How To Avoid Awkward Silences With A Girl

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  • @TrippAdvice
    @TrippAdvice  3 роки тому +21

    For more ways to avoid awkward silences with a girl and always have something interesting to talk about, be sure to watch CHICK CRACK: 4 Conversation Topics Women Go Crazy For ► www.trippadvice.com/chick-crack.

  • @SiddhantTyagiST
    @SiddhantTyagiST 7 років тому +1195

    Pro tips: Chase goals not girls. They will eventually chase you

    • @richardvargas3308
      @richardvargas3308 7 років тому +39

      Single Boys what if you go for both ;)

    • @1179125
      @1179125 6 років тому +17

      ali t and kinda ironic.

    • @satan4403
      @satan4403 6 років тому +27

      thats not that true, doesn't really matter what you chase in terms of your goals in the end you have to approach the girl....enless its like a work thing or something.

    • @yashverma4204
      @yashverma4204 6 років тому +26

      Single Boys Issac Newton died a virgin.

    • @preritjha
      @preritjha 6 років тому +3

      ali that was a banger

  • @jmjosemora16
    @jmjosemora16 8 років тому +87

    Can i just talk about aliens, good food, space and cars😎

    • @Atlstreetpodcast2.0
      @Atlstreetpodcast2.0 7 років тому +4

      as long as u have confidence, it's all about energy...

    • @satan4403
      @satan4403 6 років тому +5

      there are 30 billion planets in our galaxie alone, so the thought of human like life elsewhere is not irrational

    • @patrick280zx
      @patrick280zx 5 років тому

      KikoMickey64 That’s the same with me, I also talk to my friend girl about cars, food she likes and other stuff.

    • @jmjosemora16
      @jmjosemora16 3 роки тому

      @@patrick280zx does she have a sister older then 21 🤨

  • @jahnmiguelgonzales8324
    @jahnmiguelgonzales8324 8 років тому +10

    its effective!!! i try it to my secret crush then she always want to talk with me. thanks tripp!!!!!

    • @handcraftedspecimen8695
      @handcraftedspecimen8695 8 років тому +2

      good for you now I gotta do it tommorow and only if she decides to sit next to me again tommorow

    • @kamposcampos2430
      @kamposcampos2430 7 років тому

      lmfao! same and its working! but i need more flirting and convos to keep the tension "up there". She likes to smile alot at me and flirt alot also but you know its hard. dont know what to do next. her parents dont allow her to go out anywhere. 😑😕

    • @vladislavnazarqih5965
      @vladislavnazarqih5965 6 років тому

      Kampos Campos smooch her! It's time

    • @mayonnaisepipi7052
      @mayonnaisepipi7052 Рік тому

      Well, I'm going to try tommorow 😭

  • @orviv7880
    @orviv7880 8 років тому

    what to do if girl is ignoring but I know her and she too, at the beginning she been talking with me often, but not now

  • @freespy8260
    @freespy8260 7 років тому

    I need this
    its easter
    My mind goes blank, I did not see her

  • @overlordjenkins8885
    @overlordjenkins8885 7 років тому

    don't talk about how awkward the moment is with the girl, cuz they find that cringy and it gets worse

  • @jessevanderheijden5208
    @jessevanderheijden5208 8 років тому

    fuck autoplay.....

  • @bigjayfitness
    @bigjayfitness 8 років тому +397

    I think if you are constantly having awkward silences, either you two don't have too much in common, or you two are extremely nervous. What I actually do when I'm kind of into a girl to 'test' her, is I always start the conversation (say at work, or school with a girl), but then one random day, I will just say "hi", and I won't say anything else. If its in school and I'm sitting next to her, and she doesn't want to start the conversation after I had done so at least 3 times, then that's a clear sign shes not interested. Same goes for these awkward silences..you shouldn't be the one who has to break them every time. If shes not putting an effort into the conversation, it just won't work out. Trying to force anything usually never works

    • @yespleease5102
      @yespleease5102 7 років тому +9

      Jason 56 I'm like really shy in that kind of sense. So it wouldn't really work with ppl like me

    • @yespleease5102
      @yespleease5102 7 років тому +2

      jk I'm a girl

    • @Tech-vk2zk
      @Tech-vk2zk 6 років тому

      Vioria ayyy nope

    • @brendanfogel4573
      @brendanfogel4573 4 роки тому +8

      Jason 56 bro it’s so hard to explain but I know already know this girl is in love with me from all her friends. She has like really bad socializing skills. I had to ask all the questions and everytime I asked her to do something such as “what’s your favorite restaurant” she literally says idk to everything. She texted me tho that she is really weird and can’t think when she is with a guy she likes... I do like her tho. Like for me if I get in a relationship I will stick to the I don’t take them lightly I just need her to open up. We cuddled a lot in my car just taking. At least like 4 hours in total... idk

    • @notyouraverage1saiah660
      @notyouraverage1saiah660 3 роки тому +1

      @@brendanfogel4573 u fuck fogal?

