Reminds me of a quote: “Some people come into your life for a season, and some come for a lifetime. Never mix seasonal people up with lifetime expectations.” Thank you for the reminder, Joey 🤍
@@lucyk2634 True, we don’t know. But I think the point is being able to appreciate the time you had while with them and not cling to people who are no longer intended to be a part of our lives. While understandably difficult, it’s crucial to our well-being to make peace with that.
Absolutely, and I feel like having that happen with 2 of my best friends at the same time (friends who didn’t even know each other) sort of ruined my confidence and trust in friends.
I totally understand this feeling. When you both used to be so close but now you're not even batting an eye to each other. But that's just part of life, some things come and go
im in the same spot. She was the most important person after my mom. I never had the chance to have friends when i was a kid and i had thought that finally i had a group of friends that i could call family. After 10 years and an ugly argument she decided to take distance , super tired of me. Now there's no one. I wonder how are you doing 2 months later.
@@XantaliXim kinda in the same situation i still have people but im losing the connection with my best friend because of diffent interesent i hope your situation gets beter
"People come and some people go, And some people ride to the end." It hurts to lose your best friend but I learnt the hard way that you gotta let go of them because they just don't belong in your life anymore.
It’s not something I did, although kinda is. I’m a distraction. We only speak online, we only can. She messaged me today and gave me all her stuff saying she might leave forever because of her parents forcing her to, or out of guilt for being a ‘bad student’. I immediately panicked. She’s been my best friend, she’s kept me happy, I have nothing else. I have too much things, no ambitions, and I’m left with nothing else in life. I don’t know what’s keeping me to stay here. I really don’t want to. I want a hug.
The worst thing is that I grew up without friends and when god finally game a friend who is the best friend in the whole wide world, he took her away.😢
What’s even worse than seeing your friend everyday to barely is seeing them everyday- and they still choose to ignore and not include you in anything. That’s another form of pain that really hurts, because you slowly realize they hate you.
Wanna know what hurts most seeing your best friend your favourite person in the world having more fun with someone else and being annoyed with you for just talking to them that’s really what hurts and you don’t know why
@@Lumo_boosthe best thing you can do for yourself is accept the reality and move on, as painful as it sounds. The harder we cling the further we push the away, as paradoxical as it sounds. Maybe in time they’ll come back, if you want them back, but you gotta put yourself first before other people. Be strong to! We’re rooting for you!!!
Losing your best friend sucks it's hard to think how life will be without them your mind never stops you listen to everyone around you giving you advise but none of that helps your feeling inside I hope one day I'll find peace and I hope you do too
Looking at a friend who was younger than you that you knew for a long time in a casket and no sign of them there just their body is literally the saddest thing I’ve ever seen and knowing that they didn’t get to achieve their goals or dreams and didn’t get to do the things they wanted to do because they died. That experience that is so extremely painful has changed my life and changed the way I’m living it.
This is exactly how i'm feeling now. After seeing eachother like almost every damn day and if not calling her while doing everything from homework to literally sleeping (i was too scared to sleep alone baha) and now we merely say hi like once every 3 months over text. She's kind of grown and just drifted.
so after almost 14 years of talking everyday, and being called the bestestest friend, on our dream trip she told me I'm not the best friend I'm a part of her bestfriends now. I got emotional, cried a bit, she was surprised i took it that bad. I figured i had to process and understand since having many friends is a good thing for her and it shouldnt mean anything. I just needed some care and love to reaffirm our bond. she cancelled all our plans after the trip in order to just hang out with her other friends... 3 weeks later i asked for a raincheck... she asked for space... I endured for 2 weeks, approached saying its been some time asking how she is. she replied with im good but still need time. I expressed i was extremely confused and in pain, asked if i did something wrong, said I wanted her to be okay, asked what kind of space and for how long... she said "I don't want contact and I don't know for how long" my heart sank and I realized the only way for me to make it through was to take it as face value and see it as our friendship being over and her not existing anymore. I thought for a while what my last words would be and remembered how much i loved her and how much this decade meant to me... and said "take care" not knowing what is going on, feeling replaced and abandoned hurts... a friend thinks im the asshole for reaching out 2 weeks in but... ive spent every waking moment trying to consider her feelings or situation and I don't feel she has done the same for me... having your daily companion wake up one day and decide you are not her best friend and then instead of making you feel secure ask you to leave with no reason at all, is too much... I wish she reaches out and tries to explain or fix something... but I know she already killed something inside me... and that I can't hope... cause if I do I won't be able to endure and move on. I love her... she is the best friend I've ever had. the only relationship with no doubts at all... the one where we promised to share every single issue right away and work on it. and that's gone... she knows me better than anyone... while she has easy nights and fun outings with her friends, she knows im obsessing over every detail trying to figure out what I did wrong... I miss her...
I literally just lost two of my best friends, they told me they wanted to take a break from me. they didn’t tell me why which makes me really pissed but honestly its just giving me lots of mixed emotions. im happy they told me that they wanted to take separate pasts with me because i know I’m not the best person and I’ve been trying to fix it but consistently failing. this will hopefully bring me back to earth and actually help me. but of course I’m upset because I see these people EVERYDAY and I’m sure we will still talk but.. y’know I’m crying myself to sleep rn. another thing is that one of the people I was sure I had a huge crush on, now that we are not friends i finally figured out the crush was platonic, and omfg that’s a relief in the worst way possible. i mean I am still upset about that because idk, I might have had a small crush but it defiantly was not as big as I thought. I am frustrated and angry that I don’t know why but happy they told me and that it’ll help me fix my bad qualities. Im thankful for them even if we are not friends anymore. Sorry but I need to say this. Edit: you made me feel so much better :D thanks
I wish you luck. A similar thing happened to me.. Happened on a Tuesday. The day before we were smiling, happy. Tuesday. She ignores me, for 2 whole days, and just didn’t respond. Apparently she was mad at me, I tried asking her why. Today, day 3, I asked her again. “_____, did I do something to upset you? I’m sorry, but I don’t find it right that you won’t tell me.” “I don’t wanna be your friend anymore.” Why the hell did she do it in such a horrible way. Her other friend texted me saying I was being toxic and just leave her alone, and if I loved her so much then where were you when she’s sad. Well, I was always there. I would listen if she said. I legit was always by her side. I loved her. What a cruel way to end a friendship that started in elementary. I walked home, crying. My nose bled, it started raining. Felt like a dream because of that. Here I am sitting in bed, trying to pull it together so my mother and father don’t ask anything, because if they do… I’ll cry again. I’ve never felt so lost. What a shocker, what a cruel way… what did I do. What could get worse you ask? I had a fucking reoccurring nightmare about something just like this not to long ago. I wanna die, but I know I don’t as-well. She couldn’t even look me in the eyes.
