I think the predators hide behind reputable professions and credentials. Just like some of the pastors of churches and priests who hide behind the name of Jesus. It's awful .
@@kimberleeberry2039 They do that because so many people have this delusion that if somebody is in a certain high earning profession, or they're physically attractive etc. that they MUST be a "good person", when money, looks etc. say absolutely nothing about the person's character and what's going on in their head. Which is scary to think about, we think we can look at somebody, know a few things about them and appraise whether they are a "good person" on some shallow surface details which is nonsense.
@@kimberleeberry2039 Sure, you SHOULD be able to trust a doctor, unfortunately, some of them (like this guy) don't take their Hippocratic Oath very seriously.
Exactly! He didnt shed a tear when any of the victims gave their statments, only cried as his mother spoke about HIM. This monster is able to care about himself. Glad he's locked up for life, otherwise he would do it again
Absolutely! Twenty years since I used dating apps but twice, on first dates, things started to take a direction I didn't want. Twice I paid for my food and left. And woman,never go to the home of someone you don't know. Please, just don't do that.
Medical schools do have a significant non academic portion in the application that considers other factors like volunteer work. In fact, many applicants with very high test scores get turned down because they haven’t demonstrated a humanitarian side to their character. Do you have any suggestions on how a medical institution might predict what applicants are likely to commit crimes after obtaining money, power and prestige?
@@andrewgomez235This one does 🧐 it's not these ladies fault this happened to them. It seems even if they had done a quick background check like "let me see if he has any felonies" they wouldn't have known
@@Jonas-gl9ke I confirm that medical school does look at applicants’ other abilities, not just their grades. However, medical students can be actors and liars during the application process. I personally know a few people who got into medical school (now doctors), but are horrible people. They know what they should do to get in, but that’s not who they are.
@@jimkpani4829 She just met the dude off a dating app. Instead of meeting for dinner or coffee or whatever she meets him at a bar for drinks, then goes to his house and drinks more.
Not judging her based on society’s good girl messaging rather, women please do not immediately trust someone you just met! Please for your own safety and self preservation do not enter someone’s home on a first date. Always stay in public. Hell not second or third date either. Get to know the person from a safe distance. Safety, self preservation first. This had red flags, listen to your gut!
lmao yeah, victim mindset, everyone out to get you. Do you know what the odds are for the uber driver to do something like that? I agree she should have called 911 instead, but don't act like a random uber driver is going to SA someone, if anything they were mad this person threw up in their car
In some places, the police put you on hold and are slower to get to you than an uber... yes, I live in Chicago and was placed ON FVCKING HOLD calling the police! so good idea in theory but an uber can be there faster and the likelihood of being s3xually assaulted twice in a row by two different men is low and on top of that you may get a female driver.
Society has been training women to be polite and quiet for so long. Now I think this was part of the reason. So we'd stay silent through all of the abuse and assault
Please stop meeting men on dating apps. I met a few men on them. They are narcissists, abusive, and evil. Some prey as rapists, some are con artists, etc. You lose more than you gain on a dating app. Never again
I wanna back up the first reply to your comment here and say True, but....women are narcissists too as well as men particularly on dating apps. Thing is we live in this modern world with tech and this is a social norm with meeting people. Everybody has an agenda and I understand two wrongs don't make a right. This woman's story, my takeaway is that she herself was stated as interested in dating him cause he was a doctor. So that tells me she liked him for the trust he instilled?...I don't know the report implies that but I think it was more so about his money. Just an example...she could've dated me but I'm not her type cause I'm just a blue collar fella who works outside with my back and hands and the biggest reason of all I don't do dating apps. However I am intrigued by meet ups online specifically for singles. Haven't tried it but I heard about it and it seems like a nice way to find things in common with other singles and just maybe there is a special someone otherwise forget about out it. Life is hard enough without the drama of pleasing others.
@carpediem4512 whatever kind of thing you are, bot, subhuman, you obviously didn't hear she's educated, had a great job, lived independently, took care of herself but allowed herself to be seduced by a psycho
@@rorystorm4284 How? I don’t drug and rape women. Unlike him I’m not a liar. I call it as it is. You remind me of someone who is allergic to the truth.
"I didn't want to offend him" is a thing many women say when in a situation similar to this. 1. Never go to his home for a first date for ANY reason. 2. Never drink a drink that you didn't make or that you've left unattended for even 20 seconds. 3. Follow your gut. It's never wrong.
You still have to be careful, never know if a bottle is laced with something knowing you will want to use it, while they avoid using that bottle... just don't trust, it's either you or your life. We can't afford to get hurt in any way.
Just say that he will have to serve 7.9 scores just to make him feel a little better, even though it is the same duration as 158 years. May judges like him meet his makers soon and be disbarred. 180 days per victim is a way fairer sentence than the asinine abomination of 4 1/2 years per victim. 180 is way more than 4.5
I'm in the profession and, unfortunately, these things happen. I heard about many cases of MDs crossing the line. Victims should always sue their assaulters, always. Don't let those perverts practice medicine any longer.
