My mom’s doctor kept telling her there was nothing wrong with her and the sickness was in her head. When they finally realized it was cancer it was too late. You must all listen to your body. If you know something is not right persist in your quest for answers.
The same thing happened to my mom. They would keep telling her it was stress and it turned out being brain cancer, by that time it was too late. Im very sorry...
The only clue I had to my cancer was constant headaches. You're right, if I hadn't listened to my body, I would still not know I had cancer. (two years on and still fighting). Listening to your body is so important. NO PERSON KNOWS YOUR BODY BETTER THEN YOU!
I lost my mom to cervical cancer in February..it is tough. Tough is an understatement actually. Hold on to your mom, hug your mom and tell her how much you love her. There is NO other love like you mothers..
I lost my mom to lung cancer in 2014. It will never be the same and I can't tell you it gets easier through time because it's not. You just learn to live with her absence. Some days will be easier other days it's like someone knocked the air out of you. The exact pain/emotion of the moment she passed away, you will feel those emotions all over again. I'm sorry hun.
I lost my dad to non Hodgkin’s lymphoma 4 months ago. I was 14 and my brother was 11 I was very close but I’ll always regret that I didn’t spend the most time I could with him
My mom had a tumor on her face and it was cancerous before it spread she had to have surgery and she’s recovering right now. Every thing is going ok so far and I hope it stays that way.❤️
My mother is going trough cancer, its so difficult to see ur mother, the strengh of your life so weak in a bed, praying for a good day and to arrive home sooner, for anyone suffering from cancer or having someone dear to you with cancer, just stay strong for them is literally the only thing u can do, support the person and given them a harm smile every single day so they know they have u to light it up their dark moments
My mother has Glioblastoma (Brain tumour). The cancer is aggressive but she’s the strongest person. To anyone out there, seeing others go through this, all my love to you! Peace.
My grandmother suffered with it for a year. She passed away on Thursday. And she practically raised me cuz my mom was quite busy. I really miss her. Cancer sucks.
My mum had breast cancer when I was 9 years old and it was so scary & during that time I had to grow up so much faster because I had to take care of my younger sister. In a few months she will be 10years cancer free🎉❤
My mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer just 3 months ago. I know exactly how you feel. Be strong for her, your smile can change her world! And never lose hope. ❤️
I lost my beloved mother in 2017, and for me, the pain of not having her by my side hasn’t gone away. I love you, Mummy. I miss you you every single day.
my mom had cancer 4 times and it was the worst part of my life :( i would cry every single day, i felt alone cause i knew no one who has a mother or family member who had it. it was the worst 😭
My mom passed away due to colon cancer back in May 2005. I was 5 years old at the time and I still miss her. With Mother's Day tomorrow and the anniversary of her passing coming up, I always feel very sad and distance myself from practically everyone. I just wish I could see her one last time before I graduate High School... :(
I can relate to this so much! When I was about 3 my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer and she is my literal best friend, but shes been cancer free for 8 years!
I'm in this situation right now and it is terrifying. And it's so hard to watch my mom or hear her talk about being sick and not be able to do anything about it. Go hug your mommas and tell them how much you love them.
My mom has been cancer free for just over a year I thank God every day that she is still here with us. Those of you who have lost your moms, I’m am so so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know that there is nothing I can do but please just remember that it will get easier. Those of you who still have your moms, please go and hug her and tell her how much you love her, while you still can. Or call her if you’re not near her and just let her know how much she means to you because you never know when she might not be around anymore. The same goes for your dads xxx
Lost my father last year to cancer then in December my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. Thankfully she's completely okay and had the most minor case of breast cancer you could have!
32 years later, I still miss my mom. Pancreatic cancer took her in 6 months. The part that really hurts is my children never knew how wonderful she was, and I was just beginning to figure that out for myself when she left me.
Aww this is so sad 😭😭😭😭 No one should have to go through this. I just wanna tell u guys and everyone in a similar situation or who has cancer! That god is with u.. and if the worst does come know that they will be with u in ur heart 4 ever
I lost my mom to Leukemia cancer on April/2012. My dad abandoned me and my siblings a month after my mom passed away. It was a difficult time for me and my siblings because we had to take care of my little sister who was 4 yrs old at the time. It’s hard....but, we got to keep trying. keep our heads up high! Everything will get better in time.
You, your mom and your family are precious. I hope you guys blessed in life more than anything. I wish the situation is better for you and your siblings now. I really do.
