Thirty plus years in, I am so grateful that I am married, fully submissive, and committed to my husband, my king. My husband and I married in our early twenties. As a woman who has experienced every level of abuse: physically, mentally, and sexually from the age of 7-19, I am so thankful for God’s love healing and restoring me to receive and rest in His love representation of me through my husband. It is so good to be loved! Thanks Kings!
Praise GOD 🙌❤️💪😁🙏🌹 for the renewal and restoration & awesome beautiful powerful blessings of family , great GODLY 😇 🙏 💪 🌹 😁 spouse & the joy 😅 & gratefulness to GOD 💕🥰🙏 you have QUEEN. !!!!!!!
Man, this podcast is truly therapy. It is so good to see black men speaking on marriage, and most importantly I love the fact that they refer to our God who supplies all of our needs.
It's so refreshing to see men who not only want to be healthy for themselves and their partners but also for the community. Being transparent and sharing the wisdom they've acquired along their journey is top tier and truly appreciated. Thank you fellas! Join the channel!!
Excellent podcast on relationships!! These 3 Kings were DYNAMIC!! We need more conferences, retreats, workshops, therapy sessions to help build Kingdom relationships for singles and married couples. Thank you Tysean an Ryan!!!!! I’m adamant about being the next woman in my family to break the generational cycle of divorce. It’s very important who you join yourself with. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@Tysean, when you said that you would pick "me" that was clearly the sign that you are not ready to be a husband. You are still on your journey and hopefully one day you will reach the selfless needed in marriage. God bess you.
You guys are so on point! My Daddy took on the role of a single parent after my Mom passed. Having my daddy help me in soo many areas of my life. He was my covering!! My daddy passed in 2020 and at the age of 51 and speaking to other women who didn’t grow up with their fathers truly point out the advantages and the blessings I had due to having the presence of my father.
In response to the diamond metaphor: 🗣 MEN, PLEASE BE A DIAMOND BEFORE WE GET IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU _(esp in this economy 👀 & with us having very fulfilling lives while single)._ EVE WAS A HELPMEET; EVEN SO, ADAM WAS FULLY FORMED BEFORE SHE ARRIVED _(he also had a job/ mission)._ A WIFE _(meaning marriage)_ CAN SHAPE/ CUT YOU SO YOU ARE MORE BRILLIANT & VALUE IS MORE APPARENT, BUT THE VALUE OF ANY DIAMOND IS ALREADY THERE.
We need to realize that there is so much power in the union of marriage. When women say EQUAL, we don’t mean the SAME. We are speaking value. We are different, have different roles but are of equal value.
I love this sooo much! 3 strong black men representing, and if you notice EVERY single real man that has ever been on the podcasts literally saying the same things about marriage, life, and relationships in general because it’s that REAL
Or when they’re not behaving like a real mature man should and you call them out on it and they get mad or feel emasculated because they know it’s true!
@@Jess_quez this call out culture causes us to speak to get a hit in and score points instead of speaking in love. Be careful. Because when men speak to women some of the ways we speak to them, we don't like it. It breaks up. Both parties have feelings.
This was dope! I sent it to all the men in my life. Ladies I'm married but the way I used to get a man's attention is by making sure I was visible. Walking by and then smiling. It always worked for me ❤.
I’m not married yet but I love the honesty that I am hearing from these married men as it very encouraging for someone like me who will be married one day. Awesome 🤩 job guys 🎯💯!
Absolutely yes. I want to be a help mate because that's the duty that I stand on for the man that will be in my life. The disconnect is that we are walking in roles that are out of order. We've been conditioned to be all over the place, wearing hats that doesn't fit and forcing them to fit that isn't even made for our heads. Let's begin today to adjust the spectrum and get back to the blueprint of what a family, what relationships, what women, what men, what children look like and supposed to be in this journey called life. 💜💜💜
This is sooo rich!!! I have never come across a group of Godly, real, mature, professional, example Set of men!!! God bless you all for sharing this beautiful much needed message. Blessings
I've been a single mom for 25 yrs.. I did it on my own. Truth is it does affect the kids mom playing the role of both parents. My kids always wanted me to be a mom. What I mean they wanted to see the sensitive mom. I lost my son that was requesting this. Now I'm just a mom. When I did have my partner ( my love) I felt the load off and full responsibility.
