I wish my dad would have fought for 50% of custody of me!!!! You’re an amazing dad- DONT EVER STOP FIGHTING FOR THEM!!! They NEED their dad in their life 24-7
BE SMART FRANK, YOU NEED TO FILE FOR DIVORCE BEFORE RACHEL DOES, ITS NOT WHAT YOU WANT BUT IT WILL BE BEST TO PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN. ,,, THEN YOU WONT HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING BAD AND NOT FEEL GUILTY BECAUSE SHE WILL FILE EVENTUALLY, BE SMART FRANK FILE FIRST.
Make sure to let the judge know that she prevented you from taking the children to their grandfather's funeral....that is kind of important... It's important that NOW for your kids that if she's done stuff in relation to the kids, you seeing the kids....that you say so. Don't make anything up, but do not fail to tell the truth to the judge. Anything outside of the welfare of the kids and custody arrangements, if you don 't want to say...I get it. But the custody and visitation of your kids is of prime importance, not only for your good, but for theirs as well. They need their father.
Also, when I left my kid's dad I received one of the, it turns out, most important pieces of advise for the situation, and I'll share it with you. Don't talk down their mother within their hearing, try not to fight with her in front of them- when appropriate and doable, support her parenting with them- otherwise say nothing to them negative other than maybe, if they bring it to you, you'll speak to their mom about it, they will figure out who and what she is (if any particular thing) as they grow, they don't need your help or point of view for that. It does no good and will harm your children as they know that they are a part of her as much as you- and if you make her bad, somehow that means that they are bad and that is too much to take on as a child, that's an adult task. Don't do it. Be as kind to her as you can stand, they'll see that and it will matter. I took this advice with my situation and my kids grew, and they figured out stuff, and they then met him as adults after he abandoned them....and then came to me and said...oh yeah, I see why we left- good on you mom, and lost interest in him entirely....all without being pressured or made to feel any worse. He had cooked his own goose. I just raised them to be smart, good people and they came to it in their own time. And I was confirmed and justified on that day by the most important people in my life- my kids. Sending love and support Frank (of a sisterly kind of course)..
Great advice. My parents divorced when I was 2. Long long story but here's the short of it all. My mother encouraged visitation with my dad. Even though he didn't ever pay child support to her. She still encouraged the visits. He rarely showed. Or even cancelled or no show as I'm a little girl standing at the door waiting for him only you never show. My mom had every reason to bad mouth him. Never did she. She let me see what he was all on my own without any influence of her opinion of him. I hold her high for doing that. That makes her a loving strong mother and woman.
@@WindsofChange Well stated! King Frank you can do this! Unfortunately NOW YOU HAVE TO FIGHT FOR THOSE BABIES FRANK! BEFORE SHE SAYS LOOK HE DIDN'T EVEN WANT TO FILE FOR CUSTODY OR HE WOULD HAVE ECT! SHE CAN TWIST THINGS UP FAST!!!! And could Make it seem like, IN A VENGEFUL WAY!! PLEASE STAY GUARDED, DON'T UNDERESTMATE HER, OR HER FAMILY TO LIE FOR HER SOME MORE PLEASE FRANK!!! You have to fight for YOUR BABIES FRANK! I'm so so sorry for your Losses! And such at a messed up time the way it's all gone down! Frank you deserve so much better. So strap that belt on darling ! Fight for YOUR kids, Fight for All your Property an businesses!! I know this is the last thing you wanted to hear or do darling. Your in my prayers FRANK! Keep your head up Frank!✌🏽stay safe y'all ..
No One Will Ever Understand What OTHERS Go Thru , Untill It Happens To You. I Thought My Heart WAS Never Going To Heal. BUT God Helped Me.This Tooo Shall Pass .
Frank, I have to truthful with you! I mean and say this with respect. You better grow a backbone, or find your backbone again, concerning Rachael real damn fast for your kids and this custody hearing! For YOUR KIDS SAKE AND THEIR WELL-BEING! Your kids and Rachael are completely two different subjects now! I hope you do the right thing for those children.
