Addressing Assumptions About Us as PARENTS!

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 30 січ 2025

КОМЕНТАРІ • 244

  • @MylaDowling
    @MylaDowling Рік тому +54

    I think Mal looks so amazing and her body created life and brought life into this world.. and like cam said she was born to be a mom ♥️🥰

  • @samanthabroaddrick2529
    @samanthabroaddrick2529 Рік тому +62

    Cam is an awesome dad! Whoever said he was a bad dad needs to get some glasses cuz he goes above and beyond for his wife and daughter! I'm so proud of him!!! ❤❤

    • @bendakstarkiller3407
      @bendakstarkiller3407 Рік тому +1

      He does most of the parenting in the videos that we see...

    • @hailey7335
      @hailey7335 Рік тому +1

      Fr

    • @Uniquemum73
      @Uniquemum73 Рік тому +1

      I'm not even a "fan" but it's clear he does almost everything..obviously someone wanting to start crap.

    • @hailey7335
      @hailey7335 Рік тому +1

      @@Uniquemum73 maybe they agreed on that

  • @mistyyoung122
    @mistyyoung122 Рік тому +21

    Omfreakinggoodness!!!! I had to pause and come drop a comment at the baby weight assumption!!
    Beautiful lady you do you and these assumptions are just self conscious people putting their doubts on you because they can't make a change for themselves 💯👌
    And Cam, that bad dad assumption was super discouraging because you are absolutely fantastic and supporting! I wish my partner had provided me with all the pre and anti natal care you have provided. You should be unbelievably proud of yourself 💯👌 You too Mal!!
    You're both doing amazing, don't let anyone tell you otherwise 👌💎🇦🇺

  • @tamarapace3036
    @tamarapace3036 Рік тому +19

    Our "kids" are 37 and 31. I still love seeing my husband interact with them. To see my eldest (daughter) still pulling the daddy card very effectively, never fails to make me laugh. To see my husband and son together being daddy and grandpa just melts my heart all over again. I love your attitude about being only 2 months in on this life adventure and excited for more!

    • @joyful_tanya
      @joyful_tanya Рік тому +3

      My children are 31 and 28. ❤️ I'm a nurse, so I was a stressed parent. I knew too much. 😂

  • @adahmalone9964
    @adahmalone9964 Рік тому +65

    y’all are AMAZING parents

    • @sshomesteaders1776
      @sshomesteaders1776 Рік тому +1

      Nope

    • @sshomesteaders1776
      @sshomesteaders1776 Рік тому

      @zoey.obvszoey9305 nope

    • @sshomesteaders1776
      @sshomesteaders1776 Рік тому

      @zoey.obvszoey9305 exploitation for profit equals shitty parents

    • @emmajane9403
      @emmajane9403 Рік тому

      @@sshomesteaders1776why are you so mean to this young couple 🤷🏼‍♀️ you have commented lots of nasty things on their videos, I’ve seen you a few times. It’s giving jealous 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @MyGodisawsome
      @MyGodisawsome Рік тому

      @@sshomesteaders1776how?

  • @purpleandred7
    @purpleandred7 Рік тому +48

    You guys are really good parents. I was a Mom at 21 and it wasn't easy, but if you have a good support system (which you do) then I think you will skate through the whole of parenthood. There isn't only one right way to parent, you have to do whatever works for you and however you feel God is leading you to raise your child. You're only 2 months in and already you have a system down, you're thinking of things that will help make it easier for you .. give yourself a pat on the back, you're doing great! 👪

  • @seastarsewing
    @seastarsewing Рік тому +6

    Oh my goodness yes!! Ever since I was 10 serving at my church in the baby nursery I've wanted to be a mom and a young parent at that for the same reason: I want to have energy for me future kids. Y'all are amazing and always being a smile to my face. I pray God's blessings over your beautiful family!❤

  • @elizabethbeauchamp6580
    @elizabethbeauchamp6580 Рік тому +23

    Don't listen to those silly people 😅! You're doing a great job as parents! It's all a learning experience, Your sweet baby will be fine and loving! It's good that you had her young, you can finish college when she goes to school or not! Big hugs❤! Many fun adventures ahead!