🎯‼️Well said! Sadly, a lot of MDs are drug addicts, alcoholic, control freaks and narcissists. So are A LOT of lawyers. Doctors, as you know, just have easier access to pharmaceuticals. There’s a guy that I know who was/is going out with a physician who’s addicted to cocaine. He said she also drinks A LOT of alcohol and has at least three s * x partners. SOOOO dangerous! Such a pitiful lowlife - morally bankrupt. Yet, she has ACTUALLY said (I saw a video of her speaking) that she’s dedicated to healthy living. What a delusional and pathetic woman. Just sickening.
Yep, before they required a female to be in the room, I had a pulmonary doctor, perform a full breast exam on me, I thought it was odd, figured maybe this is a legit part of the exam. I still felt it was off, I didn't speak out, I had no reason to believe anyone would believe me, having been in similar situations as a child and as an adult not being believed about similar incidents. I also recall as an adult, seeing my childhood dentist being convicted of molesting children in his office. I am hopeful there are more good than bad doctors, but, I don't know anymore.
😂.. But, this crime was not committed on his patient and also not inside the hospital. So, how can he be stopped from working as a doctor? 😂 So, should all other professionals like engineers, accountants, pharmacists etc also be banned from working if they do similar crimes?
@@Chels-fz5uq I don't know how it works in other countries, but in mine, if you have a criminal record involving a crime such as indecent assault /offending a person's sexual integrity, you will be removed from your position and disbarred from the medical profession. Logically, if you can't control yourself in your private life, you won't be able to exercise restraint in the workplace.
And people call me paranoid and rude when I treat doctors like any other person. I don’t care what your profession is, doesn’t mean you’re a good person. I’ve met more bad people in positions of power than not. I don’t trust anyone in general, but especially not anyone who holds so much power and influence. People don’t want to accept that someone who is supposed to help people could be evil
If the person is a practicing physician, that's a more thorough background check than anyone can do on their own. But as we see here, still take time before going to somebody's house.
You ladies are all superheroes--I've had my 16yo daughter follow this case to show (sadly) that anyone may be capable of doing things like this, but that you CAN be believed and you MUST report and justice may actually be served. Thank God!
People do not seem to understand why these things happen. It´s not because girls and women don´t know about this. It´s because they are raised with too little self-confidence. Do you allow your child to say no to things? Do you even encourage that sense of knowing what the child (not) wants and needs and express that WITHOUT BAD REACTIONS? Do parents protect their children from the demands of others (and their own), like doing certain things or letting others (family and others) touch, hugs etc. Do children have to say nice things they don´t feel? Are you teaching them to listen to and act on their gut WITHOUT CONSEQUENCES? Is their selfworth based on doing things for others? And so on.
@danawelch3985~ traumatized for life? I’m sure life goes on and they are working and living their daily lives. People have a tendency to over victimize themselves. The equivalent of braking a bone life and time heals you, we are designed to continue life.
@@anthonymartinez4307I agree with you, but I also believe this man is not safe to be in society EVER. The length of time and number of assaults clearly proves his inability to live a normal humane existence with appropriate boundaries.
@@donnakreye8339yeah you know he had many opportunities to stop. Many to say that what he was doing was wrong. He kept going because he was unable to stop himself. Sick and gross. Poor ladies.
@@angelikalindenau943 I did hear that. It still odd during a date for someone to say they have to go let their dogs out and go with them especially after meeting that person online. What did she do with her dogs that prevented her from having to go let them out during the date? Why didn’t he do something similar? I’m glad she made it out of there but it’s still wasn’t a safe move.
@angelikalindenau943 Actually, did you listen? 0:33 She herself said that the only reason she felt comfortable going on a date with him was because he was a doctor. Maybe you don't understand English well, but blossom is correct.
@brockroberts4258 FFS, do you understand English? Blossom said, do not trust Doc because he's a doc. 0:33 victim said she went on the date because he was a doc. Explain how that's victim blaming. I'll wait.
What a disgusting dirtbag this guy is. Glad he got caught and hope like hell he gets it in jail. Feel terrible for the women he assaulted. Please give him many, many years in prison.
Every woman who finds themselves in this situation should call 911 immediately. By calling 911 you will have a record of the incident and the person who gave you the drink will be forced to go on record saying the drink was prepared by them. Don't worry about offending people. Worry about your wellbeing. You can always go on another date with someone else.
Having just been drugged her thinking was impaired and logic was crashed. What is obvious to us is not necessarily clear in the heat of the moment. Plus, if you listen to her, the results of decades of ingrained rape culture and victim blaming are obvious. She blamed herself. It was her two drinks. She shouldnt have been at his house. She did somthing to "cause him to want to hurt" her. That's why rape culture is so successful at self-silencing women and making difficult when they do decide to come forward.
@@Chief_econoJIMist no worries, females can just come out of the woodwork 37 years later, and make an allegation, now. Men have the cash, and females want it.
The problem is the victim has a hard time remembering things. They will doubt themselves that something actually happened. It usually takes days or even weeks to realize something wrong happened.
