If You Meet the RIGHT ONE at the WRONG TIME, God Will . . .

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  • @nicag6125
    @nicag6125 3 роки тому +849

    Please pray for those who is heartbroken and waiting for their right person to comeback to them. 😭💔

    • @rvx5818
      @rvx5818 3 роки тому +20

      In the same boat :( ♥

    • @nicag6125
      @nicag6125 3 роки тому +7

      @Town Crazy good to hear. I hope you met someone that deserves you. 💗

    • @rhodorafermin4347
      @rhodorafermin4347 3 роки тому +8

      Thank you i'm one of them trying hard to be much better now

    • @iloveGod1105
      @iloveGod1105 2 роки тому +2

      Praying!!!

    • @ldnjade9874
      @ldnjade9874 2 роки тому +1

      Amen

  • @christinabrenneman7641
    @christinabrenneman7641 3 роки тому +2140

    I will be getting married in September of next year. My fiance was my very first boyfriend from over ten years ago. We broke up after a couple years and then 4 years ago we met again. God used that in between times to grow us up and make us work together better.

    • @nycgregofficial
      @nycgregofficial 3 роки тому +51

      Congratulations

    • @m7g497
      @m7g497 3 роки тому +67

      Saaaaame exact thing happened to me !

    • @christinabrenneman7641
      @christinabrenneman7641 3 роки тому +20

      @@m7g497 that is so cool! I love those kinds of stories! Isent it so neat that we get to live them!:)

    • @smileyslick1534
      @smileyslick1534 3 роки тому +17

      Christina Brenneman, congratulations!! I’m happy for you both.
      I’m surprised you’re having a long engagement. Waiting for nearly another year and half during the engagement period of times places couples in more opportunities of sexual temptation which is why many pastors & counselors recommend a long dating period, but short engagement.

    • @111coolone
      @111coolone 3 роки тому +22

      Wow so you guys were in separation for several years? Truly meant to be :)

  • @GloryEzeude
    @GloryEzeude 3 роки тому +688

    Gods wills isn’t governed by mans timing 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ninalovesyoupodcast9883
      @ninalovesyoupodcast9883 3 роки тому +5

      Amen facts

    • @realkr8324
      @realkr8324 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @justinwebb9614
      @justinwebb9614 3 роки тому

      God's will: John 2:4And Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does this have to do with me? My hour has not yet come.” 5His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.” She didn't take no for an answer did something and God moved.

    • @char-4737
      @char-4737 3 роки тому +3

      Amen Sista!!! 🙌🏾

    • @robincuffee3265
      @robincuffee3265 3 роки тому

      Amen

  • @GloryEzeude
    @GloryEzeude 3 роки тому +745

    God works in mysterious ways, there have been a lot of people who met their soul mate at the wrong time

  • @joshuaramirez9088
    @joshuaramirez9088 3 роки тому +1156

    I definitely believe this. My current grandparents met in high school, dated, then went separate ways. They had lives separately, got married, and had lives. Eventually though, after both of their marriages had ended for different reasons, they got back together. Around 65 years later. They've been living together quietly in the woods ever since, praising God for each meal and going to church.

  • @lucillekluivert343
    @lucillekluivert343 Рік тому +118

    WHEN GOD WRITES YOUR LOVE STORY ITS THE MOST BEAUTIFULL ONE ❤ 😍❤

  • @MayasSuite
    @MayasSuite 3 роки тому +738

    I feel like this is what I’m experiencing. My ex and I dated for 4 years off and on and finally broke up for 3 years. We always stayed in communication and got to a point of being comfortable in singleness. As I drew closer and closer to God he kept putting him back on my mind and my heart. I kept trying to brush it off but it was more intense as the days went on. God literally changed the way I viewed him and my feelings towards him. I finally reached out and now we are back together and have grown. It’s like everything just works much better together now than before. I can truly say God gets the glory because we couldn’t have done it on our own.

    • @MayasSuite
      @MayasSuite 3 роки тому +3

      @@rondas7772 no it hasn’t been that long since we have been back so we will see what happens going forward

    • @neniaolivera8865
      @neniaolivera8865 3 роки тому +10

      This is beautiful

    • @niyserenjiy
      @niyserenjiy 3 роки тому +1

      #AMEN

    • @ХристинаДандаринова
      @ХристинаДандаринова 3 роки тому +1

      Such a inspiring story!!! Could you give me an advice?With what prayer do I have to pray so my boy comes back.We had 4 years relationship,but then he got cold.Now after 3 years I feel he tries to hide his attention again.How should I behave?

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 3 роки тому +8

      If it does not lead to marriage the second time around I'd think the idea is not from God.

