My diagnosis really made an impact on my husband 2018. He took me to the doctor but after diagnosed with PPMS he just dropped the ball and gave up on me. I became a burden and he resented me, I felt and he stated. He died in November 2023 of cancer. He was sick awhile but we both could have been more happy, he just would not open up and talk.
My fiance has MS and it's really destroying our life. I've become more depressed than her and I don't even know what to do with my life. I feel that her MS will kill me 1st. It's so much pain and hurt. I hate MS to it's very core
That must be incredibly challenging for you. Can I ask when she received her diagnosis? Depending on where you're based, I'd recommend looking on the 'Care & Support' pages for some larger companies to find out how they can help you to cope. For example, they often have helplines and run support groups/local events to provide emotional support. I'll link some websites for you here: www.mssociety.org.uk/care-and-support, mstrust.org.uk/what-we-do/about-us/ms-helpline-and-information, www.nationalmssociety.org/Resources-Support/Find-Support Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on.
@@wolfwonone5516 do you blame yourself for her MS? she says that i caused her this.... bcz of all the stress i gave her....And she is not gonna forgive me....
My experience with this; no. I’m 48 year old male with MS, divorced twice, so no. To be fair my first marriage failed because “I changed,” which of course I did but at the time I didn’t know I had MS. I Knew something was wrong but the marriage was based more on superficial than substance. Was finally diagnosed during second marriage, but she was significantly younger and understandably didn’t want to go through the uncertain future.
What a tough experience you've been through, regardless of MS. You clearly have a lot of strength. I hope that with the ongoing advancements in MS treatments, your future is looking less uncertain 🧡
Amazing conversation. MS #MadeStrong♥️
My diagnosis really made an impact on my husband 2018. He took me to the doctor but after diagnosed with PPMS he just dropped the ball and gave up on me. I became a burden and he resented me, I felt and he stated. He died in November 2023 of cancer. He was sick awhile but we both could have been more happy, he just would not open up and talk.
My fiance has MS and it's really destroying our life. I've become more depressed than her and I don't even know what to do with my life. I feel that her MS will kill me 1st. It's so much pain and hurt. I hate MS to it's very core
That must be incredibly challenging for you. Can I ask when she received her diagnosis? Depending on where you're based, I'd recommend looking on the 'Care & Support' pages for some larger companies to find out how they can help you to cope. For example, they often have helplines and run support groups/local events to provide emotional support. I'll link some websites for you here: www.mssociety.org.uk/care-and-support, mstrust.org.uk/what-we-do/about-us/ms-helpline-and-information, www.nationalmssociety.org/Resources-Support/Find-Support
Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on.
@@LivedHealthMS Thankbyou again. I will keep you posted.
Same thing is happening with me..... I can't leave her but depression will kill me....
@osamafarooq142 I'm so sorry my man! I'm saying a praying for you right now. I wish I had a magical solution for us
@@wolfwonone5516 do you blame yourself for her MS? she says that i caused her this.... bcz of all the stress i gave her....And she is not gonna forgive me....
My experience with this; no. I’m 48 year old male with MS, divorced twice, so no. To be fair my first marriage failed because “I changed,” which of course I did but at the time I didn’t know I had MS. I Knew something was wrong but the marriage was based more on superficial than substance. Was finally diagnosed during second marriage, but she was significantly younger and understandably didn’t want to go through the uncertain future.
What a tough experience you've been through, regardless of MS. You clearly have a lot of strength. I hope that with the ongoing advancements in MS treatments, your future is looking less uncertain 🧡
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