Excellent talk. I want more of the breakdown of emasculation of a man. Because many times I feel like having a candid talk about behavioral changes aren't accepted. There is a difference between demoralizing and calling out inconsistencies or terrible behavior. Getting to that emotional growth can be a tough battle.
This the comment Right here. I’ve been in the place where I’ve expressed inconsistencies in behavior that not only affects me but affects our family that’s a problem for me. And I was blamed for it. Now I know I wasn’t at times a good wife but I would ask for his help because I valued his opinion and when things went wrong I was usually to blame. And when he continued to cheat I was blamed at first and then stated he didn’t know why he kept doing it but he doesn’t need help and he knows how to control himself. He asked for the divorce, I begged to put God first and go to counseling. His answer he wasn’t going to change and he didn’t want to do therapy. He was going to change but at his pace and nothing else. And that the divorce was needed. Took a toll On my mental health so bad I agreed after still fighting. I got the short end of the stick but I’m growing. I believe it could have been saved but two people have to want to save it!
@@Thedancingdoc2028 I'm sorry to hear that but I'm glad he manned up enough to divorce you. We also have to believe people the first time. I'm sure there were many signs including the points of making it difficult when you bring things up. I'm guilty of it too. These r grown adults. They have to take accountability or we move out the way.
God's healing from my childhood bitterness, anger, and self-hate helped me to experience "what His true love of a friend, father, and husband looks like," I am so grateful to be whole and complete.
Don't know how many I have invited to subscribe to your channel, but you all keep up the great work. It shows that healing is needed and Our light is necessary. #KeepWorking💪🏾
I have noticed that when there is an all women panel the questions center around how they cater to their men. When there is an all men panel the focus (from the hosts) is how they feel and what can be done to deal (put up) with women. The redundant narrative is that women are the villains and are only here to service men’s wants and needs. I don’t necessarily get that from all of the guests, it’s more so Ryan and Tysean. Something to consider.
@Theworldismine5 I always said that there are men who don’t like women, they just like sex, the feeling. It can be dangerous if all you’re after is pleasure, because who knows what lengths a person can go to.
Thank you, men, for this information. I just learned so much about my husband. It's such a beautiful teaching moment seeing that men will do everything to please their wife.
I’m over here crying in joy and proudness of this panel of Godly Men This is Class we’re All need and want to be a Student of. I’m so full right now but still hungry to hear more from these men. THANK YOU FOR THEM THANK YOU FOR THEM BEING OBEDIENT
Words matter to me. I can’t stand an empty apology. The worst thing to do in an attempt to “keep the peace” is to give me an empty apology. It actually makes me lose respect. I respect it more when you can tell me you don’t feel the need to apologize. Even if I feel you should, I’d rather be disappointed and receive no apology than to receive an empty one. So if you do apologize to me, I want to why. I like to actually deal with conflict like an adult, not sweeping things under the rug with baseless words.
Basically, know your spouse. I don’t like giving empty apologies, but I know those words mean something to my husband. So I’ll find SOMETHING I can apologize for to help him feel better. But for me, keep the words to yourself unless you mean them.
Real quick I just had to say this video right here was 1000% needed such mature, educated black men, speaking on such great topics in real life experiences. This video actually brought me to tears because there were so many statements that I could relate to keep it coming brothers. keep doing what y’all doing keep educating us Black people, and all of us for that matter, may God continue to bless you guys. I have definitely seen you guys grow over these past few months.
This was great!!!! Love all the intentionality these men exuded into getting their wives and in the sucess of their marriges. These are clearly husbands with a vision. I think we need to ask men the question "What is your vision for marriage and your future wife?", once we know they desire marriage. Jay touched on how his wife's self respect in her dress and how she conducted herself in the world during their courting stage, was important to him. I just gained clarity. I'm working at dating a gentleman for the 2nd time around and moving with caution, he says he knew he could date me because of the way I dress. I'm able to represent him well. I thought he was being superficial, but now I know it's about the self respect in the dress that's important to him.
