What to do when a parent has terminal cancer

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  • Опубліковано 28 січ 2025

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  • @ivycooper7224
    @ivycooper7224 Рік тому +9

    My mom has stage 4 bone cancer and it’s hard to deal with her cancer and she not in the best of health right now I just pray that I do a better job of taking care of her and for her to get healed 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ShaisTime
    @ShaisTime 6 років тому +12

    Thank you for this. My mom has terminal cancer too that spread aggressively. They just offered hospice. And 1-6 months to live now. I am SO heartbroken. I had faith too this whole time. I'm 22 years old and have been her caregiver for months...

    • @ShajJan-r4u
      @ShajJan-r4u 8 місяців тому +2

      I am sorry to hear that. How are you doing now? Going through the same thing right now

    • @ShaisTime
      @ShaisTime 8 місяців тому

      @@ShajJan-r4u Thank you 🙏🏽 I’m honestly healing a lot and better than I was for the past few years. Devastating isn’t even the word for how I felt when I lost my mom. I have never felt pain like that in my life but I’m still going through the motions and dealing with my “new normal” in life. I’m still working through my grief but slowly but surely you will gradually feel healing.. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. No one should but please stay strong. Nothing can prepare you for that moment…. But you will make it through 🙏🏽 I hope all will be well 🙏🏽

  • @heartquaked
    @heartquaked 8 років тому +7

    Thank you for sharing this. I'm sorry that happened to your dad.

    • @minime2723
      @minime2723  8 років тому

      +heartquaked thank you for the comment, this is one of my ways of coping. By trying to help others that are going through a similar experience.

  • @user-gw2zn9qk7g
    @user-gw2zn9qk7g 7 років тому +4

    Today, I discovered that my dad has terminal cancer, I feel the same, thank you for this video.

  • @00Deejai
    @00Deejai 5 років тому +3

    This Is the first video I've found to be helpful, this is exactly what i've been looking for because this is exactly what's going on. Im 32 with Sound knowledge & experience with Death,Grief, & Psychology Of such things yet ive somehow subconsciously flipped on a dime like a 5yr old lost in a shopping mall.

  • @epicsoshi
    @epicsoshi 7 років тому +3

    My dad was just diagnosed with terminal cancer out of the blue. He is very healthy otherwise. Awfully sad. I am only 21 and I am exactly like you, I don't want to admit that this is happening. Thank you for making this video, it really helps to see someone else who went through this.

    • @kemosabbee2448
      @kemosabbee2448 8 місяців тому

      Not sure you will see this comment given it was 6 years ago, but I am in the same situation. I’m 21 and my dad was just diagnosed out of the blue with stage 4 pancreatic cancer that spread to his liver. How have you handled this since you are now 27?

    • @ShajJan-r4u
      @ShajJan-r4u 8 місяців тому

      ​@@kemosabbee2448my mom just got diagnosed with the same thing

    • @ShajJan-r4u
      @ShajJan-r4u 8 місяців тому

      ​@@kemosabbee2448please join the pancreatic cancer subreddit group and ask your questions there, there may be options if you go to a good hospital

  • @Mi-qo2bc
    @Mi-qo2bc Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @kendramoss5908
    @kendramoss5908 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for making this. I just learned my dad has 3-6 months. It helps to hear your story. Thank you.

  • @FrostedLlama
    @FrostedLlama 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for your video, it really helped me more than any other I’ve watched. Theres one re-occuring theme that still bothers me though. Can someone please shed some light on this: how can you make ‘happy memories’ with someone who is severely depressed and unwilling to talk about anything else but cancer? This has to be a problem for others too...

  • @sweetiexoxo8670
    @sweetiexoxo8670 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank god for this video. I'm in a state of freefall right now. Mother has terminal cancer. It's her fifth time having cancer. Feeling just awful

  • @michacuylits7254
    @michacuylits7254 7 років тому +1

    Thank you for this video

  • @ppippoppippo597
    @ppippoppippo597 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your story...

  • @danielleballing8266
    @danielleballing8266 7 років тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this video my dad just got diagnosed with stage 4 non small cell lung cancer which is terminal I am completely lost I'm only 22

    • @minime2723
      @minime2723  7 років тому +1

      +Danielle Balling I'm so sorry to hear that. It's never easy, but being surrounded by those who love you will make a world of difference. Don't take any of the time you have with your dad for granted, these days will hold so many cherished memories you will never forget. You and your family are in my prayers. I'm here for you.

  • @Damndamn-x2q
    @Damndamn-x2q 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for putting this video out

  • @puppybreath6790
    @puppybreath6790 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @shairerickson1057
    @shairerickson1057 6 років тому

    My prayers our with you.. My mom has terminal cancer.. It's tuff

  • @FIREENGINE3
    @FIREENGINE3 Рік тому +1

    Sorry sweetie. God bless

  • @OtomoTenzi
    @OtomoTenzi 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes, MORE DEATHS in tow... 😞
    My friend's mom (aged 57) is SERIOUSLY ILL, but the doctors are NOT telling us WTF it is, cuz they don't have enough 'conclusive evidence' to diagnose/prognose her. Basically just telling LIES, and NOT being honest about her illness. Well, she is put on MORPHINE now and I seriously doubt that could be a sign of anything good. She feels INTENSE PAIN in her spine, that spreads all the way to her hands/feet. When she sits down to eat, she has NO appetite and also feels pain in her throat and stomach. Her skin is all blackened from the side-effects of Morphine (multiple doses per day), and she needs help moving around cuz her legs are WEAK. It's been like 90+ degrees lately, and she is all bundled/covered up in heavy winter clothes and CAN'T leave the house. At this rate, I don't think she's gonna last very long. I've already asked various people (pharmacists and herbalists), and most of them told me it could be some form of TERMINAL CANCER, and that it'll be 'over pretty soon'.
    What do YOU think it might be? 🤔

  • @jesusislord-ht1nj
    @jesusislord-ht1nj Рік тому +1

    Praise the Lord your dad is in heaven with Jesus

  • @jakekimball884
    @jakekimball884 7 років тому

    Thank you❤️