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Grandparents 70 years married. Parents 50 years married. Me single at 43. Times are different.
Ya beat divorce
Smart man
Yeah and?
@nicolem5626 It's a analogy of modern times in the Western culture. Humans stayed together no matter what back in the day and worked it out. Cell phones ruined that. You actually had to call the family home phone to set a date up. Now everyone can be shady in secret to hook up.
@@nicolem5626No carrying on of his seed.
Married at 40, divorced at 50. I’m 57 now, retired, no debt and with a shitload of money in the bank. A few single mothers came after me, but they were easy to shutdown. I’ve never been happier and I can honestly say, I’ll probably die alone and I’m more than ok with that.
I like your philosophy brother!
At the end of the day we all die alone. The myth that having kids visit once every two weeks while you rot in a home makes it better has to die.
What do you do for a living I’m 40 and basically no savings and looking to transition jobs after my divorce please advise man thanks
@@luisvilla799 I was lucky enough to land a great job in a gold mine in Northern Ontario when I was young. I saved and invested well. I didn’t have any children, so that really helped. I hope your situation in life improves. Sorry I couldn’t really help.
Congratulations, peace, and happiness is the ultimate.
38, single, and I love living alone. I can't imagine living any other way. I value the privacy, solitude, and tranquility.
Exactly how I feel
@@VeryHighCholesterol lets analyse the lies which are world wide believed and origin from masons:
lie: schools are of use (fact. schools keep slavery alive and stands for dumbing down the population of mankind)
lie: moon and mars landings, (fact: even masons know they cannot leave - earth is closed system, unless you want to drown, there is no other place created for us to live in.)
lie: news channels share truth (fact: these are for politic propaganda)
lie: voting matters (fact: politic propaganda)
lie: money has a value of its own (fact: it is just a tool of this world, which value has been agreed upon world wide, it should be not loved, only used as needed.)
lie: NASA lies (globe and all....) (fact: NASA stands for TO DECEIVE and 2 members expose their own lies, one is still alive, the other (Wernher Von Braun) place a clear clue on his own gravestone) - you havn´t searched - have you?
lie: the lgbtq++++ propaganda (fact: it is a part of masonry depopulation agenda, 500 000 000 souls, thats their goal - Georgia Guidestones!)
lie: Evolution and the dinosaurs. (fact: mankind is not hybrid kind)
to keep stating that there was an evolution, then we ain´t humans, we aint then mankind, we are then hybrids. Are you a hybrid?
Lie: holidays (xmas, Halloween, new year eve and so on) (fact: PAGAN HOLIDAYS, to praise BAAL, the god of this world)
lie: U.F.Os (fact: they are demons/evil spirits in high places, against whom we fight daily = spiritual warfare)
lie: rules and laws rule the world (fact: signs and symbols of masonry do)
lie: believe in being educated (fact: found daily living with the lack of knowledge)
lie: religions are ways to heaven (fact: JESUS CHRIST is only way to heaven. Religions, no matter its name = masonic garbage)
lie: our dead loved ones stay around to “ghost” (fact: hunting and ghosting is job of demons, not of humans. We, humans, come from GOD and return back to HIM and all the stories of having been seen a ghost - terrifying, scary, dark, cold - again no job of analysing been done here by you- right?)
Lie: Humans have no immune system and we need vaccines as these save lives (fact: humans HAVE IMMUNE SYSTEM and vaccines are created for one or two purpose: to kill or to cripple. If you took all their poison shots then later in life comes all kinds of medical diagnoses = vaccines crippled you - remember that)
lie: there is no GOD (fact: There is GOD, who redeems sinners and created us directly from the dust of the earth: Psalms 139:14 (KJV)
I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.)
to keep claiming that there is no GOD and we aint created directly from the dust of the earth, we soon run out logic, regardless to we place “evolution” in our claims or not and our dead, whats happening to them as they sleep in their graves? - they decay away, becoming the dust form which they were taken, if it ain`t so then we are simply reality deniers.
lie: 911 was terror attack (fact: 911 was an inside job, meaning the work of your loved government)
lie: Tv watching is of use (fact: television (TV) = tell a lie vision, a weapon for our minds, keeping it under MK ULTRA)
half lie/half truth: earth is a stage where everyone plays rolls (fact: earth is stage, a freemasonry checkerboard, where both side, black and white are masons and humans both in politics and regular souls = the naive public gets daily played)
lie: children are government to raise (fact: children are parents to raise, it takes 2 to make them, it takes 2 to raise them).
Lie: we live already in the matrix (fact: we live since birth in BABYLON which is to become “matrix” as Man - us, must merge with machine aka take the mark of the beast and then matrix aka false reality becomes to be 100%)
lie: humans are not intelligent enough (fact: it is forgotten fact, we all are intelligent, many have suffered the illness from this world, being indoctrinated by masons, cause who give us the school system which we have? masons did, because they need slaves.