Prepare yourself Frank, if you have ammo use it, knowing from experience she will use all that she has. Very hurtful and spiteful that kids may not be there for your father's funeral, that's just cruel, that aside I hope the day goes well. Again, get prepared, hang in there, it could be a bumpy ride king.
God love you. My Dad whom shares my name, passed away 11 years ago & my Step dad this year 18 years ago. & just 7 months ago she passed. To them all rest in peace and to your people rip.so sorry for your loss...
Frank, you said after custody is determined, you will be able to pick the kids up when it's scheduled and not have to deal with Rachael anymore. "I can pretty much block her number and show up when I need to." Frank, you absolutely cannot block her number. By law, the other parent must have your current address, employment and phone number. It is imperative that you do not fight about the kids. Take it from a child of divorce, I had absolutely no respect for my mom. Specifically because by mom always talked sh** about my dad. My dad never said a bad word about her. I respected him so much for that and it made me feel very loved.
12:56 NOT ME SCREAMING OUT LOUD LOL When Frank said he's excepting applications😮 I almost lost it ❤ 🤣 This is a big step y’all! First a haircut & I see you are joking around a little bit more. It’s gonna get a little bit better every day for you friend. I just feel it! 🙌🏾 I think you low-key have been mentally preparing name for this. It’s just here now and it’s like fuck! I know it’s so hard. I’ve been there😞 it’s gonna get better💜🙏🏾 Sidenote, we have the same last name🤣
Frank I understand exactly what you’re feeling and going through. My divorce was final 3 years ago now and I’m still dealing with my feelings, but please take my advice and get yourself a good attorney. These feelings you’re going through right now are going to start to change and anger is going to come. I have a feeling those feelings are coming sooner than you may think, please do yourself and your children a favor and get an attorney. She’s got $$ signs in her eyes you can best count on that. Protect yourself, get an attorney!!
Frank, Remember God puts us in positions that he knows is where we belong.He will Never give us to much and leave us on our own.Stay strong-walk by your Faith not by sight💙,This too SHALL PASS- God Bless You🙏🩵
You are a kind soul. If ever you need a Shield up it’s NOW. Please just be honest about you and your kids. You’re a great dad and a provider. I respect you don’t want a D. I wouldn’t either. I’m praying for you all. I hope she can see how much you love her and family.
FRANKIE? GO TO THE LORD MY BROTHER. PUT YOUR ENTIRE TRUST IN HIM AND HE'LL DELIVER YOU FROM 💯 ALL THE EVIL THAT SHE'S 😈 DOING TO YOU. I LOVE YOU, MY BROTHER.
Frank I was with my husband from 17-58...he passed unexpectedly April 26th..we had ups and downs as marriage is tough...I understand what you are going thru ....I can tell you that death is worse than what you are experiencing...she is still alive and in time I think you will be friends...Anyhow, I suggest you only answer whatever is asked..do not volunteer anything negative...the judge will be fair ... You have got this...this too shall pass...do not get involved with anyone until you heal ..it will compound your problem
He needs real legal advice …. If you think she’s not gonna go in there and throw dirt on him, you’re most likely mistaken & have never been through a custody battle !!!
Your at the "Fake it till you feel it" stage i think. Praying for You & your Kids. Condolences again for your Father. Keep strong & keep fighting, Frank you got this! Nice to see the little laugh at the end!
Ive Been Where Your At , It Hurts My Heart To See What Your Going Thru. I'm Here For You Always. LIKE I Told You Before For Me It Wasn't 1 Day At A Time It Was Every 5 Mins COUNTED , You Got This.❤
💯 yes need to be defensive in the best interest of the children! Praying they are in counseling/seeing a therapist so that can cope with these life changes. 🙏🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
sad to hear she wouldn’t let u take them to the funeral when your children can comfort you. I pray you heal and that God has his hand over your life and family this year.
You sound a little better Frank. There's no rushing healing and sometimes it never comes it only scars and that takes the sting out at least. Just facts.
