What is this...rejection...you speak of? Tip: If she let's you touch/stroke her hair then she will PROBABLY let you kiss her. Try complimenting her hairstyle before lightly touching or taking a piece of fluff out. If she flinches, then she probably isn't ready for a kiss. Yet. Hope this helps. ;)
If she rejects your kiss, you look her in the eyes, laugh and say: "tease. That's it. The wedding is off." Then when she laughs/responds you simply change the subject to something else and brush it off like you don't care. Truth is, once you learn to read women's signals you will RARELY have this issue. I honestly haven't had it in years.
@@milindbebarta2226 this is brilliant lol.The weddings off?Even made me laugh,the best way to respond to a rejection is making a laugh out of it instead of being serious and sad,sometimes a girl will try to test you and see how you'll react in that situation
Rejection Isn't Real! I'm so glad I watched this video before I went on my first date with my new friend Sammie a few days ago. We were curdled up by the edge of Lake Michigan talking, and she tells me that, "Guys from Chicago are bad kissers," I took it as a lead in to kiss her. I gently grabbed her chin and started moving closer, but she said no. I used the line and she laughed her ass off.... Fast forward like 20 minutes, we're walking down the side walk and she stops and gets entranced by these trees with the fall colored leaves and she pulls me into being infront of her, plays with the strings on my jacket, and just, "ok" and we kissed..... She even admitted that, in that moment where she was actually confusing me with the entrancement of the trees, that she was trying to make one of those "perfect moments" that we guys try to aim for when we try to kiss a girl for the first time...... I love all the advice you give, it really has helped me shift my mind set when it comes with rejections from girls. It's helped me stay cool and calm in the face of rejection and I've even been able to turn things around a few times.
I checked all your videos about this topic and I tried everything you said yesterday with a girl... and i failed miserably, but at least i'm happy that i tried. You are right, rejection isn't that bad. Thanks dude.
+Zhao Gao (warning: long post in bound) if you mean thats just something women say to be a challenge, or its her problem if she is romanticly involved with someone else, then i can only say: 1. women that play mindgames and try to look to have more valueable by saying things like that, that they already have a boyfriend, playing on the "we always want things that we cannot get" mentally, then that person is not a good match for me. 2. being the one, that makes her cheat on her boyfriend is just a recipe for drama which i dont want i my life. And if she is the kind of women that cheats, how would that really makes for someone you wanna be with? to me thats just one big red flag. in another note, i experienced this to a Halloween party last night. There where this girl that flirted with me big time. She asked me directly if i liked her. i paused and look at her intensely. I said yes i did. She then said "really? i interpret it in a different way." Then she left the Dancefloor where we where standing. I played it cool, and let her leave, rather than do the dumb thing, and chase after her. So after that she came back waveing at me to come and dance. So we did - very close eventually. During the evening things when on like that, really firting. Eventually to a point where her face was really close to mine, and we held eye contact. Man! i wanted to kiss her, but i also wanted things to go slow, and know what she is about. then at one point she takes out her phone. "who are you calling?" i asked. "my boyfriend" she answered. ...rect :D reflecting on it, the whole thing to me seems like she needed a fix of attention from someone else than her boyfriend. Maybe things are a bit stale in their relationship; what do i know. I liked the flirt we had but, if its just to boost her ego, to know that she can still get the attention of other men, then i dont wanna do anything further than that. Because its just a red flag of drama.
Zhao Gao hah lol :D well i can sure as hell tell you when we where dancing very close, that kinda crossed my mind :D but lets see - we go to the same uni so i might meet her again. And as much as principles are a good thing to go by, i might just feel like making her taste my portuguese chouriça as you called it :D
Rejection isn't real. I have never been rejected for a kiss because I've always waited until I was 100% certain there was no chance of rejection. I need to take more risks.
nobodysperfect06 Yeah but I'm not saying that's a good thing. It's mostly because I wait until I'm 100% certain that she won't reject me. There are more girls I could've gotten with if I had taken more of a risk.
there's a girl i like and we've been talking in school and in texts, i'm 75% she likes me as well. she plays hard to get through texts but in person she's always blushing and smiling when i tell her something cute, or touch her, i don't know when i should go in for the kiss
Alan Campuzano... Tease her through text, and joke around of kissing next time you see her. If you make the joke clear and she follows it up. Then be sure to have a nice kiss surely after.
*If she rejects your kiss, act this way:* You : Oh damn i gotta go.. (she will probably ask) : Where? / Why? You: I need to change my lips cause it's first time when they get rejected by a girl and I'm shocked.
Thanks for letting guys know to use common sense if the girl clearly says no. Im not sure if I the guy I went out with tonight really thought rejection wasn’t real because he kept insisting until her forced the kiss! Unbelievable! I was actually liking him too!
RE hugging at the beginning of the date. This makes sense if it is clearly a date. But if I'm asking a girl, 'Hey I think you're cute, do you want to hang out sometime to get to know each other?' is this conveying that we are on a "date"? The girl I want to date works at a local coffee shop hence, their is little time to build rapport. A week or so ago I told her I think her sense of style is great & that she looks good every time I come in. She smiled & said thanks for the compliment. And smiled again when I said thanks for my coffee. My experience with previous girlfriends has always been people I have met & spoken to number of times prior to asking for a date. This approach is more ''cold'. She's at work so convo. opportunity is limited. Not sure if you'll respond - but thanks for the quality videos anyway!
