Nurse Bullying & How to Avoid Workplace Drama!

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  • Опубліковано 13 лип 2024
  • Nurse Bullying...
    This is a shame. How is it that people are so mean but have chosen a profession in which they are supposed to be caring for others!?!? How does that make sense! Nurse bullying occurs in many ways, from literally picking on the newbies, to setting coworkers up for failure. It is just plain awful. I may be new to the profession but I definitely do not stand for nurse bullying and refuse to allow it to happen to me or anyone else. Nurse bullying needs to stop. Nurses already face enough challenges day to day, being bullied by peers and coworkers should be the least of a nurse's worries. Let's find a way to stop nurse bullying and avoid workplace drama! As adults let's do better and be better!
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    0:00 Why Nurse bullying Is important to me
    1:10 Two of my experiences
    6:26 My 5 words of advice
    13:14 Share your story!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 83

  • @TheDanielleDenise
    @TheDanielleDenise  2 роки тому +11

    Have any of you experienced nurse bullying or lateral problems in the workplace? If you don't mind sharing feel free to share how you overcame that!

    • @nicola3060
      @nicola3060 11 місяців тому

      This video is spot on. I had my cna , got into nursing school while my son was a baby I was only 19 ! I was so proud and excited . Block 1 was great . Cue block 2 . Cue meeting nurses who hate you , themselves , their patients. Not for me . Waited to the next spot . Same stuff. Nurses who hate their life. I decided to leave . If that was my future in away ( becoming it or working with it ) I didn’t want it . I’m still a cna now . I get my happiness from taking care of my patients, being gentle and slow with them ( I work in rehab ) I love bedside care and I wish people who see a great cna don’t insist they go to nursing school. You guys keep encouraging all there compassionate cnas into nursing where they get wrecked but the hold military style shit that’s is nursing now .

    • @pastorfeliciadavis132
      @pastorfeliciadavis132 3 місяці тому

      Prayer and I don’t mind speaking up. Cause I went thru hell in nursing school and I was already a LPN. I was determined after rn school that it was mines God ordained me to be here and no devil in hell will take it from me

  • @BL-no7jp
    @BL-no7jp 2 роки тому +49

    Nurse bullying has existed since the early years of nursing. Bullying is just a symptom of a narcissistic personality disorder and the narcissist is more likely to lack the critical thinking skills required in nursing and they cannot be trusted with patient care or record keeping. As a retired supervisor, it’s been my experience the narcissist nurse creates the most friction in the workplace and require closer supervision than the average worker. Too many people tend to confuse arrogance with intelligence.

    • @Inkbkank.2029
      @Inkbkank.2029 2 місяці тому

      Amen 😂 I’m doing my last couple of prerequisites it’s scary many of them are narcs I love how u worded it

  • @marys3738
    @marys3738 Рік тому +22

    I've always been told that I'm too kind and polite. I have never seen it as a problem until I started working in a hospital. Nurses are freaking rude. No matter how sweet and nice you are to them. Now I'm working on not being too nice and not smile too much at others.

    • @ms.mtruth6169
      @ms.mtruth6169 10 місяців тому +5

      Don’t let people change just set stronger boundaries

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Рік тому +14

    Its hard to stop it when nurses play like they dont know what abuse of power, incivility, or bullying is. Nurses can't keep denying this huge problem in nursing.

  • @mstyah
    @mstyah 7 місяців тому +10

    Workplace bullying will never end

    • @viviandaviss
      @viviandaviss 4 місяці тому +2

      Yup, this is in every job doesnt matter the profession. Heck the most drama filled job I had was at Taco Bell. I would argue that female dominated fields are the most toxic though.

  • @DreamingHearts
    @DreamingHearts 9 місяців тому +6

    They are worse to the housekeepers there. Im a housekeeper for a hospital, and the nurses treat us like 💩. I've learned to ignore the mean ones, remember their names, and report them when necessary. Unfortunately, no matter how many times our boss has a meeting with them to tell them to be kind, they never learn. And they have the audacity to complain about why the hospital can't keep housekeepers when they keep quitting because of the bullying.