Lie: love is low standers and = lust (fact love is high standard as love means>
John 15:13
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
Lie> do what thy wilt there is no body who has the right to judge you (fact> GOD SHALL JUDGE YOU AFTER YOU HAVE DEPARTED ON EARTH and Christians are also called to give out righteous judgment, therefore repent * born again * go and sin no more)
lie: slavery is over (fact: slavery was never over, it just changes a little as we are no longer buy`d or sold, still prepared through school systems for our future slavery, succumb to our slave lives based on our free will)
24 lies, should i go on?
This world ain´t deceived, out there to deceive?
9 - 5 working industry was created, because masons wants slaves. Schools systems prepared us for our future slavery. Wise ones reject this and seek GOD and start relying on HIM fully. it is unwise to count on the governments of this world. Didn´t they proved in 2020 how badly far are they from reality? slavery turn no soul rich, the price for such slavery is opposite:
you lost:
time (1st 20 years = childhood, then comes 40 years for slavery = your 20s, your 30s, your 40s, your 50s, then comes 50 years of being elderly = 60 - 100)
health = all these vaccines, which slowly turns you a cripple + man made fake food ( we are dust and should consume which comes directly from dust)
life = no time and no health = early grave
Each of us shall lose 3 times, gain nothing more then illusions.
When reading THE BIBLE (KJV) and complaining abut the slavery in the past, know then this, that
9 - 5 working industry = slavery of our day.
You want to know the past - read bible, you want to know present - read bible - you want to know future - read bible.
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Good for you man! That’s better than being depressed about it like many others are 😂🤙🏼
@@Biker_Johnny86 unfortunately we are kind of forced to live that way
While being single I got in a great shape, I’ve saved up tons of cash, I bought two properties, and paid off my debt, thats not including traveling, visiting parents more frequently, having clear goals, remaining balance and harmony in my life. All in two years.
cool story, bro.
Did you even watch the video? You commented 3 minutes after it was posted.... 🤣
Good for you!
Good shit my guy
Lol cool story bro.
I just love the freedom of being single. The hard truth is I couldn’t imagine doing that whole merging thing.
It’s a good deal if women don’t have agency or legal identity
I tried the "merging". It did'nt work. I just like doing things my way
I do as well but don't you fear being alone as you age?
@@foodchaser716 yes I do
Me, 42, left my ex-wife in 2008 and have been single since. The only negative being single for me: Sometimes I read or hear about some dudes who have been lying in their homes dead for a while, before they were found. It makes me panic😨
After being in a relationship with a sociopath, being single is peace and bliss. No more toxicity, manipulation or control. God is my go to now 🙏
God? What does this so called GOD even do for you? Surely doesn't help those who ask for it, funny how when things don't work out, everyone turns to this being as if he's going to change anything, just another coping mechanism.
This makes two of us! I feel the same way after a horrible relationship experience with a sociopath!
I like being single and independent but the loneliness is so crushing. No wonder why people stay in abusive relationships.
You can be lonely in a relationship too my friend, Sure at 1st the company and cuddles are great, but after a month, unless you both have alot in common (and your not just faking liking the same stuff she likes to please her) you're going to end up wishing you were single again
@@XPLOSIVizationthis is true. When your not really into her you wil find yourself feeling lonely again.. Only thing is other people wil think your not lonely.. But u have a relationship for others? Or for your own happiness.
The loneliness is brutal. But its damn near impossible to find someone you can trust. Or who wont bail when hard times come. I cant trust them. I wish I could.
@villen2020 Same, it feels like an uphill battle that you can't win. Not unless you're chad of course but that's a different story.
You must be like 25 at 35 you'll PRAY for quiet 😅
Co-habitating in today's world is like playing Russian roulette. World is getting crazier by the day it seems.
Learning how to be alone and single is a super ability that you must learn how to master
And when you unlock it, it is like learning how to fly.
Sounds like a video game
@@gamerbotak168 it’s true bro we are men and we most learn how to live alone in a society that doesn’t want man and hate man, clearly there is something wrong with this government narrative, in which men are being erased from the nuclear core family.
The only caveat and is that you must practice NoFap and avoid pornography of any kind- otherwise you are just lying to yourself that you are happy alone imo.
@@stephenhughes5156 yeah, porn sucks. It's one of those things that's super bad for people yet they don't realize it.
i have 5 daughters and 7 grandchildren. Nothing better than having a family at 65 and widowed. I love being by myself now but it is great to know your family has your back. Having a family is well worth the trouble.
Did you really just said it is great to be widowed while having kids?
Obviously didn't marry a promiscuous feminist young lady of today.