Sir, right now you need to know what the Judge think of you. You need to get ready for custody hearings. You are righteous, but you need to present your case and your position in the Court. Rachel is not listening to you unfortunately (that's her right). But you need the ear of the Judge. Show proof that you paid for all the bills. That no Police reports made against you for domestic violence. That you have the means to provide financially for your children. Show photographs.of your house, that it is safe, orderly and conducive for children. If you are accused of adultery, ask for evidence.
Frank I read a lot of these comments & I have to say I disagree with what some say. I understand it comes with caring about you & your family, but in my opinion it’s simply poor guidance. Custody can become extremely ugly & only bring pain & sorrow to mom, dad & children. I understand bc I’ve been there. What we have to remember is our children did not ask to be brought into this world or put through the situations we’ve brought them into. We have to remember to put our own feelings aside no matter how hard that is and put their feelings first. There is nothing more precious in this world than our children. I like you was bound and determined not to trash my daughter‘s father in court. I will never regret this choice. I know I am better than that. I never want to become the kind of person that will run someone else over to simply benefit myself. I see you as being the same kind of person. There is no point in trashing your children’s mother. Our country has become “it’s all about me” rather than “all for one and one for all”. People are too quick to leave their families and just move on to a new one. What has this done to our children? They’re growing up with no values while being bounced around from home to home with no consistency. Our children are turning to alcohol and drugs to numb their pain. When we honestly ask ourselves who caused this pain, the only answer is we did. We are their providers, mentors, and support system. We are failing as a society. I love that your supporters want to help you, but remember they don’t walk in your shoes you do. Take all the time you need to grieve your family’s loss and allow yourself to heal before you ever think about moving on. You and your children deserve that. I vowed to my daughter that I would never bring a boyfriend or stepfather into her life until she was at least 18 years old. I vowed to devote all I was to her and her alone. Again, I have never regretted this decision. She needed to come first in my life. She deserve that. Only you can make the appropriate decisions on behalf of you and your family. No one else. Rely alone on God to guide you. As always, I am praying for you all. Much love to all of you, including Rachel.
Absolutely agree! Dating, or getting into a new relationship now or in the near future should be the last thing on his mind. It will break the kids hearts to see either parent with a new partner so soon. Actually, it would really mess them up mentally and emotionally, in my opinion. Good for you for promising that to your daughter!
Frank….Right now with everything you are going through keep your faith in God…He will guide you through these hard times….I shall pray for you Brother…Sorry about your Dad 🙏
Prayers for you 🙏🙏🙏🙏 to me you are a saint 🙏🙏🙏 also your a beautiful person Frank so please don't be hard on ya self 🙏😭 my heart hurts for you 💔 prayer's for you and your family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢 I can't imagine what you're going through very painful time for you Frank and to me you're doing great you're holding it down and keeping it together 100% ...
If you don’t want to say anything bad she will and she will get what she wants including kid possibly the home and maybe the barber shop. She going in there and telling the judge you cheated and have no time for your kids because you work 9-5 at barbershop. And your screwed get a plan .
Man wtf brovva. Sorry for what you bout to go thru. I have 5 kids 3 baby muvvas I’ve had multiple child support cases at one time in the state of Md. not sure how Philly is bro, but Md is fucked up bro very biased to us bro brovvas meaning I got shafted when it came to my rights as a father. I came in to court losing becuze as you said I was good enough to raise them but when things went south between us now my parenting and ability is under question and suspect. Dude it’s fucked. Bro I remember seeing some of Rachel’s videos about her life ect, and her speaking on the ex she was with when she met you bro when she was getting clean ect, and bro it kinda made it seem like she giving you the same treatment bro now. Man I pray a miracle happens and yall work this shit out bro. Look even if, even if you straight had an extramarital affair, she’s still going to hard on you bro. Or should I say maybe she is carrying you like you had an extramarital affair. Smh.
