I lost myself in a significant other. I had to step personally because I was losing so much of myself mentally and sexually. The intimacy was there but it wasn’t fulfilling me spiritually. It took the last time we hung out for me to call it quits. I needed to leave and reorganize my life, so I can prioritize my life.
Yes, I communicated with my man what I needed for intimacy, affection. We talked about it and he said, if I’m not doing it then show me, remind me. I do. I touch him, I grab his hand when we’re walking, I do to him what I want and he now recognizes when I’m in need of “physical “ as he calls it. He works on it daily and I appreciate that he is trying. I recognized that we speak totally different love languages and I had to show him what I wanted/expected and I recognized his love language. He is totally not affectionate.
I had to have the same discussion with my husband. We just came off of a marriage retreat this weekend and we were able to develop a code word for each other so now when I need him to come near me and for him to let me know that he has remembered what I need and will give it to me.
I have a Platonic relationship with a man that has been ongoing for 40 years. After about 5 years, we addressed each other as brother/sister and attended each other's weddings and our kids are "cousins". His wife and I are very close and they were a huge support during my divorce
Same here. We have been the best of friends since college. Over 22 years of friendship. I still remember the day he asked my parents to adopt him, and he became the older brother, I never had an I his baby sister. We both are married and have been supportive of each other through many of life's obstacles and relationships. We are best friends, and my husband gets along with him, and I get along very well with his wife.😊❤
Yes I thank them so much young and wise beyond their years!!! And I absolutely loveeee when Coach “K” comes on with his calm demeanor and his wisdom!! I wrote down my non negotiables and negotiables as a result of this episode!! My 7 year relationship ended and now I’m single and focused on 1. Myself 2. Personal Growth & Development (emotions, mental health, finances, spirituality, education, healing from toxicity) 3. My Family and 4. Living the life of a single women focused on self first at peace so I won’t ever be double minded again when making decisions regarding my future with a man
Mannnn!!!! 1:02:28 hit home frfr… that is exactly why I ended things! Glad to hear a GROWN ASS MAN speak this way and it is amazing feeling of making the right decision for myself.
I disagree. Never confront the other woman unless shes YOUR friend/family. The other woman owes you nothing and if she cared, she wouldnt be entertaining a married man.
The man said call the other woman. It could be a situation where the other woman doesn’t know he is married. She doesn’t believe her husband but she is afraid to get the entire truth. He doesn’t care about her feelings.
We need to stop doing things based on what we believe and develop a foundational thought process. The process: Matthew 18:15 - Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. Luke 17:3 - Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. Ephesians 4:26 - Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: The product Matthew 5:9 - Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God. -With love
Jamal didn’t say practice monogamy. He said men use marriage as the first step to monogamy. Essentially if you are not ready for commitment marriage won’t make you monogamous. Your decision making will. So work on self and your discipline.
Big facts and that's what most women don't understand. The best man for a woman is one of integrity, morals and values and one of good character. Everything else falls in place if y'all are equally yoked. However you can't make anyone change. You can only inspire. So if your inspiration doesn't inspire that person can be all the above but it's probably not in the cards for you
I had the best connection of my life, an overall easy healthy relationship. Suddenly things changed I was no longer prioritized and his words and actions didn’t align. I made a choice after 2 months of requesting change to end the relationship. What I did learn is that a relationship can be healthy and blissful with consistent work The work should be easy to do when you want to be with someone.
Absolutely... I've been married for 15 years and I'm going through a divorce. For the next chapter of my life I'm definitely following this. I don't care what anyone says... it takes two to build a relationship and even in marriage... Fuck what society says if he's not actively trying to solve the problem leave... Period
This episode is phenomenal! I love Coach K transparency! More people that’s been married this long needs to be transparent like this to help the newbies. ❤️❤️❤️
I am questioning some of coach K's points. If you are bored in a relationship with a good guy, that doesn't mean you want a bad guy. Some people like adventure and excitement in their lives. There are good people that offer that too. If your lifestyles don't align it will be a problem whether you are with a good or bad guy. Exciting doesn't mean bad.