  • @davidndiulor8428
    @davidndiulor8428 7 років тому +518

    If it happens a second time... *MISSION FAILED: we'll get 'em next time.*

  • @wastedgamer7027
    @wastedgamer7027 8 років тому +290

    What if she is deaf?

    • @sergior8667
      @sergior8667 7 років тому +41

      Wasted Gamer 👌🏼👈🏽?

    • @AustGamingAG
      @AustGamingAG 7 років тому +9

      Wasted Gamer write on notes or message her

    • @fitton27
      @fitton27 6 років тому +6

      Abc Abc finger her ring?

    • @jennapapa16
      @jennapapa16 6 років тому +1

      Wasted Gamer learn asl or pse and speak to her by that

    • @killbotbaggins4223
      @killbotbaggins4223 6 років тому +2

      Then marry her on the spot

  • @lordburritothe1st721
    @lordburritothe1st721 7 років тому +131

    Instructions unclear, child started crying when I tried talking to it

  • @GarryBurgess
    @GarryBurgess 7 років тому +74

    Embrace the awkward silence, use your eyes at that point to communicate. There's nothing at all wrong with silence, and it can be a demonstration of confidence to not feel the need to ask meaningless questions.

  • @callumdepasquale3935
    @callumdepasquale3935 7 років тому +237

    I hate talking about myself... Am I the only one

    • @ashprasad9075
      @ashprasad9075 7 років тому +2

      same

    • @theabuellemator1159
      @theabuellemator1159 6 років тому +2

      Welcome To The Club Buddy

    • @stamatisvragas7720
      @stamatisvragas7720 6 років тому +5

      I used to be in you club guys. I then just stopped carrying about girls and I went to chase my dreams while having crazy experiences. After that you will want to talk about yourself too

    • @Expatnema
      @Expatnema 6 років тому

      Callum De Pasquale
      Same. I freak out everytime

    • @McconneIIRet
      @McconneIIRet 3 роки тому +3

      If I don't want to talk to a girl, I'll just talk about myself until she leaves.

  • @IgnisPyro
    @IgnisPyro 7 років тому +309

    so this morning i took a girl to starbucks after school, and we sat there and litterally talked for three full hours... might wanna give her a go actually

    • @ventusvacuum4129
      @ventusvacuum4129 7 років тому +22

      pyrofun 050 did you get her?

    • @jayluis189
      @jayluis189 7 років тому +7

      pyrofun 050 ??? What happened?

    • @keneilclarke8306
      @keneilclarke8306 6 років тому +22

      Did you talk to her maybe the person who owned the account died

    • @thatissomebadhatharry4801
      @thatissomebadhatharry4801 6 років тому +30

      Ignis Pyro he is still talking obviously

    • @arro613
      @arro613 6 років тому +15

      Bro your conversation skills are amazing

  • @Vogo
    @Vogo 8 років тому +116

    Going to a party : a)shirt ? check ! b)pants ? check! c)awesome hairstyle ? check ! d)Awkward Silence question ? check!

    • @yipperdeyip
      @yipperdeyip 8 років тому +19

      Awkward silence? Check!

    • @Vogo
      @Vogo 8 років тому +9

      NasIsLike well dont really need to take it with me .. it kinda appears outta no where

    • @fingermydickholeandspitonm2171
      @fingermydickholeandspitonm2171 7 років тому

      check? check

    • @itzphobia9973
      @itzphobia9973 6 років тому

      Dude you forgot the most important thing. Brush your teeth! I've defeated my "shyness" by making sure I have clean teeth and good breath. It's crazy how much confidence I gain after eating some mints.

