was easier for you to spell.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому +67

      working on it

    • @waltervillacorta32
      @waltervillacorta32 8 років тому

      +NarutoFan 555 lol

    • @brento2890
      @brento2890 7 років тому +8

      I would to see trip in a bar talking to girls he does not know! Because the girl that he uses knows what's going on.

    • @rubin1659
      @rubin1659 6 років тому

      o

  • @joninurmela1291
    @joninurmela1291 6 років тому +60

    I'm afraid of talking to girls because awkward silences
    Update: Just found this comment and now I have had a gf for 1,5 years, at the start had a few awkward silences but it'll get better

  • @russell_rozenbaum
    @russell_rozenbaum 6 років тому +18

    *Awkard Silence*
    *Me* - “So uh, yeah... they did surgery on a grape”

    • @brucewyatt9980
      @brucewyatt9980 5 років тому +4

      Russell Rozenbaum holy shit you’re ugly

  • @KnightMD
    @KnightMD 7 років тому +15

    "So what do you like doing"
    "Nothing"
    "What do you wish you had time to do?"
    "Not much"
    "Really?"
    "Uh (sigh) ok learn a second language."
    "You already speak a second language"
    "Mmm-hmm"
    .... something she just doesn't want to say anything.

  • @dddaaa6128
    @dddaaa6128 7 років тому +8

    the problem is, i m having awkard silences not only with girls but with members of my family, taxi drivers, old people and neighbors and etc. guess i m an all around awkard person.

    • @aronzetenyi6595
      @aronzetenyi6595 10 місяців тому

      same, i even have these awkward moments with my friends when it's just me and my friend in a situation.

  • @18TheFinal
    @18TheFinal 8 років тому +17

    10 seconds is a long time for silence? damn, I've been having some *SI-LENCE*.

  • @wildcat6669
    @wildcat6669 8 років тому +56

    use headphones.

  • @jayj8726
    @jayj8726 8 років тому +104

    What if there are guys like me who like it silent and only want a woman open her mouth when she is on her knees?

  • @Dante343
    @Dante343 5 років тому +9

    Some girls are private so asking them questions about anything is bad. It just chases them away

  • @jmjosemora16
    @jmjosemora16 8 років тому +86

    Can i just talk about aliens, good food, space and cars😎

    • @promochannel25
      @promochannel25 7 років тому +4

      as long as u have confidence, it's all about energy...

    • @satan4403
      @satan4403 6 років тому +5

      there are 30 billion planets in our galaxie alone, so the thought of human like life elsewhere is not irrational

    • @patrick280zx
      @patrick280zx 5 років тому

      KikoMickey64 That’s the same with me, I also talk to my friend girl about cars, food she likes and other stuff.

    • @jmjosemora16
      @jmjosemora16 3 роки тому

      @@patrick280zx does she have a sister older then 21 🤨

  • @billynunez6452
    @billynunez6452 7 років тому +5

    i love how you explain this kind of stuff great job thank you u help me alot

  • @drakdemay6984
    @drakdemay6984 7 років тому +35

    Trip these are wonderful suggestions that you're giving us. The golden question I've got for you is how to approach large groups of ladies by myself. With no wingman or Wing . I'm open to any suggestion you may have because it's a true challenge for a pickup artist lady

    • @drakdemay6984
      @drakdemay6984 7 років тому +1

      I'm sorry with no wing lady. And this would be a Mastercraft for any Pick Up Artist

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  5 років тому +3

      ua-cam.com/video/Nfrxv4K4_BQ/v-deo.html

    • @Uelchito
      @Uelchito 5 років тому +6

      Tripp Advice two years later but you still did it lol good shit

    • @danieldupreezswa1095
      @danieldupreezswa1095 4 роки тому +2

      Two YEARS later😂😂

  • @SimpForYoruichi
    @SimpForYoruichi 8 років тому +44

    Trip you're the best

  • @user-V711
    @user-V711 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks man been hanging out with a girl for 3 weeks now and been a bit awkward so far despite her being my gf now , she's shy and she makes me shy too
    Thx for the advice, really appreciate it

    • @is8179
      @is8179 2 роки тому

      bro literally same. any tips??

  • @gamesheep-gb2bs
    @gamesheep-gb2bs 7 років тому +1

    I usually try ti think of questions but they feel stupid. just remember questions are what people love. They love talking about themselves.