@@artemisentreri4244 The kids are grown
Widowed yeah smh
@artemisentreri4244 My youngest "kid" is 29. I enjoy life, with or without a wife. My daughters and their families are doing great. I live alone now and love it. I hope you can say the same.
I totally agree, When i was in my 20s and early 30s i felt i needed to be in a relationship as i wanted to be loved, Now in my 40s and been out of a relationship for 4 years, I've come to the realization love isnt all its cracked up to be & i love being single, When im in a relationship i feel the need to hide or dilute my hobbies and interests as i know to women my hobbies are pretty much boring as hell to them (i like trains, WW1 history and WW2 Aircraft) and most of the women ive been with their hobbies are boring as hell to me (like pop music reality TV shows and serial killer documentary's) but as a man we pretend to be interested so we dont end up on the sofa each night lol, I guess ive grown out of relationships and prefer the peace and quiet rather than wearing a mask to please a pretty face, Maybe ill find my other half when im old, but for now im happy to be single and focus on the hobbies and other interests i love, as selfish as that may sound
Nice bro
Over 30 there is a pretty face hard to find
Dude that's so true and by the way WW1 and WW11 Stuff is the shit. That's one of my most favorite times in history.
Your hobbies aren’t boring! I had an ex who was into rc cars and customizing bodies and then racing them. I thought it was fun and sweet to watch him have pure innocent fun.
I have diff hobbies like crafts and DIY or sailing.
Just gotta keep searching. I’m still searching!
Freedom to do what you want, when you want to do it, is priceless. I love not having to answer to anyone.
No such thing as forever now. People are different. I'm single because i was getting hurt all the time ❤
What did you learn from the hurt?
I would love to know that as well.@@edheldude
She didn't learn anything. The lesson was to create boundaries and let those go who cross them. Boundaries. This girl needs boundaries.
Same here brother!! I'm 53 and as far back as highschool, I was nothing more than a placeholder to all of them. Even my ex-wife.
@@edheldudeHe told you, "I'm single". He's probably making a conscience effort to stay that way.
The World at large is on a dark path
It is true
I like being single. For me I just don’t have that desire to provide for a woman and a baby. I wanna do what I wanna do.
So you're saying you're not a man.
@@folksurvival I have a lot of things that I want to do with my life and a wife and child would just hold me back. I’m not ready to be tied down to that kind of responsibility. I’d rather focus on my dreams and passions.
@@SOULMAN641and it's too much responsibility for men
@@folksurvival "sO yOuRe sAyIng yOuRe NoT a mAn" who the f*ck cares who you deem a man and who not lol
I agree with soulman. Idk why I would take soo much unwanted responsibility on my shoulders when I can just be free and do whatever I want.
64 and single and loving life . I just don't understand where this loneliness thing comes from because I'm definitely not lonely . Couldn't be happier
Im 49 widowed with 4 kids. Even though i miss my wife of 24years who passed of breast cancer 14 months ago I am ok with being single now. Getting jnto a new relationship with a new woman will only complicate things so Im enjoying this new life of being single. My kids give me happiness thats good enough for me.
MGTOW makes a lot of sense. I am 63, single and never married. At times I can get lonely, but the alternative is to put up with women that act illogical, delusional, and filled with drama. I look at husbands and think how do they put up with their crap. I know most of them are not that happy. I am glad that I have peace and freedom in my life at this stage. I don't have to act like I support a woman who is all over the place with her emotions, and deal with their constant problems. I don't know how husbands do it. I can't be that fake.
Those husbands do it because they know that wifey dear is one phone call away from destroying their lives if for one moment she is not haaaaappy.
It doesn't make sense. Don't be fooled by the MGTOW propaganda.
@@halcyonzenith4411 I've seen a lot of this lately.
One phone call goes like this - the judge issues temporary maintenance orders ( she needs his income during the divorce). Judges orders 33% of his take home pay for child support, judge orders him to move out of the house ( quick claim deed) Judge orders a QDRO order to give her 50% of his 401k. He pays her $2,000 alimony for 5 years. Most men know this, so they stay married.
@@georgesontag2192 If she got 50% of my 401k, she might have a hard time spending it at the bottom of Lake Michigan.
I came to realization that I'd rather be alone than be with bad company. Either I put all my effort in or I don't try at all. Nowadays people confuse clingyness with dedication. They just say they want someone to go hard for them, but don’t even know what that looks like. When things get real, they often don't even try. All the advice in the world cannot help them. Nor can what their parents taught them save them from what they're about to face. So some are lonely because they worked to get there. But others are alone because they stopped trying when they realized no one else would.
As usual good topic & take.
great comment
I was single for 6 years and loved it! The feeling of freedom is amazing. I am dating now for 2 years and it is equally amazing but in different way. I think you just need to find your partner who would share your interest, your lifestyle with no drama. That’s difficult to find the right person.