I think he meant a bad boi as in a man that doesn't act like a prude and gonna listen and respond to your requests to spice it up. ..thats my take on what he saying.
Great interview! I love his transparency, sign of a real man and great coach. Consistent, open, honest communication and building connection daily are keys. This grown folks conversation was for grown folks, not grown boys or grown girls! His question about love was poignant. Love is not a feeling or fantasy, it’s life; if I love you, either I’m going to life with you or not, period.
I have to say , I frequently tune in to the replays of this show that I can't wait to catch a live of these days. This particular live broadcast has really hit home for me. I had to pull over my car because I was in tears just reflecting and thinking about how I move, how I've been moving, and just all the things that I've been doing. I am just really looking at the woman in the mirror. I'm going to listen to this broadcast 2 more times so I can get this whole message rooted deep down in my DNA. I promise you. There is going to be a whole different shift in the way that I exist as far as connecting with men and being in relationships, and to move about in my next marriage. I am just so overwhelmed ❤. Thank you for having this broadcast. and the many many phenomenal people that I have seen sit at your table. We need you all so much and the healing that has come from your program is priceless. 🙌
I am finally watching this. Definitely needed this. Not just for the affirmation of making the wise decision to end a relation, but because i have been looking for those human stages of development. Huge pearl! Thank you
Confronting the other person does not always give you accurate results. People may tell you an untruth in hopes it will get you out of the way so they can have cartblanche.
I'm a female. A whole 5, AND yes a petty 4 too😂😂😂😂...Each and EVERY piece of advice, word, clarification, declaration, that Coach K said, I 150% agree!! Hallelujah!!!! 🙌🏾 Finally a man understands EXACTLY how I think!! .Basically, because of my own life experiences and my relationship with God and my dad!🙌🏾❤️💪🏿
Putting all of his goals before me has been the problem. I’m having a difficult time letting him go because I do love him. After one goal is complete, he goes to another one without communicating a time frame of when we will have a partnership.
As a woman who has been called, No, you should never call the other woman, she is not in a relationship with you, he is. You open up the door to let the other woman know exactly where you two stand, the moment you call her. If she was interested, she might step in. If you cannot get the truth from your man, then you should make a decision based off your man. Do your own research, which does not include calling the other person. A man would not do that!
Who told you a man wouldn't do that...😂 speaking from experience, indeed some men will do just that. (NO. I've never cheated to have a man do that, but when they are the one making the accusations... when they wanna kno & they will do it.)
I had to walk away from a 16 year marriage because it was parasitic I was doing all the work to heal and grow meanwhile he’s not doing anything to heal himself
OMGoodness! Thumbs up for recommending the operating agreement. I shake my head every time someone who “owns a business” says “what’s an operating agreement?” Thanks, Coach! 2:10:56
A reason I would consider leaving is if I’m not feeling as an priority . I’m not clingy nor a needy woman but would like to know and feel like I’m a priority Love is quality personal time with action .
As always, loved it!!! Shout out to Coach K F. Thankyou so much for your wisdom. 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿😍😍😍😊😊😊☺️☺️☺️💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️Hardly initiated keep going,growing and winning🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Thank you Kendall for the affirmation. I needed to hear this at this stage of my relationship. It’s exactly what my thoughts are… I just needed to hear most of your facts out loud. I truly love the ‘Catch & Release’ method. I will definitely apply it moving forward. I see the potential in my partner, yet, the audio isn’t matching the picture. The intimacy level isn’t as consistent as he knows I want. Most time, I feel I pour in & don’t get poured into. I always encourage and commend the good. I also point out the negative so he can learn and grow. I think I know what to do, I’m just trying to give him time to get it right. It’s only been 6 mos. Idk
Hello my HI leaders, Ryan and Tysean, I love your podcast, its uplifting and informative. Please keep on keeping on youngbucks! Your future relationships will be different because you guys are learning and correcting!