  • @tommy11sixorozco9
    @tommy11sixorozco9 3 роки тому +656

    Some things are meant to happen, just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay. The more you can accept what is, the less you’ll be controlled by what was. The more you can accept the facts, the less you’ll be controlled by your feelings. - Trent Shelton

    • @mastersamuel6147
      @mastersamuel6147 3 роки тому +24

      This is deep and new.
      "Somethings are meant to happen but not be, somethings are meant to come but not stay"

    • @jamesgutierrez611
      @jamesgutierrez611 3 роки тому +4

      Nice man

    • @tommy11sixorozco9
      @tommy11sixorozco9 3 роки тому +1

      @@jamesgutierrez611 Hey I think I have seen you in real life!! lol

    • @lolajohnson725
      @lolajohnson725 2 роки тому +2

      speaking to me brother☝🏾

    • @katecardenas7563
      @katecardenas7563 2 роки тому +5

      Very true but also hard to accept

  • @GDaEssence
    @GDaEssence 3 роки тому +769

    “If you are obeying God, He will not let you miss his will”! 🙌🏾 Thank you for the reminder and reassurance! My time is not God’s time! All in God’s perfect timing! 🙏🏾

    • @arnoldwoumfo
      @arnoldwoumfo 3 роки тому +1

      It’s very relevant! Let’s make sure to be obeying God in everything and every time! Thank you for the highlight 🙏🏾

    • @ericbravo8339
      @ericbravo8339 3 роки тому +1

      Follow his Commandments

    • @discoverdeliciousfood3842
      @discoverdeliciousfood3842 2 роки тому

      Amèn🙏🏻🙌🏻

  • @eugenekocielko8501
    @eugenekocielko8501 3 роки тому +276

    This sort of describes my parents. My dad saw my ma for the first time walking down a street around Chicago. He wanted to introduce himself, but she disappeared in the crowd. Certain years later in 1984, they finally meet at a prayer meeting.

  • @user-il6fm6jx4b
    @user-il6fm6jx4b 3 роки тому +382

    I pray that she’s the one, we met at such a bad time in my life and I realize how immature I was I’m hoping god equips me while I’m waiting to reunite with her 🙏

    • @norinakovacs4099
      @norinakovacs4099 2 роки тому +2

      @@gasperpust6268 I'm also interested in this question😊
      God bless!❤

    • @GG-yv7yl
      @GG-yv7yl 2 роки тому +26

      I'm in the same boat, we broke up 7 months ago. We met at a bad time in my life, I wasn't being my authentic self, wasn't passionate about my faith either. I hoped God would use the time apart to work on our hearts. I'm having a hard time not idolizing him and our relationship. Putting God first has been extremely difficult lately. Praying for you 💙

    • @PioEcatl1999
      @PioEcatl1999 2 роки тому +2

      I feel you brother im going throught the same thing🙏🏽

    • @adrianacasillas5321
      @adrianacasillas5321 2 роки тому +1

      ❤️

    • @thedean6073
      @thedean6073 Рік тому +6

      Same here. Pray, fast, and ask Him to comfort your heart while guiding you. His will is known through His word in scripture

  • @tejas.j
    @tejas.j Рік тому +57

    "If You Are Obeying God, He Will Not Let You Miss His Will" 🙌

  • @aleteiaizel5937
    @aleteiaizel5937 3 роки тому +184

    “When the time is right , I the lord will make it happen “ Isaiah 60:22🙏🥰🙌help me rejoice in your presence in this season of waiting 🙏🙌

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 3 роки тому +380

    " I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?" Jeremiah 32:27✝️
    Trust God
    Don't look to the left or the right
    Keep moving forward
    Great video brother

  • @DarshD
    @DarshD 3 роки тому +444

    This is the most emotionally painful situation, especially if you're not ready professionally or financially. If it doesn't work out then we feel the guilt of not being ready at the right time, and missing the chance of a lifetime. Thank you for sharing such complicated situations which not many often discuss.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 роки тому +21

      So glad it was helpful! All glory to God!

    • @MayContainJoe
      @MayContainJoe 3 роки тому +32

      It's the (first) world which comes up with a huge list of requirements to be "ready" for the thing God actually does. Meanwhile couples start large families in literal warzones fully dependent on God and live.
      Worldy people build professionally and financially and then start doing IVF, because God doesn't bless them. Or they end up with broken families, where everything checks all the boxes on the surface, but there is no Love anywhere to be seen.
      Christian readiness is in the heart and in the spirit, everything else is added by Him.

    • @drummonkeystuffuk1875
      @drummonkeystuffuk1875 3 роки тому +1

      @@MayContainJoe I won't be blessed with a partner though, as both God and myself know I simply do not deserve the love of a woman.

    • @MayContainJoe
      @MayContainJoe 3 роки тому +17

      @@drummonkeystuffuk1875 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
      Love never fails.
      Love that can't be earned or deserved and is only available by pure grace.

    • @davespark10
      @davespark10 3 роки тому +2

      How dare you say what im feeling 😭

  • @patriciamarie4709
    @patriciamarie4709 3 роки тому +139

    He has made everything beautiful in His time ❤️ Ecclesiastes 3:11

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 роки тому +9

      God is good!

    • @mmabathomaja1144
      @mmabathomaja1144 2 роки тому

      At its own time, not his own time.

    • @TheSuperJAM
      @TheSuperJAM Рік тому +3

      @@mmabathomaja1144No, they had it right when they said His. Ecclesiastes 3:11 He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.

  • @faithandpixiedust1252
    @faithandpixiedust1252 3 роки тому +320

    I really feel this for my recent breakup . I’m continuing to keep this in the lords hands 🙌🏾. I know we both have things we need to work on . I still think about him every day

    • @simangelemilicentkatsande7359
      @simangelemilicentkatsande7359 3 роки тому +31

      I'm really hoping for a miracle.... I'm also happy that the break up pushed me to God

    • @chelseastewart1270
      @chelseastewart1270 3 роки тому +12

      Me too🥺 that’s why I’m watching this video for hope😔😔

    • @itspolabear
      @itspolabear 3 роки тому +23

      Same with me. We broke up 3wks ago He's an unbeliever but idk why there's something in me that I need to pray harder for him even though I told God that I want to forget.