This is absolutely horrible. Big reason I haven't dated seriously for years and haven't used any online dating sites. I hope this woman finds healing in this and that she never has to deal with this again. It sucks as women we're more vulnerable to this. I will keep her in my prayers and that the trauma this likely caused her will be healed quickly. 🙏
The fact he would think there would be no repercussions in doing something so blatantly obvious like this is mind boggling. Cant imaging the type of decisions he's been making with people's lives treating cardiac patients.
This was about control and not sex. Dude threw away a lucrative career that took a decade of Uni to complete for some ‘P’ because he had no game. The loser could have easily built a roster of women just because of his status as a heart doctor and the possibility of landing a rich beta simp.
And people say ‘are we dating the same guy?’ Is a bad group. It helps tonnes of women. Anyone saying the opposite simply do not like the fact that it’s another tool used to weed them out 😂😂
I don’t care who you are, doctor, lawyer or multimillionaire there is no man out there who would impress me on the first date to go to his place or make me a drink! Even in my teenager years I didn’t do that! Can’t believe she trusted him because he was a doctor 🤦♀️ degree doesn’t mean that person is an angel!
What in the hell does that have to with anything. These creeps are in all kinds of occupations. This guy is a POS, and if you’re making an excuse for his behavior you are just as disgusting.
@@rebeccaoprea9917 He assaulted many women, not sure they all were in the medical field. Let's be honest, people in general regard doctors highly for their status. It's not uncommon to hear women brag about their daughter marrying a doctor in movies or TV shows, or in life. That's why he put a picture of himself in a doctor's mock with a stetoscope. He knew it would get him requests. Even if you share the same profession, the same love of dogs, and the same interest in outdoors activity, going to a man's house on a first date on any pretense (walking the dog), is overlooking basic safety measures. Having "things in common" isn't knowing a person. Knowing a person takes time. Young women should be taught to take time in order to avoid such traumatizing experience.
Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story. Don't ever blame yourself. You are beautiful, brave and strong. You had courage and wisdom to escape and share your story. Thank You. This man is evil.. Its a miracle you escaped. Please change your self talk to I can help others, I can take care of myself and I make a difference. I am safe today. Keep Moving Forward. Praying for your healing. ✝️💜🌿
Read all of the articles about this case and trial. These details are in there. A lot of them tried and kits weren’t available. The medical system failed them.
My golden rules for online dating: 1- always meet in a public area with people around you 2- NEVER go to their home or sit inside their car until you fully trust them I think cautiousnesses is a must when dating online. As a woman, I control the speed of the relationship. If the guy cannot wait, then too bad for him because I won’t risk my safety. Please comment other important online dating rules to protect ourselves.
Bless women who have the courage to come forward, press charges AND to testify, they are the ones who are truly helping to prevent additional victims ❤👏🏼❤❤
How many men did she turn down because of their 'status' that probably would have never done this to her. Stop chasing a status! Look for real men who don't do these kinds of things.
As a man I can relate, although the outcome was not nearly as serious. I choose a Doctor to date on a website (female) thinking she was financially comfortable as I was. What a narcissistic lunatic. No wonder she was and probably still is single.
There is a line in The Lady with the Dragon Tattoo regarding about why we are obsessed with not offending someone. Turning down a drink should not be an emotional experience.
people need to understand doctor does not mean good its just a job for most people, only few actually care about humans as whole. work one year in healthcare u will see it.
I'm so proud of the brave victims who came forward and told their story!! Thank you for doing this! Thank you to the prosecution for holding him accountable and giving the victims justice! Sending my prayers for the victims and their families. May God give you peace and comfort. 🙏
Ali I can only imagine how this must make you feel really only imagine. But I hope you find the grace to acknowledge how much courage and intelligence and simple strength of character it took to get out of the situation like you did. You are a made-for-tv heroin who survived. I know it's easier said than done, but don't forget to believe in yourself and who you are. Anyone could have fallen into that trap but very few survive. You weren't lucky. You were prepared and took action.
That's what I would like to know. According to many of the women's accounts, they had rape kits done after, which based on what their stories were, they would have done toxicology. The only reports I can find is that he used an "unknown substance". Well, wouldn't they have this information?
Sorry to say this, but if this happens to you, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE report it. I know it's hard, but you're the only one who can stop these monsters from doing it to others.
He was eventually sentenced to 158 years! 😮 the guys a complete psycho but 158 years? I’m Not saying he should be out in 10 but I thought the 158 was a little odd. Just me?
Did he have some sort of fetish about having sex with unconscious people? Because if a woman goes home with you on the first date, there's not much more of a sure thing
I was going to tell my 4 year old daughter not to get into a van if a stranger offers her candy. But chose not to because the people in the comments would consider that victim shaming
Don't blame the women. You should be allowed to be safe to go on dates. Just like you would not blame student victims at school shooting! These women are just innocent victims! Just like going to school instead of homeschooling, isn't bad. The dating apps aren't bad. It's the rapists who are bad. Being on a dating app makes it easier to find the men who are the perpetrators.
Just goes to show that somebody’s profession and a few pictures tells you nothing about their character.