This discussion is absolutely needed and God ordained!! We all live and learn throughout our marriage journey!! If we desire to learn how to solve conflict effectively, we will grow together and develop more peace together!!
Men always assume im married too bcuz I am a wife. Its exactly what you all said you know a wife when you see her. Also means that they are not ready to be a husband they dont approach. It's a compliment to us, what we have to do is also give them the look back says im available.
Great conversation! Me and my wife been together since 16 and 14 years old. We have 3 teens who are around the age we were when we met. Learned and still learning a lot of what was spoken 🙏🏾💪🏾
I share your programs with my son all the time. He isn’t married as yet, but most of his friends are. You’re dropping a lot of knowledge that I’m hoping he and his friends can embrace.
When he said there are Women out there who are pissed that they can’t find a husband ….it’s Meeeee! 😂😂 I’m a flight attendant and I get hit on ALOT, but it just doesn’t seem like men are seeing past physical attraction with me, its really hard out here with the dating apps imo and I refuse to get on those, but also, I attract a good amount of men I’m not actually interested in for so many reasons, physical, like literally looks challenged, extremely unhealed, & I’m in a place where I’ve worked on myself so hoping to attract someone that would atleast match me. I literally see women who look like me with these great husbands, and I just don’t know what I’m missing lol, might work with Coach Ken because I’m stumped!
Is it partly to do with your job? Men sometimes get an image in their head about women in certain professions, which is why you're getting hit on a lot?
@@SamerootsdifferentbranchesGirl I hear you. People ask me that all the time if it's my job (Delta FA) and I'm like I understand their thought process but I know sooooo many married flight attendants and pilots, I'm just not one of them 😭. I've also gotten to the place in my career where I can work day trips and come home each day night so that it's more like a regular 9 to 5, which I thought would help but I'm single as a Pringle.
This was so dang on GOOD, gosh! The men checking men, checking selves, and openness to speak to the women willing to learn you even in its ugliness at times which is also beauty depending on who you ask… This and you all are so very much appreciated 🤲🏾💜
I absolutely love this episode. I'm seriously thinking of becoming a member after watching this. It was so good hearing each man's perspective especially from a godly stance.
Such important point , that our kids & spouse some time aren't realizing that its the office of a dad & mom to do what will properly help raise the child wise, strong, having peace & joy on a good level & pritecting them & being a protection & guide & love for the wife & the level of respect & trust thats good but wuth boundaries & priorities for good results and life skills!!!!! 😊 🙏
I thank God for providing this space. I am learning about myself and how to grow to be the woman that God designed me to be. These segments are changing my life as to how to be more intentional. Ty Sean and Ryan thank you, we need to have these conversations.
Love ya videos . Recently me and my husband have been bumping heads alot when it comes to alot of things. He recently gained a new hobby and the past 5 months I been very supportive. But I noticed he leaves when he wants for hours without letting me know when we have a son at home. He recently lost his job and his motorcycle been his number one priority. I have been giving him the slient treatment im just tried of repeating myself and not getting results he will say sorry but then next week he will do it again and doesn't understand why I am upset .
Amen to knowing who we r as individuals, we r sponges as children picking up parents behavior yes learn self identify unlearn some behaviors to be better communicate listen see how that works hopefully we can have a united front ❤
These young men are awesome, they could teach our older men a lot. I am 68 and would love to meet a man with their type of mindset. A man who still has dreams and we can work together to create and sow into our community. I believe we still have a lot to pour back into our society, we just need the men to give us the seed and we will cultivate it. Women don't have following problems, it just needs to be clear on what we're following by communication and example. Trust me we know how to multiply and build, we just need a real architect who is not afraid to commit and lead.
You know what? I'm thankful I made it to this channel. I almost feel like God let this channel be created just for me cause he knew I needed it right now
@1:40, I miss my dad. He was ALWAYS there, always! He coached our baseball team, was at every soccer game, helped me get scholarships. He did WAY more, but I am just speaking in reference to this context.
Thank you HI....you topics are the best...I wish you could give or facilitate sessioñs in different cities especially Tampa Bay....Great needed topics. Thanks again. This is your ministry!!! 💖 Y'all make some family cards next from this show topics. Stay Bless and Stay you...Agape!!