  • @TheGaredbug
    @TheGaredbug Рік тому +62

    OMG. Whoever submittted that weight comment needs to back off. Im assuming that person has never had a baby. The baby is only 2 months old for heavens sakes. First of all, bodies change afgter giving birth. it just happens. Secondly, the ONLY thing that matters at this point is being the best provider and protector for your new baby. Worrying about weight for vanity purposes is so sad. Mal....girl, just be you, whatever that is. Just be you.

  • @AmericanAkitaClub
    @AmericanAkitaClub Рік тому +7

    MAL! YOU LOOK GREAT❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ God loves you guys😊

  • @DilanBerry
    @DilanBerry Рік тому +3

    Mal- Don’t worry too much about having a 2nd baby, every pregnancy and labor is completely different and can’t be compared. At least that’s been my experience. Your next pregnancy and delivery could go so smoothly that you love every minute of it…I wish that for you!

  • @addisonb0
    @addisonb0 Рік тому +14

    Y’all are amazing parents, we love you and keep up the hard work!!!

  • @kathymcdougle4575
    @kathymcdougle4575 Рік тому +17

    Praying for y’all daily. Y’all are great parents.

  • @MelissaReed-q2k
    @MelissaReed-q2k Рік тому +2

    Can you do a clip on what it is like to have a spouse with ADHD? Like how to work together, make adjustments, recognize the condition and have patience, ect. How to make the relationship work and think of the others needs. ❤❤❤❤

  • @indigoblue3979
    @indigoblue3979 Рік тому

    I genuinely love these two. I'm not christian or religious but i appreciate how wholesome and sweet they are. Wish i had friends like them bc they dont seem like prudes either and seem genuinely fun. :)

  • @pamthompson3812
    @pamthompson3812 Рік тому +1

    Showing your child are memories for you too. We love watching kids grow up

  • @J_vibe2high
    @J_vibe2high Рік тому +2

    I’m 22 having my first baby with my husband and it made me feel so good to know y’all are younger parents as well🥰

  • @cathirodrigo2933
    @cathirodrigo2933 Рік тому +4

    You guys are GREAT!! Keep up the amazing work God has provided you with. Spread the Word 🙌🏻❤️

  • @avablock437
    @avablock437 Рік тому +7

    Your baby is so cute!! Y’all are great parents to her.

  • @dustynigielski
    @dustynigielski Рік тому +2

    you know parenting doesn't come with a step by step book, hurts to say people say people are bad parents when they are giving her the best life

  • @user-wt3dg6kt4z
    @user-wt3dg6kt4z Рік тому +3

    Thank you for showing the real side of being new parents ❤

  • @Purplekat_17
    @Purplekat_17 Рік тому +6

    You have such beautiful hearts. It's really enjoyable watching your family journey.

  • @litbugv2438
    @litbugv2438 Рік тому +5

    You slay as being awesome, good parents. Whoever commented on your weight has totally lost their minds. Baby weight or no baby weight, you look great!! You are both awesome parents.
    Love you guys 🩷

  • @gabbybubbles9589
    @gabbybubbles9589 Рік тому +3

    You guys are awesome my babygirl is turning 1 this month it's crazy watching you guys become parents
    The first year for sure flies by!❤️😊

  • @Theporchabove
    @Theporchabove Рік тому +1

    I wish I would have had babies earlier(I am 33 with my first two month old) your sentiment about being younger grandparents hit me so hard. My mom is still going and present (she had me young) and my husbands mom had him same age as us and the difference is insane... I do pray most days I can be there for my kids even tho we waited.. ❤

  • @samanthahope1316
    @samanthahope1316 Рік тому

    I don’t know how I’m not subscribed with how many of your short i watch! I love you guys🥰🥰

  • @irisv3282
    @irisv3282 Рік тому +1

    I wish I had my littles earlier. You two are doing a great job. Being parents is not pretty I love that you share that. But being parents is rewarding and you grow as a person and in your relationship with each other. ❤ all your videos.

