get out of rock bottom once and for all ✧ time to wake up

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  • @jvvvv85
    @jvvvv85 Рік тому +253

    Its 3:17am, Woke up and trying to contemplate my life. Then, I see this video. This is a sign. Thank you

    • @Nunyav
      @Nunyav 6 місяців тому +3

      Hope you’re doing well today ❤️! You got this.

    • @cameciavidz9367
      @cameciavidz9367 6 місяців тому

      Praying for hope your feeling better. You deserve to be here you are loved ❤

  • @mlizaaa
    @mlizaaa Рік тому +54

    I feel so seen, I think this is it. I genuinely feel that this is what will give me that final push after literal lifetimes of inaction and fear. I don’t know how I’m going to do it but at least I’ll be trying. I can’t think I just need to DO. There’s something different about my energy and the energy of you and the contents of this video. It’s hitting in a truly “this is it” way. I know this time it’s different because I’m going to make it different. Came at the perfect time, thank you 🙏🏻 please never delete this so we can all come back

  • @HectorKom-cg5if
    @HectorKom-cg5if 10 місяців тому +15

    Girl. Thank you for your words. Your chanel deserve more subscriber.

  • @MokaandChai
    @MokaandChai 3 місяці тому +11

    I’m in my 50s and I can tell you girl you are wise beyond your years. I lost everything I built successfully during the pandemic. Life hit me really hard. I took the courage and started this channel recently and now I discovered you. I learned so much from this video as a 53 year old. I have my own journey to share and I will. Thank you

  • @spindee407
    @spindee407 7 місяців тому +67

    As a woman in my 50’s. I can say that ALL of this is true. Mae- you are gifted with wisdom beyond your years. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️

  • @CinnamonSpeaks
    @CinnamonSpeaks 7 місяців тому +81

    when you said "would you say this to your dog?" i nearly cried. You're right!! I wouldn't. Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @violeta44444
      @violeta44444 6 місяців тому +1

      OMG i like this part too

  • @banjomechanic
    @banjomechanic 6 місяців тому +65

    I'm glad you mentioned sodas and ultra processed foods. I cut out cokes and energy drinks, processed and packaged foods 6 months ago. I drink water, coffee, tea, and whole milk (lemonade every now and then). I eat fruits, veggies, and meat. I cannot begin to tell anyone how much better I feel, physically and mentally. What is even more interesting is that I have not increased my physical activity much at all and in that 6 months I've dropped almost 15lbs. Yes, sugary and processed foods are not doing anyone any favors.

    • @vampyrgodess
      @vampyrgodess 6 місяців тому +1

      Started eating whole foods(basically same diet) just natural products, not much prep, one of my favorite go tos is a salad with kidney beans, lemon pepper chicken, grape tomatoes, cucumber slices, carrot chunks/slices and no dressing. Just lime juice! Soooo good. Lime juice is all you need. More the better. Add cheese chunks, corn if you want. Really anything can go in it. I'm someone who can never lose weight. I lost over 30 pounds in a few months. No exercise. I'm bedridden. 👌 just diet and proper liquids. Seriously to my soda drinkers...even the diet and caffeine free will harm your gut. They can be used as cleaning products and you still drink them... just flavor your water. 😂

    • @darrrkangel
      @darrrkangel 6 місяців тому +1

      @@vampyrgodess what do you flavor your water with and what else do you drink?

  • @gardenofnea
    @gardenofnea 7 місяців тому +57

    regarding victim mentality: it‘s also important to also not blame yourself - to cut blame altogether & to give to yourself what you need (from within)

    • @roxanne559
      @roxanne559 6 місяців тому +4

      Give yourself grace, and compassion. Just as we would for others😊.