  • @sashkynok5757
    @sashkynok5757 8 років тому +20

    but what do i have to say if she doesn't want that I ask her questions???

  • @alinahim302
    @alinahim302 3 роки тому +1

    Dude your starting speech,just made me subscribe,it like you know bruh

  • @JorgeGeog
    @JorgeGeog 8 років тому +5

    I have to get this thing out of my chest: There were times that I tried to keep the conversation going with girls and in many cases, they just dropped short answers like yes or no, ok, etc and it sucks but I learnt that the silence is the best response that you can give when a girl doesn't deserve any of your precious time. Did that ever happened to yo Tripp?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому +6

      If a girl is boring me in conversation, I don't want to talk to her

    • @JorgeGeog
      @JorgeGeog 8 років тому

      well said!

  • @MultiDac3
    @MultiDac3 8 років тому +5

    I saw a few things you suggested and I noticed that I've already done some of them. So you should tell the people who watch these videos to be natural and don't think about EVERY advise they hear from you or their friends!
    Greetings from Colombia :)

  • @marcberg4748
    @marcberg4748 7 років тому +3

    This is some great advice trip thanks man!

  • @ryanlengacher
    @ryanlengacher 5 років тому +5

    You don’t have to be talking 24/7 you can be quite sometimes.

  • @magicalplace3788
    @magicalplace3788 2 роки тому +4

    I usually have a great time with a certain girl and she makes me feel like she's into me, we talk a lot and have fun. But I asked her out a few days ago and she said she's in, but she can only know when she can hang out once she gets her schedule (she lives in another city). Then, yesterday we met along with a group of friends and we barely even talked at all and it was awkward... Wtf is going on??

    • @AlphaForexRobot
      @AlphaForexRobot Рік тому

      Story of my life. I do not like meeting my girlfriends friends. It becomes awkward like we are strangers again.

  • @jahnmiguelgonzales8324
    @jahnmiguelgonzales8324 8 років тому +10

    its effective!!! i try it to my secret crush then she always want to talk with me. thanks tripp!!!!!

    • @handcraftedspecimen8695
      @handcraftedspecimen8695 8 років тому +2

      good for you now I gotta do it tommorow and only if she decides to sit next to me again tommorow

    • @kamposcampos2430
      @kamposcampos2430 7 років тому

      lmfao! same and its working! but i need more flirting and convos to keep the tension "up there". She likes to smile alot at me and flirt alot also but you know its hard. dont know what to do next. her parents dont allow her to go out anywhere. 😑😕

    • @vladislavnazarqih5965
      @vladislavnazarqih5965 7 років тому

      Kampos Campos smooch her! It's time

    • @mayonnaisepipi7052
      @mayonnaisepipi7052 Рік тому

      Well, I'm going to try tommorow 😭

  • @micahlangamin2265
    @micahlangamin2265 8 років тому +11

    lols tried this and found out she saw this vid

  • @parabalani
    @parabalani 6 років тому +3

    I used this, but it was awkward to talk for 10 minutes about the same topic (pets) , it felt like we're interviewing each other about dogs

  • @siahhendrixxx7476
    @siahhendrixxx7476 7 років тому +6

    I enjoy talking about ANYTHING but how do I find out what they would like to talk about

  • @luiscarlosneriaarroyo2198
    @luiscarlosneriaarroyo2198 8 років тому +18

    i know this sounds weird but does anyone know if tripp has a video about how to reject a women?

    • @JohnnyDreddXD
      @JohnnyDreddXD 7 років тому

      luis carlos neria arroyo send them to me and let then know I get them chicken and a horse okay?

    • @BLAKETHEHONERABLE
      @BLAKETHEHONERABLE 6 років тому

      luis carlos neria arroyo just act needy

    • @justhistory7851
      @justhistory7851 6 років тому

      luis carlos neria arroyo Act like you have no life. She will go without you having to reject her.

    • @ABABABABABABABABABABBBBBB
      @ABABABABABABABABABABBBBBB 3 роки тому

      Just History one girl still liked me almost a year after i rejected her and i acted like that, so it won't always work

  • @bobbysayer5801
    @bobbysayer5801 7 років тому +42

    What if she's dead?