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 роки тому

      @@itspolabear what is your religion?? Just curious I am Jehovah witness

    • @nolancavanaugh406
      @nolancavanaugh406 3 роки тому +8

      @@itspolabear I am going through a similar subject, she’s honestly the love of my life! Perfect in every aspect imo besides she’s not a believer…. I pray everyday for her & offer up my pain, sorrows, agony & loneliness for the conversion of her heart mind body & soul. If God has one drop of his mercy left that he may influence her to have a change of heart & allow me into her life again

  • @laFrancaise806
    @laFrancaise806 3 роки тому +162

    I won’t say we met « at the wrong time » because it’s never the wrong time, everything has a purpose like you said. I will say that it’s not the moment to date each other.

  • @4wheelwarrior
    @4wheelwarrior Рік тому +24

    This is Gold, thank You. "God does not call the equipped, he equips the called". That's written in my journal today now.

  • @I_am_her_
    @I_am_her_ 3 роки тому +79

    If it is in God’s will, it will happen!

  • @JimmyBasquiat
    @JimmyBasquiat 3 роки тому +77

    I'm attending a new church, my first evangelical church. I've given my life to Christ and now I feel like I'm in the right place. I've recognized my spiritual gifts, I've learn many things about myself (still learning). I want to build my life around this church, bringing God glory by serving and loving my fellow brothers and sisters - and obviously, showing this love to the world. And God showed me this amazing girl... my first thought - "I have zero chances with her!", but then my nephew said - "Careful! Words have power!". So I've put my trust in Christ and I just had first conversation with her at youth meeting. And I really do like her, not only for her looks. But I know, I have to give it a time and assess her correctly. God surely highlited her for me, but only to help me with previous, unbelieving girl I was obsessed with. I've prayed for this girl and moved on. And this new girl, I have high hopes for. Lord's word and circumstances will tell me is she's "the one", even tho I no longer believe in such things (sorry, brother Mark). God is literally guiding me and is guarding my heart, but not allowing me to fell for her, not to have a crush - cause He loves me, understands me and showed me, how bad is infatuation to me. I've never felt more loved, safe and guarded. I understand I might be seen as infant in His eyes, but one day I'll have to grow up. Hopefully at the day of my wedding - only God knows :)
    I say to you - use SINGLENESS season to learn more about GOD, about YOURSELF. Discover WHO YOU ARE in HIS EYES. It is extremely important and I've met amazing people in my church, who invited me to dinner and this one brother, gave me extremely great guidance. God told me many things by using my brother in Christ. TRUST GOD with all your HEART. You will worry, you will be scared... but fill your HEART with GOD'S TRUTHS and GUARD it - and you will feel HIS overwhelming PEACE. God bless you all!

    • @abigailadu6183
      @abigailadu6183 3 роки тому +2

      Very true..
      God bless you too😊

    • @liznzembi5906
      @liznzembi5906 3 роки тому +1

      Amen🙏🙏,, be blessed

    • @asiajana4314
      @asiajana4314 3 роки тому

      Thank you for the advice, I have struggled in my singleness season, and I faith that God will work it all out 😊. God bless you brother.

  • @char-4737
    @char-4737 3 роки тому +131

    I would love see the love story is writing for me and my future husband. I bet it will be beautiful. This is very encouraging. I will put my hope in God. Thank God for you Brother Mark. God is always on time. Just have to believe that.

  • @johnnywishbone932
    @johnnywishbone932 3 роки тому +82

    This is so crazy. These videos come the next morning after praying! 🙏✝️❤️‼️

  • @lisawhbc2009
    @lisawhbc2009 3 роки тому +46

    I just found my person but we both have things we are dealing with. Wrong timing. I do believe God wants me with him and we want to be together. But unfortunately life throws a curve ball and you got to be patient.

    • @ابوحميد-ش4ك
      @ابوحميد-ش4ك 10 місяців тому

      I am a man who loves relationships, but a Fatah wife who is honest and frank

  • @alizaquintanilla
    @alizaquintanilla 3 роки тому +123

    Wow, my boyfriend and I honestly had this conversation last night - we just want to serve God with our lives and relationship but there is stressors that lead us not to marry right now. And then this video came out!

  • @cjdiaries7722
    @cjdiaries7722 3 роки тому +72

    I was literally WAITING for a confirmation and just some type of clarification on my exact situation. This video being recommended was such a relief to know that God knows what I want and knows what I need in this season. Heartbreak is a beautiful thing bc it opens our eyes and allows us to really understand everything happens for you not to you. His will shall be DONE. This guy that i cut off to focus on me was so bittersweet but I just know he’s mine just not yet.

  • @sullengirl808
    @sullengirl808 3 роки тому +184

    This reminds me of my sister’s relationships. It was a struggle, but they stuck it out and after 5 years, they got married.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 роки тому +24

      Amen, all glory to God!

    • @johnkoenig326
      @johnkoenig326 3 роки тому +7

      Stuck _what_ out??

    • @sullengirl808
      @sullengirl808 3 роки тому +11

      @@johnkoenig326 stuck it out with each other through thick n thin and all the trails couples go thur.