  • @russell_rozenbaum
    @russell_rozenbaum 5 років тому +18

    *Awkard Silence*
    *Me* - “So uh, yeah... they did surgery on a grape”

    • @brucewyatt9980
      @brucewyatt9980 5 років тому +4

      Russell Rozenbaum holy shit you’re ugly

  • @Taunimus
    @Taunimus 7 років тому +33

    I hate the case when the other person isnt saying anything and u just hae to keep on going talking bullshit.
    Then i continiue with basic stuff and smalltalk and try to go deeper into some topics but some people just dont seem to be interested into talking and then I get totally tired of being the one who talks the whole time.
    Then i punch them right in the face and just leave :D
    Ok just kidding... i punch them twice and run

    • @jaman198
      @jaman198 6 років тому +5

      Taunimus then the girl just stares at your blankly and you expect them to say something after going on for 10 minutes. Like damn it feels like you're talking to a wall

  • @kieranwatts4975
    @kieranwatts4975 6 років тому +105

    If a girl says, I wouldn’t sleep with you, if we were the last people on earth, just say well if we were the last people on earth who’s gonna stop me.😂😂

  • @thepaxbisonica4742
    @thepaxbisonica4742 7 років тому +40

    Thanks man... usually when there is an awkward silence I'm like "Ummmm, so.... do you like.... stuff?"
    :)

  • @psihopats760
    @psihopats760 8 років тому +259

    could you make more live conversations whit girls, its more easyer to learn :)

    • @EducatedIdiocy
      @EducatedIdiocy 8 років тому +35

      If only it was easier for you to spell.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому +67

      working on it

    • @waltervillacorta32
      @waltervillacorta32 8 років тому

      +NarutoFan 555 lol

    • @brento2890
      @brento2890 7 років тому +8

      I would to see trip in a bar talking to girls he does not know! Because the girl that he uses knows what's going on.

    • @rubin1659
      @rubin1659 6 років тому

      o

  • @jonathonbagwell5892
    @jonathonbagwell5892 Рік тому +5

    With picking up girls you don’t have to do all that. It comes down to one thing, confidence

  • @joninurmela1291
    @joninurmela1291 6 років тому +61

    I'm afraid of talking to girls because awkward silences
    Update: Just found this comment and now I have had a gf for 1,5 years, at the start had a few awkward silences but it'll get better

  • @RonanAquilius
    @RonanAquilius 6 років тому +67

    if silence is awkward then you are not comfortable with that person

    • @isabelle1251
      @isabelle1251 5 років тому +4

      2vain4u this made me feel sad because it’s so true 😂

    • @isaacnuketon
      @isaacnuketon 3 роки тому

      Thing is I’m pretty sure she likes me because she always says hi to me and always sits near me even when I’m minding my own business just I’m too nervous to say anything because i don’t want to say anything that makes her feel uncomfortable or annoyed

    • @hewrotetokyo
      @hewrotetokyo 2 роки тому

      @Jimmy Williams YESSS I CAN RELATE

  • @jayj8726
    @jayj8726 7 років тому +104

    What if there are guys like me who like it silent and only want a woman open her mouth when she is on her knees?

  • @AllTheNamesIPickedWereTaken
    @AllTheNamesIPickedWereTaken 7 років тому +39

    Usually for me it's the girl who can't keep a conversation going. Whenever I try to shift the conversation her way she just throws it back to me, but fortunately I literally never run out of things to talk about. Is that a good thing or bad thing?

  • @KnightMD
    @KnightMD 7 років тому +15

    "So what do you like doing"
    "Nothing"
    "What do you wish you had time to do?"
    "Not much"
    "Really?"
    "Uh (sigh) ok learn a second language."
    "You already speak a second language"
    "Mmm-hmm"
    .... something she just doesn't want to say anything.

  • @Joemama-cu9fz
    @Joemama-cu9fz 6 років тому +23

    It happened to me once, I was with this girl at dinner. We were talking so much and suddenly a silence. I felt awkward and awful, so I started chewing my food to make it look like I can’t talk. The silence lasted for like 20 seconds, but I kept my cool and stayed calm. I just waited it out, and suddenly again we started talking.

  • @18TheFinal
    @18TheFinal 8 років тому +17

    10 seconds is a long time for silence? damn, I've been having some *SI-LENCE*.