I think the predators hide behind reputable professions and credentials. Just like some of the pastors of churches and priests who hide behind the name of Jesus. It's awful .
@@kimberleeberry2039 They do that because so many people have this delusion that if somebody is in a certain high earning profession, or they're physically attractive etc. that they MUST be a "good person", when money, looks etc. say absolutely nothing about the person's character and what's going on in their head. Which is scary to think about, we think we can look at somebody, know a few things about them and appraise whether they are a "good person" on some shallow surface details which is nonsense.
@@yellowblanka6058 That's why this lady deemed him trustworthy. Because he was a doctor. Doctors want to help and heal people,right?
@@kimberleeberry2039 Sure, you SHOULD be able to trust a doctor, unfortunately, some of them (like this guy) don't take their Hippocratic Oath very seriously.
@@yellowblanka6058 I've been guilty of blindly trusting doctors as well. Not anymore
I worked with a guy who did this. But recorded it. Then denied it and represented himself. Got 155 years in prison. Been there since 2009
A doctor? Wow! 20 years minimum!
What's his name and the state where he was convicted?
He received 158 years.
Field?
@@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52😂😂😂
He is heaving and sobbing for his guilty sentence. He had no sympathy for his victims.
Exactly! He didnt shed a tear when any of the victims gave their statments, only cried as his mother spoke about HIM. This monster is able to care about himself. Glad he's locked up for life, otherwise he would do it again
Sounds about wyte.
Only got dates cuz he had money smh . Otherwise who would date him
@@righteousone1 Do you know the number of non-yt's locked up for seggs crimes?
A true sociopath!!!
Don't be afraid to OFFEND ANYONE!
Absolutely! Twenty years since I used dating apps but twice, on first dates, things started to take a direction I didn't want. Twice I paid for my food and left. And woman,never go to the home of someone you don't know. Please, just don't do that.
Or try and live off of their money
medical schools screen for good grades and test scores.. not for humanity and decency.
Newsflash, neither do women.
💯
Medical schools do have a significant non academic portion in the application that considers other factors like volunteer work. In fact, many applicants with very high test scores get turned down because they haven’t demonstrated a humanitarian side to their character. Do you have any suggestions on how a medical institution might predict what applicants are likely to commit crimes after obtaining money, power and prestige?
@@andrewgomez235This one does 🧐 it's not these ladies fault this happened to them. It seems even if they had done a quick background check like "let me see if he has any felonies" they wouldn't have known
@@Jonas-gl9ke I confirm that medical school does look at applicants’ other abilities, not just their grades. However, medical students can be actors and liars during the application process. I personally know a few people who got into medical school (now doctors), but are horrible people. They know what they should do to get in, but that’s not who they are.
Never ever go to his place in 1st date and never accept drrinks from strangers! I rather be rude than die or else...
She met for drinks and straight to his house...
What was she thinking @@SOLDOZER
@@jimkpani4829 She just met the dude off a dating app. Instead of meeting for dinner or coffee or whatever she meets him at a bar for drinks, then goes to his house and drinks more.
Not judging her based on society’s good girl messaging rather, women please do not immediately trust someone you just met! Please for your own safety and self preservation do not enter someone’s home on a first date. Always stay in public. Hell not second or third date either. Get to know the person from a safe distance. Safety, self preservation first. This had red flags, listen to your gut!
@@SOLDOZERJudge much! Shut up, stop trying to shame her. He’s the criminal but here you are victim blaming and shaming. Disgusting!
A cardiologist with no heart 🙏🏼
We got ourselves a comedian lmao
good one
Ally, thank you for sharing your story. What a horrifying ordeal. May you experience peace and healing on your journey.
Calling an Uber when you have been drugged is not safe. Call 911. Uber drivers are sketchy, too.
lmao yeah, victim mindset, everyone out to get you. Do you know what the odds are for the uber driver to do something like that? I agree she should have called 911 instead, but don't act like a random uber driver is going to SA someone, if anything they were mad this person threw up in their car
In some places, the police put you on hold and are slower to get to you than an uber... yes, I live in Chicago and was placed ON FVCKING HOLD calling the police! so good idea in theory but an uber can be there faster and the likelihood of being s3xually assaulted twice in a row by two different men is low and on top of that you may get a female driver.
You otta know you used to be one.
she's hot af to be fair
Who’s to say a cop wouldn’t do the same thing to you ;)
The need to ‘not offend’ has gotten women into so much trouble over the millennia
Society has been training women to be polite and quiet for so long. Now I think this was part of the reason. So we'd stay silent through all of the abuse and assault
WOW, I am so happy she was able to get out of there safely. ❤🕊️
Without the money she wanted
She was sexually assaulted! He drugged you and then put his hands and mouth on you without consent. Hence, sexual assault.
Poor you, couldn't have the satisfaction of a dirty deed done to its conclusion!!!
@@ninaballerina2807Bullshit
@@ninaballerina2807Bullshit
@@ninaballerina2807Bullshit
Don't ever take a drink you didn't make
So you never go to a restaurant or bar?? The right answer is always have someone you trust with you when you go out..
or only drink water
@@bfranco1519 you can see them make one
Don't leave your drink unattended ever.