  • @XZ858XZ
    @XZ858XZ 6 місяців тому +24

    Holy moly girl, your interior is AMAZING

  • @abbygaile12
    @abbygaile12 3 місяці тому +1

    I couldn’t stop thinking about regretting what could’ve been. How many opportunities I missed just because I was shy. I deeply regret it and I’m just 18. I’m still young and all ur videos would help me to stop being stuck in the past. Thank you ate Mae ❤❤❤

  • @haleysalter90
    @haleysalter90 7 місяців тому +21

    You can either choose pain and suffering from discipline or from regret. Legit changed my life. Thank you

  • @azmendozafamily
    @azmendozafamily 7 місяців тому +51

    I'm looking a my desk that I'm working from. I see ketchup packets, scattered papers, random knick-knacks and junk. I can start here. I spend 10 hours here, looking at this mess.I can work on cleaning this up and maybe it'll help with my scattered mind.

    • @alexandraa.4832
      @alexandraa.4832 7 місяців тому +7

      It’s been 4 days, how’s it going?

    • @azmendozafamily
      @azmendozafamily 6 місяців тому

      @@alexandraa.4832 there's a start, but now my little planter thing next to me has become a catch all. 🫤

  • @happyluv
    @happyluv 5 місяців тому +3

    "Choose your pain, regret or discipline "
    I'm in the regret phase. I wish I would have known what to do to lose weight when I was younger. At 67 I'm finally figuring it out. Thank you for the "tough love". I sincerely hope if there are any young people listening they will learn from our mistakes and lose the weight now.

  • @Brenda-t2o1d
    @Brenda-t2o1d 7 місяців тому +4

    You have been the greatest discovery this month. Your words have cut through the fish bowl around my head and I absolutely loved it. Your words have carried me so eloquently through this turbulent time in my life. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us. What a gift. Truly .

  • @lerayourfav
    @lerayourfav 7 місяців тому +6

    bless you all who are trying to be better ♡

  • @PeterNordBushcraft
    @PeterNordBushcraft 7 місяців тому +9

    Hey there Mae, you should make a play list with all of your videos(play list or groups of 5-10). Your messages are incredibly inspiring. I have been watching videos, reading books, learning all about Spirituality, manifesting, Grounding, living a good life, all the cool aid for almost two years now. You seem to have the path very well organized and your messages(so many just in this first video) are in my opinion right on track with the proper way of living. Thank you and I wish the best for you!

  • @melodyrowellart
    @melodyrowellart 7 місяців тому +5

    For the past week I’ve listened to one of your videos every morning. It’s so positive and inspiring! Please keep making more videos ❤ you’re awesome. It really starts my day out on the right foot with strength. Also love your book recommendations and when you throw in a reference to an experiment. So cool!

  • @jaysony8587
    @jaysony8587 3 місяці тому +1

    Bless you hun. Your aura glows brighter & brighter w each vid.

  • @okeokeoke08
    @okeokeoke08 Місяць тому

    u’re an angel. u motivate me to get better so much, thank you❤️

  • @necoll
    @necoll 3 місяці тому

    I used to hate myself so badly in the past and I remember how refreashing it was to finally be beautiful and worthy in my own eyes. It's hard to start your self-love journey but It's worth it ❤

  • @Momocreme
    @Momocreme 6 місяців тому +3

    Your video is pretty straightforward and I appreciate your content and advice. This aligns with my own personal way of giving advice to people, may be a bit harsh to some people but the truth hurts sometimes even though it’s not always intentional.

  • @AdventuresOfAPlainJane
    @AdventuresOfAPlainJane 3 місяці тому

    I don’t know how you popped up on my UA-cam feed but I’m glad you did. I’ve been slowly working on myself since September 27,2022. Got a passport and shaved me head. It’s me slowly rising from the ashes. It’s been a slow progress but it’s getting there no matter what life throws at me. My hair has grown and I booked my 1st solo Europe trip in November. I want to capture every moment on UA-cam.

  • @torajuro3455
    @torajuro3455 5 місяців тому +1

    This gave me a new perspective on different aspects of my life.
    Please keep your wonderful energy. Thank you Mae.