I would say I’m stage five, completely whole, been walking with the Lord for 30 years, been abstinent for four years, and at 54 years old, I enjoy my every day waiting on the Lord. 😊
I believe platonic relationships work, I’ve been in one for 20+ years and I consider him my brother. The respect and boundaries have always been there!
Trust and believe that 9x10, he'd be willing to give it a go in the sheets if you allowed him. Most male friends are just waiting for space and opportunity.
@@crystaldemarrmen claim they don't need anything to have sex, so that's not profound. however, if we're truly friends he'd actually want to cultivate a romantic relationship and not sex
My mother had a platonic relationship for 50+ years. She and my Dad were cool with him and his wife. My Dad and his wife always gave them the space to chat alone whenever they were together.
@@crystaldemarrI definitely believe you however most men respect your boundaries and as long as both parties are respectful of each other there will never be an issue
what makes a guy not take a woman seriously in a relationship if he feels there isn’t a deep emotional bond he may not view the relationship as serious if their goals for the relationship don’t align one is looking for something long term while the other prefers something casual it can lead to a lack of seriousness if he feels that either he or she is not mature enough to to handle a relationship he might not take it seriously if she exhibits behaviors that seem immature over dramatic or insecure he might question her seriousness if there are signs of jealousy or trust issues he may feel uncertain open communications about expectations and feelings is crucial for building a strong foundation e anessa
Caller @1:20 question hit home for me with multiple after he lost his father. I feel I have been cheated on emotionally while he was vulnerable & we discussed end it. I don’t believe him, yet, don’t have the proof. I don’t know these ppl, & even if I did, I wouldn’t reach out to them. Poll response: NO. It’s him. Not the other woman. He made the decision with intent thinking I wouldn’t find out knowing it would hurt me. I do not agree with platonic relationships unless we all are friends. My issue is the lack of acknowledgment of me being his woman to those. I feel that would stop most ppl from the entertainment. Maybe I’m not good for him in this season. I know I’m a good woman. I just need/want a good, loyal, man on the same page/level I’m on that going to Protect me in all aspects. That’s all.
Watch, observe then take action when you have solid evidence. First Call the other women, kindly speak to the other women and make her comfortable to open up to you. Be on her side especially if she didn’t know you exist. Second call the man on a three way call and confront him that way. Never speak to the man first or on his own because he will lie and even cry to keep you in that relationship. This strategy works every time because the man will lose. He will either lose his women, lose the other women or lose both women, but he definitely not going to gain.
I do agree calling on 3way. That’s a good way to get to the truth. Your right… he can lose either way. Love this one if the other person is willing & stays quiet to listen in the beginning while he speaks what he claims is the truth. ❤ Most men that are guilty will not agree so we have to do a sneak attack.
when love turns into dust money becomes the substitution marriage is a partnership and couples can’t win with money unless they budget as a team love is the most powerful and purest feeling money tries to give you what love does doesn’t quite get there
Why do BM glamorize BW holding them down?? When will this narrative change such that the BM gets himself together, on his own b4 choosing a wife?? One of the 2omen held him down for 15YEARS!!!! POOR WOMAN.
He can have potential but he also in that case of growing and trying to grind he treats your right and give you that assurance that we're in together on his action and words, for the journey forever togather y'all 🤷♀️
I have been a fiancée, I wife, divorced an a sex worker. You guys should think about having men and women on who have lived life in love in after love. Allow them to be truly honest about their journey, a let them speak about how and why God changed their lives. Love y’all keep doing the good work!