    • @lilianasaba9846
      @lilianasaba9846 3 роки тому +7

      Marriage is very much long-term. Not just an event

    • @mely260
      @mely260 3 роки тому +6

      @@lilianasaba9846 she didn't mean "stuck it out" like that

  • @melissatonn8757
    @melissatonn8757 3 роки тому +113

    I do agree God can bring anyone together who are suppose to be. I feel like for many people it is easier to accept the truth that we might end up together, rather than accepting the fact that we are not suppose too. I have causally dated two guys and both our relationships ended because they decided they each wanted to discern priesthood rather than continuing our relationship. I personally felt like both of these guys were suppose to end up with me at the time, God did not have this desire on their hearts. As christians, we have to will the good of the person by allowing God's will to occur. While this was a painful experience for me to go through twice, it has shown me that our will is not always aligned with God's. Therefore, in these situations we have to let go and let god in order to find true freedom surrounding our future spouse. For God always knows better than we do and what will satisfy our souls! 😊

    • @itswhatever8
      @itswhatever8 3 роки тому +1

      Amen ❤

    • @kinghezron09
      @kinghezron09 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you for sharing this, Me also have a partner for almost 4yrs living together, So many happy moments,ups nd downs..until where both jobless right now she left me, knowing in this time of situation we must need each others arm,but she choose to leave me.. I dont know what God plans for us,i still trust his plans,the pain is always here in my heart,but god is the best comforter..

    • @glittercatstudios
      @glittercatstudios Рік тому

      ​@kinghezron09 I can tell you right now living together outside of marriage was never God's best or His will for either of you.

    • @ابوحميد-ش4ك
      @ابوحميد-ش4ك 10 місяців тому

      ​@@glittercatstudiosI am a man who loves relationships, but a Fatah wife who is honest and frank

    • @glittercatstudios
      @glittercatstudios 10 місяців тому

      @@ابوحميد-ش4ك Um, okay? I don't know what point you had.

  • @emmyywemmyy
    @emmyywemmyy Рік тому +11

    This is how I feel about him. We broke up, heartbroken, bad things happened, but I feel in my heart that’s he’s for me. Not bc I want comfort from him but bc I truly want to be with him.

  • @JohnM...
    @JohnM... 3 роки тому +41

    What about: "When you pray, BELIEVE you have already received it, and ye shall."?

    • @danielsitumorang7765
      @danielsitumorang7765 3 роки тому +1

      I have experience of this kind and very related to this video. I was in my early 20+ at that time (2000-2004), I was pray to God, send me an angel to be mylife partner. In 2005, I met my ex middle school friend again, I pray to God to allow her to be mywife. God allow my request, she become mywife in 2006. And now in 2021, a girl born 2004 named as one of angel, spesific angel that sent by God to Daniel, with all aura, time as the verse in book of Daniel, blessing of an angel, sent infront of me (in mywork place) with all coincidence like. I check this girl is truly like my pray answer. Now I naming mywife is forced angel, and the girl is angel prepared and sent by God. For God answered my first pray for an angel with a baby born in 2004, and after that allow my forcing pray become real too. I got messed up now and this affect my married life.

    • @peacetruth4802
      @peacetruth4802 3 роки тому +3

      Pray according to God's will.

  • @desireeminich7706
    @desireeminich7706 3 роки тому +58

    i feel the same way I'm still young, and he too and I like him so much since 2 years when I was 14. Now we're in a youth group and we have something to do with each other more and more often. I told him that I like him more than other guys and he said that he likes me too, but is still too young ... Now I hope that God brings us together 😭❤️ Because I still like him that way. Please pray for us🙏🏼😅
    I also prayed, God, if I should wait for him, please show me ... and now all of a sudden there's a video of it on UA-cam. Right at the right time. Let's give glory to God❣️❣️

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 роки тому +6

      God bless as you seek to honor the Lord and obey his word!

    • @mely260
      @mely260 3 роки тому +5

      Wow I love this story. Something like this happened to me when I was 14 too and me and my family moved states so i guess its because it was the wrong timing. 3 years later I still remember him as if it was yesterday

    • @tavongadzapasi1248
      @tavongadzapasi1248 3 роки тому

      I can relate because am going through the same thing

  • @zk9494
    @zk9494 2 роки тому +65

    Being a practicing Muslim, many of the excerpts here resonate with our scriptures as well and encourage trust and submision to the Creator! May your good videos recieve many blessings. Ameen 🤲🙏

  • @Jesuisvictorious
    @Jesuisvictorious 2 роки тому +7

    Thankful for channels like these. There are a lot of relationship experts that will teach you how to get the person and keep them but not a lot that is rooted on Biblical truths and one that leads you to honor God and His best for you. 😊

  • @txwarriorbride5112
    @txwarriorbride5112 3 роки тому +16

    Boy, is this real right now. Let everything be for HIS glory.🙏💕👰🔥

  • @jasminekelleelyngdoh3824
    @jasminekelleelyngdoh3824 3 роки тому +61

    This video came at the right time🤧 God bless you Mark!

  • @sierrahultgren945
    @sierrahultgren945 3 роки тому +9

    Including the “drop a like” reminder in the middle works way better! Perfect place for a call to action as I’m engaged in the material. Great marketing!