@@bfranco1519 A bartender is not going to drug you. You're in a public place.
Please stop meeting men on dating apps. I met a few men on them. They are narcissists, abusive, and evil. Some prey as rapists, some are con artists, etc. You lose more than you gain on a dating app. Never again
True, but you need to say the exact thing about women. It's true both ways.
I wanna back up the first reply to your comment here and say True, but....women are narcissists too as well as men particularly on dating apps. Thing is we live in this modern world with tech and this is a social norm with meeting people. Everybody has an agenda and I understand two wrongs don't make a right. This woman's story, my takeaway is that she herself was stated as interested in dating him cause he was a doctor. So that tells me she liked him for the trust he instilled?...I don't know the report implies that but I think it was more so about his money. Just an example...she could've dated me but I'm not her type cause I'm just a blue collar fella who works outside with my back and hands and the biggest reason of all I don't do dating apps. However I am intrigued by meet ups online specifically for singles. Haven't tried it but I heard about it and it seems like a nice way to find things in common with other singles and just maybe there is a special someone otherwise forget about out it. Life is hard enough without the drama of pleasing others.
You have to be careful no matter where you meet.
Smart to get out as soon as you realized something was wrong. I am sorry he was so evil and manipulated you to his place.
Thank you for your courage to speak out!!
Speak out !
Ally, you are a brave woman. What a survival story. It only gets better from here!
Brave or a failed gold digger?
@carpediem4512 whatever kind of thing you are, bot, subhuman, you obviously didn't hear she's educated, had a great job, lived independently, took care of herself but allowed herself to be seduced by a psycho
@@carpediem4512You remind me of... Mr. Matthews.
@@rorystorm4284 How? I don’t drug and rape women. Unlike him I’m not a liar. I call it as it is. You remind me of someone who is allergic to the truth.
It's brave to be a gold digger lmfao
"I didn't want to offend him" is a thing many women say when in a situation similar to this. 1. Never go to his home for a first date for ANY reason. 2. Never drink a drink that you didn't make or that you've left unattended for even 20 seconds. 3. Follow your gut. It's never wrong.
You still have to be careful, never know if a bottle is laced with something knowing you will want to use it, while they avoid using that bottle... just don't trust, it's either you or your life. We can't afford to get hurt in any way.
Life sentence, bring back prison rock piles.
Piles 😮
This guys mother had the audacity to plead for mercy?? Wow…
Of course. Why would she not?
@@DrPhill96
Because Grape? @@DrPhill96
@@DrPhill96 because he's a dangerous criminal?!
@@Chibbykins - That is also her son and she loves. Of course she would plea for him.
It was so arrogant and idiotic of him to think he could get away with it.
Maybe because many have gotten away with similar such crimes.
Just say that he will have to serve 7.9 scores just to make him feel a little better, even though it is the same duration as 158 years. May judges like him meet his makers soon and be disbarred. 180 days per victim is a way fairer sentence than the asinine abomination of 4 1/2 years per victim. 180 is way more than 4.5
I am confused here, are you defending the criminal? 'Cause that was 30+ victims drugged and SAd.
@@actual_doge3221yeah I have no idea what this guy is saying
@@Chibbykinsthe guy is roofied
I am so sick of people shaming women for rape.
She wasn’t raped though.
I'm kind of sick of adult women making stupid and foolish choices
We're shaming her for being a gold digger only smh. No one deserves to be raped etc
Toxic masculinity.
@@user-mq1fg5yw5r cardiologists dont make that much money lol. He probably can't even afford a 2 million dollar home on his single salary
I'm in the profession and, unfortunately, these things happen. I heard about many cases of MDs crossing the line. Victims should always sue their assaulters, always. Don't let those perverts practice medicine any longer.
🎯‼️Well said!
Sadly, a lot of MDs are drug addicts, alcoholic, control freaks and narcissists. So are A LOT of lawyers. Doctors, as you know, just have easier access to pharmaceuticals.
There’s a guy that I know who was/is going out with a physician who’s addicted to cocaine. He said she also drinks A LOT of alcohol and has at least three s * x partners. SOOOO dangerous! Such a pitiful lowlife - morally bankrupt. Yet, she has ACTUALLY said (I saw a video of her speaking) that she’s dedicated to healthy living. What a delusional and pathetic woman. Just sickening.
Yep, before they required a female to be in the room, I had a pulmonary doctor, perform a full breast exam on me, I thought it was odd, figured maybe this is a legit part of the exam. I still felt it was off, I didn't speak out, I had no reason to believe anyone would believe me, having been in similar situations as a child and as an adult not being believed about similar incidents. I also recall as an adult, seeing my childhood dentist being convicted of molesting children in his office. I am hopeful there are more good than bad doctors, but, I don't know anymore.
Can’t sue if they’re not acting in a professional capacity. This is criminal and outside the workplace.