My mom was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer a few months ago. She is going through chemo right now. Its been tough, but she is tougher! Praying for a full recovery!
my father died of cancer when i was 3. my mom has been a single mom to me and my 2 siblings for the past 14 years and she's the strongest person i know. i can't i imagine what it'd be like if she ever gets diagnosed with something like that. Extremely grateful for everything she's ever done to me and my family i don't know where i'd be without her tbh
To the people of buzzfeed, thank you so much for making this video. I found myself crying several times because my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and is currently going through treatment currently and I’m just so grateful for this video. Thank you again
You never expect something like this to happen to you, my dad suffered from cancer for almost 3 years and sadly past away 4 months ago leaving my mum with me (14) and my 11 year old brother. People always tell me it’ll get better with time but, to be brutally honest, it doesn’t. I’m 15 now and I’ve never felt more depressed and lonely I don’t really talk to people I know about it, sometimes to strangers and that’s about it. I miss him every day and I envy people who have that relationship. It’s so hard to accept he won’t get to give me away on my wedding day or be a part of anything like that. I’m not doing this for attention. It honestly helps to get it off my chest and hope it helps others who are going through similar things x
I was thinking of my dear grandma whilst watching this. She passed away last month from cancer. She was such a strong mother figure in my life. I love you grandma ❤️😘❤️
I can’t even imagine how hard it must have been for each of you individually to go through this. Thank you for sharing your stories. You are all so strong.
2 years ago, my mother was diagnosed with Ovarian cancer. she is now in remission. 2 years ago, i had no idea how going through cancer was like; i've had people in my family have cancer, but never this close to home. i now have a better understanding of what living with cancer is like. my mother was fortunate but not everyone is. anyone out there going through this, it will get better. there will be a lot of crappy days, but it does get better. and to those whose loved one has lost the battle, it will get easier with time and love.
This is a tough video to watch, I’m so glad they all still have their mums, I lost my mum to cancer unexpectedly when I was 23, nothing will ever prepare you for losing your mum, she was my best friend.
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was nine years old, and she has been cancer free for about 5 years. I couldn’t imagine life without her, she’s the strongest person I know
My best friend’s mother just died of cancer 2 weeks ago.... she was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and died literally a week later. It was absolutely horrible to watch happen and so fast.
My heart broke with the girl who lost her mom so young. I just lost my mom this past November, and it is the most difficult thing to go through when you lose a parent. It is so unfathomable. Cherish every minute with your mother or parent time is short. 💕
I lost my mom about 11 months ago for breast cancer.i wish i said “i love you” to her i was just afraid if i said it she would think it’s goodbye and I didn’t want her to feel like that so I haven’t said i love you to her and it breaks my heart soooo much.its getting worse and worse for me I miss her soo much I couldn’t even describe it.i love you mom
This video was very helpful because my dad is the one that was diagnosed with his cancer this year. I'm always thinking I wish I could do more and that I am not doing enough, but these wise ladies were so right. There is only so much you can do and just being there for them is the number one thing. Thank you for this helpful video Buzzfeed.
Two years ago my mom had breast cancer. She didn't told me and my siblings cause she didn't want us to be sad. But we learned about it and my grandma said to us that everything will be okay. She had a surgery and thank God it was successful. Now, she's completely okay and she tells me that she appreciates life more. I'm glad she's fine. I don't know what I'd do without her😭💓
I just hope people going through all this-kids and moms....you are the strongest people. All have been through a lot and I bow my head in respect. May God be with you all.
My mom has stage 4 breast cancer now. I know that she is battling a lot of things in her life as well as knowing that her marriage is not okay as well. She is fighting a lot right now. I hate myself for not being able to do anything other than just supporting her. I love her so much and I hate myself for studying so far away from my mom. She had her first chemo and everything is better. I pray for her health much more than anything I wanted in my life. She will be cancer free, I know she will.
My mother in law went to doctors for 2 1/2 years asking for help before everything went wrong. She had back pain that was bad and they would send her to a chiropractor give her pain killers send her home. In October of 2016 her bowel blew. It turned out the whole time a cancerous tumour was growing in her pelvis connected to her back. It was to late to do anything for her but watch her in pain and struggling. November 2 2017 she lost her battle to bone cancer. It was the most heartbreaking this I have ever watched. I hope up in heaven she is feeling great and watching over us. She was 54. Never take anyone or anything for granted. I hope she has a happy pain free Mother’s Day!
My own mother is not as mobile as she was before, but this video makes me so much grateful that she is otherwise healthy. 🙂 Much love and light to these ladies and their moms.