  • @nononsensetaken
    @nononsensetaken 3 роки тому +32

    This is deep and so true at the same time . I testify.

  • @MandyLina123
    @MandyLina123 3 роки тому +6

    This video randomly showed up in my youtube home while scrolling through and I wasn’t even thinking about it rn. I can’t help but feel like this is a sign from Him.

  • @justaphotoeditor
    @justaphotoeditor 3 роки тому +19

    The timing of this.. I truly believe God is using you to speak to me may he Bless you and your family always brother in Christ!!

  • @KingdomtalkwithTiffany
    @KingdomtalkwithTiffany 3 роки тому +32

    Just want to tell the Lord that I thank him for his word, his unexplainable peace, as well as his grace and mercy. I’m thankful for prayer, thank you Lord that we can reach you at any time. I’m believing that one day my husband will be gifted to me one day, until then....I still want to say thank you Lord❤️

  • @Jpark.
    @Jpark. 3 роки тому +77

    "If you are obeying God, he will not let you miss his will"
    "No matter what, keep trusting God"
    Both of these quotes are so powerful and encouraging. God bless you Mark!

  • @dParakeet
    @dParakeet 3 роки тому +7

    My mind was blown 1 minute into the video, holy cow this was made for me fr.

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 3 роки тому +21

    I can't wait to meet my Godly soul mate for life⚘until then, i will keep preparing myself to be a good understanding and loving wife that God wants me to be. Stay humble and kind everyone 💛

  • @whyamialwaystired3182
    @whyamialwaystired3182 Рік тому +9

    We met when both of us were straying away from God, we only dated for a couple of months and then went our separate ways. We had dreams of each other immediately upon meeting, and I had more dreams of him showing progression in our relationship and our relationship with God. I am now back walking with Jesus and I pray he will be shown the love of Jesus the same way I have been, and I pray that God will forgive him the way he forgave me and bring him back on the righteous path. I hope that what I feel is right and that once we both are under Jesus' wings again we can be back together. Please pray for us.

  • @matthewholmes8008
    @matthewholmes8008 3 роки тому +35

    i became best friends with this girl a year ago. We liked each other at separate times. So it was never the right timing. She was in a serious relationship and i was off liking other girls distracting myself. Then one day we both had this random spark of passion inside of us for each other and told each other we liked each other. We've been dating for over 3 months going on strong long distance since she's at college. We both are in love and are here to stay together for long time to come. :)

  • @liliye4518
    @liliye4518 2 роки тому +33

    I've been in love with my best friend ever since I met her back when we were kids. We've always been close and we both brought each other closer to God. It's been 6 and a half years now and a few months ago I finally told her I loved her, she said she loved me too only to find out a few months later that she didn't have feelings for me and she was confused. She's not ready for love and I understand where she's coming from. But she's also said there's still a chance she could fall in love with me. I feel that she's the one God has chosen for me but... It's just hard to truly know when she doesn't have feelings at the moment. I'm praying God will give us guidance and clarity and that in his timing he will show us what he wants for us. I love her very much and I want to be with her, but first... I must delight in the Lord and make him my main focus.

    • @Esmeb89547
      @Esmeb89547 Рік тому

      Have you even taken her out on a date?

    • @irmadegraaf1702
      @irmadegraaf1702 Рік тому +1

      Amen! Beautiful to hear that you put Him first. That's what He wants and the rest, He will do for good❤

    • @bri4498
      @bri4498 Рік тому

      And this is why i say a guy and a girl cant be just friends. 1 of them will always want something more, even if its just "fun time" ,
      She kept you friend zoned until you admitted, and now has you friend zoned again after that. I think it's time to just take the hint, accept it, stop torturing yourself and move on.

    • @bonton9441
      @bonton9441 Рік тому

      She humping someone else man move on

    • @egbondesire1720
      @egbondesire1720 Рік тому

      Amen , God bless you

  • @daft_j
    @daft_j 2 роки тому +12

    Update: First saw this when I was starting to date someone someone. Now, I’m seeing this weeks after we broke up. We still have our trauma and insecurities to overcome, so I’m in the process of healing. Also been praying to God to heal me and to wait on their timing. Realized I still have feelings for my ex, but perhaps it was just the wrong time.

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun 8 місяців тому +1

    The fourth of your videos directly regarding what's going on in my situation that's popped up in a row. I try not to think too much about this, but this has helped prep me regardless. I liked his savage, awful humor, but the thing that stood out to me was his ministry. There was also the fact that my best friend had told me, "you need a man that appreciates x,y,z about you, which are things that people find out about you over time." The guy I met knew about those qualities in me immediately. Finally, as someone in my thirties who was married once, this is the first time I've felt like this is the person.
    We're not good for each other right now, but I've prayed and fasted (to what I'm able to do), and this stuff keeps coming up. Don't know what that means yet. I'm not entirely convinced that it's not supposed to happen. I'm trying not to imagine the future, though, other than my own personal future. I'll be fine either way. I completely nuked it. I did every single perceivable red flag, out of raw anxiety. If it's God's will, it will work. All I have to worry about is God.
    Please pray for me, in the name of the Trinity.

