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This channel is a breath of fresh air compared to the other manosphere channels
I'm glad to hear it. I really try to be.
Yes genuine and practical advice.
I also recommend TeachingMensFashion but yeah apart from that LFA is unmatched
@CidersAndReligiousCrusadeswow. I sure feel sorry for the people who have to tolerate you on a daily basis
If you treat them well and they screw it up - they just failed the test and send them to the streets
This is what I call true game. There’s too many toxic red pill channels on one end of the spectrum and too much of a societal soft narrative on the other. In life everything is best balanced. Thank you LFA
I mean...i'd say it isn't about treating women like shit, no sane person would stick around if treated that way. Instead i think its about just treating them like what they are, people, treat them just like you would treat a man, neither better nor worse.
What i've come to realize is that what they actually like is a man who is in control, who knows how to lead, sets boundaries and doesn't bend his character in order to please 'em.
I think you’re right. If you intentionally act like someone you’re not, REGARDLESS of if you try to pretend like you’re an asshole or a simp, EVEN THOUGH IN REALITY YOU‘RE NOT EITHER ONE, she’s going to pick up on your weird energy because you aren’t going to be comfortable acting like a total prick or a total simp if that’s not who you really are. Now, people who’ve been twisted into being actual assholes or actual simps weren’t that way when they were born, I think it’s more just a reality of everything they’ve gone through shaping who they are.
Nowadays women want a different type of guy every week 😂
The bad boy with a heart of gold
I'm a bad boy. One time I showed up late to a funeral and had NO REGRETS!
I'm looking forward to not going to one.
I showed up late to my own
@@hellofromdaveYou are the alpha Chad my mine
It is worse to be a nice guy (in public), who transforms into a psycho in private.
LFA is the big brother that everybody needs.
Pookie and Ray Ray gets all the love in my community. Your pretty much an outcast among your own people if you don't act like them.
Sounds like you just need a new community. Probably better to be an outcast if that was the community regardless.
I'm assuming you're black. If so, I've seen this first hand many times. I'm white. There was this black girl I went to school with that I liked and was friends with. She was super smart. Definitely not your typical ratchet ass black girl. I remember this black kid with his pants around his ankles coming up to her and telling her "Why you akkin' white?".
I just stood there thinking WTF just happened? Apparently, it was in relation to her getting a good grade on a test. I thought maybe it was b/c she was talking to me and we flirted all the time, but she said it was b/c she got good grades. I've only ever seen black people do that to each other. They tear each other down for doing well or doing the right thing. Crabs in a bucket...
@@oldscratch3535 you have the programed and the non programed people if that makes any sense.
@@oldscratch3535Yup. I went to a school that was 70% black. The black kids in my AP class were always ridiculed for “acting too white.” I saw the same thing in Federal prison a few years later. It’s definitely more prevalent in black communities, but it’s there to a lesser extent in most relationships. People want you to do well, they just don’t want you doing better than them.
Tupac and Jada didn't date,Jada over exaggerated her relationship with him. He had her in the friendzone.
Thats right you treat them the right way until they dont deserve it anymore, you got to be able to switch it up from 100 to 0 if they missbehave.
This dude is actually a great guy.
Great video, makes a lot of sense thank you!
That song at the end is 🔥
Keep up the good work brother!
Some great wisdom here, thanks man. Your intro music and edit is really cool and unique. Keep em coming!
wow maan thats pure gold lfa thanks bro
Thank you for the video LFA 👌🏿👌🏿🔥🔥🔥
The only channel on youtube that keep it real👊 Thank's, LFA
Been watching since 2018, love this channel
Bro spitting facts each video
Great insights
Glad I stumbled on your channel. Been needing to hear this stuff.
So glad I stumbled upon this channel .. Based & informative
This is exactly correct.
Excellent video
The problem is that women want more than what they offer
They dont want a loser PUA type of guy
It's true. The balance of things is that men have to do more work up front, but women have to do more work on the back end. Someone once said, "Women are the keepers of sex and men are the keepers of marriage." It is the desperation among men for sex that allows women to be choosier, so of course they're gonna try to get the best man they can get, even if they themselves have little to offer other than sex. So prioritize yourself, your money and your social standing and things wil fall into line and more options will open to you.. and hopefully a good woman.