I hope your dad's funeral was not too hard for you, I pray God gives you the strength to deal with all you are going through right now Frank, I do however, want to say something to you in regards to the custody hearing. Please set your mind to the fact that Rachael is no longer willing to be your wife but also think hard about the fact that she could also remove your children from your life. Be prepared to fight with everything you have to ensure that does not happen. Do not allow yourself to live with regret because you did not want to hurt Rachael's feelings. Sending BIG HUGS and continued prayers. FYI - you will have no problem meeting someone who loves you are regardless of your looks, it's the beauty within, that shines out through everything you do, that will attract the right person. 😊😊
Her not taking herself and the kids to your dads funeral should be all you need to see the real her that should help make it a bit easier to let go. Chaceter shows in lots of little ways..❤
I think acceptance means accepting what you can not change. Reaching out asking if it's really over, can we do counseling, why are you doing this, etc. No answer given will be a justifiable response to her decision because you see it differently. If she wants you back, she would come to you knowing you would want that. Accept her decision knowing it will take time to heal. Btw you do look like a new person, much better. Court will be fine, although not fun sounds like in your situation it is needed.
34 years sober. Frank the court hearing is 100% completely disinterested in anything that you have to say about the past. None of your past history with x has zero minus zero relevance to your custody hearing , the past has no bearing on your child support hearings before the court & god help if she sues you for spousal support nothing you've done in the past is relevant to the present day hearings you are going to be asked to appear in. The judge wants a clean current police record, proof of regular employment & a proper home environment for any custody granted. Get a lawyer, Frank, stop playing the victim .
Looking fresh Frank 😊 I pray you got a lawyer for Tuesday….. I know what NOT having your children in your life would do to you & it’s not nothing nice.
I wish my dad would have fought for 50% of custody of me!!!! You’re an amazing dad- DONT EVER STOP FIGHTING FOR THEM!!! They NEED their dad in their life 24-7
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FRANK!🙏🏻
You need to ask for half custody of your kids! Father's have rights just as much of mother's. Don't let her dictate your future with your kids .
BE SMART FRANK, YOU NEED TO FILE FOR DIVORCE BEFORE RACHEL DOES, ITS NOT WHAT YOU WANT BUT IT WILL BE BEST TO PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN. ,,, THEN YOU WONT HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING BAD AND NOT FEEL GUILTY BECAUSE SHE WILL FILE EVENTUALLY, BE SMART FRANK FILE FIRST.
Sorry for your loss,
I'm glad to see you got your haircut 😊😊
Sending up prayers and my deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏🏿
Make sure to let the judge know that she prevented you from taking the children to their grandfather's funeral....that is kind of important... It's important that NOW for your kids that if she's done stuff in relation to the kids, you seeing the kids....that you say so. Don't make anything up, but do not fail to tell the truth to the judge. Anything outside of the welfare of the kids and custody arrangements, if you don 't want to say...I get it. But the custody and visitation of your kids is of prime importance, not only for your good, but for theirs as well. They need their father.
She did allow him to take them to his father's funeral @ 4:33
@@morningmom6 Oh, I hear that, my mistake/mishearing....:)
@@WindsofChange You aren't the only one! :)
Also, when I left my kid's dad I received one of the, it turns out, most important pieces of advise for the situation, and I'll share it with you. Don't talk down their mother within their hearing, try not to fight with her in front of them- when appropriate and doable, support her parenting with them- otherwise say nothing to them negative other than maybe, if they bring it to you, you'll speak to their mom about it, they will figure out who and what she is (if any particular thing) as they grow, they don't need your help or point of view for that. It does no good and will harm your children as they know that they are a part of her as much as you- and if you make her bad, somehow that means that they are bad and that is too much to take on as a child, that's an adult task. Don't do it. Be as kind to her as you can stand, they'll see that and it will matter. I took this advice with my situation and my kids grew, and they figured out stuff, and they then met him as adults after he abandoned them....and then came to me and said...oh yeah, I see why we left- good on you mom, and lost interest in him entirely....all without being pressured or made to feel any worse. He had cooked his own goose. I just raised them to be smart, good people and they came to it in their own time. And I was confirmed and justified on that day by the most important people in my life- my kids. Sending love and support Frank (of a sisterly kind of course)..
Wonderful advice!