This happened to me today.. I lost my friend group today. They all hated me suddenly my birthday is coming up and I don’t know how I’m gonna face them now, I’m absolutely heartbroken i lost 3 of them and now they are probably gonna convince the other 3 to leave me aswell.. I’m absolutely devastated I’ve tried to forget but I can’t stop crying over them
Im crying right now as i write this because I was just thinking that it is so sad how people dont last forever. I was thinking about my older sister who passed away 2 years ago and a female comedian I loved just died as well (Jeanne Robertson). I guess instead of dwelling on the sad stuff I should thank my heavenly father that I had the opportunity to get to know these people. I also pray that I get many more years with the rest of the people I love . I also hope that I find a life partner as well that I can grow old with. Im tired of being lonely and life feels meaningless if Im alone.
Hey, I'm sorry for your loss❤ I'll pray for you! Keep your head up sweetheart, God has a plan for your life! He walks next to you everywhere you go and He will carry you when you are to exhausted to walk.❤ God is here to comfort you and give you rest.🙏🏽 May God bless you and be with you. May God give you inner peace and rest.🙏🏽💛
What hurts even more is when they've been your best friend, like..some kind of a soulmate and you always got along, supported each other, listened to each other, had fun together and this almost every single day..and then they suddenly disappear from one day to another and their last words were "Let's talk later" and that "later" never happens..
Hey man dont worry you will find some more friends thats gonna be there and stay with you no matter what like this guy said in the video people come into your life for a reason and they leave for a reason . Stay strong okay 🤙
If your friends make you feel paranoid often, paranoid that they will avoid you, or talk behind your back about you, or even make up lies to degrade you behind your back, that is not friendship. People I trusted and was friends with for 15 years, they just betrayed me just like that, because I wasnt happy with my best friends girlfriend, who almost (or possibly) cheated on him and she complains about that best friend. I couldnt sit quietly anymore and confronted her, I knew my friend deserved better than her, someone he can actually trust. Obviously they blew it out of proportion made it seem that I was agressive and lost my mind and just bs. I couldnt believe it, that "best friend" is so worried about losing his girlfriend, that he didnt think twice about forgetting about me, when I never forgot about him when he needed somebody to talk to in his dark times. I was always there for him, even when it was late in the day. This hurt a lot. But I am numb now, I am alone 90-95% of time, I guess my plan is focusing on myself and finding a girlfriend at some point. I dont want to experience this again, I will rather be alone tbh. Hope you guys are staying safe
When we finished middle school everyday after that we grew less and less close I haven’t talked to him in 2 years as of now and we used to call and talk everyday it’s just sad.
Could it be called destiny or fate? Like you meet someone because we were meant to and then once they don’t belong in your life anymore they just kind of disappear out of it and you go through this cycle with every person you meet for your whole life.
My question is why does this always have to happen? So many friendships could be saved if they just talked it out and owned up to their mistakes. Losing friends for no reason just never made sense to me. It’s like, I did absolutely nothing wrong so I don’t see why you’d stop talking to me. Can someone please help me?
Sometimes I just keep on with my daily life since I got used to being without her by my side. But as soon as I start to think... and to remember... no worse even talk about her. I cannot stop and you feel out of place when you remember you’re all by yourself at school or whatever.
It hurts me more cause my family took me out of school and they won’t let me talk to my friends anymore my family said they weren’t real friends I was crushed but I didn’t believe them and now I just wanna cry but I can’t cause my siblings will just say guys don’t cry I just want to see my friends again😢
You are so right cause i am going through this now with a best friend. I moved to Florida Florida 4yrs ago n my best friend put me in a depression now for 4 years 😢😢😢😢 She dont call or answers any of my texts we were like family i miss her 😢 I moved to Florida from Ny for my health, and my daughter to help her with her kids. But my best friend was not happy for me. Life is not easy 😢 Wish i can get out of this depression and be happy again. If anyone know i would love to hear from you 👍
I feel horrible for changing the relationship that I had with a friend and contemplating ending the relationship completely so we can both heal in our own way without having to worry about pressing eachothers traumawounds. Something has happened that triggered them, and nothing that I would try to say would help. As if I said nothing. As if we were both living in two different dimensions. I know it will bring me peace and space to grow. But it still sucks leaving them, "just like that". They don't need to be perfect. I am just tired of the same types of people. I know I still have wounds to heal because of this. It feels like I don't have the right to decide this for myself, while at the same time, I feel it is the right decision to move on, if it seems like we are worlds apart and nothing I say would make a difference, except trigger them.
Man thank you I really needed that because recently I moved away from my friends and I have been crying because I miss them so I really needed that a lot thank 😭❣️
I can totally relate, I was friends with these 3 ppl (they used to talk to me alot) but it just seems like they don't even try even when there not busy at all or something, it just hurts so fricking bad 💔only time they talk to me is if they want something or need something (like using me) now they get mad at me for like childish stuff, so for anyone who is feeling lonely or someone made you deppresed or angry just remember, God loves you, your parents love you, and its perfectly normal for friends to come and go ❤️ I love you so much if your struggling Im your friend and I love you❤️
I had a girl who I want to say didn’t come into my life for any reason. But she was thee epitome of childhood best friend. Told everyone we were bffs. We hung out all the time. Had sleepovers whenever we could. Then she decided she was a popular girl. And I was a nerd. And it broke my heart. I see her and I see this younger girl looking at me laughing as we ate pizza at her house. I talk about losing a bsf in class and she talks to me later and doesn’t seem to realize that the reason it seemed to cause me so much pain was because it was about her! And shs like wan that about this other girl and I wnat to cry as I realize the times we spent together don’t sit in the back of her mind like they do for me😢
Dude, I used to have buddies that carried a lot for me and loved me Now I would give everything Even my life To see them agian I am now in a different country than them but It just hurts man I miss them
I knew her for years I was always there for her, when shes sick i give her advice and take care of her asking abt every detail in her day She told me all her insecurities but i never judged her i was always trying to help her We had a fight because she was replacing me with a new friend she met from a couple of days And still... I was the one who apologized i said sorry i apologize its my fault 8900099 times but she hurted me she was saying that im fake im toxic and im messed up and that she never cared abt me and she cursed me really bad She told everyone abt our fight and she sent her new friends the chat acting like a victim She always cried to me asking why shes unlucky in ever relationship she gets in and she always asks that her friends dont love her I was comforting her always saying that its their fault not hers but deep inside i knew shes the red flag but i never believed I was lying to myself and her changing from a person acting nice for years to a whole new person saying mean things cursing me and dodging my apologies Note: we were in skl together and she never let me walk or talk with anyone but she always did that and i always stood watching her leave me as a backup frnd talking to my biggest enemies but i still tried my best to keep her
Now imagine the only friend you ever had growing up, the person you saw every single day of your life since you were babies kills himself. Now imagine letting it eat you up for 6 years and now you’re a broken person at the very core.
My best friend who goes to a different school might be dying soon, her heart might fail soon and she might die. I'm telling her to stay strong and beat this battle, I know it's tough, but you all need to stay strong. God has a plan for all of you❤🙏
I've known this girl since I was two. We have been friends for several years, but now we have drifted away. I miss her sm and I wish I could speak to her more. I used to talk to her/see her every day and now I talk to her a few times a year..