A woman's opinion can't emasculate anyone. If a man feels emasculated its because he doesn't have self confidence. And , instead of coming to agreement or compromise he's so tied up in ego that any opposing idea is a threat.
I breastfeed all 4 of my children. No bottles no formula no pacifiers. I’m a Mocha Mom for real. (.)(.) It’s not easy to wean breastfed babies. They eat on demand. We are very close. The connection between mom and children are unmatched. Our children are healthier happier and smarter. Through our golden milk we see our children grow and get stronger. It’s so beautiful. It’s natural and pure. When a mother weans her children it hurts us as well. We cry sometimes when we have to reject our child from nursing. 😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes, I want to be what I was created to be...help meet, help mate, supporter, his peace, woman of the man and not over or the man. Knowing our role creates stability, longevity, growth, respect and peace. APTTMH!!
It is so nice to hear this but at the same time it hurts so much. I'm trying so hard to no longer focus on what he is not doing but all that you all are describing that you do as Dads that are present is all that I long for from him for them. I'm instead the one doing these things, you say to stay but this is the most difficult thing I've ever went through. I wish my children had this and that I could be in my femininity only. I appreciate and am living through you all.
I’m older (56) and single now too.. I’m finding that some of the men who have no kids (possibly) and never been married have a more difficult time with communication and accountability because they’ve always been on their own program.. they think communication is number one for them but they have no idea what that really means just because they are articulate.
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Thirty plus years in, I am so grateful that I am married, fully submissive, and committed to my husband, my king. My husband and I married in our early twenties. As a woman who has experienced every level of abuse: physically, mentally, and sexually from the age of 7-19, I am so thankful for God’s love healing and restoring me to receive and rest in His love representation of me through my husband. It is so good to be loved! Thanks Kings!
wow soory u was sexually abused, Im glad I never had to go through That!
Love the answers. I’m 53 and ready to marry again.
❤
Praise GOD 🙌❤️💪😁🙏🌹 for the renewal and restoration & awesome beautiful powerful blessings of family , great GODLY 😇 🙏 💪 🌹 😁 spouse & the joy 😅 & gratefulness to GOD 💕🥰🙏 you have QUEEN. !!!!!!!
I enjoyed being on the show fellas and I will see you again soon!
Man, this podcast is truly therapy. It is so good to see black men speaking on marriage, and most importantly I love the fact that they refer to our God who supplies all of our needs.
This exactly why I joined. couldn't get any better..... And/But it is. Subscribed for a while and had to become a member. It's worth it!
Amen amen !!!
It's so refreshing to see men who not only want to be healthy for themselves and their partners but also for the community. Being transparent and sharing the wisdom they've acquired along their journey is top tier and truly appreciated. Thank you fellas! Join the channel!!
Ryan's coming across 2 commercial with his constant distraction of an otherwise smooth flow
Excellent podcast on relationships!! These 3 Kings were DYNAMIC!! We need more conferences, retreats, workshops, therapy sessions to help build Kingdom relationships for singles and married couples. Thank you Tysean an Ryan!!!!! I’m adamant about being the next woman in my family to break the generational cycle of divorce. It’s very important who you join yourself with. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Beautiful words.
I just started watching their videos two days ago and I have learned so much. All these conversations are needed 🙏🏽
@Tysean, when you said that you would pick "me" that was clearly the sign that you are not ready to be a husband. You are still on your journey and hopefully one day you will reach the selfless needed in marriage. God bess you.
You guys are so on point! My Daddy took on the role of a single parent after my Mom passed. Having my daddy help me in soo many areas of my life. He was my covering!! My daddy passed in 2020 and at the age of 51 and speaking to other women who didn’t grow up with their fathers truly point out the advantages and the blessings I had due to having the presence of my father.
In response to the diamond metaphor:
🗣 MEN, PLEASE BE A DIAMOND BEFORE WE GET IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU _(esp in this economy 👀 & with us having very fulfilling lives while single)._ EVE WAS A HELPMEET; EVEN SO, ADAM WAS FULLY FORMED BEFORE SHE ARRIVED _(he also had a job/ mission)._ A WIFE _(meaning marriage)_ CAN SHAPE/ CUT YOU SO YOU ARE MORE BRILLIANT & VALUE IS MORE APPARENT, BUT THE VALUE OF ANY DIAMOND IS ALREADY THERE.