Great advice. My parents divorced when I was 2. Long long story but here's the short of it all. My mother encouraged visitation with my dad. Even though he didn't ever pay child support to her. She still encouraged the visits. He rarely showed. Or even cancelled or no show as I'm a little girl standing at the door waiting for him only you never show. My mom had every reason to bad mouth him. Never did she. She let me see what he was all on my own without any influence of her opinion of him. I hold her high for doing that. That makes her a loving strong mother and woman.
@@WindsofChange Well stated!
King Frank you can do this!
Unfortunately NOW YOU HAVE TO FIGHT FOR THOSE BABIES FRANK! BEFORE SHE SAYS LOOK HE DIDN'T EVEN WANT TO FILE FOR CUSTODY OR HE WOULD HAVE ECT!
SHE CAN TWIST THINGS UP FAST!!!!
And could Make it seem like, IN A VENGEFUL WAY!! PLEASE STAY GUARDED, DON'T UNDERESTMATE HER, OR HER FAMILY TO LIE FOR HER SOME MORE
PLEASE FRANK!!!
You have to fight for YOUR BABIES FRANK!
I'm so so sorry for your Losses! And such at a messed up time the way it's all gone down! Frank you deserve so much better.
So strap that belt on darling ! Fight for YOUR kids, Fight for All your Property an businesses!!
I know this is the last thing you wanted to hear or do darling. Your in my prayers FRANK!
Keep your head up Frank!✌🏽stay safe y'all ..
You stay in my Prayers Frank 💙🙏
No One Will Ever Understand What OTHERS Go Thru , Untill It Happens To You. I Thought My Heart WAS Never Going To Heal. BUT God Helped Me.This Tooo Shall Pass .
Frank, I have to truthful with you! I mean and say this with respect. You better grow a backbone, or find your backbone again, concerning Rachael real damn fast for your kids and this custody hearing! For YOUR KIDS SAKE AND THEIR WELL-BEING! Your kids and Rachael are completely two different subjects now! I hope you do the right thing for those children.
Prayers, Frank...and condolences for your dad, again.
You need a therapist. Not sure this is the best place to air such private matters but I get it. Sending prayers
So sorry for the Loss of your Dad😔
My deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏
Everything ur feeling is valid! Go thru the grief...and hurt...u have to in order ro make it thru to the other side.
😂😅 it's good to see you laugh Frank..
my thoughts & prayers are with you ✨️🦋
Prepare yourself Frank, if you have ammo use it, knowing from experience she will use all that she has. Very hurtful and spiteful that kids may not be there for your father's funeral, that's just cruel, that aside I hope the day goes well. Again, get prepared, hang in there, it could be a bumpy ride king.
She did allow him to take them to his father's funeral @ 4:33
Peace will come,Frank ✌️❤️🙏
Deepest condolences to you and your family Frank ….. prayers are with you through these hard times
It's good to see you smile and laugh, Frank! Looking good!😊
Hey Frank keep your head up. You have been through so much in life and thats what makes you a strong person. Sending prayers for you my friend.
God love you. My Dad whom shares my name, passed away 11 years ago & my Step dad this year 18 years ago. & just 7 months ago she passed. To them all rest in peace and to your people rip.so sorry for your loss...
Prayers & love sent your way Frank! 🙏🏻❤️ Keep your head up! ❤️
Frank, you said after custody is determined, you will be able to pick the kids up when it's scheduled and not have to deal with Rachael anymore. "I can pretty much block her number and show up when I need to." Frank, you absolutely cannot block her number. By law, the other parent must have your current address, employment and phone number. It is imperative that you do not fight about the kids. Take it from a child of divorce, I had absolutely no respect for my mom. Specifically because by mom always talked sh** about my dad. My dad never said a bad word about her. I respected him so much for that and it made me feel very loved.
My deepest sympathy about your Dad💔MAY HE RIP💙🙏
❤ I’m so sorry about everything you’re going through. ❤
My condolences to you 🙏🙏
Rachel controlling imo. Also she wants child support imo. Nothing about your character. GET A LAWYER!!!