  • @hollyrosegrant4410
    @hollyrosegrant4410 Рік тому

    Mal you look amazing!!!! You and Cam are awesome parents! You are doing great with that beautiful baby girl and you will continue to do great. Being young parents is awesome, take it from me. I have 3 kids. I am 35 and my children are 18, 13, and 9. You guys have got this! I cant wait to watch your little family grow!

  • @betsyavalos9949
    @betsyavalos9949 Рік тому +3

    Y’all are doing a great job as parents!! God bless you guys and your baby girl ❤

  • @angelaminter2632
    @angelaminter2632 Рік тому

    I don’t even have to watch the video Ive been following you guys even before Mel got pregnant. You both are amazing and your videos have helped me and my man because you’re showing us how it really is after a baby and you’re not really sugarcoating. It honestly makes us want kids in the future even more seeing how hard it could be but how much of a blessing it is

  • @a.loves.u
    @a.loves.u Рік тому +6

    congrats on being parents for 2 months!!

  • @felicitycossins33
    @felicitycossins33 Рік тому +1

    You are both amazing xxxx
    There’s negatives in life with or without a baby, super bad days and amazing days xx it’s all normal xxxx

  • @stacydilks5260
    @stacydilks5260 Рік тому +1

    Your the best 1st parents!!! You couldn’t make a book to be the perfect parents!! Every person is different ❤

  • @merci0612
    @merci0612 Рік тому +3

    Omg first to click on the video. I love you guys so much and keep up with the hard work. Your amazing parents 🫶🏻

  • @lindaplank5972
    @lindaplank5972 Рік тому

    You are both great parents!
    It’s awesome that you both take shifts as far as baby care!

  • @Lillee944
    @Lillee944 Рік тому +4

    Who else loves them two to bits 🥹 they're just so un filtered (in a good way) ❤

  • @candicemanning4026
    @candicemanning4026 Рік тому +1

    You guys are doing GREAT!!! Don’t listen to the bad assumptions… Y’all are picking up on things quickly… ❤❤❤

  • @mountainmama7155
    @mountainmama7155 Рік тому +1

    It is a holy thing to integrate into Motherhood/Fatherhood. The Scripture says that He gently leads those with young. A sighed prayer means just as much to the Father,I believe, when He looks down and sees you feeding your baby and sighing a prayer up. I've been there many times. The Father is more than understanding about new Motherhood💗💗💗

  • @kitdriscoll1288
    @kitdriscoll1288 Рік тому +2

    Love the ending, lol ....wonderful video!❤❤

  • @Omgitscami
    @Omgitscami Рік тому +3

    First!Congrats on being parents!

  • @xoxo_k1tty
    @xoxo_k1tty Рік тому +3

    Hi mal and cam I love your videos!!!Y'all are good parents and I can't even imagine it's been two months time flys so quick!

  • @PrettyAngelKiki
    @PrettyAngelKiki Рік тому +5

    I love watching u guys and I think u guys are amazing parents!!

  • @Lululemon241
    @Lululemon241 Рік тому +3

    Yall are such great parents love yalls videos!

  • @kelseyschafferman615
    @kelseyschafferman615 Рік тому

    You both are amazing parents! I love how well of a team you two make!! May God Bless you both and your little girl! You deserve much happiness! ❤❤❤

  • @steph91980
    @steph91980 Рік тому

    The assumption that Cam is a bad dad shouldn't even exist! From every video I've seen you both are nothing short of amazing!!

  • @ItsNotTheVibe.
    @ItsNotTheVibe. Рік тому +5

    Yall are such great parents ❤

  • @rebeccahiebert3057
    @rebeccahiebert3057 Рік тому

    I came across ya'll by chance when Mal was about 7-8mo pregnant. I am in love with ya'll and your content. I think you are a beautiful couple inside and out.Ya'll have a beautiful daughter and I can't wait to see her grow up with two amazing parents

  • @tayyy_tayyy03
    @tayyy_tayyy03 Рік тому +1

    14:06 “It’s not gonna be anything super special because I just got fired” 😂😂😂 I love that you have a good sense of humor about stuff like that and you’re not down about it that’s really good… I Love watching you two 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @gohanquokkaa
    @gohanquokkaa Рік тому +2

    love yall!! u guys are doing good as a parent!! ❤❤

  • @NewBeginningsWithYou
    @NewBeginningsWithYou Рік тому

    You are good people You obviously love your baby! Enjoy!

