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The two simple things of
1. Lifting weights/running
2. Avoiding poisonous slop food, cooking everything, hitting all vitamin/mineral targets every day
changed my life more than any other advice. Make sure your body is strong before worrying about anything else.
Sound advice fir ALL humans
So fucking true bro. Raw milk and eggs and heavy weights. I'm down 105 lbs.
The thing about children experiencing divorce are robbed of the masculine experience. 100% true.
Yup, unless your dad is a simp. So many simps in this world that some men would be better off with their dad gone.
Being a man is silent … the more you live the more it makes sense
Being a man is indifference, and indifference is bliss.
I grew up with parents, mom and dad, but my dad was never the masculine man that I looked up to. I have to find out how to be a man on my own through UA-cam channels like yours which does help me to identify my true self. It doesn't necessarily have to be a fatherless home that men look how to be men, but the lack of a father figure.
My dad taught me how to build things and how to play baseball but beyond that he didn’t teach me shit. I mean, he didn’t even talk to me about human nature and other things like that . My mother gave me atrocious advice that took me years to unlearn. It’s a bit terrifying seeing all these guys being raised by a single mother . The most well intentioned woman cannot raise a boy to be a man just as I could never raise a girl to be a feminine woman
@@redgemini9851 there's more to being masculine besides pumping and dumping. Any guy can do that with any woman
I looked up to Bruce Lee
@@TheDoomWizard Bruce Lee looked up to me.
Same
Men sometimes become more masculine as they age. They get more experience with things in life and they grow up. I can tell you i was alot less masculine as a 19 year old compared to being a 31 year old. Ive grown up a lot since then and in turn life has made me more masculine.
Life hits men hard... you don't start off this life quest based, you start out blue-pilled and naive (by design) and either suffer until you make it, whereby learning by extension... or, you go down the darker black-pill route and get hooked on cheap thrills and excuses, with a "woe is me" mentality.
I agree with both of you. 19 year old me. has become completely unrecognizable to my 27 year old self. And honestly I have to take a moment to step back and realize how far I’ve come in life. Granted I still have a lot to accomplish.
I will say this does not happen for everyone though. I have 3 brothers raised by the same parents .. personally I feel as though they lack in the masculinity aspect.. they even come off as extremely feminine at times.. I don’t try and change them though. . To each their own.
I feel though we were raised in the same household we have lived very different lives.
Yeah that’s the general progression of things if you live by the right principals
I grew up in a traditional household. Dad was always working providing for the family, my mom would stay home and watch us 4 boys. My dad was in navy, yes he was gone for a bit period of time because of deployment. My dad was masculine person in the relationship and my mom was feminine one. I’m grateful for my family and the man I am today. I don’t struggle leading a relationship too because I saw the relationship between my mom and dad who is still married to this day for 27 years now and it’s still going strong with them.
My dad taught me everything I know today. He got me in sports at a young age, he’s a real fucking dad that’s forsure. I don’t think how fortunate I am because I head stories of broken families
I find it impressive how there's not a single LFA video that's not interesting.
I grew up in a very toxic household, both of my parents were there but it was terrible to be apart of. As such, I found myself trying to be the polar opposite of my dad ie, being nice... often way too nice to people. It took reading a lot of books and watching stuff like your channel to really identify I swung too far into nice guy territory. I couldn't understand why I was getting friend zoned over and over again. I lost my masculine frame. I have been finding it again and I must say that it feels a lot more like it should and I refuse to be the nice guy that gets friend zoned, used and abused by anybody. Thanks LFA.
Nice does not equal fool
The world has changed, the world will always need good men, nice not in the way of a fool, oblivious to others, becoming a martyr. That does not mean to change your natural disposition as a good man. Do not let the world turn you evil. In the world but not of it. Keep your dignity to say the least.
@@tysondance7476 actually it does look up the etymology
@@haroutonthetrack8971 you're not "wrong". Words are spells
Haven't seen your videos in years but this one struck a chord. One of your best videos yet.
parents still together, but my father is a narcissist. I'm alaska native and our rite of passage into manhood was our first kill and becoming a good hunter and provider for your future family. He didn't give me that and tried to prevent me from that and undermined me, but I did learn to hunt and fish on my own from relatives and my late sibling. He was also absent and abusive as a father. Still love him but man I didn't have a stable upbringing.
Fantastic video on this topic. You are one of the most competent UA-camrs on this platform.
100% spot on with this video.
this video hit the spot, some true wisdom right there
This is on point. Both the puas and their customers are narcissists. It's all ego fulfilling bs to compensate for not having a dad.
Solid ground here LFA
Absolutely fantastic and insightful video brother
spittin facts lfa!