I dove head first ( little head of course) into starting a family at 20. Finished at 48 with my boys moved out and the mother left me. The peace I find after doing all that is one that feels well deserved. I don't feel a need to be with another person domestically.
Dude same here 👍
You've been there and done that though, you are not sitting and wondering, good luck,
You graduated life man. Now enjoy the peaceful years you earned!
Same here, 51 two adult kids, no debt, and the nicest thing their mother done was leave me.
I'm 53, been single 10 years now. Having already had kids etc life is now better than it has ever been. A woman would just bring conflict and money drainage. Women of my age seemingly want to relive their 20's. It's so sad, they just don't mature anymore.
People don’t need romantic relationships at all to survive.Having family and friends is definitely needed as people need a support system.Your family can be your parents and siblings.
A good circle of freinds can be just as good of a support system
not everyone has or can rely on their birth family for support but it is the most ideal generally
@@fmm5577 You actually do need water to survive but nice try.
Your parents are going to die and your siblings will have their own family. One of the highest priorities should be the creation of the next generation of humans. We already have plenty of idiots breeding. It’s absurd that the very people who should be breeding are the ones who aren’t.
Yes being comfortable in being alone is a super power, but to your previous video..self improvement, self worship is masturbation.. there's really no point if you're not spreading your seed and raising growing, teaching your offspring..the single life is fun, but living your life , on your purpose and still being in a relationship is how you're actually going to keep a woman around, loving and respecting you. Running through random women is poison.
I agree. Nothing more alpha than cloning yourself by spreading your seed 😂
I agree. Nothing more alpha than cloning yourself by spreading your seed 😂
Theres no point in lifw in general. Youll die, your kids will die and so on. Its as pointless as it gets. You get kids just for your ego. You stay single just for your ego. Its all just for you
I’m at the age of 55 been single for 4yrs now. Love the idea of not having to worry about anything or anyone but ME! Love the thought of ordering a take out or take in! Freedom is beautiful to do when what and where you choose with no one to answer too. What’s not to like as long as you have your health and insurance all in place. I’m living the dream, women have lost a fabulous person because all the women I have met just take, take, take! Now I’m looking after number one and should of done this years ago. Good luck all, I will never look back, only forward from now on and enjoy what time I have left. ❤
Sigle forever is the best way to go. No stress, a lot of time, you do not have to feel guilty for her wrongs but just yours, you have more money.
Very true. I sleep on a big pile of cash every night. It is so satisfying.
Don't know about forever. Unless you just can't find the right person then fair enough.
I spent my entire teens and 20s being a chronic people pleaser. Now that I'm in my 30s and have finally learned how to establish some semblance of freedom/ agency in my life, I can't even begin to comprehend the idea of giving it up to pursue a relationship... I love women n all, but it is what it is. I definitely don't look down on men who pursue traditional family life or view them as simps. If anything, they're probably just better men than I am Lol
@@InjectBleach You're right, I'm terrified. Want to comfort me while I hide and cry?
@@dante340 LMAO!!
@@dante340 Don't listen to him, apparently he injects bleach....
@@InjectBleach bro are you projecting 🤔
I’m more of an introvert I believe in God I’m spiritual I’m very happy, I have very little friends and I’m happy that way
Being single is a gift! I’m a 50 yr old woman and have been single for 10 years now. I’ve never been happier! I get to enjoy all my activities, I’m the fittest I’ve ever been. My mortgage is almost paid off and I saved a tonne of money. Life is good! ❤
Lies
Your a female, you can get affection at anytime. Most men cannot get affection.
Yes. Clingy-sounding people sound quite desperate sometimes. Those who fear being alone don’t understand that there are those who ARE happy being by themselves - single.
Solid truth! I have 5 grown sons: (3 are married, 1 dating, 1 solo). The happiest one is the 'just dating' one. The married ones have become so serious/moody; & the single one is lonely. Speaking as an older woman; being single is ok!
The capacity to be content alone is the greatest ability. It is hard to cultivate, as loneliness can be a tough pill to swallow. But being ok being alone is so important, and a skill so few have today.
As a 30 year old gay man being single is almost by default. I don't feel pressured to fit into societal and peer expectations of getting married and having children. I do look forward to adopting a kid or two in my 40s though. That's a good purpose for me to look forward to. I think figuring out and finding a purpose in life is what really gives you some kind of joy. I want to be a parent more than being a husband or boyfriend.
@joanarc7963 or either one is far better that having no parent at all.
I'm not trying to be hateful or anything but I'm not sure that I can get on board with the idea of allowing gay men to adopt. I mean, I guess it's better than nothing (though not neccesarily), but I don't think it can replace a man and woman parental dynamic. Even a lesbian couple would be preferable to a gay couple as parents imo because they at least have that mother instinct. And as far as I'm aware, they probably dont allow single straight men to adopt for the most part- so why should it be any different for gay couples? Am I wrong about this?