I tried it. “You keep talking about what I don’t do trynna make me a villain.” Okay. I started trying to change this. Then there was a scenario… where we went to a place (he goes to the restroom). A group of women come in. I had something on his seat so I believe they had to find more seating or whatever. He comes back from the restroom. & the woman next to him sparked a conversation. he was between me and her leaning into the bar so I was out of the loop longer than I was comfortable with. When we got home, I said basically; “ I appreciate that you introduced and said who I was after a while, but this made me uncomfortable”. I think that was the beginning of me being done😅bc his response was basically him going on the offense & saying I’m creating problems for myself. Chile
I don’t think it’s appropriate to contact another woman regarding your boyfriend man or husband if he’s cheating. Go to your mate then make your changes or decisions if you don’t trust him. I don’t think it’s appropriate nor safe to do so ….
I definitely believe that you have every right to confront your HUSBANDs mistress as long as it's from an emotional intelligent space and truth be told a wife can troll as much as she wants as long as it's factual information. Personally I'm not going to a woman about my boyfriend but my husband i definitely would because nine times out of ten y'all are both being lied to
Exactly,you will find out so much more through the mistress!! I did,because my Husband wasn’t going to tell the Truth and for sure he was telling her lies about me. I took his texts and used them against him to let her see how he was playing her and myself😉I also found out that she was Married…smh.
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“The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it!” -Henry Cloud
Love this
I lost myself in a significant other. I had to step personally because I was losing so much of myself mentally and sexually. The intimacy was there but it wasn’t fulfilling me spiritually. It took the last time we hung out for me to call it quits. I needed to leave and reorganize my life, so I can prioritize my life.
Yes, I communicated with my man what I needed for intimacy, affection. We talked about it and he said, if I’m not doing it then show me, remind me. I do. I touch him, I grab his hand when we’re walking, I do to him what I want and he now recognizes when I’m in need of “physical “ as he calls it. He works on it daily and I appreciate that he is trying. I recognized that we speak totally different love languages and I had to show him what I wanted/expected and I recognized his love language. He is totally not affectionate.
I had to have the same discussion with my husband. We just came off of a marriage retreat this weekend and we were able to develop a code word for each other so now when I need him to come near me and for him to let me know that he has remembered what I need and will give it to me.
Catch and Release technique in a relationship 37:37
@shanid9891, I had to write that down. Caught my attention too.
I have a Platonic relationship with a man that has been ongoing for 40 years. After about 5 years, we addressed each other as brother/sister and attended each other's weddings and our kids are "cousins". His wife and I are very close and they were a huge support during my divorce
❤🔥❤❣
Same here. We have been the best of friends since college. Over 22 years of friendship. I still remember the day he asked my parents to adopt him, and he became the older brother, I never had an I his baby sister. We both are married and have been supportive of each other through many of life's obstacles and relationships. We are best friends, and my husband gets along with him, and I get along very well with his wife.😊❤
@@aricab71 is incestious 😬
Thank you guys for putting out such great content. I literally watch every episode while I'm driving and working. Great daily therapy.
Yes I thank them so much young and wise beyond their years!!! And I absolutely loveeee when Coach “K” comes on with his calm demeanor and his wisdom!! I wrote down my non negotiables and negotiables as a result of this episode!! My 7 year relationship ended and now I’m single and focused on 1. Myself 2. Personal Growth & Development (emotions, mental health, finances, spirituality, education, healing from toxicity)
3. My Family and 4. Living the life of a single women focused on self first at peace so I won’t ever be double minded again when making decisions regarding my future with a man
Mannnn!!!! 1:02:28 hit home frfr… that is exactly why I ended things! Glad to hear a GROWN ASS MAN speak this way and it is amazing feeling of making the right decision for myself.
I disagree. Never confront the other woman unless shes YOUR friend/family. The other woman owes you nothing and if she cared, she wouldnt be entertaining a married man.
The man said call the other woman. It could be a situation where the other woman doesn’t know he is married. She doesn’t believe her husband but she is afraid to get the entire truth. He doesn’t care about her feelings.
We need to stop doing things based on what we believe and develop a foundational thought process.