Yeah, man, this video was very informative!
You remind me of Ben Affleck somehow not gonna lie.
I like your content and I like that fire in the background.
Just came across your channel last month and I'm glad . Love your knowledge and wisdom . Salute 💪🏿💯
You make very good points. Thank you! I have been waiting for a man to bring this kind of stuff up to other men. You are right....
This is the video every young person 25 or below needs to see!
Very well said. Excellent content!
Thank you, Dad
God this video hit hard.
Culture is the foundation for everything. From culture derives the collective identity. 100% the reason for this confusion in this land is due to the lack of real culture. Men and women alike are confused about who they are. Knowledge of self sets you free.
What do you mean? We have consumer culture! 😜
@@philanders3705 I agree lol I identify as a customer 😂
W0m3n aren't confused at all, they are brainwashed by feminism to h8 men on all levels, but they did instinctually anyway.
Men are lost right now yes, but vv0m3n are just being themselves, for this is their nature when not controlled by men and society and kept from positions of power.
They are misandrists by fault, and by choice if not shamed or punished, will happily be groupies in a large harem to a top tier man even if that means only seeing him o ce every 3 months for a 5 minute quickie at 3am on s Tuesday.
One of your best videos
Very good point.. helping you to answer the question "Who are you?"
I love your channel bro. Keep up the good work mate
There’s a lot of good knowledge on this UA-cam channel
cool scenery and 60fps
Nice insights bro! listening from Brazil!
good message.
So accurate.🔥
solid video lfa
if there is no fathers around where are you going to learn about masculinity then? the market is filling that void
Liked it 👌🏻 Good man 👍🏻
Your outlook has changed significantly and for the better…it’s cool to see dude
This has always been my outlook.
Fair enough…that may have come off wrong…it’s just I remember you had a fair amount of PUA style stuff as well…could be I remember incorrectly
Thanks Kyle
There's an old song called "Hold on Loosely" by a band named 38 Special, that every man should listen to...
The most important underlying message is how to keep Masculine Frame with a women and not drive her away.
If you cling too tight
You're gonna lose control
@@firstlast8258 Is that because that's all you know?
LFA I'm not a guy but I like listening to you. You seem very knowledgeable!👍
Great video
Good talk.
Lfa - Cool fire pit. Where to find?
Without sunglasses, you hit the points much harder..
You’re the best
I did away with all this western crap and got an island gal. Im over it, this stuff you all are dealing with is behind me now. I've got nothing but sweet loving attention now. It allows me to think about other things, about a 2nd life of getting on the ball and doin things again. I know she's on the same page. It's nice.
beautiful. happy for you
Women don’t love just submit
Dont get to comfortable and dont allow her to become Americanized
Fucking legendary speech and outro song! 😂 10*/10* all around good sir!
I agree to most of this. But something I don’t is recognizing
Rich cooper- “ HAVE YOU READ MY BOOK” 😂😂😂 that guy always says that phrase
Real as fuck thanks L
👍👍👍LFA
I would say after many years of watching a lot of this type of content on and off - LFA and Rich Cooper keep it the most real. Though they both are technically “dudes on the internet” they both are giving real and valid perspective on these parts of life that many men struggle with. I’d even say LFA keeps it more down to earth than Rich but definitely real advice from real experience.
The best version of yourself ? Be exactly who you are. You’ll attract earnest people in your life. Not fakes
I agree but what if you are an autistic guy with clinical depression? If he’s his authentic self then he would have no friends
Everybody You know is playing a character that they build in their heads for their own benefits. If You don't be the Best version of yourself You Will be played by people all your life, Even your family can manipulate You for their own benefits. Be aware and just accept thats the reality
If you don't grow, you just stagnate
The most based LFA video to date. Heritage and ancestry is the key to understanding where we come from and where we can work to return to in spite of modernity
This was your best video.
All those masculinity gurus are lost themselves and just try to prey on foreigners. Rollo acts like a high schooler.
I remember those days of yelling at my sister to get off the other line and quit listening to my call
Im sure one of those you have mentioned is Masculine Behavioral Technique MBT from Casey Zander. Great video by the way
Casey has some decent stuff but also gets a bit jaded. It’s all about getting the general drift of how to be with women and how to improve your life
Lots of facts
I dont think masculinity is something that can be directly taught. I think its only something you can do througg experience and following the footsteps of good father figures you look up to. Current modern society doesnt allow these to happen though
@@InjectBleach Lol what?
Feminism is toxic matriarchy.