Praying for you Frank🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻, and I’m so sorry for your loss, May your dad Rest In Peace 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
❤Frank, keeling you and precious children in my thoughts and prayers 🙏 ❤❤❤Much Love ❤
Make sure with those applications you due the works. Physical, Background check. Fingerprints. It’s a must ❤
Wishing you all the best for getting through this difficult and impossible time. Xx
Get the Divorce!!! She has shown you who and what she wants.
Praying for you frank, sorry for your loss 🙏🏻
12:56 NOT ME SCREAMING OUT LOUD LOL When Frank said he's excepting applications😮 I almost lost it ❤ 🤣 This is a big step y’all! First a haircut & I see you are joking around a little bit more. It’s gonna get a little bit better every day for you friend. I just feel it! 🙌🏾 I think you low-key have been mentally preparing name for this. It’s just here now and it’s like fuck! I know it’s so hard. I’ve been there😞 it’s gonna get better💜🙏🏾
Sidenote, we have the same last name🤣
Frank,Happy New Year.I Truly Understand.Praying For You & Your Family For Strength,Peace,Healing During These Difficult Times.❤🙏🏽🙌🏽💪🏽
Frank remain humble, even in defeat brother. 🙏 keep smiling!!!
Frank I understand exactly what you’re feeling and going through. My divorce was final 3 years ago now and I’m still dealing with my feelings, but please take my advice and get yourself a good attorney. These feelings you’re going through right now are going to start to change and anger is going to come. I have a feeling those feelings are coming sooner than you may think, please do yourself and your children a favor and get an attorney. She’s got $$ signs in her eyes you can best count on that. Protect yourself, get an attorney!!
Frank, Remember God puts us in positions that he knows is where we belong.He will Never give us to much and leave us on our own.Stay strong-walk by your Faith not by sight💙,This too SHALL PASS- God Bless You🙏🩵
Sorry you lost your father, may God Bless him and his loved ones and may he find peace. 🙏 Sorry you're hurting
I say your a stand up guy..perfect ..no none of us are.May god bless you peace and your heart be well.
Routing for u love keep being u god knows ur heart stand ur ground Frank U got this!
Prayers To You Frank May Your Dad Rest In Heavenly Peace❤️🪽
Love you Frank praying for you all for peace and understanding hugs Januari Seattle
You are a kind soul. If ever you need a Shield up it’s NOW. Please just be honest about you and your kids. You’re a great dad and a provider. I respect you don’t want a D. I wouldn’t either. I’m praying for you all. I hope she can see how much you love her and family.
She is doing that to hurt you. Please get a lawyer to fight for your kids. You’re a good parent.
I am sorry for your loss.
My condolences to you and your family🙏🏻
FRANKIE? GO TO THE LORD MY BROTHER. PUT YOUR ENTIRE TRUST IN HIM AND HE'LL DELIVER YOU FROM 💯 ALL THE EVIL THAT SHE'S 😈 DOING TO YOU. I LOVE YOU, MY BROTHER.
Amen!
Frank I was with my husband from 17-58...he passed unexpectedly April 26th..we had ups and downs as marriage is tough...I understand what you are going thru ....I can tell you that death is worse than what you are experiencing...she is still alive and in time I think you will be friends...Anyhow, I suggest you only answer whatever is asked..do not volunteer anything negative...the judge will be fair ...
You have got this...this too shall pass...do not get involved with anyone until you heal ..it will compound your problem
He needs real legal advice …. If you think she’s not gonna go in there and throw dirt on him, you’re most likely mistaken & have never been through a custody battle !!!
@CurvaciousXOXO I am sure he has consulted a lawyer...FYI...I did have a custody battle....I still believe in taking the high road ..
❤was good to see you laugh and smile at the end❤
So sorry you are going through so much 😔 keep praying 🙏 don't give up! You are a awesome soul. God bless you 🙏
Your at the "Fake it till you feel it" stage i think. Praying for You & your Kids. Condolences again for your Father. Keep strong & keep fighting, Frank you got this!
Nice to see the little laugh at the end!
God bless 🙏
Family doesn’t give up on you though so if she gave up on you she’s not your family.