Rejection is real. If she says "please don't try to kiss me" that's it. Over. Done. She is not into you. You misread her signals. Now, if she doesn't say anything, than this advice is amazing. But when you try to kiss her again, and she rejects it, knock that shit off. She isn't interested. She's be interested in you if she let's you kiss you the first or second time, or gives you a reason like "I don't kiss on the first date." You can't follow advice blindly. You have to apply it to real life scenarios. Remember gentleman, CONFIDENCE and COURAGE are key. Women love these two things. Be courageous, be confident, and she'll want you so bad. If she strokes her hair, stroke it and her ear. Do that twice. If she's making eye contact, leaning in, or biting her lip while you do this, kiss her. She won't reject you.
Marcel Müller I never had my first kiss. I saw this hot girl I knew at a concert and she previously liked me so I was like bruh nows my chance to snag that shit. So my arms were around her body and shit and she was pulling me close so I was like yea boi this is my time. As soon as she looked at me i went in and she goes "nooooo" and I said "what? Cmon" because i was so confused. And then i wad like wtf lol do u have a bf or something and she was like na and i was angry as fuck
Liam Shane loool, you remind me. I went through things like this more than once. When this happens I laugh and just keep playong like nothing happened, kkkk
Rejection isn't real! I few months ago I finally managed to get my dream girl, I had a crush on her since 8th grade but never really knew how to finish the deal and build the attraction to be able to kiss her even though she was aware that I had a crush on her. It wasn't until senior year high school that I decided that I would try pursuing her again and after about 1 month of building up that attraction I finally managed it ( I tried 3 times to kiss her but failed during that month until I hit gold ). Persistence is key to every success in life, including women. :)
I've tried to kiss this girl at least 4-5 times. And no not like a desperate idiot, but at proper, isolated times after talking to her or "seducing her" (flirting with her). I'm honestly done with it, gonna keep my distance and probably let it die down between us. Obviously she doesn't want much to do with me in terms of intimacy even if we wear the labels of a couple. Here's what I think: This video works ONLY if she's into you and you know she's into you. Othewise she's either playing you or feels sorry for you. Im pretty sure my 'girlfriend' just feels sorry for me for many more reasons than just this but whatever. If she rejects you 2-3 times in a row, sometimes its best just to get over her and move on. Not her fault just not gonna work.
Who else just got rejected minutes ago? And plus. There is a thing called rejection. This video is helpful but not always. If yer unattractive or basically ugly af like me then you will get rejection
I need to show this to my boyfriend. He tried to kiss me in grade six and i had an anxiety attack and walked off. We are still together but he felt really bad.
Nice video. Guys, just keep your cool and dont appear anxious. Keep calm and continue getting to know her better. When you can both look into each other's eyes, see a little. Smile beginning to appear then take Your time to touch her gently and go for it. The key is always taking your time, being patient, building the sexual tension and eye contact. You will know when she is ready. Rejection is not always real.
i like a girl and she likes me too. i have taken out for a date and it was good, we were pretty close. The first 5 days of our dating was good and it was making progress. on the 6th day she was kinda moody and i wanted to talk to her but she kept calm, she held my hand and kept calm. I wanted to make her feel good so i kissed her on her cheek and she was fine with it and when i wanted to kiss her on her lip, i touched her corner of the lip and she was not fine with it. The very next day she told me " gimme some space, i cannot trust you so soon, you make me feel cringe, you pop out where ever i go and i am not able to move on cuz of my ex and do not have high expectations on me" what should i do now? she is completely ignoring me.
Rejection isn't real. Great video Tripp. Have you ever done a video on what to do when your crush is already in a relationship? I started working 2 months ago and met a female colleague (3 yrs older than me) who I get along well with and she asks me personal questions as she wants to know more about me. We smile when we meet in the morning + I like her selfless personality and looks but she tells me that she has been in a relationship for 4 years and now lives with him. If she didn't have a boyfriend, I would have complimented her much more frequently than I have but I reckon she knows I'm respectful to women in general because I do gestures like 'opening the door to let them through'. We're both music teachers so she's seen me how I get along with children so she might see me as potential 'husband-material'. I've made her laugh a few times, and I gave her a kitkat chocolate in our breaktime. She's aware that I frequently go to the gym and have priorities in life. We both coincidentally have the exact same birthday too (17th feb). Shall I tell her that i'm attracted to her but just 'move-on' to seek for another girl? I was thinking about confessing to her on Valentines day (by giving her chocolates too) but would that be too forward? I'm doing all I can to not be put in the friend-zone. I'm sorry for the long comment but thanks for your help!
you shouldn't appologize if your comment is too long it's only natural but yeah move on cause you don't know if she is really happy or unhappy with her boyfriend maybe she's just friendly to you that's it i doubt a girl will try and flirt with someone else unless she's not happy
So what if the girl in question is a friend which you have known for some time and the setting is not a date but a party with friends? Does the "that's okay, you're not ready yet" line still work? Or is there something else/more you should say to not make the friendship awkward from the moment of the kiss onwards
This is weird. I have never been rejected for a kiss. Not bragging. I was always a confidant guy and always honest to every girl i dated. Finally found and married my dream girl.
Great Video I've experienced this kiss rejection in my last 4-5 dates. Some girls are really not interested. Then it is senseless. But some of them just want to test your reaction.
Hey Trip, A lot of guys tend to have their own goals when talking to girls, whether that's to build attraction or possibly have sex, ect. But how would you show a girl value?
Ahhhhhh when your watching this video and realise you’ve rejected the same girl for those 3 reasons multiple different times. But the fact is your watching this video BECAUSE you want to kiss that same girl 😂
It took me 3 months of dating (more than 15 dates) to successfully kiss my girlfriend because she did't want to go "fast". All women are not the same, some of them are conservative or like slow dating progress. If she didn't like you she will never come for a second date with you.