I really respect your channel. I think you more just want to help boys become men. I get the feeling too you live somewhere like Kansas or Ohio. The thing about having to shade the same phone growing up is so true I’m in my 30’s. I’m gonna reach out to my uncles more. You the man!
nice jacket
Thats a cool jacket man what brand is it? Is it comfortable?
Our fathers were never the leaders of their households because our mothers would not allow it. She would hold the whole marriage over our father's head to make sure he fell in line with her control. Women get the cash prizes and kids in a divorce and the man will lose everything. We saw our fathers be docile and frail in our homes and it caused our dads to recoil and be distant from the kids out of fear of divorce paperwork.
Spot on !! My culture is Cuban-Italiano born in US. I was brought up by solid parents my mother Italian makes us very attached to the mother. The way we treat ladies is hands on ,sexy but with boundaries. It is not simping is captivating them second by second.
American women are feminists and competitive, Argentinian, Spanish, Italian love the soft and gentle touch but with vigor and energy... 😮 Also chocolates and pastries 🍰 make them happy 😂😂😂❤❤
Stay away from _Grifters_ . . . your life will be richer
This advice should be charged man . Advice like this you don't find anywhere.. it's the truth man. Thanks for everything you do.
Jung to Live By is a great channel towards self awareness. They do promote learning about the genomic self including personal ancestry and their effects on you as an individual today
Chad giving advice
One of my first memory from childhood is my dad planning to cheat on my mom (he though that I was too young to read the email that he was writting at the time when I was playing with toys next to him I guess). Some time later, my parents marriage was in crisis and the economic situation was bad, so my dad started to working to late hours. In this time, I was mostly raised by my mother, who was taking this whole situtation out on me by beating me for some stupid mistakes, calling me "fucking dung-boy" (idk how to better translate it in english) and screaming at me because I was daydreaming at school for being "antisocial".
A few years later this situation kinda improved when my sister was born and my parents started to be more peaceful, but to this day I feel like a black sheep to blame when something happens in my family. So yeah, I was mostly raised by the internet in which I learned most of my values, because there were no other way and I feel like being in constant masculine crisis. I don't even know how to love someone, let alone how to be a men. And from what I am hearing from many men in my Zoomer generation, many of them have similar if not even worse situation than my. We need some real new enlightenment in the idea of masculinity, because if not then we will have another generation raised by broken boys and spoiled girls.
I grew up in a loving family, where my father was the leader and I’m over 50 and twice divorced, point being masculinity definitely positively does NOT make you immune to losing a woman, I’ve seen lots of masculinity men lose with women, point being the ONLY masculine trait as a man you need is willing to be ALONE if the woman or women your dating don’t get on your program, as AMS says the Only power you have as a man is to WALK
Don't have anyone I can go to advice for sadly, and it's brutal indeed. Gonna do a family tree research soon and will eventually change my name to something that has a nice ring to it, then I'll truly be my own man with my own set of values.
One big part of masculinity is identity. Always stand up for what you believe and the boundaries you place as a result of those beliefs. A man who constantly changes his mind about what he is willing to stand for and tolerate is 100 percent missing masculinity
Hoorah
My parents should not of had kids, so I fixed that mistake.
Have never spent money on that
Unique point as usually! Thanks for that! Yeah, the values we get are from our relatives! Lots of lost people in the West, hence why they're so easily manipulated into anything that provides them with a sense of belogning.
The moment when you really experience that you have created yourself being whatever way you are, at that same moment you will never have to be that way again. -Werner Erhard EST
And to add to what he is saying. The best thing you can do for yourself is travel to other countries. Don't except what you see in the U.S. as normal. Because it may be normal for the U.S. but other places in the world do somethings differently. The fact that the U.S. has the highest divorce rate in the world tells you alot about what is normal here now.
My father was always alpha and extremely good looking. Remember when women always looked at him when i was young. Now i understand why.
Best traditional metric for masculinity is being taught how to literally build and repair a house.
@@firstlast8258 Thousands of immigrant men build and repair homes they can't afford. Why even say that?
@@firstlast8258 Useless.
@@firstlast8258 Review your behavior loser.
I can't believe there are masculinity courses 😂 that is beyond cringe to me
Yeah growing up I don’t think us guys ever talked about masculinity. Back then we knew our roles and what to do. How is it possible that so many young men have no
Idea how to act?!?
@@brianmeen2158it's because everybody's heads are being pumped full of shit 24/7. They're being told they can be girls by men in dresses. Getting little children so confused that they want to cut their own dix off. The man has been largely pushed out of the home and often has little visitation time with which to instill real values into his child, or even form a solid bond. The government has become the surrogate father, handing out money and services that traditionally were provided by the man of the house. There are very few remaining men's and boy's only groups, and many activities that men and boys used to partake in have fallen to the wayside. I could go on, without even touching on the dating scene or the trash being peddled to young girls, which are also negatively impacting young men.
