Mufti Menk - Mixing Culture & Religion (in Marriage)

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  • Опубліковано 19 тра 2015

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  • @kadraabdi5296
    @kadraabdi5296 6 років тому +11

    ManshaAllah may Allah guide you

  • @randomnessokay3688
    @randomnessokay3688 3 роки тому +13

    People, he is talking about culture and religion.. I.e. culture sometimes overtake religion and we as a Muslims shall know that there is no difference of rich or poor, black or white in islam.

  • @adembasou
    @adembasou 5 років тому +6

  • @wayupduk
    @wayupduk 5 років тому +1

    God bless

  • @shaunpatterson87
    @shaunpatterson87 2 роки тому +5

    Respect for that 👍a Muslim girl wants me to marry her and I don’t think her family will take to me because I’m not Muslim and I’m white and she Pakistani,I hate division.

  • @keepingitrealwithtomtom9689
    @keepingitrealwithtomtom9689 Рік тому +3

    I honestly believe that marriage should not be based on religion. I come from a Muslim background but I am a Christian. My father and mother and grand parents are all Muslims but my father second wife is Christian.
    I have a belief that God is one and sometimes we all create too much barriers and differences that people tends to forget the purpose of marriage and confuse it with religion.
    As I am right now, I have no issues or problem marrying a Muslim or Christian or what so ever one religion may be, but a lot of believers in God has a problem with this.
    Marrying same religion may be a preference but not a must. After All we are all created by God and our salvation is by grace not our personal deeds because in the end we all have stains, and secondly don’t force anyone to accept your religious view. You can share your view with them and if they want to reason with you and accept willingly that’s good because it’s God who called us all.
    Learn to find your own truth and also respect others truth or opinions of what they believe, as long as it does no harm to you or makes you not to believe that there is a God who supersedes everything. Z

    • @ServantofTheMostMerciful.
      @ServantofTheMostMerciful. Рік тому

      I don't understand, does the bible not have many contradictions and versions? Don't take this as an offence because it is not. Just trying to have an open conversation with you

  • @sharminchowdhury8236
    @sharminchowdhury8236 7 років тому +12

    Subhan'Allah 😣

  • @muslimmarriagesolution209
    @muslimmarriagesolution209 6 років тому

    MASHALLAH

  • @muhdharith2790
    @muhdharith2790 3 роки тому +18

    I convert my catholic Christian gf to Islam after I told her everything about Islam. She really want a better life, coz I met her by call girl service coz I want to know her more. I bet she's the one even she's not virgin coz she had too, but she is the most beautiful Allah's creation I've ever seen in my life. I want to save herself from this cruel world. She cried after I said I want to marry her and live a good normal life. And now she was open to learn from beginning.

    • @vikrant1401
      @vikrant1401 3 роки тому

      Where are u from brother

    • @-humsafar
      @-humsafar 3 роки тому

      God bless you

    • @gregorie3752
      @gregorie3752 2 роки тому

      Thats beautiful, my mulsim bf has done the same for me and I am greatful. God bless you, you saved her 💜

    • @supremeabuzar
      @supremeabuzar 2 роки тому

      I also told my non Muslim gf about Islam but my mistake was that I told her bluntly that whether you convert or we couldn't be together and I really want to make things normal for her.
      Because she has 0 support from her parents...and her parents are very rude to her and she's already had a very depressive past...
      What should I do please help me

    • @sameerhafeez7029
      @sameerhafeez7029 2 роки тому

      @@supremeabuzar become the best possible Muslim that you can be, and pray to Allah

  • @rosea2350
    @rosea2350 Рік тому +1

    For my fellow Christians: 2 Corinthians 6:14. I became a Christian after marriage, my husband is Muslim. He will not allow me to teach my daughter anything. Do not do it, God gave us The Bible for a reason.

  • @LeevanDebideen-sy8nm
    @LeevanDebideen-sy8nm 8 місяців тому

    What if u marry a non Muslim guy n he look afters his mother. And u have to stay in that house and the non Muslim mother in law does her religious things and u do not include urself in it? But ur family still has an issue with ur mother in law doing her prayer stuff in her house.. At the end of the day it is the mother in laws house... Please advise

  • @rumiet1000
    @rumiet1000 5 років тому +2

    What is a parents duty to stop her daughter from marrying a non Muslim man?

    • @emmasusie6
      @emmasusie6 3 роки тому +8

      You shouldn’t stop her

    • @mohansam8833
      @mohansam8833 2 роки тому +6

      If he is good and decent let her marry

  • @kshawty803
    @kshawty803 5 років тому +5

    So is it wrong a non Muslim I am wanting to marry a Muslim man?

    • @iheartropetech9789
      @iheartropetech9789 5 років тому +4

      Yes, it is wrong for a believer (muslim) to marry a non-believer (non muslim). Despite who man is. The quran speaks about this in surah al-baqarah verse 221. If you need full answer by Dr Zakir Naik here's the video. ua-cam.com/video/OqBoOgRkXNs/v-deo.html hope this clarifies.