😂.. But, this crime was not committed on his patient and also not inside the hospital. So, how can he be stopped from working as a doctor? 😂 So, should all other professionals like engineers, accountants, pharmacists etc also be banned from working if they do similar crimes?
@@Chels-fz5uq I don't know how it works in other countries, but in mine, if you have a criminal record involving a crime such as indecent assault /offending a person's sexual integrity, you will be removed from your position and disbarred from the medical profession. Logically, if you can't control yourself in your private life, you won't be able to exercise restraint in the workplace.
I’m so very sorry this happened to you and others, yet again 🙏for healing and Thankyou for being so brave and sharing 🕊️
And people call me paranoid and rude when I treat doctors like any other person. I don’t care what your profession is, doesn’t mean you’re a good person. I’ve met more bad people in positions of power than not. I don’t trust anyone in general, but especially not anyone who holds so much power and influence. People don’t want to accept that someone who is supposed to help people could be evil
Same, I have had a number of not so great experiences with professionals in positions of power who use and abuse it.
very well said trust no one
Get off them dating apps
All people need a thorough background check
It’s cheaper to do more than you think
I met my wife on a dating app. These are rare examples but people do need to be extra careful
If the person is a practicing physician, that's a more thorough background check than anyone can do on their own. But as we see here, still take time before going to somebody's house.
This happens everywhere… meeting at bars, concerts, acquaintances etc what’s your point, stop dating?
You ladies are all superheroes--I've had my 16yo daughter follow this case to show (sadly) that anyone may be capable of doing things like this, but that you CAN be believed and you MUST report and justice may actually be served. Thank God!
People do not seem to understand why these things happen. It´s not because girls and women don´t know about this. It´s because they are raised with too little self-confidence. Do you allow your child to say no to things? Do you even encourage that sense of knowing what the child (not) wants and needs and express that WITHOUT BAD REACTIONS? Do parents protect their children from the demands of others (and their own), like doing certain things or letting others (family and others) touch, hugs etc. Do children have to say nice things they don´t feel? Are you teaching them to listen to and act on their gut WITHOUT CONSEQUENCES? Is their selfworth based on doing things for others? And so on.
imagine bringing kids into this dangerous world
I'm not sure where the tears came from, and most definitely for himself, while many of these women's lives were traumatized forever.
@danawelch3985~ traumatized for life? I’m sure life goes on and they are working and living their daily lives. People have a tendency to over victimize themselves. The equivalent of braking a bone life and time heals you, we are designed to continue life.
@@anthonymartinez4307I agree with you, but I also believe this man is not safe to be in society EVER. The length of time and number of assaults clearly proves his inability to live a normal humane existence with appropriate boundaries.
She's probably back on the dating site looking for the next doctor
@@donnakreye8339yeah you know he had many opportunities to stop. Many to say that what he was doing was wrong. He kept going because he was unable to stop himself. Sick and gross. Poor ladies.
@@anthonymartinez4307 the psychological trauma of sxual assault is *not* the same as breaking a bone, you creep
First date and walked to his house?
Nope. Just because he is a doctor doesn’t mean he can’t be a bad person.
Did you listen? She went with him because he said he needed to let his dog out. As she has a dog, she understands that need. He's a monster.
@@angelikalindenau943Exactly - Blossom is saying the victim was partially to blame. Wow.
@@angelikalindenau943 I did hear that. It still odd during a date for someone to say they have to go let their dogs out and go with them especially after meeting that person online. What did she do with her dogs that prevented her from having to go let them out during the date? Why didn’t he do something similar? I’m glad she made it out of there but it’s still wasn’t a safe move.
@angelikalindenau943 Actually, did you listen? 0:33 She herself said that the only reason she felt comfortable going on a date with him was because he was a doctor. Maybe you don't understand English well, but blossom is correct.
@brockroberts4258 FFS, do you understand English? Blossom said, do not trust Doc because he's a doc. 0:33 victim said she went on the date because he was a doc. Explain how that's victim blaming.
I'll wait.
What a disgusting dirtbag this guy is. Glad he got caught and hope like hell he gets it in jail. Feel terrible for the women he assaulted. Please give him many, many years in prison.
He’s not too bad. He likes the outdoors.
He should get 150 years for catfishing alone. How misleading were his photos compared to him in court?
Another upset gold digger her lol smh
His hat game was point on
😂😂😂
What a coward. He couldn't take time to connect with a woman on an honest level. He became a thief in the night.
If it were her alone, she likely would have not been believed. Because numerous women came forward, there was justice served.
A cardiologist with no heart
Ironic
You can see he’s just feel sorry, because I got caught!!! What an animal.
he is a man
This is why I don’t go on dating apps…..not blaming the victim, but going into his home & drinking after an hour of meeting him…..we know better!!
Every woman who finds themselves in this situation should call 911 immediately. By calling 911 you will have a record of the incident and the person who gave you the drink will be forced to go on record saying the drink was prepared by them. Don't worry about offending people. Worry about your wellbeing. You can always go on another date with someone else.
and words of advice for men? stop attacking us
Being in the medical field, why wouldn’t she have immediately gone to a hospital for a lab test?