  • @Natalya.M-L.R
    @Natalya.M-L.R Рік тому +3

    I love y’all and y’all are such good parents!!!!!! ☺️☺️☺️

  • @memyself1952
    @memyself1952 Рік тому

    I have a 23 year old son and an 18 year old daughter and I hope hope hope they can be like you guys. I was hooked after the curb video during pregnancy and I share your stuff with my kiddos all the time. I absolutely love how you have no shame in your true selves and your love for Jesus. I think the control comment and the baby weight comment come from a place of jealousy and anger.

  • @Jess.k.and.MintyAirplane
    @Jess.k.and.MintyAirplane Рік тому

    I wanted to pause real quick and comment. Mal just said she loves being a mom and parenting with Cam and when he holds her or basically when he's in active daddy mode she gets googly eyes. I agree 100%. There is nothing sexier then watching my man be a dad. And play with our son and push the stroller on our walks. Everything. You both are kicking butt at being parents. I appreciate you showing the harder moments of having a newborn because not all newborns are easy and just sleep or cam self soothe. My son cried just to cry sometimes. Hes 3 will be 4 in October but from like 2 months until probably 4 and half, 5 months he just wanted to be held and wanted to cry. I took him to the Dr. like there has to be something wrong with him. His Dr. told us he's the male form of a diva and he'll faze out of that. I know for us those were in the dead of winter days so we couldn't just go for a walk and then when thr weather wasn't freezing covid hit. I'm talking quarantine just happened and a mask wasn't a requirement yet. And he's just a little guy I didn't want to catch it and give it to him. Anyway it will get better. You will get more confidence in your parenting because you'll find out what works for your little girl. Keep your heads up. Ok enough rambling from me. My apologies. If you read this far thank you for reading. ❤❤❤

  • @kimmoore9862
    @kimmoore9862 Рік тому +2

    You’re both going to be very good parents ❤❤❤

  • @calebmom429
    @calebmom429 Рік тому +2

    ❤You guys are so cute! BREAD BASKETS GIVEAWAY!! 😂❤

  • @reneepaton2344
    @reneepaton2344 Рік тому +5

    Y'all are awesome parents ❤️😍

  • @debfordeb
    @debfordeb Рік тому

    Cam needed to hear that. By the way you both ROCK!!!

  • @Alexis_me123
    @Alexis_me123 Рік тому +2

    So good y’all are great parents and I’m first!!! Yay

  • @alysonvincent633
    @alysonvincent633 Рік тому +1

    Caution putting kids pic on internet is more a safety issue. You are both great parents. You care about how your actions affect your little one!!

    • @Uniquemum73
      @Uniquemum73 Рік тому

      It is 100% a safety issue. And don't make $$ off your kids.

  • @testclient2738
    @testclient2738 Рік тому

    I’m so excited to watch baby Adeline grow up!❤

  • @amandahenderson6145
    @amandahenderson6145 Рік тому +1

    Forget the haters continuing slaying your best life game. Mallory you are gorgeous like mean 💯 girl crush level.

  • @samanthafaithoverfear993
    @samanthafaithoverfear993 Рік тому

    Boom! Bang! POW!! That’s right!!🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻💜💜

  • @Shine_on_Baby22
    @Shine_on_Baby22 Рік тому +1

    You guys are going to be fine 🙂. I think 🤔 you work together well and you are going to be together till you are old. And you have a good baby

  • @mytoefelloff
    @mytoefelloff Рік тому +3

    yall lit are the best parents i think ive ever seen😭

  • @XPotatobreadX
    @XPotatobreadX Рік тому +4

    You are Both so nice I love that you love the lord and god bless your hearts and your daughter is so cute thank you - you make my day great when you post

  • @milamarjaana
    @milamarjaana Рік тому

    I love your videos!🥹 You’re just so genuine, funny and kind hearted people ❤ And I know that you’re amazing and loving parents - the best parents to your baby 🥰 Greetings from Finland 😊

  • @heresnotjohnny
    @heresnotjohnny Рік тому

    You guys are amazing, wish you the best of luck 💖

  • @Carla_Firestone2009
    @Carla_Firestone2009 Рік тому

    With the whole age of becoming parents my parents had their oldest child at 23 years old and they got married when they were 21. I think that it is better to have kids young because then when you're 40 you can have all the freedom you want and you can have energy as grandparents to keep up with the grand kids. That's the way that my parents looked at it. My parents are the best parents ever and I think ya'll will be too.