I lost a friend today because I told my brother that this guy would give me something and that he was really nice and now he’s mad because my brother was being mean to him and he was such an important person in my life I wish I could get him back someday😢
Me and my friend would usually hang out together but since we went to different schools, we don’t see each other much. I’ve only seen him once the entire school year. I try to talk to him but right now, we’ve been texting like once a month a short conversation. We used to FaceTime all the time, we haven’t even FaceTimed each other since December. None of my friends compare to what me and him had in common. Hes a really good friend, I hope me and him can talk to each other before my birthday comes. That’s one of my birthday wishes.
I had a best friend in preschool and we got along really well! Once we got to high school though she started ignoring me and whenever I tried to talk to her she would just walk away. Saddest stuff in my life.
That might be true, but letting go of that best friend when I was the only friend you had is scary it’s hard for me to make friends so all I had was my best friend. But when I wasn’t useful for her, I didn’t have extra money for her, she moved onto her next best friend who could take her out and buy things. I’m having trouble completely letting go that friendship even though I know it’s toxic. Because I don’t wanna be alone.
I understand & you’re right but when you couldn’t have possibly done anything wrong, & you reach out for support, to someone who you forgave for their mistakes, to someone you’ve been friends with your whole life since birth, to someone you thought you could trust & call a brother, & they cut you off for seemingly no reason with no explanation? That’s not okay. I will continue on my path & I will work thru this but it’s still not okay. Sure, maybe I’ll never get closure & I already intuitively called this, but fuck all that. They spit in my face & discarded me like nothing. I know there’s silver lining in this experience & I know I’ll find it eventually, but it still sucks a whole lot. I got this & I’ll be alright. Thanks for the words guys.
My bestest friend ever moved away on November 2023💔 it was heartbreaking to see her go. Saying goodbye to her is like saying goodbye to a chapter of my life😭 Shes the best friend ayone could ever wish for💔 still healing❤️🩹
i feel ya i lost my childhood best friend in this week hes going to a different school but im happy for him but im sad at the same time cause hes my childhood best friend yeah i dont know what to say now so bye and a message to everyone that lost someone everything doesnt stay enjoy it while u can
My best friend is in hospice, at the age of 36, and It’s so difficult to see him going through so much physical and psychological pain. His daughter is only 4 years old. I’m doing my best to stay positive, but it’s not easy. He’s probably the most principled and hardworking person I’ll ever know. My heart goes out to anyone who is unable to be with their best friends. Life goes on, but it’s also ok to grieve meaningful friendships. Tell the people you love how you feel, while you still have the chance, even if it’s awkward or difficult. It’s worth the effort.
been best friends with my girl since 2nd grade, 10th year of friendship and she started hanging out a lot with another girl. she keeps saying that im her #1, but i never hear from her, she wont text me, ask to ghang out anymore, and when i ask her why she says “i just assumed you were going to do this”. the worst part is the girl shes hanging out with has hurt me in ways that were harmful to my mental health, and shes rude to other girls who dont deserve that kind of treatment. I let my best friend know that she was doing these things but she uses the excuse “well shes never done anything bad to me”, which hurts. My other very close friend, when i told her about this other girl, she immediately defended me. She said that if she was mean to me, that meant she was mean to her as well(the close friend). I have grown closer to my close friend and farther from my best because of this. It hurts. A lot. I want to fix it, but if your absense isnt bothering them, you being present wont be important.
I met my best friend (shes also my cousin) when we were 1 and 2 weeks old. Im exactly one week older than her. We didn't go to the same school, but i lived with my grandparents, and she'd get dropped off there everyday after school. I have so many memories with her, when we were little we took random pills we found, we'd have competitions jumping off the swings, we would jump on the trampoline while holding hands and our legs gave out at the same time.. during summer i moved. Now we were 30 minutes away from eachother. During the summer it wasnt bad, theyd come over to help us move, visits to our new community pool.. and then school started, during family gatherings i found out she replaced me with the mean older cousin. The one who made fun of me for skipping a grade, the one who constantly made fun of *us.* Now she wont talk to me. The last time I've really talked to her was during my 12th birthday party in September. (February while writing this). At her birthday, she wouldnt talk to me. Now I'm not too far away from becoming 13- a teenager. I always thought she'd be there for that. Shes in every. Single. One. Of my happy memories. I dont know what to do.
Happened to me. We were friends for 12 years since elementary school and suddenly he broke up contact. He didn’t even give me an explanation, it was just over. It took me like two to three years to overcome this. I never expected it to hurt this bad but it really took me off. We have seen each other every week although we were not in the same school after elementary ended.
Whenever I was either 4 or 3 and little I had my best friend and she was always beside me and she had 2 brothers and now I never get to see her ever again
I had a childhood friend since we were 6 yo, we used to stay together 24/7, we even built a hideout near my house, and there is a word "bouvv" that we used to laugh about it for a reason (a long story about it), and since we hit 16 yo we slowly stopped talking to each other, and we completely stopped at 17 yo. And now i am 22 yo, i took her number from someone in her college, and i texted her "bouvv", she didnt recognize it nor recognized me till i told her my name. And then i realised that she have a boyfriend and whole another life. Its really sad, cause i wanted to express my feelings to her that i love her
Really needed this video. My online best friend and I are still talking but it is clear that the friendship is slowly fading away. At first I thought he was just busy but then I realized he just didn't talk to me anymore.. I ended up being the only one in the friendship sending messages at one point. I did everything in my power to try to re-ignite that friendship but failed time and time again (I may have even made it worse). I tried to force the friendship so much that I almost forgot about any of my other friends. I used to even stay up at night wondering what I did wrong, re-reading old messages to pin-point the moment of breaking, and just kept beating myself up about it and convinving myself that maybe I am just the wost human being on the planet. Turns out he just found other interests than the one that got us together in the first place which naturally led him to people who could support him better. It still hurts so much, I even try to not stay online that much anymore as I get flashbacks of our friendship and stuff. And that hurts, so much. But I gotta move on. thanks for this video.
I see my friends regularly since we go to school together but I cut them off because I was holding them back I cut off most contact and it hurts but I feel like it’s for the better for them and I’d rather them succeed then to stay down here with me
I lost a friend because I cut them off. Because they betrayed me with other people whom they consider their actual friends. Turns out I was just a joke yet I'm so out of their league. Our lifestyles were so different yet I thought it didn't matter. I've always shared my abundant life with them. Always planning on touring places in the world with them each summer break. I've blind loyalty until I saw sth I shouldn't have and the next time they made a joke on me I realized it wasn't funny anymore. Sad they can't rise above their jealousy and insecurity for my life. They're crazy obsessed and knows every one of my family members even before I told them. I thought it was sweet that they would be so invested. Now I just think it's creepy. They've always brought me to my knees when it's sth new I'm trying out. Making fun of it. Yet, I see them stealing my ideas and tagging me got clout. I'm so done. I deserve better than these. And to think I would've done ANYTHING for them clowns. Well, lesson learnt. It's hard to trust anyone when you're born better.🎭🤡🐍I've no friends left. All those years down the drain now. I regret opening up to them esp my "bestfriend" whose in the group. This hurts more than the breakups I've had before. How could I be so blind all this time..