Cancer gave me one very valuable gift...it was to remind me to tell the people in your life how much you love them, every time you can, and as strongly as you can, for as long as you can. None of us know how much more time we'll have with the people we love. Leave nothing kind unsaid or undone. 💞
My grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer last year and after two operations and chemo, she’s so strong and even though she’s lost her hair and one of her boobs, she still powers through it with the best attitude ever. I have been living in halls at university and have come back every weekend so I can visit my Grandma and make sure she is ok. It’s all about support in these tough times♥️♥️
I lost my mom in 2012, i was 6 when she was diagnosed i saw her slowly lose her battle over time, i remember her always smiling through everything even though i knew she was in so much pain she never let us see, the last year was really aggressive she lost all her hair and was mostly asleep so she wouldnt be in pain. I was 17 years old when she passed after a long 11 years of fighting. I havent heard her sweet voice or seen her darling smile in 7 years.
Okay, well I'm sorry. But you really complain that you said your mom died and you only got a small amount of likes? Really dude. My dad passed, but do you see me in comments complaining that nobody is giving me attention because of it? No! Stop.
This made me so emotional, and I feel for every single one who goes through this. I've had similar experiences, but with my dad. He had colorectal cancer last year and he beated it. Though he passed away two months ago by an unknown cancer tumour that killed him fast. They had to shut down the life support due to his condition. To see him take his last breath was one of the most hardest thing to do. To realize that you will never be able to talk to them, hold their hand, hug them, be with them. I can't explain in words how much it hurts because words isn't enough. I'm glad that more people are trying to spread awareness of this perspective as well, and just about cancer in general. It is so important, and I'm so happy you decided to make this video because it made me (and a lot others) feel less alone about it. Thank you.
My mom was diagnosed with lymphoma last week. I'm devastated. She is staying with me now but she thinks that she will be able to return to her apartment. I have to seek deep down my soul to gain the strength I will need to care for her. 🙏🏻❤️
Watching this video make me miss my mom, she pass away last year because her ovarian cancer. I know how these girls feel, thank god that your mom still live.. our mom it’s tough and strong girls in the world! I wish healthiness and happiness to your family😇🙏🏻
My dad has been diagnosed with a terminal brain tumour. Watching this is so inspiring, supporting those going through the same thing is what's need whether it's a patient, family or friend. It's such a crap place to be in, but raising awareness can help make so many others feel that little bit better.
my mom is diagnosed with cancer. she is medicating with an alternative medicine rn and she's doing good and I hope she will be alright and she will be healthy again. please pray for my mom :)
this video made me so emotional. my mum died of cancer a year and a half ago, when i was 15. i miss her every minute of every day with every fibre of my being. i'm glad that there are videos like this to raise awareness and make people realise that they should value and cherish the time they have with their mothers.
My mom got diagnosed with cancer when I was 6. I didn’t really understand what it meant at the time but after watching many of my relatives suffer with it (BRCA gene is in my family), I do now. Thankfully my mom survived and I don’t take her for granted anymore. I’m sending lots of love to you and your family during this difficult time💕
My mother has never been diagnosed with cancer, but Lupus. Then, she dislocated a back disk and couldn’t walk for at least 4 weeks. It’s not nearly as deadly as cancer, but I was so young it was terribly traumatizing to see her cry every day. I feel for anyone with a parent or close relative with a disease or disorder, and I want you to know it gets better. Even if they pass, know that they loved you and that they always will.
I can relate 2013 was our family's doomsday my mom has suffered from Breast cancer now she is ok & doing well.BTW Happy mother's day to everyone here.God bless all your families.
Hurts a lot that I lost my mum last year in Feb cause of cancer. Hurts that I wont get to share the rest of my life with her having only been 20 when it happened. Watching this breaks my heart. Treasure your mums. You never know when it might be her time to leave.
My Mom was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer a little more than a month ago. She had a lumpectomy and two lymph nodes removed and found to be negative of cancer. She also had genetic testing. She is now cancer free and does not have a genetic disposition for breast cancer. She will have 5 weeks of radiation therapy but we are so thankful God was and is with us for this whole journey called life.
I lost my mom exactly 1 month ago due to Brain Ruptured Aneurysm and got attacked by a virus called Pyoventriculitis. Just like Cancer, I knew her life was nearly at the end. I hope others won't feel the way I felt. I wish I could celebrate Mother's Day with her today. Happy Mother's Day to every mom out there. You are the source of our happiness.