@@stephenhughes5156 it's a very biased narrow minded opinion without looking at the big picture and countless children rejected for being older or any other reason they never get adopted. Those children deserve to have atleast one parent that wants to take care of them.
@@stephenhughes5156 yes you are wrong about this. Single straight men can adopt a child. Proof of feasible income & several evaluations & home visits, background checks etc….and your good.
18% of single American men are looking for long term relationships (not necessarily marriage). There is an article in Forbes about it (based on a pew research study) in 2023. It said 61% of men 30 and under were not looking for anything.
That's great news. Men need to focus on helping each other.
We're all giving up lol
nothing wrong with being gay. Gay marriage is legal now.
@@Princessbubblegum567 The study didn't include that. But men do that at OVER twice the rate of women, so there are even less men available to single women... Which is kind of funny because women encourage it.
@@Princessbubblegum567Typical shaming tactic. It just shows your ignorance. These studies where done without gay men included, lol. It’s just most women make horrible partners now. Speaking from experience.
I totally agree with you being single is a freedom now im doing whatever i want to do go to gym regularly and travel new places etc being single is like peace
Children and family > gym and travel
@@folksurvival cope
@@no_life_wth_leafras949 ?
I'm recently divorced, I am so looking forward to going travelling solo in 2024, and never once having to ask the question 'what's wrong now?' 😂
I'm ready to travel 2024 lets gooo
@@Flowing_Waters ✈️
Agree 👍. Can't stand when you ask Mr. Moody what's wrong. And the answer is always nothing. 😢😢😢
LFA you speak from my soul recently, totally relate to your stuff and it’s scary since it’s 100% true to me.
You are 37, im sure you have contemplated about this. What is your life goal, at what age would you like to have a family? Do you actually want children one day?
Im 45 and still enjoying single life and i love it but at it scares me that i haven’t got family yet and i feel its the high time otherwise i miss out and will regret it. Time is getting faster each year past
Living in Northeast Asia in a modern and sophisticated country, I totally agree with you , as a similar aged man
@@user-uy3tx5so1ti also live in south east Asia, it is hard, women are spoiled for choice here and they have no problem to replace you like socks
@@mariomaslikAnd here in the USA we have passports bros running to SEA to find a wife. Reality will hit hard.
Just saying if you found someone tomorrow got married and had a child you would 46 or 47 when child is born. These days kids stay home till 25 or 26 years old. That puts you at 72 or 73 before they leave the house. Raising kids is a lot of work do you think you want to do that in your sixties at retirement age 65 your child will be app. 18. No thanks
That intro with the fire was legit, feels like a more organic and natural video this way. I really enjoy these insights you have lately LFA, Merry Christmas brother.
Always good stuff LFA. Thanks for connecting with your peeps. Have a good one.
LFA!!! ONE OF YOUR BEST VIDEOS - DOWN TO EARTH, REAL AND EN;LIGHTNING.
Hey man, I just wanted to say that your content has really helped me a lot. I appreciate it, God bless you.
I struggle to see the point of a relationship especially these days. Sex can be bought, loneliness is not really an excuse when you have work/friends/gym etc. Save money, save sanity, introduce peace into your life and pay for sex when you want it. The juice genuinely isn't worth the squeeze.
Having a family
@@chelseachelseafcsuperfan7220 Really that only benefits women these days. Only time that works out for men is if the marriage is succesful and most marriages aren't successful these days.
true but not a guarantee of happiness @@chelseachelseafcsuperfan7220
Work people aren't your friends, no matter how much you lie to yourself.
Amen brother.
Ben Affleck speaking the truth👍🏻
Lol I was wondering who this gentleman resembled
This is the best Men's advice channel on youtube. Very humble and informative. LFA helped me a lot more than bums like fitxfearless. Salute LFA.
Just want to say that I love your videos, they are very informative and therapeutic. Keep up the good work.
real talk man. felt like i was sitting across from ya listening to ya vent out good stuff. i have similar concious talks with myself everyday
The thing is, they come looking for you when they are in their 30s and fat (it happened to me). If you are the shy guy, they will target you, be wary..
Great point
@BrockLanders I'll tell you more. When you start talking to other women (more attractive ones), they will cock-block you somehow. In my case by denigrating my reputation or telling the women not to talk to me, but when we are alone they initiate the convo. Now, I know that this might look shallow, but all I want is to date across my level. Although I do not look at my best I intend to not date until I get my physical appearance of 2014(six-pack) back, while I work in a field that gets me a six-figure income. It took me 8 years to get my bachelor's in CS and I didn't do all that work to date an obese woman who can barely breathe after taking two steps (can you believe it?) I would rather be sexless and work out 💪!!!