even sadder i had a lot of online friends in an online game but when i quit the game i felt so sad thinking ill never see them again but i still didn't come online but one day curiousity struck me i joined the game expecting nobody to be there yeah nobody was there i felt so sad losing all my friends thinking ill never see them again
I've known my best friend for 11 years, well now we're not really best friends, just friends, and she has a new best friend I know the reason we grew apart was school, we simply went to different grades and didn't have time to hang out, shes now best friends with her classmate and most of the time I really don't mind, it just happened, it's alright, but seeing them have matching outfits or hairstyles just makes me sad sometimes
I've only had 2 best friends, this first one was pretty much my brother, I knew him since I was five and grew up with him, he hung himself when I was 10, that has crushed me for 3 years but then I made another best friend which I thought he would be there for ever but out of know where he blocked me and I found out that he left me for two of his other friends because my cousin told me and he was dating my cousin and like, he didn't say goodbye or anything like litterly it was a nice conversation I was telling him that I had really good grades for the semester and he said he was proud of me then....he just left......
I’ve had this I lost my bestfriend from moving and I cry just thinking about her, it hurts to think a piece of me is looking for her but it knows she won’t come back.and I’ll never see her again.
I am crying so much rn. I have an amazing befriend and we’ve been friends for a long time, and they have taught me so much and I am so grateful for them. But now I feel like they came into my life to teach me what they taught me and now I’m staring to lose them. I don’t want to lose them..I love them..
I'm going thru the same situation, breaking up with my best friend n it really hurts..... I've just gotten done crying about it, but reading thru fhd comments section just re'affirmed me, I'm gonna be fine, eventually It's a process, but, we gonna heal
my best friend since birth started dating my brother. now i see them every day but they always ignore me and act like i’m not even there. even when i’m talking to them they just act like they didn’t hear me
My classmate/bestfriend was like a brother to me and at the end of school and it was his first year in that school but when we met life was good and he said in our school groupchat that hes leaving school
I most forgot tonight why I'm okay with not having friends right now. Friends showed me the kind of relationship I can have with my higher self with me and I found my soulmate, we've been together since 2007 and our love keeps growing. So I think I'm fine where I'm at. Thank you for helping that's what I needed to hear. I almost forgot. I'm gonna go hang with myself now.
this reminds me of my old friend which i won’t say because i respect her privacy. we met in year 2 and in year 6 another one of her friends were bullying me for 2 years. my ex friend knew this but never stood up for me nor helped me. soon i broke and told my teachers and the bully changed but my old friend got mad. she said, “she would’ve gotten an award but now she probably won’t because of you.” i said, “what’s more, my fvcking mental health, or an achievement on a piece of paper?” she changed a lot. she used to encourage me to make edits and now when i tell her i got 100+ views on a video, she didn’t care. i’m still struggling to get over it since we were besties for 4 years. it still breaks my heart to this very day.
I just had to say goodbye to my best friend today, my first best friend ever….It was so difficult because deep down inside I didn’t want to say goodbye but I knew had to. I’ll miss you Jord, thank you for every moment I got to spend with you.
The thing is, I know why I don’t see him anymore. And it’s literally because I wasn’t good enough. He left to go to a different school because he had 1 singular friend there that he liked better than me. He was the most genuine, funny, and caring person I knew and now I don’t know him because I wasn’t good enough. The only time I see him is if we just happen to see each-other at band meetups and then it just kinda seems like he talks to me because he doesn’t know anyone else. I just wish I was better.
This happened to me because of a abused friendship then we took some time apart we remade our friendship just for him to not call back or text or when he did made it clear he didn’t want to hear me I miss end of a 7 year friendship I always thought I’m horrible in someway but no used me for a expensive vacation and just left I still try to talk to him but I think it’s over.
I've known him since 2010. Hes my best friend. Since 2020 he started changing. Leaving then coming back then leaving again. Last time i talked to him was FOUR MONTHS AGO. He wont respond t my messages and wont pick my calls and mind you this is a person i used to talk to EVERY DAY. Cant lie. I'm hurt. Hes got me really fucked up.
I would hang out with my lil bro everyday,until he left 3 years ago and joined the marines😢im happy for my bro,but i remember when we use to go thru some stuff together,we would sometimes sleep all day and be sad with each other.bkuz growing up we always suffered including my parents
Here are some quotes for y’all. “I am Fading away, and no one is noticing” “I want to take a nap, not because I’m tired or sleepy, I just don’t want to be awake” “The worst kind of sad is the one not being able to explain why you are” “I keep a lot to myself, it’s because it’s hard finding someone who understands”
Reminds me of a quote:
“Some people come into your life for a season, and some come for a lifetime. Never mix seasonal people up with lifetime expectations.”
Thank you for the reminder, Joey 🤍
Reminds me of Justin Bieber's song "Lifetime"
and some come for a reason
That's probably the best way to put it. Just let go and give that love that you have, and Live your life to the fullest.
You can't know if they were be seasonal or lifetime.
@@lucyk2634 True, we don’t know. But I think the point is being able to appreciate the time you had while with them and not cling to people who are no longer intended to be a part of our lives. While understandably difficult, it’s crucial to our well-being to make peace with that.
It just hurts … to see them grow distant from you
Absolutely, and I feel like having that happen with 2 of my best friends at the same time (friends who didn’t even know each other) sort of ruined my confidence and trust in friends.
@@summerrose823 ik after i lost my closest friend i just stopped living like stopped being social irl due to worrying abt losing friends again
I totally understand this feeling. When you both used to be so close but now you're not even batting an eye to each other. But that's just part of life, some things come and go
Yea i Just lost my best friend today and im in so much pain and it hurts really bad:(😢
why? what happened? @@Lov3-d2z
it especially hurts when they were the only one
im in the same spot. She was the most important person after my mom. I never had the chance to have friends when i was a kid and i had thought that finally i had a group of friends that i could call family. After 10 years and an ugly argument she decided to take distance , super tired of me. Now there's no one. I wonder how are you doing 2 months later.
@@XantaliXim kinda in the same situation i still have people but im losing the connection with my best friend because of diffent interesent i hope your situation gets beter
"People come and some people go,
And some people ride to the end."
It hurts to lose your best friend but I learnt the hard way that you gotta let go of them because they just don't belong in your life anymore.
It’s not something I did, although kinda is. I’m a distraction. We only speak online, we only can. She messaged me today and gave me all her stuff saying she might leave forever because of her parents forcing her to, or out of guilt for being a ‘bad student’. I immediately panicked. She’s been my best friend, she’s kept me happy, I have nothing else. I have too much things, no ambitions, and I’m left with nothing else in life. I don’t know what’s keeping me to stay here. I really don’t want to. I want a hug.
The worst thing is that I grew up without friends and when god finally game a friend who is the best friend in the whole wide world, he took her away.😢
What’s even worse than seeing your friend everyday to barely is seeing them everyday- and they still choose to ignore and not include you in anything. That’s another form of pain that really hurts, because you slowly realize they hate you.