  • @tomthefish6064
    @tomthefish6064 7 років тому +13

    I work at McDonald's where you're basically forced to make small talk, to a lot of people, all the fucking time.
    I'm working on it. Some people are great to talk too and others are like a wall.
    What I picked up is:
    .Comment on your environment
    . Find ways to lightly insult people (emphasis on lightly)
    . Open ended questions
    . Most of the talk *is* small talk, so learn it.
    . Just chat whatever comes to your head basically, people want substance to talk off from.
    . Talk clearly
    . Eye contact
    . Confidence

  • @dddaaa6128
    @dddaaa6128 6 років тому +8

    the problem is, i m having awkard silences not only with girls but with members of my family, taxi drivers, old people and neighbors and etc. guess i m an all around awkard person.

    • @aronzetenyi6595
      @aronzetenyi6595 9 місяців тому

      same, i even have these awkward moments with my friends when it's just me and my friend in a situation.

  • @micahlangamin2265
    @micahlangamin2265 8 років тому +11

    lols tried this and found out she saw this vid

  • @gyranos716
    @gyranos716 4 роки тому +13

    Thanks for the video.
    My problem is not even just with girls, I generally can't talk with people without having a moment of awkward silence

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 7 років тому +19

    Finally there's someone pointed out this kind of awkward situation. Even me can't handle this kind of pressure in regards to the silence between you and your date. Now I know how to keep the conversation get going. This is really helpful in attracting someone to be part of your life.

  • @robby7997
    @robby7997 8 років тому +13

    I find the best way to avoid awkward silences is to not feel awkward. If you sit there and not let it bother you (showing confidence) she will continue the conversation almost every time. Of course this does not work if you just met her and are getting her number, but on a fist date it does if she is just a little bit interested in you

  • @sashkynok5757
    @sashkynok5757 8 років тому +20

    but what do i have to say if she doesn't want that I ask her questions???

  • @wildcat6669
    @wildcat6669 7 років тому +56

    use headphones.

  • @RF-sk7fl
    @RF-sk7fl 8 років тому +22

    I actually don't believe I should learn how to escape/avoid silence. I'd rather teach myself to stay calm and grounded so that silence won't be awkward anymore.
    this reminds me of a quote, it says, True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable.
    also, the only thing that will make you better at a conversation is having more knowledge and experiencing/learning different things in life.
    these tips are only useful for the short term impression you leave on someone.

    • @HookupCulture
      @HookupCulture 8 років тому +6

      we dont want to be friends.
      we want a partner.

    • @TheLegionUnited
      @TheLegionUnited 8 років тому

      no bro, you got it all wrong. Avoid awkward silences by maintaining conversation, you cant have comfortable silence right from the start.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому

      Great approach.

    • @Vize_Iron
      @Vize_Iron Рік тому

      That quote is very true. My friend that lives down the road, me and him hangout almost everyday. I love him like he's my little brother. We can just sit in silence for as long as we want and it's not uncomfortable at all. Like I'll ask to come over if I'm bored or something, and we will just sit there and not talk for a while. It's just comforting knowing I have someone there.

  • @SimpForYoruichi
    @SimpForYoruichi 8 років тому +44

    Trip you're the best

  • @Dante343
    @Dante343 5 років тому +9

    Some girls are private so asking them questions about anything is bad. It just chases them away

  • @bobbysayer5801
    @bobbysayer5801 7 років тому +42

    What if she's dead?

    • @sergior8667
      @sergior8667 7 років тому +13

      K_ Mpatzi Fxxx her corpse. (WITH PERMISSION)

    • @Stop906
      @Stop906 7 років тому +7

      K_ Mpatzi use a quija board

    • @jalenbellamy4230
      @jalenbellamy4230 6 років тому +1

      K_ Mpatzi study necromancy

    • @zacattack4452
      @zacattack4452 6 років тому

      Pretend she hears you, you can do many things

    • @plob1132
      @plob1132 5 років тому

      K_ Mpatzi did you mean deaf? Or do you actually mean dead? Lmao

  • @luiscarlosneriaarroyo2198
    @luiscarlosneriaarroyo2198 8 років тому +18

    i know this sounds weird but does anyone know if tripp has a video about how to reject a women?

    • @JohnnyDreddXD
      @JohnnyDreddXD 7 років тому

      luis carlos neria arroyo send them to me and let then know I get them chicken and a horse okay?