🤦♂️ You don’t think she was with another man that whole time ? She is not with you because you waited she is with you because the other situation didn’t work out
Okay, so in the last weeks my crush and I were closer than before and yesterday i took her the Christmas party of our work. So at the end of the night, when I drove her back home , we kissed twice, it felt really nice, that I'm finally kissing my crush but, we were a little tipsy also. She didn't send me any signals I have to take the initiative of making up with her as a goodnight kiss, she liked, we smiled after that. Well today, at work, she was distant and didn't talk to me with the same enthusiasm as before, we never had awkward silent moments before today.I mean I feel kinda weird too, why would she be like this?...I won't text her today, I'll leave her alone for the rest of the day or tomorrow too, I'll see her again at work this Saturday.
It is bruh... its not permanent but it sure is real. BTW I know trip said to write that in the comments, but do you actually believe that rejection isn't real?
So before she was leaving i tried to kiss her but she leaned away but not that much. Idk what happened. What to do? What to say? Does "kiss before you go?" work?
I know how it feels to be rejected in kissing a girl but just be patient, your girl just need time to accept your kiss. Just wait for the proper time and proper place.
Hi Tripp, have you ever posted a video about Jewish girls? Of course every person is first and foremost an individual, but still I'm curious what you have to say about them. Great video by the way.
(PLEAS READ TO THE END IT GETS DEEP) I want to kiss some girl but she has a man and I think a child but it looks like her man is not treating her right or loving her right because tbh if a girl loved her husband or man she wouldnt bother trying to impress anyone with her beauty or try and look good every day but this girl does and she is soo sooo nice to me and is so mature ( a little older but it doesn't matter when u love her) yeah she speaks to me like shes into me everytime she sees me she wants to speak to me but its always different to the way she speaks to other guys I was into her too and didn't notice she had a ring on her finger but she's been married for a while but I don't think her man treats her right and shes getting over him because they only have one Child I know I sound like a dick but it's different if ur in my position u have to understand that. Anyway I don't know what to do I think she likes me she always caresses me and just hugs me or touches me and I tell her she's really beutiful sometimes and she gives the cutest smile and blushes with the reply "thank you oh my u are sooo nice" in a soft voice I'm emotionally in love with her I'm depressed knowing she is with someone but I just love her soo much if I was able to take care of her and her child I would and marry her I don't mind I love her and she always gives me the best smiles out of everyone at work I hope if u read this u understand :( I may have to become Mr steal your girl but I feel bad for the guy but I feel it has to be and this is true love I really want to kiss her and I've missed many chances shall I? Idk:(( I have this true love feeling for her and would so anything and everything for he :( I literally feel like ripping my hart out for her to show her how much I love anything for her to be with me ANYTHING! Shirin💔 I can never let these feelings go and I will never get over her she's had one Child for wayy to long maybe she doesn't want anymore but she can still get a kiss from her man or make love the guy legit it feels he don't make love or give her any benafit she looks stressed all the time and she works soo hard no woman should have to do that if she has the right man to love her I feel he has her for show 😡 srry but it's true I could teat her better don't wanna be a shawn mendes song be I get what he means and he's right. 💔💔🖤🖤🖤💔💔💔💔💔💔😩💔 THIS HURTS
Yeah the funny thing is that I was talking to a girl at a baby shower (and there were kids there) then all of a sudden we both stopped talking and then we both looked each other in the eyes and......... a little kid screams in my ear and kills the mood.
As a women I will note, yes, there is a point where rejection is real, it’s fine to try, but if you take this too close to heart, keep in mind if she isn’t ready, it’s not always because you haven’t seduced us
Here's what you gotta do: say "Saçlarını kesme" (pronounced sach-lar-ini KISS ME) and if she says: "TF did you just say???" Then you gotta say: "oh, that means 'do not cut your hair!' in Turkish, your hair is nice, you should never cut it. You think I'm kidding, let me see your phone & I'll put it in Translate" That's what you say.
Rejecting your kiss means that she wants to play hard to get. That means it's time to take it to the next level by breaking out the club, bonking her on the head, and dragging her back to your lair. That's called the caveman method. (seriously DO NOT do that.)
Been seeing a girl for about a week took her on 2 dates and haven't went for a kiss yet idk why I have seen obvious signs that she likes me but every time we say bye she rushes to give me a tight hug then turns and says bye
Lakersfield24 ... maybe it's because you're a mangina, glad I could help... Who the f*** goes on repeated days if he's not giving it up and I'm not talking about kiss
Lol 😆. I walked her home and we hugged and I said " I'll be honest I really want to kiss you right now" she said as she laughed "we don't know each other well yet", then I said "hmm yeah that's fine" and went home😂
Omg I cant with some people saying “rejection isn’t real” like hold on a second. If a girl rejects you (I’m a girl btw) then it means she doesn’t like you! Like what do you not understand you can’t be speaking on a girls perspective on these things if you’re a man!!!