    • @sergior8667
      @sergior8667 7 років тому +13

      K_ Mpatzi Fxxx her corpse. (WITH PERMISSION)

    • @Stop906
      @Stop906 7 років тому +7

      K_ Mpatzi use a quija board

    • @jalenbellamy4230
      @jalenbellamy4230 6 років тому +1

      K_ Mpatzi study necromancy

    • @zacattack4452
      @zacattack4452 6 років тому

      Pretend she hears you, you can do many things

    • @plob1132
      @plob1132 5 років тому

      K_ Mpatzi did you mean deaf? Or do you actually mean dead? Lmao

  • @bassmanb_ry1402
    @bassmanb_ry1402 8 років тому +5

    What do you do when you love somebody who has said that she'll avoid you if you don't stop coming on to her?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому

      One, that's not love. Two, don't bother with people who don't want to be bothered. Offer your time and attention to someone who has earned it.

    • @bassmanb_ry1402
      @bassmanb_ry1402 8 років тому

      Is it a bad thing that I'm still gonna try to be friends with her?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому

      It's not bad. It just means that you have a lot of work to do on yourself.

  • @IgnisPyro
    @IgnisPyro 7 років тому +3

    that wall looks great by the way

  • @CockneyRebel1979
    @CockneyRebel1979 Рік тому +1

    Most of MY awkward silences with me family, me girlfriend and me mates tend to happen 'cos I've got sod-all to bloody well talk about!

  • @avaaquilina1644
    @avaaquilina1644 6 років тому +4

    I had a 5 minute awkward silence with my crush yesterday

    • @afonsodeportugal
      @afonsodeportugal 6 років тому +6

      That's like crossing the Pacific swimming... good job! :P

  • @sheikhsameer3917
    @sheikhsameer3917 4 роки тому

    Useful and authentic details

  • @carzorofnuub8869
    @carzorofnuub8869 7 місяців тому

    The best advice is too enjoy a silent moment. If the women can't handle a silent moment then she must not be interested. That weeds out the ones that are not for you. Just let it unfold. If it's meant to be it will be. Do not try to unfold a rose, it will all fall apart anyways. Because she is bored and turned off. If she likes you she will keep the conversation going, and be comfortable with you. Us. Men are simple. Keep it that way. It's not that complicated. Just be you.

  • @cZrust
    @cZrust 2 роки тому +1

    Currently in bed with my gf and this helped me a lot, she didn’t talk for a min and I was like “woah is she mad” but from playing this vid she started talking again. The proof is in the pudding brother! Keep on keeping on 🤠🤠

  • @capricornwolf101
    @capricornwolf101 5 років тому

    Yup..great topic.

  • @javionbolden8295
    @javionbolden8295 8 років тому

    you are so right everyone should go to u for advice

  • @filiptomic3423
    @filiptomic3423 5 років тому +4

    you cant get into an awkward silence if you let her talk ,but first she has to be open to you,girls can talk for hours

    • @Jopie_H
      @Jopie_H 2 роки тому

      Not every girl 🤷‍♂️

  • @thatsteinwaykid
    @thatsteinwaykid 5 років тому

    Thank youuuu!

  • @YayaTASINGANTONIO
    @YayaTASINGANTONIO 2 роки тому

    Before we’re really okay then suddenly we’re feel so awkward this time. I don’t know why.

  • @MrJuniornl
    @MrJuniornl 8 років тому +1

    first!! also make a vid about how to deal with shy girls pls
    i.got her number but she shy and the convos are extremly awkward pls!!

  • @niteeshmishra1073
    @niteeshmishra1073 6 років тому

    Thanks a lot,it really helped a lot .

  • @ts3011ISRL
    @ts3011ISRL 8 років тому

    1)How I'm very good at going in reverse in my car..
    2) why isn't Postum a more popular drink... etc
    just make a list

  • @NYC_Roblox01
    @NYC_Roblox01 Рік тому

    That happens to me everyday I just don’t know what to say and I leave

  • @DukeHoz
    @DukeHoz 7 років тому +2

    i'm more curious about what happens to this guy when a girl ask him what he does for a living or free time and then he says "i teach guys to get girl's numbers"

  • @ChickenKing1999
    @ChickenKing1999 5 років тому +3

    Everytime this happens to me, i ask her if she would like to go to the bar, would like to drink something. On the way to the bar i think you have time to think about a topic for a conversation. This saved my life so many times haha

  • @alinahim302
    @alinahim302 3 роки тому

    Dude you are the only youtuber that understands me

  • @swityeyeb8307
    @swityeyeb8307 7 років тому

    every video I watch about conversation is all urs

  • @Lvl22Cowboy
    @Lvl22Cowboy 2 роки тому

    awkward silences are natural and they happen to both parties in the conversation. Don't be ashamed of being human, try your best.