As a mother of five children (aged between 20 and 2), my youngest was 2 months old when we found out I had cancer. This video was hard to watch, but I really wanted to hear this story from the child's point of view. I'm still fighting, and my children are all by my side and I'm glad I managed to get through this to hear what the daughters had to say regarding their mums. Thank you for this video.
I moved across the country in august and in november my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 breast and liver cancer and it has been the most difficult time in my life. I honestly do not know what i would do without her
Popcorn Popcorn It's hell. Make your parents go get checked annually. My step mother is only 48 and without any warning signs she was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer last year.
I was 18 when i was diagnosed too. And during that period my mom had been taking care of me how these while and I can see that she had lose weight due to me. She was always there when I was gg through treatments and in the hospital. I will be turning 23 this year and throughout those years nothing in my life nothing can top for what my mom had gave to me. Being an Asian, it is not common to straight out say I love you to her, but deep inside in my heart, I love you mom. :)
I lost my grandfather due to cancer and I was heartbroken I cried for days I couldn't control myself I would fight the urge to cry in class I didn't want to eat and do anything I just wanted to lock myself in my room and cry all day and now 4 years later I still cry about him and I miss him, but I know that he would want us to be happy and would worry if he saw us crying
My mom got diagnosed in October. I just think it’s hard to pretend to be happy, and that everything’s okay when I know it’s not. I’m only 12 and I’ve been telling kids at school too. I know my mom is sooooo strong and that she’ll get through this but there’s a thought in my mind that tells me I’m going to lose her
my mom passed away from colon cancer 8 years ago when I was 9 years old. I miss my mom a lot and I always think about how different my life would be if she was here and I would give anything to have her back with me and my family. She left a lot of people behind but I'm know she's in a better place without any pain.
My mom’s doctor kept telling her there was nothing wrong with her and the sickness was in her head. When they finally realized it was cancer it was too late. You must all listen to your body. If you know something is not right persist in your quest for answers.
I'm sorry for you
The same thing happened to my mom. They would keep telling her it was stress and it turned out being brain cancer, by that time it was too late. Im very sorry...
Chef Rafi's Awesome World I’m so sorry for your loss. Stay strong ily ❤️
The only clue I had to my cancer was constant headaches. You're right, if I hadn't listened to my body, I would still not know I had cancer. (two years on and still fighting). Listening to your body is so important. NO PERSON KNOWS YOUR BODY BETTER THEN YOU!
Very true. I know from personal experience
I lost my mom to cervical cancer in February..it is tough. Tough is an understatement actually. Hold on to your mom, hug your mom and tell her how much you love her. There is NO other love like you mothers..
Ludovica Russo thank you ❤️
I lost my mom to lung cancer in 2014. It will never be the same and I can't tell you it gets easier through time because it's not. You just learn to live with her absence. Some days will be easier other days it's like someone knocked the air out of you. The exact pain/emotion of the moment she passed away, you will feel those emotions all over again. I'm sorry hun.
I am so sorry for your loss Chelsea
Chelsea so much love and strength to you
I lost my dad to non Hodgkin’s lymphoma 4 months ago. I was 14 and my brother was 11 I was very close but I’ll always regret that I didn’t spend the most time I could with him
The title had me emotional before even watching😭
Yeah a real bummer video. Thumbs down
You ok now? I can be there for you
Same! 😭 my mom had cancer too. #rip
Same. Idk why I’m watching.
Awww this video is so sad, pray my mum never gets cancer it must be a terrible time for them all xxx
Millie Jarvis Make your parents get checked annually. It's absolute hell, it's terrifying.
My mom had a tumor on her face and it was cancerous before it spread she had to have surgery and she’s recovering right now. Every thing is going ok so far and I hope it stays that way.❤️
Rachel White Hopefully she gets better soon
Rachel White Hope she gets better! Sending prayers❤
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I can be there for you - with you.
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My mother is going trough cancer, its so difficult to see ur mother, the strengh of your life so weak in a bed, praying for a good day and to arrive home sooner, for anyone suffering from cancer or having someone dear to you with cancer, just stay strong for them is literally the only thing u can do, support the person and given them a harm smile every single day so they know they have u to light it up their dark moments
My mother has Glioblastoma (Brain tumour). The cancer is aggressive but she’s the strongest person. To anyone out there, seeing others go through this, all my love to you! Peace.
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My grandmother suffered with it for a year. She passed away on Thursday. And she practically raised me cuz my mom was quite busy. I really miss her. Cancer sucks.
So is my Mum! Good luck with everything :)
How is she now ?