  • @ruth_a_r.n.2753
    @ruth_a_r.n.2753 Рік тому +8

    Nurses need to be kind to each other as well as uplift the profession of nursing!

  • @msfredijr
    @msfredijr 2 роки тому +28

    Happened to me last night. Mind you, you and I look very similar even down to the personality and presence, except I’m older lol. Just those characteristics alone throw A LOT of people off. I’m as sweet as I can be until I’m not. I’ve had to start paper trails (emails) in order to demand the respect everyone is due. Last night they played themselves short. They just don’t know, they’ll hurt themselves trying to hurt me. We are out here and we will not be mishandled. We are all supposed to be here for the same purpose.

    • @TheDanielleDenise
      @TheDanielleDenise  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you so much for sharing you're experience. It is so disappointing that we even have to go through this! And I totally agree with you! I hope it get better for both of us and anyone else like us! It needs to stop!

    • @jennyclementemelo7619
      @jennyclementemelo7619 2 роки тому +2

      I just can't wrap my head around this long-time issue! It will get better ladies with people like you, and your sympathy more will follow, I myself been wanting to be a nurse…Changes will come for the well-being of yourself and those who you care for! Keep it up! Thank you ladies for what you do:)

  • @kristinanicole6778
    @kristinanicole6778 6 місяців тому +4

    Bullying in general is just a huge projection of that toxic person and their personal issues. I’m still learning to stick up for myself. I am pleasant, professional and kind as possible. Work should be a place of team work not a take down place!

  • @Melons-vg8dq
    @Melons-vg8dq 2 місяці тому

    Hand-off report should be taped. Managers should spot check for bullying. Nurses will be mindful.

  • @mandia469
    @mandia469 3 місяці тому +2

    I work for the airlines and have seen the cattiness, and the bullying my whole career here. Ive done this for hmph....19yrs now. Its discouraging, and emotionally distressing. Ive thought about walking away from this crap ive endured for 19yrs and not give two craps about it! And still feel this way. Its sad this is all over corporate america. Mine as well just look to work remote!

  • @adennega556
    @adennega556 Місяць тому

    4:55 girl you gave me a flashback to my labor and delivery rotation and this nurse straight up walked away from me and said, go be with that girl over there! Didn’t tell me who or what she looked like. Some nurses are pathetic smh.

  • @wendydemas7019
    @wendydemas7019 Рік тому +5

    I have experienced bullying as a nurse. I don't think I have a strong personality like you but I have tried to speak up for my self and I even reported the bullying but nothing ever happened. The thing is alot of times management tend to favor the bullies. There were other nurses who seen the bullying but chose to look the other way. Nurses need to support each other and respect each other. We need to stick up for one another. Alot of times that does not happen. Sometimes the only option is to leave. We should not sacrifice our mental health. Great video. I agree with you 100%. We need to end nurse bullying.

  • @nadinejones7003
    @nadinejones7003 Рік тому +3

    Nurse bullying happens @ my workplace too..ugh

  • @michaelwduffy
    @michaelwduffy 2 роки тому +5

    Never knew about this problem! Thanks for sharing!

    • @TheDanielleDenise
      @TheDanielleDenise  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching! I’m glad this video can raise awareness as well!

  • @ItsTyshae
    @ItsTyshae Місяць тому

    😂😂😂😂 i’m preparing myself this was so funny and entertaining to watch 👏🏾💗

  • @bella-ds5hh
    @bella-ds5hh Рік тому +3

    I watched your videos 2 years ago when I was beginning as a RBT and now I'm on my way out of that job and onto beginning my nursing journey. Thank you for your videos!

    • @TheDanielleDenise
      @TheDanielleDenise  Рік тому

      Oh my gosh!!! This is so amazing to hear!! Congratulations!!!! thank you for coming back to update me too! 🤍💕

  • @hycentmaduforo2657
    @hycentmaduforo2657 2 роки тому +8

    The say third times a charm, I'm officially a nurse 🎉🎉 keep pushing it don't give up and discouraged.