  • @reynaro2496
    @reynaro2496 3 роки тому +28

    I think I met the one at the wrong time, i still don’t know because with the pandemic everybody got sick and things stop. I haven’t been able to connect to many people. God surprises me sometimes. Thanks for this video, i want to know more but i ask God for patience with myself, and I try not think too much. God bless you🙏🏼🥰

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 роки тому +3

      Yes, eventually you two would need to reconnect to know more. God bless Reyna!

    • @marlenedorr5202
      @marlenedorr5202 3 роки тому

      @ Reyna it's okay. Do what waiters do: serve. Wait, pray and trust. And enjoy yourself! It will be happen. I promise you. I'm on the same point.

  • @Kelly_Silverman
    @Kelly_Silverman 3 роки тому +21

    This video was bomb! Shows His Sovereignty and providence over absolutely all of situations. If it's meant to be.. it'll be! If its not... Then you can rest that you didn't miss out on anything ☺️
    Knowing this has brought me comfort ♥️

  • @josephinecolon4815
    @josephinecolon4815 3 роки тому +11

    WOW Awesome message thank you, Mark. Nowadays it's more important for me to have a relationship with the Lord, I stay away from toxic and fake people as well as nonsense that's a recipe for happiness, AMEN

  • @HandsthatSing2017
    @HandsthatSing2017 3 роки тому +27

    Or it’s just not your person and you have dopped yourself with your own emotions .
    “The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked”. Jeremiah 17:9

  • @blessedsoul949
    @blessedsoul949 2 роки тому +7

    I believe this message was meant for me.AMEN 🙏🙏

  • @boybinc
    @boybinc 3 роки тому +9

    This was definitely for me! I asked God for reassurance and He just gave it to me!

  • @P.NightmareFilez
    @P.NightmareFilez 3 роки тому +6

    To wait in Gods waiting room is one of the hardest things for me to do..my desire is to be with her Lord but if its not time then I will trust you...my heart aches for her and i will continue to pray for her Lord

  • @theophred001
    @theophred001 3 роки тому +21

    I need this so much right now 💜 thank you! Glory to God

  • @vpichardo63
    @vpichardo63 3 роки тому +20

    Perfect timing God just knew how to reach me

  • @sera.8bomani502
    @sera.8bomani502 3 роки тому +3

    God has a thousand ways to bring people together...we serve an amazing God...

  • @kremchreb9109
    @kremchreb9109 3 роки тому +5

    Hi everyone here God bless u all😍

  • @kimberlyreed3815
    @kimberlyreed3815 3 роки тому +15

    Love this video! Well, I love them all. Just one thing....I’m not sure I believe in the “wrong time” part. God doesn’t just start preparing or putting the 2 He has for each other together when they meet. I believe that process starts long before they meet. God’s timing for ALL things is perfect and I believe in the appointed time for things. While it may appear to us to be wrong timing, when a couple meets, it’s the right time. There may be seeming delays in the couple actually coming together, but God sovereignly orchestrated their meeting at the time they met. That’s just my 2 cents🤷🏽‍♀️.

    • @melissastocking9413
      @melissastocking9413 3 роки тому +5

      I get what you are saying completely. But I look at it more like this, you can meet the one God has for you at any time in your life, but that might not be the time for you all to actually be married. All things happen for a reason. I know it's not a marriage but like when David was anointed to be King years before it happened. I believe that God allows us to see what he has planned for us as a way to encourage us and also so that we know what to prepare ourselves for. Like if he showed me who my husband was I wouldn't waste time dating someone else, I would just take the time to continue developing in him so I'm ready when that time comes. We're the bride of Christ so I need to be a faithful wife to him 1st, then I'll know how to be a faithful wife to my husband. I hope this makes sense to you?

  • @kristabland1657
    @kristabland1657 3 роки тому +15

    I will confess that I may be judging my "Right One" as the wrong one because of the timing when we got together. When I imagined God bringing me my Mr. Right, I imagined my life would be on the up and up and my sudden realization of "There he is, the love of my life!" would be the icing on the cake.
    In reality, my possible Mr. Right was quietly introduced in my life when everything was wrong. Our lives were both at rock bottom. He and I both acknowledged that we had healing to do and we would not be good for each other at the time. We developed a really good friendship during that time that helped the both of us.
    Now looking back, this guy and I are now beginning to live better and richer lives as a result of what I once had believed to be the wrong timing. The story isn't over yet ... God's still saying "Wait" ... but from what I learned so far? What may be considered "wrong timing" in our eyes may be Gods perfect timing. Don't discount God's blessing because it arrived to you under less than ideal circumstances or it didn't play out the way you envisioned it. That's been my understanding. YMMV

  • @MCharlerySmith
    @MCharlerySmith 3 роки тому +14

    Good to not let eagerness become anxiety then despair with a future spouse if it doesn't initially work out. Something about going on your own walk is powerful to reunite later on and be an even stronger couple who knows yourselves and the Lord even better.
    What happened to your "5 Books Which Changed My Life" video, Mark? Where can we watch it again?

  • @mckalejoshvargas8013
    @mckalejoshvargas8013 3 роки тому +3

    True... Just commenting for the algorithm

  • @GraceWaits
    @GraceWaits 6 місяців тому +5

    The person you married isn't always the one God willed for you. God does allow free will.

  • @graceibelegbu189
    @graceibelegbu189 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks Mike.
    I was just thinking about my life & that of my significant other.
    I know God brought us together but it seems bad timing for us financially & careerwise.
    On the other hand, we know this is the time to get married.
    MAY GOD RECEIVE THE GLORY IN OUR UNION!