@@uditichibber3806 she left us in 2019 :)
My mum had breast cancer when I was 9 years old and it was so scary & during that time I had to grow up so much faster because I had to take care of my younger sister.
In a few months she will be 10years cancer free🎉❤
Same my situation right now 😢
@@bbiantv9469same! It’s awful 😢
Just loved to hear that
May she never gets cancer or any deadly disease anymore
That’s amazing!
Love to hear that! So happy and proud of you and your mom
my mom was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer... it was encouraging to hear that they are ok, and living a great life
Sending love 💚💙
Its _Elena _ ; sending love and prayers your way 💞
My mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer just 3 months ago. I know exactly how you feel. Be strong for her, your smile can change her world! And never lose hope. ❤️
Alejandro Soto thank you
I lost my beloved mother in 2017, and for me, the pain of not having her by my side hasn’t gone away.
I love you, Mummy. I miss you you every single day.
my mom had cancer 4 times and it was the worst part of my life :( i would cry every single day, i felt alone cause i knew no one who has a mother or family member who had it. it was the worst 😭
Is she ok now or not?
My mom passed away due to colon cancer back in May 2005. I was 5 years old at the time and I still miss her. With Mother's Day tomorrow and the anniversary of her passing coming up, I always feel very sad and distance myself from practically everyone. I just wish I could see her one last time before I graduate High School... :(
Vanessa Fantage same :(
I'm so sorry to both of you. Sending virtual hugs.
Thank you , I really appreciate it❤️
I’m so, so sorry. Stay strong, she’s watching over you from the other side! 💞💞
I have the exact same story..
I feel you..it's hard you know..😢😭😭
I can relate to this so much! When I was about 3 my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer and she is my literal best friend, but shes been cancer free for 8 years!
Props to these strong women!! I couldn’t even imagine how hard this must be for them and their children.
I don’t know what I’ll ever do if I lost my mum. She is my rock :(
same, dealing with this now
I'm in this situation right now and it is terrifying. And it's so hard to watch my mom or hear her talk about being sick and not be able to do anything about it. Go hug your mommas and tell them how much you love them.
My mom has been cancer free for just over a year I thank God every day that she is still here with us. Those of you who have lost your moms, I’m am so so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know that there is nothing I can do but please just remember that it will get easier. Those of you who still have your moms, please go and hug her and tell her how much you love her, while you still can. Or call her if you’re not near her and just let her know how much she means to you because you never know when she might not be around anymore. The same goes for your dads xxx
This was heartbreaking!! Ahhh 😱😱😭😭
I love you
Cody Whitlock wtf you're everywhere
Lost my father last year to cancer then in December my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. Thankfully she's completely okay and had the most minor case of breast cancer you could have!
I am glad this came out the day before Mother’s Day. Just to remind us that mothers are strong, loving and everything and more ❤️
32 years later, I still miss my mom. Pancreatic cancer took her in 6 months. The part that really hurts is my children never knew how wonderful she was, and I was just beginning to figure that out for myself when she left me.
This broke my heart. My mom was just diagnosed with breast cancer today. I lost my dad 3 years ago so the idea of losing my mom just kills me. :(
Aww this is so sad 😭😭😭😭 No one should have to go through this. I just wanna tell u guys and everyone in a similar situation or who has cancer! That god is with u.. and if the worst does come know that they will be with u in ur heart 4 ever
I lost my mom to Leukemia cancer on April/2012. My dad abandoned me and my siblings a month after my mom passed away. It was a difficult time for me and my siblings because we had to take care of my little sister who was 4 yrs old at the time. It’s hard....but, we got to keep trying. keep our heads up high! Everything will get better in time.
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You, your mom and your family are precious. I hope you guys blessed in life more than anything. I wish the situation is better for you and your siblings now. I really do.
Praying for you and your families. Health is the most important thing in our lives, everything else is a bonus. Honestly. Be strong. ❤️
My mom was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer a few months ago. She is going through chemo right now. Its been tough, but she is tougher! Praying for a full recovery!
My mom has stage 3 cervical cancer,guess we're almost in the same boat,huh? How's your mom?