Hey Tripp, I'm loving your videos atm, but i really need help with something. I used your advice to go on a date with a girl i like in my seminar. I really likeher but i dont know how to talk to her about my kinky side. Like i know its REALLY weird XD but i want a girl to shit on my chest. Have you done anything like this before? If so any tips? Thanks XD
hey tripp... there is that girl that I love now.. but she have boyfriend..I didn't want to admit that I love her because of that reason.. but she Insisted for it .. she was curious to know who is the girl that I love .. and I said to her that I love her.. and then she was like "ok good " .. what should I do now ? should I just move on and forget her or try to attract her ? (she said that she likes me ) .. old tripp .. help me .. I need you :)
Grind Core kind of.. she said she likes like a friend..and nothing more.. I guess the problem is I'm from another national.. I'm Syrian and she is German .. and I'm struggling a little bit by the German language .. otherwise I guess she's would have another reaction
Go out with a girl for around 3 years, she is quite an introvert person, she gave her first kiss to me last year, but just touching her lips. This year I steal a kiss from her, Idk if I could make her kiss me or let me kiss her as much as I want. Any tips or help, I really have a crush on her, and she has kinda a crush on me but she is not sure. Any help would be awesome.Thanks
Hey guys I know that this video was uploaded a long time ago. But there is something awkward that happened between me and this girls, some year ago. Well she was already engaged when we meet, we used to work for the same company. After some weeks working in the same job she somehow found out that I had feelings for her and I had feelings for her as well. One day when we were all alone she kissed me and from there my made love. But we couldn't see each other anymore because she was engaged, So we decided to not see each other anymore. But after a few years after all this happened we meet by accident and somehow we work again. But she got married and got divorced. But it seems very awkward when we see each other because of this thing that happened between us. I still have some feelings for her. But I don't have the guts to ask if she is single. what should I do? is this normal to have an awkward feeling after making love ?
This is enlightning. However, I cannot stop thinking about this youtuber who uploaded a video called "how to pick up women at the bar" a year and a half ago, Robert Frank 615. It´s hilarious because his approach is completely the opposite, but still, the moral of that video (as I think it´s the same with this video) is that confidence is key.
What is this...rejection...you speak of?
Tip: If she let's you touch/stroke her hair then she will PROBABLY let you kiss her. Try complimenting her hairstyle before lightly touching or taking a piece of fluff out. If she flinches, then she probably isn't ready for a kiss. Yet.
Hope this helps. ;)
Daniel Myers well, that's clever!
i this you misspelled your name.. it's supposed to be
Anonymous Anus! at least it rhymes this way
You're a fucking genius
Haha! Not true! I was already striking her hair and more.. I still got rejected.. Haha
Hey guys I'm a girl but I never get guys to ask me out what am I doing wrong
dude. you could not have timed this upload better lol
TheSharkRave haha ikr😂
The Gaming Turtle. seriously. im thinking about this and then i get an alert and here it is
TheSharkRave or worse 😂 i was turned down like last month and i was so confused i wad like wtf lol
ikr
TheSharkRave yes so true xD
If she rejects your kiss, you look her in the eyes, laugh and say: "tease. That's it. The wedding is off." Then when she laughs/responds you simply change the subject to something else and brush it off like you don't care.
Truth is, once you learn to read women's signals you will RARELY have this issue. I honestly haven't had it in years.
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard
@@milindbebarta2226 this is brilliant lol.The weddings off?Even made me laugh,the best way to respond to a rejection is making a laugh out of it instead of being serious and sad,sometimes a girl will try to test you and see how you'll react in that situation
@@vulgr5076 I so have been tested twice like hell, man she made me blush
I will be rehearsing this thank you lmaoo
@@milindbebarta2226 And yet it works so well.
Hey, I don't make the rules.
in fact rejection means that u have 2 be a little more patient. sometimes a girl needs a little time 2 get into the groove
rejection is most definately real kids ...
Welp I said rejection isn't real and now I have a restraining order issued to me...
rich polit dead😂
same'
She didn't reject mine, she still have me a restraining order... My sister's so confusing...
rich polit ouch
God damn bro that sucks
"That's okay, you're not ready yet."...this is the line to say with understanding tone.
Rejection Isn't Real!
I'm so glad I watched this video before I went on my first date with my new friend Sammie a few days ago. We were curdled up by the edge of Lake Michigan talking, and she tells me that, "Guys from Chicago are bad kissers," I took it as a lead in to kiss her. I gently grabbed her chin and started moving closer, but she said no. I used the line and she laughed her ass off.... Fast forward like 20 minutes, we're walking down the side walk and she stops and gets entranced by these trees with the fall colored leaves and she pulls me into being infront of her, plays with the strings on my jacket, and just, "ok" and we kissed..... She even admitted that, in that moment where she was actually confusing me with the entrancement of the trees, that she was trying to make one of those "perfect moments" that we guys try to aim for when we try to kiss a girl for the first time...... I love all the advice you give, it really has helped me shift my mind set when it comes with rejections from girls. It's helped me stay cool and calm in the face of rejection and I've even been able to turn things around a few times.
Thanks for sharing. That was one of the best success stories I've ever heard. Keep em coming!
wow that's good!!
That is awesome. Like something from a movie
Too much to read. Skip
Good shit, very dramatic
I checked all your videos about this topic and I tried everything you said yesterday with a girl... and i failed miserably, but at least i'm happy that i tried. You are right, rejection isn't that bad. Thanks dude.
4. she has a boyfriend.
Someone doesnt understand women ;)
Zhao Gao what do you mean?
Rex1987 You'll eventually find out what I meant. Good luck bro! :)
+Zhao Gao
(warning: long post in bound)
if you mean thats just something women say to be a challenge, or its her problem if she is romanticly involved with someone else, then i can only say:
1. women that play mindgames and try to look to have more valueable by saying things like that, that they already have a boyfriend, playing on the "we always want things that we cannot get" mentally, then that person is not a good match for me.