The process:
Matthew 18:15 - Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.
Luke 17:3 - Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.
Ephesians 4:26 - Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:
The product
Matthew 5:9 - Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.
-With love
@@joyfullychosen1771 This is it!
I agree, Never
Would that be because you're the other wo‡an?
Jamal didn’t say practice monogamy. He said men use marriage as the first step to monogamy. Essentially if you are not ready for commitment marriage won’t make you monogamous. Your decision making will. So work on self and your discipline.
Big facts and that's what most women don't understand. The best man for a woman is one of integrity, morals and values and one of good character. Everything else falls in place if y'all are equally yoked. However you can't make anyone change. You can only inspire. So if your inspiration doesn't inspire that person can be all the above but it's probably not in the cards for you
I had the best connection of my life, an overall easy healthy relationship. Suddenly things changed I was no longer prioritized and his words and actions didn’t align. I made a choice after 2 months of requesting change to end the relationship. What I did learn is that a relationship can be healthy and blissful with consistent work The work should be easy to do when you want to be with someone.
He could have been love bombing in the beginning and then showed his true self with the inconsistencies
Absolutely... I've been married for 15 years and I'm going through a divorce. For the next chapter of my life I'm definitely following this. I don't care what anyone says... it takes two to build a relationship and even in marriage... Fuck what society says if he's not actively trying to solve the problem leave... Period
My favorite episode so far. Coach K calm demeanor is everything.
This episode is phenomenal! I love Coach K transparency! More people that’s been married this long needs to be transparent like this to help the newbies. ❤️❤️❤️
I am questioning some of coach K's points. If you are bored in a relationship with a good guy, that doesn't mean you want a bad guy. Some people like adventure and excitement in their lives. There are good people that offer that too. If your lifestyles don't align it will be a problem whether you are with a good or bad guy. Exciting doesn't mean bad.
Big Facts... Men kill me with that narrative. Just because someone is a good person doesn't make y'all equally aligned
💯💯💯
Facts!!!
I think he meant a bad boi as in a man that doesn't act like a prude and gonna listen and respond to your requests to spice it up. ..thats my take on what he saying.
It's spontaneity sometimes! Because if u think about it life is a routine...spontaneity sometimes shakes things up make it more exciting...
Great interview! I love his transparency, sign of a real man and great coach. Consistent, open, honest communication and building connection daily are keys. This grown folks conversation was for grown folks, not grown boys or grown girls! His question about love was poignant. Love is not a feeling or fantasy, it’s life; if I love you, either I’m going to life with you or not, period.
This was great! I liked that self control when he saw he was getting loud!! That’s on the list!!!!!
Wow! Very insightful. Confirmation that the decision I made was the best one! Thanks for hard-core truth!
This was the most amazing discussion ever, loved it!!
He’s speaking what I NEED to hear!! Grace, toxicity and overall bettering myself to reach level 5
I have to say , I frequently tune in to the replays of this show that I can't wait to catch a live of these days. This particular live broadcast has really hit home for me. I had to pull over my car because I was in tears just reflecting and thinking about how I move, how I've been moving, and just all the things that I've been doing. I am just really looking at the woman in the mirror. I'm going to listen to this broadcast 2 more times so I can get this whole message rooted deep down in my DNA. I promise you. There is going to be a whole different shift in the way that I exist as far as connecting with men and being in relationships, and to move about in my next marriage. I am just so overwhelmed ❤. Thank you for having this broadcast. and the many many phenomenal people that I have seen sit at your table. We need you all so much and the healing that has come from your program is priceless. 🙌
The call -ins are making the show so much interesting.
I am finally watching this. Definitely needed this. Not just for the affirmation of making the wise decision to end a relation, but because i have been looking for those human stages of development. Huge pearl! Thank you
Thanks!
Confronting the other person does not always give you accurate results. People may tell you an untruth in hopes it will get you out of the way so they can have cartblanche.