  • @joesysol3827
    @joesysol3827 2 роки тому

    But If I keep talking and asking her questions and she seems uninterested in talking, I just feel like I’m bothering her

  • @childishsadbino285
    @childishsadbino285 7 років тому +1

    I'm gonna talk to my girlfriend on the phone, this helped thanks :)

  • @mikehunt4333
    @mikehunt4333 3 роки тому

    just got off the phone with my girlfriend,,,we didn't speak or see each other for 6 days but we have been texting everyday ..man it was awkward to find anything to talk about,, we are separated because of corona virus,,, i have options to kill time for myself,,out and about and that,,, while she cant,, for other reasons,, she,s stuck at home,, she said the lock down will make or break us,,,, same for anyone like us,,,, but to me she feels so distant,,, she has no news or anything happening all she can do is ride it out,,, like me and us all... i feel im losing her,,, i hope not,

  • @anthonylock3146
    @anthonylock3146 6 років тому +1

    Jeez I'm just looking for a vid to help me escape the friend zone. Talked about all this shit and Im looking for something to talk to people about who you're already familiar with

  • @MrCakeZombie
    @MrCakeZombie 7 років тому +1

    I've went into interview mode so many times XD

  • @reeceholland2796
    @reeceholland2796 8 років тому +5

    Tripp I can't seem to get over my confidence issue. Mainly due to lots of acne and scars. I take care of myself and treat it. But the damage had already been done. Can I still get super hot girls that have really good skin and just in general are super hot to a majority of guys?

    • @HookupCulture
      @HookupCulture 8 років тому +3

      nope your doomed

    • @wastedgamer7027
      @wastedgamer7027 8 років тому +3

      Penis enlargement is an option 😂

    • @alexis19081
      @alexis19081 8 років тому +2

      Personaly i think if you have a good humorous,interesting personality,you will get almost any girl.

    • @alexis19081
      @alexis19081 8 років тому

      +YourMother Its my personal opinion mate you cant judge be.

    • @DheerajKumar-ws3gp
      @DheerajKumar-ws3gp 8 років тому +2

      +THE CORFU GAMER you must be sentenced to 22 year of imprisonment for this greatest lie ever told on planet Earth..

  • @Ant-yj5mn
    @Ant-yj5mn 6 років тому +1

    "Oh man did you hear about XXX? Rip X" 3:50

    • @osama4889
      @osama4889 5 років тому

      He said xyz dumbass, meaning something random

  • @JammaHeelGrabber
    @JammaHeelGrabber 5 років тому +2

    Watching this when I'm high scares me

  • @timlee2133
    @timlee2133 7 років тому

    Seems like someone has read my last comment huh..haha..this is awesome..keep this up 😘😘👏✌

  • @benquadinaros2210
    @benquadinaros2210 8 років тому

    Hey. What are some creative/funny ways to start a conversation via snapchat?

  • @dogeunkim8448
    @dogeunkim8448 8 років тому

    tripp, big question. theres this girl i like and we were very close and we actually liked each other. but I feel awkward with her now. and we dont talk anymore. I want her love now are there any tips

    • @joker-0723
      @joker-0723 8 років тому

      Not Tripp but curious. What happened?

    • @dogeunkim8448
      @dogeunkim8448 8 років тому

      Joker-07 nothing, we just slowly became awkward at each other and we got further

    • @joker-0723
      @joker-0723 8 років тому +1

      Take her out sometime. Ask how she is and see if you can get the ball rolling again and if you can, ask if she'd want to go to a special event.

  • @rishabhchak
    @rishabhchak 8 років тому

    hey bro can I ask some questions to the girl in phone which you have made a video of .. 36 questions to hack mind?