I was thinking the same thing
Having just been drugged her thinking was impaired and logic was crashed. What is obvious to us is not necessarily clear in the heat of the moment.
Plus, if you listen to her, the results of decades of ingrained rape culture and victim blaming are obvious. She blamed herself. It was her two drinks. She shouldnt have been at his house. She did somthing to "cause him to want to hurt" her. That's why rape culture is so successful at self-silencing women and making difficult when they do decide to come forward.
@@Chief_econoJIMist no worries, females can just come out of the woodwork 37 years later, and make an allegation, now. Men have the cash, and females want it.
The problem is the victim has a hard time remembering things. They will doubt themselves that something actually happened. It usually takes days or even weeks to realize something wrong happened.
Right , lab test , now big lawsuit 😂
But bill cosby is free.
Dude there are literally thousands of maniacs, posers, liars, narcissists, drug addicts and killers on those hook up apps
This is absolutely horrible. Big reason I haven't dated seriously for years and haven't used any online dating sites. I hope this woman finds healing in this and that she never has to deal with this again. It sucks as women we're more vulnerable to this. I will keep her in my prayers and that the trauma this likely caused her will be healed quickly. 🙏
Loved seeing him cry performatively for himself during sentencing
You can def tell he's only sad for himself!!😡 Sicko, coward, monster!!
Don’t internet date
The fact he would think there would be no repercussions in doing something so blatantly obvious like this is mind boggling. Cant imaging the type of decisions he's been making with people's lives treating cardiac patients.
sex urges on the brain
A little naive, but we all do dumb things dating.
Yeah, I married a guy I dated...
Adult male here. My mom always told me. Never go to a stranger house's you just met. And drinking what they offer to you? Hell no!
This is a form of victim blaming. Just so you're aware.
@@zg207 no, this is pure Darwinism....
@@zg207 Shut up
what about men never attacking women
@@beaulieuc8910You can't control the world honey. Hillary attacks children daily and she never went to jail.
WOW
What a brave, awesome woman!
And his mother wanted mercy for this monster of a son? 🤢
Given that so many women will sleep with anyone on the first date why do so many men feel the need to drug them?
I know! Right!?
Because that'S what they like, having that power and control. They're not normal people
Remember when people would meet at the grocery store, the library, the church parking lot ??
Coffee shop?
The victim is so brave… so quick witted that she got out immediately. You are brave for coming forward!
In Summary: She never reported it.
This was about control and not sex. Dude threw away a lucrative career that took a decade of Uni to complete for some ‘P’ because he had no game. The loser could have easily built a roster of women just because of his status as a heart doctor and the possibility of landing a rich beta simp.
People, if a person hurts you its because they are a deviant. And please DO NOT WORRY about offending anyone. Your own safety should be your priority.
And people say ‘are we dating the same guy?’ Is a bad group. It helps tonnes of women. Anyone saying the opposite simply do not like the fact that it’s another tool used to weed them out 😂😂
I don’t care who you are, doctor, lawyer or multimillionaire there is no man out there who would impress me on the first date to go to his place or make me a drink!
Even in my teenager years I didn’t do that!
Can’t believe she trusted him because he was a doctor 🤦♀️ degree doesn’t mean that person is an angel!
But… they didn’t want to go on a date with a lumberjack or a plumber?!
What in the hell does that have to with anything. These creeps are in all kinds of occupations. This guy is a POS, and if you’re making an excuse for his behavior you are just as disgusting.
They had things in common. It wasn’t about trying to date a doctor.
True. Brutal consequences
@@rebeccaoprea9917 He assaulted many women, not sure they all were in the medical field. Let's be honest, people in general regard doctors highly for their status. It's not uncommon to hear women brag about their daughter marrying a doctor in movies or TV shows, or in life. That's why he put a picture of himself in a doctor's mock with a stetoscope. He knew it would get him requests.
Even if you share the same profession, the same love of dogs, and the same interest in outdoors activity, going to a man's house on a first date on any pretense (walking the dog), is overlooking basic safety measures. Having "things in common" isn't knowing a person. Knowing a person takes time. Young women should be taught to take time in order to avoid such traumatizing experience.
Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story. Don't ever blame yourself. You are beautiful, brave and strong. You had courage and wisdom to escape and share your story. Thank You. This man is evil.. Its a miracle you escaped. Please change your self talk to I can help others, I can take care of myself and I make a difference. I am safe today. Keep Moving Forward. Praying for your healing. ✝️💜🌿
Did she not go to hospital to be tested??
Read all of the articles about this case and trial. These details are in there. A lot of them tried and kits weren’t available. The medical system failed them.
So no evidence of drugging?
Why didn’t she have her shoes on?
Some people have a shoe free house and expect visitirs to remove their shoes at the door.
My golden rules for online dating:
1- always meet in a public area with people around you
2- NEVER go to their home or sit inside their car until you fully trust them
I think cautiousnesses is a must when dating online.
As a woman, I control the speed of the relationship. If the guy cannot wait, then too bad for him because I won’t risk my safety.