ABSOLUTELY!
This was amazing. Thank you so much. 20 years married and my husband is WONDERFUL ❤
I love this man energy. The openness and honesty is amazing. I have learned so much just listening to good, honest men.
We need to realize that there is so much power in the union of marriage. When women say EQUAL, we don’t mean the SAME. We are speaking value. We are different, have different roles but are of equal value.
I love this sooo much! 3 strong black men representing, and if you notice EVERY single real man that has ever been on the podcasts literally saying the same things about marriage, life, and relationships in general because it’s that REAL
A upstanding man can not be emasculated. Period
Or when they’re not behaving like a real mature man should and you call them out on it and they get mad or feel emasculated because they know it’s true!
@@Jess_quez this call out culture causes us to speak to get a hit in and score points instead of speaking in love. Be careful. Because when men speak to women some of the ways we speak to them, we don't like it. It breaks up. Both parties have feelings.
I love you guys! I recently separated and in my healing process. Your show has been a real blessing. Keep doing ya thing! Purpose!!
We appreciate you!
This was dope! I sent it to all the men in my life. Ladies I'm married but the way I used to get a man's attention is by making sure I was visible. Walking by and then smiling. It always worked for me ❤.
Yep
Problem is, there are plenty of males but not many men any more 😔
So VERY TRUE
Truth ❤
Haven’t even watched the video and I already agree with you.
Me either but Amen!!!!!
I appreciate how you discuss communication, negotiation, boundaries, and most importantly the principles of God in relationships. Wonderful!!!
I’m not married yet but I love the honesty that I am hearing from these married men as it very encouraging for someone like me who will be married one day. Awesome 🤩 job guys 🎯💯!
Absolutely yes. I want to be a help mate because that's the duty that I stand on for the man that will be in my life. The disconnect is that we are walking in roles that are out of order. We've been conditioned to be all over the place, wearing hats that doesn't fit and forcing them to fit that isn't even made for our heads. Let's begin today to adjust the spectrum and get back to the blueprint of what a family, what relationships, what women, what men, what children look like and supposed to be in this journey called life. 💜💜💜
Amen!!!
No doubt I’m 27 and just woke up last yr .. so MEN stay solid and let’s help our women ✊🏾
This is sooo rich!!! I have never come across a group of Godly, real, mature, professional, example Set of men!!! God bless you all for sharing this beautiful much needed message. Blessings
I've been a single mom for 25 yrs.. I did it on my own. Truth is it does affect the kids mom playing the role of both parents. My kids always wanted me to be a mom. What I mean they wanted to see the sensitive mom. I lost my son that was requesting this. Now I'm just a mom. When I did have my partner ( my love) I felt the load off and full responsibility.
I received that. Men need us to b their peace ❤. And Men We need you all to be Our Strength, / & Support
Excellent talk. I want more of the breakdown of emasculation of a man. Because many times I feel like having a candid talk about behavioral changes aren't accepted. There is a difference between demoralizing and calling out inconsistencies or terrible behavior. Getting to that emotional growth can be a tough battle.
This the comment Right here. I’ve been in the place where I’ve expressed inconsistencies in behavior that not only affects me but affects our family that’s a problem for me. And I was blamed for it. Now I know I wasn’t at times a good wife but I would ask for his help because I valued his opinion and when things went wrong I was usually to blame. And when he continued to cheat I was blamed at first and then stated he didn’t know why he kept doing it but he doesn’t need help and he knows how to control himself. He asked for the divorce, I begged to put God first and go to counseling. His answer he wasn’t going to change and he didn’t want to do therapy. He was going to change but at his pace and nothing else. And that the divorce was needed. Took a toll
On my mental health so bad I agreed after still fighting. I got the short end of the stick but I’m growing. I believe it could have been saved but two people have to want to save it!