  • @meh6731
    @meh6731 7 місяців тому +3

    Hearing this while working on my newly opened small business is so powerful, thank you queen

  • @heyitsme575
    @heyitsme575 Місяць тому

    I have been thinking for almost a year now to move another country .. because people who i am surrounding with, and ofcourse because of my family they always force me on literally everything and they just wanna isolate me and i have noticed now that the people who just wanna isolate me they are literally enjoying their lives and when it comes to me they just want me to feel bad about myself that anything i do is wrong and that happiness has literally gone from my life i wanna be myself, do whatever i like and now i feel like this universe is giving me hints that disappear where you are and do the things what you really enjoy don't rely too much on somebody else's expectations and this video is another hint now... and this time no matter what happens i am choosing myself💙 thanks for this video

  • @lalalalalalalalalalalalalalaIa
    @lalalalalalalalalalalalalalaIa 8 місяців тому +7

    girl, i've been watching ur videos and i love the vibes especially the background it inspired me to clean and organize my space aswell

  • @fruitguzzi9122
    @fruitguzzi9122 6 місяців тому +1

    rotted for years and getting tired of it,thank you so much for this video,i am going to do something about the situation that i am currently in right now

  • @thisismetoday7423
    @thisismetoday7423 6 місяців тому +2

    I just hit my rock bottom and I know I’m there because I stopped making excuses. I’m determined to change my bad habits and to be more productive. I already feel so different ❤

  • @sloth5677
    @sloth5677 5 місяців тому +1

    looking through your vids and oml can i just say how much I LOVE YOUR SET UP
    the bohemian-plant-rusticness is JUST YES 🙏😩

  • @ClefairyFairySnowflake
    @ClefairyFairySnowflake 7 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for believing in me! It means a lot! I'll do my best!

  • @ana1vasquez691
    @ana1vasquez691 6 місяців тому +1

    This is so motivating 💛, you made me cry the first 7 mins. Thank you for giving out this positive energy and encouragement☺️

  • @lukarette
    @lukarette 2 місяці тому

    This was the video that introduce me to your channel. Now, I'm rewatching because life is getting tough again

  • @DearStephanieX
    @DearStephanieX 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you. It’s 1am and I should be asleep. But a ton of stuff is keeping me awake. Your videos help so much. ❤

  • @sunnie4607
    @sunnie4607 6 місяців тому +1

    you are so wise, keep on the good work! you’re helping many

  • @ashlelane23
    @ashlelane23 5 місяців тому

    Before even watching all the video thank you for the subtitles I wish every UA-cam video had them! I love to read and listen

  • @deepikaupadhyay7888
    @deepikaupadhyay7888 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this video ! I really felt lost and this thought kept recurring in my mind .When I saw your video ,it felt like a sign to face my fears and get out of this hell

  • @owldolly7142
    @owldolly7142 6 місяців тому

    You have changed my perspective so much. Today is the beginning of the new me ❤️

  • @Sarara-mv5sx
    @Sarara-mv5sx 7 місяців тому +1

    I love your content and so happy that I found your channel. You have real leadership energy - you're not just spouting cliches and I trust your knowledge. You have the bearing of a CEO - chairman of the _______ Department. We need a crest and some merch! TY

  • @Nenesolit
    @Nenesolit 6 місяців тому +1

    This video helped me look at things in a different perspective

  • @ThefrutigerAeroGuy
    @ThefrutigerAeroGuy 7 місяців тому +1

    This is the most eye opening and motivational video I've ever watched. Enjoyed the entire video. Thank you so much for this.

  • @АннаДьячковская-л2х
    @АннаДьячковская-л2х 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much. This is the best YT channel. You have no idea what this means to me. Finally, I feel valid and enough 😢 Thank you!

  • @aimeelowe9732
    @aimeelowe9732 5 місяців тому

    Wise and beautiful ❤ positive self talk is so important, positivity can move mountains.