    • @hycentmaduforo2657
      @hycentmaduforo2657 2 роки тому +1

      Everything has it's own season just keep praying and believe you get it

    • @maryannconed4484
      @maryannconed4484 2 роки тому

      Well I've taken nclex exams for the second time now and didn't pass, I wonder how does who sucesseded did it

    • @nelsonrichard1568
      @nelsonrichard1568 2 роки тому

      Nclex exams won't bother you or be a problem if you work with someone like Mrs Sophia

    • @evanjones1502
      @evanjones1502 2 роки тому

      Mrs Sophia is obviously the best after studying her questions and answers just for 3 days the materials she provided was exactly what came out on my test day.

    • @jessyjohnson360
      @jessyjohnson360 2 роки тому

      Please can someone help reach Mrs Sophia

  • @ronalddancaliva883
    @ronalddancaliva883 11 місяців тому +1

    It cannot be stopped and As I'm thinking about bullying that's AI nurse is a must in the future health care for sure AI nurse will never get tired of schooling those new nurses who are just starting with their careers

  • @MelloneeKecia
    @MelloneeKecia 2 роки тому +1

    Great video as always 👍🏾👏🏾🤗 and it’s sad that this is happening

  • @lifewithbella0807
    @lifewithbella0807 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing once again...looking forward to these videos

  • @elizabethcruz4780
    @elizabethcruz4780 2 роки тому +1

    My sweet nurse I just found your channel! I love your content and the way you present yourself. I love your humor as well and this is one my favorite videos. 😂. Keep up the great work! Also, may I just add, in my mind when other coworkers are being rude in my mind im just like “And, don’t check me, B****, check the air quality.” 😅

  • @DPique
    @DPique 7 місяців тому

    Great tips thank you!

  • @MsM3fly
    @MsM3fly 7 місяців тому +1

    Brilliant advice, thanks so much!!!!!

  • @specialkids5110
    @specialkids5110 2 роки тому +1

    I love that earned part. Turn off music while listening to them but never contribute a word. This has helped me alot at my place of work as an RBT. Thanks for sharing

  • @enriquecallender5368
    @enriquecallender5368 Рік тому

    Great video and information!!!!!

  • @PiaLove-wu9si
    @PiaLove-wu9si 2 місяці тому

    Here's a black nurse telling other nurses how to avoid workplace drama! This is different from anything I have seen in real life. These nurses in Michigan are requiring drama just to work- which sounds ridiculous!

  • @kaylahood1000
    @kaylahood1000 10 місяців тому +2

    I’m a teacher and I am thinking about becoming a nurse 👩🏾‍⚕️ but the process of getting into nursing school it’s a bit much and pressure I am taking my intro to anatomy and physiology for the third time yep. I enjoy working with kids. I have been thinking about being a school nurse or pediatric. If not then I may find something else to do.

  • @Melons-vg8dq
    @Melons-vg8dq 2 місяці тому

    There are nursing schools for Americans in the Philippines. They let you do a lot of hands on.

  • @yolandacleare6709
    @yolandacleare6709 2 роки тому +1

    I thought the bullies left. Well they better leave before I reach I have no tolerance for BS.

  • @JordanMorales-kx1vp
    @JordanMorales-kx1vp 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this. I’ve been bullied the last 6 months by coworkers because being pregnant there are certain procedures I cannot perform (the chemicals involved). It has truly left me at my breaking point.

  • @Melons-vg8dq
    @Melons-vg8dq 2 місяці тому

    Should be part of Joint Commission survey. Civility

  • @POV00005
    @POV00005 2 роки тому +2

    Even WORST when doctors decide to pick at you! Every one wants to say inappropriate things: sexual comments and things about your past!
    S A D!!

  • @cherylrajewski3390
    @cherylrajewski3390 Місяць тому

    I am curious why the hospitals themselves do not address this. Yes, people can report others but they need to improve moral between workers and between RN's and the other depts they interact with. For the reasons you had I did not go into nursing because the last thing I wanted was to be stuck on a unit and bullied. So I went into respiratory therapy but guess what? They bully and gossip as well!!! Also some RNs treat the RTs horribly and I am sure it is vice versa. For me I found the younger preceptors the hardest to work with, the older ones were very chill and easy going. The young ones are the ones that gossiped and talked behind other RTs backs. Our instructors did warn us to not gossip or engage in any conversations because these same people will write reviews on us. As a student you can't speak up because usually the hospital will back up the employee not the student and then the student can be kicked out of the hospital. I was told it is best to just nod and kept your mouth shut because no matter what you say they might perceive that you are getting smart with them and they have the power to complain about you. Needless to say after my experience in the hospitals I am looking to get into sleep studies so I can work independently. I do like the idea of wearing ear pods with no sound that way no one will tend to pull you into any rumors that you knew or were part of a gossip situation.