I'm a female. A whole 5, AND yes a petty 4 too😂😂😂😂...Each and EVERY piece of advice, word, clarification, declaration, that Coach K said, I 150% agree!! Hallelujah!!!! 🙌🏾 Finally a man understands EXACTLY how I think!! .Basically, because of my own life experiences and my relationship with God and my dad!🙌🏾❤️💪🏿
Thanks!
That was some dope conversation for sure my favorite so far 🇭🇹
Im not sure what stage I am, but I'm learning to know what I want and how to address issues , how to eloquently stand my ground. Thank you!
@@buddhabritt1985 love it
Great episode ! I’ve been learning a lot that my parents never taught me about relationships 😭
Love is action, respect, security.
Putting all of his goals before me has been the problem. I’m having a difficult time letting him go because I do love him. After one goal is complete, he goes to another one without communicating a time frame of when we will have a partnership.
4-5. Give and take/communication / respect/ honesty/ openness/ trust
Top 3 priorities in my life: (My) Spirituality, Mental and Phy. Health, and Family Relationhips
As a woman who has been called, No, you should never call the other woman, she is not in a relationship with you, he is. You open up the door to let the other woman know exactly where you two stand, the moment you call her. If she was interested, she might step in. If you cannot get the truth from your man, then you should make a decision based off your man. Do your own research, which does not include calling the other person. A man would not do that!
I totally agree
Amen
Who told you a man wouldn't do that...😂 speaking from experience, indeed some men will do just that. (NO. I've never cheated to have a man do that, but when they are the one making the accusations... when they wanna kno & they will do it.)
She will step in weather she calls or not, if that’s what she wants.
I had to walk away from a 16 year marriage because it was parasitic I was doing all the work to heal and grow meanwhile he’s not doing anything to heal himself
OMGoodness! Thumbs up for recommending the operating agreement. I shake my head every time someone who “owns a business” says “what’s an operating agreement?” Thanks, Coach! 2:10:56
I think I'm a 45 married and Ben Solomon for 13 years I'll pray this to the most high
S/O to Kendall, he come through every time!! If you haven’t watched his other episodes go watch them now! So much WISDOM💯
Absolutely agree, his one of my fav guests. I love the previous episode where he talks about the Gap, and the Sync meeting, ❤
A reason I would consider leaving is if I’m not feeling as an priority . I’m not clingy nor a needy woman but would like to know and feel like I’m a priority
Love is quality personal time with action .
That's a good one but Imma add in constantly not feeling you're a priority. That means their actions aren't aligned with their words
Thanks!
I love the breakdown of communication.
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I love this conversation!!!
I love what you guys are doing here 👏🏽🔥
As always, loved it!!! Shout out to Coach K F. Thankyou so much for your wisdom. 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿😍😍😍😊😊😊☺️☺️☺️💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️Hardly initiated keep going,growing and winning🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@1:33:50 Ryan on monogamy being a discipline!!!!🔥🔥🔥 so well spoken sir!!!
It’s always as great conversation with Kendall Ficklin, a man of character. I love his story-the transparency and the growth. I appreciate his wisdom.
Thank you Kendall for the affirmation. I needed to hear this at this stage of my relationship. It’s exactly what my thoughts are… I just needed to hear most of your facts out loud. I truly love the ‘Catch & Release’ method. I will definitely apply it moving forward.
I see the potential in my partner, yet, the audio isn’t matching the picture. The intimacy level isn’t as consistent as he knows I want. Most time, I feel I pour in & don’t get poured into. I always encourage and commend the good. I also point out the negative so he can learn and grow. I think I know what to do, I’m just trying to give him time to get it right. It’s only been 6 mos. Idk
Tell him your sexual desires
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Me so much
This was a really good and informative session. The Coach had some interesting points that I myself can relate to..