@@emmanuelkofyagyapong6382Amen brother. Nowadays too many men are shooting for less than what they are worth. Knowing your value as a man is always important, never settle for less because you feel like you have to. Because at least you will still have one thing if not a woman, your dignity.
@@user-wu1gm8xz9u right.
Well at 57yo it's basically game over ,I've given up on searching for that one and I'll concentrate on building wealth and fitness ,life's too short
It's a tricky one. To be or not to be... in a relationship. I jumped in at a young age and got burned really badly... but we had a child and for that I'm very grateful. I'm getting old now at 60 years old and I spent most my life after my marriage ended just not getting too close, with the exception of a really pretty Korean women I met, a women from Holland and a couple of other intense but short lived romances. And I have assets now, it would piss me right off if I ever lost my stuff due to some relationship gone bad. So I dip my toe in and that's about it.
My only son and wife passed years ago. I somehow survived that and am at peace in my solitude and I’m finally in good company. I have women in my life but nothing permanent. The fish will bite if you’re not trying hard to land one. Just remember today that catch and release is your best option.
Wishing you all the best ❤
I'm 43. 7 year old daughter and I'm tight with her mommy who is now 29. Since we broke up I've been single intentionally. I let one come through sometimes but I don't care at all. I'm super involved with Little league as a coach. My baby is my #1 , 2 and 3. She sees her daddy nearly daily. I sometimes wish i started having kids much younger now seeing what a kid does for you. Anyway , dont listen to me. Happy New Year yall !!
I found out one thing in my 65 years of living. I love waking up in the bed in the morning...alone
Amen
1000%
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Hi from Poland,I wanted to thank you because thanks to this channel my life has changed for the better, thank you
HI FROM PORTUGAL
Dobry wieczór z Stany Zjednoczone
@@MobbinMic Witam :)
YES! I'm alone for the first time in my life and I've never been happier or healthier! 💗✨
I agree that they dont necessarily need each other but if you do find one your compatible with and both are willing to put in the effort its nice, its not easy, imo its easiest to be single, but having a companion can be nice.
Agree. It has to be the right person.
Women can not be companions lol.
@geraldleuven169 You must have not found the right ones, I think they can be, ive had multiple long-term relationships, and We have felt like best friends and shared everything with each other, from how your day was to your deepest secrets, and traveled the country together. I have one I left by my choice because things weren't going great that I wish I hadn't left and had tried harder with infact. I also do think things are changing, I'm in my 40's and even 10 years ago seems different than now when it comes to finding relationships.
I love my life as a single man. No stress, no drama, 0 debt.
@@geraldleuven169VVomen can't do anything.
Im 28 didnt date a lot. I always feel like im missing on something, but i don't feel bad being single. Its just that feeling pops up from time to time to have someone. But i don't think i actually need it
Been watching this dude for a while and like his channel. Doesn’t do any kind of fancy edits in between every sentence like most the other people on UA-cam. Just a real dude that spits facts about women and life in general. I dig it.
Agree, I am also tired of watching perfectly edited videos here on UA-cam... we need more truth and real life on this platform
And no annoying ads
You guys who haven't merged? Stay that way. It's torture once kids come along if you picked the wrong woman. Absolute torture 🤦
Your not lying there
Im 34 about to be 35 next Thursday, and i asked myself, am i happy single, and the answer is moderately yes. Yes, it would be good to have a woman there to bring you comfort, but a lot of these women now a days arent very comfortable being around. Plus, the stress that's involved with dealing with a woman is something im tired of dealing with. Feeling desperate and chasing a woman isn't something i fun amusing anymore, as well as holding my self-worth based on the validation they give me is tiring. I choose to put myself first, and there's a freedom that my heart enjoys being able to do as i please without worrying about embarrassing my spouse or family. Women do bring direcrion and stability in your life if you choose the right one, but i haven't found that in 34 years, and im trying to find that for myself. The stability and purpose that is.
I agree with most of this video. Unfortunately, relationships in the United States are f**ked up for both men and women right now. Ideally, it would be great to be with someone worthwhile (for both parties) but so many people are looking for different things. I think it's better to be single unless you find that person you have good chemistry with, who is worth sacrificing for and who has your back. That's hard to find in the U.S. Also, I'm a single, never married female with no children. I have no problem with guys being single but I wish they would be honest and say, "Hey, I just want sex from you." But unfortunately, most don't do that and many string women along. If you want to be single, fine. But please don't string a woman along leading her to think she's in a relationship when she's just a f**k buddy in your mind. It's completely dishonest.
Most men can't be honest if they want a bed buddy because they know women will dump them, so unfortunaely they string women along. The Chads and Tyrones are just upfront about it.
@Billy-bc8pk
They're afraid to be upfront because they think it ruin the moment of them being able to get sex.