Been there. I’m not going there again at age 42.
Wanna know what hurts most seeing your best friend your favourite person in the world having more fun with someone else and being annoyed with you for just talking to them that’s really what hurts and you don’t know why
i know that feeling :( i don’t know how to get over it
Same.. is there anything i can do? Im notising im getting replaced😢 i will be left all alone
@@Lumo_boosthe best thing you can do for yourself is accept the reality and move on, as painful as it sounds. The harder we cling the further we push the away, as paradoxical as it sounds.
Maybe in time they’ll come back, if you want them back, but you gotta put yourself first before other people. Be strong to! We’re rooting for you!!!
@@Lumo_boosyou will have new friends. Believe me!
I am experiencing this 😢
Losing your best friend sucks it's hard to think how life will be without them your mind never stops you listen to everyone around you giving you advise but none of that helps your feeling inside I hope one day I'll find peace and I hope you do too
I feel what you feel
9 months on and I still feel the pain every few days I still think about how he did me wrong but some little thing inside me wants to forgive
My best friend died in September he was only 20 , it broke my heart
i start lose it
“Maybe forever is a word meant for memories, not people.”
“The people we meet no matter how good or bad are a lesson. Learn from them”
And you know whats more painful?
To accept they are not longer here in this world..it breaks you differently💔
Looking at a friend who was younger than you that you knew for a long time in a casket and no sign of them there just their body is literally the saddest thing I’ve ever seen and knowing that they didn’t get to achieve their goals or dreams and didn’t get to do the things they wanted to do because they died. That experience that is so extremely painful has changed my life and changed the way I’m living it.
This is exactly how i'm feeling now. After seeing eachother like almost every damn day and if not calling her while doing everything from homework to literally sleeping (i was too scared to sleep alone baha) and now we merely say hi like once every 3 months over text. She's kind of grown and just drifted.
so after almost 14 years of talking everyday, and being called the bestestest friend, on our dream trip she told me I'm not the best friend I'm a part of her bestfriends now. I got emotional, cried a bit, she was surprised i took it that bad. I figured i had to process and understand since having many friends is a good thing for her and it shouldnt mean anything. I just needed some care and love to reaffirm our bond.
she cancelled all our plans after the trip in order to just hang out with her other friends... 3 weeks later i asked for a raincheck...
she asked for space...
I endured for 2 weeks, approached saying its been some time asking how she is.
she replied with im good but still need time.
I expressed i was extremely confused and in pain, asked if i did something wrong, said I wanted her to be okay, asked what kind of space and for how long...
she said "I don't want contact and I don't know for how long"
my heart sank and I realized the only way for me to make it through was to take it as face value and see it as our friendship being over and her not existing anymore.
I thought for a while what my last words would be and remembered how much i loved her and how much this decade meant to me... and said "take care"
not knowing what is going on, feeling replaced and abandoned hurts...
a friend thinks im the asshole for reaching out 2 weeks in but... ive spent every waking moment trying to consider her feelings or situation and I don't feel she has done the same for me...
having your daily companion wake up one day and decide you are not her best friend and then instead of making you feel secure ask you to leave with no reason at all, is too much...
I wish she reaches out and tries to explain or fix something... but I know she already killed something inside me... and that I can't hope... cause if I do I won't be able to endure and move on.
I love her... she is the best friend I've ever had. the only relationship with no doubts at all... the one where we promised to share every single issue right away and work on it.
and that's gone... she knows me better than anyone... while she has easy nights and fun outings with her friends, she knows im obsessing over every detail trying to figure out what I did wrong...
I miss her...
I literally just lost two of my best friends, they told me they wanted to take a break from me. they didn’t tell me why which makes me really pissed but honestly its just giving me lots of mixed emotions. im happy they told me that they wanted to take separate pasts with me because i know I’m not the best person and I’ve been trying to fix it but consistently failing. this will hopefully bring me back to earth and actually help me. but of course I’m upset because I see these people EVERYDAY and I’m sure we will still talk but.. y’know I’m crying myself to sleep rn.
another thing is that one of the people I was sure I had a huge crush on, now that we are not friends i finally figured out the crush was platonic, and omfg that’s a relief in the worst way possible. i mean I am still upset about that because idk, I might have had a small crush but it defiantly was not as big as I thought.
I am frustrated and angry that I don’t know why but happy they told me and that it’ll help me fix my bad qualities.
Im thankful for them even if we are not friends anymore.
Sorry but I need to say this.
Edit: you made me feel so much better :D thanks
I wish you luck. A similar thing happened to me..
Happened on a Tuesday. The day before we were smiling, happy.
Tuesday. She ignores me, for 2 whole days, and just didn’t respond. Apparently she was mad at me, I tried asking her why. Today, day 3, I asked her again. “_____, did I do something to upset you? I’m sorry, but I don’t find it right that you won’t tell me.”
“I don’t wanna be your friend anymore.”
Why the hell did she do it in such a horrible way. Her other friend texted me saying I was being toxic and just leave her alone, and if I loved her so much then where were you when she’s sad.
Well, I was always there. I would listen if she said. I legit was always by her side. I loved her.
What a cruel way to end a friendship that started in elementary.
I walked home, crying. My nose bled, it started raining. Felt like a dream because of that. Here I am sitting in bed, trying to pull it together so my mother and father don’t ask anything, because if they do… I’ll cry again. I’ve never felt so lost. What a shocker, what a cruel way… what did I do.
What could get worse you ask? I had a fucking reoccurring nightmare about something just like this not to long ago. I wanna die, but I know I don’t as-well.
She couldn’t even look me in the eyes.
@@bunnyaika2278I’m.. so sorry
This happened to me today.. I lost my friend group today. They all hated me suddenly my birthday is coming up and I don’t know how I’m gonna face them now, I’m absolutely heartbroken i lost 3 of them and now they are probably gonna convince the other 3 to leave me aswell.. I’m absolutely devastated I’ve tried to forget but I can’t stop crying over them
Im crying right now as i write this because I was just thinking that it is so sad how people dont last forever. I was thinking about my older sister who passed away 2 years ago and a female comedian I loved just died as well (Jeanne Robertson). I guess instead of dwelling on the sad stuff I should thank my heavenly father that I had the opportunity to get to know these people. I also pray that I get many more years with the rest of the people I love . I also hope that I find a life partner as well that I can grow old with. Im tired of being lonely and life feels meaningless if Im alone.
Hey, I'm sorry for your loss❤ I'll pray for you!
Keep your head up sweetheart, God has a plan for your life! He walks next to you everywhere you go and He will carry you when you are to exhausted to walk.❤
God is here to comfort you and give you rest.🙏🏽
May God bless you and be with you. May God give you inner peace and rest.🙏🏽💛
What hurts even more is when they've been your best friend, like..some kind of a soulmate and you always got along, supported each other, listened to each other, had fun together and this almost every single day..and then they suddenly disappear from one day to another and their last words were "Let's talk later" and that "later" never happens..