Haha yeah but also I feel a lot of men are the same I see buddies dissing on agirl cause she not that attractive and I’m like but she’s so sweet and nice is very respectful never heard or seen she date a lot and my boi be working part time no goals short and chubby like man idk what they be thinking but of course I get clown on for say it and been call the torta lover (Mexican way of saying ugly/chubby chaser) but man I’ll stand on it I rather be treat nice than having a baddie any day of the week lol
Keepin' it a 💯
You have a new subscriber my guy. 🔥
Hey Brother, you frame your content very well. Always explain things properly!
Such a good fair channel! Thank you we need you keep up the good work by seeing both sides ♥️
You doing good job bro 👍
Bro I’d love to meet you one day. I love your videos on here, I definitely agree with most of it.
That's righteous ,
Hello, LFA. Longtime fan and follower here. I was a little confused the other day, one video you talked about how many "users" there are in society nowadays, and how thats bad, but on another, you told about some experiences regarding not exactly "clicking" with some women after you physically been involved with them. As a Christian myself, I always struggle with this, Ive been struggling with It my whole life, and its particulary difficult If you are single. Like, restraining yourself from being intimate with woman Just for the Fun. Maybe a vídeo on this subject? Thanks, you one of the best UA-camrs of the dating game, the only one I still listen to nowadays.
I’ll try
If you're a Christian who's looking for dating advice i highly recommend all of pastor Doug Wilson's content on the topic
Thanks
There are some nuances in the dynamics corresponds to this topic, but this video actually a good one 👍
Sup LFA, hope you are doing well
I very enjoy the outro song's😁
Brother before I watch I just want to say I appreciate the content. Makes a man feel less alone in his dating woes lmao
The wild horse analogy was 😂
You gotta respect the Old Ladies in the neighborhood... Nothin but class LFA...
Women want the whole package. If you're confident, strong minded, passionate along with kind and caring, they LOVE that.
I think men are more scared then ever they could lose their girl to a Chad the second a relationship gets tough. It’s ok to fear that. Just keep that 100% attitude and communicate. My thoughts
Im a woman but i love this channel 😂🫶💕
Just want to say that I found your channel today. It had a kind of healing effect on me. I'm also someone that lives by bible inspired principles, but been listening to a lot of the dark messages from the toxic style Alpha gurus. Listening to a lot of it has gotten into my psyche and the dysfunction nature of it was seeping into my mind thus creating a disconnect from placing a very high priority on Godly living. Actually, I wasn't even going around banging broads left and right, but just the philosophy was nevertheless creating a wedge in my mind and Spirit, so listening to your more values based perspective on male development was healing and helped align me much more with my normal Godly perspective on life.
I hope you keep being vocal about the Godly stuff.
Thanks for the enlightening content 🙏
Agreed
I treated my girls good, they all ended up leaving, except for that crazy one
Facts pop smoke good a example , gentle men in gangsta
Peace
Thats why i am here today. My dad treated my mom very sweet and thats what atracted her to him. That and the time he had a guy who was talking crap to mom, dad pinned him up against the wall with a cue stick against his throat. That was the night i was concieved i almost bet money
😂😂😂
" faster horses " by Tom T. Hall
I try to treat every woman with respect, if they disappoint or hurt me I just give them the gift of missing me permanently.
Damn.. LFA is just as real as Pac
I'm an Alpha that treats women well. It's difficult for them to forget me. I'm a musician and I do martial arts too and that piques their interest. Yes you have to check them on their nonsense occasionally but being an upstanding man is the best way because you are the prize and the star in your movie and women strangely respect that!
@LFA this video is much important.. The people thinks red pill isbtreat women poorly.. That doesnt work with mt experience.. Redpill is willing to walk away when you feel the things not going good. Simple as thtat
"You might be deep in this game, but you got the rules missing "
~ 2pac
6:50 and it's not really "bad boys". It's MASCULINE ENERGY.... it's TESTOSTERONE. I won't get in to the details but what I said should be enough to at least encourage people to go investigate what exactly is testosterone, what does it do for a man and why that would be attractive to a woman who is mostly ESTROGEN. Never forget that OPPOSITES ATTRACT. Estrogen NEEDS testosterone's ENERGY. It's assertive, aggressive, confident, strong, motivated... ALL things that women are NOT naturally because of Estrogen.