  • @johnCjr4671
    @johnCjr4671 7 місяців тому +1

    Extra hard when everything falls apart later in life . Thanks for the encouragement ! 😅

  • @morgannestyle4597
    @morgannestyle4597 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi mae , thank you for everything, thank you so much , you can’t imagine how much you help us 🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @erinsainthea8361
    @erinsainthea8361 Місяць тому

    This was so so good and exactly what I needed!!!

  • @CinnamonSpeaks
    @CinnamonSpeaks 7 місяців тому +1

    in the gym dissociating and came across this video. Love it.

  • @NhatNguyen-pl3xz
    @NhatNguyen-pl3xz 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this video! This really is a wake up call for many people including myself

  • @Archie_0227
    @Archie_0227 7 місяців тому +2

    This UA-cam video is a sign to get my crap together thank you for making this I needed it

  • @Asmahhhhh
    @Asmahhhhh 6 місяців тому

    I needed this video, I'm really grateful 💗💗💗

  • @Lachuladaaa
    @Lachuladaaa 5 місяців тому

    I cried watching this idk if you’re going to see this comment but just know you saved my life. I love you.

  • @milaignatesko8503
    @milaignatesko8503 6 місяців тому

    Thankyou so much for this❤
    I really needed this right now.

  • @nikolp7701
    @nikolp7701 6 місяців тому

    Neither pain nor regret. I choose peace and you should too

  • @rickynunez3109
    @rickynunez3109 7 місяців тому +1

    the thing is people want to change but they lost hope they keep making the same choices and there not always good. our thoughts become actions, our actions become habits, our habits become character, our character becomes our destiny. it can take 3 months to build better habits but what happens after a little while of doing something new? we get burnt out and we run back into the comfort zone to heal and recover the only problem is that the comfort zone is like glue and we can get stuck there. life is unfair to everyone its really a matter sink or swim your on your own.

  • @princesssnowblack
    @princesssnowblack 5 місяців тому

    I love these types of videos

  • @jinxxpwnage
    @jinxxpwnage 6 місяців тому +1

    as my boy gackt once put it , no pain no gains homie.

  • @richardmapa2585
    @richardmapa2585 7 місяців тому +2

    Very helpful- thank you. Keep posting.

  • @theophila214
    @theophila214 6 місяців тому +2

    the "ignorance tax," is a good way to put it.

  • @RubiMercuri
    @RubiMercuri 5 місяців тому

    The thumb nail title is so real

  • @atchy24
    @atchy24 6 місяців тому +1

    You're amazing. Thank you. ❤

  • @juliamallik9316
    @juliamallik9316 3 місяці тому

    I needed this right now. Im curious about the similarities that I noticed in your video and certain programs with steps. Would you reccomend something along those lines?

  • @deioped
    @deioped 8 місяців тому +15

    The water experiment could not be replicated, it's unlikely to be real.

    • @deioped
      @deioped 6 місяців тому

      @YangZhaoDragon If you think science is about proving something right, you have got it awfully wrong. Science is all about trying to prove something wrong until it is reasonably proven to be robust.
      Sure, some science have been proven false after a long time when we discover something new but that is must more reliable than "look! we found the prove of the result that we want to see, it must be the truth!"

    • @diliniliyanapathirana6389
      @diliniliyanapathirana6389 6 місяців тому

      there are microscopic views of water crystals in two different situations. you can google it. it is a very famous experiment

  • @ishabarak5369
    @ishabarak5369 5 місяців тому

    Thank you soooooo much Mae 🌸🌸🌸

  • @nurinbatrisya8412
    @nurinbatrisya8412 7 місяців тому +1

    i love you too girliyy thank you for this i needed it :)

  • @likenootha
    @likenootha 5 місяців тому

    BFF❤ YOU ARE SO APPRECIATED

  • @lacacaconoloratrebol858
    @lacacaconoloratrebol858 5 місяців тому

    I love this video, you change lifes

  • @vampyrgodess
    @vampyrgodess 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks B-Mo 😢

  • @HEART_MIND_One
    @HEART_MIND_One 7 місяців тому +2

    Ultra~Righteous!!! 🕉️

  • @dollclique8616
    @dollclique8616 6 місяців тому

    Majestic Mae in an Alice in Wonderland where you see and keep becoming your best self in every interaction with curious creatures and strange situations that were played out and now you see they were gifts.