@@Thedancingdoc2028 Unfortunately, no matter how a woman says something, a man still ain't listening to her because she's a woman. 🥴
@@Thedancingdoc2028 I'm sorry to hear that but I'm glad he manned up enough to divorce you. We also have to believe people the first time. I'm sure there were many signs including the points of making it difficult when you bring things up. I'm guilty of it too. These r grown adults. They have to take accountability or we move out the way.
God's healing from my childhood bitterness, anger, and self-hate helped me to experience "what His true love of a friend, father, and husband looks like," I am so grateful to be whole and complete.
Don't know how many I have invited to subscribe to your channel, but you all keep up the great work. It shows that healing is needed and Our light is necessary. #KeepWorking💪🏾
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Married woman for over 20 years, this was so informative so good ! Taking notes
This just floated to the top of my list on UA-cam. So glad to see Dr. Tartt! My daughter and I spent a year on his couch. Great lineup
I have noticed that when there is an all women panel the questions center around how they cater to their men.
When there is an all men panel the focus (from the hosts) is how they feel and what can be done to deal (put up) with women.
The redundant narrative is that women are the villains and are only here to service men’s wants and needs. I don’t necessarily get that from all of the guests, it’s more so Ryan and Tysean.
Something to consider.
@Theworldismine5 I always said that there are men who don’t like women, they just like sex, the feeling. It can be dangerous if all you’re after is pleasure, because who knows what lengths a person can go to.
Thank you! I was about to come here to say the same thing. I noticed the pattern after watching a few different videos from them
If you come to this thought you really didnt actually watch the channel
@@neetea2 if you came to your thought, you really didn’t actually understand my comment.
Awesome job gentlemen. You are vital to your families and communities. Please stay the course and be the best examples you can be!
Thank you, men, for this information. I just learned so much about my husband. It's such a beautiful teaching moment seeing that men will do everything to please their wife.
Excellent round table. TySean and Ryan I am so proud of y'all. Keep waking people up ✊🏿✊🏿
🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I’m over here crying in joy and proudness of this panel of Godly Men
This is Class we’re All need and want to be a Student of. I’m so full right now but still hungry to hear more from these men. THANK YOU FOR THEM THANK YOU FOR THEM BEING OBEDIENT
So powerful we need more Men like them in our community
I love these guys of Hardly Initiated! Keep up the great work!
Words matter to me. I can’t stand an empty apology. The worst thing to do in an attempt to “keep the peace” is to give me an empty apology. It actually makes me lose respect. I respect it more when you can tell me you don’t feel the need to apologize. Even if I feel you should, I’d rather be disappointed and receive no apology than to receive an empty one. So if you do apologize to me, I want to why. I like to actually deal with conflict like an adult, not sweeping things under the rug with baseless words.
Basically, know your spouse. I don’t like giving empty apologies, but I know those words mean something to my husband. So I’ll find SOMETHING I can apologize for to help him feel better. But for me, keep the words to yourself unless you mean them.
Facts
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So proud of you and Ryan. Praying. Don't. Compromise truth
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Real quick I just had to say this video right here was 1000% needed such mature, educated black men, speaking on such great topics in real life experiences. This video actually brought me to tears because there were so many statements that I could relate to keep it coming brothers. keep doing what y’all doing keep educating us Black people, and all of us for that matter, may God continue to bless you guys. I have definitely seen you guys grow over these past few months.
Thanks!
Thank you !! 💪
This was great!!!! Love all the intentionality these men exuded into getting their wives and in the sucess of their marriges. These are clearly husbands with a vision. I think we need to ask men the question "What is your vision for marriage and your future wife?", once we know they desire marriage. Jay touched on how his wife's self respect in her dress and how she conducted herself in the world during their courting stage, was important to him. I just gained clarity. I'm working at dating a gentleman for the 2nd time around and moving with caution, he says he knew he could date me because of the way I dress. I'm able to represent him well. I thought he was being superficial, but now I know it's about the self respect in the dress that's important to him.
What Coach Crump said at approx 2:07:01 was real! I'm a daddy's girl. Wow, this was a very good conversation! 💙✌🏾
As a woman, this was very informative. Thank you to everyone for your insight and stories
This episode was incredible! Thank you each and everyone of you amazing men!! ❤
You better preach! The nice, handsome king in the black and white you better preach! Thank you
This discussion is absolutely needed and God ordained!! We all live and learn throughout our marriage journey!! If we desire to learn how to solve conflict effectively, we will grow together and develop more peace together!!