2. being the one, that makes her cheat on her boyfriend is just a recipe for drama which i dont want i my life. And if she is the kind of women that cheats, how would that really makes for someone you wanna be with? to me thats just one big red flag.
in another note, i experienced this to a Halloween party last night. There where this girl that flirted with me big time. She asked me directly if i liked her. i paused and look at her intensely. I said yes i did. She then said "really? i interpret it in a different way." Then she left the Dancefloor where we where standing. I played it cool, and let her leave, rather than do the dumb thing, and chase after her. So after that she came back waveing at me to come and dance. So we did - very close eventually. During the evening things when on like that, really firting. Eventually to a point where her face was really close to mine, and we held eye contact. Man! i wanted to kiss her, but i also wanted things to go slow, and know what she is about.
then at one point she takes out her phone.
"who are you calling?" i asked.
"my boyfriend" she answered.
...rect :D
reflecting on it, the whole thing to me seems like she needed a fix of attention from someone else than her boyfriend. Maybe things are a bit stale in their relationship; what do i know.
I liked the flirt we had but, if its just to boost her ego, to know that she can still get the attention of other men, then i dont wanna do anything further than that. Because its just a red flag of drama.
Zhao Gao hah lol :D
well i can sure as hell tell you when we where dancing very close, that kinda crossed my mind :D
but lets see - we go to the same uni so i might meet her again. And as much as principles are a good thing to go by, i might just feel like making her taste my portuguese chouriça as you called it :D
"If you didn't like that kiss, you can always return it."
Rejection isn't real.
I have never been rejected for a kiss because I've always waited until I was 100% certain there was no chance of rejection. I need to take more risks.
Good observation.
so you are saying all the times you have gone for the kiss, it has always been welcomed?
nobodysperfect06 Yeah but I'm not saying that's a good thing. It's mostly because I wait until I'm 100% certain that she won't reject me. There are more girls I could've gotten with if I had taken more of a risk.
you would think most guys would have gotten rejected once or a few times in their life when going in for the kiss
nobodysperfect06 Yeah and that's better than never getting rejected IMO because it means they take more risks
there's a girl i like and we've been talking in school and in texts, i'm 75% she likes me as well. she plays hard to get through texts but in person she's always blushing and smiling when i tell her something cute, or touch her, i don't know when i should go in for the kiss
Alan Campuzano have you asked her out ?
Alan Campuzano... Tease her through text, and joke around of kissing next time you see her. If you make the joke clear and she follows it up.
Then be sure to have a nice kiss surely after.
i Read i Genius... Yeah! And then run for President😒
Arash Sharif not yet, we've been talking for about 4 weeks now
Dude, you're late like months late. Go for it now!
When I turned the radio on and Rock and Roll All Night came on she switched it off. I didn't know what to say when she rejected my KISS.
*If she rejects your kiss, act this way:*
You : Oh damn i gotta go..
(she will probably ask) : Where? / Why?
You: I need to change my lips cause it's first time when they get rejected by a girl and I'm shocked.
Dr. Gregory HOUSE
That's a good one lol
No it's not.
i agree more with you, thats a good one
👍
And then do you leave or??
Before getting at the end of the video I was wondering why are these guys are saying "rejection isn't real"... but now I got the answer, lol
Fucked up last night, caught her by suprise and she kindly said what I was doing.
Needed to get that off my chest.
If only I saw this at this time yesterday. I tried kissing a girl but she wasn't "ready yet" and it was super awkward afterwards....
Thanks for letting guys know to use common sense if the girl clearly says no. Im not sure if I the guy I went out with tonight really thought rejection wasn’t real because he kept insisting until her forced the kiss! Unbelievable! I was actually liking him too!
RE hugging at the beginning of the date. This makes sense if it is clearly a date. But if I'm asking a girl, 'Hey I think you're cute, do you want to hang out sometime to get to know each other?' is this conveying that we are on a "date"? The girl I want to date works at a local coffee shop hence, their is little time to build rapport. A week or so ago I told her I think her sense of style is great & that she looks good every time I come in. She smiled & said thanks for the compliment. And smiled again when I said thanks for my coffee.
My experience with previous girlfriends has always been people I have met & spoken to number of times prior to asking for a date. This approach is more ''cold'. She's at work so convo. opportunity is limited.
Not sure if you'll respond - but thanks for the quality videos anyway!
You are great man, thanks for this advice :) "Rejection isn't real"
Rejection is real. If she says "please don't try to kiss me" that's it. Over. Done. She is not into you. You misread her signals. Now, if she doesn't say anything, than this advice is amazing. But when you try to kiss her again, and she rejects it, knock that shit off. She isn't interested. She's be interested in you if she let's you kiss you the first or second time, or gives you a reason like "I don't kiss on the first date." You can't follow advice blindly. You have to apply it to real life scenarios. Remember gentleman, CONFIDENCE and COURAGE are key. Women love these two things. Be courageous, be confident, and she'll want you so bad. If she strokes her hair, stroke it and her ear. Do that twice. If she's making eye contact, leaning in, or biting her lip while you do this, kiss her. She won't reject you.
I got rejected for a kiss today, but here's the thing. I am pleased she did because i'm no longer bothered about girls, in my eyes this is a success.
This is a new way of thinking, thank you for your knowledge
🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓
This could have been useful 2 months ago 🙏🏻
Liam Shane lol sorry bruh
What did you do?
Marcel Müller I never had my first kiss. I saw this hot girl I knew at a concert and she previously liked me so I was like bruh nows my chance to snag that shit. So my arms were around her body and shit and she was pulling me close so I was like yea boi this is my time. As soon as she looked at me i went in and she goes "nooooo" and I said "what? Cmon" because i was so confused. And then i wad like wtf lol do u have a bf or something and she was like na and i was angry as fuck
Uhhhh... That's unfortunate.