  • @kirri1312
    @kirri1312 Рік тому +3

    You guys make my day!

  • @eviep7134
    @eviep7134 Рік тому +3

    You guys are adorable you're doing a fabulous job keep it up ☺️ 🙏💯❤️😉🌞😎

  • @makenna578
    @makenna578 Рік тому

    Lovely video! I just entered my second trimester, and my husband and I will be young parents as well (23 and 2 weeks shy of 23). If you have a chance, I’d love to hear about things you guys made sure to do together before having your first :) Thanks for all you do ❤

  • @gretchenlancero3008
    @gretchenlancero3008 Рік тому +1

    You guys are looking so cute & crisp with your white on white shirts & car seats!

  • @camilopez774
    @camilopez774 Рік тому

    You guys are doing a great job as new parents

  • @rahimamakhmudofa7936
    @rahimamakhmudofa7936 Рік тому

    You guys are so cute as a couple like I love how fun cam is and mal is so pretty for her age she is always so beautiful and you guys match each other perfectly 🥰 💞 💖 💗 ❤ 💕 🥰

  • @patriciafalk1272
    @patriciafalk1272 Рік тому

    Cam is a great Dad! Mal is a wonderful Mom! Love you guy's! Keep it up and don't ever think your not doing a great job! When it's your time together after the baby goes down, read the Bible and give your faith a chance to help you both in parenting 😊

  • @barbaraquiroz8399
    @barbaraquiroz8399 Рік тому

    You guys are awesome!! 🙏🏽🕊️❤️

  • @09Lenaole
    @09Lenaole Рік тому +4

    You are great parents! ❤

  • @brenda1806
    @brenda1806 Рік тому +1

    You are a great mommy and daddy! As a first time mom (although our LO isn’t so little anymore she is 29 months 😮) expose her to those noises lights and sounds while she naps in the day! Daddy making some noise is ok! It’ll make life easier as a toddler parent trust me! 😂

    • @brenda1806
      @brenda1806 Рік тому

      Also I’m 45 and everyone thinks I’m too old to be a first time mama so everyone has opinions of age. You do you!

  • @kylemoore2524
    @kylemoore2524 Рік тому +1

    OK I have to know did you guys take this down and re-upload it I must be tripping out but I remember watching this a day or 2 ago
    But also love the videos and glad to see people who are open about there relationship with the lord doing well

  • @Azoreanislandgirl64
    @Azoreanislandgirl64 Рік тому +1

    Amazing young couple and parents. We all are different. ❤

  • @Pointblankhome
    @Pointblankhome Рік тому

    10:27 gosh this lesson can be so hard to learn! I just remember that i want to be with my partner not another version of myself. And that their differing opinion is not challenging, degrading, or invalidating my opinion. This was deff a lesson i didnt expect i needed but whew is it forcing me to grow lol

  • @lilycochrane4130
    @lilycochrane4130 Рік тому +6

    I love you vids ❤❤❤ and you're baby is so cute ❤

    • @piperbailey1824
      @piperbailey1824 Рік тому

      Huh??? You are baby is so cute???? That doesn’t make sense Lmaooo

    • @lilycochrane4130
      @lilycochrane4130 Рік тому

      ..um it says you're not you are

    • @piperbailey1824
      @piperbailey1824 Рік тому

      @@lilycochrane4130 Lmaooo you’re means you are😂😂😂😳

  • @ColdHeartedXD
    @ColdHeartedXD Рік тому

    Being parents is tough. I actually appreciate you guys showing that it is not sunshine and rainbows everyday. Its hard but rewarding.
    Also I would look into having a midwife and doula, then going to a birth center (with a tub for water birth, just cuz you have much more control on movements and environment isnt as chaotic as hospitals) instead of a hospital. Could ease your anxiety and its just as safe as a hospital.
    I would recommend a home birth but thats a big leap if you are anxious of a rough labor again.