    • @UB17CH
      @UB17CH 5 років тому +7

      Would you mind explaining the following for me then?
      The verse you mention shows the following -
      And do not marry polytheistic women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.
      If the above lady that has asked the question is a Christian, then she believes in a God, not multiple Gods. The term Polytheism is the worship of or belief in multiple deities. Why would this not be allowed?

    • @iheartropetech9789
      @iheartropetech9789 5 років тому +4

      The interpretation of the verse says, Do not marry a mushrik, until they believe. A believing slave woman is better than a non-mushrik even though she might please you. Meaning that if the girl is a Muslim wanting to marry a non-Muslim, even though the man is the king or the richest man in the world but he is a non-believer(non-muslim), a believing man who may be poor, ugly but a Muslim, he is far better than the non-Muslim. Because of the faith and the imaan.
      So IF she is a Christian, it does not matter if she believes in one or more than one God, it is a false God. Because Jesus PBUH never say he is god. Refer Matthew chapter 19 verse 16-17. If you haven't seen the video link I posted earlier, it gives an example of a vehicle tyre one is from a bicycle, one is from a truck, will the vehicle move? The answer is no because it should be equal. Similarly in a household, if one is a Muslim and one is a Christian, will the household work?
      So coming to your question, it is still not allowed in Islam. Until the man/woman believe in Allah, believe Muhammad PBUH is the last messenger, believe Jesus PBUH is not God but a prophet. Then the marriage can happen. The argument is not about how many God or Gods, but true or wrong God. Hope this clarifies.

    • @UB17CH
      @UB17CH 5 років тому +1

      Thank you. I must ask though, where are you getting your interpretation of this verse from?

    • @iheartropetech9789
      @iheartropetech9789 5 років тому

      Most welcome. I have the Quran's interpretation book at home. But I don't only rely on one, I've done some research and studies too. But I know I'm not the best and still wanting more knowledge. The least you can do is by looking up on the internet by scholars. Dr Zakir Naik is one the best scholar out there, I like watching his videos on youtube because the answers he gives is so logical and relatable. Hope this helps.

  • @abdulalimomar6116
    @abdulalimomar6116 6 років тому +10

    You are mixing things and confusing. My neighbour gave his 18yrs old daughter on knowing that he is pious. Only some month later he divorced on grounds that she is childish. Subhanallah.

    • @salimali4752
      @salimali4752 6 років тому

      Abdulalim Omar ; how did he know based on what? my brother its for sure he just presumed, and knowing someone its nt based on presumptions nor from face bt rather do research on him, ask neighbors, relatives etc thats how ull know a person

    • @TheMehdi1994
      @TheMehdi1994 6 років тому

      That sounded so funny 😂 lord forgive me

    • @MotorStorm66
      @MotorStorm66 3 роки тому +2

      They should’ve done what Salim said above me. Also, divorce isn’t haraam. Also, if the husband was actually pious and clever, he would’ve checked whether she was childish before marrying her and/or maybe he could’ve tried to stay with her. However, the point is divorces can happen to anyone, really.

    • @abdulalimomar6116
      @abdulalimomar6116 3 роки тому

      @@MotorStorm66 in indian muslim communities divorce is like stigma. The girl is also seems to be traumatized. She is still single.

    • @MotorStorm66
      @MotorStorm66 3 роки тому +1

      Abdulalim Omar well, the Indian Muslim community needs to work to remove this stupid stigma, then, as it’s not a stigma in Islam.

  • @AbdulAbdul-dw9rw
    @AbdulAbdul-dw9rw 5 років тому +8

    So does it mean that interfaith marriages is halal in Islam??
    Some1 help please

    • @mplsridah
      @mplsridah 5 років тому +6

      If you're a man you can marry a woman from the People of the Book.

    • @Sami-gn3sm
      @Sami-gn3sm 4 роки тому +3

      He is talking about culture not Religion..means a Muslim from different country

    • @-humsafar
      @-humsafar 3 роки тому +2

      Be humane brother it may be difficult to find some one who suits each other

    • @-humsafar
      @-humsafar 3 роки тому +2

      @@mplsridah that's purely gender bias

    • @sameerhafeez7029
      @sameerhafeez7029 2 роки тому

      @@-humsafar no, he is right it is mentioned in the Quran. But the thing is that now there have been so many changes made to the Christianity and Jewish beliefs that now, it's tough to find someone who believes in a pious way

  • @teenypi6960
    @teenypi6960 5 років тому +13

    Just stop listening to religious people and do what you want.

  • @amroolamroolamroolamrool7837
    @amroolamroolamroolamrool7837 5 років тому

    does sunni girl marry with a shia boy

    • @alizaraza6981
      @alizaraza6981 4 роки тому +7

      Go ahead. Respect his faith and he must respect your faith. At the end of the day we all are Muslims:)

    • @aliurk3966
      @aliurk3966 3 роки тому +2

      ​@@alizaraza6981 Are you shia?

  • @sulaiman9320
    @sulaiman9320 5 років тому +1

    Yes but I dont agree your soul