    • @BLAKETHEHONERABLE
      @BLAKETHEHONERABLE 6 років тому

      luis carlos neria arroyo just act needy

    • @justhistory7851
      @justhistory7851 6 років тому

      luis carlos neria arroyo Act like you have no life. She will go without you having to reject her.

    • @ABABABABABABABABABABBBBBB
      @ABABABABABABABABABABBBBBB 3 роки тому

      Just History one girl still liked me almost a year after i rejected her and i acted like that, so it won't always work

  • @ryanlengacher
    @ryanlengacher 4 роки тому +5

    You don’t have to be talking 24/7 you can be quite sometimes.

  • @drakdemay6984
    @drakdemay6984 7 років тому +35

    Trip these are wonderful suggestions that you're giving us. The golden question I've got for you is how to approach large groups of ladies by myself. With no wingman or Wing . I'm open to any suggestion you may have because it's a true challenge for a pickup artist lady

    • @drakdemay6984
      @drakdemay6984 7 років тому +1

      I'm sorry with no wing lady. And this would be a Mastercraft for any Pick Up Artist

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  4 роки тому +3

      ua-cam.com/video/Nfrxv4K4_BQ/v-deo.html

    • @Uelchito
      @Uelchito 4 роки тому +6

      Tripp Advice two years later but you still did it lol good shit

    • @danieldupreezswa1095
      @danieldupreezswa1095 4 роки тому +2

      Two YEARS later😂😂

  • @Ch8361
    @Ch8361 7 років тому +3

    What the fuck am I doing here

  • @091MW2
    @091MW2 8 років тому +8

    if you like the girl though, its hard to listen to her

  • @siahhendrixxx7476
    @siahhendrixxx7476 7 років тому +6

    I enjoy talking about ANYTHING but how do I find out what they would like to talk about

  • @billynunez6452
    @billynunez6452 7 років тому +5

    i love how you explain this kind of stuff great job thank you u help me alot

  • @magicalplace3788
    @magicalplace3788 2 роки тому +4

    I usually have a great time with a certain girl and she makes me feel like she's into me, we talk a lot and have fun. But I asked her out a few days ago and she said she's in, but she can only know when she can hang out once she gets her schedule (she lives in another city). Then, yesterday we met along with a group of friends and we barely even talked at all and it was awkward... Wtf is going on??

    • @AlphaForexRobot
      @AlphaForexRobot Рік тому

      Story of my life. I do not like meeting my girlfriends friends. It becomes awkward like we are strangers again.

  • @avaaquilina1644
    @avaaquilina1644 6 років тому +4

    I had a 5 minute awkward silence with my crush yesterday

    • @afonsodeportugal
      @afonsodeportugal 5 років тому +6

      That's like crossing the Pacific swimming... good job! :P

  • @CockneyRebel1979
    @CockneyRebel1979 Рік тому +1

    Most of MY awkward silences with me family, me girlfriend and me mates tend to happen 'cos I've got sod-all to bloody well talk about!

  • @filiptomic3423
    @filiptomic3423 5 років тому +4

    you cant get into an awkward silence if you let her talk ,but first she has to be open to you,girls can talk for hours

    • @Jopie_H
      @Jopie_H Рік тому

      Not every girl 🤷‍♂️

  • @parabalani
    @parabalani 6 років тому +3

    I used this, but it was awkward to talk for 10 minutes about the same topic (pets) , it felt like we're interviewing each other about dogs

  • @henryteccsi4687
    @henryteccsi4687 8 років тому +142

    Who here wants to learn about God?

    • @Nick-ld3zq
      @Nick-ld3zq 8 років тому +13

      Henry Teccsi no one

    • @stevensosa5995
      @stevensosa5995 8 років тому +5

      Henry Teccsi of course

    • @henryteccsi4687
      @henryteccsi4687 8 років тому +2

      Steven Sosa what do you wanna learn?

    • @Kunumbah1
      @Kunumbah1 8 років тому +2

      Henry Teccsi Where did he come from?

    • @tylerhicks5742
      @tylerhicks5742 8 років тому +1

      Boom hahah there goes that conversation!

  • @user-V711
    @user-V711 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks man been hanging out with a girl for 3 weeks now and been a bit awkward so far despite her being my gf now , she's shy and she makes me shy too
    Thx for the advice, really appreciate it

    • @is8179
      @is8179 2 роки тому

      bro literally same. any tips??