Men always assume im married too bcuz I am a wife. Its exactly what you all said you know a wife when you see her. Also means that they are not ready to be a husband they dont approach. It's a compliment to us, what we have to do is also give them the look back says im available.
I love these Brothers and these podcasts! Excellent
Great conversation! Me and my wife been together since 16 and 14 years old. We have 3 teens who are around the age we were when we met. Learned and still learning a lot of what was spoken 🙏🏾💪🏾
I think the reason why wives life expectancies are shorter bc some husbands make it very hard for them.
THIS EPISODE IS NOW THE MOST BLESSED MAGNIFICENT INTERVIEW TO ME 💗💗💗💗💗🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆
Thank you Gentleman for HELPING us Women🤗
I share your programs with my son all the time. He isn’t married as yet, but most of his friends are. You’re dropping a lot of knowledge that I’m hoping he and his friends can embrace.
I’m so proud and incredibly thankful for you young men! Please continue to be strong in the Lord and keep teaching the world how to be a better man ❤
When he said there are Women out there who are pissed that they can’t find a husband ….it’s Meeeee! 😂😂 I’m a flight attendant and I get hit on ALOT, but it just doesn’t seem like men are seeing past physical attraction with me, its really hard out here with the dating apps imo and I refuse to get on those, but also, I attract a good amount of men I’m not actually interested in for so many reasons, physical, like literally looks challenged, extremely unhealed, & I’m in a place where I’ve worked on myself so hoping to attract someone that would atleast match me. I literally see women who look like me with these great husbands, and I just don’t know what I’m missing lol, might work with Coach Ken because I’m stumped!
Is it partly to do with your job? Men sometimes get an image in their head about women in certain professions, which is why you're getting hit on a lot?
@@dumfriesspearhead7398 probably so, but there are so many married flight attendants, So I don’t get it
@@SamerootsdifferentbranchesGirl I hear you. People ask me that all the time if it's my job (Delta FA) and I'm like I understand their thought process but I know sooooo many married flight attendants and pilots, I'm just not one of them 😭. I've also gotten to the place in my career where I can work day trips and come home each day night so that it's more like a regular 9 to 5, which I thought would help but I'm single as a Pringle.
This was so dang on GOOD, gosh! The men checking men, checking selves, and openness to speak to the women willing to learn you even in its ugliness at times which is also beauty depending on who you ask… This and you all are so very much appreciated 🤲🏾💜
Perfectly said, it’s ok to mad or disappointed but how we express ourselves it the key .
Hats off to these exceptional MEN👑👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I love this show! Real conversations with men! 🎉
A real man was my dad world war 2 veteran ran our home just like he ran his campus yes daddy always took the matters into his hands figured it out
I absolutely love this episode. I'm seriously thinking of becoming a member after watching this.
It was so good hearing each man's perspective especially from a godly stance.
Let’s do it!! Make sure to join a LIVE too💪🏾
Such important point , that our kids & spouse some time aren't realizing that its the office of a dad & mom to do what will properly help raise the child wise, strong, having peace & joy on a good level & pritecting them & being a protection & guide & love for the wife & the level of respect & trust thats good but wuth boundaries & priorities for good results and life skills!!!!! 😊 🙏
Jay had his wake up call. Kudos to him in changing his life.
I thank God for providing this space. I am learning about myself and how to grow to be the woman that God designed me to be. These segments are changing my life as to how to be more intentional. Ty Sean and Ryan thank you, we need to have these conversations.
Love ya videos . Recently me and my husband have been bumping heads alot when it comes to alot of things. He recently gained a new hobby and the past 5 months I been very supportive. But I noticed he leaves when he wants for hours without letting me know when we have a son at home. He recently lost his job and his motorcycle been his number one priority. I have been giving him the slient treatment im just tried of repeating myself and not getting results he will say sorry but then next week he will do it again and doesn't understand why I am upset .
Oh damn. Hopefully he's applying to jobs?
Awesome discussion. Thank you ALL for the video. Beautiful.
