10 Stoic Ways to Know If Someone Is Using You| Stoicism

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  • In this video, we delve into the profound teachings of Stoicism to uncover 10 powerful ways to recognize if someone is taking advantage of you. Stoicism, an ancient philosophy that emphasizes virtue, resilience, and self-awareness, offers invaluable insights into human relationships and interactions.
    Using Stoic principles as our guide, we explore subtle signs and behaviors that may indicate someone is using you for their own gain. From assessing their consistency in actions to evaluating their sincerity in words, each point is rooted in Stoic wisdom and practicality.
    By applying these Stoic insights, you'll learn to navigate your relationships with clarity and discernment, fostering healthier connections built on mutual respect and authenticity. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment as we harness the timeless wisdom of Stoicism to enrich our lives and relationships.
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    10 Stoic Ways to Know If Someone Is Using You| Stoicism
    🎯 Key Moments
    00:00 INTRO
    01:50 - Number 1 - Breach Of Promises.
    06:22 - Number 2 -Don't Care About Your Feelings Or Wants.
    08:21 - Number 3 - Diminishing comments.
    11:59 - Number 4 - Lack of genuine support.
    15:06 - Number 5 - Betrayal.
    19:48 - Number 6 - Making you feel bad.
    23:33 - Number 7 - Unilateral conversations.
    25:13 - Number 8 - Only one side benefits.
    29:35 - Number 9 - Absence is very important.
    34:25 - Number 10 -Not giving and receiving.
    Everyone, stay with the Creator.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 28

  • @StoicInYourLife
    @StoicInYourLife Місяць тому +3

    Stoicism teaches us that 'We suffer more often in imagination than in reality' - Seneca. Watching '10 Stoic Ways to Know If Someone Is Using You' made me reflect on my own experiences. Do you think it's often our perception that dictates our feelings of being used more than the actions of others? How have you applied Stoic wisdom to navigate such situations in your life? Let’s discuss and share insights to help each other grow!

  • @yourentrepreneurjourney9136
    @yourentrepreneurjourney9136 Місяць тому +1

    What I did about betrayal was to cut those off immediately! I then asked myself what did I learned from it and it was healing my mindset. Mindset is very important to me because it had helped me to grow. Thank you for your channel.👏🏾

  • @katjo71367
    @katjo71367 Місяць тому +6

    I have 2 different "friends" who truly weren't my friends. Kat had to be removed, and Susie and I do not share the closeness we once had.

    • @StoicInYourLife
      @StoicInYourLife Місяць тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It's often challenging to recognize when relationships don't serve our well-being, but it's a crucial step towards practicing self-respect and living authentically-key principles in Stoicism. Reflecting on these situations can help us grow and ensure we surround ourselves with genuine connections. Stay strong and true to your values!

    • @yourentrepreneurjourney9136
      @yourentrepreneurjourney9136 Місяць тому

      You got this🛐

    • @nssatomic
      @nssatomic Місяць тому

      Sometimes friends do you a favor and leave themselves.

    • @subzeroicegod178
      @subzeroicegod178 14 днів тому

      😊​@@StoicInYourLife

  • @marshellebowens205
    @marshellebowens205 Місяць тому +5

    This has happened to me from family members and friends 😢

    • @StoicInYourLife
      @StoicInYourLife Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It can be really challenging to recognize and cope with such situations, especially when they involve close ones. Stoicism teaches us the importance of understanding and sometimes accepting what is beyond our control, while focusing on our reactions. Have you found any particular Stoic principles helpful in navigating these experiences?

    • @anelbre0904
      @anelbre0904 Місяць тому

      Same here. I'm just realizing it with my dad.

  • @davidngugi8533
    @davidngugi8533 Місяць тому +2

    That's true storytelling.

  • @StoicZone101
    @StoicZone101 Місяць тому +1

    "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." - Epictetus

  • @sandy-dx8tl
    @sandy-dx8tl Місяць тому

    These lessons are great, they make me really look at me emotionally, mentally and spiritually..I enjoy them very much! Thank you!!!!!❤

  • @MsBizzy888
    @MsBizzy888 Місяць тому

    Thank you fpr your knowledge and this video. ❤

  • @eugie5238
    @eugie5238 Місяць тому +3

    It’s been a long time being treated like this but now I ‘m done🌹

    • @StoicInYourLife
      @StoicInYourLife Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It sounds like you've reached a significant turning point, and that’s often the first step towards meaningful change. Have you found any particular Stoic principles helpful in making this decision? We're here to support you on your journey.

    • @yourentrepreneurjourney9136
      @yourentrepreneurjourney9136 Місяць тому +1

      When one is done, they are DONE. You got this!🛐

    • @prakash5014
      @prakash5014 Місяць тому

      Q

    • @prakash5014
      @prakash5014 Місяць тому

      ¹1​@@yourentrepreneurjourney9136

  • @user-do9dh7mg1m
    @user-do9dh7mg1m 29 днів тому

    I’m ready to move on to the first message method

  • @Loraine1230
    @Loraine1230 Місяць тому +1

    User is common, one thing I know if there playing and not honest what I mean of honest if they betrayed there own family I don’t want to be close to them . If there not honest to there family do u think they are honest outside . I know no one’s perfect but to much lies sucks .

  • @diannajohnson903
    @diannajohnson903 Місяць тому

    It’s really not hard to recognize when someone is using you we still go ahead and let them do that to us because our heart is not made being cruel so it will take something dramatic or someone close to you to snap and that person being hurt and used that’s when gloves off l can take it but when it comes to my only child that’s different 🙏 when a person does me wrong l don’t like when it builds because it takes a lot before l will actually goes off on someone but I’m trying because life is too short to have someone abuse you over and over again something have to give you can stay away from that person or start a new life.

  • @MsBizzy888
    @MsBizzy888 Місяць тому

    I am up in aged. I found it has been hard for me to connect with folks as I would have did in HS Indvls are not being there authentic self and some just arn for a short while not a long while. True connections has been a struggle in my world in both Family and Individuals being fake with their intentions. I did not recognized this until reading up. I dont have to live like this I need to value myself more. I am healing and it is a process, yet I feel alone but not lonely. ❤

    • @MsBizzy888
      @MsBizzy888 Місяць тому

      Knowing that the connection is toxic and I can remove myself, and try not to feel guilty about it!! 🙏🏾

  • @chengfu7063
    @chengfu7063 Місяць тому

    That's why I keep to myself humans are the problem too much lies emotions are weak

  • @sheelasai7619
    @sheelasai7619 Місяць тому +2

    I have had many johns in my life, I am almost 70 and still can't figure out how to respond

  • @crazy-diamond7683
    @crazy-diamond7683 27 днів тому

    make them shorter ffs