Bad boy lol it’s kind of funnny but silly to think that being bad or evil is something good just be authentic nobody is good or bad all the time but few are real
Yo in fact. He made a song about his mom. Man dude I'll be honest I listened to a lot of red pill crap. And treating women like trash. That got me nowhere. In fact Im still shunned. Young dudes. Be nice to girls man. I'm not saying give up everything you have for them. But be respectful remember the golden rule. Also a lot of these "dating coaches cherry pick certain TikTok videos in order to fit the narrative. Think for yourself and go outside. Thank you LFA thank you
Been loving your videos lately. starting to see how stupid the majority of the red pill world can be
Now don't get him wrong there is difference between treating a woman good and worshiping her/have no boundaries and let her disrespect you..A lots of men who are not succesful with women either are desperate because of lack of options and will do anything do keep a woman once they find her or have unresolved mommy issues and expect nurturing from a woman that they didn't get from a mother which drives her away..
Lol fun fact about Tupac. He was in a movie with Janet Jackson. After filming wrapped she changed her number and ghosted him. In a later interview where he's talking about it, you can see that it had hurt him and that he was still wondering why she had done it. What he didnt realize was that Janet Jackson put herself first. Her career was taking off and she didn't want to risk it by associating with someone on his level outside of the movie. It was a wrap for her too.
I also think George Clooney is a good example that's rarely mentioned. He settled down with someone incredibly accomplished and stable.
She realised Tupac was an actor. A show gangsta, method actor. Real Tupac was a limp wristed soft dude
@@dxfifa Finally, someone sees it. Watch videos of young Tupac. He was very feminine, raised by women and sisters, very intelligent, well read, etc. He's the exact opposite of a street thug.
He went to the Baltimore School for the Arts. He did stage theater and was a ballet dancer. He got involved with the Communist League at this school. He simped over Jada his entire life. That school he went to was mainly rich white kids.
Tupac was an actor who started to believe his own myth and got smoked when he ran into real street dudes. He was playing a role to sell an image and music. He was extremely talented and I appreciate his music and poetry, but I've likely done more dirt in the streets as a kid than he did.
I may be an outlier but I've never liked bad boys. I have always found them to be unstable and unpredictable. They don't make long term partners. I like smart guys. In my case I need a lot of intellectual stimulation which is why I went to law school. That's how I met my boyfriend. Funnily enough I didn't care for him initially. We first met through a role play exercise where I was cross examining him at a deposition. He was difficult, hostile, wouldn't answer simple questions. After it was over I was like good I don't have to deal with this douche again. As I'm walking to my car he apologized and told me the professor had asked him to be purposely difficult because it was a learning experience. The rest is history lol.
Why are you on this channel?
@@dontreply69 I enjoy the content.
@emilyl6746 That's peculiar. It doesnt apply to women who have "boyfriends". Shouldn't you be posting selfies on Instagram like every other modern american women seeking attention and validation?
@@dontreply69 I don't use social media. Why do you care about what content I view? It's a little creepy.
@@emilyl6746 Very well said.
A lot of them act nice and all, then with women think they are some alpha bad ass. Like those that try to act tough or different in front of girls
Bounce
Most of the manoshpere creators out there do not address the fact that dating nowadays is broken and they only contribute to making things worse than help make things a bit better.
I guess you can call me a "bad boy". I have confidence and yes if the shit hit the fan I will get down and dirty. But I never treat a woman bad. If a woman stands for that type of guy she has issues. If a woman treats me bad I'll just move on.
Your Channel has saved my Life over the years. Thank u from Italy
Watching LFA has become part of nightly routine...
Lmao me too
Legitimately, true. Helps get the mind right even after trying to avoid most of the negative influences out there.
Actually Tupac was more in a friend zone and was using him to manipulate Will Smith
I know one clip . The name of the clip is 2 pac talking about women. First he said in 1988 that he has much respect for women and after that a few years later he says f… this bitches to sleep . It’s on UA-cam but I understand what your message is you are right .
The first clip was the real him that women loved. The second clip was the made up version that the fellas loved.
@@LFA Great answer you are the man big bro .