❤loving the honey within this conversation. Proud of these young black men! And they’re Christmas, incredible to witness.
Great episode with good advice this was the best live yet. Sorry I missed it when it was live!
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Amen to knowing who we r as individuals, we r sponges as children picking up parents behavior yes learn self identify unlearn some behaviors to be better communicate listen see how that works hopefully we can have a united front ❤
Phenomenal! This video should be heard by every man and women in tbe black community
These young men are awesome, they could teach our older men a lot. I am 68 and would love to meet a man with their type of mindset. A man who still has dreams and we can work together to create and sow into our community. I believe we still have a lot to pour back into our society, we just need the men to give us the seed and we will cultivate it. Women don't have following problems, it just needs to be clear on what we're following by communication and example. Trust me we know how to multiply and build, we just need a real architect who is not afraid to commit and lead.
You know what? I'm thankful I made it to this channel. I almost feel like God let this channel be created just for me cause he knew I needed it right now
I feel like I am such a man. I can see myself in all these men. I also see my husband too. And our clash is real.
@1:40, I miss my dad. He was ALWAYS there, always! He coached our baseball team, was at every soccer game, helped me get scholarships. He did WAY more, but I am just speaking in reference to this context.
Thank you HI....you topics are the best...I wish you could give or facilitate sessioñs in different cities especially Tampa Bay....Great needed topics. Thanks again. This is your ministry!!! 💖 Y'all make some family cards next from this show topics. Stay Bless and Stay you...Agape!!
A woman's opinion can't emasculate anyone. If a man feels emasculated its because he doesn't have self confidence. And , instead of coming to agreement or compromise he's so tied up in ego that any opposing idea is a threat.
I breastfeed all 4 of my children. No bottles no formula no pacifiers. I’m a Mocha Mom for real. (.)(.) It’s not easy to wean breastfed babies. They eat on demand. We are very close. The connection between mom and children are unmatched. Our children are healthier happier and smarter. Through our golden milk we see our children grow and get stronger. It’s so beautiful. It’s natural and pure. When a mother weans her children it hurts us as well. We cry sometimes when we have to reject our child from nursing. 😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks!
This was so powerful. I am so glad the algorithm lead me to this podcast❤
ThankU All!..Love These Conversations!❤
Valuable content necessary for such a time as this
I don't understand why men don't set standards for how they want to treat women? What does that say about them?
What do you mean by "how they want to treat women?"
This was a dope convo & panel!
Tyshaun and Ryan your interviews are very impactful.
Yes, I want to be what I was created to be...help meet, help mate, supporter, his peace, woman of the man and not over or the man. Knowing our role creates stability, longevity, growth, respect and peace. APTTMH!!
Absolutely TRUTH about morals and scruples and conflict, conversation and resolution. FANTASTIC interactions with manly conversations!😮😅
It is so nice to hear this but at the same time it hurts so much. I'm trying so hard to no longer focus on what he is not doing but all that you all are describing that you do as Dads that are present is all that I long for from him for them. I'm instead the one doing these things, you say to stay but this is the most difficult thing I've ever went through. I wish my children had this and that I could be in my femininity only. I appreciate and am living through you all.
I love how the husband with the fitness wife kept it real on how he felt. ❤
Thank you kings for the informative and highly appreciated segment.
Love making better choices in choosing your spouse 👏👏👏
Your podcast is truly therapeutic love watching these episodes
This was beautiful. I loved hearing their insight and knowledge.
Influence differently, correct not built differently is influence amen
This was an awesome show. Thank you sooooo much!!!
This was the best show. Thank you all. 🖤
Mr. Alduan Tartt has helped me so much. I can't repay him for the wisdom he has poured into me.
Yaay dr. Tartt. U definitely need a few episodes with him
I should have started off but I love this podcast the conversations go crazy! Keep doing y’all think kings
I’m older (56) and single now too.. I’m finding that some of the men who have no kids (possibly) and never been married have a more difficult time with communication and accountability because they’ve always been on their own program.. they think communication is number one for them but they have no idea what that really means just because they are articulate.
Grand rising beautiful reflection hope everyone is doing amazing ❤️