  • @ropafadzoashelytome9161
    @ropafadzoashelytome9161 3 роки тому +7

    I love this video. I'll always TRUST in YOU LORD.

  • @preachingpoet
    @preachingpoet 3 роки тому +8

    Could it be possible that ‘chemistry’ brings us together prior to the timing GOD has?
    Gods timing: Kairos
    Our timing: Chronos
    The Bible tells us “in all our ways to acknowledge HIM and HE shall direct our path.
    Is there a “wrong time?” Probably not, as you have said Pastor Mark... because GOD has created ALL!
    We are attracted to people in seasons, reasons, lessons blessings...
    But my GOD IS STILL ON THE THRONE!
    Thanks Pastor...

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 роки тому +8

      Yes, God is sovereign! He will accomplish his will!

    • @snford5481
      @snford5481 3 роки тому +1

      Your post sounds like a response I would contribute. God Bless you in your faith journey, sis!

    • @preachingpoet
      @preachingpoet 3 роки тому

      @@snford5481 thank you! 😇

  • @aljonanichtjelena
    @aljonanichtjelena 2 роки тому +1

    This video really gives me hope. (Hope is the only thing I still have.)

  • @oliviae3250
    @oliviae3250 3 роки тому +9

    I feel this could be true me and my husband have been going through a lot of hardships we find that we are to different and we look at life differently this led to many conflicts. But he has helping me be more confident and assertive in myself, sometimes you need to go through hard times with people to make you be the person you truly are

  • @stephanieobasi365
    @stephanieobasi365 2 роки тому +2

    I feel like you just spoke to me. This is my story
    I give glory to God.

  • @hymnsofthefaith1061
    @hymnsofthefaith1061 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for this video, I am looking for a sign because lately I’ve been in a relationship with my churchmate a youth for 10 months and now we want to stop our relationship because it’s wrong before the Lord and it’s not the right time.We both decided to focus on God first and specially to the ministry that God intrusted to us.i'm hoping and praying that after a years God will bring us back to each other in the right time.😊

  • @jowong4698
    @jowong4698 4 місяці тому

    This is what I am going through now. Thank you for this sharing. God bless 😊

  • @freedomeagle8559
    @freedomeagle8559 2 роки тому +4

    Seriously, God I’m sorry, Thank you for correcting me. I will obey

  • @AR-di4ey
    @AR-di4ey 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you... now finally I decided not to take any stress😢 nd give all my pains , Doubts to God hands..My life is in God's hands let him show me right way...now onwards I won't cry thinking about that person much, I will just go to shiva temple nd ask him to show whether this boy is right or not for me...May God bless all of u.. nd wishing God will show me right way..
    Har har mahadev,
    Amen.

  • @kristinaberry3227
    @kristinaberry3227 3 роки тому +5

    My Lord Set the Stage!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @geovanialion5171
    @geovanialion5171 3 роки тому +7

    Right time🙏🏾 God bless you ❤

  • @pjpammyj4037
    @pjpammyj4037 Рік тому +2

    I ask for prayer & discernment concerning this very thing! I hope that my Lord always will keep my husband with me, despite having to separate and possibly divorce because of multi layered problems. Thank you all for praying for Papa n PJ❤

  • @2345Thunder
    @2345Thunder 3 роки тому +9

    Sometimes I feel like people fall too in love with the idea that God cares so much more about what YOU want instead of what you want or what you need.
    Everyone wants someone to love, but what if you die before you ever find them?
    Could that not be in His plan?

  • @301.allday
    @301.allday 3 роки тому +190

    If you meet the right one at the wrong time, God will......
    allow this video to show up in your recommended's

  • @NewBeginningsAmie
    @NewBeginningsAmie 3 роки тому +34

    In the spiritual community this is referred to a twin flame journey. It’s just words, but it all means the same thing. You must better yourself so you two can come together and do gods work. Most people are not fully healed from past relationships to start a new relationship. Relationship problems are actually single people problems that they bring into the relationship.

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 2 роки тому +2

      I need to see this especially the part of not being healed from past relationships sometimes it can take longer than expected to heal 🙏🏾

    • @adfmo2195
      @adfmo2195 2 роки тому +1

      Relationship problems are actually single ppl problems… that is so deep

    • @NewBeginningsAmie
      @NewBeginningsAmie 2 роки тому

      @@adfmo2195 yep. That’s what I preach to my followers

  • @Shirlin_mccarthy
    @Shirlin_mccarthy 3 роки тому +6

    I hope i come back here soon with my testimony of marriage. I know it will encourage a lot of people. I love Jehovah, and i trust he will answer me and bring me peace.

  • @gugulethuskosana8946
    @gugulethuskosana8946 3 роки тому +11

    God bless 🙏🏽from South Africa

  • @kmr1613
    @kmr1613 3 роки тому +12

    Bless you Mark. I'm in a situation like this myself and not sure. This was a very needed message. Thank you! 🙏🏽

  • @truthefish9715
    @truthefish9715 2 роки тому +5

    GOD KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING HALLELUJAH

  • @abbieamavi
    @abbieamavi 2 роки тому +1

    4:12 is a great point!