Tupac was an actor who decided to act like a g
Thats why non impressive but genuinely nice guys get mixed results. Girl is treated as should be, but she feels drawn to strength. If she finds strong nice guy, she stays there, if strong guy treats her like shit, she tries to return to weak nice guy, who either rejects or simps her back. It is also overall girls expirience with guys that partially defines her priorities. You dont need to be extremely rich, tall, bulked up, frightening guy, but only she has to perceive you as better then her at those aspects. But for weak good man it is hard to find an even weaker quality girl, because of the equalization. Therefore as men you need to improve to your abilities and earn the right to be molested by good women... or perish. Hard truth. Unless youre ok with overweight, not so pretty girl, who can still test you brains for you to think is it worth it. As a father of daughter, youd never want her to be with insecure, decisionless soft guy. But rather impressive, strong, fair and good to her guy. And those are rare to find.
I don’t wanna share too much but I got a decent job secured, and I’m currently involved in my community exercising my talents.
Which means I’ve got the foundation I need to become strong and become the bad boy that you described and that women actually like. I’ll have no one to blame but myself if I don’t make this happen. Wish me luck bros
be strong,stay strong as my friend would say
All the best.
@@arielcandoleta5347thank you! 💜
@@scyxwill5965thank you you too!
Women love money making men. Successful men, men on SR.
#UntamedWildHorse
James Bond was a bad boy with women while Tupac was always a nice guy
007 slapped beoches.
Good points. I'm going to take this advice. I was leaning on the be mean tip. Make a video about balancing it as well. Dont want to be too nice
9:00 well they will understand it now. THE LION.... the loud mouth "KING OF THE JUNGLE". The lionestS cling to his feet, hunt for his food because he TREATS THEM GOOD. So understand, in the jungle HE IS THE KING, everyone fears him, he is aggressive, strong, confident, assertive... with the lionestS he is tame, calm, PROTECTIVE.
When you gonna break 100k?
Why bad boy?
Does it mean that a good guy cannot beat the hell out of a so called bad boy?
A good guy is one who deals with everybody the way they treat him.
What is a bad guy?
A bad guy is the one who goes around bullying everybody and being a shitty person around people.
Its for good guy - Always be a good guy and be a man to take out the bad guy and put him to his place always...
This world has become upsidedown where it is asked to be a shitty guy to please women...
No need of behaving like a shity guy...
Be a guy... Thats enough...
Be a man always and be capable of putting the shitty guys to their place....
All this game and drama is bullshit...
But if you're a rich guy. You can't just beat up anyone for any reason cause of lawsuits 😆
I like this guy. Very calm and wise
Personally, what has worked for me in my dating life is definitely being indifferent and not validating the girl you’re dating to get her more attractive towards you no matter how hot she is.
Giving flowers, and doing too much is a turn off to certain women as well.
I think what works best, is being respectful, but a dude with an edge to you, yes a BAD boy, a tough guy, or generally just a cool cat.
Acting like you don’t care what the outcome is, also has worked for myself especially when me and my last girlfriend would get into arguments and I would walk away from her for good, she would always come crawling back. It got to the point where she just wouldn’t leave me alone so I had to get a restraining order on her, yes I’m serious she turned psycho.
So some females simply can’t handle rejection and will chase you even more, and if your ex or another female that you’re interested in sees you with a hot girl you’re talking to, that’s an instant turn on for pretty much all woman and they’ll be highly attracted to you even if you’re an average looking dude.
It’s not necessarily treating them like shit, but you do need to put them in their place. Honestly a couple of my friends that have been with their girlfriend for many years, are toxic af! Lots of arguments and breakups, but they somehow always seem to get back together. They talk shit to them, have cheated on them multiple times and their girlfriends still are with them.
Women don’t make any damn sense, and it’s sad that we really can’t be and act how we naturally would act around woman we are attractive to. So if you’re naturally a goof ball and like to crack jokes all the time, that’s not going to get a girls panties wet. You have to change up your personality and not be so funny all the time even though that might not be what you’re comfortable doing.
Simple answer to getting chicks. Be a tough guy, be charismatic, be cool, and please don’t bore her and she’ll be all yours.😎
If you can't be yourself while your with your partner, ask yourself if she is actually the right partner for you.
You made her fall for a fantasy man and you wanne keep that mask on your whole live? Sounds exhausting.