  • @dakady4180
    @dakady4180 4 роки тому

    After watching that, I dont know whenever peopel is flirting or avoiding awkward silences

  • @orviv7880
    @orviv7880 8 років тому

    what to do if girl is ignoring but I know her and she too, at the beginning she been talking with me often, but not now

  • @吃不饱的八万二饼-y6l
    @吃不饱的八万二饼-y6l 8 років тому

    So I have this girl that I have talked to very little and after a few text I asked her out and we agreed on a date... Then she canceled and rescheduled for next weekend I still have to wait a week and I'm a bad texter and flirting guy we haven't spent time in person but 5 minutes talking and I don't know how often I should text her or what to say when I do please help me soon fast please... This is a girl I spent my childhood with and just remet each other after 8 years and we still have that attraction for each other. Should I try to text her everyday or skip days? I have watched just about every video and I don't feel like I have what I need

    • @吃不饱的八万二饼-y6l
      @吃不饱的八万二饼-y6l 8 років тому +1

      we are both 17 and in highschool we live an hour away and we both want to go on this day but I don't know how to keep her into me until this date

    • @Adweit11
      @Adweit11 8 років тому

      +Lostpancake Z coach corey wayne is who u need in this situation

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому

      If you watch videos on what to do and won't do something because you don't feel like you have what you need, then you're wasting your time. Don't wait until you feel a certain way to do what you need to do. Watch them again, wait for a part that resonates with your situation and do what is suggested.

  • @nanawana2
    @nanawana2 5 років тому

    What if you are a girl trying to get with a girl will it work

  • @rhithym
    @rhithym 7 років тому +1

    thank the lord for youtube having the feature to speed up the video. This video is just too slow lol

  • @peregilson1283
    @peregilson1283 8 років тому

    How long takes it to get a girlfriend trippadvice?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому +1

      There is no answer to this because every person and situation is unique. Don't worry about how long it will take to accomplish something. Just focus on doing what it takes to do it. ua-cam.com/video/_PofkErxLUY/v-deo.html

  • @coolguy23gaming45
    @coolguy23gaming45 8 років тому

    I meet this girl and later that day my friend thought I should ask her to hangout, and now she won't talk to me because she thinks I'm an weirdo for trying to hangout the first day we meet. It's my own fault for listening to my friend, but what should I do!

    • @CPTAwesome9000
      @CPTAwesome9000 8 років тому

      Snatch and grab

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому

      Next time don't try moving so fast with a girl you just met. For now, learn from this and try not to make the same mistake in the future.

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 8 років тому

    i've felt for quite some time now that social-skills, conversation-skills, benefit men more than women

  • @stikowski3375
    @stikowski3375 8 років тому

    hey how do you ask a girl out you have asked out befor like she said shell date me later in the year... so what do i do

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому +6

      When a girl says she'll go out with you "at a later date" it means she doesn't really want to go out with you. Have enough respect for your time to not put up with people who will be glad to help you waste it. YOLO

  • @HighVoltage1871
    @HighVoltage1871 7 років тому +2

    Instructions unclear
    asked her out on the first attempt

  • @bradcleary8811
    @bradcleary8811 5 років тому +2

    Girl is chasing me but she isn't good at keeping up the conversation lol

  • @091MW2
    @091MW2 8 років тому +8

    if you like the girl though, its hard to listen to her

  • @riceguam8497
    @riceguam8497 6 років тому

    This happen to me on my first date with my Crush yesterday

  • @_FLOROID_
    @_FLOROID_ 7 років тому

    Need Help Tripp!
    What if there's a girl, that I have exchanged with about pretty much any topic regarding her and my interests, thoughts and so and so forth are. We aren't quite talky when we're together though I tend to be very talky around people other than her. There are awkward silences very often and I really can't ask her about herself in these situations, because I can't figure anything out, that I don't know about her. All the topics that pop into my mind then, are problems, that she has, which obviously don't make her feel very comfortable. So this lets our conversations be not very deep and so on...
    btw I know It might seem a little awkward that I know her so well though we're having a hard time talking fluently with each other now, but just see it as given. It's a long story so don't mind that fact ^^

  • @rookieprofesional6898
    @rookieprofesional6898 5 років тому +5

    I'm I the only who starts a convo with "sooooooooooooo how's life"

  • @LuffyMugiwara-n1s
    @LuffyMugiwara-n1s 22 дні тому

    Nahh bro there's this particular girl who confess to me and where starting to go out on a date you know like getting to know each other but bruhh 😭 i dont know how to break awkward silence

  • @siliev333
    @siliev333 7 років тому

    nope i dont like talking about myself