That brought a tear to my eye
What a beautiful way to remind myself. Thank you
it just hurts so bad. she found a guy and now i just dont exist anymore.
Hey man dont worry you will find some more friends thats gonna be there and stay with you no matter what like this guy said in the video people come into your life for a reason and they leave for a reason . Stay strong okay 🤙
Happens to alot of us Izzy, guy or girl.
That sucks. I would never ditch good friends for a new relationship.
If your friends make you feel paranoid often, paranoid that they will avoid you, or talk behind your back about you, or even make up lies to degrade you behind your back, that is not friendship. People I trusted and was friends with for 15 years, they just betrayed me just like that, because I wasnt happy with my best friends girlfriend, who almost (or possibly) cheated on him and she complains about that best friend. I couldnt sit quietly anymore and confronted her, I knew my friend deserved better than her, someone he can actually trust. Obviously they blew it out of proportion made it seem that I was agressive and lost my mind and just bs. I couldnt believe it, that "best friend" is so worried about losing his girlfriend, that he didnt think twice about forgetting about me, when I never forgot about him when he needed somebody to talk to in his dark times. I was always there for him, even when it was late in the day. This hurt a lot. But I am numb now, I am alone 90-95% of time, I guess my plan is focusing on myself and finding a girlfriend at some point. I dont want to experience this again, I will rather be alone tbh. Hope you guys are staying safe
you know what’s more sad…seeing your best friend every day but they move away and never see them again…
happened to me :(
Like they say “ the more you know them the harder it gets to say goodbye.”
True
When we finished middle school everyday after that we grew less and less close I haven’t talked to him in 2 years as of now and we used to call and talk everyday it’s just sad.
Could it be called destiny or fate? Like you meet someone because we were meant to and then once they don’t belong in your life anymore they just kind of disappear out of it and you go through this cycle with every person you meet for your whole life.
My question is why does this always have to happen? So many friendships could be saved if they just talked it out and owned up to their mistakes. Losing friends for no reason just never made sense to me. It’s like, I did absolutely nothing wrong so I don’t see why you’d stop talking to me. Can someone please help me?
I wish I would know the answer. It’s weird.
The worst is when you loose your friend forever (RIP my bro 😔)
It hurts more when you realize they’re not happy for you so it’s better to grow apart.
One thing:
When seeing your best friend everyday goes from the best thing to the worst.
I lost my best friend today..... U have helped me with ur words thanks😊
Sometimes I just keep on with my daily life since I got used to being without her by my side. But as soon as I start to think... and to remember... no worse even talk about her. I cannot stop and you feel out of place when you remember you’re all by yourself at school or whatever.
It hurts me more cause my family took me out of school and they won’t let me talk to my friends anymore my family said they weren’t real friends I was crushed but I didn’t believe them and now I just wanna cry but I can’t cause my siblings will just say guys don’t cry I just want to see my friends again😢
I am still naive and think friends will stay friends forever, loneliness is worse then toxic friendships to me.
Thank u joey.. I just lost her yesterday, yeah it was my fault, I apologise her but she’s not understanding. I think this is the end
❤❤❤
Same 😞
Does it get better? I lost my bestfriend feel lonely as ever with no one to talk to sad all day
@@tejpatel6690 it gets better, and you’ll get through it - sending all love ❤️
It wasn't my fault but I apologized
She cursed me and said mean things and really really bad words even though I knew her for years
Ive been seeing my friend my whole life in school. The worst thing is that he's slowly getting pulled towards my other close friends.
You are so right cause i am going through this now with a best friend. I moved to Florida Florida 4yrs ago n my best friend put me in a depression now for 4 years 😢😢😢😢
She dont call or answers any of my texts we were like family i miss her 😢
I moved to Florida from Ny for my health, and my daughter to help her with her kids.
But my best friend was not happy for me.
Life is not easy 😢
Wish i can get out of this depression and be happy again. If anyone know i would love to hear from you 👍
I get you man my friend used to always call me and All the sudden he moved to a military school and he ghosted me for 3 months
My best friend just moved away and it just feels like everyone’s been leaving me, but this made me kind of happy and I actually cried
This Make Me Cry Because I Lost A Friend I Make A Bad Mistake And Lost Her😭
I feel horrible for changing the relationship that I had with a friend and contemplating ending the relationship completely so we can both heal in our own way without having to worry about pressing eachothers traumawounds. Something has happened that triggered them, and nothing that I would try to say would help. As if I said nothing. As if we were both living in two different dimensions. I know it will bring me peace and space to grow. But it still sucks leaving them, "just like that". They don't need to be perfect. I am just tired of the same types of people. I know I still have wounds to heal because of this. It feels like I don't have the right to decide this for myself, while at the same time, I feel it is the right decision to move on, if it seems like we are worlds apart and nothing I say would make a difference, except trigger them.
Man thank you I really needed that because recently I moved away from my friends and I have been crying because I miss them so I really needed that a lot thank 😭❣️
Joey you never fail to make me feel better and take away my depression
I can totally relate, I was friends with these 3 ppl (they used to talk to me alot) but it just seems like they don't even try even when there not busy at all or something, it just hurts so fricking bad 💔only time they talk to me is if they want something or need something (like using me) now they get mad at me for like childish stuff, so for anyone who is feeling lonely or someone made you deppresed or angry just remember, God loves you, your parents love you, and its perfectly normal for friends to come and go ❤️ I love you so much if your struggling Im your friend and I love you❤️
I just started crying so hard my best friend left me today and I really need this thank you
I had a girl who I want to say didn’t come into my life for any reason. But she was thee epitome of childhood best friend. Told everyone we were bffs. We hung out all the time. Had sleepovers whenever we could. Then she decided she was a popular girl. And I was a nerd. And it broke my heart. I see her and I see this younger girl looking at me laughing as we ate pizza at her house. I talk about losing a bsf in class and she talks to me later and doesn’t seem to realize that the reason it seemed to cause me so much pain was because it was about her! And shs like wan that about this other girl and I wnat to cry as I realize the times we spent together don’t sit in the back of her mind like they do for me😢
Dude, I used to have buddies that carried a lot for me and loved me
Now I would give everything
Even my life
To see them agian
I am now in a different country than them but
It just hurts man
I miss them
I had a friend i loved to hang out with and she moved away but she came back but left for good.. . 😢
I knew her for years
I was always there for her, when shes sick i give her advice and take care of her asking abt every detail in her day
She told me all her insecurities but i never judged her i was always trying to help her
We had a fight because she was replacing me with a new friend she met from a couple of days
And still... I was the one who apologized i said sorry i apologize its my fault 8900099 times but she hurted me she was saying that im fake im toxic and im messed up and that she never cared abt me and she cursed me really bad
She told everyone abt our fight and she sent her new friends the chat acting like a victim
She always cried to me asking why shes unlucky in ever relationship she gets in and she always asks that her friends dont love her
I was comforting her always saying that its their fault not hers but deep inside i knew shes the red flag but i never believed
I was lying to myself and her changing from a person acting nice for years to a whole new person saying mean things cursing me and dodging my apologies
Note: we were in skl together and she never let me walk or talk with anyone but she always did that and i always stood watching her leave me as a backup frnd talking to my biggest enemies but i still tried my best to keep her
Loosing my buddies I’m Animal jam is sad it makes me want to cry that can’t even stop thinking about them it’s just sad 😭
Now imagine the only friend you ever had growing up, the person you saw every single day of your life since you were babies kills himself. Now imagine letting it eat you up for 6 years and now you’re a broken person at the very core.