Ive Been Where Your At , It Hurts My Heart To See What Your Going Thru. I'm Here For You Always. LIKE I Told You Before For Me It Wasn't 1 Day At A Time It Was Every 5 Mins COUNTED , You Got This.❤
💯 yes need to be defensive in the best interest of the children!
Praying they are in counseling/seeing a therapist so that can cope with these life changes. 🙏🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
I think your hair looks good with more on top 😘
You a top man, respect from the U.K. 👍🏴
Condolences Frank 🙏
Frank, get an attorney to represent your legal rights and your children's rights. You need help.
My utmost condolences to you for your Pop's brother... Salute to him
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Sorry to hear about dad
sad to hear she wouldn’t let u take them to the funeral when your children can comfort you. I pray you heal and that God has his hand over your life and family this year.
There was nothing left to fight for by that time.
You sound a little better Frank. There's no rushing healing and sometimes it never comes it only scars and that takes the sting out at least. Just facts.
Speak your truth as it might help you, dont let her be up there on top all the time,youve got there home still which is a stable thing they need
Wow, those demons behind her are not playing around🔥 you have to stand up in the SPIRIT cuz she does NOT care for the children 🤚🏼 This is urgent
Deepest condolences on the death of your father Frank respect from Ireland 🇮🇪 🙏
Sir, right now you need to know what the Judge think of you. You need to get ready for custody hearings. You are righteous, but you need to present your case and your position in the Court. Rachel is not listening to you unfortunately (that's her right). But you need the ear of the Judge. Show proof that you paid for all the bills. That no Police reports made against you for domestic violence. That you have the means to provide financially for your children. Show photographs.of your house, that it is safe, orderly and conducive for children. If you are accused of adultery, ask for evidence.
May your dad RIP🙏
My deepest condolence to you and your family. I will keep you and the family in my prayers 🙏 ❤ ♥ 💙 💕
FRANK YOU HAVE TO DO AND SAY WHAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU , YOUR NOT BASHIN HER BUT THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH !!!!
Please get an attorney, your kids are at stake, take all measures to ensure you get at least shared custody, an attorney is imperative for you
Prayers sorry about your dad my stepmom didn't even have a memorial cause of his wishes I hold a little resentment behind this
I hope you obtained a Lawyer, Frank?
Time heals.
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My Man B Frank - nice 2 see ya brother !
Frank I read a lot of these comments & I have to say I disagree with what some say. I understand it comes with caring about you & your family, but in my opinion it’s simply poor guidance. Custody can become extremely ugly & only bring pain & sorrow to mom, dad & children. I understand bc I’ve been there. What we have to remember is our children did not ask to be brought into this world or put through the situations we’ve brought them into. We have to remember to put our own feelings aside no matter how hard that is and put their feelings first. There is nothing more precious in this world than our children. I like you was bound and determined not to trash my daughter‘s father in court. I will never regret this choice. I know I am better than that. I never want to become the kind of person that will run someone else over to simply benefit myself. I see you as being the same kind of person. There is no point in trashing your children’s mother. Our country has become “it’s all about me” rather than “all for one and one for all”. People are too quick to leave their families and just move on to a new one. What has this done to our children? They’re growing up with no values while being bounced around from home to home with no consistency. Our children are turning to alcohol and drugs to numb their pain. When we honestly ask ourselves who caused this pain, the only answer is we did. We are their providers, mentors, and support system. We are failing as a society. I love that your supporters want to help you, but remember they don’t walk in your shoes you do. Take all the time you need to grieve your family’s loss and allow yourself to heal before you ever think about moving on. You and your children deserve that. I vowed to my daughter that I would never bring a boyfriend or stepfather into her life until she was at least 18 years old. I vowed to devote all I was to her and her alone. Again, I have never regretted this decision. She needed to come first in my life. She deserve that. Only you can make the appropriate decisions on behalf of you and your family. No one else. Rely alone on God to guide you. As always, I am praying for you all. Much love to all of you, including Rachel.
Absolutely agree! Dating, or getting into a new relationship now or in the near future should be the last thing on his mind. It will break the kids hearts to see either parent with a new partner so soon. Actually, it would really mess them up mentally and emotionally, in my opinion. Good for you for promising that to your daughter!