Liam Shane loool, you remind me. I went through things like this more than once. When this happens I laugh and just keep playong like nothing happened, kkkk
Rejection isn't real!
I few months ago I finally managed to get my dream girl, I had a crush on her since 8th grade but never really knew how to finish the deal and build the attraction to be able to kiss her even though she was aware that I had a crush on her. It wasn't until senior year high school that I decided that I would try pursuing her again and after about 1 month of building up that attraction I finally managed it ( I tried 3 times to kiss her but failed during that month until I hit gold ). Persistence is key to every success in life, including women. :)
Congratulations.
Rejection isn't real.
Unless you're me.
BlueEyesWhiteBoy omg that’s funny
Well i dont know girls that like blue eyes white dragons :D
Same
Yesh i got my kiss rejected today. It hurt terribly
I've tried to kiss this girl at least 4-5 times. And no not like a desperate idiot, but at proper, isolated times after talking to her or "seducing her" (flirting with her). I'm honestly done with it, gonna keep my distance and probably let it die down between us. Obviously she doesn't want much to do with me in terms of intimacy even if we wear the labels of a couple.
Here's what I think: This video works ONLY if she's into you and you know she's into you. Othewise she's either playing you or feels sorry for you. Im pretty sure my 'girlfriend' just feels sorry for me for many more reasons than just this but whatever. If she rejects you 2-3 times in a row, sometimes its best just to get over her and move on. Not her fault just not gonna work.
Exactly...its bullshit and a waste of time...
Who else just got rejected minutes ago?
And plus. There is a thing called rejection. This video is helpful but not always. If yer unattractive or basically ugly af like me then you will get rejection
Rejection is Santa
Lol I get the. Joke
Jeff White FAKE
I need to show this to my boyfriend. He tried to kiss me in grade six and i had an anxiety attack and walked off. We are still together but he felt really bad.
Nice video. Guys, just keep your cool and dont appear anxious. Keep calm and continue getting to know her better. When you can both look into each other's eyes, see a little. Smile beginning to appear then take Your time to touch her gently and go for it. The key is always taking your time, being patient, building the sexual tension and eye contact. You will know when she is ready. Rejection is not always real.
i like a girl and she likes me too.
i have taken out for a date and it was good, we were pretty close.
The first 5 days of our dating was good and it was making progress.
on the 6th day she was kinda moody and i wanted to talk to her but she kept calm, she held my hand and kept calm. I wanted to make her feel good so i kissed her on her cheek and she was fine with it and when i wanted to kiss her on her lip, i touched her corner of the lip and she was not fine with it. The very next day she told me " gimme some space, i cannot trust you so soon, you make me feel cringe, you pop out where ever i go and i am not able to move on cuz of my ex and do not have high expectations on me"
what should i do now? she is completely ignoring me.
Rejection Isnt Real!!! Tripp i watch your videosand u have helped me so much man! thank you!!
Rejection isn't real. Great video Tripp.
Have you ever done a video on what to do when your crush is already in a relationship? I started working 2 months ago and met a female colleague (3 yrs older than me) who I get along well with and she asks me personal questions as she wants to know more about me. We smile when we meet in the morning + I like her selfless personality and looks but she tells me that she has been in a relationship for 4 years and now lives with him. If she didn't have a boyfriend, I would have complimented her much more frequently than I have but I reckon she knows I'm respectful to women in general because I do gestures like 'opening the door to let them through'. We're both music teachers so she's seen me how I get along with children so she might see me as potential 'husband-material'. I've made her laugh a few times, and I gave her a kitkat chocolate in our breaktime. She's aware that I frequently go to the gym and have priorities in life. We both coincidentally have the exact same birthday too (17th feb). Shall I tell her that i'm attracted to her but just 'move-on' to seek for another girl? I was thinking about confessing to her on Valentines day (by giving her chocolates too) but would that be too forward? I'm doing all I can to not be put in the friend-zone. I'm sorry for the long comment but thanks for your help!
I stopped at "my crush is already in a relationship" and went on to the next message. I suggest you do the same thing in your situation.
you shouldn't appologize if your comment is too long it's only natural but yeah move on cause you don't know if she is really happy or unhappy with her boyfriend maybe she's just friendly to you that's it i doubt a girl will try and flirt with someone else unless she's not happy
you will put her in a difficult position! if you have respect for her, have some respect for her relationship as well!
Rejection isn't real
Thank you Tripp. Ur my idol
So what if the girl in question is a friend which you have known for some time and the setting is not a date but a party with friends? Does the "that's okay, you're not ready yet" line still work? Or is there something else/more you should say to not make the friendship awkward from the moment of the kiss onwards
This is weird. I have never been rejected for a kiss. Not bragging.
I was always a confidant guy and always honest to every girl i dated. Finally found and married my dream girl.
Cheers bro
i thank you for this perfectly timed video Tripp🙏
Great Video I've experienced this kiss rejection in my last 4-5 dates. Some girls are really not interested. Then it is senseless. But some of them just want to test your reaction.
Exactly.
To see if you're going to act like her kiss is all that matters
Also don't act like she's the only one who can kiss you in the whole world
Hey Trip,
A lot of guys tend to have their own goals when talking to girls, whether that's to build attraction or possibly have sex, ect. But how would you show a girl value?
Through your masterful display of all the traits that women find attractive.
Thanxx man ......my feeling were same like this tday.....thank you ...