@@geekiepooh808 Absolutely. Otherwise, if it were easy then men would just be upfront, but the only ones capable of that are the top 14%.
I'll make it easy for you. If you are f**king him, then you're his f**k buddy.
That doesn't justify lying or stringing someone along.@@Billy-bc8pk
I’ve honestly found after being single the last 7 years (I’m 32) that I’m never happier than when I’m not in a relationship. Flings are fine and everyone needs sex but I have found that the juice is not worth the squeeze with relationships today. You always think you can trust someone until you can’t. Idk it depends on the person I suppose. Most my friends are married or in relationships. I try to be a leader not a follower
For us women who don’t like posting selfies on IG, I have been harassed and unfollowed because I wasn’t “entertaining” men enough with selfies or provocative pics.
I think the culture of IG is men lusting after women and women wanting to get attention. I don’t want anything to do with the game. iG has become trash.
If men wanted to value my art & music and travel photography I’d be a part of IG again. But our culture, as a whole, is about using people it seems.
The thing is, even if you do date a woman you really like, they can totally flake on you for a number of reasons and it's like what happened I was gonna marry you. And then you date a woman who is lesser than and it's like this doesn't work because you're just not that exciting to me. So you end up single at 33 and never look back
Solid vids 💪 I’ve been watching for a while now
Great video bro
Keep up the good work!!
I’ve been happily single my whole life. For some reason everyone hates me because of it
Maybe they're jealous
Me too.
Man I can‘t put into words how much I like your content,a wise man telling truth and wisdom.I am young,only 23 years old but yeah life passes by fast,I think alot about stuff you talk about.Being single means freedome,I like being single,but yeah I can‘t live that life forever.Someday I gotta settle down for a women,I don‘t think that the pimp lifestyle is for me.
Yup. I love being single but, a meaningful relationship plus kids has greater value and meaning if you do it right. God bless my fellow gen z
So you want to be a simp? I'd rather be a pimp.
Stop trying to brainwash the youth. You are not a simp because you are in healthy relationship. Men have less anxiety and stress when they are cuddling, making out and having sex with a good woman consistently.@@monk4ever
Like the way you speak for the heart bro you are wise beyond your years. I was always happy as a single male, im 45 now. I rethinking my veiw on it , as you get older the threat of dying alone becomes scary!
Excellent video. Fire's pretty and advice is good!
Thank you for sharing some knowledge. I’m 35, divorced at 30, my ex-wife left me for another man. It’s been hard for me trying to coparent our 10 year old daughter.
Most importantly, it’s even harder to try to find another partner or go on a date, because a lot of modern women now days don’t need us men, I just realized that 🤦🏻♂️
Wishful thinking, and will continue working on myself ✝️
@19:00 can relate mate. Found a movie ticket in my old jacket and remembered I was a different person back then not making the right choices compared to now
Very insightful brother
49 , single , living in an RV in a beautiful country setting on private land. I work when I want and sleep when I want
Im 45 and single lady. I agree with everything you said except that we can get any man at any time. Oh no my friend, not that easy especially if you have standards. I rather continue to be single and happy. I did the marry life and no thank you.
simps are not just on social media, they are in relationships, sometimes having children, and generally doing whatever their wife/girlfriend wants them to do until she leaves them.
Sinping is toxic. Simps are the most dangerous men. Women need to continue to evade them because if a simp patches on to you, you're gonna end up with a stalker or worse.
women with simps or feminist women are just as dangerous as the simps.
I'm 38 years old, I have great job, great car, no debts, "few" bucks on the side, ain't that tall (about 5ft10), I weight about 200 lbs and look more like a bodybuilder than an athlete (I've been doing that for about 15 years and it's all natral). I'm getting bald, but my beard is thick and quite long. I ain't got insecurities about that neither about my height. I live in my parents house and I'm not ashamed of that. I have enough bucks to go on my own, but there is no need for that and I it ain't none of my business what people think about 38 year old male, who lives at home with parents. Past 10 years I am happily single and I have no need for soulmate, because I am naturally very introverted and my hobbies (lifting, cycling, guitar, reading...) keep me busy and happy. In those 10 years I've never felt lonely or desperate. Many people think I'm weird because of that and that's none of my business either. Stay strong, independent, chase your goals and don't let society and delusional western women destroy your path.
Some great honest points here. Very good observations and perspectives.
I think people find it difficult because modern life is so busy. People are distracted by social media and find it hard to focus on their own values. People spend so much time working so there’s not enough time to create the foundation of a strong relationship. In the past you could raise children on one income and a simple lifestyle, this seems harder to achieve for most people due to the economy. Also a lot of people are selfish and won’t sacrifice their short term happiness for the long term. Other reasons are many people were raised in broken homes and don’t want to repeat these patterns.