  • @amethystmarii
    @amethystmarii 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve just started my very first semester in my grad entry nursing program. I’m bracing myself in encountering these situations when I start my clinicals in the spring. Do you have any tips on how not to react so strongly? I can get super angry when mistreated (years of trauma lol) and my outbursts aren’t so…sweet. I don’t want to put my integrity on the line but I also don’t want to react like I’m going to fight someone. Any tips and advice is greatly appreciated ❤️

  • @st4390
    @st4390 Рік тому +3

    sounds like the same nonsense in nursing school this is why I am to myself

  • @miningho5913
    @miningho5913 11 місяців тому

    ♥️and support you

  • @gabbymiles5655
    @gabbymiles5655 2 роки тому +1

    Great video thanks for sharing

  • @rumbidzaigloriatigere9096
    @rumbidzaigloriatigere9096 2 роки тому +1

    Hie Denise
    M new in the House💃💃🎉🎊🌹

  • @yunzhu4815
    @yunzhu4815 2 роки тому +1

    As a foreigner nurse here in the State, I am so nervous thinking about going to work and worried people would miss what I really wanted to express 😂

    • @jesstiss222
      @jesstiss222 2 роки тому

      💗

    • @Lovebk98
      @Lovebk98 Рік тому

      Yeah don't give up on your dream.Some patients are straight racist they will mock you because of your accent .I am black and i had a patient who had the audacity to talk shit about black student he had before.

    • @floydfarano3284
      @floydfarano3284 7 місяців тому

      I worked for a few with another black nurse who would not take care of black men.I just took it she had pasted issues.

  • @Margowka1
    @Margowka1 Місяць тому

    I wish you were my friend at work

  • @cindymatthews5338
    @cindymatthews5338 5 місяців тому +1

    She Plays the Race Card is my story of racism and discrimination. All my EEO complaints were labeled "unsubstantiated". The memoir is unbelievable. It's on Amazon

  • @BEAUTYWIFTIMAH30
    @BEAUTYWIFTIMAH30 2 роки тому

    I’m exciting this now

  • @jacquierivera8951
    @jacquierivera8951 Рік тому +1

    Hello Nurse Danielle! I'd love to see how you are doing as a working nurse are you planning on downloading ever again?

    • @TheDanielleDenise
      @TheDanielleDenise  Рік тому +1

      Heeeeyy!!! I definitely want to come back! I’m just working on getting out of my head and getting back in front of the camera!

    • @jacquierivera8951
      @jacquierivera8951 Рік тому

      @@TheDanielleDenise I have been accepted into a MEPN progam and I start in January 2023! Your videos are must see tv for me. Whenever you are ready I'll be watching.

  • @diamondgc3473
    @diamondgc3473 8 місяців тому

    08.10, 8.30😅❤!

  • @TheDoriette
    @TheDoriette 2 місяці тому

    I vent to myself and God. 😂

  • @beyondview
    @beyondview 11 місяців тому

    Hello. Are you doing okay?

  • @rachelfaith3578
    @rachelfaith3578 10 місяців тому

    How are you doing boo?

  • @fareenarahman8242
    @fareenarahman8242 2 роки тому +2

    Hey Denise I want to personally talk to you! Can I call you. I need friendly professional advice

  • @sharonnycum5414
    @sharonnycum5414 4 місяці тому

    What kind of treatment are the patients receiving because they are fighting like it's the waffle house? The good nurses are gone. Good luck getting help now. They fight everywhere including children's bday parties.

  • @larosalarosa288
    @larosalarosa288 Рік тому +1

    Never ever will be a Nurse.