Ahhhhhh when your watching this video and realise you’ve rejected the same girl for those 3 reasons multiple different times. But the fact is your watching this video BECAUSE you want to kiss that same girl 😂
Rejection isn’t real! You’re a badass Tripp. Thanks for the vids.
What to say ?
I mean its steps not words..
I must to watch it for 8 minutes 47 seconds
To find it out..
Come on..
Find it on 4:44
" Rejection isn't real". Nice video by the 😊way
Rejection isn't realThanks Tripp Always a solid answer for life's biggest mysteries
Thank you for putting this video
I could not have found this at a better time
It took me 3 months of dating (more than 15 dates) to successfully kiss my girlfriend because she did't want to go "fast". All women are not the same, some of them are conservative or like slow dating progress. If she didn't like you she will never come for a second date with you.
That's a long wait. Good points.
🤦♂️ You don’t think she was with another man that whole time ? She is not with you because you waited she is with you because the other situation didn’t work out
Okay, so in the last weeks my crush and I were closer than before and yesterday i took her the Christmas party of our work. So at the end of the night, when I drove her back home , we kissed twice, it felt really nice, that I'm finally kissing my crush but, we were a little tipsy also. She didn't send me any signals I have to take the initiative of making up with her as a goodnight kiss, she liked, we smiled after that. Well today, at work, she was distant and didn't talk to me with the same enthusiasm as before, we never had awkward silent moments before today.I mean I feel kinda weird too, why would she be like this?...I won't text her today, I'll leave her alone for the rest of the day or tomorrow too, I'll see her again at work this Saturday.
Its been 2yrs...what happened in the end ?
@@carloslyon2256 nothing, I quit from that job and joined to the Army...I have dated better girls than this one while I was stationed in Germany :)
seriously? right after the night she rejected my kiss and this video popped up on my UA-cam feed?
rejection isn't real. ur right tripp
It is bruh... its not permanent but it sure is real.
BTW I know trip said to write that in the comments, but do you actually believe that rejection isn't real?
Cancer it's all in ur head. it's as real as u make it seem
Vlad lover I wouldn’t ever get rejected
the thing is u said "theres only trying" but yoda once said "theres no trying, you either do it or you dont" lol ... love your videos
I respectfully disagree with Yoda on that matter. Trying counts. Most people don't even go that far for what they "believe" in.
Excellent video, should have watched yesterday though.
Tried to kiss her in a crowded subway car on the first date. She curved me. We’re going on a second date wish me luck yall😂
Very in depth, subbed
And the phrase is: "that's okay. you're not ready yet"
Can’t go back to school anymore in fact I gotta move states that’s what ima do
Tripp, what age do you think is the minimum for this "first dates" and "kissing" action?
Literally just got rejected from a kiss, and tbh I didn't know what to do after that.
So before she was leaving i tried to kiss her but she leaned away but not that much. Idk what happened. What to do? What to say? Does "kiss before you go?" work?
If she rejects u... make sure u find a good place to hide the corpse
Lol😂😂
4:58 i would probably say the same thing but we're instead of you're
Entered email then clicked the yellow button: nothing happens!
Seduction is a component but time and her views of intimacy also play a major part
I know how it feels to be rejected in kissing a girl but just be patient, your girl just need time to accept your kiss. Just wait for the proper time and proper place.
Yeah but we feel awkward after that, we don't know how to react
Thanks for the advice tripp
Rejection wasnt real until few days ago lmao. She actually smiled and asked me to kiss her ob the cheek and we still text tho so no shit xd.
Rejection is a re-direction
Thats ok, you're not ready yet.
Hi Tripp, have you ever posted a video about Jewish girls? Of course every person is first and foremost an individual, but still I'm curious what you have to say about them. Great video by the way.
EW
(PLEAS READ TO THE END IT GETS DEEP) I want to kiss some girl but she has a man and I think a child but it looks like her man is not treating her right or loving her right because tbh if a girl loved her husband or man she wouldnt bother trying to impress anyone with her beauty or try and look good every day but this girl does and she is soo sooo nice to me and is so mature ( a little older but it doesn't matter when u love her) yeah she speaks to me like shes into me everytime she sees me she wants to speak to me but its always different to the way she speaks to other guys I was into her too and didn't notice she had a ring on her finger but she's been married for a while but I don't think her man treats her right and shes getting over him because they only have one Child I know I sound like a dick but it's different if ur in my position u have to understand that. Anyway I don't know what to do I think she likes me she always caresses me and just hugs me or touches me and I tell her she's really beutiful sometimes and she gives the cutest smile and blushes with the reply "thank you oh my u are sooo nice" in a soft voice I'm emotionally in love with her I'm depressed knowing she is with someone but I just love her soo much if I was able to take care of her and her child I would and marry her I don't mind I love her and she always gives me the best smiles out of everyone at work I hope if u read this u understand :( I may have to become Mr steal your girl but I feel bad for the guy but I feel it has to be and this is true love I really want to kiss her and I've missed many chances shall I? Idk:(( I have this true love feeling for her and would so anything and everything for he :( I literally feel like ripping my hart out for her to show her how much I love anything for her to be with me ANYTHING! Shirin💔 I can never let these feelings go and I will never get over her she's had one Child for wayy to long maybe she doesn't want anymore but she can still get a kiss from her man or make love the guy legit it feels he don't make love or give her any benafit she looks stressed all the time and she works soo hard no woman should have to do that if she has the right man to love her I feel he has her for show 😡 srry but it's true I could teat her better don't wanna be a shawn mendes song be I get what he means and he's right. 💔💔🖤🖤🖤💔💔💔💔💔💔😩💔 THIS HURTS
Send her this message
Yeah the funny thing is that I was talking to a girl at a baby shower (and there were kids there) then all of a sudden we both stopped talking and then we both looked each other in the eyes and......... a little kid screams in my ear and kills the mood.
you;re meant to wear her sombrero, then say "will u kiss me if i wear this hat!"
went to the tension video, keeps saying I need to enter an email when I already did....