I hope you're mom is well. I know it's 4 years ago
@@superbugsy6872 hey how's your mother doing now? My mother is also diagnosed with stage 3 cervical cancer.
my father died of cancer when i was 3. my mom has been a single mom to me and my 2 siblings for the past 14 years and she's the strongest person i know. i can't i imagine what it'd be like if she ever gets diagnosed with something like that. Extremely grateful for everything she's ever done to me and my family i don't know where i'd be without her tbh
To the people of buzzfeed, thank you so much for making this video. I found myself crying several times because my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and is currently going through treatment currently and I’m just so grateful for this video. Thank you again
You never expect something like this to happen to you, my dad suffered from cancer for almost 3 years and sadly past away 4 months ago leaving my mum with me (14) and my 11 year old brother. People always tell me it’ll get better with time but, to be brutally honest, it doesn’t. I’m 15 now and I’ve never felt more depressed and lonely I don’t really talk to people I know about it, sometimes to strangers and that’s about it. I miss him every day and I envy people who have that relationship. It’s so hard to accept he won’t get to give me away on my wedding day or be a part of anything like that. I’m not doing this for attention. It honestly helps to get it off my chest and hope it helps others who are going through similar things x
Hi Izzy, how are you?
I was thinking of my dear grandma whilst watching this. She passed away last month from cancer. She was such a strong mother figure in my life. I love you grandma ❤️😘❤️
Anything to do with moms being sick/hurt/upset makes my heart break :'(
I can’t even imagine how hard it must have been for each of you individually to go through this. Thank you for sharing your stories. You are all so strong.
This made me cry but at the same time proud of having my mother.
I wish there will be a world where everybody is cancer free 🙏 Nobody should loose their parents😔
2 years ago, my mother was diagnosed with Ovarian cancer. she is now in remission. 2 years ago, i had no idea how going through cancer was like; i've had people in my family have cancer, but never this close to home. i now have a better understanding of what living with cancer is like. my mother was fortunate but not everyone is. anyone out there going through this, it will get better. there will be a lot of crappy days, but it does get better. and to those whose loved one has lost the battle, it will get easier with time and love.
This was sad to watch :( but thanks for sharing
This is a tough video to watch, I’m so glad they all still have their mums, I lost my mum to cancer unexpectedly when I was 23, nothing will ever prepare you for losing your mum, she was my best friend.
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was nine years old, and she has been cancer free for about 5 years. I couldn’t imagine life without her, she’s the strongest person I know
My best friend’s mother just died of cancer 2 weeks ago.... she was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and died literally a week later. It was absolutely horrible to watch happen and so fast.
My heart broke with the girl who lost her mom so young. I just lost my mom this past November, and it is the most difficult thing to go through when you lose a parent. It is so unfathomable. Cherish every minute with your mother or parent time is short. 💕
Awww this made me cry so much. Bless you all
I lost my mom about 11 months ago for breast cancer.i wish i said “i love you” to her i was just afraid if i said it she would think it’s goodbye and I didn’t want her to feel like that so I haven’t said i love you to her and it breaks my heart soooo much.its getting worse and worse for me I miss her soo much I couldn’t even describe it.i love you mom
I'm crying. My mom has breast cancer, the title got me
This video was very helpful because my dad is the one that was diagnosed with his cancer this year. I'm always thinking I wish I could do more and that I am not doing enough, but these wise ladies were so right. There is only so much you can do and just being there for them is the number one thing. Thank you for this helpful video Buzzfeed.
Two years ago my mom had breast cancer. She didn't told me and my siblings cause she didn't want us to be sad. But we learned about it and my grandma said to us that everything will be okay. She had a surgery and thank God it was successful. Now, she's completely okay and she tells me that she appreciates life more. I'm glad she's fine. I don't know what I'd do without her😭💓
My mom is 5 years cancer free in a week and I’m so happy!!
This gives me hope for my mom! God bless your mom ❤️
I really tried hard not to cry but I couldn’t resist and cried my heart out. These people are strong as rocks!
There is nothing stronger than mothers in the world 💪🏻
I just hope people going through all this-kids and moms....you are the strongest people. All have been through a lot and I bow my head in respect. May God be with you all.
This is so touching to me. I lost my mom over a year ago due to cancer, Mother’s Day is really hard when your mother is sick or passed
My mom has stage 4 breast cancer now. I know that she is battling a lot of things in her life as well as knowing that her marriage is not okay as well. She is fighting a lot right now. I hate myself for not being able to do anything other than just supporting her. I love her so much and I hate myself for studying so far away from my mom. She had her first chemo and everything is better. I pray for her health much more than anything I wanted in my life. She will be cancer free, I know she will.
My mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2020. After receiving surgery she is healed and I hope it never comes back.