  • @Blackcat-kh5cc
    @Blackcat-kh5cc 7 місяців тому +1

    Great Video!

  • @sevire4076
    @sevire4076 6 місяців тому +1

    You kind of sound like BMO from Adventure time, it’s cute

  • @Taylortheangel
    @Taylortheangel 7 місяців тому

    Hey Mae, I was wondering do you have a video on scripting/ journaling? I am a new subscriber and I like the videos you post, it's helped alot!

  • @user-qw7wx4kr9r
    @user-qw7wx4kr9r 5 місяців тому

    I enjoy your videos. One issue: the sound is very sharp through phone. Even low volume, some sounds slice through my eardrum. It's higher-frequency sounds, like up in the de-essing end of the spectrum. Tweaking the EQ may be essential, or being a little further from the mic.

  • @Chris-hp2gg
    @Chris-hp2gg 7 місяців тому +1

    Pain vs. pleasure. Refer to Skinner(I think).😂

  • @jera9654
    @jera9654 7 місяців тому

    A great book on this topic is "The mountain is you" by Brianna West. -Thanks!

  • @thisisnotniaaaaa
    @thisisnotniaaaaa 2 місяці тому

    I haven't watched the full video yet like I'm just on that intro part but i feel so miserable not beacuse i have gone through hard ships and all i mean i feel like a pathetic person rn cuz there are people who have gone through shitty things and they are in an actual misery but talking about myself my life has not been so fun like i feel like i haven't lived my life but it's going pretty smoothly yet it doesn't feel like I'm living i just stay at home all the time i don't do things so i never really encountered any situation like something happened that really made much of an impact in my life so what basically I'm tryna say is there are people here who had to start from scratch again because of some chain of events or yk those hardships of life! I mean my life has always been the same pretty boring not to mention i have amazing parents they are like so nice to me so basically it's all normal but it's just it's something that I'm lacking i mean it's all on me to step up and do something for myself! I don't even feel like i have hit the rock bottom cuz i was always here it doesn't truly sucks to me but it does in general i hope it makes sense! Basically idk if i should continue watching the video cuz i mean idk! It's weird i have created this fake HEAVEN in my head and i feel safe there i haven't stepped into the reality yet! So i feel it's okay where i am but it doesn't work out like that i mean it's weird idk!!!!!!!

  • @e11-m5k
    @e11-m5k 29 днів тому

    thanks.

  • @sk3ffingtonai
    @sk3ffingtonai 5 місяців тому

    Brilliant. Subbed.

  • @theanikiforovich
    @theanikiforovich 6 місяців тому

    Can someone please tell me what is going on, I failed in all I've done at every work place I had I've been bullied (I'm hard working and I don't gossip and I don't talk down to no one, I'm humble and like to work in team) I fail in my love relationships I attract men who treat me bad even tho I'm doing my best to have a quite relationship nothing I do seems to work, I just found out my girlfriends gossip badly about me and when I've met them the atmosphere was tense end everyone was looking bad at me (I never did nothing to them i respect and cherish them) it seems to me I'm like an outcast and God is my witness I'm not a mean person. I'm worried about my future because I can't keep a job is not about love or friends is more about having money to live, I don't strive to have luxury but I wish to keep a job so I can take care of myself. If someone has an advice or someone pass through same things please answer me on how you manage all this. I want to start over but it seems a lost battle. Thank you! 🙏🏻

  • @DitaNoire
    @DitaNoire 6 місяців тому

    When your suffering outweights your normal/happy state of mind for a longer time than you can bare .....You change and dont give a f....k

  • @MohammadAlqattan1
    @MohammadAlqattan1 5 місяців тому

    I like what she say ,But are anyone feeling her voice as the voice used in devices and machines ?!!