My best friend who goes to a different school might be dying soon, her heart might fail soon and she might die. I'm telling her to stay strong and beat this battle, I know it's tough, but you all need to stay strong. God has a plan for all of you❤🙏
I've known this girl since I was two. We have been friends for several years, but now we have drifted away. I miss her sm and I wish I could speak to her more. I used to talk to her/see her every day and now I talk to her a few times a year..
when you stopped talking for a while.. you try to spark up a conversation but they block you.... i still miss him ngl
Thank you for this video. I needed that ❤
I lost a friend today because I told my brother that this guy would give me something and that he was really nice and now he’s mad because my brother was being mean to him and he was such an important person in my life I wish I could get him back someday😢
Me and my friend would usually hang out together but since we went to different schools, we don’t see each other much. I’ve only seen him once the entire school year. I try to talk to him but right now, we’ve been texting like once a month a short conversation. We used to FaceTime all the time, we haven’t even FaceTimed each other since December. None of my friends compare to what me and him had in common. Hes a really good friend, I hope me and him can talk to each other before my birthday comes. That’s one of my birthday wishes.
Same thing happening to me I was friends with them for 7 yrs they are starting to talk to me less 😢
I had a best friend in preschool and we got along really well! Once we got to high school though she started ignoring me and whenever I tried to talk to her she would just walk away. Saddest stuff in my life.
That might be true, but letting go of that best friend when I was the only friend you had is scary it’s hard for me to make friends so all I had was my best friend. But when I wasn’t useful for her, I didn’t have extra money for her, she moved onto her next best friend who could take her out and buy things. I’m having trouble completely letting go that friendship even though I know it’s toxic. Because I don’t wanna be alone.
That happened to me today, but y'know what that taught me?
Don't depend your entire happiness on that person, you'll regret it if they're gone..
I understand & you’re right but when you couldn’t have possibly done anything wrong, & you reach out for support, to someone who you forgave for their mistakes, to someone you’ve been friends with your whole life since birth, to someone you thought you could trust & call a brother, & they cut you off for seemingly no reason with no explanation? That’s not okay. I will continue on my path & I will work thru this but it’s still not okay. Sure, maybe I’ll never get closure & I already intuitively called this, but fuck all that. They spit in my face & discarded me like nothing. I know there’s silver lining in this experience & I know I’ll find it eventually, but it still sucks a whole lot. I got this & I’ll be alright. Thanks for the words guys.
My bestest friend ever moved away on November 2023💔 it was heartbreaking to see her go. Saying goodbye to her is like saying goodbye to a chapter of my life😭
Shes the best friend ayone could ever wish for💔 still healing❤️🩹
i feel ya i lost my childhood best friend in this week hes going to a different school but im happy for him but im sad at the same time cause hes my childhood best friend yeah i dont know what to say now so bye and a message to everyone that lost someone everything doesnt stay enjoy it while u can
You know whats worse٫having one of your most strong friedships leave you for 4 years to move to tennesee.😢
My best friend is in hospice, at the age of 36, and It’s so difficult to see him going through so much physical and psychological pain. His daughter is only 4 years old. I’m doing my best to stay positive, but it’s not easy. He’s probably the most principled and hardworking person I’ll ever know.
My heart goes out to anyone who is unable to be with their best friends. Life goes on, but it’s also ok to grieve meaningful friendships. Tell the people you love how you feel, while you still have the chance, even if it’s awkward or difficult. It’s worth the effort.
This whole video describes my life I have had many unhealthy friendships and I am down to 1 loyal friend
You know what’s worse. Loosing them.. I’m not crying you are.😢
been best friends with my girl since 2nd grade, 10th year of friendship and she started hanging out a lot with another girl. she keeps saying that im her #1, but i never hear from her, she wont text me, ask to ghang out anymore, and when i ask her why she says “i just assumed you were going to do this”. the worst part is the girl shes hanging out with has hurt me in ways that were harmful to my mental health, and shes rude to other girls who dont deserve that kind of treatment. I let my best friend know that she was doing these things but she uses the excuse “well shes never done anything bad to me”, which hurts. My other very close friend, when i told her about this other girl, she immediately defended me. She said that if she was mean to me, that meant she was mean to her as well(the close friend). I have grown closer to my close friend and farther from my best because of this. It hurts. A lot. I want to fix it, but if your absense isnt bothering them, you being present wont be important.
I met my best friend (shes also my cousin) when we were 1 and 2 weeks old. Im exactly one week older than her. We didn't go to the same school, but i lived with my grandparents, and she'd get dropped off there everyday after school. I have so many memories with her, when we were little we took random pills we found, we'd have competitions jumping off the swings, we would jump on the trampoline while holding hands and our legs gave out at the same time.. during summer i moved. Now we were 30 minutes away from eachother. During the summer it wasnt bad, theyd come over to help us move, visits to our new community pool.. and then school started, during family gatherings i found out she replaced me with the mean older cousin. The one who made fun of me for skipping a grade, the one who constantly made fun of *us.* Now she wont talk to me. The last time I've really talked to her was during my 12th birthday party in September. (February while writing this). At her birthday, she wouldnt talk to me. Now I'm not too far away from becoming 13- a teenager. I always thought she'd be there for that. Shes in every. Single. One. Of my happy memories. I dont know what to do.
You know what really sucks? Losing your best friend that you've had ever since you were a kid.
Happened to me. We were friends for 12 years since elementary school and suddenly he broke up contact. He didn’t even give me an explanation, it was just over. It took me like two to three years to overcome this. I never expected it to hurt this bad but it really took me off. We have seen each other every week although we were not in the same school after elementary ended.
Whenever I was either 4 or 3 and little I had my best friend and she was always beside me and she had 2 brothers and now I never get to see her ever again
I feel this and it hurts.
I had a childhood friend since we were 6 yo, we used to stay together 24/7, we even built a hideout near my house, and there is a word "bouvv" that we used to laugh about it for a reason (a long story about it), and since we hit 16 yo we slowly stopped talking to each other, and we completely stopped at 17 yo. And now i am 22 yo, i took her number from someone in her college, and i texted her "bouvv", she didnt recognize it nor recognized me till i told her my name. And then i realised that she have a boyfriend and whole another life. Its really sad, cause i wanted to express my feelings to her that i love her
This really helped me get through some tough times between me and my friends. Thank you
That happened to me and we recently saw each other after 9 YEARS
Really needed this video.
My online best friend and I are still talking but it is clear that the friendship is slowly fading away. At first I thought he was just busy but then I realized he just didn't talk to me anymore..
I ended up being the only one in the friendship sending messages at one point.