Frank….Right now with everything you are going through keep your faith in God…He will guide you through these hard times….I shall pray for you Brother…Sorry about your Dad 🙏
You can’t change what you don’t have no control over.
Frank bring of her denied taking your kids to your Father's funeral
Prayers for you 🙏🙏🙏🙏 to me you are a saint 🙏🙏🙏 also your a beautiful person Frank so please don't be hard on ya self 🙏😭 my heart hurts for you 💔 prayer's for you and your family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢 I can't imagine what you're going through very painful time for you Frank and to me you're doing great you're holding it down and keeping it together 100% ...
You teach by going thru emotion...e---motion...you are not stuck you are moving
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say it all it helps u n us to OVERSTAND
If you don’t want to say anything bad she will and she will get what she wants including kid possibly the home and maybe the barber shop. She going in there and telling the judge you cheated and have no time for your kids because you work 9-5 at barbershop. And your screwed get a plan .
She also has a job. I mean people do have to work. But I 100% agree. GET A LAWYER AND GET ONE ASAP
Man wtf brovva. Sorry for what you bout to go thru. I have 5 kids 3 baby muvvas I’ve had multiple child support cases at one time in the state of Md. not sure how Philly is bro, but Md is fucked up bro very biased to us bro brovvas meaning I got shafted when it came to my rights as a father. I came in to court losing becuze as you said I was good enough to raise them but when things went south between us now my parenting and ability is under question and suspect. Dude it’s fucked. Bro I remember seeing some of Rachel’s videos about her life ect, and her speaking on the ex she was with when she met you bro when she was getting clean ect, and bro it kinda made it seem like she giving you the same treatment bro now. Man I pray a miracle happens and yall work this shit out bro. Look even if, even if you straight had an extramarital affair, she’s still going to hard on you bro. Or should I say maybe she is carrying you like you had an extramarital affair. Smh.
I hope your dad's funeral was not too hard for you, I pray God gives you the strength to deal with all you are going through right now Frank, I do however, want to say something to you in regards to the custody hearing. Please set your mind to the fact that Rachael is no longer willing to be your wife but also think hard about the fact that she could also remove your children from your life. Be prepared to fight with everything you have to ensure that does not happen. Do not allow yourself to live with regret because you did not want to hurt Rachael's feelings. Sending BIG HUGS and continued prayers.
FYI - you will have no problem meeting someone who loves you are regardless of your looks, it's the beauty within, that shines out through everything you do, that will attract the right person. 😊😊
Her not taking herself and the kids to your dads funeral should be all you need to see the real her that should help make it a bit easier to let go. Chaceter shows in lots of little ways..❤
I feel what your going through. My ex husband & I separated after 20 Years. I was a mess for 2 years. Its very very hard.
You’re grieving your mom death anniversary. You’re dealing with the loss of your dad. Please go to counseling to help you deal with hurt.
You are looking good👀
Journal n document everything. Every day...trust me..
I think acceptance means accepting what you can not change. Reaching out asking if it's really over, can we do counseling, why are you doing this, etc. No answer given will be a justifiable response to her decision because you see it differently. If she wants you back, she would come to you knowing you would want that. Accept her decision knowing it will take time to heal. Btw you do look like a new person, much better. Court will be fine, although not fun sounds like in your situation it is needed.
34 years sober. Frank the court hearing is 100% completely disinterested in anything that you have to say about the past. None of your past history with x has zero minus zero relevance to your custody hearing , the past has no bearing on your child support hearings before the court & god help if she sues you for spousal support nothing you've done in the past is relevant to the present day hearings you are going to be asked to appear in. The judge wants a clean current police record, proof of regular employment & a proper home environment for any custody granted. Get a lawyer, Frank, stop playing the victim .
Looking fresh Frank 😊 I pray you got a lawyer for Tuesday….. I know what NOT having your children in your life would do to you & it’s not nothing nice.
You are a good man Frank. I think you might get a lot of applications 😅
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No she's going to go in there and say what day she wants the kids in what weekends and holidays she wants that in writing