I agree 10000 percent. You told no lies
Bro you are in your 30s , I was there it was tough and i was successful in NYC had the clothes the looks the apartment etc. Today it is the same but different i know it sounds bizzare. People are materialistic, sexual , liars, honest to a point. Best is to work the mind, body, spirit , economy. Love the planet, travel the planet and that person will be around it is mathematics. Worked for me just a viewpoint!!!
I love your videos bro ,keep it up 💪🏽💪🏽❤️
Please tell me where I can get free drinks for being single 😂. Divorced at 49 single since then and coming up 61. I will not settle for anything less than I deserve and until the guys stop feeding me bullsh1t I will remain single. I can change a plug and a lightbulb who needs to be miserable with the wrong bloke!? Stay safe ladies and strong and independent. ❤
For most people, marriage is almost like going into business with someone, and once those needs are met, people tend to want to quit or divorce their spouse. Very rarely do people marry because they truly love someone. I think that is how it has always been, to tell you the truth, and many people have realized that. Anyway great video, you hit the nail right on the head with a lot of things you said.
So true. I’m single and I’ve always felt that married people get the better deal. My married sister thinks I’m nuts.
most married people i know are either miserable, running around somehow, or are divorced. yet when there's any sort of family do they all have spaces at the table and me being single given a place at the kids' table and after for the rest of the weekend kids were dumped on me to babysit. went to a big thanksgiving do last time in my later 40s. the kids' table. i finished my drink and instead of going to the kitchen to sit and eat with a buncha tweens and younger i never said a word, turned to the front hall, grabbed coat, shoes and left. never said a word.
half an hour later i get an annoyed call from the big sister DEMANDING to know where i am. "shocked", i tell her i'm in my car on the interstate - "why?" i was apparently supposed to be having supper with the kids and making sure they don't bother The Adults. i started to laugh and hung up.
i haven't been back since, haven't been invited (nor asked), have not exchanged birthday/seasonal greetings/cards/e-mails/letters. two years ago one of my parents and a cousin separately contacted me and asked "what was the problem?", not calling it "my" problem. I thought that was fairly neutral so i replied - yes, gen x people still write long, long letters - and didn't miss an instance of insulting, condescending, patronising remark, smirk, or belittling.
took a little bit but now the two of them invite me on my own. stick to your guns, tolerate nothing.
Great job on your channel LFA. Gave valuable perspective on women, dating and the merits of being single. Also none or minimal editing or begging for likes and subscribes. Way to be! I liked and subscribed because of this. 👊
Appreciate it LFA, have a great 2024, I’m personally only setting 4 goals (to go with the stock market quarters) hope your youtube channel hits the next mark you have planned
Because relationships aren’t all their cracked up to be & single is better more freedom less stress
That really depends on who it's with.
1000%
I've been married twice I'm done with it during both divorces ex wives wanted Alimony. I had to pay a family law attorney thousands and thousands of dollars to fight it. Women want to be strong and independent but if a woman can get a quick buck they will try 😮
Alimony is best paid in lead currency
Love your content!
another great video lfa thank you!
Just went through a breakup after 12 years. Hard realization that at least 6 of it was a complete waste of both our lives, but especially mine.
I'm learning from the guys....It's okay to be alone.. You can't depend on someone else for your happiness . You have to be happy with yourself first.
55 and never been married. Ive never been more happy.
Good shit brotha
My friend recently divorced, she is overweight 3 kids, her husband cheated on her. Women have it hard too. You can only do so much to look beautiful.
Being overweight is the result of a habit of putting things into your mouth that you shouldn’t put into your mouth. Yeah, she has it so hard that she has so much extra money that she can put so much extra food into her mouth. That is so hard. Come on. It’s not that hard to fix this. Being ugly and fat are two different things. You can fix being fat. A lot of women just don’t want to fix it.
Being a mother and father is nothing but stress, not worth imposing
Yup, kids are exhausting. Most parents, especially in the USA, rely on government handouts just to afford them.
What is more important than creating a family and the next generation?
nothing is more important than focusing on the lives today. The average life sucks so lets just turn the engine off already. @@kungfoochicken08
@@kungfoochicken08 Why is it necessary for there to be a next generation?
@@kaiduff. 4real. Who gives a shat about the next gen. We gon be ded 😂
Thank you for the informative talk, you definitely summed up the times were in real good ❤
Thanks bro. Lot of wisdom here.
Sign of the times indeed
I think some people flourish more when they have a partner, some are better off being single. What i can clearly see today is that more people are alone involuntarily. Many men, but women as well.
Incels = involuntarily Celibate
Good stuff. Thanks
Everything in life comes with its pros and cons.
Single or in relationship too.
Whats most important is being content with your life.
Dont live the way other people want you to live if it doesnt make you satisfied.