  • @im_subika
    @im_subika 6 місяців тому +1

    can you recommend some books ?

  • @migz_8894
    @migz_8894 6 місяців тому

    Beautiful message from a beautiful girl😉

  • @miunya
    @miunya 2 місяці тому

    I can change my mind but I cant change other peoples minds. I can tell myself plenty positive things but others dont. They will start thinking youre delusional and will judge you. Like I'm overweight and if I keep telling people I'm beautiful at this weight obviously people will look at you in disbelief or if i act like I'm lucky rich and pretty when I'm obviously not people will think I'm crazy.

  • @THEONARR
    @THEONARR 6 місяців тому

    I was thinking of moving again, I just moved in with my dad who I’ve only had a few visitations with growing up. Just found out I didn’t know my real name growing up and I was adopted. My mom is dying. The bus that takes me to work is talking about banning me, none of the bus drivers ask to see a monthly bus pass which I bought, except this one driver who is trying to get me banned from the bus because I didn’t bring my bus pass to show him.
    What the frick is going on?!!
    Also, my dad is upset since I’m so disorganized and he says he didn’t want to kick me out cause’ he enjoys my company.

  • @2ndchance220
    @2ndchance220 7 місяців тому

    so i have to lie to myself to feel better?

  • @carlaa3623
    @carlaa3623 7 місяців тому +2

    I have disorganized attachment…..

  • @THEONARR
    @THEONARR 6 місяців тому

    Am I taking the easy way out
    by leaving my dad
    and moving back to Buffalo?
    And keeping the one friend who is deserving of me, and leaving everyone else?
    And focusing on my health and fitness, and making money, and enjoying life.

  • @MattsFreeChannel1
    @MattsFreeChannel1 7 місяців тому

    Notice that when they would say, in your words, it requires a lot of "privilege" and a lot of money, only one of those things is even close to real. I guess people hiring you based on reputation or something might be one thing, but "privilege" isn't required for anything, because it doesn't *mean* anything!

  • @ashlelane23
    @ashlelane23 5 місяців тому

    Please do a video on divine feminine

  • @Maksim-rv1qb
    @Maksim-rv1qb 6 місяців тому +1

    I hit a rock bottom every 2 business days

    • @XINNOSINN
      @XINNOSINN 6 місяців тому

      SAME!! I can't remain consistent :

  • @melife3307
    @melife3307 7 місяців тому

    love u too

  • @shrutsy
    @shrutsy 6 місяців тому

    idk whats goin on i can't sleep untill 5 am cant get up till 1 pm ,i am suffering wid depression anxiety not ok mentally can't even be productive for 1 hour can anyone help me

    • @roselilies6593
      @roselilies6593 6 місяців тому

      Did you talk to some specialist?

    • @shrutsy
      @shrutsy 6 місяців тому

      @@roselilies6593 i cant afford therapy i am 18 ,my family don't even give pocket money plz help me what do i do😭

  • @ArekkusuMiyazaki
    @ArekkusuMiyazaki 7 місяців тому

    I can't move to Japan, I have no money and no academic background to get a job to be able to afford moving to Japan

  • @Sororococo
    @Sororococo 3 місяці тому

    BEABADOBEE IS THAT YOU??
    (BAEEE YOU LOOK SO PREETY)

  • @bonolomofahla
    @bonolomofahla 4 місяці тому

    🤍

  • @chowshows
    @chowshows 7 місяців тому +2

    ill take regret because i dont like ego beings trying to guilt trip me.

  • @gratefulhank
    @gratefulhank 7 місяців тому

    Will you marry me ❤️?

  • @lilceaz99
    @lilceaz99 7 місяців тому +1

    Youre cute but your rare mindset for a woman makes you incredibly gorgeous

  • @thefriendlypsychopath3894
    @thefriendlypsychopath3894 7 місяців тому +2

    This woman is a perfect example of funny looking cute.

  • @Malekfahad420
    @Malekfahad420 7 місяців тому +2

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