Keep trying. It can be a little glitchy.
same happened to me
rejection isn't real
this channel rocks
As a women I will note, yes, there is a point where rejection is real, it’s fine to try, but if you take this too close to heart, keep in mind if she isn’t ready, it’s not always because you haven’t seduced us
But...why am I supposed to know when I haven't even got a girlfriend XD
I'm watching this now just in case!
Me and my girl have kissed lot’s of time but now she says she doesn’t like it
Not even a touch?
came here coz mine got rejected 🙅♂️. thanks for the lift up brother
Here's what you gotta do: say "Saçlarını kesme" (pronounced sach-lar-ini KISS ME) and if she says: "TF did you just say???" Then you gotta say: "oh, that means 'do not cut your hair!' in Turkish, your hair is nice, you should never cut it. You think I'm kidding, let me see your phone & I'll put it in Translate" That's what you say.
>Bad could not learn anything from that!
Rejecting your kiss means that she wants to play hard to get. That means it's time to take it to the next level by breaking out the club, bonking her on the head, and dragging her back to your lair. That's called the caveman method.
(seriously DO NOT do that.)
Been seeing a girl for about a week took her on 2 dates and haven't went for a kiss yet idk why I have seen obvious signs that she likes me but every time we say bye she rushes to give me a tight hug then turns and says bye
Taking her on a 3rd date tonight and will definitely try to make a move for a kiss wish me luck!
Lakersfield24 Yo good luck Man. hope everything will go great. But make sure you share if you get a slap on the face..hhh
You're waiting too long.
Lakersfield24 damn she gave you the hug n run its totally happened to me
Lakersfield24 ... maybe it's because you're a mangina, glad I could help... Who the f*** goes on repeated days if he's not giving it up and I'm not talking about kiss
Lol 😆. I walked her home and we hugged and I said " I'll be honest I really want to kiss you right now" she said as she laughed "we don't know each other well yet", then I said "hmm yeah that's fine" and went home😂
If only I were subscribed a year ago
Omg I cant with some people saying “rejection isn’t real” like hold on a second. If a girl rejects you (I’m a girl btw) then it means she doesn’t like you! Like what do you not understand you can’t be speaking on a girls perspective on these things if you’re a man!!!
Hey Tripp, I'm loving your videos atm, but i really need help with something. I used your advice to go on a date with a girl i like in my seminar. I really likeher but i dont know how to talk to her about my kinky side. Like i know its REALLY weird XD but i want a girl to shit on my chest. Have you done anything like this before? If so any tips? Thanks XD
Wrong channel for that.
hey tripp... there is that girl that I love now.. but she have boyfriend..I didn't want to admit that I love her because of that reason.. but she Insisted for it .. she was curious to know who is the girl that I love .. and I said to her that I love her.. and then she was like "ok good " .. what should I do now ? should I just move on and forget her or try to attract her ? (she said that she likes me ) .. old tripp .. help me .. I need you :)
Eliea Awad so she likes you but has a boyfriend , sounds like a bitch so...
Grind Core kind of.. she said she likes like a friend..and nothing more.. I guess the problem is I'm from another national.. I'm Syrian and she is German .. and I'm struggling a little bit by the German language .. otherwise I guess she's would have another reaction
Eliea Awad if that's the case I would just wait but you must make sure it's worth
+Eliea Awad German isn't the only language you're struggling with
Cancer :) xD if u can speak Arabic as a second language tell me :)
Rejection isn't real! Good talk
@tripp: the email form does work. even though i type in a valid mail address it still comes up with an error message to do so. :(
It's fixed.
You will probably overly ignore this comment trip, but can you make this video for a high schooler
mr copyright m yeassss
Go out with a girl for around 3 years, she is quite an introvert person, she gave her first kiss to me last year, but just touching her lips. This year I steal a kiss from her, Idk if I could make her kiss me or let me kiss her as much as I want. Any tips or help, I really have a crush on her, and she has kinda a crush on me but she is not sure. Any help would be awesome.Thanks
Stop waiting so long.
Hey guys I know that this video was uploaded a long time ago. But there is something awkward that happened between me and this girls, some year ago. Well she was already engaged when we meet, we used to work for the same company. After some weeks working in the same job she somehow found out that I had feelings for her and I had feelings for her as well. One day when we were all alone she kissed me and from there my made love. But we couldn't see each other anymore because she was engaged, So we decided to not see each other anymore. But after a few years after all this happened we meet by accident and somehow we work again. But she got married and got divorced. But it seems very awkward when we see each other because of this thing that happened between us. I still have some feelings for her. But I don't have the guts to ask if she is single. what should I do? is this normal to have an awkward feeling after making love ?
Well shit she rejected me when I thought it was right but idk ,well shit that was awkward:/
did this work for anyone?
What if she asks to kiss you and you panic and reject her?
This is enlightning. However, I cannot stop thinking about this youtuber who uploaded a video called "how to pick up women at the bar" a year and a half ago, Robert Frank 615. It´s hilarious because his approach is completely the opposite, but still, the moral of that video (as I think it´s the same with this video) is that confidence is key.
Hey Tripp, I just want you to know that your videos have helped me so much with my social life. Thank you so much and keep up the good work!
Doesn’t eork