Hello my HI leaders, Ryan and Tysean, I love your podcast, its uplifting and informative. Please keep on keeping on youngbucks! Your future relationships will be different because you guys are learning and correcting!
❤ First time tuning in. You guys did a awesome job touching on point of self analysis and moments of truth 👏🏾👏🏾 Keep it up #Initiates
Love is learning your partner to better understand your partner and how they need to be loved. Acts of service, sacrifice, support
I'm Soooo glad his back, love his advice
I would say I’m stage five, completely whole, been walking with the Lord for 30 years, been abstinent for four years, and at 54 years old, I enjoy my every day waiting on the Lord. 😊
Whenever Ty says "dang" it hit the soul. 😅😅😅
Wow! This is awesome!
Yes I share what makes me feel loved and appreciated
This was such a great episode ❤❤❤. I have to watch this again.
He’s good. Bless you Coach!
KF keep dropping that knowledge friend. Be blessed and wish you all the very very best in you family. May God continues to bless your ministry, SIR!!
Top podcast! Coach Ken is amazing ❤
Coach Ken be dropping that ❤🔥Love when he's on the show. Makes you think>
Respect,appreciation,actions more than word,cherish, all needs met.
This is so true and a blessing to hear
Being able to see the need in another and willing to for feel the need no matter the sacrifices you give up that's love.
I believe platonic relationships work, I’ve been in one for 20+ years and I consider him my brother. The respect and boundaries have always been there!
Trust and believe that 9x10, he'd be willing to give it a go in the sheets if you allowed him. Most male friends are just waiting for space and opportunity.
@@crystaldemarrmen claim they don't need anything to have sex, so that's not profound. however, if we're truly friends he'd actually want to cultivate a romantic relationship and not sex
My mother had a platonic relationship for 50+ years. She and my Dad were cool with him and his wife. My Dad and his wife always gave them the space to chat alone whenever they were together.
Exactly same here
@@crystaldemarrI definitely believe you however most men respect your boundaries and as long as both parties are respectful of each other there will never be an issue
what makes a guy not take a woman seriously in a relationship if he feels there isn’t a deep
emotional bond
he may not view the relationship as serious if their goals for the relationship don’t align one is looking for something long term while the other prefers something casual
it can lead to a lack of seriousness if he feels that either he or she
is not mature enough to
to handle a relationship he might not take it seriously if she exhibits
behaviors that seem immature over dramatic or insecure he might question her seriousness if there are signs of jealousy or trust issues
he may feel uncertain open communications about expectations and feelings is crucial for building a strong foundation e anessa
Loving someone is being there.
Yooo this man set me all the way straight! I was giving away too much 🤦🏽♀️
I’m in my late 50’s I cannot do “potential” either you’ve made a decision to do something and you are accomplishing it or you haven’t
Great word
Peace, security and spiritual growth
This was such a great episode!!! Coach Kendall is holding everyone accountable especially these niggas
Great episode♥ and thank you for telling us what you need that is the problem no one says how they feel when they feel it. good job guys.♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
Love is being considerate
Toxicity is why I ended all 5 of my relationships or situations hips, cheating, anger issues, financial issues
Caller @1:20 question hit home for me with multiple after he lost his father. I feel I have been cheated on emotionally while he was vulnerable & we discussed end it. I don’t believe him, yet, don’t have the proof. I don’t know these ppl, & even if I did, I wouldn’t reach out to them. Poll response: NO. It’s him. Not the other woman. He made the decision with intent thinking I wouldn’t find out knowing it would hurt me. I do not agree with platonic relationships unless we all are friends. My issue is the lack of acknowledgment of me being his woman to those. I feel that would stop most ppl from the entertainment. Maybe I’m not good for him in this season. I know I’m a good woman. I just need/want a good, loyal, man on the same page/level I’m on that going to Protect me in all aspects. That’s all.
I'm a 5 with myself, a 4/5 with others at this time! 😍 To God Be the Glory!