  • @Curi0us_Cat
    @Curi0us_Cat Рік тому +5

    ITS ALREADY BEEN 2 MONTHS? it’s literally felt like days.

  • @maryannlee4629
    @maryannlee4629 Рік тому +1

    You guys ROCK❤

  • @outsidersongs2682
    @outsidersongs2682 Рік тому

    I think you are both really good parents

  • @SimplyRochelleParanormal
    @SimplyRochelleParanormal Рік тому +3

    U BOTH ARE amazing New parents and Mal looks amazing!! Like what?!! I guess some DNT understand Mama's body while breastfeeding ... Oh well we'll pray 🙏 for em'!! Much love frm Florida 🩷🩷🌴🌴🩷🩷

  • @stefanietaylor5402
    @stefanietaylor5402 Рік тому +3

    I’m so confused why the cover photo for the video is on a couch but the video is in your car? Also I’ve seen the video before. Is it a reupload or mistakenly uploaded again?

    • @goldies6909
      @goldies6909 Рік тому +2

      I said the same thing! I thought I was going crazy for a second there 😅

  • @user-mama_thomas
    @user-mama_thomas Рік тому

    I don't know how anyone could think that either one of y'all are older than you are. If anything, you both look younger than you are. Y'all are both amazing parents and an amazing couple. The baby weight comment was rude. But you were definitely spot on with your answer. It can even be different for the same person with different pregnancies. My first daughter I lost all the baby weight before she was even a month old, and my second daughter it took me a while to get back down to pre-baby weight. Everyone is different, and that's okay. Plus, you look great.

  • @RissaBeans
    @RissaBeans Рік тому +3

    Studies do show that Red dye 40 does have negative impacts on your body specifically your brain.

  • @abbycheyenne9727
    @abbycheyenne9727 Рік тому

    I really enjoy watching all of your videos ❤

  • @abio.195
    @abio.195 Рік тому +2

    You guys are cool🎉 and fun❤

  • @dancingpixie74sb
    @dancingpixie74sb Рік тому +1

    Who cares what anyone thinks! This is why I think social media can be very toxic.
    I think you both are absolutely blessed and amazing!!!!!!!! Jesus has truly blessed you both 😇😍🙏🏼❤️😇

  • @ryanklaas6045
    @ryanklaas6045 Рік тому

    You guys are my favorite youtubers ever ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BIG_SUN_AND_MOON_SHOW_FAN
    @BIG_SUN_AND_MOON_SHOW_FAN Рік тому +2

    No way my aunt uncle our parents of a baby of two months to what a coincidence!!!!! and also congratulations🎉❤😊

  • @lisabeth2994
    @lisabeth2994 Рік тому

    I’d love to be part of giveaway 😅 also keep up the good work…don’t ever worry about what others have to say. The only opinion that matters is your own and your daughter. My23 year old daughter recently thanked me for giving her the best childhood. All the doubting, hard work, sacrifices and worries of being a parent were all worth it in that moment.

  • @katelynnk2795
    @katelynnk2795 Рік тому

    You guys are awesome!! What do they say about assumptions it makes an a** out of you ! I can’t believe anyone would think cam was a bad dad or that you need to lose the baby weight love your answer your supporting life geeze !! That’s wayyy more important

  • @JessicaMason-k4t
    @JessicaMason-k4t Рік тому

    I DID ALL 3! thank you for reminding me

  • @prbd0985
    @prbd0985 Рік тому

    I think you guys are amazing parents you’re very smart doing a portion of your income for the baby because the baby is in your videos and also I don’t know why people are in this new mindset of being young parents is a bad thing that was very normal 10-15 years ago if you were born in the 80s or 90s it was very normal to start having kids 19 to 25. I had my first child at 22 and that was on the older end of normal at that time and I am not even 40 yet

  • @ameenoahmad
    @ameenoahmad Рік тому

    You guys are amazing!!