The issue with your advice is you'll only attract low-quality and emotionally corrupt females. It's not feasible to behave this way in a longterm relationship. With regards to your friends, what you just described are people who are not compatible and have mental issues staying together. In reality, healthy relationships are boring. It's not about whether women make sense or not. You're trying to control the outcome by pretending to be someone you're not to appeal to someone who doesn't even like you. Now thats sad and utterly exhausting.
Broken people find comfort in other broken people. Hurt people, hurt people. Until someone realizes the cycle they’re in, they’ll never find the correct way out.
13:00 Karen?
Yes
The beginning of the video? I would bring five friends that own jeeps and just block you at the top. So he could move LOL. And then I would hold you back and say ... "yo, how's it going?;)"
There's a man who is even more attractive to women: The good and strong guy aka Superman, Batman, Jesus...
Actually they are not as attractive to women
They like the bad ass who is hell nice to them
The one thing that men have is time. If you don't have attractive attributes when young, you've got time to develop them.. learn to play a musical instrument, build your resources, buy a home, have a car paid for. You may be 45 years old before you have these , but time is on your side. As LFA points out, a woman is seeking security and someone with status, so work on it and you'll become attractive..how many ugly musicians, artists or millionaires have you seen with beautiful younger women?...most of them
"Most guys" is a naive generalisation.
Tease’em and please’em
So if you're a nice guy and you treat women good, there's still a chance right? :)
Nah, women are attracted to mean, treat em like shit. Trust me. Remember the old pimp principle. Treat em mean keep em keen 👈
You don't need to be that bad guy that is a thug , you need to be dangerous in your own way, Dirty Harry was a dangerous man and he wasn't a thug.
Just act like a man regardlles with who you're speaking , don't bend over.
Don’t go to far on the spectrum of putting her on a pedestal but don’t go over board by dogging her. Find a healthy medium
Look at the relationships where dudes got vvomen to drive getaway cars in a bank robbery.
They slapped them sometimes but not too hard, nawmean? Hehe.
what job do u have
I don’t know how you can beleive god is good when he apparently designed woman to prefer the types of men he commands you to NOT be like and then lectures you about “you know it’s not good to be lonely, you loser”.
Everything about the dating market and intimacy points to sexual evolution be the truth and not some divine creator.
Just my opinion brother that I’m forming on the facts I see
Women respond to attention and a giant pee niss. Once she gets it from you she at some point wants it from someone else. The game is to leave her before she leaves you or just not care when she leaves you . If you give a woman a Ferrari she will want to drive a Porsche as well and won’t go back to a Ford. You treating her well just gives her incentive to cheat or leave.
im not sure if this is a joke but if its not you've been deeply indoctrinated with atheism, and a flawed perception. that's a disconnect between reality and your head, because what you said is wrong. to get out of that mindset, do SR. It'll take you down a journey that in order to continue, you have to become a good person
Sounds like anxious avoidant attachment issues buddy. You think you're protecting yourself, that you're getting what you want from women while leaving them wanting, and avoiding any negative consequences. But really, women still are the controlling force in your life and you'll intentionally self sabotage the possibility of connecting with a quality women.
That's a shit way to live. You can keep doing that that if you want but it's probably best to throw up most of those black pills with a red coating before you something even dumber like snip your balls or self delete.
Put it on 2x speed….you’re welcome
It makes sense to yreat a woman well if she is feminine and submissive...but when they act disrespectful towards you, you can't afford to be a gentleman.
With all due respect, I don't associate with disrespectful people. So I wouldn't suggest matching someones disrespect with my own disrespect. I would just disassociate myself from them. Allowing a toxic person to destroy your vibe and turn you into one yourself is usually not a good idea.
@@LFA Of course. I didn't mean it as having a relationship with someone who is disrepectful...just putting people in their place in general, when they deserve it.
You're mainly referring to small town girls.
And city girls.
3:40 know what's most interesting about Tupac and this story/example? Tupac was a "NICE GUY", and he noticed it wasn't working for him. That's when he came with the 2pac thug life persona AND WOMEN FLOCKED TO HIM, but he was still a good man to them. All, go look up the interview he did where he said it clear that he was a "nice guy", what he noticed and then he changed.