Watch, observe then take action when you have solid evidence. First Call the other women, kindly speak to the other women and make her comfortable to open up to you. Be on her side especially if she didn’t know you exist. Second call the man on a three way call and confront him that way. Never speak to the man first or on his own because he will lie and even cry to keep you in that relationship.
This strategy works every time because the man will lose. He will either lose his women, lose the other women or lose both women, but he definitely not going to gain.
I do agree calling on 3way. That’s a good way to get to the truth. Your right… he can lose either way. Love this one if the other person is willing & stays quiet to listen in the beginning while he speaks what he claims is the truth. ❤ Most men that are guilty will not agree so we have to do a sneak attack.
Ladies, please know your value. Do not settle for the side chick, smash and grab. Don't have sex so soon after meeting a man
Love the message ❤🔥💥
when love turns into dust
money becomes the substitution marriage is a partnership and couples
can’t win with money
unless they budget as a team love is the most powerful and purest feeling money tries to give you what love does
doesn’t quite get there
So knowledgeable! 🖤🙏🏿👏🏿😇
This episode going bonkers 🔥🔥
Health peace and wealth
I just shared this on my FB. No I haven't joined I'm 62 and single, waiting on a single person my age to come on the show .
Been married since 2003. Best years are now. 😊
Thank you for what y’all are doing
So true.💛
Why do BM glamorize BW holding them down??
When will this narrative change such that the BM gets himself together, on his own b4 choosing a wife??
One of the 2omen held him down for 15YEARS!!!! POOR WOMAN.
OMG this explains so much in my life with my business. Wowwwww
I have to do something different and it’s not going to be easy
3 Top priorities, personal growth- self care- healthy relationships
What an episode!!🔥
He can have potential but he also in that case of growing and trying to grind he treats your right and give you that assurance that we're in together on his action and words, for the journey forever togather y'all 🤷♀️
I have been a fiancée, I wife, divorced an a sex worker.
You guys should think about having men and women on who have lived life in love in after love. Allow them to be truly honest about their journey, a let them speak about how and why God changed their lives.
Love y’all keep doing the good work!
In that order?
I'm new here but it's a very informative platform
I tried it. “You keep talking about what I don’t do trynna make me a villain.” Okay.
I started trying to change this.
Then there was a scenario… where we went to a place (he goes to the restroom). A group of women come in. I had something on his seat so I believe they had to find more seating or whatever. He comes back from the restroom. & the woman next to him sparked a conversation. he was between me and her leaning into the bar so I was out of the loop longer than I was comfortable with.
When we got home, I said basically; “ I appreciate that you introduced and said who I was after a while, but this made me uncomfortable”.
I think that was the beginning of me being done😅bc his response was basically him
going on the offense & saying I’m creating problems for myself. Chile
I don’t think it’s appropriate to contact another woman regarding your boyfriend man or husband if he’s cheating. Go to your mate then make your changes or decisions if you don’t trust him. I don’t think it’s appropriate nor safe to do so ….
I definitely believe that you have every right to confront your HUSBANDs mistress as long as it's from an emotional intelligent space and truth be told a wife can troll as much as she wants as long as it's factual information. Personally I'm not going to a woman about my boyfriend but my husband i definitely would because nine times out of ten y'all are both being lied to
Exactly,you will find out so much more through the mistress!! I did,because my Husband wasn’t going to tell the Truth and for sure he was telling her lies about me. I took his texts and used them against him to let her see how he was playing her and myself😉I also found out that she was Married…smh.
@@MizLadiiHe's not your EX-husband?
I'm between Stages 4 and 5. I find myself more often at 4, and every now and then Stage 3, when homie pushes the right button.
Can we have more of his advice on tiktok to be able to save it ,I just love the talk about the intimate part.. it's Soooo important
I enjoyed this podcast today!❤
@1:44 Facts 😢
55 is young my dad had me at 61. His cousin had a daughter at 74 ?years old.