  • @JorgeGeog
    @JorgeGeog 8 років тому +5

    I have to get this thing out of my chest: There were times that I tried to keep the conversation going with girls and in many cases, they just dropped short answers like yes or no, ok, etc and it sucks but I learnt that the silence is the best response that you can give when a girl doesn't deserve any of your precious time. Did that ever happened to yo Tripp?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому +6

      If a girl is boring me in conversation, I don't want to talk to her

    • @JorgeGeog
      @JorgeGeog 8 років тому

      well said!

  • @bassmanb_ry1402
    @bassmanb_ry1402 8 років тому +5

    What do you do when you love somebody who has said that she'll avoid you if you don't stop coming on to her?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому

      One, that's not love. Two, don't bother with people who don't want to be bothered. Offer your time and attention to someone who has earned it.

    • @bassmanb_ry1402
      @bassmanb_ry1402 8 років тому

      Is it a bad thing that I'm still gonna try to be friends with her?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  8 років тому

      It's not bad. It just means that you have a lot of work to do on yourself.

  • @rookieprofesional6898
    @rookieprofesional6898 5 років тому +5

    I'm I the only who starts a convo with "sooooooooooooo how's life"

  • @DavidSanchez-bh5qg
    @DavidSanchez-bh5qg 3 роки тому +3

    I’m in a video call with my gf and it’s almost complete silence. someone shoot me please 😩

  • @BEATmyguest31
    @BEATmyguest31 3 роки тому +1

    Insert Pulp Fiction quote here

  • @fxstdribbler6427
    @fxstdribbler6427 4 роки тому +1

    Ask open ended questions

  • @marcberg4748
    @marcberg4748 7 років тому +3

    This is some great advice trip thanks man!

  • @NYC_Roblox01
    @NYC_Roblox01 Рік тому

    That happens to me everyday I just don’t know what to say and I leave

  • @IgnisPyro
    @IgnisPyro 7 років тому +3

    that wall looks great by the way

  • @cZrust
    @cZrust 2 роки тому +1

    Currently in bed with my gf and this helped me a lot, she didn’t talk for a min and I was like “woah is she mad” but from playing this vid she started talking again. The proof is in the pudding brother! Keep on keeping on 🤠🤠

  • @HighVoltage1871
    @HighVoltage1871 7 років тому +2

    Instructions unclear
    asked her out on the first attempt

  • @KeaHM
    @KeaHM 7 років тому +2

    i'm more curious about what happens to this guy when a girl ask him what he does for a living or free time and then he says "i teach guys to get girl's numbers"

  • @bradcleary8811
    @bradcleary8811 5 років тому +2

    Girl is chasing me but she isn't good at keeping up the conversation lol

  • @MultiDac3
    @MultiDac3 8 років тому +5

    I saw a few things you suggested and I noticed that I've already done some of them. So you should tell the people who watch these videos to be natural and don't think about EVERY advise they hear from you or their friends!
    Greetings from Colombia :)

  • @anthonylock3146
    @anthonylock3146 6 років тому +1

    Jeez I'm just looking for a vid to help me escape the friend zone. Talked about all this shit and Im looking for something to talk to people about who you're already familiar with

  • @yakineben759
    @yakineben759 8 років тому +2

    Damn i should have watched this before i make an atempet

  • @gamesheep-gb2bs
    @gamesheep-gb2bs 7 років тому +1

    I usually try ti think of questions but they feel stupid. just remember questions are what people love. They love talking about themselves.

  • @thetruereality2
    @thetruereality2 7 років тому +1

    I don't understand why is it a guys job to keep the conversation going ?
    Is the girl absolutely having NOTHING to lose here? Why can't both of them understand or even empathise towards each other and just be okay with little bit of unwanted silence. There is always a lot of pressure put ONLY and COMPLETELY on the guys to break the awkward silence and why is he judged for NOT being able to do so?

  • @carzorofnuub8869
    @carzorofnuub8869 6 місяців тому

    The best advice is too enjoy a silent moment. If the women can't handle a silent moment then she must not be interested. That weeds out the ones that are not for you. Just let it unfold. If it's meant to be it will be. Do not try to unfold a rose, it will all fall apart anyways. Because she is bored and turned off. If she likes you she will keep the conversation going, and be comfortable with you. Us. Men are simple. Keep it that way. It's not that complicated. Just be you.