My mother in law went to doctors for 2 1/2 years asking for help before everything went wrong. She had back pain that was bad and they would send her to a chiropractor give her pain killers send her home. In October of 2016 her bowel blew. It turned out the whole time a cancerous tumour was growing in her pelvis connected to her back. It was to late to do anything for her but watch her in pain and struggling. November 2 2017 she lost her battle to bone cancer. It was the most heartbreaking this I have ever watched. I hope up in heaven she is feeling great and watching over us. She was 54. Never take anyone or anything for granted. I hope she has a happy pain free Mother’s Day!
My heart goes out to you all and to your Moms....hugs to you!!!
stop making me cry buzzfeed. Why do such strong happy women get cancer
My own mother is not as mobile as she was before, but this video makes me so much grateful that she is otherwise healthy. 🙂 Much love and light to these ladies and their moms.
Cancer gave me one very valuable gift...it was to remind me to tell the people in your life how much you love them, every time you can, and as strongly as you can, for as long as you can. None of us know how much more time we'll have with the people we love. Leave nothing kind unsaid or undone. 💞
My grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer last year and after two operations and chemo, she’s so strong and even though she’s lost her hair and one of her boobs, she still powers through it with the best attitude ever. I have been living in halls at university and have come back every weekend so I can visit my Grandma and make sure she is ok. It’s all about support in these tough times♥️♥️
So emotional I’m still crying
I lost my mom in 2012, i was 6 when she was diagnosed i saw her slowly lose her battle over time, i remember her always smiling through everything even though i knew she was in so much pain she never let us see, the last year was really aggressive she lost all her hair and was mostly asleep so she wouldnt be in pain. I was 17 years old when she passed after a long 11 years of fighting. I havent heard her sweet voice or seen her darling smile in 7 years.
This is really sad. Especially scince I know how they feel..
Edit: wait.....32 likes. Really?
HERCULES MULIGGANN
Hamilton reference but also
I has cancer. *-FEEL SORRY FOR ME-*
Okay, well I'm sorry. But you really complain that you said your mom died and you only got a small amount of likes? Really dude. My dad passed, but do you see me in comments complaining that nobody is giving me attention because of it? No! Stop.
I never thought i would be able to relate to a video so well but it’s nice to hear their stories and advice.
This made me so emotional, and I feel for every single one who goes through this.
I've had similar experiences, but with my dad. He had colorectal cancer last year and he beated it. Though he passed away two months ago by an unknown cancer tumour that killed him fast. They had to shut down the life support due to his condition. To see him take his last breath was one of the most hardest thing to do. To realize that you will never be able to talk to them, hold their hand, hug them, be with them. I can't explain in words how much it hurts because words isn't enough.
I'm glad that more people are trying to spread awareness of this perspective as well, and just about cancer in general. It is so important, and I'm so happy you decided to make this video because it made me (and a lot others) feel less alone about it. Thank you.
I’m crying stay strong guys!! 💖💖✨💫
My mom was diagnosed with lymphoma last week. I'm devastated. She is staying with me now but she thinks that she will be able to return to her apartment. I have to seek deep down my soul to gain the strength I will need to care for her. 🙏🏻❤️
Watching this video make me miss my mom, she pass away last year because her ovarian cancer. I know how these girls feel, thank god that your mom still live.. our mom it’s tough and strong girls in the world! I wish healthiness and happiness to your family😇🙏🏻
My dad has been diagnosed with a terminal brain tumour. Watching this is so inspiring, supporting those going through the same thing is what's need whether it's a patient, family or friend.
It's such a crap place to be in, but raising awareness can help make so many others feel that little bit better.
August will mark 10 years since my mom passed of breast cancer. The girl who said the feeling comes in waves is 100% right
I cried this entire time watching this
my mom is diagnosed with cancer. she is medicating with an alternative medicine rn and she's doing good and I hope she will be alright and she will be healthy again. please pray for my mom :)
this video made me so emotional. my mum died of cancer a year and a half ago, when i was 15. i miss her every minute of every day with every fibre of my being. i'm glad that there are videos like this to raise awareness and make people realise that they should value and cherish the time they have with their mothers.
Lost my mom to ovarian cancer last July. Hardest thing I’ve ever been through. I miss her every single day. Every day.
My mom got diagnosed with cancer when I was 6. I didn’t really understand what it meant at the time but after watching many of my relatives suffer with it (BRCA gene is in my family), I do now. Thankfully my mom survived and I don’t take her for granted anymore. I’m sending lots of love to you and your family during this difficult time💕
This makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only sad person on mother's day..