I know what you're saying, when I was growing up it was "don't act like a bitch", and we all seemed to figure out what that meant early on. The men I grew up around would be the first ones to say it, then show you how to "act like a man", or teach you something useful. Many kids don't get lessons like that anymore.
A population of strong, masculine men is much more difficult to control than a weak and feminized population, and that's what's really at play here.
What an interesting time to be alive, eh?
Why? What if you have a problem to attract women? You have to learn how to be masculine
Many have been brought up without any masculinity. No father or a weak father. So its obivously needed. Its sad though.
The paradox is, it's the least masculine thing to do, to book that course.
Ok Chris Redfield.
Grew up without a father not a excuse but damn never thought about it that way
The lack of accountability has done us in.
I complete agree. No one taught me how to be a man until I started opening up with my dad.
It’s not one of those two. Relationships are a whole fckton more complicated than that
where's the jacket from?
I grew up with 2 parents, and I cannot get laid, cannot approach women, cannot get a date, women feel the “he doesn’t get laid” flowing off of me. I have values, I know who I am and where I come from, yet I have a masculinity crisis. I cannot start a family if women don’t wanna sleep with me. My dad, uncles, and friends, gave up on me, I got left behind, I either get laid and fix my dating life or I get old and take my own life. At 33, I’m stuck, I need help
love that old school day 🥰 date to merry and create legacy
They also make masculine identity soap!🤣
Miles is charging $30 of a soap with masculine identity slapped on it 😂Then charging $850 a month for masculine identity membership. Lowest being $150 a month. He's straight up scamming dudes. Can't say I blame him though.
Park avenue premium mens soap
@@-glitch-8195 Making money off weak guys! Did you ever hear the pathetic ones that call in to the show? Yep making money off the dudes thats thirsty for the big "P"
My mom was widowed. I was 9 when my dad passed away. Never had a father figure growing. Looked in all the wrong places for other father figures. It took a long time to find my own identity.
12:40 non ethical monogamy, lmfao bro funny
My fav Man-o-sphere video yet. 🙊 And I’m a girl. hehehe
Nice jacket man
My dad was definitely a pua type. He was wild. Never did anything that wasn't for him. Women focked towards him. My mom divorced him and remarried he died but still pines after him I can tell.
Parents divorced when i was a baby. Im an only child son raised by single mom. I don't even know what it feels like to hang out with mom and dad at the same time...ive seen my mother with too many random boyfriends and i never could understand why as a kid when i see the other kids at school with both parents. Once when i was 14 my father showed me his pron collection. Hundreds of vhs tapes. Some of them stolen from Blockbuster. Ive never seen him boast about anything else with so much pride. That set me back many years. Pron is an addiction and im finally fighting and letting it go. At my current trajectory...i think i can believe myself by 40 that i am a "Man". Im on my own now, but its never too late.
what do u think if people pay u to get your advice ? and your opinions?
If someone talks a lot about masculinity, its a good indication that they dont have it.
Or that they've got the courage and principles to confront evident current issues with a decline in masculine traits.
If staying silent about problems in the world was the most courageous response, then almost everyone, including yourself, would be courageous every day.
@@TheMrFive Thank you, fucking pure wisdom.
Yep. Growing up I don’t ever remember us guys ever talking about masculinity .. we knew what we were supposed to do and what women wanted. This recent obsession with masculinity is so strange to me
@@brianmeen2158 Because men no longer want to do what woman want. Woman no longer want to too what men want. It's actually evolution of dating. Now we don't have to be limited to archaic ways of thinking.
@@brianmeen2158that’s kind of cap. Men back done always talked about what men do. Since the beginning of time. What do you think a rite of passage is? The recent discussion about that has been because modern society has gotten rid of a lot the traditional masculine roles. So a lot of men are feeling out place in this world and are trying to figure things out
A 100 % accurate/true. I could not have said it any better. Greetings from Germany from a guy (aged 43), who's ancestors are 75 % German, around 5 % French and 25 % Ukrainian (my father's father was a dissident, who fled the Russian army in WW II to Germany, where he met my grandmother). The Ukraine, as we know it today, did not exist back at this time, it was all Russia. And what I found out, is, that this Ukrainian guy, who is my grandfather but does not live anymore, was born and raised in todays Lviv (or in German language "Lemberg") in the West of todays Ukraine close to Poland. This place used to be under Austrian and also under Polish control, before it became Russian/Ukrainian territory. So I have done my research as exactly as I possibly could following your advice. Thank you for this brilliant video, I appreciate it very much.