I did everything in my power to try to re-ignite that friendship but failed time and time again (I may have even made it worse). I tried to force the friendship so much that I almost forgot about any of my other friends. I used to even stay up at night wondering what I did wrong, re-reading old messages to pin-point the moment of breaking, and just kept beating myself up about it and convinving myself that maybe I am just the wost human being on the planet.
Turns out he just found other interests than the one that got us together in the first place which naturally led him to people who could support him better.
It still hurts so much, I even try to not stay online that much anymore as I get flashbacks of our friendship and stuff. And that hurts, so much.
But I gotta move on.
thanks for this video.
I see my friends regularly since we go to school together but I cut them off because I was holding them back I cut off most contact and it hurts but I feel like it’s for the better for them and I’d rather them succeed then to stay down here with me
I lost a friend because I cut them off. Because they betrayed me with other people whom they consider their actual friends. Turns out I was just a joke yet I'm so out of their league. Our lifestyles were so different yet I thought it didn't matter. I've always shared my abundant life with them. Always planning on touring places in the world with them each summer break. I've blind loyalty until I saw sth I shouldn't have and the next time they made a joke on me I realized it wasn't funny anymore. Sad they can't rise above their jealousy and insecurity for my life. They're crazy obsessed and knows every one of my family members even before I told them. I thought it was sweet that they would be so invested. Now I just think it's creepy. They've always brought me to my knees when it's sth new I'm trying out. Making fun of it. Yet, I see them stealing my ideas and tagging me got clout. I'm so done. I deserve better than these. And to think I would've done ANYTHING for them clowns. Well, lesson learnt. It's hard to trust anyone when you're born better.🎭🤡🐍I've no friends left. All those years down the drain now. I regret opening up to them esp my "bestfriend" whose in the group. This hurts more than the breakups I've had before. How could I be so blind all this time..
even sadder i had a lot of online friends in an online game but when i quit the game i felt so sad thinking ill never see them again but i still didn't come online but one day curiousity struck me i joined the game expecting nobody to be there yeah nobody was there i felt so sad losing all my friends thinking ill never see them again
long story short i lost all my friends
Bro, all I can say is thank you. Because I lost my best friend and almost became depressed, but now i have a better new on it, thank you...
My best friend left me and went back to her country after high school and I haven't seen or heard from her since. 😢
The fact I cried when I watched this❤
I've known my best friend for 11 years, well now we're not really best friends, just friends, and she has a new best friend
I know the reason we grew apart was school, we simply went to different grades and didn't have time to hang out, shes now best friends with her classmate and most of the time I really don't mind, it just happened, it's alright, but seeing them have matching outfits or hairstyles just makes me sad sometimes
my best friend now lives 21 hours away from me by plane..i miss him sm :(
I've only had 2 best friends, this first one was pretty much my brother, I knew him since I was five and grew up with him, he hung himself when I was 10, that has crushed me for 3 years but then I made another best friend which I thought he would be there for ever but out of know where he blocked me and I found out that he left me for two of his other friends because my cousin told me and he was dating my cousin and like, he didn't say goodbye or anything like litterly it was a nice conversation I was telling him that I had really good grades for the semester and he said he was proud of me then....he just left......
I needed this
I’ve had this I lost my bestfriend from moving and I cry just thinking about her, it hurts to think a piece of me is looking for her but it knows she won’t come back.and I’ll never see her again.
Thanks I needed that
I am crying so much rn. I have an amazing befriend and we’ve been friends for a long time, and they have taught me so much and I am so grateful for them. But now I feel like they came into my life to teach me what they taught me and now I’m staring to lose them. I don’t want to lose them..I love them..
I'm going thru the same situation, breaking up with my best friend n it really hurts..... I've just gotten done crying about it, but reading thru fhd comments section just re'affirmed me, I'm gonna be fine, eventually
It's a process, but, we gonna heal
my best friend since birth started dating my brother. now i see them every day but they always ignore me and act like i’m not even there. even when i’m talking to them they just act like they didn’t hear me
Sorry to hear that
That's just sad unfortunately:(
You know what the saddest shit is, being one in a billion to that person turns into being just one in a billion
My classmate/bestfriend was like a brother to me and at the end of school and it was his first year in that school but when we met life was good and he said in our school groupchat that hes leaving school
I most forgot tonight why I'm okay with not having friends right now. Friends showed me the kind of relationship I can have with my higher self with me and I found my soulmate, we've been together since 2007 and our love keeps growing. So I think I'm fine where I'm at. Thank you for helping that's what I needed to hear. I almost forgot. I'm gonna go hang with myself now.
this reminds me of my old friend which i won’t say because i respect her privacy. we met in year 2 and in year 6 another one of her friends were bullying me for 2 years. my ex friend knew this but never stood up for me nor helped me. soon i broke and told my teachers and the bully changed but my old friend got mad. she said, “she would’ve gotten an award but now she probably won’t because of you.” i said, “what’s more, my fvcking mental health, or an achievement on a piece of paper?” she changed a lot. she used to encourage me to make edits and now when i tell her i got 100+ views on a video, she didn’t care. i’m still struggling to get over it since we were besties for 4 years. it still breaks my heart to this very day.
I just had to say goodbye to my best friend today, my first best friend ever….It was so difficult because deep down inside I didn’t want to say goodbye but I knew had to. I’ll miss you Jord, thank you for every moment I got to spend with you.
The thing is, I know why I don’t see him anymore. And it’s literally because I wasn’t good enough. He left to go to a different school because he had 1 singular friend there that he liked better than me. He was the most genuine, funny, and caring person I knew and now I don’t know him because I wasn’t good enough. The only time I see him is if we just happen to see each-other at band meetups and then it just kinda seems like he talks to me because he doesn’t know anyone else. I just wish I was better.
This happened to me because of a abused friendship then we took some time apart we remade our friendship just for him to not call back or text or when he did made it clear he didn’t want to hear me I miss end of a 7 year friendship I always thought I’m horrible in someway but no used me for a expensive vacation and just left I still try to talk to him but I think it’s over.
I've known him since 2010. Hes my best friend. Since 2020 he started changing. Leaving then coming back then leaving again. Last time i talked to him was FOUR MONTHS AGO. He wont respond t my messages and wont pick my calls and mind you this is a person i used to talk to EVERY DAY. Cant lie. I'm hurt. Hes got me really fucked up.
I would hang out with my lil bro everyday,until he left 3 years ago and joined the marines😢im happy for my bro,but i remember when we use to go thru some stuff together,we would sometimes sleep all day and be sad with each other.bkuz growing up we always suffered including my parents
it hurt more when he replaces you with a better friend and u will be left out. it hurt more than a break up
I lost my best friend too.I can't imagin how my life dropped down after this lose. I no longer that person I used to be preior to his death.
Here are some quotes for y’all. “I am Fading away, and no one is noticing” “I want to take a nap, not because I’m tired or sleepy, I just don’t want to be awake” “The worst kind of sad is the one not being able to explain why you are” “I keep a lot to myself, it’s because it’s hard finding someone who understands”