Please comment other important online dating rules to protect ourselves.
Honestly, i wouldn't go to a bar or drink alcohol on a first date
or restaurant and drink alcohol
Why would he drug them? RIch, handsome doctor - could have had relationships without needing to drug first. Strange.
Because he’s a psychopath.
Bless women who have the courage to come forward, press charges AND to testify, they are the ones who are truly helping to prevent additional victims ❤👏🏼❤❤
158 years in prison. Guy threw away everything
Knowingly. With 12+
Women over and over. An evil pos
Pretty amazing how she was able to take control of the situation.❤
How many men did she turn down because of their 'status' that probably would have never done this to her. Stop chasing a status! Look for real men who don't do these kinds of things.
It would be bad enough for anyone, but why would a successful doctor with romantic options, and SO much to lose, do such a thing?
Yes exactly, they would have willingly slept with him. He didn't have to rape them it was about some sort of weird Power Trip thing.
Just because he’s got a doctor’s degree and a job doesn’t mean he is free from mental illness.
Because of his sense of entitlement.
He was probably sampling too much of the product.
I think he must be doing drugs. And maybe he cracked and has some mental issues.
As a man I can relate, although the outcome was not nearly as serious. I choose a Doctor to date on a website (female) thinking she was financially comfortable as I was. What a narcissistic lunatic. No wonder she was and probably still is single.
Most are narcissistic psychopaths or bpd
😂
Let me guess,she was in debt because of student loans.
Nice 👍 la-la-land story 😂
All women are crazy, that’s what makes them so adorable.
There is a line in The Lady with the Dragon Tattoo regarding about why we are obsessed with not offending someone. Turning down a drink should not be an emotional experience.
people need to understand doctor does not mean good its just a job for most people, only few actually care about humans as whole. work one year in healthcare u will see it.
Those women (gold diggers) went on dates with him because he claimed to be a doctor…
I'm so proud of the brave victims who came forward and told their story!! Thank you for doing this! Thank you to the prosecution for holding him accountable and giving the victims justice! Sending my prayers for the victims and their families. May God give you peace and comfort. 🙏
You just met him and ended up at his residence shortly thereafter???
You’re just realizing this is how 95% of modern Western women are?
I know! Right??
Ali I can only imagine how this must make you feel really only imagine. But I hope you find the grace to acknowledge how much courage and intelligence and simple strength of character it took to get out of the situation like you did. You are a made-for-tv heroin who survived. I know it's easier said than done, but don't forget to believe in yourself and who you are. Anyone could have fallen into that trap but very few survive. You weren't lucky. You were prepared and took action.
Sounds like he's ready to run for president
Dating a doctor is scary.
Why did she call an Uber? Should’ve called the police immediately 🤦
She was just hammered most likely
Wow,she was so smart to get the heck out of his house. A house that he no longer needs. His new house has 70 to 80 square feet of space.
Soon he will be back as presidential candidate of the US!
If you Can't trust Doctors...who can you trust?
Don’t trust anyone these days.
Haven’t trusted doctors in 10 years. Find a reputable acupuncturist.
They’re not doctors, they are drug sellers.
Witch doctors
Jesus.
Did she believe they were going to his home to let the dog out??! Wow
I didn’t want to offend him? Who? the stranger she met online ?
But, but, he's a doctor ..
@@Kristy-x1tP diddy is a billionaire no excuse
I don't believe these women. I hope the doctor goes home soon😢
What was the specific drug found in her blood?
That's what I would like to know. According to many of the women's accounts, they had rape kits done after, which based on what their stories were, they would have done toxicology. The only reports I can find is that he used an "unknown substance". Well, wouldn't they have this information?
Gold diggers digging
Sorry to say this, but if this happens to you, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE report it. I know it's hard, but you're the only one who can stop these monsters from doing it to others.
20 years in prison would be good.
Tough guy breaks down in court 😂😂😂😂
He was eventually sentenced to 158 years! 😮 the guys a complete psycho but 158 years? I’m
Not saying he should be out in 10 but I thought the 158 was a little odd. Just me?
Insane im so relieved there is justice . Thank good ness she left in time
He seems upset in court.
Not for the crimes, for the time!
He decided to switch careers from cardiology to proctology.
Did he have some sort of fetish about having sex with unconscious people? Because if a woman goes home with you on the first date, there's not much more of a sure thing
Shallow women chasing the $. Don’t feel sorry at all. Both the suspect and victims are pathetic
Good point. It will probably happen again with these women
shallow man chasing pretty blonde women much younger than him
So women should chase broke men like you? You need a mirror.
I was going to tell my 4 year old daughter not to get into a van if a stranger offers her candy. But chose not to because the people in the comments would consider that victim shaming
WOW, the arrogance
Don't blame the women. You should be allowed to be safe to go on dates. Just like you would not blame student victims at school shooting! These women are just innocent victims! Just like going to school instead of homeschooling, isn't bad. The dating apps aren't bad. It's the rapists who are bad. Being on a dating app makes it easier to find the men who are the perpetrators.
NEVER go behind closed doors with a stranger.