My mother has never been diagnosed with cancer, but Lupus. Then, she dislocated a back disk and couldn’t walk for at least 4 weeks. It’s not nearly as deadly as cancer, but I was so young it was terribly traumatizing to see her cry every day. I feel for anyone with a parent or close relative with a disease or disorder, and I want you to know it gets better. Even if they pass, know that they loved you and that they always will.
This is so sad I hope there all just going to be ok
I can relate 2013 was our family's doomsday my mom has suffered from Breast cancer now she is ok & doing well.BTW Happy mother's day to everyone here.God bless all your families.
Tomorrow will be 4 years since my mother passed away from cancer. I miss her everyday
Even if it's just the money from your Starbucks that you didn't order today, it makes a difference! Thank you to those who donate ❤️
I'm 16 atm and my mom died last year because of cancer. Don't take everything for granted guys.
Hurts a lot that I lost my mum last year in Feb cause of cancer. Hurts that I wont get to share the rest of my life with her having only been 20 when it happened. Watching this breaks my heart. Treasure your mums. You never know when it might be her time to leave.
I just found out this week my mother has lung cancer she’s my rock and my best friend this is going to be a very long journey.
Makes me wants to hug my mom.
I lost my mother at age 10 she was diagnosed with breast cancer when i was 6 years old I had 10 amazing years with her
My Mom was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer a little more than a month ago. She had a lumpectomy and two lymph nodes removed and found to be negative of cancer. She also had genetic testing. She is now cancer free and does not have a genetic disposition for breast cancer. She will have 5 weeks of radiation therapy but we are so thankful God was and is with us for this whole journey called life.
Glad you could talk about it. Put out the info that some people like us dont have moms to tell Happy Mother’s Day. Rest in peace mom.
This is sad and heart breaking I love BuzzFeed
I just said to mom how I love her so much😢😭 it's the greatest feeling ever😭😭😭
I lost my mom exactly 1 month ago due to Brain Ruptured Aneurysm and got attacked by a virus called Pyoventriculitis. Just like Cancer, I knew her life was nearly at the end. I hope others won't feel the way I felt. I wish I could celebrate Mother's Day with her today. Happy Mother's Day to every mom out there. You are the source of our happiness.
I have stage one papillary carcinoma and my mom has been my rock. ❤
My mom has cancer,and i'm only 13 i dont want her to leave me so fast.
I’m so sorry to anyone that has gone through this. Hope you can find a way to enjoy life and know your mom loved you very much☺️
As a mother of five children (aged between 20 and 2), my youngest was 2 months old when we found out I had cancer. This video was hard to watch, but I really wanted to hear this story from the child's point of view. I'm still fighting, and my children are all by my side and I'm glad I managed to get through this to hear what the daughters had to say regarding their mums. Thank you for this video.
THANK YOU FOR THIS. I NEEDED THIS.
I moved across the country in august and in november my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 breast and liver cancer and it has been the most difficult time in my life. I honestly do not know what i would do without her
this made me so sad because my mom was diagnosed with cancer and unfortunately passed away when i was 3. i miss her.
omg so sad if my mom had cancer I would cry so hard :((((
Popcorn Popcorn It's hell. Make your parents go get checked annually. My step mother is only 48 and without any warning signs she was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer last year.
Popcorn Popcorn my mom had skin cancer
My mom had but thankfully she survived
Popcorn Popcorn it’s hard. When you hear the news, it’s like a huge wave of fear.
I was 18 when i was diagnosed too. And during that period my mom had been taking care of me how these while and I can see that she had lose weight due to me. She was always there when I was gg through treatments and in the hospital.
I will be turning 23 this year and throughout those years nothing in my life nothing can top for what my mom had gave to me. Being an Asian, it is not common to straight out say I love you to her, but deep inside in my heart, I love you mom. :)
I lost my grandfather due to cancer and I was heartbroken I cried for days I couldn't control myself I would fight the urge to cry in class I didn't want to eat and do anything I just wanted to lock myself in my room and cry all day and now 4 years later I still cry about him and I miss him, but I know that he would want us to be happy and would worry if he saw us crying
My mom got diagnosed in October. I just think it’s hard to pretend to be happy, and that everything’s okay when I know it’s not. I’m only 12 and I’ve been telling kids at school too. I know my mom is sooooo strong and that she’ll get through this but there’s a thought in my mind that tells me I’m going to lose her
my mom passed away from colon cancer 8 years ago when I was 9 years old. I miss my mom a lot and I always think about how different my life would be if she was here and I would give anything to have her back with me and my family. She left a lot of people behind but I'm know she's in a better place without any pain.