In case this part was confusing: My date and I have agreed to text again, and it has helped me feel more connected and less anxious. We don’t text all day, but more than just for logistics. A happy medium :)
Not sure if it’s a generational thing but a lot of my friends have a similar struggle of “I can only date if I’m X amount of healthy” While it’s good to take breaks and check in on yourself, we’re never gonna be this perfect version of ourselves, life is always gonna happen. What matters is the effort we put in, regardless of if we’re single, in a relationship, dating or what have you : )
In case this part was confusing: My date and I have agreed to text again, and it has helped me feel more connected and less anxious. We don’t text all day, but more than just for logistics. A happy medium :)
There´s nothing wrong with being a beginner - that resonates with me ❤ All the best with all of it!
Such an important message there at the end ❤❤ thank you
Thank you for these messages today
As always thank you for sharing your story.
I wish ya good luck, your date is a lucky person.
Enjoy and be well 😊
Best of luck out there! Sounds like you're in a great place for grappling with your anxious attachment :)
Not sure if it’s a generational thing but a lot of my friends have a similar struggle of “I can only date if I’m X amount of healthy”
While it’s good to take breaks and check in on yourself, we’re never gonna be this perfect version of ourselves, life is always gonna happen. What matters is the effort we put in, regardless of if we’re single, in a relationship, dating or what have you : )
Glad to hear I'm not alone in that struggle!
The way you're describing anxious attachment sounds more than a little familiar...
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