  • @alinahim302
    @alinahim302 3 роки тому +1

    Dude your starting speech,just made me subscribe,it like you know bruh

  • @rhithym
    @rhithym 7 років тому +1

    thank the lord for youtube having the feature to speed up the video. This video is just too slow lol

  • @Lx-cg7nm
    @Lx-cg7nm 7 років тому +1

    Well she asked for my number... And uuhh I told her I didn't have a sim haha
    She went lookin for someone else

  • @JammaHeelGrabber
    @JammaHeelGrabber 5 років тому +2

    Watching this when I'm high scares me

  • @netstatgrep
    @netstatgrep 5 років тому +1

    Nah, just watch a lot of TV series, movies and try to do a lot of things everyday and talk about them the next day.

  • @childishsadbino285
    @childishsadbino285 7 років тому +1

    I'm gonna talk to my girlfriend on the phone, this helped thanks :)

  • @joesysol3827
    @joesysol3827 2 роки тому

    But If I keep talking and asking her questions and she seems uninterested in talking, I just feel like I’m bothering her

  • @luizgabe6638
    @luizgabe6638 7 років тому +1

    u could play a new Mr Fantantic in the next Fox movie

  • @marleythefrenchbulldog4237
    @marleythefrenchbulldog4237 3 роки тому +1

    I’m talking to this gamer girl soon. Wish me luck

  • @emadmoha6605
    @emadmoha6605 7 років тому +1

    Dude! Sam Harris is a really well-rounded person..

  • @emilyaughe6455
    @emilyaughe6455 6 років тому

    He said "guys allover the world" bitch I am a bi girl trying not to be weird around my gf

  • @YayaTASINGANTONIO
    @YayaTASINGANTONIO 2 роки тому

    Before we’re really okay then suddenly we’re feel so awkward this time. I don’t know why.

  • @SocialVert
    @SocialVert 8 років тому +1

    just do it.. like Nike

  • @danielmuigai6391
    @danielmuigai6391 2 роки тому

    But sometimes some girls don't open up. Now what do you do here?

  • @joshdill277
    @joshdill277 Рік тому

    I love how this is on the man when they freeze up not me an it makes me not understand

  • @antonellarattini
    @antonellarattini 4 роки тому +1

    Why am I watching this if i'm a girl.

  • @MrCakeZombie
    @MrCakeZombie 7 років тому +1

    I've went into interview mode so many times XD

  • @MrJuniornl
    @MrJuniornl 8 років тому +1

    first!! also make a vid about how to deal with shy girls pls
    i.got her number but she shy and the convos are extremly awkward pls!!

  • @moclipsintrix9396
    @moclipsintrix9396 3 роки тому

    its free....only thing i heard😑

  • @nanipanani9026
    @nanipanani9026 3 роки тому

    So how long have you been a girl…?

  • @asanatakele5259
    @asanatakele5259 2 роки тому

    I get 00000 knowledge in this video

  • @mikehunt4333
    @mikehunt4333 3 роки тому

    just got off the phone with my girlfriend,,,we didn't speak or see each other for 6 days but we have been texting everyday ..man it was awkward to find anything to talk about,, we are separated because of corona virus,,, i have options to kill time for myself,,out and about and that,,, while she cant,, for other reasons,, she,s stuck at home,, she said the lock down will make or break us,,,, same for anyone like us,,,, but to me she feels so distant,,, she has no news or anything happening all she can do is ride it out,,, like me and us all... i feel im losing her,,, i hope not,

  • @juleousdiaz6842
    @juleousdiaz6842 5 років тому

    How do you get a girl asking you for their phone number because mine's really crazy likes to hit I don't want to hurt me so don't know if you really know how to do that cuz because I can't talk she's she talks into a different language I can't understand and I just say yes to which is really awkward so you can help if you guys wake up in the morning send me a text down but

  • @pargrahipraani
    @pargrahipraani 7 років тому

    What if the girl is less talkative? I'm a bit talkative n bring up topics but she doesn't follow em after answering...
    Also she doesn't remember our conversations... Is that normal?! Cuz I remember each n every thing...
    PS. I don't love her... Lol

  • @gumballwatterson8704
    @gumballwatterson8704 3 роки тому

    Sup fellow middle schoolers

  • @ts3011ISRL
    @ts3011ISRL 7 років тому

    1)How I'm very good at going in reverse in my car..
    2) why isn't Postum a more popular drink... etc
    just make a list