  • @andreaexceedsrubies
    @andreaexceedsrubies 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you and this is my confirmation. It's the season and we are being prepared in different ways. I am to live my life to the fullest and not keep watching his process.

  • @SuperDachshund
    @SuperDachshund 2 роки тому +1

    It's amazing how detailed, nuanced, and intricate these videos are while still being so relevant to perhaps so many people. More than a few of these videos have described perfectly what I'm going through. I look back and wonder, "How could such an individually nuanced video made for the general public speak so effectively to ME even though I am in an utterly unique situation?" And yet it does. These are not general purpose platitudes in a video package. These are "custom made" scriptures and interpretations made and presented to ME. . .and maybe to you too.

  • @jillwylie6767
    @jillwylie6767 3 роки тому +8

    I know that God's timing is always perfect in all circumstances . Especially when the subject is due to relationship's .

    • @kinghezron09
      @kinghezron09 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah God's timing is always perfect, weve been together for 4 years so many ups nd downs but our love remains together,but now that were both jobless,she left me 😢 i dont understanding evrything im always cry out to god,but thanks to this video i have so many lessons to learn

  • @marieanneroyalty
    @marieanneroyalty 2 роки тому +1

    Wow thanks God for this video,was just waiting for a confirmation, we met at the wrong time, but some day I believe we will be together.. I pray for more clarity from God🙏

  • @marsmallow_17
    @marsmallow_17 3 роки тому +6

    Timely. I can relate to the core....
    This video really speaks to me..

  • @0denzel0
    @0denzel0 2 роки тому +1

    Cool examples given 👍😇 If this story of our path is ever written, it will be a story with magic🥴✨

  • @nsiahpokuah7162
    @nsiahpokuah7162 2 роки тому +3

    When the TIME IS RIGHT , l the LORD will make it happen
    Isaiah 60:22 GOD'S TIME IS ALWAYS RIGHT. As well as his choice. AMEN

  • @whitechicacooks5780
    @whitechicacooks5780 7 місяців тому

    This video hits home! I'm now in a relationship with someone I had barely begun to date over 20yrs ago. Long story, but he was forced to move away with no plans to return, shortly after our relationship started. We got back into contact last May, and we're now beginning to make plans on how to be together, possibly in marriage. In those 20yrs, I've learned so much to help me be more understanding towards the traumas he's been thru. To God be the glory! 🙏🏼❤️

  • @liyemasibizo3529
    @liyemasibizo3529 3 роки тому +8

    Please pray for me I suffer from negative over thinking and I often have Social Phobia, Thanks in advance

  • @lrngMath_com
    @lrngMath_com 7 місяців тому +2

    Lord help me in this time. I need your help. If she is the right one for me, preserve and protect her with your righteous hand. God take care of her.
    - 04/09/24

  • @Christian_Girl120
    @Christian_Girl120 3 роки тому +28

    It's when we try to force things when dating or whatever is when we get into trouble. God won't bring people together if getting married would not be appropriate depending on the individual circumstances. If someone comes out of a marriage due to adultery, God won't bring an adulterous person into your relationship IF you depend on him and his guidance for example.

  • @asenat79
    @asenat79 Рік тому +1

    very needed message... I hope and pray that everything will work out for us...I hope he's feeling the same, but because of the "bad timing" and distance, we can't move forward :-(

    • @user-iz6ik9br5i
      @user-iz6ik9br5i 7 місяців тому +1

      Samee He came into my life without me expecting it, we instantly clicked and we both put God first, he had to leave the country to live back in his hometown and I wanted to separate because it would hurt us badly, we both wanted to be in a relationship together really bad. I don't know if God is going to bring us back together in the future or if he was trying to teach me something. I have no idea God isn't answering my prayers, it felt so right too

    • @asenat79
      @asenat79 7 місяців тому +1

      @@user-iz6ik9br5i I hear you...God is good... let's not lose faith...🙏

  • @barbiejimenezmojica40
    @barbiejimenezmojica40 3 роки тому +3

    God will bring the right person at right time🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @jonshell6588
    @jonshell6588 Рік тому +1

    Yes. Thank you so much to my friends for helping me get my mind straight out because I was in the wrong mindset and I was thinking the wrong way and I didn’t realize it because I just have to feel it with my heart because the right person is in my heart the whole time. Again. Thank you so much.

  • @christianunitedstates6479
    @christianunitedstates6479 3 роки тому +17

    Father God I come to you in the name of Jesus Christ. Lord I ask you for a very special blessing for everyone on this channel that you will give us the desires of our hearts when it comes to having someone very special in our life. Bless everyone who is following you Lord and allow us to be a special blessing to those who may be struggling with who to follow in their lives. Lord Jesus we know that loneliness and isolation is a very powerful tool that Satan loves to use to get a child of God to fall away from you Lord, let this negative tool not to be present among anyone on this channel I ask all of this in the name of Jesus Christ Amen. Bless brother Mark as he continues to share your word with all of us on this channel Amen.⛪⛪✝️✝️🙏🙏👥👥👣👣🌍🌍💯💯👍👍😇😇

    • @hassanatukerrah1505
      @hassanatukerrah1505 2 роки тому +2

      Amen

    • @laetitiai.5062
      @laetitiai.5062 Рік тому +2

      Amen, thank you! May God grant you the same blessings as those you've asked on our behalf, in Jesus mighty name amen!